EDIT: 15k views, so many liked and comments! Can’t thank youse enough if ur reading this and enjoyed a sub or like goes along way to spread the content. ORIGIANL POST: All the views on recent videos is amazing and weird to me, im just waffling online. Glad youse enjoy them, would love any ideas on topics to speak on. for those who dont know the slang i used near the end, "Clobber" means Clothes realised i didnt add that to the video in editing, apologies. EDIT: Holy shxt you guys are crazy 2k views and over 100 likes not to mention all the comments, thank you guys :D
One of the best bits of advice ive ever heard was to stop caring what random people on the street think of you, because thats like not jumping everywhere in oblivion because the npcs might think youre weird
I'm 24, soon to be 25. With confidence I can say, being in your early twenty doesn't take away credit to your reflections on life. I'm finishing my Psychology degree, I journal since being a kid, and overall you can imagine me as a very contemplative person. Life is getting more serious, more responsibilities on my shoulders, and that leaves me with less time to ponder about deep thoughts. I still journal a lot, but it's far more practical and goal oriented. It's a blessing that you're expressing your thoughts in this format. To yourself and to others.
Congrats on the psychology it was always a subject that peeked my intrest in school, the idea of the working with the human mind, the way there thoughts and feelings work. Also thank you for the words about age and its credibility, although i do find it weird im also alittle used to it, as anyone older or younger i get into deep conversations with and mention struggles towards usually express a amazement at how much shit for quicker wording has happened to me. I hope that after you finish college and the stress of the study goes and that you get the ability to go back to jottin down thoughts and feelings in your journal and expressing yourself aswell, its always good for your soul i feel. :D
I think you're way ahead of the curve for someone in their early 20's, especially if you're capable of living this advice yourself. I'm in my early 30's and still struggle with this. I think most people struggle with this for decades, maybe even their entire lives. This advice is obviously true when you hear it, the hard part is just untangling all of the knots in your head to get there lol. Overthinking is habitual.
thank you i really do appreciate those words and i agree the hardest part is actually doing it because it feels like the only voice you actually listen to is the one in your no matter how much reassurance you get. :D
Advice doesn't always have to come from experience or being old man, it's moreso about sharing your mindset with others in hopes it'll have a positive impact on their life. You don't need to be around for 60 years to give good advice. Just spreading your mindset can be super influential and helpful to people. Somebody may see this and it'll completely change the trajectory of their life. Same goes for anyone reading. YOU can be the difference in someone's day no matter what kind of life experience you have. Thanks for posting this man.
I smoked some stuff that made me stop thinking entirely. Sent me on autopilot and I damn near disemboweled myself due to what can be best described as excited delirium. Let people be, who they are. I'm tired of having people telling me that I'm "too serious" or that I'm "overthinking", just because I refuse to do what they'd like me to do. This is my life, I am alive and I will live it, however I decide to. And if anyone's got an issue with that, they better come and freaking kill me, cause I've tried so many times and it didn't work.
Clicked on this thinking it was going to be one of those stoicism scizo rambles but I'm glad to see it was genuine advice on the topic of overthinking and not masked by people attempting to turn themselves into a machine for productivity
The BS that people spew is the reason half of people have those feeling in the first place imo, can’t be another one of them dons, appreciate the words tho :D
I saw this thumbnail, saved it to watch later, kept scrolling listening to a random video, then later as soon as I think about watching this video it pops up in my feed, literally as fast as I thought to watch it 🗿
Success is adding onto your soul by "solving" the truths that are presented to you in a way that benifits you and your neighbor. Not litteraly "solving" but finsing the best option for contentment.
Love that and it’s something I fully believe aswell, we can’t be perfect but we can choose what we deem perfect, thanks for the comment really like it :D
I don't know why or how this popped up in my recommended section I deeply thank you for this man I just stepped into my 20's, most of my life I've been studying, and about 2 years ago I started physically pushing myself too Despite making progress, I'm haunted by paranoia, guilt, shame, fear specially fear of failure and oddly enough my main fuel for inspiration is that fear I think I should tone down the thoughts, even though the environment where I live is quite hostile and makes it almost necessary for one to be jumpy and even psychotic at times Idk what point I intended to make with my ramblings, then again I thank you for this video man, it gave me some insight into whether my overthinking is tearing my psyche, best of luck to you brother, health and wealth
Thank you for sharing that, I think it’s good to use fear as ur motivation but don’t go too far down the rabbit hole and get lost, your capable md able. Stay safe Ty :D
I also have struggled with it my whole life, i found it wasn’t about not overthinking it was about when to let myself overthink if that makes sense, stay safe thank you :D
Hi, I'm almost near 20s too (2005). I live by one rule that really helps me out on saving time and nerves: don't care about judges and opinions of those, who you consider to be not influential in your life. For example, you fell off because the floor is slippery at winter, and people started laughing around you. I think they're nobody for me who will forget about this moment after 2-3 days, i doubt i'll ever meet or be working with them, and so i calmly stand up and continue to walk like nothing happened. If parents want something for you and doing without asking you opinion first, tell them why are not agree since they're parents, and unlike npcs on the streets your parents can influence your life a bit. And etc. of examples. We all will die anyways, one small mistake or fear is nothing tens years later, nothing at the end of life. Just do things while you can
Super cool to hear your take on it and love the truthfulness of nobody will care in 10 years, it is 100% true tbh even ones close to you will forget most stuff that was 10 years ago unless it’s a priceless memory. Appreciate the comment and thanks for sharing :D
What success means for me, personally, is self-actualising to the point that not only can I care for myself (which has been notoriously difficult through the years) but I can even care for a spouse and two children. I know, it’s pretty basic. And not everyone has to have children, or prove themselves by raising a child. It’s just that, to me, arriving at that point in my life would be something I could actually look back on and be proud of. There’s a whole host of other metrics for success, but I think no matter what your ‘success’ goals are, getting to that point in your life would be tangible proof that you can go out and grab success by the throat. Sure, I want to do things like master the drums, develop a successful nursing career, and no-hit some souls games, but the most solid self-proof to me that I’d done something good in my life would be to raise two other successful people. Sincerely, thank you for the thoughtful 6 minutes.
