Nah, stealing your moms pain relief, money and all her valuables you watch her in excruciating pain look for them is just horrible. How can someone be so shitty oml..
5:50 broke me. If a fatally ill suddenly seems energetic and better, thats their last moments. They're actively dieing. You might get hope its getting better, but that isn't very likely. I felt so sorry when he started talking about visiting favorite places...
Not sure if its scientific but i heard a theory that maybe its just the body stopping to fight and therefore has more energy left that was spend on repairs/immune system
@@Clorbmanthe body before dying tries to keep itself alive by any means possible before the body fails so that's why sometimes patients seem fine and good one moment and die the very next it's very depressing once you actually see it
@@Clorbman our understanding of what is called Terminal Lucidity isn't terribly clear, but there are a few prevalent theories. The first is based on evidence we've seen from things like radiation poisoning. If the dose is high enough, you feel sick for a few hours, then you are fine for days (or possibly weeks) and then you have a sudden and rapid onset of death because the damage that is done is to the stem cells for either your blood cells and/or your intestines are destroyed, but the already-mature cells continue to function their normal span, dying off as normal but not being replaced because the stem cells are gone, and this is why they feel fine and then suddenly, you're dead. Search "walking ghost phase" if you want more information about this. In similar fashion, your immune system takes a great deal of energy and resources to operate, trying its best to keep you alive. However, in the final stages of dying, the immune system can shut down. Note the CAN, not WILL. Terminal Lucidity seems to occur less than half of the time (around 40% of the time) in the documentation that I found (by all means, search Terminal Lucidity yourself and feel free to to further research). Now, many of the symptoms of us being sick aren't caused by the illness, but the body's reaction TO the illness. Without the immune system trying to destroy the invaders, there's no inflammation response and thus no discomfort. With all that energy no longer being used by the immune system, other systems can use it, and the patient seems to recover for a little while. And then, as suddenly as they "got better," they then pass away. Of course, without conclusive evidence, these hypotheses could easily be wrong, so take this with a grain of salt.
It's called terminal lucidity. My great grandmother (childhood idol, been living with my family and I since I was four) had dementia. This was the worst part of it. She'd just come home from the hospital after breaking both arms, and after a few days, she was able to have dinner with us and watch TV. We really thought she was getting better. I knew she wouldn't come back from this but I couldn't handle the idea of losing her, so I believed she would get better. A week later, she passed away. She was 100, almost 101.
@@Myeko2190I know that was a while ago she died but I’m so sorry. She lived a very long life there is actually a group of people called supercenturians who live a hundred years or more
Yeah in my grandads last day fighting cancer he was in extreme pain then next minute he was able to almost run up the stairs then he passed in the morning
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5:57 "She looked better that day. She looked energetic." Oh no... When someone whose health is that poor suddenly gets better like that, it means they have less than a day left to live.
He is terrible😫OP's decision to forgive Jake despite the immense pain he caused is powerful. I could never. But yeah, sometimes forgiving just means to let go of the anger and find your own peace
Op also didn’t tell his brother the truth about their father. Maybe that could have been an extra big wake-up call for his brother. Learning that he’s doing exactly what their father did.
I disagree they just hold on to the anger and that's not going to change anything and instead of trying to help Jake they just disown him I mean they say forgive but it's obvious they don't fell that way
5:50…gave me trauma flashbacks…before my dad passed away (it was unexpected) he called my sister just wanting to hang out, go out to eat, spend time together. She wasn’t able to because of work. He didn’t call me or my other sisters because I was at school and my other sister was at work. He sat for hours with his online friends before passing away. They were the last ones he spoke to. Heard his voice. Everything. Survivors guilt is a horrible feeling…
The OP's decision to not visit his younger brother in the hospital is based on the fact that he wants to put it behind him but maybe visiting him might be the way to really put that chapter behind him and hand his brother the letter and walk away afterwards in the long run for sure.
I get the moms want to not tell her sons qbout their dads gambling addiction. But in the long term it did them a disservice. If they had been informed about their fathers addiction they could better navigate such things in their own lives. Speaking from experience my dad made sure i understood his alcohol addiction after he was clean so i could make better decisions. As a result i dont drjnk at all.
