Iyanla's Affirmations - Free Yourself From Negativity

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  • Опубликовано: 25 янв 2022
  • Iyanla speaks about negativity and how you can free yourself from it.
    Taken from Iyanla's Daily Anti Viral Message, Day 68, originally aired on September 26, 2020. Link to original video - • Iyanla's Anti Viral Me...
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  • @spiritualplayersinc.5121
    @spiritualplayersinc.5121 2 года назад +131

    I learned to let others be who they are and I had to fight not wanting to fix them! Let it be!!! I had to fight my own empathy for them and stop the need to pour into them to make them feel better. And take care of myself first.

  • @injoyinmyself2018
    @injoyinmyself2018 2 года назад +24

    Something,,, Iyanla said in an older video was a game changer for me .
    ' YOU get to CHOOSE, wether or not you want to participate in the relationship and HOW you will participate in the relationship.
    If there is an issue , address it, if cant be fixed , set healthy boundries or walk out the door .

    • @erica679
      @erica679 Год назад +1

      I literally connected that same message to this message. Great point.

    • @injoyinmyself2018
      @injoyinmyself2018 Год назад +2

      ​@@erica679because of your comment, I rewatched this video and it was a nice reminder , she does state the point, you are correct, I realized that because of certain " roles" that people play in my life I expected them to treat me a certain way, instead of being honest with myself and looking at the nature of relationship and choosing if I want to participate, sometimes circumstances make it a challenge and I guess that's were the boundaries come in.
      I wish you all the best on your journey 🙏

    • @erica679
      @erica679 Год назад +2

      @@injoyinmyself2018 yes, I agree with you I think a lot of my issue is expectations and not accepting the reality of the relationship. I wish you the best on your journey as well ❤️

  • @christeec1918
    @christeec1918 2 года назад +46

    AMEN! With those types of people around you, who needs enemies?! Protect your personal space!

  • @aubreybryan5332
    @aubreybryan5332 2 года назад +11

    I believe it's the same people who feel like they have no control at all who thinks they need to be in control 💯

  • @KekeFABful
    @KekeFABful 2 года назад +41

    As the tears stream down my face all I can say is God shows up on time. I needed to hear this message right NOW! I receive it. Ashe'

  • @jeffreypeterson9280
    @jeffreypeterson9280 2 года назад +5

    Hurt people like to hurt other people

  • @CoachLove
    @CoachLove 2 года назад +44

    I must protect my life, peace, and well-being. I choose to keep my vibration clear and boundaries appropriate to enhance joy in my life.

  • @tiaervin6696
    @tiaervin6696 2 года назад +64

    Amen.. I’m understanding that people may have different beliefs, and they see things differently. I working on seeing people as God sees them. No more judging .

    • @TheBlessed64
      @TheBlessed64 2 года назад +1

      Me too

    • @Sangotayo
      @Sangotayo 2 года назад +1

      Ase’ thank you for this, it made my day.

  • @purepositivedivinevibespur6214
    @purepositivedivinevibespur6214 2 года назад +2

    Dont be afraid to cut lose and back up and create boundaries

  • @LadyDiaVa
    @LadyDiaVa 2 года назад +2

    How to deal with disagreeable people,bless them continually with love and rob them of their ammunition.

  • @diamondqueen7098
    @diamondqueen7098 2 года назад +14

    Wow, I'm only at 7:01 of this and all I can think of is she right, I focus on others rather than myself as a distraction and I do need to be more understanding compassionate it's just I need to be that to myself and that's what's so hard forgiving myself for real for believing other people were responsible for seeing my hurt lost and wounds because I been ignoring them like everybody else 😞 it's time to focus on myself and what I can do to be a better me and to heal the trauma I suffered at my owe hands. Thanks Ms. Ivanla for reminding me what I was not accepting and loving; myself.

  • @ninajhun228
    @ninajhun228 Год назад +2

    Amazing - Message of a reminder if known OR just learned now is "beware of your playlist" we have in our minds, what is being done to "me' is what we have deep inside our souls. POWERFUL !! Thank You Iylana and so glad you have your own stream shows, genuinely you are one of the best life teachers ever.