I think you’ve got your head on really well, the world doesn’t move unless there is a new generation to move it and being someone who’s able to help with that is super important (have a kid), I also think that a family is something that will make me feel a sense of success, keep mastering all ur interests and keep going, Ty for listening to my rambles also and stay safe :D
The way I think about judgement is: _In the movie of other peoples' lifes, you're an extra. You're background noise, forgotten as soon as you're not seen._ Even if a stranger in the street thinks your hat is stupid, they won't think about you ever again. Your friends too, you play such a small role in their life, just do your thing. There's only 5 people in my life who I slightly care about the way they view me - my partner, my parents, and my best friend. Everyone else can suck a fat one. My idea of success is enjoyment. I want to go out and have childlike fun, doing activities I truly love - mostly downhill skating and skiing for me. I abandoned the competitive mindset I had from ski racing all my youth in favor of 'just doing silly shit', and it completely changed how I look at sports. I'm here to goof around, I no longer care if I am stronger or faster than some other person.
Love that my friend and I couldn’t agree more, especially about the people in your life, I too have a very close circle that are the only ones I really trust, but like you said having childlike fun and doing goofy stuff is the best, it’s just able to breathe enjoyment regardless of the capability you have with that activity. Really enjoyed your thoughts about it and hope your doing well, Ty :D
Nobody caring is the precise reason I've struggled my entire life. People who grew up getting catered to by huge families and entitled to everything I could only dream of having. And thats the majority of my generation.
i am from a similar situation some times and you hear people take the things you feel would be amazing for granted, but its not there fault its the life they know just like we know another, atleast thats how i feel personally. Hope you stay well thank you for watching :D
thanks man you can never get how comforting this video is to me and how relevant it is with my life rn im just another 19 years old here having lots of pressure in life that just increases each freakin day even when i know all that i still always fall in again and worry a lot , it's all a mess my goals are so unclear and i don't even wanna grow up or work really i had my summer break lots of ppl go to work in it but i decided to take my summer vacation as it should beand my dad wasn't really happy about that my parents worry as well and just spank me with that you're not a kid anymore you should be doing this and this or when i was ur age or look at ppl ur age when this honestly just makes me don't even wanna try to do anything at all and makes me despise life this is my first year in college ill just do my best to focus on what i have here and just forget about the future also i clicked for dark souls as well lmaoo i recently played 1 and 3 as my first souls games it was really really fun experience
Your doing just fine my friend, my parents also still worry about me and have been known to say similar things, for me I know that my parents say these things cause there lives have been whirlwinds and it’s love, I can’t speak for you though. Good luck in college focus on what you can and everything that should happen will! I love DS1,2 and 3 with 1 and 3 prob my favs so much fun and the world and its lore is just *chefs kiss :D
@@happyy33 thanks man i really really appreciate this u can say the same bout me my parents just dont want me to fall into what they fell into but yk im no superhero or sum we all living here for the first time sometimes it's really stressful but ofc i always try to understand their point also that's really dope lmaooo i can't decide weather 1 or 3 is my fav ngl both are really amazing but yeah 3 is def better at most of the aspects , can't wait to play elden ring and ill eventually try ds2 someday lmaoo
@@acilo8321 wish you all the best mate, just keep ya head up. i have a soft spot for ds1 as it was my souls intro but i agree ds3 is better for alot of stuff, elden ring is very fun but alot longer than the dark souls series and id say ds2 gets a bad rep, it has its flaws but its alright its a bad dark souls but thats still better than most companies best games if ygm :D
@@happyy33 thanks man wish you the best as well keep up the good work love ur videos fr , also yeah im really excited for elden cuz i really love exploration and for ds i wanted to play ds3 first cuz it's more of a sequel to the first one lol but im def gonna try ds2 im sure it's not as bad as ppl say it just has more flaws than the other company games lol im actually really curious to try it out
@@acilo8321 thanks you for that, Elden ring is great youll enjoy it and ds2 is one of those games its abit like marmite (food from uk that you either love or hate) lmao :D
Thank you so much for that I really need to be reminded of this from time to time xd I'm 19 right now and things are pretty confusing to me, but i still doing the best i can :D
I agree don’t you can never be completely blinded but I feel the people who struggle with those issues already never fully release them from the back of their mind, if that makes sense. Ty for the words :D
What I see as "successful" is to write and share my stories. I always loved it and even got to get a german book publisher to publish one of my stories that will come out in germany this December. I just really hope people will like the book. I love the feeling when friends already are fascinated by my stories, can't imagine how it will feel like when strangers love the stuff I i make :)
Love that, also thats fuckin awesome your getting a actual book published, people who watch my vids are like authors and shit, thats unreal ahhaha. Hope you all the best with the book release, would you mind saying the title or a link for the book. Thanks for commenting and stay safe :D
@@happyy33 Well, it will take a while till it's printed in English but the title would be "The Witches corpse" and the story takes place in the 19 hundred's. The characters and writing style is similar to Edgar Allan Poe's stories :)
I still don't have an account and never will. I remember when they first introduced youtube shorts on RUclips, and I tried it once and hated it. It felt lazy. But then I got addicted to the scroll, laugh, scroll, laugh, scroll, laugh. Countless hours. I am going to try and deactivate the shorts function in the settings because it isn't healthy and it just leads to me wasting time I could spend watching my preferred content.
