I had a mom that loved to insult me that I was fat, or stupid, moron, etc. but she never did it when we were alone, always in front of others. She also told me I couldn’t take a joke. I am in my 60’s and to this day I feel like I am not good enough. That feeling will never go away.
Hurt like that doesn't leave easy, I wish you all the best in your journey. You deserve kindness and the knowledge that you are a wonderful human who tries as hard as the rest of us.
Thank you for your kind words. My mom has been gone now for 12 years and I have forgiven her but I can’t forget. I have always checked myself and to remind myself never to be cruel to anyone, you don’t know what they are going thru in their own lives. Again, thank you so much for your support, it means a lot.
This is baffling. From what I've read, 110lbs is a healthy body weight for a 5'3 woman. She probably has a "soft" build as opposed to a toned build commonly seen in more athletic women. This kind of crap is what pushes people to anorexia and a variety of other eating disorders. Also, the whole, "I'm your parent, I deserve your respect and you wouldn't even be here without me, " argument always pissed me off. You earn respect, not demand it. That goes for both strangers AND family.
Exactly shes not fat. But definitely he is. More seems like he's talking about himself. I just can't understand what some can gain by mocking others and make them miserable specially when its their close ones , family, friends , children
@@autumnkeel773 typically, that is considered a bit overweight. Although, if you are a more toned or muscular woman, then you may still be considered healthy.
The ending for me would have been when OP’s dad asked if her BF could find the “hole”. That wasn’t just insulting. That was so far across the line, you’d need a telescope to see it. As wildly inappropriate as it gets. As a father myself, I’m shocked and appalled. Words fail me to describe how disgusting that was.
If I found myself in that situation, I might ask such a father how on earth he finds his thing, when it's clearly so small that you need a microscope to find it. Then I might be so nasty as to say that I wonder if the child is even yours, since I doubt the functionality of his micropenis. Or I wonder if he's using those little blue pills to help him get it up. Somehow I suspect that this human scum treats his wife the same way he treats his daughter. And she just doesn't have the backbone to put a stop to this kind of thing. Another possibility is that this man is annoyed that his only child was not a boy. So I didn't notice any mention in the story that the OP had any siblings. I myself am the eldest child and a woman and have a younger brother. We are both adults though and live our lives each on our own ways. But my dad has treated me a bit like that, he clearly wasn't happy that the first child was a girl either. He's never said it out loud, but his behaviour says the opposite. And yes respect is not earned, it is deserved and if you don't respect others, don't be surprised if no one respects you. I don't have children myself (and not going to have, because of many reasons), but if I did, I wouldn't treat them like that. And anyone who dares to say something like that about me or even my brother's children, well let's just say that such a commentator may feel the sudden need to go to the emergency room to get treatment.
How that’s what I’m saying. I figured it would just be a mentor he mean statement, but like wtf is wrong with you? Insulting your own daughter’s sexuality and love and talking about her body like that?
That councillor needs to be fired, almost certainly was untrained and had now qualifications if she reacts like that to a girl coming to her with body issues
Its terrible, a dad mocked n body shamed his own child. He did it multiple times and already crossed the boundaries, so its ok not to forgive him. Thats sad when some parents don't think this may cause a trauma to their children. Go therapy OP, you have bf and his family who support you
Frankly it was rather tame for all she could say. It was more the fact that she said anything at all while being that normally timid that makes it have punch
As someone who has been trying to get healthier but both experienced and witnessed that kind of abuse, I can say the OP is not at fault on any level here. The father clearly has some very deep rooted problems, and not just perhaps a past where he was bullied. There is a very palpable misogyny to his insults/"jokes", and that is very clear. Also, the mother actually has been bullied most of her life by men, obviously, and perhaps even abused in more than one way by the father/husband especially. The fact the boyfriend/fiance and his family sees how toxic things are shows that it is "not every man" clearly. However, the father really deserve what the OP did as no contact that way to make the message. They got themselves disowned and NC-ed. If he had really intended to apologize, he would never have made a scene at the birthday party. The mother "tried" but it is too late, unless she is willing to divorce the father, and it very well may happen.
“It’s what fathers do” is bs, I had a minor eating problem where I would eat like one snack every 4 days (okay maybe that’s not minor) and that happened for like 2 months or so. I lost like 20 pounds and had to talk to my dad about it and he was the most supportive guy.
That’s exactly right. No father would ever make their daughter feel that way, he’s a disgrace. A father lifts her up. That’s why dad jokes are wholesome. Glad your dad is like that
When my grandfather said things about my weight (which was excessive), which I inherited from my dad’s side (this was my mom’s dad) I told him if I wasn’t good enough for him he doesn’t need to see me anymore. This did the trick, but I was serious. No one with an actual weight problem needs to be reminded. No one who has no actual weight problem should be told otherwise. OP’s father was on a power trip.
