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HOW TO CONFIDENCE TEST OTHER MEN | PROBING THE ALPHA MALE
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- Опубликовано: 20 окт 2017
- Find out how to confidence test other men and learn why guys test other guys. Confidence testing is something that all guys should know about, and it's similar to how girls test guys.
This isint just primitive minded people.. this whole thing is used in a primal situation to show it in its simplistic form.. it's not monkeys pounding chests it's little jabs in conversations to see who you are.. I have been to nerdy socials and jock circles both do the same thing but on different levels and approaches.. if you don't recognize the things he's saying in the video you are anti social. Plain and simple. Girls shit test, guys shit test. It's human nature to find out what your strengths and weaknesses are subconsciously through conversation. What do you use emojis only? Psht beta
so disagreeing with a notion or "theory" that some one else presents to me about testing other men automatically makes me anti social??
You mean to tell me u use science as an explanation to say ppl who use emojis are betas? What? Not to mention there is no beta because everyone is and can be equal
A lot of people are disagreeing, however I think that you are spot on. Same concept, yet different application for different social groups. Really good points.
BRANDSdotcom i hear what he saying and the application of different social groups makes sense. But the fact that he acknowledges them as how we should be or all are is whats sad.
Adam ruins everything. Said on his sketch that Alpha amd Beta is a myth made by the same guy who said it was true, but discovered it was a mistake. Recommend you check him out 👍
A real man takes care of himself and his family, helps others and is nice to them, and doesn't alter his behavior based on something irrelevant like the opinions of others. He is kind, respectful, and doesn't need to bully or belittle others to feel superior.
Karl Hungus So tired of this alpha beta shit. Also, if this guy tries manipulating me with his little mind games I'm probably just gonna get pissed off. His advise to maintain eye contact with someone you don't know is a good example of how to get into a fight lmao. Good way to either get beat up or go to jail or both.
beta
True.. BUT he also protects himself and his loved one with ferocity and no hesitance. Notice I said HIMSELF.. so he also kicks ass and doesn’t mess around when needed. Don’t forget that or you aren’t a man.
Boom! Very eloquenty stated Mr. Hungus! I might add that it also is our duty to pass these ideals to the next generation, outside our families, in any way we can to do our part to steer young men down the right path!
stfu idiot
"Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the mouth." -Mike Tyson
Laughing out loud it should be everybody has a plan until they get punched in the mouth by Mike Tyson but all you have to do is write your plan down after you wake up and got the hospital you can always go back to where you started off at
FACTS!!! 😂😂
@@lucadollas lol; i totally get where you're coming from. but at the same time, it's honestly, always the place for this quote.
@@josephaether377 my dude i feel this but trust me. There has to be balance. I got fired feom my last job for taking the easy way out. But it feels so good!!!
Exactly my thoughts shouldn't be playing games like this with people.
"The defining trait of the alpha male is emotional strength."... So glad you said that. Most dudes think it's being the loudest, most imposing know it all you can be.
Ironic and not true. You simply calling yourself alpha is showing a ego and an issue with pride and a value of yourself. That's emotional weakness simply calling yourself alpha lol. A real "alpha" would be someone that is capable of.lowering themself and being able to still grow and push forward and be strong through the obstacles life gives you
Alphas are loud and have social recognition. Sigmas have emltional strength.
Guys who "test" other guys like that are insecure about themselves
Kill em with intelligence that usually works
@@sonnyblagrove1778 If he was smart he would realize we're all human and have remnant primal instincts. We're social animals after all.
Or gay. Totally gay. Interacting intimately with other men while any number of pretty girls walk on by.
No. They are not. If they do it to your face they are testing your metal. Wanting a little oomph back. Us alphas love it. You will never understand it.
True alpha males never need to refer to themselves as alpha male, they just exist in the role as a leader type and not that of a bully type, Stating "I am alpha male" denotes weakness, insecurity and wanting to be acknowledged
I'll make sure not to laugh around any pirates in a garage
afraid they'd laugh at you?
True Alpha’s have a silent ego and don’t get bothered by high school tactics
Rayfil Wong That’s what I was thinking.😂 Wth was this man, this is for little bitches. If a new guy in my group would start making jokes about my group members he would get rapped. Very bad advice.
In my opinion alpha is al about the presence, no need to joke around a lot
Teofannis Papadopoulos true a real alpha doesn't have to make it known people just sense it in you
exactly you know when someone means business you can see it without seeing it
Rayfil Wong Well then, it seems this video struck a nerve with you because there’s no such thing as a silent ego. The ego is an illusion. It’s all about perception. To you this may be high school tactics. To others this may be a difference maker in landing a big position or becoming slavish.
"You sure you can lift those cards up?"
"Idk man, if those cards are heavier then your girlfriend I'm screwed"
Austin Jefferys oh yes, this is it- funniest comment. You’re a freaking genius
Holy crap! That was good!
"You sure you can lift those cards up?"
I don't know man, when I pitchforked your newborns charred defiled corpse into an unmarked, lime coated grave on the way here, I may have aggravated my carpal tunnel syndrome...lol
@@RPAS1234 yes that will definitely catch him off guard
@@RPAS1234 wow awful. Way overthrowing it. U failed the test loser
If anyone talks to your girl friend.. Start dead lifting them by the belt . at least 20 reps.
I think you mean bicep curl brah
And slam them into the ground with each rep!! 🤣
while screaming "light weight"
"Haha you can't lift those cards"
"Fking wimp I'll lift YOU up"
I don't have a girlfriend
Alphas don't need to test others. The only reason to test somebody is if you feel insecure about yourself and don't know where you stand. Alphas are confident in themselves and don't need to tear down others to build themselves up.
No it tests them for emotional weakness he just said it the video you don't want a beta in your group because you want females in the group and they only want alphas
I test people so i know how to persuade them order to do that you need to at least a few books about it
Different types of Alphas. Different types of betas.
They may need to know how to put others in their place.
But an Alpha will put someone in their place if they're out of line.
I learned along time ago. Getting your ass kicked is alot better than being punked by a group of guys. Stand up for yourself and respect will follow. Confidence comes when you are not scared to speak your mind.
Gotcha
Truly confident men don't test other guys. They don't care what other guys are doing.
