They always do. When a man cheats? They act like it's all Men, and that men are Dawgs, can't keep it in His pants, heartbeat and a hole, etc etc etc. But when a woman cheats? It's Not Allllllll Women, it's a case by case basis And she always has a reason why she cheated? Her needs weren't being met, No emotional connection, he worked too Much, no attention, didn't make her feel wanted, not enough attention Never any accountability for her actions
@@patriciaflowers701Struck me as a valid observation, lol. Also, since when is the bar for a "gentleman" as low as not slapping her, lol. He did handle it very calmly a d from this context it seems like kind of like a gentleman. Though his last line could have read as a threat, I think it was a boundary. So I'd agree, he handled it well from what I can see... He still used "curse words" though, lol.
@@ceceliam9014 Ummm! Eat some humble pie. LOL! You took it way too far and yourself way too seriously regarding a comment not directed at you! LOL! I think we all heard the curse words too! LOL!
@@patriciaflowers701 You're the one calling people juvenile and insulting people after knowing them for a single sentence, lol. Slice off some humble pie for yourself, hun 😂🥧 All the best.
People get angry when i say you should be able to sue someone who cheated on you. It actually causes mental health issues and it’s a life changing thing. It actually causes damage. You should be able to sue for those damages if you have evidence. 🤷🏽♀️ Took me years to love again.
@@thelightwithin7437 8 years and she cheated. Here I am still suffering for her mistakes. If I could take legal actions I would. It ruined the person I had worked so hard to be. I'm not that man anymore. The compassion has been stripped from my very soul.
wtf u gonna sue them for happiness cause at that point no money could fix anything the only thing that help me is finding the lord and forgiving the ones that do me wrong. u only get one life no reason sue someone just cause u didn’t really know them and yes shit hurts but it makes u stronger unless u straight up take ur own life then it’s hell for eternity 🙏🏼
You hit the nail right on the head my friend. Even though the marriage is over, there were many years filled with experiences such as having children, living together, all of the holidays. I mourn all of that. But what I mourn most is being together as a family.
@@Hjh826The hell they wouldn't you will be found if you are a man and the kids would be given to worthless mother who can't do her job cause they don't give f bout guys in most places 😂
Just do a quick google search of the number of women who have killed their kids rather than let the father have custody. Thats the nature of most women. Selfish to the end.
“i can’t do this right now” is the favorite line of anyone who was ever tried to be held accountable for their actions and still tries to play the victim
Thanks for saying that. That's what I did when this happened to me. She had a similar reaction to being caught too. "People get cheated on, it happens" I'm over it now, don't forget though. Sometimes I wish I had got angry, returned the cruelty. Took a lot for me to be stoic about it, but I did, thought it was the strongest move. Glad others think so.
@memeticmindset5474 That's the best move. It shows strength and destroys her perceptions of you as a simp weakling. Getting emotional gives her the drama she wants that led her to destroy the family in the first place.
OMG ... my ex wife used to say that shit. When I was pissed off (which was frequent) at something ... I used to leave and go somewhere for a bit. Cool off, think rationally through what happened and figure if I was wrong or being the dick. Then I'd come back and I'd have it out with her ... calmly and objectively. She didn't want that ... she wanted the screaming match, fight, etc. She didn't like it when I used actual common sense and facts ... for a genuine discussion. Which was weird for a female who knew and witnessed close friends and family members getting beaten up by husbands and boyfriends.
Why isn't anyone talking about Kevin Bacon's acting in this scene?? His passive-agressive delivery plus the greif in his voice and eyes...... its absolutely incredible 🔥🔥💯💯
Everyone's busy making this into a gender war lol.😅. Some have even said that Amanda can play this character perfectly because she might be the same in real life as well.
@@btb554Right? All genders get cheated on. One gender doesn't own that experience. It's a well done scene, acted well from both parties. I wish it didn't have to turn into a "that's what women are like" parade of the bitter 🤦♀️
I find this culterally very interesting. In my country its no question that the Kids stay with the mother (unless she s known to have been abusive towards them) as here most fathers simply dont care about their children and we simply dont trust men to be able to Look after or take care of them. They often cant look after themselves either as they are often going from 'Hotel-mummy' (where they are babyed) straight to 'hotel-wify' (where they often also dont have to lift a singel Finger in the household or with the kids). Sometimes ppl also asume all kind of ugly things (sexual abuse etc.) of a man if he s known to be alone with Kids. Its sad and (mostly) unfair I know but unfortunatly that kind of thinking is still in many heads. Kids are considdered a 'womans-job' here. Also for safty-resaons: Mothers dont have the nessersary body parts to sexually abuse a child (unfair and sometimes inacuarate as there are many ways to cross that kind of boundersies - I know). I guess we are also the only country I know of where a Baby that is born to an unmaried mother will always have the mothers and never the fathers last Name 🤷🏼♀️. Out of interest... how is it over there? Do you guys really trust men that much? Are they more mature and ready for responsibility there? How are the general experiances there?
@@nicoleeisler7089that's not YOUR culture, that's most of the world, it's human nature, women are supposed to be the more nurturing ones etc, better at raising kids. Some places have just loosened the rules in modern society. That's why s9 many men get upset, unless you can prove mom is an absolute useless monster, & kid is in danger for not being islet care of, they go with mom
@@nicoleeisler7089very few dads will do their own kids, so that's nonsense. There's natural instincts to not get with dinnertime closely related. I've if rhe biggest things is why women look into smell of a man, scent can determine if you're related
This is how you deal with cheaters. You don’t have to shout, just let them know that they get nothing. Not the house, not the kid, nothing. Their other lover can supply them with those things
It's heartbreaking, because she only ended up showing him that the person he thought she was, is now gone😞 We end up mourning the loss of the person they used to be, & the new person they've become doesn't deserve our emotions
@@RonOnTheWay well, here in Canada if you get caught cheating with legitimate proof you can actually get out of paying child support amd everything else. Once a child is involved it ain't just a 2 people Marriage anymore. Cjesters deserve nothing but public shame if anything
@@namehereplz13same in some states in America. North Carolina and South Carolina I know for sure are very favorable for fathers in those types of situations.
She's not mad at what she's done. She's mad because she got caught, and he's not reacting the way she thinks he should. That pisses them off more than anything else.
@@BaltimoresBerzerkerbecause you're unworthy of me doing so I can't even look at you right now, get out of my sight and out of my home my child will not be coming with you from this day forward you are nothing to me and you will receive nothing from me, all of your credit cards and debit cards are null and void the locks have been changed in the house and the cars
That’s pretty standard practice for a lot of women nowadays. The minute they don’t like something in a breakup the kids become a weapon to hurt the father
@@wayneosbourne6979Her cheating was awful, but he was a detached and broken dude who was reconciling with letting his former wife drown. She knew he wasn't capable of raising his daughter healthily before he did... and in the end he agreed.
I love how she instantly turned it on him like it’s his fault for you making the conscious decision to step out of your relationship. If a man has no excuses ever that he can use to cheat, no woman can ever have an excuse either.
I got told once that it was my fault for looking at her phone and finding out. Never spoke about it to me. I just had that feeling. Checked. Felt hurt. Told me it’s my fault I’m hurting and my fault it happened and my fault that I ever looked. I should have just trusted her and let it be. People don’t give a fuck about dignity or anything but themselves and even then.
