Mastering Non-Reactivity: Thomas Shelby's 4 Key Factors!

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  • Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2024

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  • @TOBZ333
    @TOBZ333 Год назад +698

    Thomas Shelby should be the perfect role model of the modern man. We need to learn the art of being unreactive

    • @marauanencube6621
      @marauanencube6621 Год назад +19

      More to life than that

    • @eeeee2215
      @eeeee2215 Год назад +4

      What is happening to masculune equation channel?

    • @Masa6x
      @Masa6x Год назад +34

      The perfect role? Hell no. There are absolutely many things you can learn from him, many of which Shayan covers. However he's still insanely flawed. He keeps his family in the dark, has really shit interpersonal relationships, uses people like pawns for his own gain without their knowledge or consent, which makes him a great character, but you shouldn't try to be exactly like him.

    • @eeeee2215
      @eeeee2215 Год назад +11

      @@Masa6x well you shouldn't be exactly like anyone lol, bcz your moral compass is not the same as them, hence even if you have a perfect role model you can't actually agree with him 100 percent. 'Perfect role model of the normal man' I think this guy meant in the corporate and business, especially the political realm as they are full of corrupt leaders

    • @TOBZ333
      @TOBZ333 Год назад +12

      @@Masa6x the point of making him a role model doesn’t mean copy his character but rather select the positive ones for example the art of being unreactive. Many men can’t discern it’s common sense to know what is positive and negative only fools will want to copy his negative traits

  • @SelfPreserved
    @SelfPreserved Год назад +141

    The video starts at 7:03

  • @JohnBeck-pb9xl
    @JohnBeck-pb9xl 9 месяцев назад +18

    The thing to remember about Tommy is that he survived the great war. Not only that but he was a part of one of the MOST dangerous and Stressful units of that war. Tunnellers. Thay had a massive attrition rate. To come through that it's not surprising that he was able to master his emotions, on the flip side it could have utterly and absolutely broken him as it did in real life to hundreds of thousands of young men of the time.

    • @X-7-JAMES
      @X-7-JAMES 8 месяцев назад +1

      Reminds me of the tunnel rats of the Vietnam War.

  • @mayahdoss7050
    @mayahdoss7050 7 месяцев назад +3

    1. Non reactivity
    2. Emotional regulation (especially through physical exercise, breathing and meditation)
    3. State breaking questions (used to redirect conversation, thought, or power. Use sparingly.)
    4. Regulating your mask (maintaining control over ego by thinking ahead and planning all the way to the end and only showing emotions or weakness/strengths strategically.)

  • @harshit73
    @harshit73 Год назад +156

    It would be a huge help if you could make a video on showing emotions strategically and using them to your advantage,
    Loved this video ❤

    • @EzianoRübben
      @EzianoRübben Год назад

      Great idea 💡

    • @aikogiron3449
      @aikogiron3449 Год назад +1

      That is called manipulation.

    • @a1uplift212
      @a1uplift212 11 месяцев назад

      In a positive direction*

    • @tesla9665
      @tesla9665 10 месяцев назад

      All you had to do was control your social life. Don't text or call to everyone but just the ones that matter😂

  • @BellaRigelOrion
    @BellaRigelOrion Год назад +64

    No matter the format, you content remains highly informative & valuable. Thank you for all that you take the time to share.

    • @randomfunnyposts
      @randomfunnyposts 10 месяцев назад

      wtf are u talking bout xd
      u did acid while watching it?

  • @MOGA775
    @MOGA775 Год назад +14

    bro your channel is like a diamond in the coal mine, I'm with you for the last 1 year.
    Lots of love from India.

  • @jimmybrings5071
    @jimmybrings5071 Год назад +19

    The moment my doctor said my medical condition will be with me forever, I learned to become reactive and force me to none reactive in any social pressures throw at me. Despite of this condition I’m glad to have it. Learn the dynamics of life.

  • @torii1514
    @torii1514 8 месяцев назад +1

    13:41 I like how the script mentions/ foreshadows a topic that will be shown later in the video here. Keeps the viewer interested.

  • @maxvandenberg2063
    @maxvandenberg2063 Год назад +13

    I’m glad you’re back Shayan, can’t wait to see all the upcoming content💯⚔️

  • @erikjaircontreras
    @erikjaircontreras Год назад +2

    We will all accomplish our dreams & goals 💯

  • @chidieberesamuel357
    @chidieberesamuel357 Год назад +1

    Ur videos changed a lot of men lives respect

  • @robertdwayne1868
    @robertdwayne1868 Год назад +7

    Perfect timing Mr Wahedi, correction Dr Wahedi. I started trading about a month ago and realized my biggest problem wasn't lack of trading related knowledge but lack of emotional non-reactivity and I've been working to improve on it over the past week. I'm excited to gain knowledge from your video. Thank you for the tremendous value you provide to us for free on youtube. Keep rising Shayan and let us all keep rising as the viewers of this amazing channel.

