What Does It Mean To Be Bisexual?
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- Опубликовано: 7 июл 2024
- Throughout your lifetime, have you ever wondered the meaning behind bisexuality? Being bisexual means being attracted to more than just one sex or gender. In a lot of cases, bisexuality can be explained in many types. Depending on the context, some may include pansexual, gender fluid, or omnisexual as equivalent as bisexuality as well.
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Love you phych2go 🥰
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Bisexual privilege is being able to say “I’m all bi myself” when we’re single
Nah, my dude, we just on standbi
WHAT? DAMNIT. I MISSED SO MANY OPPORTUNITIES
ALLLLL BYYYYYY MYYYYSEEEEELFFFF
I can't just stand bi here bimyself but what do I do xD
Tell all them haters "Bi Bi Bye"
"Do you like girls or boys?"
Both. Both is good.
Both is yes
All is good
All is better
All is amazing
And or both
Love who you want guys
@First name Middle names Last name both is best and whether you like it or not people will like who they like
Bi or pan or lgbtq+
Both is perfect.
indeed good friend
What gets confused too is that being bi doesn’t mean you’re attracted 50% to girls and 50% to guys but there are time where you’re more attracted to one gender over the other.
Yeah. You could even have a 90% attraction to for example girls and a 10& attraction to for example guys and you would still be bi.
YES! but most of the time we also pick based on Personality and/or looks
Remember: looks are just an added bonus.
50% gay AND 50% straight ?
some people also think we're ALWAYS having one female crush and one male crush, I keep getting surprised on how we're viewed
Pros and cons of being bisexual:
Pros: You like everyone
Cons: You like everyone
Edit: Found out I was actually pan a while ago lol
Isn’t that more suitable for pan? Lol
@@crystalgrapes as it was said in the video, pan, omni, fluid are under the bi umbrella, they are bi+
@@rad5334 pansexuality is attraction regardless of gender. Bi usually includes all genders but you can have a preference (or not) and probably care about gender. It's a bit complicated, especially since the definition of the sexualities mentioned can depend on the person, but that's the gist of it😭
@@crystalgrapes yeah-
So true…
« Do you like boys or girls ?”
Me : ✨ Yes . ✨
Just tell them
I like them both
Isn't it that simple
@@audio4642 its a joke
He knows it's a joke
Also yes
@@rse8447 I know it's a joke but we kinda over did it so it's no longer funny
You forgot to mention one thing:
Male bisexuality, if a guy comes out as bisexual, people will assume they are saying that as an excuse to say they are gay, which is wrong
@@deshengriview yup.
@@deshengriview True
@@deshengriview it sucks to be men....
Yup. That just makes me smh.
And then when a female comes out, people assume they are straight and doing it for attention.
I hate when people say “pansexual is the same thing as bisexual” like NO ITS NOT
they are basically the same very small difference
@@soywho9837 there is no difference. Pansexuals like anyone regardless of gender. And bis like both men and women. So even if a person is fluid or agender. They still have traits from both genders that attract bis.
Well bisexuals are the ones saying this. Y'all have no one to blame but yourselves.
@@The_Copper_Element_Itself like it was stated in the video: bisexuality is the attraction to more than one gender. This may include non-binary people or not. Bisexuals may also not want to be be with binary transgender people. I’m a bisexual who loves men and women equally regardless of if they were born one way or the other.
Pansexuality is gender blind attraction. This always includes trans individuals (binary or non-binary).
IKR
Idk why this confuses so many people but you can be bisexual and still be in a heterosexual relationship.
So true, my gf and I are both bi but love each other very much anyway. Well even have conversations about guys or girls who look either pretty or hot, and still be the most attracted to eachother.
Yes
Unless you want to live a lie and eventually it will catch up on you.You need to be honest in a relationship.You cannot defeat your sexuality in the long run.
@@Marvin-dg8vj alright ty for clarifying! Btw put a space after periods always. Not to be that person but I had to sorry!
@@imthereforyababe_edits no offence taken.
as bisexuals... we can’t cheat on what we don’t have😭😂
You're my hero
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pain
That hit me hard man
As your fellow bisexual, I feel you 😂😂😂
My mom: Bisexuals don't exist.
My bisexual sister: Boy have I got some news for you!
@The Emo Enby Thembo My mom isn't bad just ignorant. She was under the impression that bisexuals were gay people in denial. My sister had to sit her down and explain what she was and how yes she is indeed attracted to both genders.
You need to be careful .😬😬😬
I'm 20 and bi, and my mother still thinks that I'm confused. Apparently, I've been confused for about 6 years now since I found out...
I do feel like I don't exist at least now I know why. 👌
i hope this is fake
My brother recently came out as Bi so i want to help understand, i come from a family who aren't really excepting of bisexuality but we still love him no matter what l, i came here to help understand and encourage him to be himself more.
