What Does It Mean To Be Bisexual?

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  • Опубликовано: 22 дек 2024

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  3 года назад +2863

    We made a video on different types of sexualities (ruclips.net/video/SEurlKy2bN0/видео.html​). We noticed a lot of you requested to make a video on bisexual. Here it is! Share this video to someone who might want to learn more about it

  • @dixiereynolds667
    @dixiereynolds667 3 года назад +4954

    You forgot to mention one thing:
    Male bisexuality, if a guy comes out as bisexual, people will assume they are saying that as an excuse to say they are gay, which is wrong

    • @Speedoodleman
      @Speedoodleman 3 года назад +62

      @@deshengriview yup.

    • @shepard403
      @shepard403 3 года назад +48

      @@deshengriview True

    • @Kyumifun
      @Kyumifun 3 года назад +52

      @@deshengriview it sucks to be men....

    • @bananacherry2433
      @bananacherry2433 3 года назад +54

      Yup. That just makes me smh.

    • @MANLIESTMANEVER
      @MANLIESTMANEVER 3 года назад +161

      And then when a female comes out, people assume they are straight and doing it for attention.

  • @LoveCheeselover
    @LoveCheeselover 3 года назад +8715

    "Do you like girls or boys?"
    Both. Both is good.

    • @overarian
      @overarian 3 года назад +136

      Both is yes

    • @overarian
      @overarian 3 года назад +109

      All is good
      All is better
      All is amazing
      And or both
      Love who you want guys

    • @overarian
      @overarian 3 года назад +38

      @First name Middle names Last name both is best and whether you like it or not people will like who they like
      Bi or pan or lgbtq+

    • @magnusscheck4425
      @magnusscheck4425 3 года назад +37

      Both is perfect.

    • @SirSox
      @SirSox 3 года назад +20

      indeed good friend

  • @starpupilsx
    @starpupilsx 3 года назад +3156

    I actually had a lesbian friend who thought bisexuals didn’t exist. And when I came out to her as bisexual, she was confused. She wasn’t against bisexuality, she just thought bisexuals didn’t exist or that they were confused on which gender they like. I didn’t leave her, because she just wanted to know what it was like to be bisexual.

    • @darkangelluv1776
      @darkangelluv1776 3 года назад +66

      Cool!

    • @MoonfireNC
      @MoonfireNC 3 года назад +269

      with all the prejudice around bisexuality, it's not that unlikely someone genuinely doesn't know. It's nice that you just explained it to her

    • @l.adodg3r70
      @l.adodg3r70 3 года назад +11

      Bi people don't exist

    • @noeliaavila5756
      @noeliaavila5756 3 года назад +163

      @@l.adodg3r70 I guess I don't exist then

    • @sydsb1essed
      @sydsb1essed 3 года назад +87

      @@l.adodg3r70 Yes they do

  • @simonkraemer3725
    @simonkraemer3725 Год назад +241

    What gets confused too is that being bi doesn’t mean you’re attracted 50% to girls and 50% to guys but there are time where you’re more attracted to one gender over the other.

    • @lavaniii3263
      @lavaniii3263 Год назад

      Yeah. You could even have a 90% attraction to for example girls and a 10& attraction to for example guys and you would still be bi.

    • @MatrixAdic
      @MatrixAdic 11 месяцев назад +25

      YES! but most of the time we also pick based on Personality and/or looks
      Remember: looks are just an added bonus.

    • @1La2La3La4La
      @1La2La3La4La 6 месяцев назад +5

      50% gay AND 50% straight ?

    • @someone9687
      @someone9687 5 месяцев назад +9

      some people also think we're ALWAYS having one female crush and one male crush, I keep getting surprised on how we're viewed

    • @eweb.
      @eweb. 4 месяца назад

      @@1La2La3La4Lathat’s funny LOL

  • @seytan2393
    @seytan2393 3 года назад +14136

    Bisexual privilege is being able to say “I’m all bi myself” when we’re single

    • @rythmiccoma2809
      @rythmiccoma2809 3 года назад +1048

      Nah, my dude, we just on standbi

    • @chelbanna
      @chelbanna 3 года назад +438

      WHAT? DAMNIT. I MISSED SO MANY OPPORTUNITIES

    • @juliakay7446
      @juliakay7446 3 года назад +309

      ALLLLL BYYYYYY MYYYYSEEEEELFFFF

    • @pandaattackz967
      @pandaattackz967 3 года назад +210

      I can't just stand bi here bimyself but what do I do xD

    • @Lexx_BlackberryPheonix
      @Lexx_BlackberryPheonix 3 года назад +255

      Tell all them haters "Bi Bi Bye"

  • @fischl4369
    @fischl4369 3 года назад +486

    Why is no one talking about how
    good the quality is..

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 года назад +104

      Thank you so much! We are trying our best! - Cindy

    • @rainearnstowski7049
      @rainearnstowski7049 3 года назад +17

      and how dang thicc those characters are >.>

  • @NoName-mf4hx
    @NoName-mf4hx 3 года назад +949

    « Do you like boys or girls ?”
    Me : ✨ Yes . ✨

    • @audio4642
      @audio4642 3 года назад +6

      Just tell them
      I like them both
      Isn't it that simple

    • @rse8447
      @rse8447 3 года назад +7

      @@audio4642 its a joke

    • @sooorryyyt8914
      @sooorryyyt8914 3 года назад +2

      He knows it's a joke

    • @luz1896
      @luz1896 3 года назад +1

      Also yes

    • @audio4642
      @audio4642 3 года назад +1

      @@rse8447 I know it's a joke but we kinda over did it so it's no longer funny

  • @Daffodil-xw7nf
    @Daffodil-xw7nf Год назад +87

    My brother recently came out as Bi so i want to help understand, i come from a family who aren't really excepting of bisexuality but we still love him no matter what l, i came here to help understand and encourage him to be himself more.

    • @14bj337
      @14bj337 Месяц назад +2

      Sorry to hear that the family is unsupportive, but it's great that you're trying to understand him better! Best of luck with your brother.

  • @maitev.2629
    @maitev.2629 3 года назад +856

    as a bisexual, i am actually very confused about a lot of things.

    • @kerstin2129
      @kerstin2129 3 года назад +7

      Yeah, like your sexual orientation

    • @teamdarkfan317
      @teamdarkfan317 3 года назад +65

      @@kerstin2129 he’s/she’s not confused about his sexual orientation he/she like both men and woman and he/she knows because He/she said it

    • @mentalrebllion1270
      @mentalrebllion1270 3 года назад +5

      What in particular are you confused about? I’ll try to answer if I’m able.

    • @HelloHello-kq8hg
      @HelloHello-kq8hg 3 года назад +4

      @@mentalrebllion1270 what if both bisexuals are in relationship

    • @mentalrebllion1270
      @mentalrebllion1270 3 года назад +18

      @@HelloHello-kq8hg relationship status has little to do with actual sexual orientation. I mean it basically just says what type of partner you would be interested in, not that you have one. For instance, my girlfriend and myself are actually both bisexual but just because we are in said relationship, that doesn’t mean we aren’t still bisexual. We aren’t suddenly lesbian just because we are committed to each other. It just means she is my partner and I am hers. I’m still, regardless of my relationship status a genderfluid demi bisexual person and she is still a female bisexual herself. These identities don’t just change on a whim or due to context. They are the heart of the individual (aware at the time or not). I hope that clarified? Do let me know if there is still some confusion

  • @moldyseulgi7167
    @moldyseulgi7167 3 года назад +1413

    SUMMARY:
    1. Attraction to more than one gender- 0:31
    2. Coming out is a challenge- 0:55
    3. Being seen as untrustworthy- 1:26
    4. Prone to poor health outcomes- 1:59
    5. It is NOT short-term~ 2:27
    6. There is NO confusion- 2:57
    Enjoy and let's appreciate Psych2go's hard work and cute drawings:)

  • @jjthebean1324
    @jjthebean1324 3 года назад +766

    Being bisexual doesn't mean you can't have a preference. You're valid of you have more attraction to one gender more than the other. Please be mindful that there isn't a set percentage also!!!

    • @tanostrelok2323
      @tanostrelok2323 3 года назад +95

      Another stereotype is that we want to bone anything that moves, it really gets ridiculous sometimes lmao

    • @nightappleispoisonapple1775
      @nightappleispoisonapple1775 3 года назад +12

      Thank you for saying this!