True but that still doesn't take away that if their mother had given them the knowledge of their fathers addiction maybe they would've been more careful about engaging in addicting behaviors that can be destructive long term such as gambling
This comment is absolutely funny and ironic because you said you don't drink but only when you typed drink did you spell it wrong. If it was on purpose, nice
Yeah, after my father died of prostate cancer, my cousin (that I grew up calling my sister) refinanced my house without my knowledge. We had both been taking care of my dad AND my aunt (her mother) in my home along with my son.since she worked from home, I would give her money for the taxes on the house and utilities and let her pay. Looking back I realize just how gullible I was. She stopped paying on my house and started paying on her own down south. Then she packed up and took my aunt down south with her (supposedly for a visit). She was gone for months, but I’m still holding on to money for the taxes. Then the flood came and the power went out. We were staying warm by keeping the oven open and on as well as all the burners. Heating up water to wash with. We went to the library to charge all of our laptops and phones for the night. And yes we were using hurricane lamps. One day when we came home from the library there was a notice on the door. My cousin had NOT been paying the second mortgage. The house was in foreclosure. Imagine my surprise when I knew it was supposed to be free and clear. I had to take my little boy to a shelter. That was the lowest point of my life. It was rather ironic. I was attending law school and living in a family shelter. What I don’t understand is how do you DO that to someone that you claim to love SO much? Like a sister? I’m not even angry anymore. I just want to understand.
This is from the full video The last letter from the brother looked lika a suicide note its really heartbreaking 💔 inwish op had atleast visited the hospital n ended things there
He doesn't deserve to know. Jake wasn't sorry in the slightest. If he was actually sorry he would have stopped stealing after he was kicked out but instead he broke in only to steal some more. He as going to rob them blind if op didn't step in
@@HalfAnd_Half That is easy for you to say, but being scared about life is really powerfull motivator for doing things you wouldn't normally do. I met few addicts after rehab in my life, and i trust them when they say they are sorry for stuff they were notorious on doing when they were doing drugs
@@vipcypr8368 sorry without a change in action is meaningless and hollow. A sorry without working to change isn't sorry, it's "I regret the fact that you know about this because it's making my life more difficult."
This happened about a year ago, my oldest sister had gotten into some really bad substances, she often drink and smoked, but i didnt think it she would go this far. Until she left the state, she stole alot of our steps moms most valuable jewelry, including her dead moms ring, which our step mom which meant alot to her, i havent heard from in over a year sicne then
What kind of psychopath steals money and pain meds from their MOTHER when they have cancer? For what? Gambling? You put gambling over your mom who is close to death? How does someone ever think they are a good person when they do this?
My condolences for the loss of your mother. On a side note, Violet Evergarden needs to write this story into an episode plot. This story reminded me of a similar story in Violet Evergarden, where the dying illiterate mother commissioned Violet to write 50 letters for her daughter; one for every year of her life. Those words that couldn't be said in person but were brought to a closure with a sincere letter. 🥲
Forgiveness comes in many forms. This is one of them. Forgiveness is letting go the bitter emotions that made you hateful towards another. If your forgiveness is allowing bad people back into your life and scraping over what happen then that’s your forgiveness.
@@tuby_wrld410 Yup that's what's suspicious. No way a normal reddit user writes like that. I use ChatGPT for my collage too but turn it into casual writing with some mistakes so it doesn't look too good lol.
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Nah, stealing your moms pain relief, money and all her valuables you watch her in excruciating pain look for them is just horrible. How can someone be so shitty oml..
5:50 broke me.
If a fatally ill suddenly seems energetic and better, thats their last moments. They're actively dieing.
You might get hope its getting better, but that isn't very likely.
I felt so sorry when he started talking about visiting favorite places...
@@ClorbmanI don’t know exactly but there has to be research out there, it’s common with other animals too.
Not sure if its scientific but i heard a theory that maybe its just the body stopping to fight and therefore has more energy left that was spend on repairs/immune system
@@Clorbmanthe body before dying tries to keep itself alive by any means possible before the body fails so that's why sometimes patients seem fine and good one moment and die the very next it's very depressing once you actually see it
@@Clorbman our understanding of what is called Terminal Lucidity isn't terribly clear, but there are a few prevalent theories.
The first is based on evidence we've seen from things like radiation poisoning. If the dose is high enough, you feel sick for a few hours, then you are fine for days (or possibly weeks) and then you have a sudden and rapid onset of death because the damage that is done is to the stem cells for either your blood cells and/or your intestines are destroyed, but the already-mature cells continue to function their normal span, dying off as normal but not being replaced because the stem cells are gone, and this is why they feel fine and then suddenly, you're dead. Search "walking ghost phase" if you want more information about this.
