F= frame the person as subject ,use story L= listen to understand not to respond A= acknowledge the feeling,be present R=relationship ,reflect ,engage with story,use language to express E=engage to allow to provoke the feeling using connectors from the story Happy net-worthing
This deserves to reach more people, his talk was awesome, this really works putting ourselves into others shoes and seeing through their eyes I completely agree Thank you
I didn't watch this before taking your course yesterday. WHOA this really blew my mind. You taught me an incredibly valuable lesson here. What an incredible story. Thank you so much for sharing.
yeah that helps for someone who is talkative. Th listening technique only works with the person you have conflict with actually communicates what they are feeling!!
So many people these days choose the victim-role when facing hatred and the different way you chose to respond sets an example for those who wish to see a breakthrough in our changing world as you’ve proven it’s possible.
Excellent Yasir, People are likely to talk more to those whom they know already. If we make sure to connect with as many people as we can, there will be less space of such opinion. Humans are not vicious to others until and unless there is inimical experience in past. connect ~commend~correlate.
This guy is cool as shit.I have always tryed to be compassionate with people. Some timeds it helps the situation ,sometimes it goes the opposite way and they take you wrong no matter what you say or try to do.But you still cant help inside to not feel,or b3 that way....•●ooO
But how do you separate a person’s opinion from the person?? Its not as easy as saying ‘just do it’!! Example: if people have the opinion that its ok to use me, I can’t just be ok with that!! Their core principles are completely different to mine.
I just want threw this she don’t agree with me it’s my boyfriend daughter she came to our apartment and saying my apartment is her apartment telling me to get out calling me names don’t wanna say them on here
F= frame the person as subject ,use story
L= listen to understand not to respond
A= acknowledge the feeling,be present
R=relationship ,reflect ,engage with story,use language to express
E=engage to allow to provoke the feeling using connectors from the story
Happy net-worthing
This deserves to reach more people, his talk was awesome, this really works putting ourselves into others shoes and seeing through their eyes I completely agree Thank you
15:46 so true Yasir!
Such a very great knowledge. Thank you 🙏
I didn't watch this before taking your course yesterday. WHOA this really blew my mind. You taught me an incredibly valuable lesson here. What an incredible story. Thank you so much for sharing.
yeah that helps for someone who is talkative. Th listening technique only works with the person you have conflict with actually communicates what they are feeling!!
This popped up on my feed and I liked the title. I thoroughly enjoyed this talk. That is a great acronym to remember.
And remember... "A harsh word is even as a sword thrust; a gentle word as milk." ~ Baha'u'llah, Baha'i Faith
Thank you for sharing the FLARE framework
Very strong and helpul message
This works, and you can make it your attitude. It is a wonderful way to live! Thanks, Yasir.
So many people these days choose the victim-role when facing hatred and the different way you chose to respond sets an example for those who wish to see a breakthrough in our changing world as you’ve proven it’s possible.
Idan B. Jacobs absolutely agree with you Idan.
His such a great storyteller
Awesome work, I like how you analyse and took control of the situation rather than just accepted defeat and walk away.
Mashallah beautifully said
This is enlightening.
Awesome!!
I love you. My friend said I was annoying and looked really mad. I hope this works
This was a beautiful video. Thank you, really
This was great, thank you.
Chaa gye Yasir bhai 👍🏾❤️
Am i the only one who search this?
No, bro
no
No
Nope
😂😂 not the only one
Excellent Yasir,
People are likely to talk more to those whom they know already. If we make sure to connect with as many people as we can, there will be less space of such opinion. Humans are not vicious to others until and unless there is inimical experience in past.
connect ~commend~correlate.
This guy is cool as shit.I have always tryed to be compassionate with people. Some timeds it helps the situation ,sometimes it goes the opposite way and they take you wrong no matter what you say or try to do.But you still cant help inside to not feel,or b3 that way....•●ooO
Bro you talking about my personality
great speech yasir!!!
You're such an inspiration for most people. Keep on the good work!
Amazing talk man, this can help so many people!
Yet sometimes people have no choose but to defended them selves
Great work! Proud of you. Keep doing the good work brother.
I'm glad you learned something from it!
a community 😍.
Beauty Yasir .
❤
Very insightful and inspiring
Thank you Jwana!
Brilliant.
Nice one 👍🏽 but did you wanted to say that “left sock in right shoe and vice versa?”
Thanks for
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
🖤
Watching because I seem to not get along with my new pastor 😃🤣
I sense toastmaster style lack of genuity
Yep
why so less views in real ted talk
Sound like RUclips-Chris Voss .🌎
But how do you separate a person’s opinion from the person?? Its not as easy as saying ‘just do it’!!
Example: if people have the opinion that its ok to use me, I can’t just be ok with that!! Their core principles are completely different to mine.
Does anyone knews his birthplace?
Pakistan he said in a podcast
I thought so he studied in Pakistan
@@Her_chaotic_echo any way tq🙏for ur reply
Let's put it this way I'm not as strong as jesus christ just to take it you know what I mean
5 bucks for never happened
What could be the height of this man😀
Any guess?
I just want threw this she don’t agree with me it’s my boyfriend daughter she came to our apartment and saying my apartment is her apartment telling me to get out calling me names don’t wanna say them on here
Try to be a white guy in a brown country it’s the same answer
Pure BS
Brother Kurt was a decent fellow. He eventually got married and bounced.