The fact that “dad” still had his teeth in his skull is amazing, I actually had to be held back from breaking another man skull inward when a random ass-clown made a suggested commented toward my underage sister
my step father used to bully me about my weight, even though i was perfectly healthy, i was always a little chubby, but it was just extra fat that my metabolism couldnt burn off. i was 11 years old at 112 pounds, at 5’3. he used to call me ‘ piggy ‘ and ‘ fat girl ‘ . he is 6’1, 59 years old and just under 300 pounds. i am perfectly healthy and am a healthy weight. his comments made me extremely insecure, so much as to wear i never wore shorts, ( if i did i wore jorts ) i only wore excessively baggy shirts and hoodies that were 3 sizes bigger then i need, i only wore sweatpants. after my mom left him and we moved, i now wear bikinis, i wear normal sized shirts, i wear shorts. he ruined my self confidence and i wish he could see that.
I truly hope you're alright. My stepdad did the same thing. Unfortunately, my mom is an enabler. He's called me fat, retarded, a fatass who never walks, ugly, pimple face, useless, lazy, overall ruining my mental health to the point I attempted to OD four months ago. Idk how I'm still alive (five bottles of fluoxetine and no medical attention (he also still yelled at me to get off my fat ass and do the laundry despite me being unable to sit up without vomiting)), but I take it as a sign I'm supposed to be here. You deserve to be here too. You don't deserve that treatment at all, and I hope that if it ever happens again, you have the strength to give them a piece of your mind. I'm glad you're out of there and safe and I wish you the best recovery.
@@Xena-Lilac-Winters thank you, and any time i would stick up for myself hed threaten to put me in the hospital. ive also tried to commit, and i hope your living your best life.
Trust that you aren’t that. I worked and work my ass off to get my girlfriend to feel comfortable in her own skin. I promise you you are OK and are BEAUTIFUL the way you are
The so-called father clearly had insecurity issues. Him accusing you of being fat while he himself is an alarmingly 240 lbs at 5'5" tall tells me everything I needed to know.
This made me RAGE. I'd have a few choice words to share with him, but I understand why she reacted the way she did. Much harder when it's been going on for years by your supposed parents
When I was that age I was 5'4 and I weighed 110 to 117 lb somewhere in between there. My father never once told me that I was overweight or that my thighs jiggled or anything like that. Nobody ever did. In fact some people said I needed to put on a couple of pounds. This disgust me that parents would do that to their own child and body shame them for being so skinny but telling them that they're overweight. What did they want her to weigh 75 lb? When I was listening to this story I wanted so bad to reach through the phone and slap that mother and father and tell them to get the F out and to never come back again. That made me so mad. My dad never once made fun of my weight even when I did become slightly overweight when I became disabled. And I think he would have beat the hell out of anybody who did body shame me. I love my dad so much and God Rest his soul I miss him more than I can even say. Shame on those parents and good for you honey for sticking up for yourself!
You can tell the father was bullied as a insecure kid. I bet it was mostly about being a short-king and fat? He shoulda ended that toxic route with his daughter. I hope she never forgives him.
My mother always does this to me, for a guy I’m short (5’5) and she always says “Your fucking fat” or “that’s why you don’t have a girlfriend” I weigh 124LBS- I’m terrified to tell her I’m gay because she’s homophobic I’m waiting to leave this house, to get away She drove her oldest daughter away and now she’s going to drive her youngest child away too
You are a healthy weight for a male that height and being short is perfectly normal I’m pretty short for my age (11 I look like 8 or 9). I don’t think your mom should treat you that and I hope you can get out that toxic environment and being lgbtq+ is great I’m bi, genderfluid, and non binary I hope you have a wonderful life after you move out of your house :)
_you deserve better than what you’ve. I’ll never get homophobes, or parents who bully their own kids. I sorta get what you’re going through since I’m bi and genderqueer. I hope you have a wonderful life once you move out!_
No parent would ever destroy their child like that even if they had a difference of opinion about your characteristics. A parent loves, they don’t hate
as someone with a shitty dad as well, i felt bombarded with emotions and reminders of his past presence in my life, but what i felt most was disgust, i am genuinely sick and want to throw up because of how terrible some people are, especially some parents, and it’s disturbing how awful these things are
A child is not born out of their own will and they don’t owe anything to their parents but their parents are responsible for them to bring them into this world and they are responsible for each and everything for their baby. Like teaching them good and bad,right and wrong taking care of their needs and prepare them to face the world. Bringing a child into this world and not loving it is the worst kind of cruelty. I know what body shaming feels like and when it’s your own family doing it makes it 100 times worse. I was never loved by my family and it feels like they hate me I have fulfilled their motives which they needed me for now I am just a burden. I will never forgive them.
When I was 6 months pregnant with my son I had gained a lot of weight. My aunt started talking about how fat I had become ignoring the fact I was pregnant, long story short I ignored her and she didn't get to hold my son when he was born and she threw a massive tantrum when I told her no. Serves her right. Don't bulky your neice!
