Rent and Relapse
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- Опубликовано: 7 ноя 2024
- The plaintiff brings her son to court. She says her son dropped out of school when he was 16 years old and started drinking and acting out. He went to jail several times and ended up homeless. The plaintiff says her son moved back in with her to help him get back on his feet, but now she’s suing for rent. The defendant argues he’s clean and sober now and is working on getting his life back on track.
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Handsome young man- Sad situation. You can tell they love each other but he is fighting demons. He has potential to recover- God bless them both ❤
Stop distracting him being cute in the comments.
@@heavyizthacrown-5842 what? Make it make sense brother. 😕
amen
Well said
People blame parents for everything no matter how old they get. At some point you need to take responsibility for yourself
She shares a lot of responsibility she said he dropped out of school no she let him drop out of school.
I think it’s the father that should be more responsible for laying a foundation all though I know that’s easy to say since they divorced but you are right at some point as a grown up you need to take responsibility of your life some people take forever figuring that out also notice how he refers to his mother as his best friend that was a red flag immediate
@@tonymyers6238 So he can use that as an excuse for the rest of his life to continue to drink and put society at risk with driving under the influence?
@@scottrogue946 What you're saying it's not what i said am leave at that.
@@tonymyers6238 Yes it is, Interesting how y'all ignore these absent daddies.
Awwwww. Finally a family that I think can truly benefit from counseling and can resolve their issues. ❤️
I loved this episode. I hope he gets things together and they both can come back together.
Facts and blessings.
I agree!
Her love for him is strong as hell!
love would never sue your own child . i disagree with u . she cried toward the end because her guilty conscience , she got the judgement and she knew that they NEVER actually agreed to 300 per month .
Hope SO… it’s HIS MAMA👀🤦🏿
This is what a great mom looks like, really care for her son and wants the best for him.
That's why she let him drop out at 16
I don’t know. She’s not trying to give him any credit. Even when everyone was clapping for his sobriety, she acted like “whatever.”
This is a 12 minute edited video for a TV show you have no idea what kind of mother she is. 😂 Tik Tok and RUclips have really warped peoples perception of reality
@@none2951 But for whatever reason (Tik Tok, RUclips, etc.), people think they know the whole story and whole solution and the whole intentions, motivations, truth behind every person in 10 to 20 minutes of an edited video.
Bro, love and respect your mother because you only get one. I am 48 years old and I just lost my mom few months ago. Everyday I wish I could go back in time to tell her that I ❤️ her and asked for forgiveness for some of the things I have said to her. Keep being best friend with her because your mom will always got your back.
I’m so sorry for your loss, I cherish my parents. My heart aches for everyone who has experienced this type of loss. Much love to you, I’m sure she knew how much you loved her and she forgave you long ago. That’s what a mother’s love does ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My condolences to you
Love & Light💜 Your mom knows it. She does🙏
Peace friend
@@ericablige9449 Thanks
@@tashabr801 Thanks
She seem like a good mother trying to help him out when he was homeless by letting him stay with her until he get on his feet, but he should pay his mother rent that's fair enough.
Should you really pay rent at ya moms house? He lived there for a few months. She wants that rent more than a good relationship with her son.
@@heavyizthacrown-5842 when you’re a grown man you should and she was teaching him to be responsible
@@heavyizthacrown-5842 An adult should pay rent, mortgage, etc. for wherever they live or make mutually agreeable arrangements otherwise.
I hope you can learn to appreciate your mom. I lost my mom day before Valentine's. I miss her everyday.
The pain never goes away. It remains with you, always pursuing you even during celebrations.
Lost my grandma Feb 13th as well. 😢
Sorry for your loss! ❤
@@JuleneSings So sorry
@@Arron413 This will be the very first holiday season I will have nobody to celebrate with me.
It’s sad that drugs and alcohol can take individuals down paths they can’t seem to find there ways out of.🙏🏽
alcohol is a gateway drug to suffering and hell...💔
@@mybexchange6330 Alcohol does that all by itself. IT IS THE DRUG if a heavy drinker or alcoholic never uses anything else.