It’s good to know if it’s worth doing bussiness with a person
Don't lile being tested?
That's true. It's feminine to test people.
Yes but a lot of the time it is subconscious.
@@jacobtamkin6122 Because subconsciously they’re a bitch
The moment you care how you're being perceived by others, you lose.
Be aware of how you're coming across. But never, ever, ever, ever care what others think of you. That's none of your business.
Be open to improve, never to go low. Keep moving forward. And most importantly fear God not man.
True statements brother.
What if I believe that I am god?
@@erikw113 I personally would think that person would need to think that through if they're being serious.
@@AuziFox technically we made god through our conciousness just something to think about
@Hahaxd123 4 that's where being aware of how you're coming across plays in. What you know is right, wrong, ect. Not subject to change based off of others thoughts of you. The more experience, conversations, conflicts you get into the more accurate you become.
Worry about this shit is the most beta thing ever.
Lmao
for real. sad sad beta males
If North Korea drops nuclear weapons and the power grid goes down for moths it will send you back into the 18th century immediately. If you are a group of weak people who can't even handle a mean comment on facebook then you better order your grave stone sooner than later.
fact
Bret... what if you only hang out with alpha people who are successful, rich, buff,smart, tall, intelligent fighters with a hot wife and good smart children? and they start to bully and test your ass frequently. Maybe u have the same as them or more, but u still need to control your feelings and insecurities.
Any man who tests other men is a beta. If you're an alpha you don't need to test anyone, and even more important you don't need to prove anything. Just ignore the test, don't react to it in any way. All you have to do is keep yourself confident and treat everyone with more respect than they deserve.
Trezker well said 🅱️
Trezker I will take you word sensi
up until that last sentence: " trear everyone with more respect than they deserve". Some ppl feed off your ability to stay patient, forgive, and attempts at showing respect. Sometimes you gotta let ppl know you have boundaries
I didn't say to give them anything. Just don't fight fire with fire.
Trezker I'm not sure that's true 100% because without testing the strength of people you only just started to spend any meaningful time around, it's very hard to gauge the true character of a person. But I would say an Alfa would not discard someone because of there persona in group settings as away from the group he may have far more to offer than in it
Having to test other males is a glaring emotional weakness.
Mark Portnoy exactly !
Lol
I have always thought that. I never felt the need to test others’ confidence. I don’t even care lol
Depends on the situation. If someone's minding their own business or is even interacting with you and your own group but causing no trouble, then it's pretty shitty to test them. But if they're hitting on your girl or attacking you or your friends in some way, then it's good to test them.
@@duncan7593 Is that what they're talking about?
one sure fire way to boost your insecurity is to see every social interaction as a competition. you want to be secure? (or 'aLpHa') stop caring so much about what everyone else thinks about you and stop over reading into every social interaction. If someone makes a friendly joke in your direction, odds are they're just trying to involve you in the banter not sizing you up or trying to one-up you. If your friends are constantly trying to one-up each other and competing for made up 'status', find some new friends.
I disagree a bit there its dependent on the situation. Me and my friends are always trying to "one up one another". Whether it be trash talking each other's cars or body shapes or jobs, it's all in good fun. We know we respect each others decisions in our own lives and dont actually have a problem with any of it. It's all for fun and at the end of the day we've all got each others backs and are always willing to help each other with anything that we may need. There's never any anger it never goes too far just harmless jabs nothin but love.
@@jeffreyculberth1440 theres a difference between banter and actually trying to prove your dominance over your friends tho
@@SirDomin8r123 these are the hidden things which are always there but u never see for u are stupid. It doesnt boost ur insecurity, more like make u aware of how fkin weak u are and your name and profile is absolute proof of that. Thats why u have 0 girls.
When he asks if u can lift those, u ask if he can lift deez.
Alexander Jay ROFLZZZZ, good answer
Then you come off as gay ...sooooo
lmfao nAH its a joke you won't come off as gay
that sounds gay
TRUE ALPHA MOVVEEEEE
A real alpha has no need to dominate others and compete socially. They care about what others think, but only because they seek self improvement, not because they are in need of validation. A real alpha is beyond competition, you can't be better than them because they don't compete. They live to challenge themselves, not others. They realize that connection is greater than being at the top of a pecking order.
Jay Lee .I don't really believe in an "Alpha" at all, just stating what I think a confident person acts like. I'm not sure how an opinion can be untrue, but maybe you have some peer-reviewed research that lends credence to information that demonstrates my incorrectness? What do you think? It doesn't mean much to tell somebody that they are wrong. Why? I'd genuinely like to hear what you think, since I'd love to understand or word things better.
1. You don't compete with somebody who isn't competing. You can't.
2. The whole Alpha thing has been proven false even in regards to wolves, that is the research. Even in nature, these ideas about alphas aren't as cut and dry as people think.
3. Life isn't a competition unless you are petty.
4. I agree. But your statement doesn't make mine untrue. Mutual exclusivity is a thing.
5. Nothing vague about being focused on improvement rather than being better than others.
I don't disagree with most everything you have to say, the only thing I find silly is this "Alpha/Beta" way of thinking about life. It is a false dichotomy. There are more than two types of people, social competition is not even a necessity.
Although I agree you brought up some great points, there's actually more to it than that. Alphas do not feel the need compete because they are already at the top of the dominance hierarchy within their group. All the other members of the group have acknowledged that he/she is the most dominant figure and alpha already knows it. Alpha already knows he/she is the most competent one in the group and nobody else can even come close so he/she does not feel threatened by anyone to lose his/her position. But you will find that they are actually also the most competitive individuals because as soon as someone who is just as competent as them enters the group to take the top figure, alphas will compete harder than anybody to retain their position.
If you dont like the term 'alpha' because it's a word thrown around by douche bags then you can just replace it with 'the most dominant person in the group'. But real alphas actually 'did' compete; that's how they became the top dog. They just don't feel the need after their superior position have been secured.
When you said real alphas are beyond competition because they don't compete, it made it sound like anyone can just give up the competition and call themselves alpha because for doing that. If you think we can live without any competition, that is very naive because our whole society itself is a hierarchy. We are all in a competition of some form consciously or subconsciously whether we like it or not as we live our lives.