Oh what's worse is she called me by my first and middle name all my life and I never had the guts to tell her I hated it but then I turned 31 and I told my mother that if her sister didn't stop I'd tear off her head, my aunt had no understanding why I hated it and that it had been a name she's called me all my life. I no longer see her after she saw my temper for the first time ever
Did anyone notice when she said she was home alone and then like 30 seconds later she said that the boyfriend was home and heard and the other room or some shit
Bro that’s like my exact weight/height, how on EARTH can anyone see OP as overweight?? If anything, I’m worried about being UNDERweight. I’ve had people, specifically my dad, make sure I was eating right and not having issues. All my body discomfort comes from lack of muscles and form… People like OP’s dad are actually insane.
My step mom keep telling me what I should wear or not because I show too much skin. Like she's the one buying the clothes so that is not my fault. I'm wearing the clothes you buy if that bother you so my dad could buy clothes for me.
I am a 13 year old boy i am 70 kg, my fathrr always calls me fat, no matter where we are, or who we are with, he says that altgozght he is 53 and 120 kg, i am starting to loose weoght, he said looks like i gave you motivation, he is a good dad with like panic qttacks and shouting swearing, but nothing much except this
I have a female cousin 17 years older than me. When I was about 15 and she was 30 something she treated me the exact same way that OP's father treated OP, when I told her she's wrong for that she told me that if I think she's wrong I belong in a psychiatric ward. She called me crazy for not wanting to be skinny. So I cut her out of my life forever. She's now much older and much less good looking, she has chronic migraines. I never got my revenge on her, I think her headaches are her karma.
That's not the kind of joke a father makes, that's a joke some creep who can't have you makes. At no point should any man be making comments on a woman's "hole," let alone a blood relative or so-called family member. The father's disgusting, the mother's no better for letting that go on.
Bro your old fathers 240lbs and saying your fat! I put old fathers because your decision was absolutely right they both are just unable to understand the pain of their own words
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A general estimate of the healthy weight for a 5 foot 3 inches woman is 112 to 136 pounds so this woman is absolutely not overweight. Also everyones body is different and what's healthy for one person may not be for another so even if she was more than 136 pounds it would probably not be a problem. Not to mention that even if she was overweight it would still not be ok to humiliate her. Also it's really really disgusting and not ok for a parent to comment on their child's sex life...
My family still to this day comments about my body and they always body shame me, when i react they just brush it off and tell me they are worried about me...But it just hurts me deeply, i also cried a lot in my boyfriends arms. He always gets angry when i talk about my body, he tells me that i am beautiful and hot, but i just can't love my body the way that it is. I struggled with an ED since i was a little girl, i recovered 2 years ago and ever since i gained 10-15kgs. Even though my weight bothers me and i do want to lose weight i am afraid to do so, because I don't want my ED to come back
I relate to this person. I am a very similar height and a similar weight, and one of my biggest insecurities is my thighs. I am insecure anytime anyone says anything about my legs, even if it has nothing to do with their size. I'm sorry for anyone who goes through things like this
I had to stand up for my ex-wife years ago. Her father loved making her cry and did it no matter who was around. I warned him before we married to stop. He didn't. So the first time he did it after we married I told him if he ever did it again I would remove his other limbs and I would not use anesthetic when doing so. He finally stopped because he could tell I was not kidding. Note: He'd already lost a limb due to alcoholism.
My Dad was kinda like this. He wasn't happy in his marriage and made so many comments on how horrible women were towards me and my sister. I believe he thought so long as he said "But you guys are the exception" it made it all better... It didn't. So one day I just started saying things equivalent to what he said, about how horrible men were and ended it with "But you're the exception". Every time he said something I retorted back. Now he doesn't say much to me, but my sister always reminds him of what he used to say to us with a "Dad you were right when you say (whatever comment) I'm so glad we aren't like those types of women". I've asked her about it and she says this is her form of revenge and hopes our Dad reflects on what he says
I feel like the dad manipulated the mom into doing this because like the mom just seems like the person to like be easy to manipulate. I hope that you find it in your heart to sit down and ask your mom these questions. 1. Why did you let Dar talk about me like that? 2. if you really did, love me and so would you let him walk all over us? Last but not least 3. If you ever felt like he was hurting you, why would you stay with him? I hope you can find it in your heart to ask them this.❤
They show up to an event, uninvited, to apologize in front of witnesses so you look like the bad guy for not accepting their apology. Glad they didn’t get past the entrance. Hope the Mom grows a pair and tells her husband that he’s responsible for the loss of their daughter.
