HOW I RUINED MY NATURAL HAIR IN 2022 😳‼️ | DON'T DO These Things ‼️‼️
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- Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
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Chapters:
00:00 - Intro
04:07 - No. 1 - Inconsistent with my Natural Hair Care Routine
07:40 - No. 2 - Not trimming/dusting ends enough
11:49 - No. 3 - Limited hair style options
14:15 - No. 4 - Not Wrapping my hair at night
18:46 - No. 5 - Neglecting to care for my scalp
25:00 - Rambling lol ❤️
Products I use to Moisturize:
TGIN Daily Moisturizer: www.target.com/p/tgin-butter-...
Palmers Olive Oil Formula: www.walmart.com/ip/Palmer-s-O...
Camille Rose Curl Maker: www.target.com/p/camille-rose...
Products I use to Wash/Condition:
Herbal Essence Hydration shampoo:www.target.com/p/herbal-essen...
Aussie Moist Avocado Conditioner: www.target.com/p/aussie-mirac...
Camille Rose Cleansing Conditioner:www.target.com/p/camille-rose...
From me to you:
Hey guys, here’s a quick video. I really hope you guys enjoy this video just as much as I did recording this!
This video is particularly for Type 4 Naturals, including 4A, 4B, and 4C; however, This video can also be useful for those with other curl/hair types including Types 2, and 3. If you guys have any questions please feel free to ask me down below. I will be happy to answer!
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Twitter: @Sterandda
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Email: MyNaturalAcademia@gmail.com 
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You’re definitely not the only one neglecting your hair due to life circumstances. I recently had my first baby and I can barely keep up with my hair at this point
Congratulations on getting your new place! I hope you have more peace of mind then at the other place. Stay focused on doing better. Keep toxic people out your life! Even family members. 2023 Keep your peace at all cost. No time for drama or people not wanting to do better for themselves.
Hi beautiful! There’s a slight chance that MAYBE…remoisturizing your hair often could be the root of dryness. When you put product on the hair, it makes it hard for moisture to enter. So maybe try to wash your hair more often. You may notice improvement. :-)
This year for my hair has been life changing. I learned so much of the science of hair and how to apply it to create healthy practices and reap long-term results. For example, the feeling of “dryness” vs hair being “dried”. My hair is perfectly fine when it “feels” dry because hair being wet actually makes the hair work harder. So, it’s been a wonderful learning process and I’m excited to put these into consistent practice next year.
And sorry to hear about your breakup. My dear lady, you’ve had quite a year and God strengthened you. Even when you felt weak. So! Keep your head up and your faith high!
I thought the same because my hair hates when I re-moisturize when I already have product on it. Even just re-wetting my hair and re-doing my style without applying additional product dries it out badly, so I have to wait till wash day to do my hair which is every 7-10 days. I used to wash every 4-7 days, but the longer my hair gets the longer I can go without washing.
@@tiahnarodriguez3809 Exactly!
Oh, it's very interesting what you say. Because when I feel the dryness of my hair, I need to re-moisturize it but you say you hair don't need to. Can you more explain :) ?
In my case it's been the opposite I've become more consistent this year, specially since April, and have seen great results like moisture retention and manageability. I wash my hair weekly in the summer (I sweat more) and every 2 weeks in winter. What helped me stay consistent is remembering the damage that my hair used to suffer from my neglect, and feeling motivated from seeing the lenght retention and health of my strands.
Edit: Also maybe you could use a satin pillow case OR cover your pillow with a scarf of that material (like I do) that way you won't forget to protect your hair. I've been exhausted many times from college and the covered pillow saves me.