Hey, found your channel just now! My mind has this way of taking any household chore, or any repetitive predictable activity that I'm doing in a safe environment (such as gaming) and then anchors itself to it in order to think, imagine, monologue and daydream alike. I literally have a difficult time imagining things visually or consolidating my thoughts and monologues into coherency unless I'm cooking, painting, cleaning the house, have a movie/video playing or at least can listen to something in the background to partially focus on. This style of video that you're exploring a bit here. Gameplay combined with a few minutes of philosophy and introspection, might aswell be a first-person window into those special moments i have with myself. I'm subbing to you now (which is something i rarely do for any channel no matter it's size unless i know it's content is something i'd be interested in returning to quite frequently), so just keep it up and see where it leads! Looking forward to more from you!
Thank you for sharing that about yourself mate, i have multiple people that i know that are also like yourself with coherency. Thank you for subbing and the kind words, will be keeping up with the yaps and have another hopefully up tonight :D
thank you i know of the trick but i use throwing knives and well that plans kinda out the window with my killin undead merchant and not buying them, very smart i know, appreciate it tho
Have opinions, people get angry, have a wife, friend got jealous, have a house (30s), people get envious. I know people want to have opinions, a wife, and a house. There's so much bullshit, resentment builds, life is hard, so people are looking to take it out on others and be extremely critical. It is all so tiresome.
Man i love thse type of videos, gameplays in the bg mixed with life tips and stuff xD i guess success for me is enjoying doing something i like... Been a long time since i could get some rest, sit down and play some games peacefully without having to worry so much about university and stuff ive got to study xD I'll get to that success one day
Its worth it for the process, i never went to uni but i would of if i had the chance, hope you can enjoy playing some games while reaching the next step. Thanks for the words stay safe :D
Dark souls by its very nature embodies the feeling of standing on your own whilst staring into your deepest, darkest thoughts and worrying about what’s around every corner. This game whether we like it or not is a virtual and playable representation of the things we face in our everyday lives. The only difference is the demons you fight in real life are voices in your head and the opinions of others. Great video brother, keep at it.
Couldn’t of said it better myself I really like that observation of dark souls cause it truly is a masterpiece imo, just glad that you are enjoying the yappin. :D
I have had experiences with friends that never really truly cared for me at all they all just left me to hurt. all my friends just abandoned me. It been a while and I’m doing a bit better but I wish to have someone see me as a person. Still not in a good spot but I’m trying my best to better even if no one really cares about me. Just wish I had someone to rely on. Sorry for yapping bout it.
dont apologise for speaking about yourself and what troubles your having, the world isnt all sunshines and rainbows unfortuantly. I was abandonded by alot of people closest to me, family. i didnt have any for a couple years and barely spoke to anyone even parents, now i am in a 10x better place, it may be slow but aslong as you keep trying youll get to a better place. stay safe thank you for sharing :D
@@happyy33 thanks really appreciate the advice. Also good luck on dark souls it gets pretty hard. I’ve been playing dark souls 3 recently to take mind off stuff like that. The game is genuinely saving my life with overcoming challenges and hardships with the bosses, makes me feel accomplished. Have a good day dude!
@@Angle_1772 Thank you i love the dark souls franchise, as bad as i am ive acc 100%'d ds1 as its my favourite, loved ds3 though especially the dlc bosses they were awesome imo, aswell as i felt the same way when i played through them first time as it was my first souls-like experience felt so accomplished and able to do anything it felt like ahhah pure euphoria. stay safe and thanks again :D
hey man great advice and a really cool atmosphere:) theres a rapper called lil b and he talked about the same topic while refering to the term of „being based“ which this video has reminded me of. for future videos, i would wish for them to be completely uncut without any text and just the raw feeling of a friend telling me something. ideas that you could cover: do you believe in a given sense in life (fo ex. by god) and if not, do you think not having a given sense in life is a relief or a pressuring & depressing thought? are there any habits in your life that help you get through tough situations and also that make you happy? do you believe in an objective reality that isn’t seen out of the perspective of someone or something? kind regards leandro
Hi leandro mate, thank you for all the ideas I’ve put them on my list of waffle cause I think they’re all sick ideas and also thinks I have thought of for awhile aswell as the feedback on editing very much appreciated, stay safe
i was a mess for a long time too. Things started to change for me when my partner randomly asked me one day, “where do you place your self worth?” I’d never thought about it before but I found that my entire life I have placed my self worth in the attention i get from others and strangers. I am still unlearning this and it’s definitely not easy to grasp or handle but if I can change, so can you!!!! I cared so much about what others think of me when I was young and now that I’m placing my self worth in my productivity, I’m finally living my own life on my own terms or at least I’m finally learning that it’s okay to not care anymore. You can do it too. ❤
Thats sick to hear your story man, glad that you have a partner like that to push yourself mentally to grow. The time it takes to unlearn a bad habit is really whats the worse, feels like the bad habits come so natural yet the good are so difficult, ty for the comment glad your doing well. :D
thats sick love fantasy novels, idk really anything about writing but if i get stuck on something i try to just move on to the next part almost force myself and then go back and add or change it after youve made more progress, i feel like personally i try to perfect every part so much that i never even end up finishing it so i just force my way through and it helps it feel like i envisioned, when theres continuation and not so much focus on that part ig. doubt itll help but thats what i do personally hope you can get anything outta that, stay safe :D
@@happyy33 I'm trying to "just write," but then I always have a kind of blockage because I want to do it "properly" right away. You probably know what I mean. I'm currently writing the prologue for my story. If possible, I'd like you to give me feedback for it :D
@@Kyouma. don’t really know anything about writing or what makes it good, but that said if you email me it with the email on my channels desc then I’ll give it a read and tell you my feedback and hopefully give some use :D
semi new first played this all early this year, first time souls-like experience aswell, DS1 was my fav lmao even 100%'d it but yea as u can see im not the most thoughtful in combat hahaha :D
Said by someone who cares. 4:47 So I can just say crazy shite and no one will care. Nice! Just kidding. Cause my crazy shite is literally verbally taunting people as a stimming thing because "that's the way you get the most value out of talking" plus I'm ASD, and that's what I would end up doing without the masking potentially and that scares me. So yeah... people care about what you have to say... if you're not normal, they just don't say anything because they want to avoid conflict or avoid stuff that's simply not their problem if they can reasonably look the other way.