Are we just going to ignore that the OP said that a school counselor said that "If you have self-image issues, you need to be put in a ward"! That school counselor needs to be fired immediately.💀
I hate my cousin (16M) so much. That out of context seems heartless but I have my reasons. One reason is that he hates me. I get that when we were little (I was about 3-4) I would be annoying and push him off of the couch but I’m older now, have apologized and shown actual growth. That one’s a smaller reason but he treats my sister (19F) like she’s a god and really holy but treats me (14N) horribly like I’m the devil himself. Second reason (this one’s more damming) but one Christmas, he complained about getting a $300 Bluetooth gaming chair with light up speakers. The first thing is that it was in the living room and he just opened it without knowing who’s it was and asked who’s it was. Then when we got to our other aunts house and he didn’t get anything, he started throwing a fit and even called my mom (46F now) a whore when she was trying to calm him down. Just imagine walking out on a christmas night and hearing a 13 year old cry about only getting one present. Finally, the nail in the coffin, he’s pervy. We were in Tennessee for spring break and he asked me if I slept without clothes on and told me that I could take them off if I wanted and that morning I caught him staring at me when I woke up but he denied it. More recently during a birthday party for another of my cousins (3F at the time), he was starting at her and two more of their butts (5F and 2F) and they were in bathing suits because it was a pool party. My other cousin, the birthday girls mom (about 22F) went to my uncle (not 16Ms dad, about 47M) when she saw it and complained but all he said was “boys will be boys” and walked off, which caused a fight that somehow we were brought into because apparently according to another cousin, I talk too much, my mom doesn’t work enough because her lateral maniscus is broken and my stepmom doesn’t work enough because she’s lazy (his words, not mine.) For some context, my cousin was SAd by his father until the age of about 4, when CPS took him and his father was sent to jail. My aunt (16Ms mom) moved in with my uncle to try to get custody of him back and she did but had to follow rules like no devices unless for school purposes (which he has a switch, laptop and an Xbox with Xbox live on it.) I feel bad for him for what he went through but my family enables and excuses it because of what he went through with only a couple of us knowing that’s a bad thing because he could end up in jail.
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That’s not a father or a mother. Those two are insecure and were bullied at a young age. I love how you chose not to be like them. That’s strength
Holy yappertron
@EliKiepe-q2p maybe you're just illiterate if you think thats yapping
Bro her dad's weight💀💀💀 is literally double at that age and 2 inches higher
They're a father and a mother, but they're not a mom or a dad
@@EliKiepe-q2pif you can’t read three sentences then your illiterate
I had a mom that loved to insult me that I was fat, or stupid, moron, etc. but she never did it when we were alone, always in front of others. She also told me I couldn’t take a joke. I am in my 60’s and to this day I feel like I am not good enough. That feeling will never go away.
I hope you are alright forget about your mum ❤
Don’t like your moms words get to you, try talking to someone about this
Hurt like that doesn't leave easy, I wish you all the best in your journey. You deserve kindness and the knowledge that you are a wonderful human who tries as hard as the rest of us.
Thank you for your kind words. My mom has been gone now for 12 years and I have forgiven her but I can’t forget. I have always checked myself and to remind myself never to be cruel to anyone, you don’t know what they are going thru in their own lives. Again, thank you so much for your support, it means a lot.
I hope things get better for you
This is baffling. From what I've read, 110lbs is a healthy body weight for a 5'3 woman. She probably has a "soft" build as opposed to a toned build commonly seen in more athletic women. This kind of crap is what pushes people to anorexia and a variety of other eating disorders. Also, the whole, "I'm your parent, I deserve your respect and you wouldn't even be here without me, " argument always pissed me off. You earn respect, not demand it. That goes for both strangers AND family.
my sister is 5’3 and 110 lbs so I was so surprised when the story said that and my sis is pretty skinny too
Pov the girl's mum were is your pickle
Exactly shes not fat. But definitely he is. More seems like he's talking about himself. I just can't understand what some can gain by mocking others and make them miserable specially when its their close ones , family, friends , children
@Reyyy3333 as soon as I heard it I thought of I am looking in the man in the mirror
@@autumnkeel773 typically, that is considered a bit overweight. Although, if you are a more toned or muscular woman, then you may still be considered healthy.
The ending for me would have been when OP’s dad asked if her BF could find the “hole”. That wasn’t just insulting. That was so far across the line, you’d need a telescope to see it. As wildly inappropriate as it gets. As a father myself, I’m shocked and appalled. Words fail me to describe how disgusting that was.
Yes that was absolutely, shockingly vile
fr, I am a future mum (I plan to have kids in the future) and I'd never let my husband do this.
Daddy dear is a pervert
If I found myself in that situation, I might ask such a father how on earth he finds his thing, when it's clearly so small that you need a microscope to find it. Then I might be so nasty as to say that I wonder if the child is even yours, since I doubt the functionality of his micropenis. Or I wonder if he's using those little blue pills to help him get it up.
Somehow I suspect that this human scum treats his wife the same way he treats his daughter. And she just doesn't have the backbone to put a stop to this kind of thing. Another possibility is that this man is annoyed that his only child was not a boy. So I didn't notice any mention in the story that the OP had any siblings.
I myself am the eldest child and a woman and have a younger brother. We are both adults though and live our lives each on our own ways. But my dad has treated me a bit like that, he clearly wasn't happy that the first child was a girl either. He's never said it out loud, but his behaviour says the opposite.
And yes respect is not earned, it is deserved and if you don't respect others, don't be surprised if no one respects you. I don't have children myself (and not going to have, because of many reasons), but if I did, I wouldn't treat them like that. And anyone who dares to say something like that about me or even my brother's children, well let's just say that such a commentator may feel the sudden need to go to the emergency room to get treatment.
How that’s what I’m saying. I figured it would just be a mentor he mean statement, but like wtf is wrong with you? Insulting your own daughter’s sexuality and love and talking about her body like that?