Seriously! Man or women shouldn't be unfaithful. If your that unhappy leave the situation or talk to each other to try N fix what's wrong . If you can't then walk away . It's crazy how so many people rather stay with some one and be with other people too . Then get upset when caught and confronted.
@@TrishLan93 No, because then he would be getting "lucky" AGAIN, on top of already stealing his wife away... Remember, both that wife and her affair partner need to lose, pay and suffer at least twice as much as he did or there is no justice.
I hate this phrase more than anything. You can’t do this right now? If not now, then when? What is more important than us? Oh I see, “us” is only important when it’s convenient for you. So many people like this.
He handled this perfectly. He didn't lose it. She did. She don't make the rules when she broke them. I like both these actors, but in real life, she's too young for him. They would have very little in common.
@@tacticalcrusader3709 THANK YOU! I can’t believe more people aren’t talking about this in the comments. I was disgusted as soon as the freaking clip started playing. Why tf is this SO normal in movies??
Prob why he made the comment about “all night” … bc of the age issue. I know & love some precious ppl who’ve married WAY outside of their age cohorts & the unions have worked, but not without complications. There ARE always some age related issues & complications. You truly have to discuss those, consider them & commit to enduring. The maturity of the minds, experiences or lack thereof & physiological maturity via hormones is TOTALLY different as well as after 50...EVERYTHING changes in the body. You can fight it with clean living, but you can’t ever fully escape it even with a ton of money.
@@xwarped83 It’s worthless to call someone out for a realistic benign comment, and it speaks to the quality of your character as a person. But you do you man.
Even sorry is too much to me, just own up to it and leave. If they were really sorry they would have controlled themselves and never cheated to begin with.
@@tammyjohnson8150I haven't seen this though, maybe he did something to justify her cheating so I'll have to watch it. And really, either spouse can take the kid.
@@kbanghartfunny how when women cheat its always "well there are 2 sides to every issue" but when men do it, it's frontier justice. And no, even when women cheat, they still have the upper hand in court for child custody. Its a mîsandrist system
He is also very very nice, I can’t remember if it was true, but actually in a podcast I listen to(small town murder) there is an episode they did(a seriously crazy cuisine, in morrice Michigan) they talked about the homicide of a man named “Kevin bacon” and actually I believe Kevin bacon himself either donated to his funeral costs or he tweeted about it and mentioned his family and everything like that, I know this doesn’t really make sense, but it just goes along with his awesome he is
I've been cheated on like many other people. Trust is hard to find in people again because of it. Moving on alone and accepting not everyone is the same. Being alone becomes normal and nice. Not having to answer to anyone and doing whatever you want to whenever you want is a great feeling.
Yes indeed. I bought 2 cars in the last 3 weeks, and put a deposit on a 3rd. Why? Because I wanted them. Know what I heard about it? Fuckin' crickets, cuz the ex-wife who always had problems with my "fun" cars is exactly that, my EX. Same for the RC aircrafts (plural) and firearms (plural) + copious amts of ammo for break-in day at the range that I bought in the last few months. Boys are going to the casino for Friday night? I'm there, and without having to "ask the old lady" and see if I can have my balls back for the evening. Buddy invited me up to Michigan for a weekend fishing trip? Just need the address where we're meeting and a list of appropriate gear bud, and I'll see ya bright and early Sat morning. I'll never be locked down like that again.
@@supramaniac502I figured that wisdom when I was a kid, and managed to reject every woman who showed interest in me and I'm now 25. People think I'm struggling to find a partner but in reality, I'm just pushing them away on purpose to maintain my freedom. Also, I realize that a lot of women want to baby trap you. Most men don't actually want to have kids, they just get baby trapped because they don't use protection and rely on her taking the contraceptive pills which she can suddenly stop whenever she wants. Guys also think if their girlriend gets pregnant it is automatically theirs when in reality, it can be anyone's. I don't struggle to trust people but I never see anyone I think is worth all the sacrifice that goes into having a long term relationship.
I love going home to my animals and garden for quiet reflection and solitude. I love being able to make my own decisions and having the freedom to really create.
@@HeatherMcAuliffe88 I wonder about this. I haven’t felt lonely 🤔. I get so much fulfillment out of my work friends and other friendships and pets. I don’t know if it’s bc I have a different personality type or if I’m just satisfied with spreading the concept of “soulmate” across a larger group. 🤷♀️
Class will tell, shit does smell, and water seeks its own level....sometimes these are the facts of life you have to encounter but do it with dignity!!!!
What I've learned from my experiences is that if the 2 of you are arguing, it's because you're fighting to keep the relationship intact. And when you no longer want to argue, it's because you're done with that relationship. You no longer want to make the effort.
The thing is, relationships should fail at ever having to argue. One should be intelligent enough to know how compatible they are to the individual that they are with, before they get into a serious relationship. You are going to want to treat that person with the same level of respect that you expect to get, yourself! Arguing about anything negates the respect you should of had with regard to their opinion, and it is at that moment whether progressing this relationship is advantageous to a wonderful life and relationship with said person.
Normalizing predatory age gap? She’s a grown woman and he’s a grown man and obviously she’s a more shit person than he is if he’s cheating on her oh and also don’t forget ITS A MOVIE 😂
Women that think a good man will react irrationally and uncontrollably in that situation never truly knew their man. For me it was after 17 years. When I found out I told her that they had one chance and one chance only at me being a cordial person and that was for me to personally meet him face to face that very day. It took her speaking with him for some time before he finally agreed. I told them both to sit there and just let me talk. After 20+ minutes I stood up and excused myself. He actually followed me to the door, expressed sympathy, and tried to give me a hug. I wasn't having that and I left. Our divorce was cordial and fast and she married him weeks after our divorce was final. A couple of years later she called saying that she didn't know what to do and that he was "losing his mind". She said that he couldn't forgive himself for what they did, that I was a good man, and that I didn't deserve it. His conscience couldn't allow him to be with her and they divorced. She is fat and is with a crazy, childlike, "former" meth addict now.
I think that man truly realized how much he not only damaged their relationship. But how much he damaged himself. The Bible says that that man destroys himself. God knows how much hurt was done to the original husband. And the family. So the punishment was mental torture for that man because his conscience was bothering him. I don’t know why he married her. He probably just after that point wanted to do the right thing. Clearly he didn’t like who he was with her.
Feel you i did the same two days ago i was locked up for 6 months and my wife cheated on me the whole time in my own house with my kids she went and visited me one month before i got out she left with her new lover i faced them both im broken i caint lie but im glad god showed me the truth i was always proud of my family they were everything to me its crazy how women act when you confront them about those things it's really sad to think that you can no longer trust a person
When you yell at them, you show them how much you mean to them. They hold on to that. That is their power. Make no mistake, letting go is what really will get to them
Then it's not cheating ... And therefore the cheater can't cheat ...and the Cheater wants to cheat so breaking it off defeats the point of cheating ... Which is cheating ... Get it? 🤦♂️
@@Majormoose1having the thought of being with another person while in a relationship with someone else and then ending it to be with said other person is most definitely (emotional) cheating. It may be the more dignified way to go about it, but that neither negates nor lessens the potential emotional impacts on the affected partner.
The craziest part of the scene is it is 100% realistic of what women do after they cheat. Use the kids and try to hurt the man they just betrayed in the worst way.