Before I realized that I was lesbian, I came out as bisexual and my parents questioned me severely. They asked me if I get the same feeling towards girls as I do boys and I said “no”. They told me it was just a phase, or “puberty”, even though I already went through puberty. Every time I would bring the topic up, or I would just talk about my love life, they would always explain on how I’ll “never find love as good as a boy”, or “boys are more reliable and it’s more natural”. My parents force me to go to church everyday and they like to “pray for me to be straight”. I 100% understand the struggles and I would like to say that even if they don’t support you, or they are rude towards you, doesn’t mean that you deserve it. You are wonderful and special and if they think that you aren’t then, that’s their problem. Be proud 💖💜💙! Have an amazing day/night!
If you’re not dating anyone. Are you on Stand bi?
Yes
Yeah 😂
You bi yourself... ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ
I knew someone would say this...oh gosh xD
Aren't you hendsexual 😂
I actually had a lesbian friend who thought bisexuals didn’t exist. And when I came out to her as bisexual, she was confused. She wasn’t against bisexuality, she just thought bisexuals didn’t exist or that they were confused on which gender they like. I didn’t leave her, because she just wanted to know what it was like to be bisexual.
Cool!
with all the prejudice around bisexuality, it's not that unlikely someone genuinely doesn't know. It's nice that you just explained it to her
Bi people don't exist
@@l.adodg3r70 I guess I don't exist then
@@l.adodg3r70 Yes they do
I have a couple friends who are bi, and it really doesn’t make you a different person. Like at all. Sometimes they will be in a normal relationship with a guy, and sometimes with a girl. They have never cheated on anything or all of that
I’m Bi (as my pfp shows) and I am very grateful for this video. I have not experienced verbal distaste for Bi people directly but I’ve heard about it. I feel like this video is very important for speeding awareness so thank you for making it 💙💜❤️
non normal people gang here
Being bisexual means being confused on who to look at in a disney couple, *is it Shang or Mulan?*
For my sister, it's Aladdin or Jasmine? Amy or Jake? Rapunzel or Flynn?
This is so true😂
Do I sense a boy bi reference here...?
@@AnnikkaHowe *You should trust your senses.*
me confused with gwen and duncan from tdi 🗿
Me: reads the title
Also me: and so I started clicking
Woo thank you! :D - 💕 Cindy
Samee
@@Psych2go im lesbian
Yeah, it's obvious (by your pic ;D )
y same
I love how you decided to recognize this community! I appreciate it, because you truly depicted how I felt and how other people view us! Thank you for the recognition!
ALL BISEXUALS ARE VAILD! WE LIKE BOTH GENDERS SO DEAL WITH IT!!
💜💙💖
I'm bi
as a bisexual, i am actually very confused about a lot of things.
Yeah, like your sexual orientation
@@kerstin2129 he’s/she’s not confused about his sexual orientation he/she like both men and woman and he/she knows because He/she said it
What in particular are you confused about? I’ll try to answer if I’m able.
@@mentalrebllion1270 what if both bisexuals are in relationship
@@HelloHello-kq8hg relationship status has little to do with actual sexual orientation. I mean it basically just says what type of partner you would be interested in, not that you have one. For instance, my girlfriend and myself are actually both bisexual but just because we are in said relationship, that doesn’t mean we aren’t still bisexual. We aren’t suddenly lesbian just because we are committed to each other. It just means she is my partner and I am hers. I’m still, regardless of my relationship status a genderfluid demi bisexual person and she is still a female bisexual herself. These identities don’t just change on a whim or due to context. They are the heart of the individual (aware at the time or not). I hope that clarified? Do let me know if there is still some confusion
Fun fact:
The world is more biphobic than homophobic.
AM I BLIND OR IS THAT MICHAEL FROM CHOICES: HIGH SCHOOL STORY?!
👁️💧👄💧👁️
I think it's both lol
There are, I didn't know there more biphobic then homophobic. Now I don't know who to come out as Bi to know since I don't know who biphobic.
@Louan Probably more transphobic than biphobic, idk how much more
According to society Bisexual actually means:
You like same gender: your gay/lesbian
Your like opposite gender: Your straight
Lmao why is it this way
THANK YOU! every time I tell someone they don't support or they say "its ok its just a phase you will get over it soon" IM SO SICK OF IT!
Being bisexual doesn't mean you can't have a preference. You're valid of you have more attraction to one gender more than the other. Please be mindful that there isn't a set percentage also!!!
Another stereotype is that we want to bone anything that moves, it really gets ridiculous sometimes lmao
Thank you for saying this!
@@tanostrelok2323 like srsly 😐✋🏽 stop your bs Karen you're not even my type
Absolutely!