    • @zinay8063
      @zinay8063 3 года назад +21

      @@tanostrelok2323 like srsly 😐✋🏽 stop your bs Karen you're not even my type

    • @chelbanna
      @chelbanna 3 года назад +4

      Absolutely!

    • @ssunflower18
      @ssunflower18 3 года назад +20

      I’m bisexual and I’m 80/20, personally I’ve never been called invalid because of my preference but I know a lot of people have been. Thanks for acknowledging this♥︎

  • @evaa_oliviaa
    @evaa_oliviaa 3 года назад +501

    Idk why this confuses so many people but you can be bisexual and still be in a heterosexual relationship.

    • @hunterpatton1370
      @hunterpatton1370 3 года назад +61

      So true, my gf and I are both bi but love each other very much anyway. Well even have conversations about guys or girls who look either pretty or hot, and still be the most attracted to eachother.

    • @sweety8083
      @sweety8083 2 года назад +3

      Yes

    • @Marvin-dg8vj
      @Marvin-dg8vj 2 года назад +1

      Unless you want to live a lie and eventually it will catch up on you.You need to be honest in a relationship.You cannot defeat your sexuality in the long run.

    • @evaa_oliviaa
      @evaa_oliviaa 2 года назад +5

      @@Marvin-dg8vj alright ty for clarifying! Btw put a space after periods always. Not to be that person but I had to sorry!

    • @Marvin-dg8vj
      @Marvin-dg8vj 2 года назад +2

      @@evaa_oliviaa no offence taken.

  • @tickkk5540
    @tickkk5540 3 года назад +3587

    If you’re not dating anyone. Are you on Stand bi?

    • @starheart04
      @starheart04 3 года назад +70

      Yes

    • @CvntyAnn
      @CvntyAnn 3 года назад +41

      Yeah 😂

    • @kyirose2995
      @kyirose2995 3 года назад +163

      You bi yourself... ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ

    • @What-yi4qm
      @What-yi4qm 3 года назад +30

      I knew someone would say this...oh gosh xD

    • @hana29971
      @hana29971 3 года назад +17

      Aren't you hendsexual 😂

  • @ItsTheMagicMelon
    @ItsTheMagicMelon 3 года назад +953

    Me: reads the title
    Also me: and so I started clicking

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 года назад +134

      Woo thank you! :D - 💕 Cindy

    • @kiwii1027
      @kiwii1027 3 года назад +9

      Samee

    • @girl_diary08
      @girl_diary08 3 года назад +3

      @@Psych2go im lesbian

    • @TyeArtisik
      @TyeArtisik 3 года назад +6

      Yeah, it's obvious (by your pic ;D )

    • @randum7407
      @randum7407 3 года назад +1

      y same

  • @UchaNekome
    @UchaNekome 3 года назад +1853

    My mom: Bisexuals don't exist.
    My bisexual sister: Boy have I got some news for you!

    • @UchaNekome
      @UchaNekome 3 года назад +90

      @The Emo Enby Thembo My mom isn't bad just ignorant. She was under the impression that bisexuals were gay people in denial. My sister had to sit her down and explain what she was and how yes she is indeed attracted to both genders.

    • @ifonlyhappinesscouldlast4882
      @ifonlyhappinesscouldlast4882 3 года назад +5

      You need to be careful .😬😬😬

    • @currigodsama9589
      @currigodsama9589 3 года назад +41

      I'm 20 and bi, and my mother still thinks that I'm confused. Apparently, I've been confused for about 6 years now since I found out...

    • @raffy4559
      @raffy4559 3 года назад +10

      I do feel like I don't exist at least now I know why. 👌

    • @hazelnutchoclate294
      @hazelnutchoclate294 3 года назад +1

      i hope this is fake

  • @lime_pikachu4157
    @lime_pikachu4157 3 года назад +51

    Before I realized that I was lesbian, I came out as bisexual and my parents questioned me severely. They asked me if I get the same feeling towards girls as I do boys and I said “no”. They told me it was just a phase, or “puberty”, even though I already went through puberty. Every time I would bring the topic up, or I would just talk about my love life, they would always explain on how I’ll “never find love as good as a boy”, or “boys are more reliable and it’s more natural”. My parents force me to go to church everyday and they like to “pray for me to be straight”. I 100% understand the struggles and I would like to say that even if they don’t support you, or they are rude towards you, doesn’t mean that you deserve it. You are wonderful and special and if they think that you aren’t then, that’s their problem. Be proud 💖💜💙! Have an amazing day/night!

  • @iPLAYtheSTATION
    @iPLAYtheSTATION 3 года назад +1281

    Another thing about bisexuality is that it's not always 50-50. In fact, many bisexuals have a preference. I'm a bisexual male who has a preference for guys.

    • @inksterdoodles11
      @inksterdoodles11 3 года назад +168

      I'm a bisexual femal who has a preferance for men :0)

    • @w5ssupd7psh5it7
      @w5ssupd7psh5it7 3 года назад +31

      @@inksterdoodles11 SAME! :D

    • @allthingsanime7413
      @allthingsanime7413 3 года назад +22

      @@inksterdoodles11 sO yoUr hEtrOseXuaL

    • @inksterdoodles11
      @inksterdoodles11 3 года назад +77

      @@allthingsanime7413 I still like women but sway towards male crushes.

    • @allthingsanime7413
      @allthingsanime7413 3 года назад +72

      @@inksterdoodles11 i know i was being sarcastic as that is actually something that some people think

  • @lumitygobrrrhrh1827
    @lumitygobrrrhrh1827 3 года назад +2382

    Being bisexual means being confused on who to look at in a disney couple, *is it Shang or Mulan?*

    • @sleepyexe644
      @sleepyexe644 3 года назад +229

      For my sister, it's Aladdin or Jasmine? Amy or Jake? Rapunzel or Flynn?

    • @ItsMe-ch1yp
      @ItsMe-ch1yp 3 года назад +44

      This is so true😂

    • @AnnikkaHowe
      @AnnikkaHowe 3 года назад +239

      Do I sense a boy bi reference here...?

    • @lumitygobrrrhrh1827
      @lumitygobrrrhrh1827 3 года назад +111

      @@AnnikkaHowe *You should trust your senses.*

    • @yooseul__
      @yooseul__ 3 года назад +30

      me confused with gwen and duncan from tdi 🗿

  • @leaharmbruster6047
    @leaharmbruster6047 3 года назад +2484

    as bisexuals... we can’t cheat on what we don’t have😭😂

  • @cherrygirl15
    @cherrygirl15 3 года назад +11

    I love how you decided to recognize this community! I appreciate it, because you truly depicted how I felt and how other people view us! Thank you for the recognition!

  • @cordeliangelreece
    @cordeliangelreece 3 года назад +3373

    don't know if i'm bisexual myself, but i support everyone who is! y'all are super valid! :)

  • @andymarie
    @andymarie 3 года назад +1224

    I feel like people who are bi can all say this at least once in their life: “I like everyone and yet I’m still single”
    Don’t worry, whether you’re bi, pan, lesbian, gay, or straight, you’ll find the one someday ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💖

    • @local_anxiety_rat1276
      @local_anxiety_rat1276 3 года назад +41

      * laughs in ace/aro *

    • @a_gurl596
      @a_gurl596 3 года назад +7

      Yes. Sadly.

    • @Mr.KillerMonk
      @Mr.KillerMonk 3 года назад +6

      So damn true 💯😂🙏

    • @joshuaespinoza2117
      @joshuaespinoza2117 3 года назад

      Yep

    • @luke3912
      @luke3912 3 года назад +8

      * laughs in aro-ace , sapio aro-ace , and alterous *
      And just fun fact I'm a girl on a family member's account who's cisgender so yeah. Btw I use she/her but I respect people of any and all pronouns including the basics and nounself pronouns.

  • @silverstarr7662
    @silverstarr7662 3 года назад +664

    Thank you for explaining that bisexuality isn’t just liking men and women. I used to be out as bisexual and it annoyed me when people said I was pan cause I liked NB aswell

    • @rwqfsfasxc66
      @rwqfsfasxc66 3 года назад +34

      yes exactly! bi people can love all genders with and without a preference. pan is just an umbrella term under bi label.