Excuse me? Weird cause i was cheated on and so was my friend and both "men" were the victim 100% by the end of the convo so good try 😂😂😂 men do it more and its facts. Women also do it for sure but waaayyy more men do it.
@@dallascordova9717 I’m not denying that women do it. And I agree they probably do it more often. But it’s still a FACT that it’s a narcissistic behavior and men do it as well.
In the movie, if you love someone for being a lovable character, And hate someone for being a hated character, then that someone is a great actor/actress.
This is the most relatable thing a man will ever face. A girl can cheat on you and once you even belittle her for it she’ll use your kids straight up against you and there’s nothing you can do about it.
Depends where you are. If you’re in a morally bankrupt country like US, UK, France, Germany yes. But in a normal place the cheater gets to meet God, rightfully so.
Why does she want him to get mad and scream like a "normal" person...so she can call him crazy and get him arrested? Do they teach these things in schools or is what nasty women teach to make other women nasty?
My ex did this then stole my kids and moved 700 miles away, I fought it and won full custody of my daughter and my son. I look back now through all the late nights at the hospital, the times when they would tell me they hate me, to when they turned into heroin addicts and destroying their lives, to when my son got clean and it's been 3+ years now, however still waiting on my daughter to find a reason to get clean. This all started because their mother couldn't be satisfied with a man who went to college and worked 18 hour days to provide for her and her daughter from another man. Women need to stop and use some reason and be accountable for their decisions.
Could have been worse. Every time my husband and I watch a true crime show and they say “(insert man’s name) raised (insert woman’s name)’s children like his own” that guy gets murdered. Every time. Every single time. Without fail. The shows where they keep you guessing who died and who was the killer are no fun once we hear the guy raised the woman’s kids from another dude. Because he always gets killed. So at least you survived because when you step up and take over for some bum who ran out on his responsibility, the kind of woman who wanted someone like that in the first place will never respect you and appreciate you properly. And she’ll possibly wind up killing you.
Damn my heart would break if my stepdad referred to me as “her daughter from another man”. I adore my stepdad though and he treats me like I am his daughter, so maybe it’s different.
Happened to me a few months ago, he was insecure and assumed i had hoes because he did. Refused to let it go and attempted to make me out to be a hoe myself, when reason and facts weren’t working i decided i was done with the disrespect. He said he would “Friendzone” me but i unfriended him, if you love someone you won’t turn on them and call them out of their name over baseless doubts. You’ll talk it out like an adult and make up, i’m glad he got overly insecure tho its how i found out i wasn’t the only one he was talking to.
Kevin " Mr. Footloose " Bacon acting like a real O.G. in this movie.Told the Mrs. to get the hell out and leave the kid. Didn't get emotional. Didn't yell, scream and shout. Kept his cool. Told ol girl you don't make the rules because you broke the rules. My man... Gentlemen, please pay attention. Man up when shit goes sideways and don't simp out.
My favorite part is the "No thanks" so calm so indefatigable. Like not even a single thought ever crossed his mind to yell because he likely suspected it and this is just the inevitable result. He was immediately done, she wasn't worth the effort of screaming.
The thing is you’re not just cheating on your partner when you decide to be with another person. You’re cheating on your family. You’re breaking your partner AND family’s hearts and trust. You don’t get to take the kids when you’re the reason your kids are hurting.
Psychologist have discovered that marital betrayal is the same grief as death grief over a loved one. For many it’s worse, especially considering what usually comes after
Imagine how different marrige would be if it was law that the person cheating loses all rights to property, money, and children. It would really put a stop to it.
3 things someone can do that will end a marriage... The Cheaters, the beaters, and the big dream eaters. No one should stay with anyone who does any of these things to them... be strong enough to walk away and begin again. Walk away and don't look back.
Based on my personal experience, this man is right. I did it the wrong way. I loved her. I tried to keep on going, and the destruction of trust caused so many problems - and then, of course, she was lying when she said she was sorry and "I'll never do that again." Two-and-a-half years later she was cheating again. Are there a small percentage of couples who save their relationship after one of them cheats? Yes, there are a few - but it's less than 10%, and they have to do an awful lot of work to get through the crap that the destruction of trust creates. But is it worth to go through all of that crap to maybe - just maybe - be in that small percentage of couples who make it - or end up in the over 90% of faithful partners who wasted more years of their lives with a partner who thinks cheating is okay?
"I'm taking Ella!" You know she only want the kid for revenge. Being married and a mother myself, I love my children so much even when I was angry to their dad, so long it's not abuse, I wouldn't even think to hurt my children by betraying their dad. She only love herself.
psychologically speaking, considering we dont have the strength of a man, a girl who wants to hurt someone will use any means to hurt them, their usual main weapon is verbal abuse. It is proven to be mentally damaging especially when they target your mental and emotional being. Just like how a man would get violent when they want to hurt someone. The psychology of a human is very fascinating.
This is like my mom she's cheating on our stepfather and acting like she's the victim. I will never go in her side. Edit:wow I did not expect this likes
Things like this, plus personal experience plus similar stories from friends, acquaintances, etc, is why i won't pursue another female. Disgusting. The thought of building your life with someone for them to change their mind one day. Hahaha nope. Not for me
Why do they always use kids to destroy the man completely!!!? Why can't they just leave men broken in peace, why do they have to destroy men completely?
Some men do it too. It's not gender-based: it's because they are narcissists. They don't care about the kids, the ex, or even the current lover. What they crave is power over others. They have to control not only what you do, but what you _feel._ Your happiness or your misery mean nothing to them unless they caused it.
@@ummisra I believe it might have happened with you but nowadays the low is more with the mother than the father. Whatever a female says against a man is always taken as a holy truth. Forgive me, but there are many broken men who have been tortured by their ex wives using kids
"No thanks... you gotta go." The power in those words was AMAZeON! Make boundaries and STAND ON THEM. NO MATTER WHAT! Stay Calm and be direct...SHE GOTTA GO, because SHE is already GONE
I really don't understand cheating. If you're at the point where you feel like cheating, you clearly don't love your partner enough. Just be honest and end it! Divorce isn't that hard. I can promise you, eventually, you WILL get caught. Then, the divorce will be hard and messy. People make it so difficult on themselves for no damn reason😆
Nothing worse than cheating man. You can always leave a woman but something about getting cheated on that shouldn't sit well to any men. Thingking women cheating is better than women being possessive is a loser take. Do you have any pride at all
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She did a perfect job. The lack of acountability, the playing the victim, the using the kids as leverage. Outstanding portrayal.
They always do.
When a man cheats? They act like it's all
Men, and that men are Dawgs, can't keep it in
His pants, heartbeat and a hole, etc etc etc.
But when a woman cheats? It's Not Allllllll
Women, it's a case by case basis
And she always has a reason why she cheated? Her needs weren't being met,
No emotional connection, he worked too
Much, no attention, didn't make her feel wanted, not enough attention
Never any accountability for her actions
She's a natural.
@@F_T2D_Drewshe did as directed.
@@MrMisterTrip6 Nah that's god given talent😂
@@MrMisterTrip6a lot of people can't naturally deliver as directed, she is a natural.
Man she plays a cheating wife perfectly. Even the fake indignation to make it seem like he's the one being unreasonable.
Accurate portrayal of a feminarcissist.
@@christopher_chan52 probably a women
@jayceesarant4371 just what I was about to say.
