His fiance kept breaching his boundaries and even went to therapy about it and still thought it was "for his own good" that she breach them again and invite his abusers to their wedding😮💨
It’s frustrating when someone, even with the best intentions, keeps crossing boundaries they've been explicitly told to respect. Therapy should help people understand and empathize better, not justify further breaches. It’s clear that her actions were more about her own agenda than truly supporting him
Not just fiances but also friends and family members that try to "fix" the realtionship, when you yourself don't want it fixed and just want to move on😮💨
You dodged a bullet. In spite of therapy, she does not understand boundaries nor what you went through. Controlling and insensitive. I am sure you will find a better person.
Why did she do that? They had therapy, they opened up, she should have learned how much he didn't want to be around his family. Normally all cards were on the table. And she threw it all away. And why? Because she wanted to be desperately proven right? She is so dangerously naive reconciling is still possible? I mean, what is wrong with her?
Because she's so hung up on the idea of "fixing" his relationship with his parents when there's really nothing to fix or at least nothing OP wanted anyway
probably a sheltered narcissist who has to be proven right, she prolly thinks that she needs her man to have a healthy relationship with mom and family for her to feel loved, she projected her own values onto someone else knowing damn well he wasn't gonna take no shit.
It’s astonishing how the fiancé’s decision to invite the family despite clear boundaries led to such a dramatic fallout. It’s a painful reminder that trying to fix or force relationships for someone else, especially without their consent, can backfire badly.
I god damn called it to myself listening to this. The fiance is a manipulative boundary-stomping cow, and OP should have never taken her back. She was vile to go through all that therapy and yet still lie to OP's face over and over and over! I hope this is something that rattles in the back of her brain for god knows how long. Mainly because she caused herself to lose the love of her life because she couldn't even have the courtesy to respect OP in the simplest of ways. I'm glad OP left, they need to find someone who will actually respect their boundaries and actually listen to them.
His fiance just wouldn't accept that his family deeply hurt him and she thinks she knows better than him that his family is so remorseful of what they did ,she just doesn't want to accept that there is a world where a parent wouldn't love ther child
It’s really painful when someone you trust doesn’t honor your boundaries, especially on such a significant day as your wedding. The way your fiancée went behind your back to invite your family, despite your clear wishes, shows a lack of respect for your feelings and past trauma
I wonder what the fiance's family life is like. Because she's either projecting onto OP HARD or she has a healthy home life and can't fathom the idea of anyone else not having a good relationship with their parents.
Some of this reminds me of a video I saw that stated that women want you to listen to their problems without trying to fix the problems. When you try to fix their problems they get angry. They want support and understanding over solutions.
OP gave the fiancé way way way too many chances and was understanding and kind to her the whole time and she’s still decided to fuck him over she’s a horrible partner OP ghosting her it was the best option in this case especially since it doesn’t seem like she would ever sit down and look at herself in the mirror and realize she’s wrong she seems like she’s always going to think she’s in the right no matter what so there’s no point in trying to get her to understand and why did you talk to someone who doesn’t give a fuck about how you feel and the boundaries you repeatedly put down even after being given chance, after chance after chance? OPs mistake it was not leaving after the sister incident but I understand that they were at the point of wanting to get married and OP wanted to make it work because he loved his fiancé so much and his fiancé took advantage of that selfishly just because she wanted to play happy family it’s pretty obvious where her priorities lay………
Everything was getting better, the fiancé stopped with reuniting his family and cut his sister off, then from the moment I realised an Edit 3 existed at all I knew it was all going to f**k
Dude, I understand and plus marriage is about trust , loyalty and understanding. How can you have trust and loyalty and understanding when your partner doesn’t respect your boundaries. I understand that you have I’ll be honest and I’ll be as frank as possible. You had a terrible childhood your mother and your stepfather they were terrible at the age of 18 when you woke up high school they threw you out!!!! You barely understand what you wanted to do or how you wanted to live your life and they threw you out like you were nothing . That’s I can’t imagine how you went through plus how dare your mother she carried you nine months and then when you were 18 threw you out like you were nothing that’s despicable that’s unforgivable ! Frankly, I think you did the right thing wise man one said you need to love yourself before you can love others . I can understand what your ex wanted, but that was childish to think that you would understand and agree after everything you went through . I hope that you can be happy
Bro, that fiancé is so dumb even she was unsure she did the right thing, but tbh when I watch these I’m usually disappointed that they are never confronted
Unbelievable! What the hell is wrong with her? Just wow! When being right is more important than anything including your marriage! And she was still wrong! Was every word outta her a lie? Thank God he figured the truth out before he said “I do”
And this is when you post about it on social media, talk to a lawyer about sueing ex Fiance for costs of the wedding( if you paid anything). Then you send a legal notice to the Ex family that from now on they are disowned and if they speak to you or attempt anything against you , your work, or your friends that you will sue them with harassment and possibly more.