The first problem is ,his mother being his best friend while he was growing up . He needed parenting during those critical times..🙄🤔😯 Once he became an adult it was a different experience he wasn't prepared for..
The best thing a parent can do for his/her child is to prepare them for the future.
Mom is definitely correct because my brother is a alcoholic and we can have a entire conversation and the next day he doesn’t remember not a thing we discussed. So I learned to not talk about important things when he is drunk. 🤷🏽♀️ wait until he is sober.
The defendant seems like a good guy and I hope he gets the help he needs and him and his mom can get past all the disagreements and negativity. 🥰🙏🏽
Same with my brother. He only wants to talk about his life and Important things while he is drunk and he gets mad when we don’t engage with him because he is drunk but can you blame us lol…you are literally going to forget everything we’re saying to you so what’s the point of even having the conversation
You only get one mom treat her right
No way would I have gotten away with telling my mom & dad, I ain't going to school.
YOUR experience and a great one.
Exactly, YOUR experience.
This was one of the best episodes I’ve seen. It really made my heart smile, big time because of the love they both have for each other.
Judge Mathis brings tears to my eyes. He treats people as human beings with kindness and compassion
😂 Lol BYE! JM Cares… but we ALL Know he DGAF! And Gon tell the TRUTH
@@dreekdoe448 okay! He done treated people like pure shit 😂😂
@@ms.tasiaa I mean…🤦🏿😂
You must have not seen all the shows the last 2 years! He has been awful.
He’s a good guy at heart. He might’ve hit some tough times but he still has a strong character and morals. I pray for him and his mother to find peace.
Handsome fella, at least he's trying, push thru brother! ❤️
You guys are being nice Lmao. He is alright lol.
This is a perfect case for women who are raising boys. No matter what the reason. You cannot give a boy everything that he wants when he asks for it. There has to be some type of consequences for his actions, and when he does good then you reward him. But you just can't give him stuff just to pacify him. Because what happens is he turns into a man, that expects everyone to give him something, and then on top of that he won't know how go get it himself.
That advice goes for raising boys and girls
Where are all the millions of daddies that upped and left? Should be fined for life. Don't deserve the dirt on the coffin and they know it...wherever and whomever you are.
The Judge giving her half a break ….., like a Kit Kat bar 😂
Now That's what I call two adults with a good conversation and understanding one another love you son son love your mother
Good Man, beautiful family I’am praying for their deliverance and healing in JESUS NAME🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
This guy was so calm never raised his voice either one of them, I hope they can work things out.
despite trauma i dont see how ppl excessively drink. the lot of alcohol tastes like transmission fluid
There’s definitely a weird taste to it! 😅
Truly
Yes I don’t know how people drink like that either. Maybe they become numb to it
I've seen my dad and eldest brother do that. I don't see how either. Just by seeing them do that, it definitely made me stay away from it.
It’s not the taste 👅 it’s the aftermath. I grew 🆙 with alcohol mother & so I turned to that. By exposure but after while I notice some of the things he mentioned & I had to quit. It’s not attractive at all being a drunk
He didn't blame his mom, he let on that she was a drinker as well but he took accountability.
Son looks almost as old as mom😳
Drugging & drinking will definitely do that to you
Or older she is not to bad looking. If you going to do it take care of yourself at least. Blessings.
The plaintiff is to blame for the defendant's behavior, she turned him into a son husband and this is a big problem in our community alot of black single mothers coddle their sons that's your son not your man .The defendant has no defense he owes the money.
I loved this episode. I hope they work things out.
My father worked 7 days a week 12 hours a day to support me, my mom and sisters. I started blaming my problems on him for not being there. Brcause he was always working. I started drinking at 14. Started drinking and doing other stuff daily by 18. Blamed them for it. When I turned 25. I quit everything. And apologized to my parents for what I put them through. And told them I used to blame them for no reason. They are the best parents anyone can have. Now I'm married with four kids and make very good money. I have my parents live with me. My wife loves my parents.