    • @rafayashfaq5663
      @rafayashfaq5663 Год назад +1

      how did you improve?

    • @robertdwayne1868
      @robertdwayne1868 Год назад

      @@rafayashfaq5663 I developed my strategy so that I have a more solid edge/high probability setup. Then i made sure to write down in a detailed manner why I'm entering a trade. This would give me more confidence in the trade. I then set predetermined stop loss and take profit. I'd tell myself that I've already lost this trade and I'd feel comfortable with the amount I'll lose. Then I looked at the chart always(during managing the trade) without looking at the amount of money my trade is making or losing

  • @Ravish-s2e
    @Ravish-s2e 20 дней назад

    Most well spoken person I've ever seen

  • @freedomekawu2202
    @freedomekawu2202 5 месяцев назад +1

    This is one of the best RUclips’s I’ve watched in a long time. Big ups sir👍

  • @Heyedwardmb
    @Heyedwardmb Год назад +2

    Hell yeah this are the videos we've been waiting for!!

  • @MishiqAurora
    @MishiqAurora Год назад +5

    I have mastered non-reactivity in online classes and meetings 😌

  • @Patricia-Wafoes
    @Patricia-Wafoes 8 месяцев назад +1

    And keep breathing in stressfull situations. Especially: exhale. Find the silence in yourself...

  • @chad2299
    @chad2299 Год назад +5

    Shayan is back and that's what I need to regain some power 💪🔥
    Can you please add exercises ? Show us how to use these

  • @BarclayWallace
    @BarclayWallace Год назад +5

    Love these videos. Watching it now 💪

  • @rawoomsha3153
    @rawoomsha3153 Год назад +8

    After watching this, I love it.
    It's time to take note and do it. Thank you again, see you on Friday!

  • @mujawar9725
    @mujawar9725 Год назад +4

    As usual fascinating video love that 😍😍
    And waiting to weekly videos
    Love u

  • @kermitthedog8442
    @kermitthedog8442 Год назад +4

    YES!! I know i'm going to love this video.

  • @bornfacemwaura
    @bornfacemwaura Год назад

    I love how you talk about Tom...

  • @angeliniclavelini1553
    @angeliniclavelini1553 Год назад +1

    At first taking cold showers is hard but later you notice you want more cold. I don't know how to explain it, you definitely have to try it. Now I can even relax while having the shower at max cold.

  • @PowerHubShorts
    @PowerHubShorts Год назад +5

    Another MasterClass video mate!

  • @RPGFURY1
    @RPGFURY1 Год назад +4

    Please make more videos like this specifically on tommy Shelby

  • @rawoomsha3153
    @rawoomsha3153 Год назад +3

    I have to watch it again with subtitle🤩

  • @I.M__Mohit__Raikwar
    @I.M__Mohit__Raikwar Год назад +6

    I am with you keep it up 🖤

  • @adishsoni997
    @adishsoni997 Год назад +6

    Hey man Great videos, have to say the quality of videos has improved significantly and are more captivating ,doing a great job making them and hope your channel grows.

  • @GOlone9597
    @GOlone9597 Год назад

    I've already practiced this in the past. And now I became (too) aloof.

  • @listenepitome
    @listenepitome Год назад +1

    Shayan forget Thomas Shelby, I really like the way you sit and talk confidently in suits. Awesome brother. Create videos on ART OF SEDUCTION ROBERT GREENE.

  • @christopherthrawn1333
    @christopherthrawn1333 Год назад +5

    Excellent work as always Sir.

  • @Harish_lax
    @Harish_lax Год назад +1

    Posting these types of video would help us more you think. ❤ So kindly post further video.

  • @alexsarkol86
    @alexsarkol86 6 месяцев назад +4

    Be carefull to USE nonreactivity and not BECOME nonreactive. Your loved ones should get an emotional response, not over emotional but proportionate.

  • @omkarkhurana6986
    @omkarkhurana6986 Год назад +11

    You always produce the BEST content Shayan. Thanks for your knowledge, efforts and exercises ❤

  • @PowerfulLife1
    @PowerfulLife1 Год назад +1

    Go up and never stop
    Be yourself

  • @forzaXvale
    @forzaXvale Год назад +1

    Love to see shayan active again ❤

  • @realkhan6887
    @realkhan6887 Год назад +1

    love the way you talk brother!
    very helpful content,
    hope to see a video about “ being kind but not weak or disrespected”

  • @gosple2
    @gosple2 Год назад

    Shayan is back! Glad to see you have another Tommy Shelby video.