I’m bisexual and I’m 80/20, personally I’ve never been called invalid because of my preference but I know a lot of people have been. Thanks for acknowledging this♥︎
Why is no one talking about how
good the quality is..
Thank you so much! We are trying our best! - Cindy
and how dang thicc those characters are >.>
Thanks for making this, I’m bisexual and I want people to really know what is means to be bisexual
This made my heart very happy. I felt the comfort and positive affirmations you guys were giving all of us bi beans out here. Thank you, for making me feel valid!🏳️🌈
don't know if i'm bisexual myself, but i support everyone who is! y'all are super valid! :)
💖 same
:D thanks
❤️
Aww, ty ! i am pansexual ^^
I'm bi platonic
As a Bisexual person i hate when someone asks: "Do yo like more girls or boys?"
HOLY SHOOT I HAVEN'T BEEN HERE FOR RLY LONG HOW DID I GET SO MANY LIKES
what
I’m Bi as well and it seems we are pretty split on this. I saw a poll where it was 60/40 in favor of the question being fine. I think it depends on context and who is asking.
I'm bisexual too, but that question doesn't annoys me. Personally I have a preference for women, but I really like men too. I think every person is different, even in this type of thing, for example I don't hate femenine guys, but I don't feel atracted to them. I think many little changes like that make even a general sexual orientation be diverse.
lol same but ive grown more and more numb to the question
@@danielmunoz1275 honestly I mostly get attracted to girls but I also get attracted boys especially femenine boys
Ya I have had many attractions towards masculine men also
Thank you for letting people know about this it can be very confusing when people hear when someone comes out as bisexual or bi and this video is a better understanding thank you. :)
"Bisexuality doubles your chances on a Saturday night."
- Woody Allen
When you are a bisexual being, you're not straight, you're not gay, you are just a potato. A lonely, lonely potato... 🥔
-Your Neighborhood Bisexual
Mood
my username agrees with this statement
@blxckstxr this hits too fucking close
You're biyourself.
Trueeee
Another thing about bisexuality is that it's not always 50-50. In fact, many bisexuals have a preference. I'm a bisexual male who has a preference for guys.
I'm a bisexual femal who has a preferance for men :0)
@@inksterdoodles11 SAME! :D
@@inksterdoodles11 sO yoUr hEtrOseXuaL
@@allthingsanime7413 I still like women but sway towards male crushes.
@@inksterdoodles11 i know i was being sarcastic as that is actually something that some people think
I feel like if you aren’t sure what you are attracted to yet, bi, bi+ or pan is pretty safe because it’s very vague I guess so not totally one way or another, which is totally fine but if you don’t want to come out as gay or lesbian etc, right away it’s a good option.
I Came out with myself and some people i know as bisexual between last year and this year, and it can be really frustrating the stereotipes that some people have about it, amazing video💖💜💙
Person: are you gay?
Bi person: *well yes, but actually no.*
Edit: woah this blew up... tysm :O
Edit edit: ok ok i know the accurate answer is no, because bi means bi. It was just a joke, no need to get all serious with the joke here :(
This is SO true
Yo HOW do you respond to that?!😂😂👏
Lol idk 🤷♀️
Yesn’t
I know
I feel like people who are bi can all say this at least once in their life: “I like everyone and yet I’m still single”
Don’t worry, whether you’re bi, pan, lesbian, gay, or straight, you’ll find the one someday ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💖
* laughs in ace/aro *
Yes. Sadly.
So damn true 💯😂🙏
Yep
* laughs in aro-ace , sapio aro-ace , and alterous *
And just fun fact I'm a girl on a family member's account who's cisgender so yeah. Btw I use she/her but I respect people of any and all pronouns including the basics and nounself pronouns.
I am bisexual and I’m gonna share my experiences here :)
I started thinking about sexuality around the age of 9 I think. I first thought I was always heterosexual until I really started to question it.
It can be a bit hard to actually find out what you are (at least it was a bit for me..). I thought about it for a while and came to the conclusion that I’d have no problem dating a woman or a man.
First of all….You don’t need experience! I once had a conversation that went kinda like this, my friends and I were talking about sexuality’s and I mentioned that I’m bi. One of them asked if I had already dated a girl/boy. I said no and then they replied to me that I can’t know my sexuality yet if I didn’t have any experience. Of course experience can be a good way to find out your sexuality but it’s different from person to Person.
Coming out was also never a problem for me. My friends and my family don’t really care about a persons sexuality. We were at dinner and I suddenly just said that I’m bi and my mom just replied with „cool, ok.“ and that’s it.
Im sorry If it isn’t as easy for you. Always take your time with it!