You guys will find out one day
@@christopher_chan52Ummm women😂
"I am 100% sure that I am not the one who made this ugly." TRUTH!
That hit hard.
Exactly! 👌🏽
@@tgatt5759 cause it was so true! I know it stung!
The cold hard truth 😢❤
Yeah i no
no slaps, no anger , no curse words, no arguing, no crying, no expections
left like a gentleman who'll never turn back now
He said shit and fuck. I guess those aren't curse words now.
@@phdwinnerLOL! Your response struck me as hilarious and juvenile. 😜
@@patriciaflowers701Struck me as a valid observation, lol. Also, since when is the bar for a "gentleman" as low as not slapping her, lol.
He did handle it very calmly a d from this context it seems like kind of like a gentleman. Though his last line could have read as a threat, I think it was a boundary. So I'd agree, he handled it well from what I can see... He still used "curse words" though, lol.
@@ceceliam9014 Ummm! Eat some humble pie. LOL! You took it way too far and yourself way too seriously regarding a comment not directed at you! LOL! I think we all heard the curse words too! LOL!
@@patriciaflowers701 You're the one calling people juvenile and insulting people after knowing them for a single sentence, lol. Slice off some humble pie for yourself, hun 😂🥧 All the best.
Never yell and get angry when cheated on. They don't deserve those emotions anymore.
People get angry when i say you should be able to sue someone who cheated on you. It actually causes mental health issues and it’s a life changing thing. It actually causes damage. You should be able to sue for those damages if you have evidence. 🤷🏽♀️ Took me years to love again.
You're absolutely right they don't even deserve that energy
@@thelightwithin7437 8 years and she cheated. Here I am still suffering for her mistakes. If I could take legal actions I would. It ruined the person I had worked so hard to be. I'm not that man anymore. The compassion has been stripped from my very soul.
wtf u gonna sue them for happiness cause at that point no money could fix anything the only thing that help me is finding the lord and forgiving the ones that do me wrong. u only get one life no reason sue someone just cause u didn’t really know them and yes shit hurts but it makes u stronger unless u straight up take ur own life then it’s hell for eternity 🙏🏼
@@thelightwithin7437nope. That's on you & your misunderstanding of humans & how they operate.
What cheaters don't realise is, we not only have to mourne losing them, but we also have to mourne our past, present and future we thought we had.
You hit the nail right on the head my friend. Even though the marriage is over, there were many years filled with experiences such as having children, living together, all of the holidays. I mourn all of that. But what I mourn most is being together as a family.
Said it perfectly brother. Hope you’re doing better 🤟
Almost worse than experiencing the death of a loved one because if you have kids with the cheater you have to see them again.
I love this. Your words are so true.
100% wrecked me
I like that. "You broke the rules. You don't make the rules now."
Too bad that's a lie. She broke the rules and she's taking the kid.
Great saying
@@aronedmondz3689 I'd take my kid and move country if this happened to me. They'd never find me
Exactly!!!!!
@@Hjh826The hell they wouldn't you will be found if you are a man and the kids would be given to worthless mother who can't do her job cause they don't give f bout guys in most places 😂
The gaslighting is immediate from the one who’s cheated 😮
Are you fucking kidding me the audacity of this woman.
That's the audacity of most women.
Just do a quick google search of the number of women who have killed their kids rather than let the father have custody. Thats the nature of most women. Selfish to the end.
It's a movie!! 😂😂😂
@@eazy2hate As much as it is this behavior isn't rare I see it all the time.
@@aestheticexo1145 i know this!
“i can’t do this right now” is the favorite line of anyone who was ever tried to be held accountable for their actions and still tries to play the victim
yeeeep
Yep.
And another liberal gets checked
What is the right thing to do when someone says that??
@@ericmcardle5406let me know
“it would help if you yelled like a normal person” the amount of mental strength and self control that takes is crazy
She says it's normal, but if a guy did that she would say he's abusive
Thanks for saying that. That's what I did when this happened to me.
She had a similar reaction to being caught too.
"People get cheated on, it happens"
I'm over it now, don't forget though. Sometimes I wish I had got angry, returned the cruelty.
Took a lot for me to be stoic about it, but I did, thought it was the strongest move.
Glad others think so.
@memeticmindset5474 That's the best move. It shows strength and destroys her perceptions of you as a simp weakling. Getting emotional gives her the drama she wants that led her to destroy the family in the first place.
I want to learn self control like that 💯 won’t feel like a man until I’m there
OMG ... my ex wife used to say that shit. When I was pissed off (which was frequent) at something ... I used to leave and go somewhere for a bit. Cool off, think rationally through what happened and figure if I was wrong or being the dick. Then I'd come back and I'd have it out with her ... calmly and objectively. She didn't want that ... she wanted the screaming match, fight, etc. She didn't like it when I used actual common sense and facts ... for a genuine discussion. Which was weird for a female who knew and witnessed close friends and family members getting beaten up by husbands and boyfriends.
Why isn't anyone talking about Kevin Bacon's acting in this scene?? His passive-agressive delivery plus the greif in his voice and eyes...... its absolutely incredible 🔥🔥💯💯
Everyone's busy making this into a gender war lol.😅. Some have even said that Amanda can play this character perfectly because she might be the same in real life as well.
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Has Mr Bacon ever made a bad movie? I honestly can’t recall a time when it seemed like he phoned it in. 😊
@@btb554Right? All genders get cheated on. One gender doesn't own that experience. It's a well done scene, acted well from both parties. I wish it didn't have to turn into a "that's what women are like" parade of the bitter 🤦♀️
I believe we have come to expect this greatness from Kevin Bacon. It goes unsaid. Legend.
The audacity to cheat and then say “I’m taking the kid though!” No, you ruined it, shape up or ship out
I find this culterally very interesting.
In my country its no question that the Kids stay with the mother (unless she s known to have been abusive towards them) as here most fathers simply dont care about their children and we simply dont trust men to be able to Look after or take care of them. They often cant look after themselves either as they are often going from 'Hotel-mummy' (where they are babyed) straight to 'hotel-wify' (where they often also dont have to lift a singel Finger in the household or with the kids). Sometimes ppl also asume all kind of ugly things (sexual abuse etc.) of a man if he s known to be alone with Kids. Its sad and (mostly) unfair I know but unfortunatly that kind of thinking is still in many heads. Kids are considdered a 'womans-job' here. Also for safty-resaons: Mothers dont have the nessersary body parts to sexually abuse a child (unfair and sometimes inacuarate as there are many ways to cross that kind of boundersies - I know). I guess we are also the only country I know of where a Baby that is born to an unmaried mother will always have the mothers and never the fathers last Name 🤷🏼♀️.
Out of interest... how is it over there? Do you guys really trust men that much? Are they more mature and ready for responsibility there? How are the general experiances there?
@@nicoleeisler7089father's not caring for their kids is demonic, satanic even
Not great, but staying faithful & parental abilities are not the same
@@nicoleeisler7089that's not YOUR culture, that's most of the world, it's human nature, women are supposed to be the more nurturing ones etc, better at raising kids. Some places have just loosened the rules in modern society. That's why s9 many men get upset, unless you can prove mom is an absolute useless monster, & kid is in danger for not being islet care of, they go with mom
@@nicoleeisler7089very few dads will do their own kids, so that's nonsense. There's natural instincts to not get with dinnertime closely related. I've if rhe biggest things is why women look into smell of a man, scent can determine if you're related
This is how you deal with cheaters. You don’t have to shout, just let them know that they get nothing. Not the house, not the kid, nothing. Their other lover can supply them with those things
Not how no fault divorce works. She gets the better half of everything, his sloppy leftovers crumble into nothing.