Amen God Grace is amazing he saved you
Fighting demons is real! I pray for my siblings daily to recover
He look like will smith mixed with nipsey hussle lol 😂
She loves her baby sooo much! She’s a great mom
If I'm ever a litigant on Judge Mathis, I'll be sure to share my story about how I was out in them streets, got in some trouble and turned myself around. I was literally crossing the street in the middle of the block and a cop beeped her horn at me and said she'd cite for me jaywalking. I turned around and walked to the crosswalk. She saved me from streets...your honor.
Really. Lol
Lololol
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 please
This has me in tears ❤❤❤
I pray he gets the help he needs. There's no love like a mother's love! ( Other than Jesus 😊)
Warning ♨🚧 I'm glad she put a point on the fact that he had burned his other bridges. I feel like good hearted people often don't account for how many bridges the people they are trying to help have burned. I've known a few women who have said that this or that homeless dude was their friend and 2 out of 3 were robbed by that same dude.
I'm not saying don't help, I'm saying understand you're not the first to try and help.
she's a good mother for asking for help for him
Damn shame she got to sue her son.Grow the hell up,look like he don't care.
He did flash that diamond though, like he was slick lol.
he borrowed his niece's glasses for this case.
Not the niece’s glasses 👓😭🤣
Lmaooooo. Facts.
The crazy part is how the defendant try to insinuate that he was doing more things in the street to get arrested other than being an alcoholic. That dude is a stone cold alcoholic. He wasn't doing no other crimes in those streets. And if he was, it was just to get something to drink. 🤣🤣🤣
😂 😂
@@crownlethal2k187 he love that drink. 🤣🤣🤣
You can see how much the plaintiff loves the defendant . She wants the best for him!
The defendant look like he only eats rice
Lol.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 rice makes you fat though
Lmao. I love rice lol.
Beautiful Family !!!!
Why is this judge setting the bar so low for young black men 🙄 “at least he didn’t Catch a murder case, car jacking” as if that’s the standard for black men. Smh we stereotype ourselves sometimes.
Yep good observation it's like I like this show but then I feel like he a working for them against us with certain imagery like he co-opted idk if that's a word 😂 but u get what I'm saying infiltrated to further push certain stereotypes I don't trust a lot skinfolk in the industry most are gatekeepers
I think he is considering what he has known to come from that area of Detroit, with no father that it could have been worse. I feel he always shows grace to those he see is trying to get their life together
@@everybodyhatesbri setting the bar low doesn’t help. That’s like applauding your partner for not cheating, when it should be the standard issue
She wants that rent more than a good relationship with her son.
She deserves both. But people need there coin especially now days. Lol.
Why do they keep saying he didn't do hard drugs? He said he was on crack cocaine.... "Alcohol, marijuana, and crack cocaine"
Alcohol does more damage than the other drugs combined (physical, mental, family, community IMO
@@sereneamani1713 Got it. Since he was heavier into alcohol than cocaine, that'swhy they skipped over it.
That's some straight Detroit swag. Judge can u sign my shoes lol
11:41 The audience. Now that's what you call social distancing. 🤣😂
Divorce almost ALWAYS effect children negatively which baffles me as to why people flippantly divorce. Especially when children are involved. Not saying this was her case but many divorce out of selfish reasons
Why did it have to get so emotional at the end 🥺
Right I’m crying
I like the sign of the shoe that was sweet , I hope they get help , he clearly been traumatized as a child and it spilled into his adulthood
11:53 Is that necessary?
@@alphonserollins5308 I didn’t say anything wrong .. so ig it was since you commented.
Judge was going to strong arm him for them kicks lol!!!
SHE RAISED HIM JUST LIKE THAT!!!
YOU WERE THERE OBSERVING?
@@sereneamani1713
YOU OBVIOUSLY DO NOT UNDERSTAND... YOUR KIDS ARE A REPLICA OF THEIR PARENTS.... AND YOU OBVIOUSLY WASN'T PAYING ATTENTION TO WHAT THE SON SAID... WATCH THE VIDEO AGAIN...THIS TIME PAY ATTENTION!!!