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That councillor needs to be fired, almost certainly was untrained and had now qualifications if she reacts like that to a girl coming to her with body issues
That’s exactly right. You do not take that jokingly. It’s a serious matter
Its terrible, a dad mocked n body shamed his own child. He did it multiple times and already crossed the boundaries, so its ok not to forgive him. Thats sad when some parents don't think this may cause a trauma to their children. Go therapy OP, you have bf and his family who support you
I got the impression from ur comment that if he didn’t cross the line it wasn’t ok to forgive him?
@@lilahsminions.official they said that since he crossed the line multiple times, it’s right for OP not to forgive them
@@lilahsminions.official I mean its right for OP not to forgive... not isn't right to forgive tho
@@dailyRddit shit i worded it wrong sorry i was supposed to say that if he didnt cross the line it wouldnt be ok not to forgive him
“That note was short” you just burned the father(or whatever you call him) so much there’s literal steam coming out of him.
Especially if you speed it up to 2! 🤣🤣
Fr!!! I was gonna mention that! “I know it was rushed and short” b*tch where- where’s the short note??
Nah she didn’t burn her dad, she literally INCINERATED him
Frankly it was rather tame for all she could say. It was more the fact that she said anything at all while being that normally timid that makes it have punch
Sometimes, the hardest battles are the ones we fight within ourselves, and you’ve shown just how powerful self-respect and love can be.
“I was home alone. When my boyfriend came in from the other room” 💀
I didn't even catch that- Like- wut
I think original post could be real but I’m 99.9% sure the updates are Ai generated
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“As her backbone is non- existent and she lets weird men walk over her” LMAO IM DYING💀✋
As someone who has been trying to get healthier but both experienced and witnessed that kind of abuse, I can say the OP is not at fault on any level here. The father clearly has some very deep rooted problems, and not just perhaps a past where he was bullied. There is a very palpable misogyny to his insults/"jokes", and that is very clear. Also, the mother actually has been bullied most of her life by men, obviously, and perhaps even abused in more than one way by the father/husband especially. The fact the boyfriend/fiance and his family sees how toxic things are shows that it is "not every man" clearly. However, the father really deserve what the OP did as no contact that way to make the message. They got themselves disowned and NC-ed. If he had really intended to apologize, he would never have made a scene at the birthday party. The mother "tried" but it is too late, unless she is willing to divorce the father, and it very well may happen.
“It’s what fathers do” is bs, I had a minor eating problem where I would eat like one snack every 4 days (okay maybe that’s not minor) and that happened for like 2 months or so. I lost like 20 pounds and had to talk to my dad about it and he was the most supportive guy.
That’s exactly right. No father would ever make their daughter feel that way, he’s a disgrace. A father lifts her up. That’s why dad jokes are wholesome.
Glad your dad is like that
😮 WTF...Those aren't Parents, there Bullies who Force u to listen to their bullying!!!! Stand up and stay Strong as u have a Happy Life😅
Insult joking is bullying. Insulting someone is never funny.
When my grandfather said things about my weight (which was excessive), which I inherited from my dad’s side (this was my mom’s dad) I told him if I wasn’t good enough for him he doesn’t need to see me anymore. This did the trick, but I was serious. No one with an actual weight problem needs to be reminded. No one who has no actual weight problem should be told otherwise. OP’s father was on a power trip.
That’s exactly right. Glad you were able to fix things with your grandad
The fact that “dad” still had his teeth in his skull is amazing, I actually had to be held back from breaking another man skull inward when a random ass-clown made a suggested commented toward my underage sister
Maybe people don’t find him threatening, since he’s 5’5, 240 lmao. Like that’s actually fat, no joke
"I can take a joke, but not a joke disguised as an insult."
You mean “an insult disguised as a joke”?
“Her backbone is nonexistent” 💀
W BOYFRIEND WE ALL NEED SOMEONE LIKE HIM!!
That’s a really good boyfriend.😔
my step father used to bully me about my weight, even though i was perfectly healthy, i was always a little chubby, but it was just extra fat that my metabolism couldnt burn off. i was 11 years old at 112 pounds, at 5’3. he used to call me ‘ piggy ‘ and ‘ fat girl ‘ . he is 6’1, 59 years old and just under 300 pounds. i am perfectly healthy and am a healthy weight. his comments made me extremely insecure, so much as to wear i never wore shorts, ( if i did i wore jorts ) i only wore excessively baggy shirts and hoodies that were 3 sizes bigger then i need, i only wore sweatpants. after my mom left him and we moved, i now wear bikinis, i wear normal sized shirts, i wear shorts. he ruined my self confidence and i wish he could see that.
I truly hope you're alright. My stepdad did the same thing. Unfortunately, my mom is an enabler. He's called me fat, retarded, a fatass who never walks, ugly, pimple face, useless, lazy, overall ruining my mental health to the point I attempted to OD four months ago. Idk how I'm still alive (five bottles of fluoxetine and no medical attention (he also still yelled at me to get off my fat ass and do the laundry despite me being unable to sit up without vomiting)), but I take it as a sign I'm supposed to be here. You deserve to be here too. You don't deserve that treatment at all, and I hope that if it ever happens again, you have the strength to give them a piece of your mind. I'm glad you're out of there and safe and I wish you the best recovery.