As a bisexual its hard to hear how many people thats scared to come out and depressed 😔
I don't come out to my family becuase they are all Conservatives. My friends and myself are all Communists and are 100% okay with LGBTQ but I haven't came out to them becuase it isn't really information they need to know right now. I'd tell the person I was dating immediately but other then that it's only really online I talk openly about being Bi. Not depressed at all also.
Me: is bisexual
Also me: Interesting question...
Indeed 🧐
Lmfao
Omg yes 👀
SUMMARY:
1. Attraction to more than one gender- 0:31
2. Coming out is a challenge- 0:55
3. Being seen as untrustworthy- 1:26
4. Prone to poor health outcomes- 1:59
5. It is NOT short-term~ 2:27
6. There is NO confusion- 2:57
Enjoy and let's appreciate Psych2go's hard work and cute drawings:)
I’m honestly glad this is first
tyy
Thanks! :D
How was this commented two days ago
@@slightlyanonymous977 I have same questions
The amount of times I've told a guy I'm bi and his first response was him getting excited to have a threesome is just so disappointing. I do not want to have a threesome, if I'm interested in a person, I am interested in them, idk where theses guys get the idea that just because I'm bi means I'd want something like that. So annoying
It really is just because we’re bi doesn’t mean we want to share you that doesn’t make any sense we want you and only you
Heres a reason why bisexuals wont cheat.
So, imagine you’re a straight man who is attracted to blondes and brunettes. You have all females who are blonde or brunette as options. Now, lets say you’re in love and in a relationship with a blonde woman. You love her, but you still could be attracted to brunette woman, but that doesnt mean you necessarily are, because you’re in a relationship. This also applies to bisexuals and their options, ANYONE can cheat, not just bisexuals just because they have a larger spectrum of genders they can be attracted to.
Don't know if someone is reading this, but if you are: You are amazing and beautiful! I believe in you!
No you’re breathtaking 💜
i know that but thanks for the compliment anyways...
have a nice day :)))
Aw how sweet :> I'm actually asexual, so I don't know how I ended up here but this comment made me smile
You're nice, I like you
@@leftyfizz Same. Us are also valid!!
With a woman or with a man, doesn't matter... my parents only want grandkids from me 😅
I'm a girl and I want to get married to a man and adopt kids
Same but I would like to adopt kids instead
I don't want to have children at all and luckily for me, my parents and grandparents don't really care if I choose to have kids or not lol. But if I did want children, I would adopt instead of reproduce because the idea of pregnancy is scary to me 😬
i mean i rather not get pregnant i could literally die form that and it would be PAINFULL so yeah- tho my parents want me to get married and oh boy! im gonna break the news to them that I'm never getting married it's gonna be awful and i will feel like i betrayed my parents my whole life fun times 😌💅✨
Same bro
I'm a proud pansexual, but it's pretty hard because what it means is that you like someone for their personality, meaning you end up liking your friends a lot. It hurts when they don't like you back really bad, and it basically ruins the friendship.
You are so kind you almost made me cry tears of happiness:)
"bisexuals are more liable to depression"
me: *it all makes sense now*
mhm
Yep
Fair enough
OMG it all makes sense now..
Yea
*Yes, I am bisexual.* ♡
*Yes, I'm not ashamed* ♡
*Yes, I love it* ♡
*Yes, You shouldn't be ashamed of it.* ♡
Yes, I am demibisexual.
Yes, I agree
❤️
I'm bi and I like asexual mens. I love my sexuality.
Yassss
@@mekha126 🤨
I am a bisexual young woman, & I was also born with " high" functioning autism too. And for the longest time I was very confused & frustrated at myself for wanting to find a female partner just literally because I knew that I did had a lot of crushes on a lot of boys too ever since when I was a 6 year old little girl. And I am now 22 but going to be turning 23 like in the next four months right until now which is actually going to be on the 9th of August & I grew up in a heavily homophobic environment too, like ever since when I was in high School too & so I was also very afraid about the whole possibly of being a "Lesbian"person too. I've always accepted myself for being very attractive to both men's & women's just literally because I did found it easier these days now just literally because the world is (or at least feels) more acceptable of LGBTQ+ People. PS I am a girl. So glad that I really found this video very interesting & very helpful indeed.
For me being bisexual is like batting for two teams and still losing
Also there are other mocks being like “you are straight but u want to be part of the LGBT”
“You are a cheater”
“Eww u do thre3somes?!”
“Wanna do a 3 thing?”
“So everything is fine to you?”
"you're non-sexual but u want to be empowered"
@@artemsmirnov1134 yEaH aBsOlUtElY
@@SaraGirl-fg5wv why do you want put "-sexual" after "Bi"? There is nothing sexual in partner preference. I have temptation to moke Bi-girls because they claim that "-sexual-" words. I'm sceptical about all sexuality concepts incl. Bi.