This would be the biggest lesson his ex-fiance whatever get the lesson of respecting someone's boundaries and to stop pushing for things that they have absolutely no business is doing if someone still insists on pushing your boundaries or discarding them leave them immediately.😊
People that didn’t grow up with bad parents don’t understand sometimes why someone doesn’t like their parents and they pull this shit and then make it ten times worse then it already was
1) she dos not respect hm or his boundires 2) she does not learn 3) she does not care about him 4) she is stupid yeap let her go is the most logical thing he should be doing. What she was expecting, after he go through all and expressed how difficult it is for him and he set the boundary more clear then anything they discuss, lets bring them again?
So she knew directly from him about them and he felt about them. She put her feelings about his relatives whom exactly aren't family of his above his importance in their relationship. No way his sister could actually fool her. He let her kid him with gaslighting therapy. He did right at least cutting them out no further contact. Really he should have sued for cost of the ceremony and therapy as well as depreciation for the rings if not able to be returned full value.
Im only at 2:40 so i think he should just divorce her if she cant respect his Boundaries like he siad he didn't wanna talk to his family but shes like just do it deep down you need to talk to them
Actions have consequences and sadly for the fiance she most suffer the consequences of not following the vow that they made and if someone you love can't respect that then you shouldn't marry them
She's manipulative. She wanted to know all of Op's weaknesses so in the future, she could use it against him to do things her way, plus she had a "savior" complex which is dangerous.
Ok. So I was following this story when it came out. I am sorry to burst anyone’s bubbles but the story ends with them deciding to do couples counselling. No updates came after that. The whole wedding thing was made up. Sorry but why do that!!
Part of the video is made up I just came from reading the story the op didn't even mention anything about them being married yet or his mom and sister at his wedding
Dude he trusted and loved her. Grow up and stop calling people simps for loving someone. It's not cool and will never make you cool. It just makes you pathetic. And I can probably guess you're single.😂
I wonder what the fiance's family life is like. Because she's either projecting onto OP HARD or she has a healthy home life and can't fathom the idea of anyone else not having a good relationship with their parents.
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His fiance kept breaching his boundaries and even went to therapy about it and still thought it was "for his own good" that she breach them again and invite his abusers to their wedding😮💨
It’s frustrating when someone, even with the best intentions, keeps crossing boundaries they've been explicitly told to respect. Therapy should help people understand and empathize better, not justify further breaches. It’s clear that her actions were more about her own agenda than truly supporting him
Do not marry someone who can't respect your boundaries
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Sure Deadpool 👍
Tell them bye bye bye deadpool
No one is perfect
EXACTLY DUDE!
Clearly fiancé needs to grow up and learn how to respect boundaries. Somehow counseling didn’t teach her a damn lesson. Good job op
Not just fiances but also friends and family members that try to "fix" the realtionship, when you yourself don't want it fixed and just want to move on😮💨
I am just curious, who paid for the counseling.
"you just don't know what's best for you" immediate red flag
Absolutely!
You dodged a bullet.
In spite of therapy, she does not understand boundaries nor what you went through.
Controlling and insensitive.
I am sure you will find a better person.
Why did she do that? They had therapy, they opened up, she should have learned how much he didn't want to be around his family. Normally all cards were on the table. And she threw it all away. And why? Because she wanted to be desperately proven right? She is so dangerously naive reconciling is still possible? I mean, what is wrong with her?
That shit made no sense. You'd think the therapy was enough but she wanted to be proven right and still doesn't respect boundaries. Blows my mind
Because she's so hung up on the idea of "fixing" his relationship with his parents when there's really nothing to fix or at least nothing OP wanted anyway
She sees herself as a rescuer. Fuck boundaries, her need to be his rescuer n heal his family fractures mattered more to her than her actual partner.
probably a sheltered narcissist who has to be proven right, she prolly thinks that she needs her man to have a healthy relationship with mom and family for her to feel loved, she projected her own values onto someone else knowing damn well he wasn't gonna take no shit.
It’s astonishing how the fiancé’s decision to invite the family despite clear boundaries led to such a dramatic fallout. It’s a painful reminder that trying to fix or force relationships for someone else, especially without their consent, can backfire badly.
I god damn called it to myself listening to this. The fiance is a manipulative boundary-stomping cow, and OP should have never taken her back. She was vile to go through all that therapy and yet still lie to OP's face over and over and over! I hope this is something that rattles in the back of her brain for god knows how long. Mainly because she caused herself to lose the love of her life because she couldn't even have the courtesy to respect OP in the simplest of ways. I'm glad OP left, they need to find someone who will actually respect their boundaries and actually listen to them.