    • @silverstarr7662
      @silverstarr7662 3 года назад +11

      @Wert poly sexuality means that you like multiple genders. Whereas with bisexuality, it means liking two OR more genders so they aren’t subject to liking multiple

    • @silverstarr7662
      @silverstarr7662 3 года назад

      @Wert now that I think about it, your probably right 😅

    • @vanillapxstry6146
      @vanillapxstry6146 3 года назад +4

      AND THEN THERE’S THE PEOPLE WHO THINK BI IS LIKING MEN AND WOMEN AND PAN IS LIKING ALLL D:

    • @vanillapxstry6146
      @vanillapxstry6146 3 года назад +4

      @LaziiSht thats polyamurous (not sure if i got the spelling correct but you get the point) :)

  • @kitkat6810
    @kitkat6810 2 года назад +3

    THANK YOU! every time I tell someone they don't support or they say "its ok its just a phase you will get over it soon" IM SO SICK OF IT!

  • @kinkapop1905
    @kinkapop1905 3 года назад +1440

    Person: are you gay?
    Bi person: *well yes, but actually no.*
    Edit: woah this blew up... tysm :O
    Edit edit: ok ok i know the accurate answer is no, because bi means bi. It was just a joke, no need to get all serious with the joke here :(

  • @darknightincolors6018
    @darknightincolors6018 3 года назад +773

    Don't know if someone is reading this, but if you are: You are amazing and beautiful! I believe in you!

    • @ItsTheMagicMelon
      @ItsTheMagicMelon 3 года назад +15

      No you’re breathtaking 💜

    • @dishamahesh1112
      @dishamahesh1112 3 года назад +4

      i know that but thanks for the compliment anyways...
      have a nice day :)))

    • @leftyfizz
      @leftyfizz 3 года назад +4

      Aw how sweet :> I'm actually asexual, so I don't know how I ended up here but this comment made me smile

    • @currigodsama9589
      @currigodsama9589 3 года назад +2

      You're nice, I like you

    • @thememelady8190
      @thememelady8190 3 года назад

      @@leftyfizz Same. Us are also valid!!

  • @Chisszaru
    @Chisszaru 3 года назад +1608

    I'm bisexual as i'm drawn to both genders. I did tell my parents and they took it quite well. I've had depression, but i'm no longer there though. I've experienced hate and i'm still bisexual. I don't mind being in a relationship with other men or women. I'm simply being myself, despite all the hate i get

    • @mariaclaire6265
      @mariaclaire6265 3 года назад +38

      Yesss🤍 u wrote it perfectly

    • @wildchild7352
      @wildchild7352 3 года назад +35

      Good for you I'm proud live it and don't stop show the world we need you!

    • @chintyaperwadi539
      @chintyaperwadi539 3 года назад +24

      hmm you're so lucky then.
      i'm still hiding behind the shadow 'til now

    • @Trooper50000
      @Trooper50000 3 года назад +9

      stay strong and enjoy your day

    • @Chisszaru
      @Chisszaru 3 года назад +7

      @@ECLIPSE4i it's not sinning. What you're doing is sinning

  • @octopus9001
    @octopus9001 3 года назад +28

    I have a couple friends who are bi, and it really doesn’t make you a different person. Like at all. Sometimes they will be in a normal relationship with a guy, and sometimes with a girl. They have never cheated on anything or all of that

  • @Billaxle
    @Billaxle 3 года назад +698

    As a bisexual male, for the longest time I was confused and angry at myself for wanting a male partner because I knew I had crushes on girls when I was a little kid. I'm 33 and I grew up in a heavily homophobic environment, so I was scared about possibly being "gay." I've since accepted myself for being attracted to both men and women, but it's easier these days because the world is (or at least feels) more accepting of LGBTQ+ people.

    • @jayonnaise6105
      @jayonnaise6105 3 года назад +18

      I'm very much glad you've had the opportunity to figure this out. I'm coming to terms with my own identity lately and reading your comment is reinforcing your last point, that it seems the world is becoming more accepting of LGBTQ+ people. I know there isn't much acceptance in some places, but you've helped give me some confidence. I don't know you, but thank you all the same

    • @nathanielwiley4226
      @nathanielwiley4226 2 года назад +3

      I'm there with ya! I'm 22. I had crushes on men as well and had a desire for men. I was always angry for a reason and myself for allowing my anger get the best of me. Than I came to know now that sex orientation is your desires and who you feel emotionally attracted to. I'm a Bi+ which means to me I consider myself bi-gay. I would kiss a girl, But Have to desire to be with one or date one! Good luck to you Man!🙂

    • @mizuwu9612
      @mizuwu9612 2 года назад +5

      Same, I always had crushes for males growing up and I didn't know I was bisexual till I questioned myself and discovered that I was indeed bisexual. Many members of my family are homophobic, so I didn't want this to be a possibility

    • @SophiaTheFirst134
      @SophiaTheFirst134 2 года назад +6

      Ok so 1. Screw those homophobic people and 2. We support you

    • @RainierFajardoProduction
      @RainierFajardoProduction 2 года назад +6

      Same! I grew up with alot of Girls in my side. I love them,I mean - I act as their protector and I am gentle to all women and even though I love them,I hide my feelings to my crush..
      Until,Social Media entice my feeling. When Puberty hits me,I suddenly think of many many weird manly image and attractions. Don't get me wrong - Being Male Bi is sooo sinful and soo soo soooo hard!
      There were times when I think of a fairytale where I have wife and two lovely son and daughter.. but there are times when I think sexually about mens. And that sucks.
      I miss my old,younger self. I am still attracted to many women.. but My Mind plays off sexual fake attractions to Man.

  • @CYB3R2TAR
    @CYB3R2TAR 3 года назад +1480

    As a Bisexual person i hate when someone asks: "Do yo like more girls or boys?"
    HOLY SHOOT I HAVEN'T BEEN HERE FOR RLY LONG HOW DID I GET SO MANY LIKES

    • @ohwoah4324
      @ohwoah4324 3 года назад +12

      what

    • @Ceti_
      @Ceti_ 3 года назад +127

      I’m Bi as well and it seems we are pretty split on this. I saw a poll where it was 60/40 in favor of the question being fine. I think it depends on context and who is asking.

    • @danielmunoz1275
      @danielmunoz1275 3 года назад +169

      I'm bisexual too, but that question doesn't annoys me. Personally I have a preference for women, but I really like men too. I think every person is different, even in this type of thing, for example I don't hate femenine guys, but I don't feel atracted to them. I think many little changes like that make even a general sexual orientation be diverse.

    • @taedenbug9445
      @taedenbug9445 3 года назад +6

      lol same but ive grown more and more numb to the question

    • @audio4642
      @audio4642 3 года назад +56

      @@danielmunoz1275 honestly I mostly get attracted to girls but I also get attracted boys especially femenine boys
      Ya I have had many attractions towards masculine men also

  • @tim_burton
    @tim_burton 3 года назад +551

    "bisexuals are more liable to depression"
    me: *it all makes sense now*

  • @gacha_cookie2659
    @gacha_cookie2659 3 года назад +10

    Thanks for making this, I’m bisexual and I want people to really know what is means to be bisexual

  • @DragosteLennon1997
    @DragosteLennon1997 3 года назад +451

    This made me smile. I'm bisexual myself, and I have some people around me who doesn't understand bisexuality. They either think it's fake or insult me for looking at both genders (male and female). I hope that this video could help them understand it better. 💝💜💙

    • @soapforthesoul
      @soapforthesoul 3 года назад +17

      There are more than two genders btw!💜 remember that bisexuality is the attraction to your gender and other genders, not liking just boys and girls

    • @ifonlyhappinesscouldlast4882
      @ifonlyhappinesscouldlast4882 3 года назад

      I never ever meet someone like you .
      All of my friends normal 🙄
      What should i do if one day i find out one of my friend just like you ? Dont be sad i just want to know ? I wondering if thats happend . 🤔

    • @DragosteLennon1997
      @DragosteLennon1997 3 года назад +6

      @@soapforthesoul Yes, that is true. I didn't know how to form it into the right words. But I understand what you mean

    • @psngrl7677
      @psngrl7677 3 года назад +9

      @First name Middle names Last name No, she isn't.

    • @danielabourne3057
      @danielabourne3057 3 года назад +2

      i’m in the same place, i told my parents recently and they think i’m confused

  • @red0296
    @red0296 3 года назад +223

    My partner (jokingly): “you’re twice as likely to cheat on me”
    Me: “I chose you out of everyone on the planet”

  • @SaraGirl-fg5wv
    @SaraGirl-fg5wv 3 года назад +421

    Also there are other mocks being like “you are straight but u want to be part of the LGBT”
    “You are a cheater”
    “Eww u do thre3somes?!”
    “Wanna do a 3 thing?”
    “So everything is fine to you?”

