In this video I talk about 5 signs a girl isn’t interested in you. Instagram: www.instagram..... TikTok: / frankgabb #selfimprovement #selfhelp #selfdevelopment
Guys, listen, I'm going to be 45 yeara old this year. Dated a lot of attractive women in my younger past. The most important thing is if she makes it easy for you to talk to her. You shouldn't be chasing her. If she likes you, she'll orbit you, meaning hanging around you, hoping you'll indicate conversations. She'll make it easy for you to get her number, ask her out, etc. If she's dating another guy, she's NOT interested. If she put you in the friendzone, she's 100% not interested. You might as well be her gay friend. If a woman puts you in the friendzone, you put her ass in the goodbye zone! Learn the value of not being a simp. If she's sleeping/dating other guys, don't waste your time with her. Don't be afraid to inogre her. A woman isn't entitled to your time, free attention, help, or protection. That is a VERY valuable commodity and should only be given to women worthy of it! Never ask a girl out more than once. If a girl says no to you and rejects you she's showing you that she doesn't have any interest in you, doesn't see any potential in you. It's you job to prove her wrong and move on the the next girl.
I have a crush on a coworker who I think likes me back. After several small conversations with her I noticed she orbits me, hoping I make conversation and often blushes when I talk to her, talks softly to me and gives me long responses. One day she casually mentioned her boyfriend in conversation. Confused, I asked a coworker about this and they confirmed it to be true. Since then my crush for her has lessened but it still there. She still finds ways to be close to me when we are in the same department and excuses to talk to me. I have been ignoring her most of the time except for the casual “hello””good morning” Should I continue to ignore her?
@jqnnyb2676 That fact that you're questioning whether she likes you proves OP's point, lol. A woman that likes will let you know in some way or form and you'll know she likes you. She'll make it "easy" for you. Move on bro, and find someone else. She sees you as an acquaintance or someone pleasant to talk to. A lot of girls do that. Why? I don't know, but I doesn't matter.
Not all girls that are into you message u bro. And also girls that stick eye contact r outside of conversation is not right. But when she is talking 1-1 and gives eye contact could also mean shes normal. Best sign is how differently she treats u from everyone else. If shes loud with u but not loud with others. She likes u. If shes shy with u and communicative with others. She likes u. Pay attention to body language and what she does to try to grab ur attention
You need to mimic her interest level, or go a bit lower than her which is best ratio. So if she takes 3 hours to respond, on average, you respond after 2 or 3.5h, never after 5min. That goes with everything, never show more interest into her than she does towards you. Also, its good to predict her interest level, like channel owner said- see if she was active somwhere else on social media, since she needs to see her phone to post some story etc. Then you know she seen notification of message but didnt open it. One method i used far back in 2011 was that i asked one of my friends to just say hy, hows going-> to that girl, to see if she will reply to him, to test if she only avoids my messages. Since we both had her on friend list on FB
With my experience, heres my opinion on the matter. Always act like no one likes you. That doesn't mean you shouldn't cut everything and everybody off. Be social, be friendly. When a girl/boy gives you attention, act accordingly. If it progresses, act accordingly. You want to be approachable.
I’d suggest getting yourself an older woman. They’re mature, they’re done with games, and they know what they want. You’ll never get confused bout whether or not they’re digging u. Now, when a girl is in her teens and 20s, those are the immaturity, game playing, mind game years so that’s a different animal altogether.