same
Please go get a professional trim Acadamia . It’s the best thing you can do for your hair as a lazy natural. I understand life happens , trust me 🥴. But I do think your lack of trims is causing the overall breakage of your hair . I used to be an advocate for trimming my own hair . But I noticed I had to trim more because I was missing spots, which kept me stagnate for 2 years. My hair spouted with professional trims
Shout out to you for getting your ears pierced! I grew up in a Christian Haitian household and didn’t get my ears pierced until I went to college as well. You’re little earrings are super cute 😍💕
Girl, be you. You are finding yourself ... What you like or don't like. You are a grown woman, not that little girl in your parents house now. Yes, experiment styles of hair and clothes, etc. You will find who you want to be by working it - go girl!! You are beautiful and smart so define you or someone else will. Later. God bless you.👌🏾✌🏾🙏🏾💜
I love the ownership and honesty! I love how you don't portray your "bad habits" as the reason your hair is long. I know a lot of viewers think that doing absolutely nothing is key but its not- like you said, you experienced a lot of breakage. Im glad you recognize the importance of trims too btw, a lil trim every few months wont affect your length girl. It's the growth and full transparency for me!
I pray you get the clarity you know for your career and peace in your life in general.
I love how candid and honest you are in your videos. Your hair is GORGEOUS Queen ♥️
I COMPLETELY relate to your earring story. I got a tribute tattoo for a close family member 10 years ago, and the next few weeks I felt so much guilt for getting the tattoo in addition to feeling grief. But if it makes you feel any better...I have grown so much since then and I have zero guilt about my tattoo now and in fact, I want another one 🤪
I also just did a 2 inch trim and my hair feels AMAZING 😍
Thanks for the video. It really does help for me to see you finger detangling and moisturizing your hair - doesn't matter how many times I've seen it before. It teaches and motivates me every time. So please keep it up. My setbacks this year from 1) Getting my hair done at a salon and she ripped my hair out with some sort of tool. 2) Protein overload has plagued me this year. I have tried new products that contained too much protein for my hair. Also, the stylist at the salon that I visited put some sort of liquid protein on my hair. UGH! I'm being super consistent to find my way back from the damage done.
I have a request: you should do an olaplex on your hair before you cut it so you can see the before and after if the hair dryness/damage. I would love to see that!
I am proud of you for taking the step to explore new things. You are not a bad person. Be kind to yourself. I can relate to you so much! Speak kind words to yourself and develop a positive mantra to read every morning which will help grow your self-confidence. It has worked for me.
With love,
Lexie
🌠LOVE YOUR FLOOR LAMP🌠
Even with the neglect this year, your hair is absolutely beautiful....❤
Your vibe is so nice. I do feel like we think a like. Btw earnings are cute! Almost looks like you had them all your life lol. Loved the video💕😊
Every one of your videos is so satisfying, don’t ever feel hesitant about posting. And sorry to hear about your personal woes and Hair woes. We’re all human and things happen, what matters is how we overcome these events
. I had some hair setbacks as well, mostly because I’d been ignoring what my hair likes. My hair likes biweekly detangling and deep moisturizing sessions and my hair also doesn’t like being slathered with products and grease without some cleansing . 2023 I will re experiment with cowashing and shampooing with moisturizing shampoos. I also think after I finish all the hair grease i own I will try a natural grease like the Camille Rose Gro grease or something similar because my hair hates Blue Magic and other thick hard greases… thick products have not been kind to my ends and I’ve accepted the fact that my ends are busted but to remedy this Ive started to wrap my ends in a hanging Bantu knot around itself…. Natural since I was 9 and I’m still learning new things about my hair:) but genuine creators like you and videos like this give me hope. Keep doing u sis❤
I love your video! And, I know you don't know me, but I'm quite proud of you for getting your ears pierced. Congrats! Religious trauma is tough to escape and heal from, and I'm super proud of you for overcoming the guilt (that's a common feeling to go through when doing something you'd be normally be ostracized/disciplined for ), but your're making progress! As a a survivor myself, it was very hard to work through, but I'm happy where I am today, even though it meant I'd had to distance myself from family.
On the hair side of things, I've found that I've been washing my hair too often. Once a week just dried out my scalp and my hair, exacerbated my psoriasis, and just gave me further breakage. So, I'm cutting back on hair washing. I also bought way to many products; for the future, I'm going to simplify things.