  • @pazariel4518
    @pazariel4518 Год назад +2

    You are the best. Thank you for make this videos for us to learn how to improve ourselfs.

  • @aminatghaei1124
    @aminatghaei1124 Год назад +2

    عالی بود داداش
    خیلی شانسی چنلتو پیدا کردم
    کارتو ادامه بده واقعا درجه یکی❤️💪
    Keep up the work you're the one;)

  • @harshit73
    @harshit73 Год назад +3

    Thank you so much for this man, love your content

  • @kennyrogerbadayos9970
    @kennyrogerbadayos9970 Год назад +7

    Thanks for this hardcore knowledge, Mr. Shayan Wahedi!

  • @daisybluegroff
    @daisybluegroff Год назад +11

    Shelby has PTSD from WW1 and his nervous system is most likely very dis-regulated. The non-reactive behaviour can also be the freeze trauma response. Another way to look at this is if you regulate your nervous system, situations in front of you are no factor. Stoicism also helps. TS is one of the most compelling characters the past decade, Murphy is a master but glamorizing a fictional character isn't getting to the core of self mastery. It's just window dressing.

  • @rawoomsha3153
    @rawoomsha3153 Год назад +3

    Thank you for your awesome videos🤩👌🏻

  • @gabrielskillzz3063
    @gabrielskillzz3063 Год назад +1

    Always nice to see a peaky blinders video from Shayan

  • @RakeshRam-t7t
    @RakeshRam-t7t Год назад +1

    welcome back Shyan Wahedi

  • @danielleesam3466
    @danielleesam3466 Год назад +2

    Thank you I just love your videos

  • @SepehrHosseini-id7fz
    @SepehrHosseini-id7fz Год назад +2

    Amazing bro , please make some videos of Jessica Pearson and her verbal skills

  • @MotivationSportPodcast
    @MotivationSportPodcast Год назад +4

    *🙏🙏🙏"Do not judge anyone just because they committed a crime other than yours..."*

  • @shilzi
    @shilzi Год назад +2

    Thank you Shayan ❤ 😊

  • @khanbhai1318
    @khanbhai1318 Год назад

    The Tommy's character is absolutely phenomenal.

  • @PrashanGan
    @PrashanGan Год назад +4

    Great video! So much knowledge was provided. Keep making this type of videos❤

  • @elavapersonal5938
    @elavapersonal5938 Год назад +1

    Good one valuable information . Consistent quality content like this from your side is much appreciated

  • @davisantos2634
    @davisantos2634 Год назад

    the videos are perfect, we come out much more complete and masculine

  • @harshp9074
    @harshp9074 Год назад +1

    This video was good. If possible then include more exercises like those to become a high status individual man.

  • @byronjohnson8346
    @byronjohnson8346 5 месяцев назад

    NEED A EDITOR? KOOL. I MIGHT STEP UP. STAY RELEVANT. LOVE YOUR WORK.

  • @YondaimeApproved
    @YondaimeApproved Год назад +2

    Thank you 🙏🙂

  • @mintesinotaasfawa7661
    @mintesinotaasfawa7661 Месяц назад

    my man, I am lost back in life back in time. I have an amazing character of my own on which people identify me for who I am, like you mentioned, to set my boundaries, what makes me happy, and things I like and don't like. But these days I am Lost 😢 I have sold my being mine to others and the external world after one crucial moment in life cursed one help get me myself the lost me please😢😢😢

  • @gtaswerve
    @gtaswerve Год назад +14

    I’m surprised you did all these body language analysis videos and didn’t even talk about James Saint Patrick! One of the most complex alpha male figures that made it on tv… please look into the power series! Not the books i mean the FIRST 6 seasons of that drama series

  • @yas19yolunyarisi82
    @yas19yolunyarisi82 Год назад

    Thanks for changing my life.

  • @abhishekaggarwal2936
    @abhishekaggarwal2936 Год назад +3

    Carry on

  • @mainulislam3999
    @mainulislam3999 Год назад +1

    Audio quality is good.

  • @adhammohamed3165
    @adhammohamed3165 Год назад +1

    Missed this content!

  • @alihanzaz4127
    @alihanzaz4127 Год назад +2

    well appreciated and high value informations

  • @MindOverThisMatrix
    @MindOverThisMatrix Год назад +1

    As always, amazing video!

