Yes, I agree with you! ED's are all about what's going on inside. So it makes sense to go inside rather than looking outside of oneself. The fact that Demi sells teas and workout clothing is deeply disappointing, especially because she is seen as the recovery hero. By selling these products it's almost like she's saying, "hey, I got offered lots of money to sell this stuff, but I'll never come out and say that these products are directly linked to ED behaviors that many sufferers use when they're in their illness." People with power have a responsibility to consider how they speak about their struggle and how it affects others. I also agree that making any person your idol is toxic.
I'm glad the video resonates with you! I've definitely had many instances where I very much looked up to someone and inevitably was let down, given that no human is perfect. 😂 I don't by ANY means envy the responsibility that accompanies grappling with any sort of addiction or mental illness under a spotlight... It's just very odd to me how some are held to such high standards whereas others everyone turns a blind eye?! Anyways, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts!
She's a pop(?) singer. I believe she was a Disney TV actress and then branched out, so to speak! Very publicized history of addiction, ED, mental health struggles.
I get irrationally angry at celebrities in recovery/recovered from an ED when it seems they weren't in the depths for long, or if they recovery so seemingly quickly and easily. I think genetically and biologically AN is so different from any other disordered eating diagnosis. I think it gave me false hope that I could recover as quickly and easily as they did, so I always feel like a failure for being stuck cycling for 18 years. It might sound mean or dismissive but I've always been irked by people who preach about recovery and their ED experience was nowhere near what my experience was like. But I am still glad they have recovered and I don't want to invalidate their struggles and success. I don't know why they frustrate me more than people who are still obviously very unwell and trying to speak to their own recovery. ❤️
At least you're aware of the response that arises in yourself, even if you don't totally understand it!! Maybe you're envious of those recovered (or at least claiming to be) because you wish you could be in denial similarly? Kinda like a best of both worlds scenario, at least by ED standards. But ultimately that's NOT an optimal life and we deserve so much better, so we are fortunate!
I must say that I have had some heated arguments with people on the topic of idolizing celebrities. I believe that we all have the same value. I may value some behaviors more than other behaviors and we may have differing preferences. An example of this is that I believe that the ladies who run the food pantry in my town are way more important than Tom Cruz. He may be a good actor, but these ladies can turn several cans of nothing into meals for ten families. I value those skills more. Very few people should be put on a pedestal. All humans have struggles and all humans have talents. Human is human.
It's definitely interesting how society as a whole tends to value certain things, professions, etc. over others. Admittedly I feel weird saying that given how when operating"under the influence" of my ED my actions indicate valuing appearances above literally all else, but unfortunately we both know deep down it's more complex than that 🙏🧡
@@rachaelerinrecovers6099 I am going to admit to you, (bc I am going out of my mind,) that I have been going “all in” since Friday. I have a gained an extraordinary amount weight...way more than is calorically possible. My quad muscles feel like they are going to explode and I can barely walk. So this is an attempt to walk the talk. I value those that give to others and the community, but I have too busy working out 7 hours a day to do anything for anyone, but me. I don’t know why I am telling you this.
@@sarahlovesdonuts9601 I'd imagine you feel terrified and alone, so sharing on here guarantees myself and anyone else who reads will understand! I know it feels like the epitome of wrong, but you ARE doing the right thing. You're one step closer to a life actually in alignment with your values, and that's a beautiful thing. 🧡
@@rachaelerinrecovers6099 Thank you!!!! It is a nonstop boxing match in my head. like fighting a snake. Any way I really appreciate your response.🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏✌️✌️✌️
so with you on this! its as if it gives them a reason for body shape so they can be accepted by the public. im sorrry but anyone that has to justify their shape with a disorder is glorifying an illness!! rant over!
I love this video so much. Great content! Brought up a lot of good points I had never really thought about
Thank you, that's very kind! And I love the guinea pig icon 🧡👍
Yes, I agree with you! ED's are all about what's going on inside. So it makes sense to go inside rather than looking outside of oneself. The fact that Demi sells teas and workout clothing is deeply disappointing, especially because she is seen as the recovery hero.