  • @jonelleAlbert-qv7dm
    @jonelleAlbert-qv7dm Год назад +1

    why do I feel offended and how do i love on myself 😮😢. This is so deep I need to listen to this message a few more times.

  • @AliciaWillisBranch
    @AliciaWillisBranch Год назад +6

    IYANLA!!! This is why I adore you so much... ((HUG)) I say my prayers and then you deliver the words I need to hear. I appreciate you more than I can ever express. Thank you for being my angel.

  • @NiijiAl-Haqq
    @NiijiAl-Haqq 2 года назад +15

    A humble acknowledgement of this truth. We come from and will return to a Most Divine Source!
    Thank you Mother Ilyana. 💞

  • @deontaedugat2612
    @deontaedugat2612 2 года назад +13

    Love you, Mama Lyanla! I’ve definitely collected a lot of gems from you over this past year now! 🙏🏽

  • @trinawilliams3459
    @trinawilliams3459 2 года назад +14

    Wow deep I Love THIS there is no such thing of negative people the truth maybe we/they are hurt

  • @tmc.3485
    @tmc.3485 2 года назад +9

    Right on time!!!! I have some cleaning up to do within myself!!!! Amen!!!!! Thank you beloved Iyanla!!!!!🙌🏽🙏🏾❤️

  • @nancywilson346
    @nancywilson346 2 года назад +1

    I used to be around lots of negative people back in 2019,2020,and 2021.I have decided to set boundaries between they and I in 2022!😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😍😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜☺☺☺

  • @user-di9no6qb7e
    @user-di9no6qb7e 6 месяцев назад

    Iylana I remember you being around my grandparents I'm healing from trauma and you use to be my Healthy Start caseworker I am so very proud of you this is Bernadette Parker I told you that you was going to do something big look at now I am so proud of you

  • @jackins2000
    @jackins2000 Год назад +1

    Your smile, your voice,, and beautiful eyes , that's All I need.

  • @purepositivedivinevibespur6214
    @purepositivedivinevibespur6214 2 года назад +1

    Don't be afraid of creating boundaries dont be afraid of cutting ties I learned that letting others be who they are and what the opinions are and how they want to act in their behavior does not mean that I need to change anybody it just means that they are moving and they are operating in the perspective of they know how but I do get to choose how I be in relationship with people

  • @essence7423
    @essence7423 2 года назад +2

    Amen to alllll this! When you feel something is off or you see blatant toxicity, take your leave. A queen always plans their escape and no one needs to know your plans. Just do it, while also self reflection. “Don’t be afraid to set boundaries & cut people off” without explanation bcuz NO is a complete sentence🙏🏾❤️‍🔥💝

  • @universalcompassion4118
    @universalcompassion4118 Год назад +1

    Iyanla clearly speaks from the heart and mind. That self-reflection is definitely needed. Thanks for sharing with us.

  • @readingmaniac54
    @readingmaniac54 2 года назад +3

    Thank you that helps me to deal with the negative people in my life. No more labeling of people it's time to step away

  • @nancywilson346
    @nancywilson346 2 года назад +1

    I won't allow anyone disturb my peace in 2022: thanks for all the warning signs about staying away from negative people!😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😪😥😢😰😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞

  • @donnahine9683
    @donnahine9683 2 года назад +8

    That was so good. I saw myself doing this and didn't realize I should be looking at myself ! Thank you!! I love your messages!!!

  • @bellisimaamor6245
    @bellisimaamor6245 2 года назад +9

    Mrs. Iyanla.. This is a powerful message that speaks directly to me. I receive this & will continue to do my work. Blessings to you! 💜😊

  • @Kayla_chosen1
    @Kayla_chosen1 11 месяцев назад

    Amen! 19 years old and i receive this message

  • @amyleigh9417
    @amyleigh9417 2 года назад +1

    Ma'am, please stop seeing me so loudly...wow! This video/her message is one to keep coming back to again & again.. Appreciated.