    • @artemsmirnov1134
      @artemsmirnov1134 3 года назад +19

      "you're non-sexual but u want to be empowered"

    • @SaraGirl-fg5wv
      @SaraGirl-fg5wv 3 года назад +1

      @@artemsmirnov1134 yEaH aBsOlUtElY

    • @artemsmirnov1134
      @artemsmirnov1134 3 года назад +10

      @@SaraGirl-fg5wv why do you want put "-sexual" after "Bi"? There is nothing sexual in partner preference. I have temptation to moke Bi-girls because they claim that "-sexual-" words. I'm sceptical about all sexuality concepts incl. Bi.

    • @redhollow9079
      @redhollow9079 3 года назад +1

      Define “ everything “

    • @SaraGirl-fg5wv
      @SaraGirl-fg5wv 3 года назад +2

      @@redhollow9079 any gender

  • @camilasm7448
    @camilasm7448 3 года назад +3

    I Came out with myself and some people i know as bisexual between last year and this year, and it can be really frustrating the stereotipes that some people have about it, amazing video💖💜💙

  • @firopi2419
    @firopi2419 3 года назад +70

    I’m still having problems finding out my sexuality (if I’m heterosexual or bisexual), so having his type of videos really helps me out. Thank you Psych2Go

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 года назад +25

      You're very welcome! We also made a video on different types of sexualities (linked in the description and pinned comment). Feel free to give it a watch too! - 💕 Cindy

    • @neolord1215
      @neolord1215 3 года назад +2

      If this ain't a mood idk what is.

  • @leonie2246
    @leonie2246 3 года назад +342

    Me: is bisexual
    Also me: Interesting question...

  • @blaturdle2701
    @blaturdle2701 3 года назад +387

    *Yes, I am bisexual.* ♡
    *Yes, I'm not ashamed* ♡
    *Yes, I love it* ♡
    *Yes, You shouldn't be ashamed of it.* ♡

  • @glifestudios6218
    @glifestudios6218 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for letting people know about this it can be very confusing when people hear when someone comes out as bisexual or bi and this video is a better understanding thank you. :)

  • @batluvr999
    @batluvr999 3 года назад +203

    "Do you like boys, girls or people who are neither?"
    "Yes"

    • @ripli3275
      @ripli3275 3 года назад

      ppl who are neither dont exist prove me wrong

    • @batluvr999
      @batluvr999 3 года назад +6

      @@ripli3275 i am someone who is neither lmao

    • @ripli3275
      @ripli3275 3 года назад

      @@batluvr999 how are you neither explain then

    • @lnlyluvr
      @lnlyluvr 3 года назад +4

      hope this helped :))/gen

    • @lnlyluvr
      @lnlyluvr 3 года назад +5

      also, gender doesn't equal pronouns, for example you could be agender and still use she/her or he/him. they/them is also used and is a gender neutral option that anyone can use. there are also neopronouns, some common ones are it/its, xe/xem, ze/zem, ze/zyr, and fae/faer. neopronouns are used kn the same way as she/her, he/him, or they/them.

  • @sydneyloo5866
    @sydneyloo5866 3 года назад +487

    these videos are perfect... the bi color scheme, the cute people, the narrator's voice... I love it all. thank you guys so much for making this page. 💖💜💙🥺

    • @driftingthruspace
      @driftingthruspace 3 года назад +15

      hello time traveler

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 года назад +45

      Glad you like them!

    • @sedatkaya9968
      @sedatkaya9968 3 года назад +7

      @@driftingthruspace ahahah

    • @ItsTheMagicMelon
      @ItsTheMagicMelon 3 года назад +14

      Honestly yes I love these colors. It’s just so beautiful 💖💜💙

    • @mcyanfei5842
      @mcyanfei5842 3 года назад +4

      Can you travel in time-??

  • @thefreakybean2495
    @thefreakybean2495 3 года назад +52

    My mom thought it meant that I was constantly thinking about having sex with women and that it was a distraction from school. But not guys? I-? My grades were fine? She said “You need to focus on school and not dating” like wtf just bc Ive thought about this and know my romantic/sexual orientation doesn’t mean I’m constantly trying to date. Ive NEVER been the type to seek out romantic partners.

  • @thomasphillips8103
    @thomasphillips8103 2 года назад +1

    I am 41 and just came out to my wife after 20 years of marriage. She had come out to me 6 years ago and I accepted/celebrated her living her truth. I know first hand how bisexual men are not as accepted as bisexual women. My wife was kind and accepting with her words but not celebrating my courage as much I did for her. She is still struggling with understanding how to navigate her feelings as she does not find two men engaged in sex as attractive. I have struggled with depression and not liking myself with huge fears of rejection. This is still a work in progress and I hope I can find support as our lives have been built in a very hetero-normative lifestyle. Thanks for this video.

    • @spookyscarymarxist
      @spookyscarymarxist Год назад

      Wish the absolute best for you and your wife. 💖💜💙

  • @lamaple0503
    @lamaple0503 3 года назад +394

    With a woman or with a man, doesn't matter... my parents only want grandkids from me 😅

    • @StrongMajor1178
      @StrongMajor1178 3 года назад +20

      I'm a girl and I want to get married to a man and adopt kids

    • @thisisasignyouaskedfor1111
      @thisisasignyouaskedfor1111 3 года назад +8

      Same but I would like to adopt kids instead

    • @leahgachaproductions
      @leahgachaproductions 3 года назад +8

      I don't want to have children at all and luckily for me, my parents and grandparents don't really care if I choose to have kids or not lol. But if I did want children, I would adopt instead of reproduce because the idea of pregnancy is scary to me 😬

    • @flowey1145
      @flowey1145 3 года назад +5

      i mean i rather not get pregnant i could literally die form that and it would be PAINFULL so yeah- tho my parents want me to get married and oh boy! im gonna break the news to them that I'm never getting married it's gonna be awful and i will feel like i betrayed my parents my whole life fun times 😌💅✨

    • @fluffycactus6269
      @fluffycactus6269 3 года назад

      Same bro

  • @just_ise4418
    @just_ise4418 3 года назад +96

    Can I just say that the color theme is so cute and aesthetic? like- and it's also calming and makes me happy while learning in the process ^^

  • @jessicabrocious3286
    @jessicabrocious3286 3 года назад +181

    One thing people often get confused on when they talk to me (I'm openly bi, and it's kinda obvious😅) is preferences. I'm more often attracted to men, but the attraction I feel towards women is deeper, more meaningful. People like to take this as "Well, if you're more often attracted to men then you're straight". Yeah, no. I like both. Please accept that and don't try to categorize me as something I'm not. I'm just me

    • @keirabowman4953
      @keirabowman4953 3 года назад +19

      Ugh I totally feel this. My parents are just like: “well if you like guys then why would it be so hard to only pay attention to those feelings? I think eventually if you do that you won’t feel so much attraction towards girls.” And I’m just sitting over here in the corner like: -_-

    • @jessicabrocious3286
      @jessicabrocious3286 3 года назад +10

      @@keirabowman4953 My dad's actually okay with it. So is my sister. It's just a couple of my "friends" that feel like I can "fix" myself. Can't wait to go to college and never have to see them again

    • @keirabowman4953
      @keirabowman4953 3 года назад +5

      @@jessicabrocious3286 That sucks :(

    • @eleven-hopper
      @eleven-hopper 3 года назад +11

      I totally feel you on this. I have a more deeper like attraction towards women myself (might be cause i'm one) but I find it so much easier to develop crushes on guys. I easily can find myself more attracted to men but I am way more inclined to date a woman.