This comment is 100 percent on point.
U are really into alphas, huh
"You sure you can even lift those cards up?"
"I'll bet you $50 I can. Are you man enough to take me up on that?"
Mock his mock then put him on the spot. Always works
oh shit that's actually good
It sounds like you're butthurt when you're saying that, it makes you look weak. Trust me.
My response would be "I don't know if I can lift the cards, but I know I can lift all the chips I'm going to take from you."
I think I can lift the cards, I was able to lift yo mama too, so no problem
"...lift those cards?" "Yeah, lucky for me it doesn't take much strength to beat you."
Never done this to a person, or considered doing it. No need. Talk long enough, man to man, man to woman, and they will tell you their weaknesses just because they trust you. I've had friends talk about being beaten, molested, humiliated, raped, addictions, irreversible regrets. Some people I barely know tell me deeply personal things, and I am so grateful to them. All I do is listen. Listen to their story. They want to talk about what pains them. They want me to know because they can see I care. And that is not something I would ever think to exploit.
If another male is probing me for weakness in such a way as these, I see that as an act of high passive-aggression and I ostracize them. It shows immaturity on the part of the male, that he would resort to such petty tactics. Compounding this, many people attack in others what they fear in themselves, so... he is revealing his own insecurities by highlighting what he perceives to be a weakness in me. The whole premise is just ridiculous. And that sort of person is going to be the most vulnerable at the end of the day.
It's the old story. Get some balls make the shit done. No time for high school.
Or you can just stop hanging around middle school kids.
this ^
I feel you
hzh hzh Idk buddy, I haven't ran into something like this since I stopped hanging around more of a douchey type years ago. Now hanging around grown, stable adults, I obviously don't go through shit like this. But I guess it could still happen if I happen to trail outside like minded people, but I honestly wouldn't worry about their "tests". You know?
Amen
That's my job though
People sure have become extremely paranoid and delusional about social interaction.
When haven't they been my man
Mambutu O'Malley yep. None of this is how human interactions work except in the mind of the weak minded insecure individual.
Bravo! Very well said Mr. Lee, but but I feel we need to also do our part to help steer society as a whole in the right direction when we have an opportunity to do so. I wouldn't call young men that I've mentored a moron if they made a decision or had a belief that was misguided. I think it's our duty to help these young bucks, even when they act like morons, I've seen many a young man get re-routed and leave this way of thinking behind for good.
Lmao... funny 😆
I have autism so it's like 10x the shit show for me. I just can't believe things where always like this.
"So since you have trouble with the card weight ...you wonder if I might too?"
Dear God, what have I found. This is embarrassing
its a tutorial for incels
3 x beta
Think we've involved do you. Have you followed any politics lately?
Your wife said the same thing about you last night...
It is not embarrassing to help people constantly embarrassed in life
So it means that I never bullied those guys in high school. I was just testing them. Man, I am a hell of a teacher then.
Why you say?😢 I am a man of love actually. Gimme a kiss
swarnendu das kinda gay man , bet you were born from your father..
swarnendu das it was joke fam *gives a hug* :)
Milky you sound like such a cool guy can i be one of your betas?!
fuckin weird ass what are you some kind of music producing company putting out labels like that
You should put more examples of what to actually do in your videos because I always see these and understand the theory stuff really well but still don't exactly know what to actually do
Daniel Suelzle i would laugh but also trade insults at the right time, no corny shit like i said at the right time a jab or two is golden
This is all crap. Majority women go for other traits than dominance. U just got to search out the 50 % women fit for u. Only reason men fail with women is bcz women don't size u up in 1st glance like we do with women. 50 % women u should be able to fuck if u be around them long enough through some fake/genuine excuse.
Engineer Ahmad yea im sick and tired of hearing about ‘confidence’ ‘dominate’ i know a FUCKLOAD of guys with hot bitches who are little pussies and i know this because ive been in conformation with a lot of them and they all shit themselves
As he said, there are two options when someone is testing you. You can either insult them back, which takes away some of their ‘score’, or you could talk yourself up.
Let’s use the example he gave in the video. ‘Hey, are you sure you can lift those cards up?’
Option 1 would be an insult back (which I can’t actually think of right now), but I don’t really like that option because you can come across as a little butthurt, but it does let them know you don’t like to be played with.
Option 2 could be something like ‘is that even a question? Take a look at these guns!’ (While flexing your arms) which is funny and talks yourself up. Also, you’re not talking down to them which they will respect and you’ve past their test. What I like about this is that you can also use it when you don’t have any muscles, as it adds to the joke and shows you don’t take yourself seriously. Let me know what you think.
Or you can just agree and amplify: For example you say in a funny way "Yeah, my arms are thinner than toothpicks" .
It shows that you don't care about their insults and don't show weakness, but you still are eloquent.
Not answering isn't that bad of an option for example if you just look at him in a way that shows that its stupid what he said. But doing this multiple times without answering can also show weakness
Keep a straight face, keep eye contact with this tester and ask: "what do you mean?" and keep looking him in the eye till he answers (after which he will joke to deescalate the situation 9 times out of 10) then just coldly smile like "oh, hah". he wont test you again i assure you
You won't pass shit if you act like an elderly woman.
@@IXIskarfaceIXI wdym, what KN says its true
When a guy flirt with my girlfriend I flirt with his girlfriend/Sister. It's the french Blow for Blow way
Blowjob. U mean?
Wow great idea
An eye for an eye ☝️
There is an additional way: Just lift the cards and thereby answer his question. No emotional investment.
Then behead him with the cards, the worst paper cut of his life
There are no alphas in the comment section.
Saying nothing when tested is absolutely not the wrong response. Joking is for children. Making eye contact with the tester and not looking away first will be enough, and a little smile when he does will be the icing. Eye contact is always a better predictor of rank, and whoever looks away first is probably lower.
Body language indicates control, over yourself and your environment. The first key to control is to delay your initial response and decide if a response will help you further your agenda. Don't be a pawn in someone else's life, be a king in yours.
Also, answering his "joke" question with a straightforward response, "Yes, I believe I can lift the cards, but I appreciate your concern." will take his fun away and will direct attention back to the game and those taking it seriously, especially if there is money involved.