hey brother, i would say i am a christian but for myself i would rather stray away from mentioning it, i just feel everyone like me and you has there own beliefs and id rather not challenge that as at the end of the day it is there life not mine, i have no right to challenge it. Hope you understand my view and thank you for the offer, stay safe :D
It's great for you that you believe in something, but not everybody can find comfort in religion. Personally, I have a lot of trauma from religion, and religious people in my life. Be careful about shoving your ideals down people's throats. Jesus isn't the answer for everyone. If you really want to help, then it's much better to simply provide general emotional support and positivity/encouragement unless you are absolutely sure that the people you intend to interact with are of the same mindset. I mean this all in the nicest way possible. Please try to be more mindful.
unfortunately i didnt have any throwing knives to get past the wyvern like i know how, probably what i get for killing the merchant before getting any, ill be back for that bonfire dont worry :D
i think why u should care about some dumbass guys said about u , 5 years later they dont even remember ur name so why are u overthinking just have fun bro life is not that much serious like u might die because some crying ass teenager come to school and shot u because he is sad like its not that much matters
If I had a quid for everytime a Scottish man gave me life advice linked to dark souls on RUclips, I’d have 2 quid, not much but still cool that it happened twice.m But no honestly thank you, going through some shit atm so it’s nice to hear some words of wisdom over my favourite game 💜🫡 keep it up
EDIT: 15k views, so many liked and comments! Can’t thank youse enough if ur reading this and enjoyed a sub or like goes along way to spread the content. ORIGIANL POST: All the views on recent videos is amazing and weird to me, im just waffling online. Glad youse enjoy them, would love any ideas on topics to speak on. for those who dont know the slang i used near the end, "Clobber" means Clothes realised i didnt add that to the video in editing, apologies. EDIT: Holy shxt you guys are crazy 2k views and over 100 likes not to mention all the comments, thank you guys :D
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One of the best bits of advice ive ever heard was to stop caring what random people on the street think of you, because thats like not jumping everywhere in oblivion because the npcs might think youre weird
Very true, hahahaha thats a quality example aswell
”The challenge of self is where you find your true self - but you can only find your true self by losing judgement”
Quote of the year 💯
thank you, glad you could take something from my rambles. :D
Me: Mom, can we have Stellar Blade?
Mom: No, we have Stellar Blade at home!
Stellar Blade at home: 3:46
I'm 24, soon to be 25. With confidence I can say, being in your early twenty doesn't take away credit to your reflections on life. I'm finishing my Psychology degree, I journal since being a kid, and overall you can imagine me as a very contemplative person.
Life is getting more serious, more responsibilities on my shoulders, and that leaves me with less time to ponder about deep thoughts. I still journal a lot, but it's far more practical and goal oriented.
It's a blessing that you're expressing your thoughts in this format. To yourself and to others.
Congrats on the psychology it was always a subject that peeked my intrest in school, the idea of the working with the human mind, the way there thoughts and feelings work.
Also thank you for the words about age and its credibility, although i do find it weird im also alittle used to it, as anyone older or younger i get into deep conversations with and mention struggles towards usually express a amazement at how much shit for quicker wording has happened to me.
I hope that after you finish college and the stress of the study goes and that you get the ability to go back to jottin down thoughts and feelings in your journal and expressing yourself aswell, its always good for your soul i feel. :D
I think you're way ahead of the curve for someone in their early 20's, especially if you're capable of living this advice yourself. I'm in my early 30's and still struggle with this. I think most people struggle with this for decades, maybe even their entire lives. This advice is obviously true when you hear it, the hard part is just untangling all of the knots in your head to get there lol. Overthinking is habitual.
thank you i really do appreciate those words and i agree the hardest part is actually doing it because it feels like the only voice you actually listen to is the one in your no matter how much reassurance you get. :D
Funny how the simple addition of DS1 gameplay makes the video seem more believable to me.
Advice doesn't always have to come from experience or being old man, it's moreso about sharing your mindset with others in hopes it'll have a positive impact on their life. You don't need to be around for 60 years to give good advice. Just spreading your mindset can be super influential and helpful to people. Somebody may see this and it'll completely change the trajectory of their life. Same goes for anyone reading. YOU can be the difference in someone's day no matter what kind of life experience you have. Thanks for posting this man.
Thank you, really appreciate that and just glad u could get something out my rambling. :D
Success is Satisfaction
and it must satisfy without shame.
Very true :D
I smoked some stuff that made me stop thinking entirely. Sent me on autopilot and I damn near disemboweled myself due to what can be best described as excited delirium.
Let people be, who they are. I'm tired of having people telling me that I'm "too serious" or that I'm "overthinking", just because I refuse to do what they'd like me to do. This is my life, I am alive and I will live it, however I decide to. And if anyone's got an issue with that, they better come and freaking kill me, cause I've tried so many times and it didn't work.