  • @ashd_recaps
    @ashd_recaps 2 года назад +12

    Aunty Yanla!!!! This was it! I needed this today. Thank you always for your word 💜

  • @cookdanceandpraythroughit8516
    @cookdanceandpraythroughit8516 Год назад +3

    Thank you for this!! I really needed this!! Especially since my therapist is not the best!! But im not giving up!!

  • @babydii3487
    @babydii3487 2 года назад +1

    She's giving negativity a completely different meaning...

  • @welcometomyworld4871
    @welcometomyworld4871 2 года назад +4

    I love it. Thank you sis. The big picture for me is. I see myself in this narrative. So I will stick right there and see ME while I check myself. Correct me and APPLY the word of God in my life. Like Michael Jackson’s song
    IF I WANNA MAKE THE WORLD A BETTER PLACE, TAKE A LOOK AT MYSELF AND MAKE A CHANGE.
    Amen.

  • @purposedwithdeedeemcraesho3540
    @purposedwithdeedeemcraesho3540 2 года назад +2

    When they act up look at triggers in me how do I feel that’s deep Mrs. Vanzant thank you

  • @diamoneRa9
    @diamoneRa9 2 года назад +2

    I can’t hear you- THE GLASSES!!! Yes!! 😍 Love you. Your generosity is epic

  • @dorothyedwards7225
    @dorothyedwards7225 2 года назад +2

    Thank You Iyanla!!!! Thank You Very Deeply Much!!! "Call a thing a Thing".
    I'm working on it.....-Everything.

  • @syrinthiahaskell4876
    @syrinthiahaskell4876 2 года назад +7

    I needed to hear this

    • @ienyams
      @ienyams 2 года назад +1

      Me as well

  • @angelapatricewilliams7366
    @angelapatricewilliams7366 Год назад +1

    This is so good Ms. Iyanla, I really need to hear this. Your insight on this is so different than what I expected. You’re actually telling me to look at me and sometimes it’s hard to face the reality of what I need to face

  • @janicescott-pair97
    @janicescott-pair97 Год назад +1

    Thank you, Iyanla.😊 I needed this lunch break moment of positivity. I admit to being guilty of negative thoughts as well. Yes, I agree that we should be mindful of our triggers.

  • @prosperity.
    @prosperity. 2 года назад +1

    The truth will set you free .. What a blessing

  • @ms.j1591
    @ms.j1591 2 года назад +3

    I agree with most things she says but just because she is a celebrity figure people feel they have to agree with every single thing they say I don't agree with what she said about that there aren't negative people I disagree unapologetically nor am I focused on them but in life you have individuals who are positive and negative forces....Ase'

  • @FourEverEvolving
    @FourEverEvolving 2 года назад +2

    This message came right on time! I am having a tough time policing my thoughts, myself when I am made to feel uncomfortable or vulnerable for harm as a result of other's actions. This is some hard work! But I'm thankful for this because I have observed myself as being both polar opposites of the types of people Ms. Iyanla described! I really have been traumatized and so I am pretty much" trigger happy" 😩. I am trying my best to be healthy spiritually, mentally and have good intentions towards others despite my trust issues. 🙆🏾‍♀️ Im trying.

    • @FourEverEvolving
      @FourEverEvolving 2 года назад +1

      @Nafeesa Rabiu Thank you for your well wishes🤗

  • @agnesm_23
    @agnesm_23 2 года назад +4

    This thinking is on another level! Great stuff

  • @karenm.2185
    @karenm.2185 2 года назад +6

    This is what I needed to hear. Thank you Iyanla.

    • @deloreshead3128
      @deloreshead3128 2 года назад +2

      This is what I need to hear, when l hear you talk 👄, wish I was there with you

  • @ezichinwachukwu141
    @ezichinwachukwu141 Год назад

    Today marks a turning point in my life, thank you very much

  • @36circle
    @36circle Год назад +1

    This was right on time and I'm grateful for it.

  • @audrapayne7821
    @audrapayne7821 2 года назад +3

    I truly admire your gift and your dedication to giving and sharing you gift with us!

