Were they the problem? Or was it you?

Were they the problem? Or was it you? #relationshipgoals #relationships #men #women #attraction #blame #dogs
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[@DailyRapUpCrew]

We're grateful for your contributions to the community and would be delighted to feature you on our show if you're interested.

[@ChristannChanell]

I am only in relationship with myself. Yep. I put the food on the porch with a Placemat!! 🤣 A WHOLE WORD! 💯👑

[@highticketclosers]

😂😂😂

[@chynnataylor1096]

Defintley speaking truth. This message made me self reflect on a quick note. Thank you so much Iyanla, you are truly a gift from God.

[@healingadviceoracle]

Sometimes we can be blindsided by our emotional hubris, thinking we have energetically attracted a lover that matches our emotional needs when in fact we attracted someone who is meeting our egoic needs instead.

[@leyahruizdeloreto6420]

Ooh 😮 yaasss❤ don't forget that ego. Excellent point!!

[@KG-bliss]

We need to be aware of the vibratipn we send out

[@MinisterAngel777]

yes ma’am !

[@theghettocookingshow]

Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family on the loss of your daughter.

[@ABCDuwachui]

❤

[@leyahruizdeloreto6420]

The truth is SO healing❤and it helps us recognize the power that we have to change and grow; to evolve, and create joyous lives.

[@seraphimspeaks4658]

Yes Mama Iyanla! I have done that before. But now...erm...Uhn Uhn. I had to heal my mind and now I'm fine and divine! 😂❤❤❤❤

[@HIWWPI_2024]

“Dogs don’t come to your porch, unless you put food out there for them” That might go over some peoples head 🖤🖤

[@agurlwithapearl]

Yes I left the house ring FOODS in the porch. I have watch you for years and have acknowledged my trauma. Thank you

[@ladywhite79]

I'm feeding myself. Why waste food on mongrels.

[@ElleBrOw]

It was me 🙋🏽‍♀️
I have high expectations

[@weareallone6148]

I love me some Iyanla! I miss you, Miss Iyanla! Stay Blessed!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@kittkatt8180]

Im so glad you have come back to educate and help us find ways to heal from life experiences ❤ it alway good to hear from the wise

[@upper339]

Tge volome is bad Ms Iyalna pleae repost and fix i couldn't here

[@luthelbrooker3144]

Let them know.💯

[@vfree4579]

Hell! I moved the unemployed stray into my house😢😅😂. And gave access to continual bags of dog food😮

[@dinedoll]

"Get Over it!"....get the book or the Audible ... I'm telling you it will transform your mind!!!!!!

[@eliocosmos]

I am a man who is dating and am taking this advice to heart. Deep bow.

[@millicenthamilton-kakowski8275]

I learned as well, why I was attracting "the wrong men". I was sending the signals that they hear, & not the signals that "the right men" hear. It was me, not them. Once I changed the sound ,vibration & volume of my signals, "Mr. Right" showed up in all his fabulous glory!!! Yay me!!

[@d.elisabethmarshall3290]

The majority of the time it's us.

[@justelle9633]

Please correct the grammar...were not where. Good message nonetheless.

[@dr.cheryldenegall4987]

Amen dating when carrying baggage is what drove me back into another hurtful relationship. No more 12 years free of any stress..

[@Cynshine100]

This was such good food for thought. Making me think about what I'm putting out there to attract the people and experiences in my life. Thanks Iyanla I appreciate you!🙏💖

[@DetoxGreen]

Mama what is this Samsung Galaxy quality? 😭

[@kuhlekwethuhlongwane5285]

Ms Iyanla, may you please re-post I would love to hear every word you say, but was battling to hear your message.

[@godisamazing7074]

Very true. PEOPLE ONLY TREAT US THE WAY WE ALLOW THEM TO TREAT US

[@tboykin13tb]

HaPPy B-Lated Birthday Auntie Iy!! 💌💖

[@highticketclosers]

We can practice self love & have compassion.

[@soniajames4208]

I always put the dog food on the porch... I own it

[@MrsQueenSunkissed]

Ooooh that part!

[@jessicafrederick8971]

Wow
I put a whole bag of it out 😢

[@brandimyers7238]

Auntie!!!! A word

[@gcjackson8]

Love you Ma!!

[@tboykin13tb]

A lil of BOTH!! 🤔

[@shaktislove5555]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@ahmedhabel2334]

hiiiiiiiyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

[@MaralinThomas]

Amen!!!

[@EricaHansberry]

I too have put plenty of dog food on the porch lol. Many times. I've been learning accountability over the last few years and I would like to thank you for helping me to get an understanding of those lessons. It really helped with the healing process when I realized I'm not as much as a victim as I thought I was.

[@Elisa-kh8yt]

❤❤❤

[@jenodeau43]

🙌

[@missbell1634]

Short word POWERFUL message!

[@debnecohen001]

No Longer Quilty of This, Thanks!

[@christophersterling6788]

😂😂😂 beautiful and well said😂😂😂😂

[@charmainebrown1572]

Thank you for speaking the truth❤ I am working on self improvement and needed to hear this..

[@IyanlaVanzant]

Wonderful!

[@kellymills8779]

💯 percent! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@nataliemscrzysxycoolharris]

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️💯

[@CIERRAREALER]

💯💯💯❤️💕❤️

[@deidrabenson361]

❤️❤️❤️

[@lilliejune4203]

🙏🏾🌹

[@Awareoftruth]

My my

[@b4dbiitches]

Send you so much love and light iyanla ❤❤

[@damondshelton411]

I love you my beautiful sister!