In similar fashion, your immune system takes a great deal of energy and resources to operate, trying its best to keep you alive. However, in the final stages of dying, the immune system can shut down. Note the CAN, not WILL. Terminal Lucidity seems to occur less than half of the time (around 40% of the time) in the documentation that I found (by all means, search Terminal Lucidity yourself and feel free to to further research). Now, many of the symptoms of us being sick aren't caused by the illness, but the body's reaction TO the illness. Without the immune system trying to destroy the invaders, there's no inflammation response and thus no discomfort. With all that energy no longer being used by the immune system, other systems can use it, and the patient seems to recover for a little while. And then, as suddenly as they "got better," they then pass away.
Of course, without conclusive evidence, these hypotheses could easily be wrong, so take this with a grain of salt.
Ikr 😭
“She looked energetic” that happens right before someone dies.
Especially for people with terminal cancer... I've experienced that... too many times
It's called terminal lucidity.
My great grandmother (childhood idol, been living with my family and I since I was four) had dementia. This was the worst part of it. She'd just come home from the hospital after breaking both arms, and after a few days, she was able to have dinner with us and watch TV. We really thought she was getting better. I knew she wouldn't come back from this but I couldn't handle the idea of losing her, so I believed she would get better.
A week later, she passed away. She was 100, almost 101.
@@Myeko2190I know this was a month ago but still I’m sorry for your loss
@@Myeko2190I know that was a while ago she died but I’m so sorry. She lived a very long life there is actually a group of people called supercenturians who live a hundred years or more
NARR
His brothers last message sounded like a suicide letter
YESSS THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING
THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYING! I NEED TO KNOW IF HE'S OKAY??!
YES EXACTLY I THOUGHT BRO WAS ON A BUILDING OR SMTH
When op said his mom was energetic my heart sank because of someone dying becomes energetic it’s the body’s last gamble at living
Yeah in my grandads last day fighting cancer he was in extreme pain then next minute he was able to almost run up the stairs then he passed in the morning
Terminal lucidity is the worst part of any chronic illness.
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There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You wont regret it
5:57 "She looked better that day. She looked energetic." Oh no... When someone whose health is that poor suddenly gets better like that, it means they have less than a day left to live.
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He is terrible😫OP's decision to forgive Jake despite the immense pain he caused is powerful. I could never. But yeah, sometimes forgiving just means to let go of the anger and find your own peace
Op also didn’t tell his brother the truth about their father.
Maybe that could have been an extra big wake-up call for his brother. Learning that he’s doing exactly what their father did.
I disagree they just hold on to the anger and that's not going to change anything and instead of trying to help Jake they just disown him
I mean they say forgive but it's obvious they don't fell that way
5:50…gave me trauma flashbacks…before my dad passed away (it was unexpected) he called my sister just wanting to hang out, go out to eat, spend time together. She wasn’t able to because of work. He didn’t call me or my other sisters because I was at school and my other sister was at work. He sat for hours with his online friends before passing away. They were the last ones he spoke to. Heard his voice. Everything. Survivors guilt is a horrible feeling…
I'm sorry for you loss.
The OP's decision to not visit his younger brother in the hospital is based on the fact that he wants to put it behind him but maybe visiting him might be the way to really put that chapter behind him and hand his brother the letter and walk away afterwards in the long run for sure.
You forgive for yourself, what the forgiven does with that is entirely their own responsibility.
I get the moms want to not tell her sons qbout their dads gambling addiction. But in the long term it did them a disservice. If they had been informed about their fathers addiction they could better navigate such things in their own lives. Speaking from experience my dad made sure i understood his alcohol addiction after he was clean so i could make better decisions. As a result i dont drjnk at all.
Addiction doesn’t work like that. They run the risk of becoming addicted to anything. It doesn’t have to be the same thing.
True but that still doesn't take away that if their mother had given them the knowledge of their fathers addiction maybe they would've been more careful about engaging in addicting behaviors that can be destructive long term such as gambling
This comment is absolutely funny and ironic because you said you don't drink but only when you typed drink did you spell it wrong. If it was on purpose, nice
Yeah, after my father died of prostate cancer, my cousin (that I grew up calling my sister) refinanced my house without my knowledge. We had both been taking care of my dad AND my aunt (her mother) in my home along with my son.since she worked from home, I would give her money for the taxes on the house and utilities and let her pay.
Looking back I realize just how gullible I was. She stopped paying on my house and started paying on her own down south. Then she packed up and took my aunt down south with her (supposedly for a visit). She was gone for months, but I’m still holding on to money for the taxes. Then the flood came and the power went out.