Just be you, the right people will always love that you :D
binged all your other ds1 yapper sessions
you're onto something bro good stuff
Thank you, truly appreciate that hope you keep enjoying. Aslong as ive got something to yap about then there should be stuff hahaha :D
Clicked on this thinking it was going to be one of those stoicism scizo rambles but I'm glad to see it was genuine advice on the topic of overthinking and not masked by people attempting to turn themselves into a machine for productivity
The BS that people spew is the reason half of people have those feeling in the first place imo, can’t be another one of them dons, appreciate the words tho :D
I saw this thumbnail, saved it to watch later, kept scrolling listening to a random video, then later as soon as I think about watching this video it pops up in my feed, literally as fast as I thought to watch it 🗿
It was meant to be, hope you enjoyed :D
Success is adding onto your soul by "solving" the truths that are presented to you in a way that benifits you and your neighbor. Not litteraly "solving" but finsing the best option for contentment.
Love that and it’s something I fully believe aswell, we can’t be perfect but we can choose what we deem perfect, thanks for the comment really like it :D
I don't know why or how this popped up in my recommended section
I deeply thank you for this man
I just stepped into my 20's, most of my life I've been studying, and about 2 years ago I started physically pushing myself too
Despite making progress, I'm haunted by paranoia, guilt, shame, fear specially fear of failure and oddly enough my main fuel for inspiration is that fear
I think I should tone down the thoughts, even though the environment where I live is quite hostile and makes it almost necessary for one to be jumpy and even psychotic at times
Idk what point I intended to make with my ramblings, then again I thank you for this video man, it gave me some insight into whether my overthinking is tearing my psyche, best of luck to you brother, health and wealth
Thank you for sharing that, I think it’s good to use fear as ur motivation but don’t go too far down the rabbit hole and get lost, your capable md able. Stay safe Ty :D
Great video tbh I’ve struggled with overthinking all my life. It’s something I’m trying to overcome and words like this are helpful. So thank you.
I also have struggled with it my whole life, i found it wasn’t about not overthinking it was about when to let myself overthink if that makes sense, stay safe thank you :D
I don't know how i wound up here, but this one video has helped me more than any else's advice ever.
Thank you.
Glad you could get something from it, hope you keep well :D
Why, how you are able to just post something so beautiful? Hope you, everyone a great, great day.
Don't you dare go hollow, skeletons.
Thank you, really glad you found it beautiful as it’s just life stuff but life is beautiful, hope you have a great day and stay safe friend :D
these typa videos with a dark souls gameplay in the background is what we all needed
if this is happy's advice in undead burg, imagine what wisdom he'll drop in the kiln.
hahahaha appreciate it. :D
Bro, thanks for the wisdom, looking at life this way honestly makes the outlook better for me at least. Thanks man
glad you could get something out my rambles, appreciate the words. stay safe :D
Hi, I'm almost near 20s too (2005). I live by one rule that really helps me out on saving time and nerves: don't care about judges and opinions of those, who you consider to be not influential in your life. For example, you fell off because the floor is slippery at winter, and people started laughing around you. I think they're nobody for me who will forget about this moment after 2-3 days, i doubt i'll ever meet or be working with them, and so i calmly stand up and continue to walk like nothing happened.
If parents want something for you and doing without asking you opinion first, tell them why are not agree since they're parents, and unlike npcs on the streets your parents can influence your life a bit. And etc. of examples.
We all will die anyways, one small mistake or fear is nothing tens years later, nothing at the end of life. Just do things while you can
Super cool to hear your take on it and love the truthfulness of nobody will care in 10 years, it is 100% true tbh even ones close to you will forget most stuff that was 10 years ago unless it’s a priceless memory. Appreciate the comment and thanks for sharing :D
This is stuff we all know but are usually too afraid to tell ourselves. Hearing it from another makes it a lot easier to stomach the truth.
Hope it helps in anyway it can aswell as hoping your doing well, thank you for words and watching stay safe :D
What success means for me, personally, is self-actualising to the point that not only can I care for myself (which has been notoriously difficult through the years) but I can even care for a spouse and two children.
I know, it’s pretty basic. And not everyone has to have children, or prove themselves by raising a child. It’s just that, to me, arriving at that point in my life would be something I could actually look back on and be proud of.
There’s a whole host of other metrics for success, but I think no matter what your ‘success’ goals are, getting to that point in your life would be tangible proof that you can go out and grab success by the throat.
Sure, I want to do things like master the drums, develop a successful nursing career, and no-hit some souls games, but the most solid self-proof to me that I’d done something good in my life would be to raise two other successful people.
Sincerely, thank you for the thoughtful 6 minutes.
I think you’ve got your head on really well, the world doesn’t move unless there is a new generation to move it and being someone who’s able to help with that is super important (have a kid), I also think that a family is something that will make me feel a sense of success, keep mastering all ur interests and keep going, Ty for listening to my rambles also and stay safe :D
The way I think about judgement is:
_In the movie of other peoples' lifes, you're an extra. You're background noise, forgotten as soon as you're not seen._
Even if a stranger in the street thinks your hat is stupid, they won't think about you ever again. Your friends too, you play such a small role in their life, just do your thing.
There's only 5 people in my life who I slightly care about the way they view me - my partner, my parents, and my best friend. Everyone else can suck a fat one.
My idea of success is enjoyment. I want to go out and have childlike fun, doing activities I truly love - mostly downhill skating and skiing for me.
I abandoned the competitive mindset I had from ski racing all my youth in favor of 'just doing silly shit', and it completely changed how I look at sports. I'm here to goof around, I no longer care if I am stronger or faster than some other person.