@@Xena-Lilac-Winters thank you, and any time i would stick up for myself hed threaten to put me in the hospital. ive also tried to commit, and i hope your living your best life.
Trust that you aren’t that.
I worked and work my ass off to get my girlfriend to feel comfortable in her own skin. I promise you you are OK and are BEAUTIFUL the way you are
@Xena-Lilac-Winters
You do deserve to be here. Try to support yourself with people who love you
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That's not anywhere CLOSE to overweight???
"Excuse me I am your father, you will respect me, if not for me you wouldn't be here right now" is what the father said if anyone's wondering 😁
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The so-called father clearly had insecurity issues. Him accusing you of being fat while he himself is an alarmingly 240 lbs at 5'5" tall tells me everything I needed to know.
The father is terrible when she is literally in the healthy department of weight of 104-137 for a 5,3 women
Honestly the fact that he is twice the weight of her and only 5cm/2in taller just shows how delusional he is
This made me RAGE. I'd have a few choice words to share with him, but I understand why she reacted the way she did. Much harder when it's been going on for years by your supposed parents
When I was that age I was 5'4 and I weighed 110 to 117 lb somewhere in between there. My father never once told me that I was overweight or that my thighs jiggled or anything like that. Nobody ever did. In fact some people said I needed to put on a couple of pounds. This disgust me that parents would do that to their own child and body shame them for being so skinny but telling them that they're overweight. What did they want her to weigh 75 lb? When I was listening to this story I wanted so bad to reach through the phone and slap that mother and father and tell them to get the F out and to never come back again. That made me so mad. My dad never once made fun of my weight even when I did become slightly overweight when I became disabled. And I think he would have beat the hell out of anybody who did body shame me. I love my dad so much and God Rest his soul I miss him more than I can even say. Shame on those parents and good for you honey for sticking up for yourself!
I also wish to reach through the screen on this one, lol
110 LBS IS CRAZY, SHES SKINNIER THAN ME AND IM CALLED TOOTHPICK💀
Even I could stand on the needle's point, and still would be space, she is waaaay thinner than I am😂
Bros parents got roasted by a letter 💀
She should sue them for emotional neglect/abuse.
110 pounds at 5”3 that’s not even close to overweight, that’s healthy. Is he insecure about obesity his weight?
You can tell the father was bullied as a insecure kid. I bet it was mostly about being a short-king and fat? He shoulda ended that toxic route with his daughter. I hope she never forgives him.
My mother always does this to me, for a guy I’m short (5’5) and she always says “Your fucking fat” or “that’s why you don’t have a girlfriend”
I weigh 124LBS- I’m terrified to tell her I’m gay because she’s homophobic
I’m waiting to leave this house, to get away
She drove her oldest daughter away and now she’s going to drive her youngest child away too
You are a healthy weight for a male that height and being short is perfectly normal I’m pretty short for my age (11 I look like 8 or 9). I don’t think your mom should treat you that and I hope you can get out that toxic environment and being lgbtq+ is great I’m bi, genderfluid, and non binary I hope you have a wonderful life after you move out of your house :)
_you deserve better than what you’ve. I’ll never get homophobes, or parents who bully their own kids. I sorta get what you’re going through since I’m bi and genderqueer. I hope you have a wonderful life once you move out!_
No parent would ever destroy their child like that even if they had a difference of opinion about your characteristics. A parent loves, they don’t hate
as someone with a shitty dad as well, i felt bombarded with emotions and reminders of his past presence in my life, but what i felt most was disgust, i am genuinely sick and want to throw up because of how terrible some people are, especially some parents, and it’s disturbing how awful these things are
10:34 I just got stand proud your string vibes
A child is not born out of their own will and they don’t owe anything to their parents but their parents are responsible for them to bring them into this world and they are responsible for each and everything for their baby. Like teaching them good and bad,right and wrong taking care of their needs and prepare them to face the world. Bringing a child into this world and not loving it is the worst kind of cruelty. I know what body shaming feels like and when it’s your own family doing it makes it 100 times worse. I was never loved by my family and it feels like they hate me I have fulfilled their motives which they needed me for now I am just a burden. I will never forgive them.
That’s right. The parents made her choice, the parents must be responsible.
Hopefully you’re feeling better 🙇♂️💪💪💪
“The next day i was home alone”- “my boyfriend who had been in the other room came beside me”
I know! 😂
"Another One🙏🏾", Chat GPT.
The struggles of ai. THey don't know lonelyness
Whenever someone is in a different room most of the time I would address myself as home alone
@@HalfAnd_Half yea but that means you aren’t home alone you doormat
When I was 6 months pregnant with my son I had gained a lot of weight. My aunt started talking about how fat I had become ignoring the fact I was pregnant, long story short I ignored her and she didn't get to hold my son when he was born and she threw a massive tantrum when I told her no. Serves her right. Don't bulky your neice!