Remember, when you talk to someone, you are talking to everyone that can hear you. Promoting game play, you are speaking for the group, and they will take your side. When you have the group on your side, you have soft power, which is based on loyalty and respect for your wisdom and fairness. Hard power, brute force, is limited and chaotic.
Agreed. Whish you a fast journey to the Top Comment section :)
I love buzzkilling others' jokes. I get it from my dad. XD
BariumCobaltNitrog3n agreed
BariumCobaltNitrog3n good insight man, you painted an easier picture of it.
Analytic Rye Yeah, be like "It's not how I pick em up, it's how I put them back down, let's see what you got brotha."
All true shit but you lost me when you said "imagine ur skinny and weak"....I can't even imagine that 😂😂
Same tho
It don’t matter
Unless u weak
How would it be ridiculous to say nothing and be non reactive? I think that's the best thing. Matching him blow for blow means you're trying to prove yourself. Being non reactive and grounded while he is all over the place trying to get a rise out of you means you're the alpha.
friendly advice for the channel: dont fucus only on theory, give actual examples in order to be clear for us. Your latest videos lack exmples and they become dull
Yeah it was a good video, but give an example of how to poke back or something like that believe me it would make people learn more from your videos in a way that they can apply it
It's usually best to reply with another joke, so in this case, something like, "i had no trouble handling your girl last night" , while laughing and looking at the other guys to get them laughing too. That one works even if he is single, or you could use "your mum" .
Ozzie Manly Man I just realized the first person to stop poking fun is more beta than the other so 2 confident ass guys will probably have a fight if they tried to test each other lmao
Being in the moment and coming up with something original on the spot is one of the hardest things there is.
PornobrillenAli there's some hard shit in life, that ranks very low. Is there anything about his life, appearance, or relationships with other people (social status) that you could poke at? Unless the people testing you are fucking angels you should be fine finding some way to poke back. Worst case if you somehow can't just laugh it out because that fails but fails the least since it shows you aren't emotionally weak but it doesn't quite show that you're emotionally strong either. If you laugh everytime you probably won't be a punching bag but you will never be highly respected or the leader of the group either.
"Can you even lift that card?"
"No man, that card is heavier than your mom"
Baam!! test passed
QQ251647742 painfully unfunny
In my area that comment will get you face punched in..momma jokes is a big no no..certainly when with strangers
“Can you even lift that card?”
“Naw, actually...”
*sits back
“why don’t you pass it to me?”
"Can you read 'em?"
So... his mom is LIGHTER than a playing card?!
Was she cremated???
I just walk into a room brandishing my love stick and make eye contact with everybody, the one who keeps the stare the longest, is the alpha.
Unless the alpha gets bored & keeps moving, unfazed
Being mean and violent is not being an alpha. When you were in school, was there ever a bully that you respected? That you wanted to be friends with? Or did everyone just hate him? Instead think of the guy who let you copy his homework, who was always respectful of you, who had friends that laughed. Did you think you were better than him? Or that he was mocking you for asking for help? It's not about fear. It's about kindness, and if you wish you were the bully, and not the guy who helped you, then maybe, instead of challenging strangers, you should be challenging yourself.
WalnutWisdom This is about being alpha, not being the nice guy or the leader...... That bully you know most likely was the alpha. You don't HAVE to be mean and violent to be the alpha, but it does work as long as you are the strongest/best fighter, which is the actual way to being the alpha.
WalnutWisdom I wouldn’t call being an alpha being a bully more of just if someone picks at you don’t be a bitch and wilt. If someone picks at you and you guys aren’t super close and they don’t know what’s going on in your life fully and you show weakness they’re going to subconsciously take note especially if it gets a reaction out of other people
That may work for walnuts...
@@DarthObscurity You have no idea of what being a true alpha means.
Being a violent thug and being an alpha male are more or less the same things. You are trying to use alpha as a compliment to describe character traits you find good, which is just pathetic. To be the dominant male is to be the alpha, and men who are violent are usually dominant.
This is all very interesting, but I'm gonna chose friends and partners in my life who accept, and appreciate me as I am. I don't need to dominate or be the alpha to live a good life. The action of seeking more power or status over other shows insecurity to begin with. Kind of paradoxical in my eyes
All people do this. You do this. It’s subconscious
Your friends will accept you for who you are but they will make jokes and they will notice your strengths and weaknesses. If your friends see a lot of weaknesses and insecurities in you, they’re less likely, for example, call you when their car breaks down as opposed to the friend that seems to have his shit together
Calm down snowflake
Oscar Nunez Films so your a Beta....
Blood Time Maximus Full Throttle Productions I would assume you are as well, as only betas would use your instead of you’re.
RealSunKing I’m not defending anyone.
This doesn't sound very alpha. This sounds like teenage girl gossip drama.
Yup, I sent this to my mum instead of taking it to heart because she has similar problems amongst her all female colleagues.
Yup straight up... you wanna test me... I'll bust your face up... fuck ya. Did I pass?
Hahaaa
Colm O'Brien sup bro
morbidcorpse
So what your saying is that i should let him have my girlfriend?
"Can you lift the cards to the center of the table"
"I dont know, do you think you can win the next hand"
Getting defensive is good as long as your 1) intellectually gifted, 2) control your emotions and 3) which prolongs from 1-2, that is reverse this on them. For instance, if everyone was ragging on you, than start to burn them all one by one. If the jokes are in good humor, than trust me, they'll burn each other or laugh and say I like this guy. Or else show these dudes that you don't play like that if it's a super disrespectful comment they made. You'll see how close those guys are and how tough that person is. Remember 1-2, if the signs look bad and their all right with a bad rep, than they might want to fuck you up. At that point RUN, no good amigos in my book.
Lol.... being a 32 year old millionaire makes you the alpha in nearly every situation..... except when you meet a billionaire for the first time!
There will always be someone above you, just relax and be true to yourself. Be a man. Be a good man.
John Irby or you get your shit kicked in by a real male while you throw stacks of money crying for them to stop...
@@chibigaming1860 Bahahahaha. I could put his "alpha male" ass in a crate and have him shipped to New Zealand... no one would ever know what happened 😉
I'm joking. But seriously in a hypothetical scenario...I could probably pay 6 of the biggest guys on the planet 20 grand a piece to knock some sense into him so he doesn't make the same mistake ever again...
damn can i get $100 CashApp for a good cause
Chibi Gaming
Nope, the "real male' would just get his head torn off by the rich guys bodyguard (s).