Love that my friend and I couldn’t agree more, especially about the people in your life, I too have a very close circle that are the only ones I really trust, but like you said having childlike fun and doing goofy stuff is the best, it’s just able to breathe enjoyment regardless of the capability you have with that activity. Really enjoyed your thoughts about it and hope your doing well, Ty :D
Nobody caring is the precise reason I've struggled my entire life. People who grew up getting catered to by huge families and entitled to everything I could only dream of having. And thats the majority of my generation.
i am from a similar situation some times and you hear people take the things you feel would be amazing for granted, but its not there fault its the life they know just like we know another, atleast thats how i feel personally. Hope you stay well thank you for watching :D
You speak truth. I’ve been that guy in the Subway line watching someone get extra mayo on the seafood salad.
😂😂😂devilish order
Based asf brother. Thank you for this, I'm gonna share it around 🌞
thank you bro, appreciate the kind words and support boss. stay safe :D
thanks man you can never get how comforting this video is to me and how relevant it is with my life rn im just another 19 years old here having lots of pressure in life that just increases each freakin day even when i know all that i still always fall in again and worry a lot , it's all a mess my goals are so unclear and i don't even wanna grow up or work really i had my summer break lots of ppl go to work in it but i decided to take my summer vacation as it should beand my dad wasn't really happy about that my parents worry as well and just spank me with that you're not a kid anymore you should be doing this and this or when i was ur age or look at ppl ur age when this honestly just makes me don't even wanna try to do anything at all and makes me despise life this is my first year in college ill just do my best to focus on what i have here and just forget about the future
also i clicked for dark souls as well lmaoo i recently played 1 and 3 as my first souls games it was really really fun experience
Your doing just fine my friend, my parents also still worry about me and have been known to say similar things, for me I know that my parents say these things cause there lives have been whirlwinds and it’s love, I can’t speak for you though. Good luck in college focus on what you can and everything that should happen will! I love DS1,2 and 3 with 1 and 3 prob my favs so much fun and the world and its lore is just *chefs kiss :D
@@happyy33 thanks man i really really appreciate this u can say the same bout me my parents just dont want me to fall into what they fell into but yk im no superhero or sum we all living here for the first time sometimes it's really stressful but ofc i always try to understand their point
also that's really dope lmaooo i can't decide weather 1 or 3 is my fav ngl both are really amazing but yeah 3 is def better at most of the aspects , can't wait to play elden ring and ill eventually try ds2 someday lmaoo
@@acilo8321 wish you all the best mate, just keep ya head up. i have a soft spot for ds1 as it was my souls intro but i agree ds3 is better for alot of stuff, elden ring is very fun but alot longer than the dark souls series and id say ds2 gets a bad rep, it has its flaws but its alright its a bad dark souls but thats still better than most companies best games if ygm :D
@@happyy33 thanks man wish you the best as well keep up the good work love ur videos fr , also yeah im really excited for elden cuz i really love exploration and for ds i wanted to play ds3 first cuz it's more of a sequel to the first one lol but im def gonna try ds2 im sure it's not as bad as ppl say it just has more flaws than the other company games lol im actually really curious to try it out
@@acilo8321 thanks you for that, Elden ring is great youll enjoy it and ds2 is one of those games its abit like marmite (food from uk that you either love or hate) lmao :D
Thank you so much for that
I really need to be reminded of this from time to time xd
I'm 19 right now and things are pretty confusing to me, but i still doing the best i can :D
its bound to be confusing for you, your in the process of finding out who you are, wish all the best for you and dont be too hard on yourself. :D
Not caring what other people thinks is exactly how you end up with a lack of self awareness.
Everything in moderation. Everything.
I agree don’t you can never be completely blinded but I feel the people who struggle with those issues already never fully release them from the back of their mind, if that makes sense. Ty for the words :D
What I see as "successful" is to write and share my stories.
I always loved it and even got to get a german book publisher to publish one of my stories that will come out in germany this December.
I just really hope people will like the book. I love the feeling when friends already are fascinated by my stories, can't imagine how it will feel like when strangers love the stuff I i make :)
Love that, also thats fuckin awesome your getting a actual book published, people who watch my vids are like authors and shit, thats unreal ahhaha. Hope you all the best with the book release, would you mind saying the title or a link for the book. Thanks for commenting and stay safe :D
@@happyy33 Well, it will take a while till it's printed in English but the title would be "The Witches corpse" and the story takes place in the 19 hundred's. The characters and writing style is similar to Edgar Allan Poe's stories :)
@@gwendolynpoole2801 ill keep my eye out for it :D
tik tok was a poison.
I still don't have an account and never will. I remember when they first introduced youtube shorts on RUclips, and I tried it once and hated it. It felt lazy. But then I got addicted to the scroll, laugh, scroll, laugh, scroll, laugh. Countless hours. I am going to try and deactivate the shorts function in the settings because it isn't healthy and it just leads to me wasting time I could spend watching my preferred content.
@@AUDHDlucy i have tiktok acc for posting ds3 videos the views are more than i usually had on YT. But yeah these short model is a mistake.
Its a waste of energy caring what people people are too lost in there own little worlds no ones important
Everyone’s navigating through the world just like you and I, thanks for watching and the comment :D
success is when you find a good anime.
still trying
Hahahahaha if you’ve not tried it yet I’d recommend berserk 1997 anime, in my personal top 3 :D
@@happyy33 ya, seen that one, even read the manga. i guess i mean more like nowadays, after seeing most of the good ones lol.