No she's just ignored all the good men, loved the attention and chase of the fuckboys and now they wanna settle down and have kids. who are they gonna choose? The pushover who is desperate and pretends he is a secure man by being overly caring due to his sensitive ass. You're main goal in life should be outside the barriers of relationships and women. Get your shit together, gather your career or job, stable your finances, hit the gym to improve your mental and physical well-being, explore hobbies. You must be able to live with yourself before another being. The problem with most men and their depressions is that they keep finding what they think they need. Attention, validation, 'love', relationships, drinking and having their egos validated. The problem with most men is that they need to understand they don't need these things. Men think they need women and sex because they need to feel validated. It isn't bad to be a person brought down by these things. It's unhealthy and should be changed. Do not pursue the woman, pursue your own needs, be secure in yourself, and the woman who you need, a woman also secure in herself, will come to you. It's hard to overcome your own emotions, but you will thank yourself in the long run.
with eye contact personally I would for a few seconds and then look away because I was nervous so if its like eye contact on and off then on and off most likely its them being nervous around you
I've been talking to her for like a year now and she's been hanging out with some of my friends that are also her friends but she doesn't normally interact with them until like a few weeks ago whenever I'm with them 😂😂
The thing with me is… I tell people I’m not interested and obviously that means “Try harder” in their mind and after that I just distance myself. I don’t like to but when you actually do tell people that you’re genuinely not interested and they’re not trying to hear it, what else is there to do? 😭
Man, I thought she liked me because she sit next to me and sometimes make a eye contact she's also my friend and very closed with, although she was disgust after my friend said to her that I liked her she kept on laughing and denying in a sense of mockery. This is the 3rd time I got rejected
I am in a more complicated situation... She finds me attractive, kinda flirts with me, constantly asks me to go out with her, laughts at my dumbest jokes, touches me, leans on me. I told some time ago to her what i feel but she doesn't feel back... Where did i f*cked up ? She is a bit older and introverted. Had been and still is looking for older guys linving in their own apartment having life figured. Both of them cheated on her. I swear most of the times go for the bad boy shitty guy, just for the sake of the drama and mysteriousness. They never feel like they are enough and constantly need to prove themselves to theese types of guys that they are good enough, so he wouldn't cheat on her. Once women get past 25 or later they will get bored with this and settle down for a normal guy... I have observed this multiple times
I need help, i met this viet woman and we kicked it off on the first day of meeting. She was very touchy laughing at everything I said. I even closed my hands to her arm onto her hands and held for a good 5 seconds and she didn't pull away. But the second time seeing her things were a little different like it wasn't no flirting like the first time. I was able to get her number but she said it nice to meet a new friend so In my mind I was like oh no she sees me as a friend. But when I was about to leave she asked me if I was hungry and gave me some food. So is she into me? Should I pursue her or just move on cause I can't get over she called me a friend......
Bruh this chick had mad energy when I start texting her but her energy shifted to 12 hours in. Low effort text, One liners, took 4 hours on average to respond. Just moved on
Stumbled xrs this I'm a mature guy been there done that. I need to get through to u guys.. if a girl acts like she doesn't cu that means she's scared or protecting her relationship w her bf.. I'm from the old school.. I'm telling u all our options are not endless so if u see a girl it into do not take her signs as rejection. You simply need to be persistent even if it pisses her off. Many girls will go to that extreme . Wat do in care piss her off. She will in time see ur soft and strong side. Be humoring. She will be so flattered that u wer si persistent she will have no choice but to fall in love w u.. look guys ur young so r they. If u don't do as I say you'll fail. The hardiest thing is waking up to ur 30th bd. You then don't have access to young hot ones...and the older u get the uglier they get. Your selves th He hot babes sex will end. Don't play w time or you'll wake up to a discusting fat older woman that makes u want to through up
Ok im writing this because i need to know so i got a coworker that i didnt really showed attention at first because i told my friends that im gonna act as if i didnt care and it kinda worked here´s why she got a boyfriend who doesn’t work or does anything else except playing video game and i saw this as an opportunity to get her to quit him soo i invited her to my house she accepted we ended up talking instead of watching a tv show i got to know her better but i kinda feel in the friendzone because i bet she thinks i actually wont try a move on her since a the beggining i acted as if i didnt care yk but its really complicated for me also im not the best with girls soo for me ive never been this far and im always asking my friends if i should keep going and they actually thinks i could win this !!!
don't ask her if she likes you, that makes it worse, just back away completly, if she sends a message in less than 2 weeks, then go ahead and pick it back slowly, otherwise just delete her number and get over it
Lack of eye contact can also be a signe of autism, auties cant maintain eye contact very well, or it could be just nevrvousness, i like get that if im nervous, especially if the guy is hella hot
You know it's over when ur watching this
Why’d you have to come for me?