It's heartbreaking, because she only ended up showing him that the person he thought she was, is now gone😞
We end up mourning the loss of the person they used to be, & the new person they've become doesn't deserve our emotions
@@koboldsage9112in cheating cases, it's usually pretty even. Also they were both working. He has a good argument for keeping his daughter too.
@@RonOnTheWay well, here in Canada if you get caught cheating with legitimate proof you can actually get out of paying child support amd everything else. Once a child is involved it ain't just a 2 people Marriage anymore. Cjesters deserve nothing but public shame if anything
@@namehereplz13same in some states in America. North Carolina and South Carolina I know for sure are very favorable for fathers in those types of situations.
*Gets caught cheating*
*Tries to act like the victim*
The audacity of this woman 😔
That's not a generation thing. That's a cheater thing.
It ain’t nothing new now that I look at the years of human civilization it’s been that way for 100,000 years
Its a women thing, they have evolutionary lack of accountability
She's in her 30ies (I guess), not the actual generation
@@lightnekohappens way more in this gernation
She's not mad at what she's done. She's mad because she got caught, and he's not reacting the way she thinks he should. That pisses them off more than anything else.
"Why won't you fight for me?!" 😂
Very unrealistic and totally nonsensical.
Maybe not for some people. Maybe some people have no empathy.
Sometimes, not in this case, they want the partner to find out and freak out. Mostly narcissists.
@@BaltimoresBerzerkerbecause you're unworthy of me doing so I can't even look at you right now, get out of my sight and out of my home my child will not be coming with you from this day forward you are nothing to me and you will receive nothing from me, all of your credit cards and debit cards are null and void the locks have been changed in the house and the cars
That's how you handle it as man.
No emotion
No discussion
Just boundaries and enforcement.
There was plenty of emotion here. Did you mean no outward expression of anger?
Oh yeah, by the way he did kill his first wife.
Yes his wife cheated on him, but he killed his first wife.
He was a loser!
That is how all women should too.
I don’t know about no emotions. That crack about Max being able to go all night was pretty telling
@@eileennardicry
The worst part,she try to take the children and doctrine them and said this was the father fault 😂😂
She said it like a punishment.
That’s pretty standard practice for a lot of women nowadays. The minute they don’t like something in a breakup the kids become a weapon to hurt the father
@@jeremyswan5318or the mother. When the roles are reversed. No matter which parent does wrong the kids are always the ones who suffer the most!!
@@wayneosbourne6979Her cheating was awful, but he was a detached and broken dude who was reconciling with letting his former wife drown. She knew he wasn't capable of raising his daughter healthily before he did... and in the end he agreed.
@@tehmarok I haven’t seen the movie and I was just responding to the clip, but I am going to check the movie out
I love how she instantly turned it on him like it’s his fault for you making the conscious decision to step out of your relationship. If a man has no excuses ever that he can use to cheat, no woman can ever have an excuse either.
That's what he gets for having kids with someone whos about 20 years younger than him. Dumb move.
I got told once that it was my fault for looking at her phone and finding out. Never spoke about it to me. I just had that feeling. Checked. Felt hurt. Told me it’s my fault I’m hurting and my fault it happened and my fault that I ever looked. I should have just trusted her and let it be.
People don’t give a fuck about dignity or anything but themselves and even then.
True, I’m with you on that. Nobody gets a pass. We have to take our commitments seriously, or our words mean nothing..
Seriously! Man or women shouldn't be unfaithful. If your that unhappy leave the situation or talk to each other to try N fix what's wrong . If you can't then walk away . It's crazy how so many people rather stay with some one and be with other people too . Then get upset when caught and confronted.
Preach!
"He's not here. He has meetings."
Not what he asked!!
Right? And wouldn’t karma be great if his “meetings” were with other women? Lol 😁
@@TrishLan93just what I was about to say.😂
@@TrishLan93 No, because then he would be getting "lucky" AGAIN, on top of already stealing his wife away... Remember, both that wife and her affair partner need to lose, pay and suffer at least twice as much as he did or there is no justice.
@@HowlingMoonCinemasExactly so. Two parties involved, means two parties suffer the equal punishment. Simple, balnced, equitable, and equal.
Fini
@@RudeRedDog Not quite. Only one took the initiative to harm the other spouse first, the other was innocent and simply deserves justice.
"I can't do this right now," spoken like a true coward. 🙄
Thanks. I needed to hear that
And his response was perfection.
I hate this phrase more than anything. You can’t do this right now? If not now, then when? What is more important than us? Oh I see, “us” is only important when it’s convenient for you.
So many people like this.
@@madelineasmr926 It's basically running away from taking responsibility, it's cowardice.
She watched Trump to get the Coward part right
I will never understand why people caught cheating will then try to play the victim.
So that they don't have to suffer the shame and guilt of being a horrible human being.
Woman's logic: If a man cheats he's a dog. If a woman cheats she will justify it by saying the husband drove her to do it.
@jondoe4664 that's literally it exactly.
"Narcissism 101" tactic.
Look up "rationalizing".
I love this movie, it’s called
“The Lion, the Witch and the Audacity of this Bitch”
You Should Have Left
Ahh! Love this comment!!
😂😂😂❤❤❤
😂😂😂
No, really! How is it called?
He handled this perfectly. He didn't lose it. She did. She don't make the rules when she broke them. I like both these actors, but in real life, she's too young for him. They would have very little in common.
She could have legit played his daughter 😅
@@tacticalcrusader3709 THANK YOU! I can’t believe more people aren’t talking about this in the comments. I was disgusted as soon as the freaking clip started playing. Why tf is this SO normal in movies??
It was part of the plot i believe so its acceptable not just shoehorned in like uber flamboyant gay people most of the time
Prob why he made the comment about “all night” … bc of the age issue. I know & love some precious ppl who’ve married WAY outside of their age cohorts & the unions have worked, but not without complications. There ARE always some age related issues & complications. You truly have to discuss those, consider them & commit to enduring. The maturity of the minds, experiences or lack thereof & physiological maturity via hormones is TOTALLY different as well as after 50...EVERYTHING changes in the body. You can fight it with clean living, but you can’t ever fully escape it even with a ton of money.
she looks over 18 to me.
I acted the same. My ex is like why aren’t you yelling at me. “You aren’t worth it.”
And everybody stood up and clapped.
@@xwarped83I would have if I was there
@@xwarped83Why the sarcasm? That wasn’t exactly an outrageous response. I’m sure hundreds of men that kept a level head have said something similar.
@@nikki5399 and hundreds of men make up stuff on the internet. The dude could be a virgin who never interacted with a woman for all you know.
@@xwarped83 It’s worthless to call someone out for a realistic benign comment, and it speaks to the quality of your character as a person. But you do you man.
The movie is called "You should have Left"
It's deep, but it's really good movie.
I'm going to watch it right now
Boy that title says it all
it's good if the trailer didn't make you think it was a scary movie
Thanks!
Imagine cheating and having the nerve to say something other than sorry
Anything other than sorry🤦🏽♀️.
Even sorry is too much to me, just own up to it and leave. If they were really sorry they would have controlled themselves and never cheated to begin with.