Also, if you're at the top, you're a prime target for elimination as well as subject to time's effect where you slowly die losing power and see everything you ever worked for slip away from your grasp as you return to the womb of darkness like a baby, bald and afraid.
E. Isolate yourself from society and watch memes all day.
Science
I'll be taking b
Holy shit yes
Pick the cards and rip them in half, and say you're next.
I lol'd
Too aggressive. You will be shot down. Alpha- WASP - High Intelligence crowds require a more subtle reaction that may be equivalent to psychological torture. If you kicked him in the balls or knocked out his teeth that is considered a weakness. On YOUR part!
@@berylrosenberg704 Yeah, sure. Because everyone likes to poke fun to a fucker that rips your ass off when you don't respect him. Heck, even if you just slap him and you keep acting like nothing happen will make you past the test. There are many ways of power, and above all is the physical. This shit test are just "civilised" substitutes of the real test of strength: a fight. If you step up the game and go to the core of the challenge (and win), they will fear you. If afterwards you act normal and doesn't hate the guy, they will respect you. You are just saying "we could all be friends. But if you challenge me, I'm gonna show you why it's a bad idea".
Super cringey reply....
@@berylrosenberg704 No not at all boy
True alphas only bark when they have to.
exactly they know themselves and have nothing to prove
What she saying is that a true alpha male only barks when they have to and they shoot alpha male tries to help others who are weak become strong
Im an 18yo apprentice in a convinience store. The district leader of the chain of convinience stores i work at met me for the first time, shook my hand and asked me "What do you want to be when you get big?" I answered "Your boss." He just smiled, laughed and winked haha.
sounds gay tho
RandomGames Come here boy
To be fair, you just established yourself pretty well there.
Not every Alpha is gonna have a witty comeback. Thats one of those skills not everyone has and forcing it can make you look insecure and corny.Theres nothing wrong with remaining unfazed and not entertaining the joke
Lol your comment is a nightmare if the bully is witty. All I can think about is the Sopranos and mafia movie's like Goodfella's when Spider got his foot shot off for talking back. In reality, maybe people should have a line or two so they don't look like sitting ducks?. Just in case have them ready to go and read the situation from there. If someone is bigger than you and also cracking jokes about, you than you should clap back. That's how a lot of your mother or sister starts coming in, so be prepared. Funny to see how many insecure people are downplaying "Alpha males " aka bullies. There all over, just be ready for it.. If you live in America than you have no excuse. We have nothing but time to better ourselves over here. Learn a punchline or two and treat them as measurements for how hard you want to go. Go light and expect them to keep coming back with the jokes. Or else go hard and end that shit right there and then, yes it could turn physical by going that route.
American GanGster Lock if your dealing with a witty bully firing one or two jokes back at him doesnt stop him.might actually just encourage him to do more because hes witty n good at it. we cracked jokes on eachother in hs all the time and it wasnt a big deal if you didnt have a comeback. come to think of it,this desperate need for a comeback is the thinking of someone whos sensitive and if your being constantly targeted and piled on and bullied.everyone knows how you have to handle a bully,and its not jokes
If you're controlling the flow of the conversation and someone tests you, you can just ignore their question and keep the conversation going. It makes them look awkward AF lol, especially if it's a group convo
You seriously should educate yourself on psychology and biology before spreading this much misinformation.
Mambutu O'Malley behavioral study u must be smart guy
This what he said is all true.
Exactly how is this misinformation? This Seems like a beta tactic; claim the information is wrong without giving proof to substantiate your claim.
C.J. South do you really believe the whole beta alpha thing? Like just be confident and be yourself.
@Andrei Marco Bravo lmao now everything seems like a test 😂😂
I have never done this, but have always been amongst guys who do. At the end of the day, Im not going to waste my words with other men. The little jabs and reaction tests in conversation are very juvenile. Confidence means nothing. It is nothing. Confidence is ONLY true when it can be fully backed up by physical action.
Ah yes, the passive aggressive social manipulation that encapsulates most of what I hate in our society.
same
Same but its reality.
Right ^ ya have to adapt to your situation and surroundings. Or you'll lose.
You sir are pathetic.
Acknowledge and prompt: I bet you cannot lift those cards.
-You're right, hand them over to me.
Guaranteed way to pass any test. When they make fun of you just look them straight in the eye and say ..." I like turtles..."
Tell him I strong enough to lift you up... fight fire with fire..
thats why I punch first & then introduce myself. lollllllllllllllsssssss
Jayden Valentine noob
U mad bro?
Self harm is not a good thing bro. Seek professional help.
I did that... Spent the night in a cell...
Its healthier than in a hospital
Well then what the hell am I supposed to say back, you provide the problem or theory but don't give us much of an answer.
Liam McIntosh facts
You simply say the card might be too heavy lemme pick you up instead in a laughing way.. make sure he laughs too lol
For the example of if someone makes fun of you to test whether you're a pushover or not in front of a group of guys playing poker, he said to neutralize the situation or hit back the same way. The second situation where someone was flirting with your girlfriend, he told you to find a weakness and capitalize on it with a joke or remark. He told what to do. You have to get creative and witty about what you do. Quit acting like a sheep. He doesn't have the answer for every single situation in the book.
You don't always have to be funny and jocular. You could respond intellectually and say something like "true strength transcends far beyond the physical" and those meatheads would be like "Eh??". That oughta shut em up. It isn't always about witty banter. I understand that's something not everyone is good at but its not the only way you can respond.
Fonch Z could work, but I think most people will just laugh at you.
I don't get why it matters if other people have confidence, focus on yourself.
Yeah but this is the thing because you have confidence and they don't deep down, this is why someone challenges you because he hates you being better than him.
This is basically a transferral of energy. It happens every time we meet someone. This is why after being with some people you can feel drained and other people can make you feel energised.
Primitive. An alpha male doesn’t subjugate other males. He doesn’t knock them down. He helps everyone stand tall which is best for the development of the community.