That hurts a bit but it's the truth.
meh i never dated but i watch this out of curiosity
@@adhamelzeny3374yeah this is not a good feeling :/
It's over. I'm sad now lol
Guys, listen, I'm going to be 45 yeara old this year. Dated a lot of attractive women in my younger past. The most important thing is if she makes it easy for you to talk to her. You shouldn't be chasing her. If she likes you, she'll orbit you, meaning hanging around you, hoping you'll indicate conversations. She'll make it easy for you to get her number, ask her out, etc. If she's dating another guy, she's NOT interested. If she put you in the friendzone, she's 100% not interested. You might as well be her gay friend. If a woman puts you in the friendzone, you put her ass in the goodbye zone! Learn the value of not being a simp. If she's sleeping/dating other guys, don't waste your time with her. Don't be afraid to inogre her. A woman isn't entitled to your time, free attention, help, or protection. That is a VERY valuable commodity and should only be given to women worthy of it! Never ask a girl out more than once. If a girl says no to you and rejects you she's showing you that she doesn't have any interest in you, doesn't see any potential in you. It's you job to prove her wrong and move on the the next girl.
I have a crush on a coworker who I think likes me back. After several small conversations with her I noticed she orbits me, hoping I make conversation and often blushes when I talk to her, talks softly to me and gives me long responses. One day she casually mentioned her boyfriend in conversation. Confused, I asked a coworker about this and they confirmed it to be true. Since then my crush for her has lessened but it still there. She still finds ways to be close to me when we are in the same department and excuses to talk to me. I have been ignoring her most of the time except for the casual “hello””good morning” Should I continue to ignore her?
@@jqnnyb2676whats your progress now ?
@jqnnyb2676 That fact that you're questioning whether she likes you proves OP's point, lol. A woman that likes will let you know in some way or form and you'll know she likes you. She'll make it "easy" for you. Move on bro, and find someone else. She sees you as an acquaintance or someone pleasant to talk to. A lot of girls do that. Why? I don't know, but I doesn't matter.
@@walter9243 thanks alot Man for giving me clearity.
It could even be your wife at 45. They fade away and get bored. Let her go.
The fact that i'm here says everything, Damn this hurts :/
you can only have so many dead-end interactions …
a hot goth girl, showed interes, then went back and forth, at the end she was narcissist, i dodged a huge bullet
RIP I love hot goth girls
Goths are hot trash
She may be a dismissive avoidant,or a fearful avoidant,and that’s where things get very complicated
Not all girls that are into you message u bro. And also girls that stick eye contact r outside of conversation is not right. But when she is talking 1-1 and gives eye contact could also mean shes normal. Best sign is how differently she treats u from everyone else. If shes loud with u but not loud with others. She likes u. If shes shy with u and communicative with others. She likes u. Pay attention to body language and what she does to try to grab ur attention
So if she's loud and talk with everyone use to greet me in the beginning but now she don't say a single word to me 🤣 what you call that 😂
I knew she wasn’t into me when I looked into the mirror this morning. No further investigation required 😂
Same 🥲
Well, gotta keep moving forward
I might be delusion then 😂
Not me overthinking before I even message her again.🤦♂️
I'm too scared to ask
due to gossip
Dealing with the same thing twin
Same
Never directly ask a girl if she's interested, because you're never going to get a straight answer. And if you're confused, the answer is NO, anyways.
Great vid man like always you will be big
Thank you brother
Thanks bro I just saved myself the pain and heartache and so much time over someone who doesn’t want me
Sure, read all the signs, because women just can't use words....