    • @jessicabrocious3286
      @jessicabrocious3286 3 года назад +12

      @@eleven-hopper I imagine myself with men more often because it's what's expected of me, but when I do find a girl that I like, it stays with me for a long time and messes with my entire world because it actually means something and is more that surface-deep

  • @nintilda3897
    @nintilda3897 3 года назад +2

    I am bisexual and I’m gonna share my experiences here :)
    I started thinking about sexuality around the age of 9 I think. I first thought I was always heterosexual until I really started to question it.
    It can be a bit hard to actually find out what you are (at least it was a bit for me..). I thought about it for a while and came to the conclusion that I’d have no problem dating a woman or a man.
    First of all….You don’t need experience! I once had a conversation that went kinda like this, my friends and I were talking about sexuality’s and I mentioned that I’m bi. One of them asked if I had already dated a girl/boy. I said no and then they replied to me that I can’t know my sexuality yet if I didn’t have any experience. Of course experience can be a good way to find out your sexuality but it’s different from person to Person.
    Coming out was also never a problem for me. My friends and my family don’t really care about a persons sexuality. We were at dinner and I suddenly just said that I’m bi and my mom just replied with „cool, ok.“ and that’s it.
    Im sorry If it isn’t as easy for you. Always take your time with it!

  • @comicallybadpun
    @comicallybadpun 3 года назад +66

    anytime anyone says "you are valid" melts my heart 😭😭😭 like,, tysm?!?!!

  • @caraandria7574
    @caraandria7574 3 года назад +480

    I really don't understand why even homosexuals don't treat bisexuals equally after all they were also bullied by heterosexuals and why are they wanting to make them suffer more like that.

    • @allthingsanime7413
      @allthingsanime7413 3 года назад +51

      homosexuals are the most inherently like heteros as they too only like one gender so they still have the same misconsemptions butyea it is still stupid

    • @thesuperkplesbofanhithere3118
      @thesuperkplesbofanhithere3118 3 года назад +48

      woooo calm down guys
      don’t put all the homosexuals in the same boat
      I’m lesbian and my girlfriend is bisexual
      All you need is trust and some homosexuals are scared that their partners would leave them for the opposite sex or some problems but overall it always comes to a person’s trust issues
      I trust my girlfriend more than anyone in this world and being bisexual or lesbian/gay/pan/name it, it doesn’t matter.
      When you love someone, you love that person only and it’s all that matters
      Well to me
      that’s my point of view

    • @Atlas-bd9jh
      @Atlas-bd9jh 3 года назад +45

      @@thesuperkplesbofanhithere3118 having trust issues shouldn’t be an excuse to be blatantly biphobic, though
      and, in itself, the assumption that bisexuals will leave you for the opposite sex due to their attraction to both genders is once again inherently biphobic and adds on to the stereotype that bi people are cheaters, yknow?
      it’s fine to be a little on edge about it, but assuming and or fearing that a bisexual will cheat on you and leave you for the opposite sex (or same sex) isnt the best assumption at all and contributes to the mass biphobia found in homosexuals
      also, please don’t think that we're saying all homosexuals are biphobic and that we’re putting them in the same boat, because we’re not-; it’s just a lot easier to say ‘homosexual’ than ‘a minority of homosexuals’ or ‘some homosexuals’ because im sure anyone with common sense would understand that we clearly don’t mean all homosexuals lol

    • @thesuperkplesbofanhithere3118
      @thesuperkplesbofanhithere3118 3 года назад +8

      @@Atlas-bd9jh i know that it’s not an excuse 😂 jeez
      I was just thinking about reasons why they would not accept bisexuals or even recognize them, I have no idea why besides the fact that they would be scared to be cheated on or something.
      And i’m just saying that for SOME people, it can be the trust issues
      Like seriously I just don get it and it’s messed up because then the message “love is love” don’t make sense no more
      and sure common sense
      I wasn’t putting all of the bisexuals in the boat too just so you know lol
      this was just a thought
      because the main comment felt like it was all of them when you read it you know? and then some people could actually believe that so I JUST WANTED TO CLARIFY 😭
      anyways sorry if it wasn’t clear enough
      have a great day

    • @wicked_deftlady
      @wicked_deftlady 3 года назад +4

      Thank you! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🌈🌈

  • @kozumekenma8827
    @kozumekenma8827 3 года назад +401

    I hate when people say “pansexual is the same thing as bisexual” like NO ITS NOT

    • @soywho9837
      @soywho9837 3 года назад +26

      they are basically the same very small difference

    • @The_Copper_Element_Itself
      @The_Copper_Element_Itself 3 года назад +58

      @@soywho9837 there is no difference. Pansexuals like anyone regardless of gender. And bis like both men and women. So even if a person is fluid or agender. They still have traits from both genders that attract bis.

    • @rainblows6665
      @rainblows6665 3 года назад +5

      Well bisexuals are the ones saying this. Y'all have no one to blame but yourselves.

    • @doggyclark
      @doggyclark 3 года назад +1

      IKR

    • @SoukokuTruther
      @SoukokuTruther 3 года назад +5

      @@rainblows6665 No we don't say it don't take the blame only on us bisexuals.

  • @localundertalefan3255
    @localundertalefan3255 2 года назад +9

    This made my heart very happy. I felt the comfort and positive affirmations you guys were giving all of us bi beans out here. Thank you, for making me feel valid!🏳️‍🌈

  • @ludvigeriksson2182
    @ludvigeriksson2182 3 года назад +412

    When she said “there is no confusion” I laughed real hard, confusion is my natural state of mind lmao

  • @es89276
    @es89276 3 года назад +111

    The most annoying thing for me is when people say that I used to be gay because I was in a relationship with a girl and now I’m with a boy. NO, I was bisexual then and I am now.

    • @Purplefox_Chili
      @Purplefox_Chili 3 года назад +10

      Yeah that must suck... The most annoying thing for me is when People ask if i have a crush on two People (a boy and a girl) like... why?

  • @snoopy953
    @snoopy953 3 года назад +492

    Me: **telling my friend how my mom accidentally bought me a Bisexual T-Shirt**
    The video: What does it mean to be Bisexual?
    Me: :0

    • @midnightdoodles
      @midnightdoodles 3 года назад +14

      @Goose Milk I know, right? I’m bisexual but no offence, the hetero flag is REALLY bland.

    • @midnightdoodles
      @midnightdoodles 3 года назад +12

      @Goose Milk Also my excuse to get pride stuff during June is I just like rainbows (which is true) and the bi colours have been my favourites for years even before I realized I was bi.

    • @garyprater8139
      @garyprater8139 3 года назад +1

      Look up my comment.

    • @leftyfizz
      @leftyfizz 3 года назад

      Lol

    • @soapforthesoul
      @soapforthesoul 3 года назад +4

      It’s a sign

  • @mitchhamrick3117
    @mitchhamrick3117 Год назад +2

    Thanks!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +2

      Thank you for the donation! Which part of the video was helpful for you?

  • @estherkissoon4956
    @estherkissoon4956 3 года назад +508

    WE ARE VALID!!!

  • @dexterity2220
    @dexterity2220 3 года назад +72

    I completely support bisexuality even if im straight, although there was this bisexual girl Who was obsessed with me and i felt unconfortable so i told her to please stop because i didnt like her as more as a friend. Then she started bullying evey one of my other friends saying theyll take me away from her! I kept telling her its enough but she didnt listen untill i cut all contact with her and stopped talking and meeting with her. Now i really need to make a strong bond with a person in order to know do they deserve to be my friend.. 💔

    • @mentalrebllion1270
      @mentalrebllion1270 3 года назад +16

      I had a friend who had a similar issue. The girl used to hug my friend whenever she pleases and my friend finally put her foot down on the issue. The girl got made when she found out I was bisexual too but was still allowed to hug my friend. I actually got asked about it. Told her it’s “because I don’t sexualize it or her.” My friend had also been my friend for over 7 years at that point. Hugs were very normalized platonic affection for us at that point, especially given she was the friend I was allowed to still have sleepovers with in high school. So yeah the stalker girl did eventually leave my friend alone. But that’s more because my friend got a promotion and it looks bad if one of their old coworkers is being too touchy after being told to stop. It makes a difference....and I might have scared her off for a while before that.

    • @anchyi1202
      @anchyi1202 3 года назад +6

      I'm sorry that happened. Sometimes some bi people get desperate for love and they go overboard. I hope she finds someone who'd love her back and I hope you find peace in your love life too.

    • @nothanks1239
      @nothanks1239 3 года назад +11

      Unfortunately, it doesn't matter if you are gay, straight, bi, trans, etc... There are some very toxic individuals in all groups. Just remember, that individual was wrong for what she did, but not all bisexuals behave this way.

    • @cherrythefaeiry208
      @cherrythefaeiry208 3 года назад

      why you decided to comment this?