Define “ everything “
@@redhollow9079 any gender
I'm bisexual as i'm drawn to both genders. I did tell my parents and they took it quite well. I've had depression, but i'm no longer there though. I've experienced hate and i'm still bisexual. I don't mind being in a relationship with other men or women. I'm simply being myself, despite all the hate i get
Yesss🤍 u wrote it perfectly
Good for you I'm proud live it and don't stop show the world we need you!
hmm you're so lucky then.
i'm still hiding behind the shadow 'til now
stay strong and enjoy your day
@@ECLIPSE4i it's not sinning. What you're doing is sinning
People should be free to choose what to think or do and not being tell to choose something because that group wants it. I always see your videos and share it to my friends, so many useful info that I didn't know until now
One of the “cool boys” (straight) had a bisexual among us sticker on one of those Gatorade water bottles and it was hilarious because he didn’t know what it meant, how embarrassing.
WE ARE VALID!!!
YES WE ARE
@@sofiasanchezs.6300 YES
YESSSSS
YESSS
👌
these videos are perfect... the bi color scheme, the cute people, the narrator's voice... I love it all. thank you guys so much for making this page. 💖💜💙🥺
hello time traveler
Glad you like them!
@@driftingthruspace ahahah
Honestly yes I love these colors. It’s just so beautiful 💖💜💙
Can you travel in time-??
Just came out to my parents yesterday, and I've never felt so supported ever
As a bisexual person
Am I aloud to cry now ?
not a lot of people understand all of what you said was really touching for me(I still haven't come out yet to my family and I don't know how to explain bisexuality to them )
Thank you this will be very helpful
My partner (jokingly): “you’re twice as likely to cheat on me”
Me: “I chose you out of everyone on the planet”
Good one.
As a bisexual male, for the longest time I was confused and angry at myself for wanting a male partner because I knew I had crushes on girls when I was a little kid. I'm 33 and I grew up in a heavily homophobic environment, so I was scared about possibly being "gay." I've since accepted myself for being attracted to both men and women, but it's easier these days because the world is (or at least feels) more accepting of LGBTQ+ people.
I'm very much glad you've had the opportunity to figure this out. I'm coming to terms with my own identity lately and reading your comment is reinforcing your last point, that it seems the world is becoming more accepting of LGBTQ+ people. I know there isn't much acceptance in some places, but you've helped give me some confidence. I don't know you, but thank you all the same
I'm there with ya! I'm 22. I had crushes on men as well and had a desire for men. I was always angry for a reason and myself for allowing my anger get the best of me. Than I came to know now that sex orientation is your desires and who you feel emotionally attracted to. I'm a Bi+ which means to me I consider myself bi-gay. I would kiss a girl, But Have to desire to be with one or date one! Good luck to you Man!🙂
Same, I always had crushes for males growing up and I didn't know I was bisexual till I questioned myself and discovered that I was indeed bisexual. Many members of my family are homophobic, so I didn't want this to be a possibility
Ok so 1. Screw those homophobic people and 2. We support you
Same! I grew up with alot of Girls in my side. I love them,I mean - I act as their protector and I am gentle to all women and even though I love them,I hide my feelings to my crush..
Until,Social Media entice my feeling. When Puberty hits me,I suddenly think of many many weird manly image and attractions. Don't get me wrong - Being Male Bi is sooo sinful and soo soo soooo hard!
There were times when I think of a fairytale where I have wife and two lovely son and daughter.. but there are times when I think sexually about mens. And that sucks.
I miss my old,younger self. I am still attracted to many women.. but My Mind plays off sexual fake attractions to Man.
I am 41 and just came out to my wife after 20 years of marriage. She had come out to me 6 years ago and I accepted/celebrated her living her truth. I know first hand how bisexual men are not as accepted as bisexual women. My wife was kind and accepting with her words but not celebrating my courage as much I did for her. She is still struggling with understanding how to navigate her feelings as she does not find two men engaged in sex as attractive. I have struggled with depression and not liking myself with huge fears of rejection. This is still a work in progress and I hope I can find support as our lives have been built in a very hetero-normative lifestyle. Thanks for this video.
Wish the absolute best for you and your wife. 💖💜💙
Hey, you. whoever’s reading this, this is your sign. everything’s gonna be okay. you did not come this far to give up. I believe in you ❤️ Stay connected 👒👒👒👒
Thank you for explaining that bisexuality isn’t just liking men and women. I used to be out as bisexual and it annoyed me when people said I was pan cause I liked NB aswell
yes exactly! bi people can love all genders with and without a preference. pan is just an umbrella term under bi label.