Not really. He does what he wants, just reasons of "knocking someone down" of "helpy everyone stand tall" are different from "betas".
Miggie 101 You might as well not be a human being then. You're not at all helpful to the overall cause.
Erosis of common shuttles That's the point, Einstein. If it's his choice to knock other people down, then he's not a real alpha and leader of men.
Miggie 101 I'm talking about a world where you don't intentionally shit on someone else just so you can prove you're better than them or take what they have. We're not fucking animals. Answer me this: Are you the type of person that would go out their way to fuck someone else over, or do you just go about your business with no real bad intentions, but also a lack of empathy for others?
Miggie 101 That's what's wrong with the world. The millions of people just like you don't want to change because you're happy subscribing to the way things are. It's hard for alphas to lead you into a better world if you don't help them.
If you think you are an alpha male I can promise you the smartest people in the room are laughing at you behind your back.
Gumby R0b0t u sound like a hater. Why? Are you a wimp?
Gumby R0b0t knowledge is power so if you're not the smartest guy in the room then you are not an alpha to being with
@@OGdienomyte850power is power
Gumby R0b0t as if would know lol
He's right alpha males are different in today's world than it would be if we went back like 100k years ago
“Why couldn’t I pick them up? Are they a full house?”
This is very true, coming from first hand experience. Folks who doubt this are probably the ones who subconsciously run those tests on weaker, less witty men. I am partially mute and can't respond with witty comments in time, and have been knocked down the ladder by my peers and even some family members. Most of the time, they don't even know they are doing this because they have been continuously tested and forced to learn how to pass each other's tests. If your witty dialogue system is broken like mine, then silent intellect is the way to go. It's okay to appear rude; appearing rude is better than appearing weak in these instances. Actually, I would call it stoic, instead of rude. Being stoic and respectful when you recognize that you are being tested by self appointed alphas will enable you to get to the next level, so to speak. When it comes time to respond to a "dig" at your ego, just smirk and giggle under your breath to play it off like you know something they don't. This should confuse them and give you an aire of mystery. This turns you into the true alpha, who doesn't care what others think and decides not to play the game. You make them have to play your game of mystery and they have to now try to decipher your next move, but they have no information to go off of.
Response: "Sure I can lift these cards. Are smart enough to play though?" Smile on and game on.
ishaq "I dunno, they look heavy. Can you help me out, muscles?"
Lamo this gave me Parkinson's
Nep Nep me too
Nep Nep Laughing ass my off
As someone who always had a new girl hanging off him. I can say that they love a mixture of strength and weakness.
Strong enough to stand up for her, but soft enough so she doesn't feel threatened.
Trust me, works a charm.
I think this gives some solid fundamental advice with dealing with insecurities such as being a short male or maybe having something you don’t like about yourself. We all have insecurities and it’s never fun to be poked at. This gives you practical ways to deal with it.
Which mana potions or spellbound cloaks/bowstaffs can i purchase on Amazon to upgrade my alpha level, i cant be bothered to go to the gym or improve my social awkward demeanour? Thanks in advance
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To be honest the people who use this tactic help me see who is insecure, you wouldn't test someone unless you were afraid of them. When my girl is at a bar and someone is flirting with her I let them, it's up to her if she wants to be with me and it shows the real side of people.
Sean Carlson You are a beta. Congratulations
And you have no girl. I can already tell
He is himself.
He just said the truth.
Don't be concerned about that 3C-FD.
Seeing both of your RUclips history's I'm not tripping haha
Yes you are sleepin', i'm suprised you get it.
This kid one time kept pushing my buttons as we were male practice members for the female basketball team in college (to give them competition) I just tried to shrug it off until one day I finally told him “I will beat your ass” in front of the whole team.. he said “what do you mean”… to which I replied, “you heard me”… from tht day on the energy shifted and I stopped practicing with the team… but it’s a real thing.. some dudes are insecure af and will pick at you just bc it gives them a sense of whatever.. and sometimes you need to set it right… if you’re truly confident in yourself and seek to be viewed as confident and competent.. be kind but be solid.. don’t ever let someone picking at you get out of hand.
Terrible advice, silly way of looking at things. Don't be so self-conscious and worried about what other's think. Waste of energy. Waste of life.
Have confidence in yourself and your ability. Gain this confidence by trying/learning new things and mastering skills. As a confident man you will not worry about "tests" or passing them, if someone is trying to get a rise out of you... ignore. Problem solved.
Worried that you lost status? Boo hoo! Don't let it take up your headspace, it doesn't matter. You know yourself. If you allow others to pull your strings then you are nothing more than a meat-puppet. This video is simply a guide to becoming a predictable sheep who looks to fit into a paradigm. If status is this important to you, then you may be looking at the world through a very narrow lense, time to open up the view and see the bigger picture.
Alphas march to the beat of their own drum, but being Alpha isn't everything. Omega is just as important, but less thought of, balance in all things.
***Bonus*** If you are looking to get girls and think this video is the answer, you may end up getting quantity, but will fail to find quality. You receive back what you put out into the universe. Play "testing" games with boys and girls or grow and connect with real individuals. The choice is yours.
Having confidence in yourself is key
Well said brother
This type of test requires an insane amount of alert awareness at all times to test every man around you. I had never even heard of this until this video. Trading blows among friends for a good laugh, yes, but ranking them among an "alpha" scale is ridiculous. We always show mutual respect and talk to one another if we feel the respect has been breached. That is the mature thing to do, instead of worrying 24/7 if you can get one up on your friends. If you feel this is you, you might need to meet new people or just relax. Respect yourself and others and you will be respected.
This is a good example of what people are referring to when they talk about "toxic masculinity"
Adam Haskins sjws you mean
The premise of the video is that this is the type of stuff that happens when you meet a new group. Out of curiosity, exactly how many times a week do you or anyone you know go to a strangers's garage to play cards?
If you're like most people, this is not a very common scenario.
In other words, it's not like people go around "testing" each other every day in every life scenario; you don't for example start making witty comebacks to your dentist or the guy serving your coffee.
Only because the examples are such an obvious extreme that they come off as overly aggressive. The real test is just a game in conversation. Games are fun. Winning is more fun. If establishing your position in a group of what should be friends sounds to you like a potentially dangerous situation, you're either in prison or you need to find new friends.