  • @randomperson4358
    @randomperson4358 3 года назад +1696

    When you are a bisexual being, you're not straight, you're not gay, you are just a potato. A lonely, lonely potato... 🥔
    -Your Neighborhood Bisexual

  • @sillymiasi
    @sillymiasi 2 года назад +6

    I'm a proud pansexual, but it's pretty hard because what it means is that you like someone for their personality, meaning you end up liking your friends a lot. It hurts when they don't like you back really bad, and it basically ruins the friendship.

  • @m.highley9170
    @m.highley9170 3 года назад +42

    I've had a guy dump me when he found out because "he has to watch out for guys and girls". My dude I don't cheat, I just like guys and girls.

  • @Seana123
    @Seana123 3 года назад +31

    I JUST TOLD MY CRUSH THAT I LIKE HER. But she said she is not looking for a relationship but that doesn’t matter bc I let it out. I want to thank you guys for encouraging me to do this right. 👌👌

  • @PsychoKern
    @PsychoKern 3 года назад +684

    When you're bisexual:
    "hole is a hole, no mercy"

  • @evaa_oliviaa
    @evaa_oliviaa 3 года назад +6

    I feel like if you aren’t sure what you are attracted to yet, bi, bi+ or pan is pretty safe because it’s very vague I guess so not totally one way or another, which is totally fine but if you don’t want to come out as gay or lesbian etc, right away it’s a good option.

  • @itokyo6288
    @itokyo6288 3 года назад +1092

    I feel welcome here I’m Christian/catholic but my sexually is bisexual I want to tell my parents but I know that they won’t support me. I told no one about this One Time I told my friend and she hated me I want somewhere/someone with supports me/feel welcomed And it is here
    Thxs for making us feel welcomed
    Edit: thank you for making me welcome

    • @Star0809
      @Star0809 3 года назад +113

      You can be Christian and be a different sexuality than straight

    • @eslemnuraydn3424
      @eslemnuraydn3424 3 года назад +65

      SAME but i'm muslim :'I

    • @wwexstans8183
      @wwexstans8183 3 года назад +57

      I’m Christian too.Every time I mention my bisexuality to my mom,she’s too quick to say “well you know what the Bible says”.🤣

    • @Star0809
      @Star0809 3 года назад +39

      @@wwexstans8183 The Bible describes an relationship as a man and a woman so technically a man loving a man or a woman loving a woman and another sexuality isn't a relationship therefore not a sin

    • @brumiq._
      @brumiq._ 3 года назад +48

      I'm from Christian family too and my brother is really into Bible etc. he really loves God. I think i'm bisexuál but even if i'm not i still support EVERYONE who is not toxic or who is normal in the lgbtq+ comunity. He says that he doesn't care but i'm still so scared that one day he or someone in my family will leave mě because of my sexuality

  • @asteroid-qx2qd
    @asteroid-qx2qd 3 года назад +1806

    Pros and cons of being bisexual:
    Pros: You like everyone
    Cons: You like everyone
    Edit: Found out I was actually pan a while ago lol

    • @crystalgrapes
      @crystalgrapes 3 года назад +54

      Isn’t that more suitable for pan? Lol

    • @catlover8453
      @catlover8453 3 года назад +45

      @@crystalgrapes as it was said in the video, pan, omni, fluid are under the bi umbrella, they are bi+

    • @Parker_Lot
      @Parker_Lot 3 года назад +51

      @@rad5334 pansexuality is attraction regardless of gender. Bi usually includes all genders but you can have a preference (or not) and probably care about gender. It's a bit complicated, especially since the definition of the sexualities mentioned can depend on the person, but that's the gist of it😭

    • @ultimatetoelicker
      @ultimatetoelicker 3 года назад +4

      @@crystalgrapes yeah-

    • @chocys_cosplays_alt
      @chocys_cosplays_alt 3 года назад +4

      So true…

  • @chinmustache6420
    @chinmustache6420 3 года назад +43

    I’m a hetero guy, so this is quite interesting to me. I think it’s strange that there’s prejudice around bisexuals, since people’s preferences should be obvious enough to not be confusing, name-wise.
    Since I’m also from a religious family, I understand the reason many are against the lgbt+ community, but I also noticed some people are far too harsh in their treatment to lgbt+s and end up being extremely rude. I wish everyone could respect each other, but I can tell that won’t happen.
    Also I don’t like the phrase “your truth”, because it’s illogical, and by definition, truth isn’t personal, it’s factual.
    Anyway, have a nice day, and I hope we can all have a better understanding of each other, especially in these times

    • @Disearned
      @Disearned 3 года назад +8

      The ideal world would be a world where people could be who they are without being judged, but that sadly won't happen...

  • @r.i.p2753
    @r.i.p2753 3 года назад +4

    You are so kind you almost made me cry tears of happiness:)

  • @morishusbando
    @morishusbando 3 года назад +248

    Lesbians:why girls hot?
    Gay:why boys are hot?
    Bi:why everyone is hot?
    Pan:ahhhhhh
    Asexual:what?

    • @overarian
      @overarian 3 года назад +9

      Lol true

    • @tanostrelok2323
      @tanostrelok2323 3 года назад +21

      Scrap walls of text, we should use this comment to explain sexuality from now on

    • @shirleyjeannite5724
      @shirleyjeannite5724 3 года назад +2

      😂♥️

    • @tanostrelok2323
      @tanostrelok2323 3 года назад +6

      @Jasmine Brewster As they say in my country, better lonely than in bad company

    • @brian_Austin27
      @brian_Austin27 3 года назад

      😂😭😭

  • @trttarget2403
    @trttarget2403 3 года назад +30

    I'm so happy that finally someone says that bi means attraction to more than one gender, and not to only Males/Females.

    • @ItsTheMagicMelon
      @ItsTheMagicMelon 3 года назад +2

      Same

    • @willow3364
      @willow3364 3 года назад +2

      Yea it can be like this-
      Man and woman
      Woman and other genders
      Man and other genders
      Or all three! Im sick and tired of people saying false definitions

    • @TrainJoJo
      @TrainJoJo 3 года назад +1

      Same!

  • @user-vo9dq4zy7u
    @user-vo9dq4zy7u 3 года назад +151

    Even I myself a bisexual I still sometimes get confused about my own sexuality

    • @myusernameissolonglolimgon8700
      @myusernameissolonglolimgon8700 3 года назад +6

      same

    • @nyenyearandomperson
      @nyenyearandomperson 3 года назад +3

      Same here

    • @neilnova2062
      @neilnova2062 3 года назад +9

      Same,I consider myself as bi girl but I'm attracted to boys the most which makes me question if I'm straight

    • @ilyverse
      @ilyverse 3 года назад +3

      @@neilnova2062 maybe you just have a preference for boys?

    • @ilyverse
      @ilyverse 3 года назад +5

      @@vxler1e380 omg same. Like one day ik im bi and the next I wonder if I’m just faking it

  • @Taa79JR
    @Taa79JR 2 года назад +6

    As a bisexual its hard to hear how many people thats scared to come out and depressed 😔

    • @spookyscarymarxist
      @spookyscarymarxist Год назад

      I don't come out to my family becuase they are all Conservatives. My friends and myself are all Communists and are 100% okay with LGBTQ but I haven't came out to them becuase it isn't really information they need to know right now. I'd tell the person I was dating immediately but other then that it's only really online I talk openly about being Bi. Not depressed at all also.

  • @useraccount2507
    @useraccount2507 3 года назад +195

    Non-bisexual: "What's your sexual preference?"
    Bisexual: "Preference".

    • @helltubejackie1086
      @helltubejackie1086 3 года назад +4

      No, that's pan

    • @hellokatey
      @hellokatey 3 года назад +38

      @@helltubejackie1086 Some bisexuals identify as bisexual and are attracted to people the way pansexuals are; sexuality is a spectrum, and no one should tell someone else what they are, everyone is valid x

    • @useraccount2507
      @useraccount2507 3 года назад +6

      @@hellokatey well said 👌

    • @myself7232
      @myself7232 3 года назад +3

      . Sure the typical definition of bi means two, so bisexual= two genders but when talking about sexuality it’s a lot less constricting then that. I identify as bi because I’m attracted to dicks and buthy’.... not necessarily girls and guys. I’ve been attracted to both guys, girls and people who identify as other. I choose to identify as bi because I personally do not feel comfortable with the label “pansexual”.

    • @helltubejackie1086
      @helltubejackie1086 3 года назад +2

      @@hellokatey oh, thanks

  • @demonartist6431
    @demonartist6431 3 года назад +159

    I have a boyfriend and I was very scared to tell him that I was bi.... but thank god he accepted me... I love him so much! I hope you are as lucky as I am with your partner/friends/family!