Oh what's worse is she called me by my first and middle name all my life and I never had the guts to tell her I hated it but then I turned 31 and I told my mother that if her sister didn't stop I'd tear off her head, my aunt had no understanding why I hated it and that it had been a name she's called me all my life. I no longer see her after she saw my temper for the first time ever
W boyfriend
You are right
on OPs 21st WHY DIDNT OP CALL THE COPS LIKE SHE SAID SHE WOULD AND OP GET A RESTRAINING ORDER OR A CEASE AND DECEASE
She did get security at least
Did anyone notice when she said she was home alone and then like 30 seconds later she said that the boyfriend was home and heard and the other room or some shit
I did
Whenever someone else is in a different room for most of the time I address myself as being home alone
1:31 ain’t no way mass monster is body shaming someone else 💀
Hahaha
Respect to the father and mother in law
Bro that’s like my exact weight/height, how on EARTH can anyone see OP as overweight?? If anything, I’m worried about being UNDERweight. I’ve had people, specifically my dad, make sure I was eating right and not having issues. All my body discomfort comes from lack of muscles and form… People like OP’s dad are actually insane.
he was probably at the bday just to eat the cake 💀
LMAO
😂😂😂
If I were her, I would’ve had a crash out bigger than Broly in DBZ 💀💀
Everyone has a father and mother but not everyone a mom and dad
what
W Boyfriend he’s a keeper bless you and him
Now that boyfriend is what I call a real man!
That man’s a keeper
Girl slay I'm a kid and I feel you.
My step mom keep telling me what I should wear or not because I show too much skin. Like she's the one buying the clothes so that is not my fault. I'm wearing the clothes you buy if that bother you so my dad could buy clothes for me.
can we just give her a round of applause she’s such a bad a….
1:07 for those that came from the short
Update 1: 2:43
Update 2: 5:01
Update 3: 7:00
Thank you so so so much ❤
I am a 13 year old boy i am 70 kg, my fathrr always calls me fat, no matter where we are, or who we are with, he says that altgozght he is 53 and 120 kg, i am starting to loose weoght, he said looks like i gave you motivation, he is a good dad with like panic qttacks and shouting swearing, but nothing much except this
Even if he weighed less, nobody should make fun of your weight, PERIOD.
It’s almost funny when people who rely on “go along to get along” finally push people past their limit
I have a female cousin 17 years older than me. When I was about 15 and she was 30 something she treated me the exact same way that OP's father treated OP, when I told her she's wrong for that she told me that if I think she's wrong I belong in a psychiatric ward. She called me crazy for not wanting to be skinny. So I cut her out of my life forever. She's now much older and much less good looking, she has chronic migraines. I never got my revenge on her, I think her headaches are her karma.
That's not the kind of joke a father makes, that's a joke some creep who can't have you makes. At no point should any man be making comments on a woman's "hole," let alone a blood relative or so-called family member.
The father's disgusting, the mother's no better for letting that go on.
Ok im 127ish pounds at 13 and im not fat so you shouldn't be insecure about that bullshit
He’s a short man, insecure about his short stature so he insults his daughter to big himself up
the note was savage asf
Uhh I’m 5’3 and when I was 110 lbs I got told I was severely underweight so that dad is dumb
Bro your old fathers 240lbs and saying your fat! I put old fathers because your decision was absolutely right they both are just unable to understand the pain of their own words
If they really wanted to apologize and make amends they wouldn't have showed up on your bday.
You know you can just ignore him. He is your father, but if he’s just that mean to you, it’s not good to keep him in your life
This was the best one of these videos I have ever seen not just the story but the waves and the ocean added so much to it I will be checking out your channel
110 is healthy weight for 5'3
That note 😂😂😂😂😂🎉❤❤ good for you😁😁😊
Op, your father is nothing but a bully! His jokes crossed the line.
A general estimate of the healthy weight for a 5 foot 3 inches woman is 112 to 136 pounds so this woman is absolutely not overweight. Also everyones body is different and what's healthy for one person may not be for another so even if she was more than 136 pounds it would probably not be a problem. Not to mention that even if she was overweight it would still not be ok to humiliate her. Also it's really really disgusting and not ok for a parent to comment on their child's sex life...
All kids deserve parents but not all parents deserve kids
This goes way beyond teasing. A case could be made that the parents SAed OP.
His bmi is double hers and her bmi is in the perfectly healthy range
Ypu can lowkey tell she's a writer
are we not going to talk about how much we love the boyfriend and his family?
My family still to this day comments about my body and they always body shame me, when i react they just brush it off and tell me they are worried about me...But it just hurts me deeply, i also cried a lot in my boyfriends arms. He always gets angry when i talk about my body, he tells me that i am beautiful and hot, but i just can't love my body the way that it is. I struggled with an ED since i was a little girl, i recovered 2 years ago and ever since i gained 10-15kgs. Even though my weight bothers me and i do want to lose weight i am afraid to do so, because I don't want my ED to come back
Please be away from your family, at least until you can feel totally fine. They aren’t helping
I love everyone in my family except one person but I can't say it.