  • @Businessbrainy1406
    @Businessbrainy1406 Год назад +2

    You will be fearless in the face of danger, when you know that YOU ARE THE DANGER

  • @kalamzaheer
    @kalamzaheer Год назад

    Without too much graphic your videos very nice

  • @sultanalabri1
    @sultanalabri1 Год назад +3

    Thanks Shayan ❣ great videos as usual
    Could you please talk about who should go to college and who doesn't ? I think this topic can be very valuable 📈

  • @adhammohamed3165
    @adhammohamed3165 Год назад +4

    I appreciate you doing this kind of videos man, really needed in life!

  • @Paweł-o3s
    @Paweł-o3s Год назад +2

    Shayan, you are goat. Keep it up!

  • @sabanangel
    @sabanangel 8 месяцев назад

    Very good job with this type of video.....AMAZING and very useful information..... FOR LIFE
    Thank you..... Keep doing and excellent job.

  • @Kashiwa-no-ha
    @Kashiwa-no-ha 9 месяцев назад +1

    Control the animal inside you, but never weaken it.

  • @khuzaimaoji199
    @khuzaimaoji199 4 месяца назад

    I love this videos i only come on RUclips for this.

  • @sharp_guy2310
    @sharp_guy2310 Год назад

    Hey wahedi. It would be nice if you put a video on how to walk with confidence and fearlessness.

  • @Alex-jx4wf
    @Alex-jx4wf Год назад +1

    Missed your videos

  • @annarostocka5468
    @annarostocka5468 Год назад +1

    Loved this kind of videos❤

  • @angeliniclavelini1553
    @angeliniclavelini1553 Год назад +11

    Basically this is stoicism

  • @aadilshah4451
    @aadilshah4451 Год назад

    It does not coming from watching this kind of videos, it simply come when you see your reaction dangerous outcome.

  • @sajid4uali
    @sajid4uali Год назад +1

    Subscribed!!! Good 👍

  • @tanyahorula1060
    @tanyahorula1060 10 месяцев назад

    Ptsd generally comes with dissociation and an ability to compartmentalize. Perhaps that harnessed might also contribute.

  • @AndreiPascu
    @AndreiPascu Год назад +1

    YOU PROMISED! YOU BETTER UPLOAD NOW

  • @Aliwoo_
    @Aliwoo_ Год назад

    u don’t post a lot so i know for fact this is a detailed ass video lets go

  • @shubhumrajput3620
    @shubhumrajput3620 Год назад +2

    great

  • @memunariaz3292
    @memunariaz3292 Год назад +1

    Great content, appreciation from pakistan 🇵🇰

  • @RPGFURY1
    @RPGFURY1 Год назад +1

    Don’t stop making videos on tommy please

  • @NeggaJoker
    @NeggaJoker Год назад +1

    Thanks for tjhis video sir

  • @Rayen-m2s
    @Rayen-m2s Год назад +1

    I really enjoyed the vedio thank you.. Please make more vedios like that be active and serious to this channel i watch all vedios of this channel And I am waiting impatiently to the new vedio :')

  • @agmg3059
    @agmg3059 Год назад +1

    Friking amazing man its just what iam doing and trying to do i have this trait from young age 😂 and its cool 😎 iam learning this now from youtube

  • @PowerWithin11
    @PowerWithin11 Год назад

    How are you Shayan? Its been a long time since you upload your new wisdom in a nutshell Vid, very nice!✋

  • @0Fallacy
    @0Fallacy Год назад +1

    The benefit of being non-reactive i don't think was discussed enough. Use my replies as a place to discuss the benefits of non-reactivity.
    Non-reactivity absolutely becomes easier when one has a greater goal. A greater vision.

  • @kabagambeandrew717
    @kabagambeandrew717 Год назад +1

    A job well done.

  • @KennedyLoki-h7x
    @KennedyLoki-h7x 10 месяцев назад

    Absolutely educational 😊 Shayan

  • @-scrombie-8139
    @-scrombie-8139 Год назад +1

    Great video

  • @GOD-OF-DESTRUCTION
    @GOD-OF-DESTRUCTION Год назад

    The video is absolutely amazing.
    Please try to stay more regular cuz I love these kinds of videos

  • @inkbythebarrelandpaperbyth6905
    @inkbythebarrelandpaperbyth6905 8 месяцев назад

    This is incredible content

  • @MeowMixBro
    @MeowMixBro Год назад +1

    Big fan bro

  • @arseneousmanemethods
    @arseneousmanemethods 6 месяцев назад

    HONOR; Thanks for the content!

  • @YondaimeApproved
    @YondaimeApproved Год назад +1

    More videos on this!