The wolves behavior makes perfect sense. They are ridding themselves of weak links. Amazing how accurately all this matches with human behavior in prison. Well done. Interesting stuff.
good point key words in prison
I think it depends heavily on which country you are in, if you are in a poor country you will often come across more tougher,assertive men and not having the skill teached in the video well you will just be a joke a someone who will not been taking seriously , but if you are in a wealthy, friendly, nerdy, new age society acting like this is gonna make you look immature.
Though this kind of thing should come naturally and not be forced then it is just gay lol, but still i really like this video some people need help to realize this and stop being a punching bag and hit back and become less anxious and depressed and become a happy balanced man :) /Mr. Nice Guy
This is prison logic
more like self-aware logic
Pac Man I don't like prison logic cuz if someome shit talks me I'll just get a charge and actually end up there
I worked in food service with a few people who have been in prison. One guy kept giving me shit about having dirtied a strainer after I had already clocked out. I told him it's just one dish, no big deal, and he kept it up, until I told him to drop it. At which point he puffed up his chest, took a step toward me, and asked me what I was going to do about it. I reached behind me and grabbed a mop and told him, "I'll beat your fucking head in with a fucking mop handle!" Sometimes in life prison logic is what you have to depend on.
David STOP FUCKING LYING FOOL
I'm sorry, but have we met? Do I know you from somewhere? If not, then you don't know me or anything about me. Who are you to call me liar?
This is kinda obvious though, don’t let others pick on you or you’ll look weak and others will also pick on you
not for everyone unfortunatly
Many of the comments stating something to the effect that "real alphas are better than this" are missing a point:
Yes, developed and mature men are able to carry themselves without "putting others down", but that's different from being an "alpha male". "Alpha male" refers to one's perception by others in a largely reflexive way. It isn't related to maturity, higher-level leadership, or kindness.
Additionally, the way a person "tests" someone else isn't always a put-down or attack. Sometimes it is more subtle than that.
Just go in gym like me
Never think people thinking about me
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Why can’t everybody just be nice to each other? If somebody is weak, my instinct is to help them, not take emotional jabs at them.
We will soon live in the age of fully automated luxury Communism and these primitive games will no longer be necessary
Dream Train amen to you dt..just continue to be nice regardless of of some one's perceptions of you or your perception of them...now that is power..rite on dude
Dream Train It is the societal responsibly of the strong to teach the weak how to be strong themselves.
Opportunism.
What I like to do is just call people out on what they're doing. I told a guy a joke once, and it got a laugh from him. Later he and I were talking to a girl, and he tells her the joke and looks at me to see how id react. I start laughing at him, and "so what type of reaction do you expect to get out of me?" He said "dude I can't get a response out of you man you're always the same." I said to him "That because I don't think you're engaging. I don''t like pretending with people." He took offense to that and said "What i'm engaging". The girl laughed and said "Yeah if by that you mean annoying." I laughed with her and said "yeah you could say that." I think I technically failed the test, but to me, if you know what this game is about, then why would you want to play unless you really had to? I appreciate this video. I'll use this information, but fuck these dick measuring games. I'd rather be a loner than have a friend group like this. That's just me though.
This is a great video and spot on
I see alot of truthful comments that are also spot on. It's sad because alot of weak minded individuals have picked up this insecure traits and I have witnessed this first hand. It's a sad new insecure world we live in.
Fuck man! I wish I'd watched this as a young teenager. I was bullied daily for years. I know this stuff now but the video just conceptualised and organised it into a summary. This should be showed to all victims of bullying. Perfect.
What if you kept quiet while being in a position of strength. Like for example, being silent with a dominant body language and face expression that says your not worth talking to or something.
Quazimodo that sounds like it should work, I don't know what he would say about it but I like it
Daniel Suelzle This is what I usually do in these types of situations. The other person or group just ends up being quiet and looking awkward.
That works well for me. I'm but somewhere somehow people are going to test you. To see can they stagnate you, I learned and Have to remind myself not to get vexed over there audacity of trying to test me. No one is beyond testing. I think it's intuitive for most people to test others. Eventhough it seems evil. If I except what this guy said. As it is what it is philosophy...He has really just validated me on how I should view these issues. People show me this all the time. But on the real when you look like a alpha you intimidate the whole structure of a bunch of pretend to be alphas. Who will kick you when you down. Kick you back down if they see you get up. See I just Got emotional there. Because I'm pissed that it all seems so damn petty. But essence since I could not afford to be weak. Opted out of weak shit like cigerrets, and drug usage.then I started reading self help, spiritual, religious type books. But check I ain't always that strong. And it helps to know that when I'm sitting down playing cards. The first thing mofos want to do is verbally try to attack you. So you can get emotional and not play as well. I always thought the shit was Stoopid and petty. but hey it's a laugh off. Turn on as a compliment. Clap back with scarcastic honestly. I found out that there's nothing wrong with letting the main stand up on my back. It's a natural offense and should not be considered a defense.
+Theo Sully
You've been holding those thoughts in for a while, huh?
+TheOne
I like being meta with my comments at times. No need for the homophobic name calling friend, just a tongue and cheek response. Nothing more nothing less. Cheers!
be sure of yourself. Thats what sets you apart from high school tactics. Its the difference between waving a big stick around and knowing you have a big stick.
Real alpha male acts like a gentleman not like a kid in high school.
So emotionally confiding in someone makes you weak. Great
Apollo Spade factzzz
And then there's the type of Alpha that helps them transform from Beta males to Alpha males while maintaining his dominance and superiority and gaining the trust and allegiance of the Alphas that he invested in. Being the King of the Alphas is the best Alpha Male that anyone can be
Zyzz brah!!
Read the comments. most people DID NOT understand what video was about. Well, good luck on your hard way then.
P.S. no one ever thinks about testing. they just do it subconsciously.
Oh man, when he mentions that sentence: In the animal kingdom....no more, done, quit...
only betas test.
like the saying in india.......... the elephant doesnt stop moving because of the small village dogs barking.
Wanna be true alpha? Boy.
Tip: This is a test
leave my mum out of the conversation miss rye
AKA Immersion Networks India is a beta country. If it was alpha a shit stain like Pakistan would not have been tolerated so long.