ANYWAY,
JUST LIKE WHEN A CHILD DO GREAT THE PARENTS WANT THAT RECOGNITION BUT AS SOON AS THE CHILD DO NOT DO GREAT, THE PARENTS DO NOT WANT THAT RECOGNITION... TOO BAD,. THE PARENTS WILL RECEIVE BOTH! THE CHILD IS THAT PARENTS SEED... THE PARENTS RAISED THAT CHILD THAT WAY... PERIOD.
👍 The defendant is FINE 😜😜😜😜😜😜
Same to you!
No way my mom would’ve sat down with anyone I call myself running the streets with and just say “keep him out of trouble”. No no no. That’s giving your authority to them. Mom, it was you and dad’s job to keep him out of trouble up to a certain point. I understand he was difficult but we as parents gotta saddle up and take on the challenge! Now your son has to figure out how to grow up as an adult. If you can own that, and he can own his mess, you both can acknowledge it, heal, and begin to move forward.
There are thousands of dudes who are looked out for by hood dudes. I agree it's not the best case but there are challenges to being a single impoverished mom that make you make unconventional choices.
@@amaliomar I understand. I don’t assume that all single moms are impoverished though. There are some that are not and still make the same choices.
@@tjneverdefeated4394 Agreed, If she had the means to leave a gang infested neighborhood in Detroit and chose to stay and raise her children there then he gets to blame her.
And we get to judge her choices.
@@amaliomar it’s tough being a single parent. I know first hand. Unfortunately for the sake of our children we have to go above and beyond excuses and do everything in our power to make sure our children are safe and taken care of. He says she was his friend which is usually involving minimum parenting, which would make it easy to just let him run the streets. That’s what I’m going by, I can’t speak to what hasn’t been revealed. So yeah she bears some of the blame for his issues.
But what do you and your mom have to do with her or anyone else's situation?
He needed this it will make them closer ,all all these that seem negative are not always bad ,this lawsuit may have been a blessing in disguise
Aww regardless I love the defendants joy
A whole person just threw their life away behind liquor. Shit is crazy
I know him. He’s super talented tho an really good guy
What's your thoughts about his mother. You might know better than some of us commenters who just think we know.
She’s a sweetheart just worried about his well being met him about 3 years ago in the colerain area of Cincinnati. He lived with his mom an her husband in a very nice house. Didn’t know the extent of his drinking problem but he showed me a lot of art and short films he created an edited. Very talented
His dad should've stepped in when he started acting up !
His father should've gotten custody!
Smh @ these " fathers" .
That’s the part that all us kids to some degree can work on. Once we are grown our parents are always gonna talk to us as parents. We aren’t going to get the same response as we get from everyone else
I’m sure she did the best she could being a single mother
Mama not innocent, she used to be bent
Lol. We all lived Lmao.
@@wildfiregirl1556 True, but she got too excited when the judge mentioned Heroin! She damn near did a back flip👵🏾🤦🏽♀️
@@freereign911 Let's hope not. Maybe some weed Lmaooooo. Blessings.
I mean she raised an excuse making, troubled mama's boy.
So no shock he's an excuse making, troubled mama's boy.
Single mothers raise the men they don't like.
What do you call it when troubled men and women come from two-parent families.
@@sereneamani1713 I've found that either:
1) The parents or one parent sucked to the point it damaged the kid
2) There was another significant influence in the kids life that led them astray (uncle, aunt, cousin, friend, teacher, erc.)
3) Something traumatic happened that overrides the parents influence (assault, SA, drugs, etc.)
4) Mental illness that was either genetic or brought on by a traumatic event
They've done studies on criminals and have found that they have overwhelming come from single parent homes.
Two parents home are far from flawless, but it's almost always better than a single parent home.
Awww, this is a good one🧡
One thing about Detroit kings, we love our moms.
I really don’t be understanding how teenagers drop out of school. Cuz if you staying in my house you goin to school everyday!!!!!! You ain’t staying in my house while I’m goin to work, and you just hanging around the house or in the streets. But that’s just me 🤷🏽♀️
Right, that's just you. You don't know other people's circumstances or what really happened.
@@sereneamani1713 oh ok great
I’m confused. What did he own her over 3,000 for. JM never allowed them to get the point of this case.