They’re never sorry
@@danielmeyer1208 Cheaters never take accountability for their actions, they want immediate forgiveness and no apology.
It's called RESPONSIBILITY
Best part is when she can't attack him for being civil and clear headed. All the blame and guilt rest directly on her shoulders.
“I can’t do this.”
- Said by every woman who is the problem.
Or "I'm not doing this"
And after that doesn't work today's women like to think it's OK to hit men!
That is so true. And in every language I know of.😂
huh? men say it too, you know. Every person who doesnt take accountability have said the same thing.
@@iasked9392Nah men just say, “I’m going to go get milk.”
Kevin Bacon, bro. The legend. One of only a handful of actors nowadays who can play a bad guy or a good guy very convincingly. 👌
Yes, definitely
This!! 👏 👏
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He's both in this movie. Was a great experience. He's very talented.
Holy shit I didn't even recognize him
Has the nerve to cheat on him and then threaten to take the child. She wanted him to yell and shout so she could be a victim and feel less guilty.
Yep and then call the police and say she’s scared of him so they’ll kick him out of his house and then she gets to continue to play victim.
Selfish as hell.
@@tammyjohnson8150I haven't seen this though, maybe he did something to justify her cheating so I'll have to watch it. And really, either spouse can take the kid.
@@kbanghartfunny how when women cheat its always "well there are 2 sides to every issue" but when men do it, it's frontier justice.
And no, even when women cheat, they still have the upper hand in court for child custody. Its a mîsandrist system
@@kbanghartcheating is never "justifiable" no matter what... 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
I swear Kevin Bacon's hair hasn't changed since the '80s. 👍
He's certainly blessed with great follicles.
I love Kevin bacon what a legendary actor man
Yes I love him
He is also very very nice, I can’t remember if it was true, but actually in a podcast I listen to(small town murder) there is an episode they did(a seriously crazy cuisine, in morrice Michigan) they talked about the homicide of a man named “Kevin bacon” and actually I believe Kevin bacon himself either donated to his funeral costs or he tweeted about it and mentioned his family and everything like that, I know this doesn’t really make sense, but it just goes along with his awesome he is
I thought that was Jim Carey 😮
Never noticed how similar those guys look with a beard
Absolute 1 of 1
My dude said" your not making the rules.You broke the rules there are No rules anymore..."
Oh but there are rules. The rules favor her entirely.
@@koboldsage9112 only if you allow her to play her games
Stop acting like you know the way ahead, like you know the rules. There are no rules, man. We're lost.
Rules are for children to follow. So they are not injured in play..We as adults should not be hindered by such Parameters. Only by a A marxist facade.
@@koboldsage9112both legally and culturally.
He is 100% justified! It’s obnoxious how she has not even 1 ounce of remorse. What a selfish woman!
modern women... 🤷🏻♂️
KEVIN BACON acting on point always…%💯🔥🔥🔥
Don’t cheat. Simple as that. And if you do cheat, don’t expect anything to go your way afterwards
I've been cheated on like many other people. Trust is hard to find in people again because of it. Moving on alone and accepting not everyone is the same. Being alone becomes normal and nice. Not having to answer to anyone and doing whatever you want to whenever you want is a great feeling.
Yes indeed. I bought 2 cars in the last 3 weeks, and put a deposit on a 3rd. Why? Because I wanted them. Know what I heard about it? Fuckin' crickets, cuz the ex-wife who always had problems with my "fun" cars is exactly that, my EX. Same for the RC aircrafts (plural) and firearms (plural) + copious amts of ammo for break-in day at the range that I bought in the last few months. Boys are going to the casino for Friday night? I'm there, and without having to "ask the old lady" and see if I can have my balls back for the evening. Buddy invited me up to Michigan for a weekend fishing trip? Just need the address where we're meeting and a list of appropriate gear bud, and I'll see ya bright and early Sat morning. I'll never be locked down like that again.
@@supramaniac502I figured that wisdom when I was a kid, and managed to reject every woman who showed interest in me and I'm now 25. People think I'm struggling to find a partner but in reality, I'm just pushing them away on purpose to maintain my freedom. Also, I realize that a lot of women want to baby trap you. Most men don't actually want to have kids, they just get baby trapped because they don't use protection and rely on her taking the contraceptive pills which she can suddenly stop whenever she wants.
Guys also think if their girlriend gets pregnant it is automatically theirs when in reality, it can be anyone's.
I don't struggle to trust people but I never see anyone I think is worth all the sacrifice that goes into having a long term relationship.
I love going home to my animals and garden for quiet reflection and solitude. I love being able to make my own decisions and having the freedom to really create.
Yes until it isn’t and becomes lonely
@@HeatherMcAuliffe88 I wonder about this. I haven’t felt lonely 🤔. I get so much fulfillment out of my work friends and other friendships and pets. I don’t know if it’s bc I have a different personality type or if I’m just satisfied with spreading the concept of “soulmate” across a larger group. 🤷♀️
Cheaters don’t deserve any sort of romantic companionship. Male or female.
F ucken true. They know of themselves only.
“I’d feel a lot better is you screamed and yelled like a normal person” utter admission of guilt.
"You're not making the rules, you broke the rules." Amen to that! So many things entitled women can learn from this.
And males
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Entitled cheaters, the worst kind of delusional people.
@@Adjective-nounpk4rt but especially females.
Men and women can both be cheaters.
The best way to deal with cheaters is to let them go without drama, or an undignified reaction. Maintain your integrity at all costs.😢😔
Best advice ever & u can apply it to so many of life's unpleasant surprises...just move on w/dignity. Well said!
Legally get your ducks in a row, and then talk to them. Keeps it civil and police can escort her out if necessary
@@jacquiloughton5966 a welcome addition to the comments. Thanks!
Class will tell, shit does smell, and water seeks its own level....sometimes these are the facts of life you have to encounter but do it with dignity!!!!
Yep, because its all about the thrill for most of them.
What I've learned from my experiences is that if the 2 of you are arguing, it's because you're fighting to keep the relationship intact. And when you no longer want to argue, it's because you're done with that relationship. You no longer want to make the effort.
What’s the movie? Thanks!
How is THIS not at the top ?!
THIS IS EVERYTHING.
thank you.
@michellekurtiscole9407 movie: you should've left
The thing is, relationships should fail at ever having to argue. One should be intelligent enough to know how compatible they are to the individual that they are with, before they get into a serious relationship. You are going to want to treat that person with the same level of respect that you expect to get, yourself! Arguing about anything negates the respect you should of had with regard to their opinion, and it is at that moment whether progressing this relationship is advantageous to a wonderful life and relationship with said person.
Human emotions are some of the strongest “drugs” humans overdose on. Some people crave drama.
When he says, "No thanks." Whew. That takes a lot of strength ❤
Cheaters really only deserve each other, but they keep dragging other people into their crap
Kevin is timeless
No he isn't timeless, he is 65...and what he is playing the romantic interested of a 35 year old 🤢
bacon is timeless 😂
@@niqueo7576such an average response of someone just looking to hate
@@elixir2087 yes I do hate on normalizing a predatory age gap
Normalizing predatory age gap? She’s a grown woman and he’s a grown man and obviously she’s a more shit person than he is if he’s cheating on her oh and also don’t forget ITS A MOVIE 😂
The gaslighting from her is wild man, good acting if you feel like you hate her
It's normal, it's not wild. Meet more ppl
*people
Now that is a real man. Didn't lose his temper, just politely, but strict, kicked her out and kept the daughter.