His fiance just wouldn't accept that his family deeply hurt him and she thinks she knows better than him that his family is so remorseful of what they did ,she just doesn't want to accept that there is a world where a parent wouldn't love ther child
Yeah. She's delusional and manipulated. That sucks man.
It’s really painful when someone you trust doesn’t honor your boundaries, especially on such a significant day as your wedding. The way your fiancée went behind your back to invite your family, despite your clear wishes, shows a lack of respect for your feelings and past trauma
Neglectful and abusive parents could set you up to marry someone who abuse you. Red flag 🚩
I wonder what the fiance's family life is like. Because she's either projecting onto OP HARD or she has a healthy home life and can't fathom the idea of anyone else not having a good relationship with their parents.
Some of this reminds me of a video I saw that stated that women want you to listen to their problems without trying to fix the problems. When you try to fix their problems they get angry.
They want support and understanding over solutions.
The op is a man
0:53 for short viewers (yeah im doing your job other guy)
Massive W
Tysm legend w
Legend W
Mark the W
OP's fiancee crossed the boundaries twice... that cant be forgave anymore. Hope he could move on and find healing
Fiancé had ONE job.
You did the right thing. Clearly your fiancé did not understand or respect your feelings. You deserve better and hope you find it.
Poor OP hopefully he is able to heal and move on.
Crazy she really made the exact same mistake a second time after all that work.
Respect for walking away.
Right he could’ve done or said much worse but he did best just walking away
Good for you OP! Hope you can find someone that can have your trust and be there for you full heartedly!
OP gave the fiancé way way way too many chances and was understanding and kind to her the whole time and she’s still decided to fuck him over she’s a horrible partner OP ghosting her it was the best option in this case especially since it doesn’t seem like she would ever sit down and look at herself in the mirror and realize she’s wrong she seems like she’s always going to think she’s in the right no matter what so there’s no point in trying to get her to understand and why did you talk to someone who doesn’t give a fuck about how you feel and the boundaries you repeatedly put down even after being given chance, after chance after chance? OPs mistake it was not leaving after the sister incident but I understand that they were at the point of wanting to get married and OP wanted to make it work because he loved his fiancé so much and his fiancé took advantage of that selfishly just because she wanted to play happy family it’s pretty obvious where her priorities lay………
Everything was getting better, the fiancé stopped with reuniting his family and cut his sister off, then from the moment I realised an Edit 3 existed at all I knew it was all going to f**k
fiance sounded like a narcissist who wanted the "feel good" feeling if ever they reconciled..🤷♀️
I don't know why but this voice is unwantedly soothing
Chat Gpt is on fire with this one lol.
Dude, I understand and plus marriage is about trust , loyalty and understanding.
How can you have trust and loyalty and understanding when your partner doesn’t respect your boundaries. I understand that you have I’ll be honest and I’ll be as frank as possible.
You had a terrible childhood your mother and your stepfather they were terrible at the age of 18 when you woke up high school they threw you out!!!!
You barely understand what you wanted to do or how you wanted to live your life and they threw you out like you were nothing .
That’s I can’t imagine how you went through plus how dare your mother she carried you nine months and then when you were 18 threw you out like you were nothing that’s despicable that’s unforgivable !
Frankly, I think you did the right thing wise man one said you need to love yourself before you can love others .
I can understand what your ex wanted, but that was childish to think that you would understand and agree after everything you went through .
I hope that you can be happy
Also, I’m sorry about this long speech. I was just really fired up. It’s like how dare they do that to you
It’s not right
What the hell do you take this seriously is not true it is made for entertainment lol
@@Thukuna14your proof?
Bro, that fiancé is so dumb even she was unsure she did the right thing, but tbh when I watch these I’m usually disappointed that they are never confronted
This is so terrible, and for me if she kept asking I would've broken up with her
Wtf is wrong with the finance? Crossing VERY CLEAR boundaries is not a good sign of a healthy relationship
Unbelievable! What the hell is wrong with her? Just wow! When being right is more important than anything including your marriage! And she was still wrong! Was every word outta her a lie? Thank God he figured the truth out before he said “I do”
And this is when you post about it on social media, talk to a lawyer about sueing ex Fiance for costs of the wedding( if you paid anything). Then you send a legal notice to the Ex family that from now on they are disowned and if they speak to you or attempt anything against you , your work, or your friends that you will sue them with harassment and possibly more.
This would be the biggest lesson his ex-fiance whatever get the lesson of respecting someone's boundaries and to stop pushing for things that they have absolutely no business is doing if someone still insists on pushing your boundaries or discarding them leave them immediately.😊
This pissed me off cause gurl u just won’t leave well enough alone like daaaaaamn
I love your channel I watch both the shorts and long form :) keep up the banger uploads 🔥
People that didn’t grow up with bad parents don’t understand sometimes why someone doesn’t like their parents and they pull this shit and then make it ten times worse then it already was
every night sit and listen to stories from friends.