We were staying warm by keeping the oven open and on as well as all the burners. Heating up water to wash with. We went to the library to charge all of our laptops and phones for the night. And yes we were using hurricane lamps. One day when we came home from the library there was a notice on the door.
My cousin had NOT been paying the second mortgage. The house was in foreclosure. Imagine my surprise when I knew it was supposed to be free and clear. I had to take my little boy to a shelter. That was the lowest point of my life. It was rather ironic. I was attending law school and living in a family shelter. What I don’t understand is how do you DO that to someone that you claim to love SO much? Like a sister?
I’m not even angry anymore. I just want to understand.
OP Monkey Paw'd the fuck out of their mother's last wish. Damn.
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This is from the full video
The last letter from the brother looked lika a suicide note its really heartbreaking 💔 inwish op had atleast visited the hospital n ended things there
Wait… so you didn’t tell your brother that he’s taking after your estranged father who’s still alive?!…. The also gambling addict?!
He doesn't deserve to know. Jake wasn't sorry in the slightest. If he was actually sorry he would have stopped stealing after he was kicked out but instead he broke in only to steal some more. He as going to rob them blind if op didn't step in
@@HalfAnd_Half That is easy for you to say, but being scared about life is really powerfull motivator for doing things you wouldn't normally do.
I met few addicts after rehab in my life, and i trust them when they say they are sorry for stuff they were notorious on doing when they were doing drugs
@@vipcypr8368 sorry without a change in action is meaningless and hollow. A sorry without working to change isn't sorry, it's "I regret the fact that you know about this because it's making my life more difficult."
@@wolfehologram3539 You just assumed there were no actions taken between OP brother going to jail and each of his letters. You don't know that.
Jake was just unlucky for having an addictive personality
This happened about a year ago, my oldest sister had gotten into some really bad substances, she often drink and smoked, but i didnt think it she would go this far.
Until she left the state, she stole alot of our steps moms most valuable jewelry, including her dead moms ring, which our step mom which meant alot to her, i havent heard from in over a year sicne then
What kind of psychopath steals money and pain meds from their MOTHER when they have cancer? For what? Gambling? You put gambling over your mom who is close to death? How does someone ever think they are a good person when they do this?
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@@targetcoupon9110 😭😭😭
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Seriously though both of them need therapy
When someone is dying and they suddenly feel better and more energetic, that means its their last day
Op honestly went too far he honestly couldn’t listen to his reason and went with his emotions and ego
Even at the end he barely improved
This story made my cry
I was sobbing by the end of this😢😢😢😢
This is so sad thisade me cry this is a sad story ❤❤❤❤❤
It I very sad 😭
Ikr 😭😭😭
When he said that Jake was trying to save his Liv but not is mom Jake is cooked
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My condolences for the loss of your mother.
On a side note, Violet Evergarden needs to write this story into an episode plot. This story reminded me of a similar story in Violet Evergarden, where the dying illiterate mother commissioned Violet to write 50 letters for her daughter; one for every year of her life.
Those words that couldn't be said in person but were brought to a closure with a sincere letter. 🥲
Yup that was the only episode that made me me cry!!
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I can't believe OP did that!! If that was my Ma on the line he would rather be taken by the loan sharks
i understand that jake was a disgusting person but as family he should've given him a chance as he apologized many times, he was family after all
my mom left us when i was 5 too.
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If you happen to read this reddit OP? Just want you to know?
Your weakness sickens me.
That last letter Jake sent kinda sounds like a letter someone would send before they kill themselves
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I cried at this.
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My mum died of lung cancer too
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That was so so sad😢
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That’s not forgiveness.
It is. Forgiveness means that you let the anger go, not that everything returns to normal.
Forgiveness comes in many forms. This is one of them. Forgiveness is letting go the bitter emotions that made you hateful towards another. If your forgiveness is allowing bad people back into your life and scraping over what happen then that’s your forgiveness.
You're naive
@@tuby_wrld410 don’t use words you don’t understand
@@BeingMe-t6m You're naive
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Why is this sad
why wouldnt this be sad???
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This is 100% ChatGPT at work.
it might be ngl, the writing is to good, its like an author wrote this,
@@tuby_wrld410 Yup that's what's suspicious. No way a normal reddit user writes like that.
I use ChatGPT for my collage too but turn it into casual writing with some mistakes so it doesn't look too good lol.
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