You need to mimic her interest level, or go a bit lower than her which is best ratio. So if she takes 3 hours to respond, on average, you respond after 2 or 3.5h, never after 5min. That goes with everything, never show more interest into her than she does towards you. Also, its good to predict her interest level, like channel owner said- see if she was active somwhere else on social media, since she needs to see her phone to post some story etc. Then you know she seen notification of message but didnt open it. One method i used far back in 2011 was that i asked one of my friends to just say hy, hows going-> to that girl, to see if she will reply to him, to test if she only avoids my messages. Since we both had her on friend list on FB
With my experience, heres my opinion on the matter.
Always act like no one likes you. That doesn't mean you shouldn't cut everything and everybody off. Be social, be friendly.
When a girl/boy gives you attention, act accordingly. If it progresses, act accordingly.
You want to be approachable.
I’d suggest getting yourself an older woman. They’re mature, they’re done with games, and they know what they want. You’ll never get confused bout whether or not they’re digging u. Now, when a girl is in her teens and 20s, those are the immaturity, game playing, mind game years so that’s a different animal altogether.
An older woman might as well have her biological clock over
No she's just ignored all the good men, loved the attention and chase of the fuckboys and now they wanna settle down and have kids. who are they gonna choose? The pushover who is desperate and pretends he is a secure man by being overly caring due to his sensitive ass.
You're main goal in life should be outside the barriers of relationships and women. Get your shit together, gather your career or job, stable your finances, hit the gym to improve your mental and physical well-being, explore hobbies. You must be able to live with yourself before another being. The problem with most men and their depressions is that they keep finding what they think they need. Attention, validation, 'love', relationships, drinking and having their egos validated. The problem with most men is that they need to understand they don't need these things.
Men think they need women and sex because they need to feel validated. It isn't bad to be a person brought down by these things. It's unhealthy and should be changed. Do not pursue the woman, pursue your own needs, be secure in yourself, and the woman who you need, a woman also secure in herself, will come to you. It's hard to overcome your own emotions, but you will thank yourself in the long run.
Just ask her once and for all. If she's interested then it's good, if not then it's also good, on to the next. Simple as that, don't overthink things.
with eye contact personally I would for a few seconds and then look away because I was nervous so if its like eye contact on and off then on and off most likely its them being nervous around you
It's hard to realize she's not into you
It's painfully obvious BUT we just don't want to admit it.......
I've been talking to her for like a year now and she's been hanging out with some of my friends that are also her friends but she doesn't normally interact with them until like a few weeks ago whenever I'm with them 😂😂
Im with u when you said you think shes interested with u but its not
Its funny but the second you get rejected it's like a huge relife
When she doesn't laugh at the memes you send her anymore OR when she doesn't send you any more memes.
I will added as a woman tired of a man when you don't invite them to your house and u don't care about what how their day went.
The thing with me is… I tell people I’m not interested and obviously that means “Try harder” in their mind and after that I just distance myself. I don’t like to but when you actually do tell people that you’re genuinely not interested and they’re not trying to hear it, what else is there to do? 😭
Sad cuz us men have to face rejection more then yall
@@xxfranknittyxx2270 Exactly, they have it easy, unlike us.
RUclips recommend me this video that means it's over.
Lol 😂
She called the police; is she interested in me?
Man, I thought she liked me because she sit next to me and sometimes make a eye contact she's also my friend and very closed with, although she was disgust after my friend said to her that I liked her she kept on laughing and denying in a sense of mockery. This is the 3rd time I got rejected
Thank you for the wisdom!
I am in a more complicated situation... She finds me attractive, kinda flirts with me, constantly asks me to go out with her, laughts at my dumbest jokes, touches me, leans on me.
I told some time ago to her what i feel but she doesn't feel back... Where did i f*cked up ?
She is a bit older and introverted. Had been and still is looking for older guys linving in their own apartment having life figured. Both of them cheated on her.
I swear most of the times go for the bad boy shitty guy, just for the sake of the drama and mysteriousness. They never feel like they are enough and constantly need to prove themselves to theese types of guys that they are good enough, so he wouldn't cheat on her.