I absolutely love to see your long video uploads!! It's so comforting to watch you moisturize your hair and talk about everything. Makes me feel not so alone. And I'm sorry you've been through a tough year this 2022 but it's almost over now, and you're heading into a new one with a million possibilities... and congratulations on all you've accomplished so far :)
Its not a bad thing if you changed your major, it just shows you don't have the love for it as you thought. I think you should major in something you love and see yourself doing for the rest of your life and would be content and still enjoy it. In terms of work, you dont have to work for someone. You can be your own boss and start your own business in something you're good at.
In mho your hair is definitely "super long". Beautiful too. I appreciate your content. Keep blessing us. Merry Christmas!
It was calming watching you moisturize your hair and talk about your life. The earrings are super cute, btw! Please take us along your journey to a healthier scalp because I have flair-ups from time to time too. I usually use Ayurveda like Amla and Henna. Also, can you do a silk press on your hair? Would love to watch you do this. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you for uploading Steranda😊
Girl Same, I end up putting off doing my hair when I'm supposed to because I want to record the process when it's convenient. days turn to weeks, weeks turn to months.
This year has been quite the opposite for me. I've made more steps at getting the right products for my hair and being consistent.
Yess all year I have been feeling discouraged about and tired of my hair, and it’s been keeping me from wanting to do it and to really take care of it and just continue styling it.but now I’m going to try to do what I have to do again to get my hair to max health and length
Hey Natural Academia. Lots of love from South Africa. By the way, your earrings look super cute😍😍😘😘. I totally understand your point of not getting your ears pierced when you were growing up, my ears are also not pierced. 2023 is only 9 days away so you will have a fresh start at taking better care of your hair and we all have some setbacks that make us neglect our hair but we always bounce back.
Congrats girlllll!!!👀😱👍🏽💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️❤️🙏🏽
GIIIRRRRL SAAAAMEEEEE!!! I did so bad with my hair i lost INCHES due to breakage. I didn't trim not once last year, I go to school in Boston where it's FREEZING and neglected moisturizing, girl it was just so bad. But I started this year with a fresh NEEDED trim and I've created a well planned and simple routine/schedule to get back the length I lost and then grow more from there
Stironda I have been going "Hard in the PAINT" this year Momma!!! I will be 3-years post big chop on March 31, 2023 and I am trying to catch "THE INCHES SIS!!!"
Those earrings are real cute
And i definitely neglected wearing my bonnet these past few months
Can you do a video on how to know if a relationship needs to come to an end/ love relationship content while doing hair or just anything 😅
Salons have gotten more expensive lately. I put in mini twists and style them. Leave them in for 6 weeks and do it all over again.
I love the earrings 🤩 I feel the same way about working lol 😂 and yes I’ve been neglecting my hair the entire year of 2022. Once I found a stylist that could actually braid my hair and it wasn’t like overly expensive I was like yes braid my hair up I’ll spray leave in conditioner on it and wash it every other week (hopefully/wishful thinking lol 😂 😅) and call it a day.
I let my hair stay dry for too long because I didn’t want it to shrink after I’ve stretched it since most of my products are water based. I need to stop doing that.
Same here. But I learned that my hair is 100% more healthy if I add water. Washing once a week has help with keeping my hair hydrated, and throughout the week I use a humectant to draw moisture in. I learned that trying to keep it stretched with grease, etc.. and leaving it alone has damaged it a lot. As soon as I stopped this habit, my hair is literally flourishing. I just feel so silly thinking about how much length I missed out on had I not been worring about shrinkage all the time. I learned that my entire body loves and needs water, including my hair.😊
@@perfectlydone221i keep my hair stretched with grease but wash my hair every 2 weeks and I rinse every week (with warm water) until I can remoisturize it again (since most of the grease just melts off) I use it as a self care moment to also green tea rinse to combat any excessive hair fall. All one needs is a good shampoo and a somewhat consistent routine
Aww lol I’m 26 girl and I still haven’t gotten my ears pierced! I want them though. But never could work up the courage I love them on you! You look beautiful as always! Congratulations on your new place .
Well you have time 😂 I got mine pierced at 44
@@francenegayle3866 lmfaoo aww! How do you feel! Did it hurt?