@@AnimeGIFfy havent seen any new animes really, stay kept up with bleach still thats about it really, all ive got is some old ones sorry boss lol :D
Hey, found your channel just now! My mind has this way of taking any household chore, or any repetitive predictable activity that I'm doing in a safe environment (such as gaming) and then anchors itself to it in order to think, imagine, monologue and daydream alike. I literally have a difficult time imagining things visually or consolidating my thoughts and monologues into coherency unless I'm cooking, painting, cleaning the house, have a movie/video playing or at least can listen to something in the background to partially focus on.
This style of video that you're exploring a bit here. Gameplay combined with a few minutes of philosophy and introspection, might aswell be a first-person window into those special moments i have with myself. I'm subbing to you now (which is something i rarely do for any channel no matter it's size unless i know it's content is something i'd be interested in returning to quite frequently), so just keep it up and see where it leads! Looking forward to more from you!
Thank you for sharing that about yourself mate, i have multiple people that i know that are also like yourself with coherency. Thank you for subbing and the kind words, will be keeping up with the yaps and have another hopefully up tonight :D
you can avoid the rats by baiting the drake and running past him once he lands on the bridge
also nice advice
thank you i know of the trick but i use throwing knives and well that plans kinda out the window with my killin undead merchant and not buying them, very smart i know, appreciate it tho
Have opinions, people get angry, have a wife, friend got jealous, have a house (30s), people get envious.
I know people want to have opinions, a wife, and a house.
There's so much bullshit, resentment builds, life is hard, so people are looking to take it out on others and be extremely critical. It is all so tiresome.
you just gotta do your best, its all you can do for yourself. :D
@@happyy33 agreed
Man i love thse type of videos, gameplays in the bg mixed with life tips and stuff xD i guess success for me is enjoying doing something i like... Been a long time since i could get some rest, sit down and play some games peacefully without having to worry so much about university and stuff ive got to study xD I'll get to that success one day
Its worth it for the process, i never went to uni but i would of if i had the chance, hope you can enjoy playing some games while reaching the next step. Thanks for the words stay safe :D
Dark souls by its very nature embodies the feeling of standing on your own whilst staring into your deepest, darkest thoughts and worrying about what’s around every corner. This game whether we like it or not is a virtual and playable representation of the things we face in our everyday lives. The only difference is the demons you fight in real life are voices in your head and the opinions of others.
Great video brother, keep at it.
Couldn’t of said it better myself I really like that observation of dark souls cause it truly is a masterpiece imo, just glad that you are enjoying the yappin. :D
I have had experiences with friends that never really truly cared for me at all they all just left me to hurt. all my friends just abandoned me. It been a while and I’m doing a bit better but I wish to have someone see me as a person. Still not in a good spot but I’m trying my best to better even if no one really cares about me. Just wish I had someone to rely on. Sorry for yapping bout it.
dont apologise for speaking about yourself and what troubles your having, the world isnt all sunshines and rainbows unfortuantly. I was abandonded by alot of people closest to me, family. i didnt have any for a couple years and barely spoke to anyone even parents, now i am in a 10x better place, it may be slow but aslong as you keep trying youll get to a better place. stay safe thank you for sharing :D
@@happyy33 thanks really appreciate the advice. Also good luck on dark souls it gets pretty hard. I’ve been playing dark souls 3 recently to take mind off stuff like that. The game is genuinely saving my life with overcoming challenges and hardships with the bosses, makes me feel accomplished. Have a good day dude!
@@Angle_1772 Thank you i love the dark souls franchise, as bad as i am ive acc 100%'d ds1 as its my favourite, loved ds3 though especially the dlc bosses they were awesome imo, aswell as i felt the same way when i played through them first time as it was my first souls-like experience felt so accomplished and able to do anything it felt like ahhah pure euphoria. stay safe and thanks again :D
Yes, you the one i was looking for.
hahaha glad you found what you were looking for. :D
Me I literally, I am the Tarnished Hollowed from Dark Souls 4 irl
Two-hand the Katana for more damage though.
katana only scales with dex, there'd be hardly any difference damage-wise
The naked samurai of yap knows no bounds, I’m sorry :D
@@happyy33 Dw, only to clarify the difference in case someone was wondering :D
@@salamalejkum760 true, true. But if you have nothing in your left hand you're using, might as well
" nobody cares " ... the IRS the moment this wonderful young adult starts stacking the slightest volume of paper: 👆😺
I see the taxman in my dreams already, well nightmares hahaha
Thank you.
*day brightened*
Impressive katana only run. I could never see myself doing such challenge runs.
Oh yeah, great life advice.
I never thought I’d do a naked katana run either till I started this channel hahaha, and thank you for the words appreciate it :D
@@happyy33 You're welcome.
Thank you
Hearing Jesus say "well done my good and faithful servant" is success
Be like nobody
Even facebook nowadays make depression
havent used facebook in 6/7+ years but i see the content from my parents ipad's, its rough out there now. Thanks for watching :D
hey man great advice and a really cool atmosphere:) theres a rapper called lil b and he talked about the same topic while refering to the term of „being based“ which this video has reminded me of. for future videos, i would wish for them to be completely uncut without any text and just the raw feeling of a friend telling me something. ideas that you could cover: do you believe in a given sense in life (fo ex. by god) and if not, do you think not having a given sense in life is a relief or a pressuring & depressing thought? are there any habits in your life that help you get through tough situations and also that make you happy? do you believe in an objective reality that isn’t seen out of the perspective of someone or something? kind regards leandro
Hi leandro mate, thank you for all the ideas I’ve put them on my list of waffle cause I think they’re all sick ideas and also thinks I have thought of for awhile aswell as the feedback on editing very much appreciated, stay safe
Thank god that I don't have to have x many houses by 1920, thanks bruv that really is a load off 😅 (im kidding)
😂😂
Bruh I thought the thumbnail said "Stop Overleveling" 💀
sorry but you got baited by yourself bro ahahhaha :D
Some solid advice
i was a mess for a long time too. Things started to change for me when my partner randomly asked me one day, “where do you place your self worth?” I’d never thought about it before but I found that my entire life I have placed my self worth in the attention i get from others and strangers. I am still unlearning this and it’s definitely not easy to grasp or handle but if I can change, so can you!!!! I cared so much about what others think of me when I was young and now that I’m placing my self worth in my productivity, I’m finally living my own life on my own terms or at least I’m finally learning that it’s okay to not care anymore. You can do it too. ❤
Thats sick to hear your story man, glad that you have a partner like that to push yourself mentally to grow. The time it takes to unlearn a bad habit is really whats the worse, feels like the bad habits come so natural yet the good are so difficult, ty for the comment glad your doing well. :D
@@happyy33 thank you for your videos!!! and ur reply 😭🫶🏼 very glad i do too!!