Sujit Sharma you are correct. Pakistan is the alpha. We just don’t give a fuck and we can trample u timid fucks in seconds.
pakistan doesnt figure anywhere you chuth..I see these days you are begging the US for aid...not very alpha is it?
If they're talking shit just talk shit back, if you get them mad enough your the alpha
Branden Thomas there was an old chinese saying, first one to punch loses, he ran out of ideas
if you go out of your way to make people mad you are losing potential friends and made enemies. That is not a masculine quality. IF you talk shit back its just a case of two idiots bickering.
vitamincisgoodforme This is by making ennemies that you become successful. Friends are dangerous.
Gemik LeBest you can become successful by running your own business from home without talking to anyone lol. But when you make enemies - people who constantly undermine you and plot your downfall behind your back it is definetley not healthy for anyone. Great cities don't get built in times of war.
If you are with a girl and a guy tries to hit on her by saying something, just pretend that he was talking to you, and tell him you really appreciate it but that you are taken.
There are some stray cats that came up to my house recently, and they hang out on my front porch where I will feed them. The front yard is fenced in, and that is where I let out my two dogs to do their business, which usually consists of two types of transactions, but that is not important. The male, the tomcat, refuses to run from the dogs, but the others do choose to run. Guess which ones the dogs chase? The dogs will run up to the tomcat and stop because he doesn't run away. The cat will put his head down against the dog and then go about his business. Now, I would definitely say that the male cat is an alpha, in that I've seen him act like one. But that does not mean he tries to challenge the dogs over the territory of the front yard. Sometimes being an alpha involves compromise apparently. So he is exhibiting alpha behavior by standing his ground, but he does not let the dogs provoke a fight. This brings me to an important point. Being an alpha does not mean constantly challenging or responding to challenges aggressively. Doing so may actually serve to show weakness. The tomcat is so confident that he knows he doesn't have to fight the dogs, but he also does not respond in a way that makes them want to fight him.
My dad was a boxer and knocked out dudes 4 times his size all the time. Every time someone disrespected him he got physical or called them out constantly. You had to be careful on how you joke around him. My uncles told me if people did things behind his back or disrespected him, he would show up at their mama house where they lived to pick a fight. My dad is still aggressive even though he is an old man. He taught me how to fight and never afraid to speak his mind if something bothered him. Is he an alpha?
I did make a joke at him.
Edit : (Im in the hospital)
Dasiono 😂😂
Unintelligent drivel. Emotionally jabbing people is the stupidest way to learn what kind of person someone is. You will learn far more by being perceptive and finding ways to get along (common interests). People are likely to tell you things they enjoy and divulge all kinds of emotional weak points if you befriend them. Then it's up to you what you do with that information. Making yourself likable is one of the most important things in leadership. All of that said, however, smart people don't typically spend time on dumb people unless there is something to gain such as friendship, business, etc. We are too occupied with furthering our success in life to care about the pettiness of juvenile minds.
I work in contruction so i talk up to 200 people a day. The most interesting thing is that if you do your work well and be respectable and polite at first people open up. Then you have your situations with each individual while working talking which bonds you slowly with them. Given even 2 weeks you could be almost like friends and very close. Then comes the showing that you understand them when they have hard times. I want to point out something. To be good friends with everyone and get respect as well you have to adjust to their paste and style. How fast you work how much you 'show' you agree with them. How much you share on the more personal level.
You guys have no idea how much someone is willing to share to someone they dont know just by askingthem . Its really astounding for me. People are so open and the irony is the more people you try to know the more you see those that are sneaky or lying or just bad.
Plus everyone has a quirk or some sort ,something they need that you can fuffill that they will like you afterward. That maybe a help on a task , a help on a subject with info or giving them credit etc.
@@beastmasterbg lmfao, I know people exactly like you, don't be surprised when I say this but a lot of those people opening up to you just want you to please shut your fuckin yap already
With my mentality. The first test... I'd probably just give the guy a dead stare and lift the card up, continue playing without saying anything. I guess the lack of expression, silence and dead stare is to say "I'm not fazed, Try harder" or a "see for yourself" whilst I lift the card up.
"those cards look heavy, you sure you can lift them? haha"
"aw, how sweet of you to show concern, you're clearly in touch with your feminine side"
*Awkward silence*
I think that we have to understand that there are different kind of people, for example if you are a guy who has the qualities of an alpha usually most of people simply give you respect and a place in their lives because usually is what they want (Someone who leads and protects (Beta men and women) and there is other kind of people who wants the advantages of being an alpha but have not the qualifications (Douchebags). Those are the guys you have to be careful about because they are going to play tricks on you to take your position, and usually are not direct, like talking bad about you, making remarks to make you look bad, etc. If someone challenges you, the best thing to do is to ignore, let the people judge themselves, I have been in situations where lots of guys flirt with a girl I am with, and if you start feeling jealous you loose her respect. But If you let them talk, they fail on their own 90 percent of the time, because they have not the qualities and the girl judges herself. If the guy is an alpha you have to use your qualities in order to compete, which in my experience wins the one who has more emotional background with the girl or the group. The problem is too take it personally or as a betrayal, making you weak and look desperate, the only way to feel confident in this situation is to really be a guy with the proper qualities to be an alpha, because if for some reason the other guy "wins" (which mean you decided to quit), you can get another girl the next day. A good competition stops only when you decide to quit. And if a girl goes with a douchebag she is not the kind of girl you really want to be with (Low morals, or not intelligent enough to recognize the interaction)
id just like to thank you for your videos, not just your channel, a few others as well, but these last couple weeks i have found a new confidence in myself. People are commenting on my new swagger i have gained.
Not Sure That's clean bro
what do you mean man?
oh shit, nvm lol. forgot my name is not sure on here. Yea, its clean af man. People have noticed my attitude change. Its crazy. My brain has been rewired recently, i have a new outlook on life. This channel has been a major part of that.
Not Sure Where did you get the new outlook?
Basically if a guy asks “Are you sure you can even lift those cards?” And he has an eye patch, you go “Maybe, are you sure you can even see the cards patchy?” End of game, you won.
So basically don’t take shit... if you need to hear that advice to know it good luck being an alpha