@Wert poly sexuality means that you like multiple genders. Whereas with bisexuality, it means liking two OR more genders so they aren’t subject to liking multiple
@Wert now that I think about it, your probably right 😅
AND THEN THERE’S THE PEOPLE WHO THINK BI IS LIKING MEN AND WOMEN AND PAN IS LIKING ALLL D:
@LaziiSht thats polyamurous (not sure if i got the spelling correct but you get the point) :)
This made me smile. I'm bisexual myself, and I have some people around me who doesn't understand bisexuality. They either think it's fake or insult me for looking at both genders (male and female). I hope that this video could help them understand it better. 💝💜💙
There are more than two genders btw!💜 remember that bisexuality is the attraction to your gender and other genders, not liking just boys and girls
I never ever meet someone like you .
All of my friends normal 🙄
What should i do if one day i find out one of my friend just like you ? Dont be sad i just want to know ? I wondering if thats happend . 🤔
@@soapforthesoul Yes, that is true. I didn't know how to form it into the right words. But I understand what you mean
@First name Middle names Last name No, she isn't.
i’m in the same place, i told my parents recently and they think i’m confused
Saying this as a bisexual woman...thank you...my family is Christian.....and I don't know how they will react to me coming out.
I just came out to my younger cousin. She was nice. My family is also Christian my parents are homophobic and so was my older cousin the last time I asked.
I have just noticed recently that I have not only crushes on girls (I'm a boy) but on boys too, I'm nearly 13, I just told my friends and they are pretty supportive, this video helped a lot thanks!
Lesbians:why girls hot?
Gay:why boys are hot?
Bi:why everyone is hot?
Pan:ahhhhhh
Asexual:what?
Lol true
Scrap walls of text, we should use this comment to explain sexuality from now on
😂♥️
@Jasmine Brewster As they say in my country, better lonely than in bad company
😂😭😭
I really don't understand why even homosexuals don't treat bisexuals equally after all they were also bullied by heterosexuals and why are they wanting to make them suffer more like that.
homosexuals are the most inherently like heteros as they too only like one gender so they still have the same misconsemptions butyea it is still stupid
woooo calm down guys
don’t put all the homosexuals in the same boat
I’m lesbian and my girlfriend is bisexual
All you need is trust and some homosexuals are scared that their partners would leave them for the opposite sex or some problems but overall it always comes to a person’s trust issues
I trust my girlfriend more than anyone in this world and being bisexual or lesbian/gay/pan/name it, it doesn’t matter.
When you love someone, you love that person only and it’s all that matters
Well to me
that’s my point of view
@@thesuperkplesbofanhithere3118 having trust issues shouldn’t be an excuse to be blatantly biphobic, though
and, in itself, the assumption that bisexuals will leave you for the opposite sex due to their attraction to both genders is once again inherently biphobic and adds on to the stereotype that bi people are cheaters, yknow?
it’s fine to be a little on edge about it, but assuming and or fearing that a bisexual will cheat on you and leave you for the opposite sex (or same sex) isnt the best assumption at all and contributes to the mass biphobia found in homosexuals
also, please don’t think that we're saying all homosexuals are biphobic and that we’re putting them in the same boat, because we’re not-; it’s just a lot easier to say ‘homosexual’ than ‘a minority of homosexuals’ or ‘some homosexuals’ because im sure anyone with common sense would understand that we clearly don’t mean all homosexuals lol
@@Atlas-bd9jh i know that it’s not an excuse 😂 jeez
I was just thinking about reasons why they would not accept bisexuals or even recognize them, I have no idea why besides the fact that they would be scared to be cheated on or something.
And i’m just saying that for SOME people, it can be the trust issues
Like seriously I just don get it and it’s messed up because then the message “love is love” don’t make sense no more
and sure common sense
I wasn’t putting all of the bisexuals in the boat too just so you know lol
this was just a thought
because the main comment felt like it was all of them when you read it you know? and then some people could actually believe that so I JUST WANTED TO CLARIFY 😭
anyways sorry if it wasn’t clear enough
have a great day
Thank you! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🌈🌈
thank you for making this video, im sure it will help a lot more people who see this video
I was bisexual
But now im just a lesbian and im proud
"Do you like boys, girls or people who are neither?"
"Yes"
ppl who are neither dont exist prove me wrong
@@ripli3275 i am someone who is neither lmao
@@minna.444 how are you neither explain then
hope this helped :))/gen
also, gender doesn't equal pronouns, for example you could be agender and still use she/her or he/him. they/them is also used and is a gender neutral option that anyone can use. there are also neopronouns, some common ones are it/its, xe/xem, ze/zem, ze/zyr, and fae/faer. neopronouns are used kn the same way as she/her, he/him, or they/them.