@@festeringfingerprintvicodin 🫶 :D
crazy yap session ps, love this game
appreciate it, love ds1 too my fav out the 3 :D
1:18 good time to practice kicking
super true could of "for sparta!"'d him off hahaha
He plays Dark Souls so he must be right
cheers mate
thanks bro
glad i could help is some way, be safe :D
I'm an aspiring fantasy writer, and I overthink the lines I write a lot. Any advice?
thats sick love fantasy novels, idk really anything about writing but if i get stuck on something i try to just move on to the next part almost force myself and then go back and add or change it after youve made more progress, i feel like personally i try to perfect every part so much that i never even end up finishing it so i just force my way through and it helps it feel like i envisioned, when theres continuation and not so much focus on that part ig. doubt itll help but thats what i do personally hope you can get anything outta that, stay safe :D
@@happyy33 I'm trying to "just write," but then I always have a kind of blockage because I want to do it "properly" right away. You probably know what I mean. I'm currently writing the prologue for my story. If possible, I'd like you to give me feedback for it :D
@@Kyouma. don’t really know anything about writing or what makes it good, but that said if you email me it with the email on my channels desc then I’ll give it a read and tell you my feedback and hopefully give some use :D
@@happyy33 Cool! Thank you, and I'm looking forward to it ^^
Good talk bro 👍👋🇧🇷
Obridgado amigo, stay safe :D
@@happyy33 💪🔥
Appreciate it
peace upon u
Decent yap but holy I hope ur new to ds brother 💖
semi new first played this all early this year, first time souls-like experience aswell, DS1 was my fav lmao even 100%'d it but yea as u can see im not the most thoughtful in combat hahaha :D
Nice
And he gets poisoned by a rat. I f***ing hate this game.
Ds1 poison is not the one hahaha
0:15 those hitbox are atrocious. Thank you Dark Souls.
The flawed masterpiece strikes again 😂
Ummm actually its not a hitbox problem he just messed up the roll and DS1 shows it like this 🤓🤓🤓
@@craftihlow69 also very true, haven’t touched a souls in a couple months, soon I’ll be back rolling right haha :D
hell yeah
Said by someone who cares.
4:47 So I can just say crazy shite and no one will care. Nice! Just kidding. Cause my crazy shite is literally verbally taunting people as a stimming thing because "that's the way you get the most value out of talking" plus I'm ASD, and that's what I would end up doing without the masking potentially and that scares me. So yeah... people care about what you have to say... if you're not normal, they just don't say anything because they want to avoid conflict or avoid stuff that's simply not their problem if they can reasonably look the other way.
Hey Doggy… you okay there?
Try telling this to a woman ! HAH AM I RIGHT BOYS !
Hey bro! I don't want to be *that guy* but fr Christianity is the solution. If you want to talk about it, I'd love to go off in the replies.
hey brother, i would say i am a christian but for myself i would rather stray away from mentioning it, i just feel everyone like me and you has there own beliefs and id rather not challenge that as at the end of the day it is there life not mine, i have no right to challenge it. Hope you understand my view and thank you for the offer, stay safe :D
@@happyy33 That's awesome man. I totally understand why you'd avoid it. People are really allergic to the position
No shit
didn’t care about this video.
nobody cares
God cares. The lord jesus christ cares so much he died for you.
Umbasa
It's great for you that you believe in something, but not everybody can find comfort in religion. Personally, I have a lot of trauma from religion, and religious people in my life. Be careful about shoving your ideals down people's throats. Jesus isn't the answer for everyone. If you really want to help, then it's much better to simply provide general emotional support and positivity/encouragement unless you are absolutely sure that the people you intend to interact with are of the same mindset. I mean this all in the nicest way possible. Please try to be more mindful.
@@mmmwhatchasayyyyy2021
"And heaven forbid the day you find out what their so-called God really is…"
- Sage Freke, The Visionary
Uh oh you triggered the atheists bro
@@Pedro_Le_Chef
Hail Satan
not to be that person but:
2:00 you forgot a bonfire
unfortunately i didnt have any throwing knives to get past the wyvern like i know how, probably what i get for killing the merchant before getting any, ill be back for that bonfire dont worry :D
i think why u should care about some dumbass guys said about u , 5 years later they dont even remember ur name so why are u overthinking just have fun bro life is not that much serious like u might die because some crying ass teenager come to school and shot u because he is sad like its not that much matters
If I had a quid for everytime a Scottish man gave me life advice linked to dark souls on RUclips, I’d have 2 quid, not much but still cool that it happened twice.m
But no honestly thank you, going through some shit atm so it’s nice to hear some words of wisdom over my favourite game 💜🫡 keep it up
Ill try build up that money for ya mate, mon the scots and thank you :D
@@happyy33 appreciate it haha, much love from Ireland my dude o7
@@afterlilac