I don’t have friends
I like the "happy end" version better.
For people who came from shorts: 0:53
He said no just accept it.
Shame on the and family. You deserve better!
"Do what you want." But to do it, I must have money first.
I am listening to the story being narrated however the views of that castle and mountains at 4:20 is amazing also 420 is just a funny coincidence…
Thanks for not linking it at all.
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I'm so happy for him! :)) I am glad that hes doing better and healing. the fiance was an ass and he dodged a whole nuke by not marrying her.
Ir feels like she cant understand that they were abusive. Or maybe she just refuses to.
1) she dos not respect hm or his boundires
2) she does not learn
3) she does not care about him
4) she is stupid
yeap let her go is the most logical thing he should be doing. What she was expecting, after he go through all and expressed how difficult it is for him and he set the boundary more clear then anything they discuss, lets bring them again?
0:53 for those who came from the short
What do you mean you felt like you had been betrayed by someone you trusted? You were!
Some times you need to shut the F up about certain things and just let it be
So she knew directly from him about them and he felt about them.
She put her feelings about his relatives whom exactly aren't family of his above his importance in their relationship.
No way his sister could actually fool her.
He let her kid him with gaslighting therapy.
He did right at least cutting them out no further contact.
Really he should have sued for cost of the ceremony and therapy as well as depreciation for the rings if not able to be returned full value.
Man i love these stories idc if they aint real they're just really interesting
she was warn
Im only at 2:40 so i think he should just divorce her if she cant respect his Boundaries like he siad he didn't wanna talk to his family but shes like just do it deep down you need to talk to them
Fr. Annoyed op didn't break up with her the night she slept on their couch
STOP CALLING HER FIANCE! CALL HER AN EX NOW JEEZ 😢 POOR YOU AND YOUR MONEY
I hope op already healed now
Actions have consequences and sadly for the fiance she most suffer the consequences of not following the vow that they made and if someone you love can't respect that then you shouldn't marry them
This fiancé has more red flags than a CCP parade.
i still wonder why did she invite them after the entire sessions and stuff? what was her reasoning?
She's manipulative. She wanted to know all of Op's weaknesses so in the future, she could use it against him to do things her way, plus she had a "savior" complex which is dangerous.
@@EBaker-bz8gx that is a good reason and opinion
0:53 for short users ❤️
I need a part 2
All these Redditors do is just glaze therapists😭🙏
Good thing that OP didn’t marry her
Chatgpt
I've been watching this channel for a while but forgot I'm not subscribed :(
Ok. So I was following this story when it came out. I am sorry to burst anyone’s bubbles but the story ends with them deciding to do couples counselling. No updates came after that. The whole wedding thing was made up. Sorry but why do that!!
There was an update mentioned. They had the wedding
No pity for op. His fiancé proved she couldn’t be trusted & he still tried to marry her.
Part of the video is made up I just came from reading the story the op didn't even mention anything about them being married yet or his mom and sister at his wedding
Reddit has Best of Reddit Updates, maybe you missed it. Ops' continue what happens afterward if Redditors ask them to update.
@@EBaker-bz8gx link?
Starts at : 0:53 for the shorts veiwers
this shit is written by ai
the original story is from ObjectiveNational517 and this one has a different ending kind of sounds like ai or maybe a different repost
0:50 for shorts people
Saw it coming a mile off.
I'm Dottie McThottie with the Body
HEY ITS ONLY 1 HOUR OLD THAT IS MORE YUNGER THAN ME :)
I can tell because it's spelt younger not whatever the fck you said
AI needs to get better are character writing. The characters are always so inconsistent and unrealistic.
is this reposted? Or jst very similar
Women 🍷🗿
BS. You can't change stupid.
anyone can change if they want to.
Appart of the useless yapping on how ur hurt which honestly no man cares about, nice job 😎👌
Chat gpt bullshit
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Please whatever relationship you have first have a relationship with God build a foundation first there it is important
which one
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So, not only did OP simp and forgive her the 1st time around, she doubles down by inviting them to the wedding. That savior complex is something else
Dude he trusted and loved her. Grow up and stop calling people simps for loving someone. It's not cool and will never make you cool. It just makes you pathetic. And I can probably guess you're single.😂
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No BC im 17mins and Ur only 5mins
Im not first, but neither are you
Fkfilp is first
@@ElijahMitchel nuh uh im with some secs fastter
Nah this dude is strange i agree with the girl yk its ur mom no matter what she done 18 years and 9 months nah bruv is having a laugh yk
That's the bare minimum guy
Mom is a title to be earned not given
Ain't no way you are siding with the girl
Simp
I wonder what the fiance's family life is like. Because she's either projecting onto OP HARD or she has a healthy home life and can't fathom the idea of anyone else not having a good relationship with their parents.