Women that think a good man will react irrationally and uncontrollably in that situation never truly knew their man.
For me it was after 17 years. When I found out I told her that they had one chance and one chance only at me being a cordial person and that was for me to personally meet him face to face that very day. It took her speaking with him for some time before he finally agreed. I told them both to sit there and just let me talk. After 20+ minutes I stood up and excused myself.
He actually followed me to the door, expressed sympathy, and tried to give me a hug. I wasn't having that and I left.
Our divorce was cordial and fast and she married him weeks after our divorce was final.
A couple of years later she called saying that she didn't know what to do and that he was "losing his mind". She said that he couldn't forgive himself for what they did, that I was a good man, and that I didn't deserve it. His conscience couldn't allow him to be with her and they divorced.
She is fat and is with a crazy, childlike, "former" meth addict now.
@just_me2797, I love a happy ending
@@juliovazquez3166😂
Then Now she looks like how her inside is
I think that man truly realized how much he not only damaged their relationship. But how much he damaged himself. The Bible says that that man destroys himself. God knows how much hurt was done to the original husband. And the family. So the punishment was mental torture for that man because his conscience was bothering him. I don’t know why he married her. He probably just after that point wanted to do the right thing. Clearly he didn’t like who he was with her.
Feel you i did the same two days ago i was locked up for 6 months and my wife cheated on me the whole time in my own house with my kids she went and visited me one month before i got out she left with her new lover i faced them both im broken i caint lie but im glad god showed me the truth i was always proud of my family they were everything to me its crazy how women act when you confront them about those things it's really sad to think that you can no longer trust a person
Astoundingly underated actors. Both of them. Kevin Bacon doesn't make enough movies.
It's because he always picks winners.
He's done plenty. You don't take every role offered to you.
Smh
I love both of them! The range of characters they can play is amazing ❤
Yeah they're both good actors. Bacon has done great in many movies
Lol are you kidding ? Haven't you ever heard of the 7degrees of Kevin bacon ?
When you yell at them, you show them how much you mean to them. They hold on to that. That is their power. Make no mistake, letting go is what really will get to them
when a man keeps his calm, she has no leverage, it doesn't feed her emotions especially if she's wrong.
It’s sad but the children AlWAYS suffer the most😢
Not true.
If you're gonna cheat, don't be in a relationship, break it off.
Then it's not cheating ... And therefore the cheater can't cheat ...and the Cheater wants to cheat so breaking it off defeats the point of cheating ... Which is cheating ... Get it? 🤦♂️
The flaw there is she can meet someone she likes, have a no fault divorce, take his house and kid, then start that relationship with no contest.
@@Majormoose1having the thought of being with another person while in a relationship with someone else and then ending it to be with said other person is most definitely (emotional) cheating. It may be the more dignified way to go about it, but that neither negates nor lessens the potential emotional impacts on the affected partner.
The craziest part of the scene is it is 100% realistic of what women do after they cheat. Use the kids and try to hurt the man they just betrayed in the worst way.
Men do this too. It’s not just a woman thing, it’s a narcissist thing.
Excuse me? Weird cause i was cheated on and so was my friend and both "men" were the victim 100% by the end of the convo so good try 😂😂😂 men do it more and its facts. Women also do it for sure but waaayyy more men do it.
@@dallascordova9717 I’m not denying that women do it. And I agree they probably do it more often. But it’s still a FACT that it’s a narcissistic behavior and men do it as well.
@@dallascordova9717women do it more, they play the boss bih card until it doesn’t suit them and change to victim.
@@Renee1110women NOTORIOUSLY do this
Even being a movie the audacity of this woman is a common reality
Not really. That’s just what people say to villanize women. We live in patriarchy
@@meganmoney3479 Sure misandrist. The audacity of her is exactly a 1:1 to how both women and men act, don't be a bigot.
@@meganmoney3479 Find a new excuse. That’s one’s not working on men anymore.
@@meganmoney3479liar. You clearly dont know what its like. Idiot.
@meganmoney3479 And men don’t beat their wives
In the movie, if you love someone for being a lovable character, And hate someone for being a hated character, then that someone is a great actor/actress.
This is the most relatable thing a man will ever face. A girl can cheat on you and once you even belittle her for it she’ll use your kids straight up against you and there’s nothing you can do about it.
Depends where you are. If you’re in a morally bankrupt country like US, UK, France, Germany yes. But in a normal place the cheater gets to meet God, rightfully so.
Liberals, feminism and democrat policies bave destroyed America and the daying market! We are doomed in this country! 💯🤷
It's much better if you can hold it together. You holding it together is going to make the cheater go insane, they want you to lose it.
The strength it takes to not lash out in a moment like that, but not yelling and screaming at them is what it takes to really hurt them
Cheaters don't get hurt. If they had any emotional attachment to you they wouldn't have cheated in the first place.
Why does she want him to get mad and scream like a "normal" person...so she can call him crazy and get him arrested? Do they teach these things in schools or is what nasty women teach to make other women nasty?
My ex did this then stole my kids and moved 700 miles away, I fought it and won full custody of my daughter and my son. I look back now through all the late nights at the hospital, the times when they would tell me they hate me, to when they turned into heroin addicts and destroying their lives, to when my son got clean and it's been 3+ years now, however still waiting on my daughter to find a reason to get clean. This all started because their mother couldn't be satisfied with a man who went to college and worked 18 hour days to provide for her and her daughter from another man. Women need to stop and use some reason and be accountable for their decisions.
Glad you got your life back and God bless you and your kids much live brother 🙏 ❤️ amen 🙏
Could have been worse. Every time my husband and I watch a true crime show and they say “(insert man’s name) raised (insert woman’s name)’s children like his own” that guy gets murdered. Every time. Every single time. Without fail. The shows where they keep you guessing who died and who was the killer are no fun once we hear the guy raised the woman’s kids from another dude. Because he always gets killed. So at least you survived because when you step up and take over for some bum who ran out on his responsibility, the kind of woman who wanted someone like that in the first place will never respect you and appreciate you properly. And she’ll possibly wind up killing you.
18 hour days away and only seeing each other asleep? Drugs are definitely an unreasonable response but that relationship was never gonna last.
Damn my heart would break if my stepdad referred to me as “her daughter from another man”. I adore my stepdad though and he treats me like I am his daughter, so maybe it’s different.
Well thats your side of the story.
Usually the one who was found cheating will always blame the other half and make it look like they are the victim.
Happened to me a few months ago, he was insecure and assumed i had hoes because he did. Refused to let it go and attempted to make me out to be a hoe myself, when reason and facts weren’t working i decided i was done with the disrespect. He said he would “Friendzone” me but i unfriended him, if you love someone you won’t turn on them and call them out of their name over baseless doubts. You’ll talk it out like an adult and make up, i’m glad he got overly insecure tho its how i found out i wasn’t the only one he was talking to.
So true.
Kevin " Mr. Footloose " Bacon acting like a real O.G. in this movie.Told the Mrs. to get the hell out and leave the kid. Didn't get emotional. Didn't yell, scream and shout. Kept his cool. Told ol girl you don't make the rules because you broke the rules. My man... Gentlemen, please pay attention. Man up when shit goes sideways and don't simp out.