I feel welcome here I’m Christian/catholic but my sexually is bisexual I want to tell my parents but I know that they won’t support me. I told no one about this One Time I told my friend and she hated me I want somewhere/someone with supports me/feel welcomed And it is here
Thxs for making us feel welcomed
Edit: thank you for making me welcome
You can be Christian and be a different sexuality than straight
SAME but i'm muslim :'I
I’m Christian too.Every time I mention my bisexuality to my mom,she’s too quick to say “well you know what the Bible says”.🤣
@@wwexstans8183 The Bible describes an relationship as a man and a woman so technically a man loving a man or a woman loving a woman and another sexuality isn't a relationship therefore not a sin
I'm from Christian family too and my brother is really into Bible etc. he really loves God. I think i'm bisexuál but even if i'm not i still support EVERYONE who is not toxic or who is normal in the lgbtq+ comunity. He says that he doesn't care but i'm still so scared that one day he or someone in my family will leave mě because of my sexuality
I am bisexual, so I loved this video. u actually really illustrated what bisexuality is and I love that u didn’t say that bisexual means that u are attracted to girls and boys but 2 or more genders. This really was a beautiful video and made me happy that more people can see what bisexuality actually is. You are amazing have a nice day/night etc. your a really kind person and I love your videos! Please keep up the good work. If you haven’t yet can u pls do a video on non-binary and lithromantic?
Just so you guys know, Bisexuality isn't just attraction to just cis men and cis women. Back when Bisexuality was first created, in 1998, it just meant "attraction to just men and women" because other gender identities didn't exist. The definition has now changed to simply mean "attraction to more than one sex or gender" to be more inclusive. Bisexuality has always included trans and nonbinary people. It can mean attraction to as many genders as you like! There is also a Bisexual Manifesto, written by Bisexuals to define the label. And for those Biphobes that're gonna use the Google definition to disprove what I'm saying, Google states Bisexuality as "sexually or romantically attracted to both men and women, or to more than one sex or gender." There are more genders other than cis men and cis women.
Me: **telling my friend how my mom accidentally bought me a Bisexual T-Shirt**
The video: What does it mean to be Bisexual?
Me: :0
@Goose Milk I know, right? I’m bisexual but no offence, the hetero flag is REALLY bland.
@Goose Milk Also my excuse to get pride stuff during June is I just like rainbows (which is true) and the bi colours have been my favourites for years even before I realized I was bi.
Look up my comment.
Lol
It’s a sign
One thing people often get confused on when they talk to me (I'm openly bi, and it's kinda obvious😅) is preferences. I'm more often attracted to men, but the attraction I feel towards women is deeper, more meaningful. People like to take this as "Well, if you're more often attracted to men then you're straight". Yeah, no. I like both. Please accept that and don't try to categorize me as something I'm not. I'm just me
Ugh I totally feel this. My parents are just like: “well if you like guys then why would it be so hard to only pay attention to those feelings? I think eventually if you do that you won’t feel so much attraction towards girls.” And I’m just sitting over here in the corner like: -_-
@@keirabowman4953 My dad's actually okay with it. So is my sister. It's just a couple of my "friends" that feel like I can "fix" myself. Can't wait to go to college and never have to see them again
@@jessicabrocious3286 That sucks :(
I totally feel you on this. I have a more deeper like attraction towards women myself (might be cause i'm one) but I find it so much easier to develop crushes on guys. I easily can find myself more attracted to men but I am way more inclined to date a woman.
@@eleven-hopper I imagine myself with men more often because it's what's expected of me, but when I do find a girl that I like, it stays with me for a long time and messes with my entire world because it actually means something and is more that surface-deep
My story as a bisexual person is quite interresting since I'm transgender.
At first I was seen as hetero while passing for male, then as lesbian as I transitionned into my true woman self but in the end I figured out a few years ago I've always been bisexual but would'nt admit it to myself and others in my "male personna" cuz the stigmas seems worse for male bisexual than female.
Even my mother does'nt seem to bother that much about my bisexuality (she wasted all her worrying and grief learning I was trans so that second coming out passed far more smoothly for her and pretty much everyone).
This is very connnected to my social anxiety😭😭😭
When you're bisexual:
"hole is a hole, no mercy"
Oh fuc--
This will forever be a quote that I stand by
And fingers are fingers
ew
@@5methoxy LMAO
I’m still having problems finding out my sexuality (if I’m heterosexual or bisexual), so having his type of videos really helps me out. Thank you Psych2Go
You're very welcome! We also made a video on different types of sexualities (linked in the description and pinned comment). Feel free to give it a watch too! - 💕 Cindy
If this ain't a mood idk what is.