Once women get past 25 or later they will get bored with this and settle down for a normal guy... I have observed this multiple times
I am a huge victim of leading myself on 😅
That “NAH” 💀😂
You look so charismatic
I need help, i met this viet woman and we kicked it off on the first day of meeting. She was very touchy laughing at everything I said. I even closed my hands to her arm onto her hands and held for a good 5 seconds and she didn't pull away. But the second time seeing her things were a little different like it wasn't no flirting like the first time. I was able to get her number but she said it nice to meet a new friend so In my mind I was like oh no she sees me as a friend. But when I was about to leave she asked me if I was hungry and gave me some food. So is she into me? Should I pursue her or just move on cause I can't get over she called me a friend......
Bruh this chick had mad energy when I start texting her but her energy shifted to 12 hours in. Low effort text, One liners, took 4 hours on average to respond. Just moved on
I feel sorry for the guy that she really is into have a nice life
only if i watched this 2 weeks ago
If she doesn't approach you, she's not interested.
Not true could be nervous to approach u
@@jasondrexinger5131 Hogwash...If a woman is interested she'll make it obvious, even the shy ones in their own little way.
@@chuckcollins2349 yea I guess you right mb
Yeah thank u for reminded me she not interested 😊
Thanks bro now I know she's not into me 😩
Yes she is silence is insecurity and ignoring you means highly interested! Don't give up on her
Stumbled xrs this I'm a mature guy been there done that. I need to get through to u guys.. if a girl acts like she doesn't cu that means she's scared or protecting her relationship w her bf.. I'm from the old school.. I'm telling u all our options are not endless so if u see a girl it into do not take her signs as rejection. You simply need to be persistent even if it pisses her off. Many girls will go to that extreme . Wat do in care piss her off. She will in time see ur soft and strong side. Be humoring. She will be so flattered that u wer si persistent she will have no choice but to fall in love w u.. look guys ur young so r they. If u don't do as I say you'll fail. The hardiest thing is waking up to ur 30th bd. You then don't have access to young hot ones...and the older u get the uglier they get. Your selves th
He hot babes sex will end. Don't play w time or you'll wake up to a discusting fat older woman that makes u want to through up
Ok im writing this because i need to know so i got a coworker that i didnt really showed attention at first because i told my friends that im gonna act as if i didnt care and it kinda worked here´s why she got a boyfriend who doesn’t work or does anything else except playing video game and i saw this as an opportunity to get her to quit him soo i invited her to my house she accepted we ended up talking instead of watching a tv show i got to know her better but i kinda feel in the friendzone because i bet she thinks i actually wont try a move on her since a the beggining i acted as if i didnt care yk but its really complicated for me also im not the best with girls soo for me ive never been this far and im always asking my friends if i should keep going and they actually thinks i could win this !!!
I want to mentionned that she does not do anything mentionned in this video
She see message and say nahhh😂😂😂 you make me smile
Im so cooked 💀
don't ask her if she likes you, that makes it worse, just back away completly, if she sends a message in less than 2 weeks, then go ahead and pick it back slowly, otherwise just delete her number and get over it
What if she is shy?
The best way to find out if she likes you or not is asking
calling the police is not there...
So... im good !
Lack of eye contact can also be a signe of autism, auties cant maintain eye contact very well, or it could be just nevrvousness, i like get that if im nervous, especially if the guy is hella hot
Man coming here feeling sorry for yourself, style up man there are enough women to go around. Never give any woman the satisfaction of rejecting you
0:27 I feel I hate thinking about it bro 👍🏿🤘🏿
Yup 💀
they reponded with idk😢
Sorry bro...but I don't need to support someone telling me she's not in to me.
I will Never be loved .
She want me, she want meeee ahahahaha
If she’s super moody
😂😂😂 so what! 😂😂 I don't care.
gg guys gg
Man just get to it
Ok ok Just mentally admit fix it she isnt interested on you
From day one 😂
😮☹️🥴