  • @mikaeladuran256
    @mikaeladuran256 2 года назад

    Just came out to my parents yesterday, and I've never felt so supported ever

  • @cnekoofficial6058
    @cnekoofficial6058 3 года назад +234

    Me: *casually tells mom I’m bisexual*
    Mom: But you don’t know that yet.
    Also me,who officially labelled herself as bisexual for almost 3 and a half years already: *slowly dies inside*
    My mom is still pretty chill though.She didn’t yell or shout at me for being Bi,but she’s unaware of how much that stung me in the soul when she said that.Nevertheless,I won’t let that affect me or my decision of becoming Bi.
    Bisexual Squad,unite 💙💜💗🎉💐✨👏💅🏻👑

    • @Professionalhaterlol
      @Professionalhaterlol 3 года назад +6

      United States Of America more like
      United Biseuxal States Of America

    • @androsstarzv_v
      @androsstarzv_v 3 года назад +6

      my moms says that I'm not lesbian, then I know that im not lesbian either, I'm _bisexual_ :).
      But i wont tell anything to my mom tho

    • @astrielle446
      @astrielle446 3 года назад +1

      BI SQUAD, LESSSS GO! 🏳‍🌈💙💜💗

    • @ogomez04
      @ogomez04 3 года назад

      @@astrielle446 let's go 💙💜💗

    • @MiniMia48
      @MiniMia48 3 года назад +6

      “You’re still young, you don’t know that yet.” She said.
      Well then how do I know what a crush is at all? You never told me I was too young to know when I liked a boy. Am I too young or not?

  • @kamalisri6056
    @kamalisri6056 3 года назад +341

    When I was young, I used to say my favourite colours were blue, purple and pink, how ironic that they're the colours of the bisexual flag and I'm bisexual.
    Well I'm going to come out to my parents now, wish me luck everybody
    💖💜💙

    • @Heroprism
      @Heroprism 3 года назад +8

      howd it go

    • @soywho9837
      @soywho9837 3 года назад +10

      goood luck :)

    • @kamalisri6056
      @kamalisri6056 3 года назад +38

      @@Heroprism It actually went really well, my family was so supportive of me☺

    • @kamalisri6056
      @kamalisri6056 3 года назад +10

      @@soywho9837 Thanks

    • @Heroprism
      @Heroprism 3 года назад +4

      @@kamalisri6056 good

  • @grimmeour7405
    @grimmeour7405 3 года назад +112

    Just in the nick of time as I almost had a panic attack about my girlfriend being bi. She came out months ago but it finally caught up to me when she said she had a "girl crush" and I thought it meant ACTUAL crush. That crushed me and my head loves to make me O V ER T H I N K

    • @ranapratap4650
      @ranapratap4650 3 года назад +10

      So what did it exactly mean?

    • @breakmycursegaming
      @breakmycursegaming 3 года назад +27

      This comment literally made no sense lmao

    • @yesyesyesysa
      @yesyesyesysa 3 года назад +9

      yeah if she said girl crush, then what’s the difference between a crush and an “actual” crush?

    • @grimmeour7405
      @grimmeour7405 3 года назад +7

      @@ranapratap4650 more of a "I want to look more like her" or "be as talented as her" sort of thing.

    • @ubtpixielox
      @ubtpixielox 3 года назад +1

      What?

  • @anjabrasler4321
    @anjabrasler4321 8 месяцев назад +2

    I’m starting to realize I’m bisexual but I don’t want to tell my parents because I know they’ll just tell me it’s a phase and “all girls feel some level of attraction to other girls, it’s just a part of being curious, you know you’re straight, stop trying to pretend you’re different just so you can fit in with your lesbian friends and get attention”. But I love being around gay people, “feminine” men attract me much more than the bulky stereotypically “masculine” men who actually intimidate me and freak me out a bit, and I can picture myself with both guys and girls. The difficulty is that my mind tries to make me lean more towards men bc I’ve been told my whole life about eventually getting a boyfriend, husband etc, so I’ve been imagining that all my life and didn’t think much of girls until recently, and I also have always pictured myself with my own birthed children, which wouldn’t exactly be possible if I were to marry a girl. But girls are so much more attractive and gentle, and guys freak me out a lot. Ugh, maybe I’m overthinking this. I’m just so confused and anxious about the future, I don’t know who I’m going to end up with. I half wish this was just a phase, it would make things much simpler, I wouldn’t need to think about who I’m attracted to bc there would only be one answer, guys, and that would solve the problem for children and people wouldn’t judge me. But I can’t stop my thoughts of girls as well as guys.

    • @Alala-u5c
      @Alala-u5c 8 месяцев назад +2

      Same!
      I like feminine guys more then masculine ones, I thought I was strange .

    • @Jayydavt3D
      @Jayydavt3D 5 месяцев назад

      For me, im a very patient person, so iwas fone waiting to see how I would feel as an adult to tell thrm, but no every one can do that.

  • @GalaticArt
    @GalaticArt 3 года назад +60

    Me:*scrolls and sees Psych2Go*
    *Bisexual title*
    Me: Woah..... I’m bisexual *click*

  • @TheBeesies
    @TheBeesies 3 года назад +21

    Y'know what, I've decided that this year during pride month I'm going to try to teach my Dad more about different sexualities and genders and to respect them. He tries to be supportive but he doesn't understand and that makes him quite disrespectful. Often watching tv he is grossed out by anything lgbtq+ and when I asked him if he knew what asexuality he thought it was being in love with yourself (he means like interested in yourself as a romantic partner not self love) so I want to teach him to understand (that'll make coming out to him a whole lot easier). I encourage others to do the same for their family or friends, teach them what they need to know so that they can be more accepting of the people around them! But only if you know the person may be willing to learn!

  • @Vampyrs__
    @Vampyrs__ 3 года назад +269

    Me a bisexual:
    Sees notifications: 😀
    *you don’t know how fast I spammed the like button*

    • @gretcielmorales376
      @gretcielmorales376 3 года назад +6

      I don't watch most videos but this I came running

    • @leaf4979
      @leaf4979 3 года назад +4

      SAME TWT

    • @am-wd5kt
      @am-wd5kt 3 года назад +4

      bitch same i couldn’t tell if i had read the notification right

    • @ItsTheMagicMelon
      @ItsTheMagicMelon 3 года назад +2

      @@am-wd5kt lol me too

    • @meahdesaussure9110
      @meahdesaussure9110 3 года назад +1

      I was thinking the same thing fellow Bi🖐😁

  • @Neo-animates
    @Neo-animates Год назад +1

    I have just noticed recently that I have not only crushes on girls (I'm a boy) but on boys too, I'm nearly 13, I just told my friends and they are pretty supportive, this video helped a lot thanks!

  • @ribinder3052
    @ribinder3052 3 года назад +48

    I’m Bi (as my pfp shows) and I am very grateful for this video. I have not experienced verbal distaste for Bi people directly but I’ve heard about it. I feel like this video is very important for speeding awareness so thank you for making it 💙💜❤️

    • @KonLopッ
      @KonLopッ Год назад

      non normal people gang here

  • @moths.asleep
    @moths.asleep 3 года назад +48

    If you’ve came out to your parents or anyone close to you, I’m proud of you. No matter your gender or sexuality.
    I came out back in September for being pan and non binary (more on the masculine side.). Got told if I ever kissed a girl I would be grounded and got told that I’m a girl and that’s it. My father said it’s traumatizing for him.
    It sucks when you’re told you’re not allowed to be who you are cos of religion and god.
    Hopefully this isn’t look like me looking for pity cos it’s not. I have a bunch of wonderful friends in my life and one teacher who respects my pronouns and uses them :))

    • @ItsTheMagicMelon
      @ItsTheMagicMelon 3 года назад +8

      It really does suck that parents value their sky daddy over there literal children. But no we are the sinners apparently

    • @nadinevaneeden1678
      @nadinevaneeden1678 3 года назад +2

      You are truly inspirational! I'm proud of you!