@@Aniexo_ well my pain threshold is very high..... I decided to get cartilage piercings....double helix on one ear and helix rook on the other. These are very painful and take 6 months -1 year to heal. So I did 2 at a time separated by a year. All is well. Do your research and choose reputable piercers and quality jewelry. All the best
@@francenegayle3866 lol oh you went all out!
@@Aniexo_lobes are the least painful ear piercing, it’s just a little pinch and it doesn’t hurt after unlike other piercings where it can be sore and sensitive for days. If you want them you should totally go for it!
I’m convinced the secret to growing long hair is leaving it alone and not washing it regularly. I do weekly washes, so gentle, moisturize, clarifying, trimming, growth oils, I mean I do the most and my hair been at armpit length for 3 years smh I give up
Beads are lovely on you. No one asked but too noisy for me lol. Hence use gold clasps instead. No noise and not heavy.
Happy Tuesday 😊
Im not sure if you already looked but maybe try to find a natural hair that can stretch your hair without heat to trim. I think you would benefit from a professional trim
Hi Queen,words are so powerful. Their is live in the tongue or the opposite ❤❤❤
Did you ever try pealing for the scalp? This can help. Asian people using it. This help with dandruff, scalp itching, better product absorbing, etc. Also, you can be allergic to some oils. Try different ones. Hope next year will be better for you.
Your couch where is it frommmmmmmm I need one that exact size
I’ve committed myself to heat stretching monthly because my hair is fine & super tangly. Girl check out Walmart; I’m seeing other folks on RUclips getting braids & blowouts that look ok and not accompanied by these wtf prices
I wanted to go to the salon too, BUT the prices are so expensive. I have to save up for a one time hair style which is cool.
So you don’t use heat on your hair and u don’t comb your hair?
Why don’t you use the TGIN anymore!
I keep trying to many different products but I don’t know if that’s necessarily a bad thing cause I’m having a hard time finding what works for me. My hair keeps changing porosity’s believe it or not so I’m trying to buy products according to my porosity but I can’t settle on one cause my porosity keeps changing.
U guys broke up?
look up west african baby channel she has the BEST natural hairstyles I've ever seen i love her butterfly clip hairstyles til this day
Were you SDA.Adventist by chance ?
I ruined my hair trying to wear dreds. The ends were so matted that I got mold and fungi and had to cut them off.
Broadening my hair-rizons 🤪
Pls don’t feel bad every single one of my hair favs has damage idk it’s something about this year
It’s because we like experimenting so we slack off of good staple routines which is fine but comes with some damage, thankfully hair grows your entire life
You’re definitely not a bad person for piercing your ears. Humans are meant to explore, grow and evolve. I can respect the therapeutic value that religion has in someone’s life, but realistically (and empirically), all theistic religions are made up. If you want your time on this earth to be guided by religious rules, cool. But if you want to guide your own life with exploration of what makes you personally happy and whole, that’s cool too.
Truth isn’t made up, religion yes.
Saying what people believe in isn’t real is disrespectful.
Wait what religion is against ear piercings
If a religion is made up then one shouldn't practice it. People don't practice their religion for "therapy" (at least I dont) they BELIEVE it is TRUTH. It would be like me saying your beliefs aren't real so you should stop. Idk if I'm making sense to you but I'm trying to say that to some, religion isn't a set of rules to make you a good person. It's a set of beliefs about the meaning of life where we come from etc. It's not something that is meant to be dropped bc someone doesn't feel like it anymore.
Side note: I'm not saying any of this to hate on Staranda (hopefully I said it right) and im not dissing her piercings at all. I relate to her a lot, navigating being a Christian is a journey with God that's not always easy.
@@wlroggj they’re all made up which is why there is no 1 true religion. The concept of god is the only substantial part of any religion that cannot be made up but everything else is manmade that’s why it’s called a belief
Hi Natural Academia, a journal could be your solution to stay consistent. I could send you one of my self care diary. You could try it and report its usefulness. Please let me know.
Please stop beating up yourself
First
You might want to start washing/shampooing more. You might be due for a clarifier.