By selling these products it's almost like she's saying, "hey, I got offered lots of money to sell this stuff, but I'll never come out and say that these products are directly linked to ED behaviors that many sufferers use when they're in their illness."
People with power have a responsibility to consider how they speak about their struggle and how it affects others. I also agree that making any person your idol is toxic.
I'm glad the video resonates with you! I've definitely had many instances where I very much looked up to someone and inevitably was let down, given that no human is perfect. 😂 I don't by ANY means envy the responsibility that accompanies grappling with any sort of addiction or mental illness under a spotlight... It's just very odd to me how some are held to such high standards whereas others everyone turns a blind eye?! Anyways, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts!
Who is Demi Lavado?
She's a pop(?) singer. I believe she was a Disney TV actress and then branched out, so to speak! Very publicized history of addiction, ED, mental health struggles.
Maybe they think it’s trendy? I think we can probably confirm it’s not!
I really could relate to your video on exercise, you’re so insightful
I get irrationally angry at celebrities in recovery/recovered from an ED when it seems they weren't in the depths for long, or if they recovery so seemingly quickly and easily. I think genetically and biologically AN is so different from any other disordered eating diagnosis. I think it gave me false hope that I could recover as quickly and easily as they did, so I always feel like a failure for being stuck cycling for 18 years. It might sound mean or dismissive but I've always been irked by people who preach about recovery and their ED experience was nowhere near what my experience was like. But I am still glad they have recovered and I don't want to invalidate their struggles and success. I don't know why they frustrate me more than people who are still obviously very unwell and trying to speak to their own recovery. ❤️
At least you're aware of the response that arises in yourself, even if you don't totally understand it!! Maybe you're envious of those recovered (or at least claiming to be) because you wish you could be in denial similarly? Kinda like a best of both worlds scenario, at least by ED standards. But ultimately that's NOT an optimal life and we deserve so much better, so we are fortunate!
How are you?
I must say that I have had some heated arguments with people on the topic of idolizing celebrities. I believe that we all have the same value. I may value some behaviors more than other behaviors and we may have differing preferences. An example of this is that I believe that the ladies who run the food pantry in my town are way more important than Tom Cruz. He may be a good actor, but these ladies can turn several cans of nothing into meals for ten families. I value those skills more. Very few people should be put on a pedestal. All humans have struggles and all humans have talents. Human is human.
It's definitely interesting how society as a whole tends to value certain things, professions, etc. over others. Admittedly I feel weird saying that given how when operating"under the influence" of my ED my actions indicate valuing appearances above literally all else, but unfortunately we both know deep down it's more complex than that 🙏🧡
@@rachaelerinrecovers6099 I am going to admit to you, (bc I am going out of my mind,) that I have been going “all in” since Friday. I have a gained an extraordinary amount weight...way more than is calorically possible. My quad muscles feel like they are going to explode and I can barely walk. So this is an attempt to walk the talk. I value those that give to others and the community, but I have too busy working out 7 hours a day to do anything for anyone, but me. I don’t know why I am telling you this.
@@sarahlovesdonuts9601 I'd imagine you feel terrified and alone, so sharing on here guarantees myself and anyone else who reads will understand! I know it feels like the epitome of wrong, but you ARE doing the right thing. You're one step closer to a life actually in alignment with your values, and that's a beautiful thing. 🧡
@@rachaelerinrecovers6099 Thank you!!!! It is a nonstop boxing match in my head. like fighting a snake. Any way I really appreciate your response.🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏✌️✌️✌️
so with you on this! its as if it gives them a reason for body shape so they can be accepted by the public. im sorrry but anyone that has to justify their shape with a disorder is glorifying an illness!! rant over!
Love me a good want. 😝😹 Thank you for watching!!!
RANT.... Wow, thank you autocorrect lol
@@rachaelerinrecovers6099 i love predictive text it can take you down soo many rabit holes lol x