    • @rbhknumber4366
      @rbhknumber4366 3 года назад

      why is sky daddy the only insult atheists have

    • @LunaLovegood-ij9jm
      @LunaLovegood-ij9jm 3 года назад

      I'm sorry about your parents, but I'm glad your supported by you friends and teacher.❤

    • @rbhknumber4366
      @rbhknumber4366 3 года назад

      @Isaïra Straal its so overused

  • @MfTheSupervillain
    @MfTheSupervillain 3 года назад +103

    Me see the notification for r u bisexual:
    I am faster than Jupiter’s thunder

  • @Haloichi
    @Haloichi 3 года назад

    The fact that i saw this video in my recommendation many times after i told some guy he looks bisexual to me and then he told me he likes me it's just
    Iconic

  • @Kafka_Garezerra
    @Kafka_Garezerra 3 года назад +201

    When people ask me what it feels to be bisexual I always tell them: "It feels like shit. I have double chances to find a partner and I'm still single. Im double virgin. I'm so virgin I could give birth to Jesus. :("

    • @tanostrelok2323
      @tanostrelok2323 3 года назад +13

      As counterintuitive as it sounds, the less you care the higher your chances of attracting someone

    • @Kafka_Garezerra
      @Kafka_Garezerra 3 года назад +20

      @@tanostrelok2323 Yeah, I've been more focused on things like my hobbies and studies, but can't help but feel jealous when I see people being happy with their partners

    • @tanostrelok2323
      @tanostrelok2323 3 года назад +10

      ​@@Kafka_Garezerra Worked for me, when you can be happy for yourself and become confident of your own achievements, you will eventually find someone interesting enough that will also be into you, worry not.
      Relationships are not a solution to unhappiness, but a compliment to your own, good luck out there.

    • @shirleyjeannite5724
      @shirleyjeannite5724 3 года назад +2

      @@tanostrelok2323 A little bit of a cliche...

    • @tanostrelok2323
      @tanostrelok2323 3 года назад +1

      @@shirleyjeannite5724 Kinda is, but it works.

  • @infinite99s17
    @infinite99s17 3 года назад +19

    Throught high school I knew there was something different about me that I wasn't being very accepting towards myself. couple months ago I finally accepted myself as bisexual and after accepting myself, I felt more and more happy knowing who I am. I have had issues like being lonesome a lot, being neglected a lot, having anxiety, not being mentally stable ect.. but that just happened when I started high school. As a child, I used to not care about what people think, I used to be very hyper during primary/elementary school. During high school, I became more and more quiet and lonesome, there were a couple times I actually tried to make friends and fit in but people just rejected me as joining their friend groups because they thought I was weird. I actually really wanted to be home schooled but my mum wouldn't let me. I haven't really told anyone I'm bi, my mum kind of knows but she just tries to forget the situation. I can't really tell any of my family members because they are religious and some members are really strict.

  • @stormy7565
    @stormy7565 3 года назад +82

    I've known that I'm bi since I was ten. Well, I haven't quite had a word for it, I just knew I was attracted to boys and girls and used to be confused when people always were attracted to one gender, leading to me thinking I was abnormal and keeping my mouth shut. Now that I am 15 and am fully aware of the lgbtq community I know that I AM normal and that there is a term for my attraction. Tho I still can't bring myself to come out to my grandparents. My parents know, but I somehow can't convince myself on telling my grandparents, because I know that as soon as I would tell them and then get into a relationship with a boy, they would assume I was straight and I'm really scared of not being accepted

    • @The_Copper_Element_Itself
      @The_Copper_Element_Itself 3 года назад

      WTF? DEVELOPING SEXUAL ATRACTIONS AT 10??

    • @SpinalWall16589
      @SpinalWall16589 3 года назад

      @@The_Copper_Element_Itself Yeah. I mean, there's nothing wrong with being bisexual. BUT QUESTIONING IT AT THE AGE OF 10? WHAT IN THE HOLY HELL-

    • @legopeterparker3419
      @legopeterparker3419 3 года назад +1

      @@The_Copper_Element_Itself I had sexual attractions at 7 bro

    • @ninabeansofficial
      @ninabeansofficial 2 года назад +1

      What's the problem with it at 10?

    • @stormy7565
      @stormy7565 2 года назад +2

      @@SpinalWall16589 not sexual at that time, but romantic

  • @carlaisabellaarvizupalma1407
    @carlaisabellaarvizupalma1407 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank ok so much for this video! It really helped me stop thinking I was confused and let me see that I truly am bisexual myself. This video is great and thank you for inspiring me to push myself out my comfort zone and maybe soon come out the closet.

  • @drinnie06
    @drinnie06 3 года назад +271

    Also: when a bisexual person is in a relationship with a person identifying as the opposite gender THEY ARE NOT HETEROSEXUAL
    I always get confused when people assume that you magically become heterosexual just because e.g. you as a cis woman date a cis dude 😂 Like yeah that's what bisexuals do

    • @mentalrebllion1270
      @mentalrebllion1270 3 года назад +17

      I had a similar vein of commentary from an ex boyfriend. I started dating my girlfriend at the time and decided to let him know since our break up was actually amicable and we were decent friends. He said “so you’re lesbian now” and I know he was joking. He tended to joke a lot and I’m much more blunt and deadpan so I just told him “nope, still bi. I’m just dating her now.” He apologized when he realized his joke was in bad taste and congratulated me so it ends well this conversation. He long knew I was bi though. We’d had that conversation before we dated as it is a deal breaker for me if someone can’t accept that. I don’t bend my identity or conform it for others sensibilities. If someone asks, I’ll out myself. Being that I’m very female presenting (genderfluid here but born female) I often get that question of “are you married/dating” and “do you have kids yet” and I’ll just up and say “no” to married “yes” to dating, and “it’s not possible to have kids accidentally in my relationship” for that last question. When asked to clarify I mention I have a girlfriend and we have been dating (to date) for 9 years. So yeah, I’m constantly outing myself! To my knowledge I’ve never faced issues with it. I did one time pass a customer off (politely) to a coworker (made it out that the coworker would be of more experienced assistance than I) so I didn’t have to deal with the customer’s ranting about negative stuff regarding lgbtq+. I was very mad in the back room but managed to calmly continue to help others once I had my small internal screaming rant. The stuff said was...very anger inducing.

  • @BlackoutArtz
    @BlackoutArtz 3 года назад +17

    Someone I’ve been friends with since 1st grade recently came out to me as Bi. It makes me happy that they felt comfortable with telling me :3

  • @riikkylondon5247
    @riikkylondon5247 3 года назад +54

    i used to be a fan but after watching this, I became an air conditioner

  • @Lotus_lilyofthevalley
    @Lotus_lilyofthevalley 3 года назад +2

    As a bisexual person
    Am I aloud to cry now ?
    not a lot of people understand all of what you said was really touching for me(I still haven't come out yet to my family and I don't know how to explain bisexuality to them )
    Thank you this will be very helpful

  • @s.h.a.r.d.s
    @s.h.a.r.d.s 3 года назад +54

    I can relate so much to this video as a bisexual, any other bisexuals here?

  • @mmabellee
    @mmabellee 3 года назад +16

    Ain't this a great timing, I have been really confused with my sexuality. I consider myself a bisexual, I'm not confident but I hope I'll get to find my answer in the future

  • @michikoamano2782
    @michikoamano2782 3 года назад +20

    When I was little I was always so confused how I would fall in love with a girl, but then fall in love with a boy. So when I did officially come out as Bisexual my mom was very disappointed. It's very difficult for me to pretend to be straight..

    • @ItsTheMagicMelon
      @ItsTheMagicMelon 3 года назад +6

      Try to educate her. Maybe then she will accept it. If she doesn’t, then she failed you, not the other way around. In the end, don’t worry about what other people think

    • @michikoamano2782
      @michikoamano2782 3 года назад +4

      @@ItsTheMagicMelon Thank you for the advice. I'll try 😅

    • @l.adodg3r70
      @l.adodg3r70 3 года назад

      You are straight

    • @kpv7438
      @kpv7438 3 года назад +2

      It's genuinely a doubt
      How does it feel different, like to act as straight and to live as bisexual

    • @michikoamano2782
      @michikoamano2782 3 года назад +2

      @@kpv7438 The best I can explain it, is that uhm let's say I have a crush on a girl. And we eventually start dating. I'd have to hide it because my parents are homophobic. Which sucks because I don't want to lie to them.

  • @Thingsiwannasaybutneverdid
    @Thingsiwannasaybutneverdid 3 года назад +1

    So I come out to my dad, and I thought he will be mad at me, but NO he supports and love me the way I am. So guys don't be afraid to come out it's challenging but it's worth it.