*LADIES!!!* Learn this lesson, this mom is trippin over a few dollars when her son is out here sinkin. He fighting battles and she wouldn’t even let him stay for a few months without paying rent. Sons need their mothers in this way shown in the episode. A mom will win her son’s heart forever if you catch him when he falls. 💯
What about him being responsible and standing on his own feet? Mama can't bail him out forever. An adult should be accountable for bad decisions. Once or twice may be overlooked but not habitual foolishness. Also sounds like he really needs his father.
There comes a time when mother's may have to save themselves,even against their grown kids.! Mother's also matter!!!
One minute people say she is coddling him, the next she is too hard on him smh 🤦🏾♂️
@@scottrogue946 Lmaooooo. It's a rocky road damn if you do and damned if you don't. Especially if you born after the 80's. Blessings.
@@wildfiregirl1556 I don't know if I want to charge my kids rent for under a year as an adult. I like my rules and I don't want tenants. You can't make them pay rent and then make them take out the garbage, shovel the walkway, not have over night guests etc. I'll just pay my child's way.
I'm here My Beloved Favorite Judge ***ASHAY ***
Judge sounds crazy!! He could have killed someone driving drunk.
Can a woman's tender loving care cease towards the child she bear?
I'm so inspired by Judge Mathis!
JM makes it seem like little to no one makes it out of Detroit unscathed.
Detroit is not the only Detroit in this country. And you know what I mean.
@@sereneamani1713 right
Why do parents not put their children first?? Unless it's serious abuse just hang in there until they graduate high school geesh!! Get out when the kid is young , don't wait til their formative years!!
USELESS. USELESS. USELESS !!!!!!!!!!!!
He would have not dropped out at 16 if I was his parent. It seems the mother just gave up. He was a minor so he doesn't just get to drop out of school. Sometimes that's the problem we are trying to be the best friend when we should be the parent.
You can only do so much as a parent if you work and single can you stay home or go to school daily with a child who knows right from wrong
in my opinion , a mother should not sue her child for rent , especially when she is not even a landlord , but his mom was living with him in her own house for goodness sake . i would understand if the defendant actually had cost her money , but he didnt because her rent or mortgage did not change while he was there . and why would u want to hurt your child's credit by having a judgement put on it ? i dont think thats love , i think thats jus a way to get money and by the way she never proved they agreed on 300 per month .
I couldn't sue my kinfolk under any circumstance. Family is just to precious, particularly in the black community. Unfortunately, for this defendant he owes his mother for rent. These are the guys I'm concerned about to the utmost because many have forgotten about them after being thrown to the wolves. Take care of yourselves men and respect you parents always.
That's why the black community is falling into ruin.
We refuse to hold each other accountable.
If that were true you sueing a family member shouldn't ruin a relationship.
I wouldn't sue a family member in the first place. No way
@@adrianprince7266 Operative pronoun "I" meaning YOU
The judge saying that boy being an alcoholic and having DUI"s is not real crimes. Those are serious crimes. He could be driving behind the wheel drunk and run over someone like a kid or anything and killl someone . JM is so weird sometimes
She messed up when she gave him gifts to make him behave. Thats bribing! Cant raise them while their grown. Its starts while they are a child like 1 years old. Not 40 yrs old.
They look just alike lol
He nearly looks the same age as his mom. Slow down bro.
He is soo handsome though 😍😂
Wish him good luck with his sobriety
304 Mom 😂😂😂
‘… he’s living in a sover living facility…’, think you mean ‘sober, ma’am…😊
Whewwww Chile the comments smh stop coddling 💯 people got to grow up 💯
Yah bless them 🙌🏾🥲🤎
Hey, Judge Mathis Family!!❤❤
Those glasses 👓
Judge Mathis loves to joke around . Sometimes too much.
Besides the point but you can't call yourself a grown man or do what you want while you sleeping under somebody else's roof. Get your own then start talking.
Ion care if if the kids turn 100, they will always be the child, that’s what mothers do, they will always be the big babies lol
boy get your life together !!
He needs to do better by his Mommy.
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Put in on 😂