Having been cheatee on by a guy who gaslit me and tried to manipulate me, this woman is absolutely narcissist and evil...
The character…and yes it’s true my ex-wife was just like this.
My favorite part is the "No thanks" so calm so indefatigable. Like not even a single thought ever crossed his mind to yell because he likely suspected it and this is just the inevitable result. He was immediately done, she wasn't worth the effort of screaming.
That's what narcissists do. They flip it around and make it sound like it's your fault. LOL
The audacity for her to say she’s going to take the child after she’s the one that destroyed the family is crazy
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That’s a woman
No audacity at all. She just knows that the law is on her side.
@@Grimenoughtomaketherobotcryunder normal circumstances yes. He has proof of her infidelity. He's getting off better than most guys.
It was a threat. “I fucked it all up on my own so I’ll get you back because you found out”
He's not the one making it ugly, not being able to stay away from Max is what made it ugly.
The thing is you’re not just cheating on your partner when you decide to be with another person. You’re cheating on your family. You’re breaking your partner AND family’s hearts and trust. You don’t get to take the kids when you’re the reason your kids are hurting.
Exactly when you marry somebody you marry into their family and they, yours
That female said don't make it UGLY,GTFOH you broke the rules.
Yeah we watched the video
Come on man😭@@shamphyx.asphyxiate.1486
That “female” 😂 lololol
@@kristenkelly2022 theyre all flipped on the various stages - Hollywood and in politics.
"Stop acting like you know the way ahead, like you know the rules. There are no rules, man. We're lost."
Yeeees thank you 😭😭 I knew I wasn't the only one
CORALLLLLL 😂😂
Psychologist have discovered that marital betrayal is the same grief as death grief over a loved one.
For many it’s worse, especially considering what usually comes after
Imagine how different marrige would be if it was law that the person cheating loses all rights to property, money, and children. It would really put a stop to it.
Sadly, it wouldn’t. Ask me how I know.
Hate it when someone cheats and then acts like they did nothing wrong. This woman is unbelievable. Instead of appologising she is making demands!
I’m a “no thanks” person too. I dont waste breath on people who don’t deserve it.
That's how most of them are when they're caught lol
Typical reaction of a guilty woman. Pisses me off
Me too she gives good woman a bad way...I hate all cheaters ..why do they do that
"i cheated on you and now I'm taking your child".
" *So you've chosen death* "
I wouldn’t fuck with Kevin bacon like that
3 things someone can do that will end a marriage... The Cheaters, the beaters, and the big dream eaters. No one should stay with anyone who does any of these things to them... be strong enough to walk away and begin again. Walk away and don't look back.
Based on my personal experience, this man is right. I did it the wrong way. I loved her. I tried to keep on going, and the destruction of trust caused so many problems - and then, of course, she was lying when she said she was sorry and "I'll never do that again." Two-and-a-half years later she was cheating again.
Are there a small percentage of couples who save their relationship after one of them cheats? Yes, there are a few - but it's less than 10%, and they have to do an awful lot of work to get through the crap that the destruction of trust creates.
But is it worth to go through all of that crap to maybe - just maybe - be in that small percentage of couples who make it - or end up in the over 90% of faithful partners who wasted more years of their lives with a partner who thinks cheating is okay?
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A woman caught out and completely in the wrong: "Right, I'm taking the kids." 🙄🤦♂️🤦♂️
"I'm taking Ella!" You know she only want the kid for revenge. Being married and a mother myself, I love my children so much even when I was angry to their dad, so long it's not abuse, I wouldn't even think to hurt my children by betraying their dad. She only love herself.
Female warfare 101. Blame you. 102. Try and manipulate the situation. 103. Use your children as leverage
psychologically speaking, considering we dont have the strength of a man, a girl who wants to hurt someone will use any means to hurt them, their usual main weapon is verbal abuse. It is proven to be mentally damaging especially when they target your mental and emotional being.
Just like how a man would get violent when they want to hurt someone.
The psychology of a human is very fascinating.
Male warfare 101. Gaslight you. 102. Plays victim. 103. Says you have all the power and woe is him.
@@meganmoney3479 😂 I can picture the men you attract.
@@meganmoney3479guess someone's feelings got hurt. We're very sorry for you, honey.
@@iasked9392it is really interesting now that you point it out, I never thought about it that way.
Love how he responded to that. “You don’t get to make the rules”
" you are not making the rules now" you broke the rules
This is like my mom she's cheating on our stepfather and acting like she's the victim. I will never go in her side.
Edit:wow I did not expect this likes
Sorry bro. If he’s the only father you got, then keep him close and pray for your mom. Good luck. Someone is always here.
Same here bro, my mom is fing her boss and acts like she works hard for everything lmao
She sounds like a narcissist
Keep on going strong Bro! Everthing Will be better🙏🙌
Things like this, plus personal experience plus similar stories from friends, acquaintances, etc, is why i won't pursue another female.
Disgusting. The thought of building your life with someone for them to change their mind one day. Hahaha nope. Not for me
Why do they always use kids to destroy the man completely!!!?
Why can't they just leave men broken in peace, why do they have to destroy men completely?
100% agree. That’s what happened to me. I will never understand it. It is life shattering and devastating.
Some men do it too. It's not gender-based: it's because they are narcissists. They don't care about the kids, the ex, or even the current lover. What they crave is power over others. They have to control not only what you do, but what you _feel._ Your happiness or your misery mean nothing to them unless they caused it.
Men do this too like my ex-husband. These are the tactics of narcissists.
@@ummisra I believe it might have happened with you but nowadays the low is more with the mother than the father.
Whatever a female says against a man is always taken as a holy truth.
Forgive me, but there are many broken men who have been tortured by their ex wives using kids
There are no words that can explain a man who thinks he’s in a good marriage to find out that his Wife is not loyal
He handled it perfectly.
"No thanks... you gotta go." The power in those words was AMAZeON! Make boundaries and STAND ON THEM. NO MATTER WHAT! Stay Calm and be direct...SHE GOTTA GO, because SHE is already GONE
I really don't understand cheating. If you're at the point where you feel like cheating, you clearly don't love your partner enough. Just be honest and end it! Divorce isn't that hard. I can promise you, eventually, you WILL get caught. Then, the divorce will be hard and messy. People make it so difficult on themselves for no damn reason😆
You know what's worse than a cheating woman? An insecure over possessive woman ... they hurt you even more than a cheating one
Meh depends id say both are equally bad
Equally not good
Nothing worse than cheating man. You can always leave a woman but something about getting cheated on that shouldn't sit well to any men. Thingking women cheating is better than women being possessive is a loser take. Do you have any pride at all
How is that worst? You would rather someone fuck behined your back and not care about you at all? 😂 ok then
Yeah they cheat on you and then if you don't respond the way they want you to they try to go out of their way to harm you in other ways
The “I cant do this” is so accurate. Wish I didn’t know! 😂
"I cant do this"
"This" as in what you started 😂😂😂
She cheated and he stayed calm, clearly knowing that this isnt worth his time
That’s so true that when people cheat they want to play the victim
The fact he''s calm and doesn't care is what triggers her. If he was overtly emotional...she would be on cloud 9.
He handled that very well.
No no. YOU do not get to do THAT AND take the house, kick him out, and take his child! NOPE, YOU LEAVE.
that "no thanks" was the best revenge he could give her..