I relate to this person. I am a very similar height and a similar weight, and one of my biggest insecurities is my thighs. I am insecure anytime anyone says anything about my legs, even if it has nothing to do with their size. I'm sorry for anyone who goes through things like this
110 at 5,3” isn’t even fat
that’s skinny😭 i’m 5,5 and 130 and im skinny but a lot of muscle
That’s what I’m saying
Dude 2 things 1 those are contradicting also your not 5 5 especially when you make mfing frank reactions vids@gabemanning6574
@@Kapzbruh Godzilla had a stroke trying to read this and died
@@Kapzbruh i don’t make reaction vids and why would i lie about being 5,5🤦🏼♂️
um she said she was home alone 9:33 but then she said that her boyfriend heard the commotion and came over
I'll take "Parental Projections" for $200, Alex!
I had to stand up for my ex-wife years ago. Her father loved making her cry and did it no matter who was around.
I warned him before we married to stop. He didn't. So the first time he did it after we married I told him if he ever did it again I would remove his other limbs and I would not use anesthetic when doing so.
He finally stopped because he could tell I was not kidding.
Note: He'd already lost a limb due to alcoholism.
Bro what? That’s wild. “Look at her thighs jiggle” bro is P Diddy.
My Dad was kinda like this. He wasn't happy in his marriage and made so many comments on how horrible women were towards me and my sister. I believe he thought so long as he said "But you guys are the exception" it made it all better... It didn't. So one day I just started saying things equivalent to what he said, about how horrible men were and ended it with "But you're the exception". Every time he said something I retorted back. Now he doesn't say much to me, but my sister always reminds him of what he used to say to us with a "Dad you were right when you say (whatever comment) I'm so glad we aren't like those types of women". I've asked her about it and she says this is her form of revenge and hopes our Dad reflects on what he says
I feel like the dad manipulated the mom into doing this because like the mom just seems like the person to like be easy to manipulate. I hope that you find it in your heart to sit down and ask your mom these questions. 1. Why did you let Dar talk about me like that? 2. if you really did, love me and so would you let him walk all over us? Last but not least 3. If you ever felt like he was hurting you, why would you stay with him? I hope you can find it in your heart to ask them this.❤
I am so very sorry that you had to put up with all of that. You deserve so much better. Good luck to you and your boyfriend.
They show up to an event, uninvited, to apologize in front of witnesses so you look like the bad guy for not accepting their apology. Glad they didn’t get past the entrance.
Hope the Mom grows a pair and tells her husband that he’s responsible for the loss of their daughter.
9:32 I thought she was home alone?
For real
Kippity lappity the woman is cappiting
Me to
Are we just going to ignore that the OP said that a school counselor said that "If you have self-image issues, you need to be put in a ward"! That school counselor needs to be fired immediately.💀
1:04 your welcome.
That counselor needs to be fired
SHE BURNED HER PARENTS💀💀💀💀💀
GIRL DW UR OLDER THAN ME AND I WEIGH MORE UR PERFECT
Others:reading the text
Me:seeing the waves looks like snow😂😂
Ok she is not heavy that is actually a good weight for that hieht
I hate my cousin (16M) so much. That out of context seems heartless but I have my reasons.
One reason is that he hates me. I get that when we were little (I was about 3-4) I would be annoying and push him off of the couch but I’m older now, have apologized and shown actual growth. That one’s a smaller reason but he treats my sister (19F) like she’s a god and really holy but treats me (14N) horribly like I’m the devil himself.
Second reason (this one’s more damming) but one Christmas, he complained about getting a $300 Bluetooth gaming chair with light up speakers. The first thing is that it was in the living room and he just opened it without knowing who’s it was and asked who’s it was. Then when we got to our other aunts house and he didn’t get anything, he started throwing a fit and even called my mom (46F now) a whore when she was trying to calm him down. Just imagine walking out on a christmas night and hearing a 13 year old cry about only getting one present.
Finally, the nail in the coffin, he’s pervy. We were in Tennessee for spring break and he asked me if I slept without clothes on and told me that I could take them off if I wanted and that morning I caught him staring at me when I woke up but he denied it. More recently during a birthday party for another of my cousins (3F at the time), he was starting at her and two more of their butts (5F and 2F) and they were in bathing suits because it was a pool party. My other cousin, the birthday girls mom (about 22F) went to my uncle (not 16Ms dad, about 47M) when she saw it and complained but all he said was “boys will be boys” and walked off, which caused a fight that somehow we were brought into because apparently according to another cousin, I talk too much, my mom doesn’t work enough because her lateral maniscus is broken and my stepmom doesn’t work enough because she’s lazy (his words, not mine.)
For some context, my cousin was SAd by his father until the age of about 4, when CPS took him and his father was sent to jail. My aunt (16Ms mom) moved in with my uncle to try to get custody of him back and she did but had to follow rules like no devices unless for school purposes (which he has a switch, laptop and an Xbox with Xbox live on it.) I feel bad for him for what he went through but my family enables and excuses it because of what he went through with only a couple of us knowing that’s a bad thing because he could end up in jail.
HOLY YAPPOTRON
(Also this is a joke )
1:50 the dad at that second: +enraged