My friend came out as bi, and I was a bit confused. This informed me of what this is. Thanks. Edit: To give a bit more context, I have been friends with this kid for 5 years. Not too long, but I consider him a pretty close friend. I won't give his name, so for now I'll just call him "Toby" because he has a striking resemblance to Toby Maguire. One day, I went to his parent's house to ask if he'd come out to talk or whatever I said. He came out, and we just talked a bit and we just shared stuff about our pets doind stupid things, or our siblings being annoying, or something along the lines of that. Eventually the conversation took an unexpected turn when Toby said he was bisexual. Yeah, it really doesn't sound believable that he would just say it like that but I'm being honest here. I stayed silent for a minute, because I had no idea what that meant. Toby broke the silence and kind of explained it. (He never told his parents this at the time I was the only person to know) All I really understood is that he liked females, and males. NGL I was a bit disgusted because at the time I knew nothing and basically didn't get the concept of gay, lesbian, bi, e.t.c. I didn't get it. Someone I'd known for years was...Bisexual? As you can probably imagine I didn't take it very well. I got pretty goddamn angry and lashed out. I stormed off. A month later I came back to apologise but he wouldn't answer me. I can't mend my friendship with Toby, but maybye informing myself and taking the time to learn more can prevent something like this in the future. If Toby is reading this and somehow recognises my name or this story, then I'm sorry. I'm truly, truly sorry. I hope you have a good life ahead of you, and that you succeed. Goodbye.
Thank you so much for telling me more about bisexual! It’s very helpful and is very interesting
When she said “there is no confusion” I laughed real hard, confusion is my natural state of mind lmao
Sounds like a master oogway quote
"There is no confusion"
@@jaslikeart "There are no accidents."
same
Lmaooo
WHERE'S MY BI GANG AT? 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Heree🙋🙋
@@niharikapaleri8384 YAYY! 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Right here
HERE
Imma just gonna drop this here.
This helped me a lot and understand more about being bi,Love your vids!❤️
I am 💖💜💙 but haven’t told my family because I know they will not look at me the same
I once was watching a show where there was a character who was bi and my mom made a face of disgust and said “I don’t like that” and then said that they should just pick one.
This blew my mind. She wouldn’t care if I was a lesbian but if I am bi then there’s a problem.
My mom thought it meant that I was constantly thinking about having sex with women and that it was a distraction from school. But not guys? I-? My grades were fine? She said “You need to focus on school and not dating” like wtf just bc Ive thought about this and know my romantic/sexual orientation doesn’t mean I’m constantly trying to date. Ive NEVER been the type to seek out romantic partners.
When I was young, I used to say my favourite colours were blue, purple and pink, how ironic that they're the colours of the bisexual flag and I'm bisexual.
Well I'm going to come out to my parents now, wish me luck everybody
💖💜💙
howd it go
goood luck :)
@@Heroprism It actually went really well, my family was so supportive of me☺
@@soywho9837 Thanks
@@kamalisri6056 good
I LOVE to watch these so it helps me figure myself out and explore more about myself so that I you for explaining this ☺️❤️
Pls ty for explaining this! I was so confused about this
Me a bisexual:
Sees notifications: 😀
*you don’t know how fast I spammed the like button*
I don't watch most videos but this I came running
SAME TWT
bitch same i couldn’t tell if i had read the notification right
@@am-wd5kt lol me too
I was thinking the same thing fellow Bi🖐😁
Even I myself a bisexual I still sometimes get confused about my own sexuality
same
Same here
Same,I consider myself as bi girl but I'm attracted to boys the most which makes me question if I'm straight
@@neilnova2062 maybe you just have a preference for boys?
@@vxler1e380 omg same. Like one day ik im bi and the next I wonder if I’m just faking it
I came out as bi to my friends and they supported me and a few even decided to go ahead and come out as well.
I really support this community (did i wrote it right?), and i love to teach something new about it.
PS: Your voice is very calming🙂
The most annoying thing for me is when people say that I used to be gay because I was in a relationship with a girl and now I’m with a boy. NO, I was bisexual then and I am now.
Yeah that must suck... The most annoying thing for me is when People ask if i have a crush on two People (a boy and a girl) like... why?
Non-bisexual: "What's your sexual preference?"
Bisexual: "Preference".
No, that's pan
@@helltubejackie1086 Some bisexuals identify as bisexual and are attracted to people the way pansexuals are; sexuality is a spectrum, and no one should tell someone else what they are, everyone is valid x
@@hellokatey well said 👌
. Sure the typical definition of bi means two, so bisexual= two genders but when talking about sexuality it’s a lot less constricting then that. I identify as bi because I’m attracted to dicks and buthy’.... not necessarily girls and guys. I’ve been attracted to both guys, girls and people who identify as other. I choose to identify as bi because I personally do not feel comfortable with the label “pansexual”.
@@hellokatey oh, thanks
Im bisexual , and I've told my family and boyfriend , I've felt more free since I've come out although one person has told me im not bi and I've ignored them