  • @minggdynastyy1110
    @minggdynastyy1110 Год назад

    I NEEDED THIS TOUCHED ME IN DEEP WAY

  • @karenmcgrath1449
    @karenmcgrath1449 2 месяца назад

    Your message is so clear, and I never even saw it the way you speak and clarify things just becomes a new awareness to me and I want to thank you for sharing your experience strength and hope and I love the fact the way that you speak I learned a lot from you keep talking and please keep sending the message that you’ve always sent all about love and especially loving ourselves. I love you.

  • @ucity88
    @ucity88 Год назад

    You are talking RIGHT TO ME TODAY!

  • @KatrinaKingMusic
    @KatrinaKingMusic 2 года назад +2

    This is so true 🙏🏽

  • @azeei5448
    @azeei5448 Год назад

    4:00 I view the word “negative “ as meaning, take-away. Especially a take -away from a positive”

  • @jackins2000
    @jackins2000 Год назад

    Oh how I missed you Iyanla.

  • @oluwayemisiakaaka3163
    @oluwayemisiakaaka3163 10 месяцев назад

    I just want you to be here forever.

  • @brighteyes6585
    @brighteyes6585 2 года назад +1

    This is so true, we need to have empathy, not judge people as negative. I learn a lot from your videos! 🙂

  • @taylornj8582
    @taylornj8582 2 года назад +2

    Right on time!

  • @aishadadoo4509
    @aishadadoo4509 2 месяца назад

    This is a very powerful video clip. Very grateful to have come across this again today.

  • @shunb1906
    @shunb1906 Год назад

    Your words are speaking POWER!!

  • @tanyas1644
    @tanyas1644 2 года назад +5

    Thank you for the reminder! Puts things in better perspective for me.

  • @LalaLaBrujita
    @LalaLaBrujita Год назад +2

    Thank you so, so much for these words! I really needed to hear this today. I love you so Much Ms. Iyanla thank you for being who you are.

  • @joyceprater4647
    @joyceprater4647 11 месяцев назад

    I have to protect my space. Amen

  • @concisouslychoosing
    @concisouslychoosing 2 года назад +4

    Timely reminder. Thank you🙏🏽

  • @susanmazza7867
    @susanmazza7867 2 года назад +1

    Woooo I just needed this. Thank you …I love you, Major.

  • @jericaleigh
    @jericaleigh 2 года назад +2

    Right on time.

  • @blaqbeauty85
    @blaqbeauty85 2 года назад

    I just love you iyanla n thank you. Much needed today🥰💜

  • @lisaboone8724
    @lisaboone8724 2 года назад +5

    Thank you Ms Iyanla for helping me to not only clean up my energy but also my language!! 🤣🙏

  • @back4amin11
    @back4amin11 2 года назад

    Yes!! Thank you for posting this!

  • @Devotionorange
    @Devotionorange 2 года назад +3

    Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @ebonyjohnson6764
    @ebonyjohnson6764 2 года назад +3

    Wow thank you for these amazing gems

  • @heatherwatson7692
    @heatherwatson7692 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you for these words. We are using the program Character Strong and your quote about giving yourself permission to feel all the emotions is one we were focusing on this week. I am having my middle schoolers listen to this video as a follow up. Thank you for your positivity that you share out to all.

  • @ruthmartinez4812
    @ruthmartinez4812 Год назад

    You hit it right on the 🎯! I needed
    To hear this! Thank you and be blessed

  • @josephinejohnson8874
    @josephinejohnson8874 2 года назад

    Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

  • @EmpressofPentacles111
    @EmpressofPentacles111 Год назад

    Yes I need this thank you! Ms.V

  • @prophetbeverly7517
    @prophetbeverly7517 2 года назад +1

    I needed every morsel of this!! Thank you for always sharing light. It always removes darkness from my life. Blessings be unto you 🙏🏾

  • @darylsimon9879
    @darylsimon9879 2 года назад +3

    Thank u for sharing this message, i really needed to hear this!!

  • @abenawilliams6623
    @abenawilliams6623 2 года назад

    I needed this. Thank you

  • @erinisom2
    @erinisom2 Год назад

    POWERFUL POWERFUL message 💜

  • @daisysingz
    @daisysingz 2 года назад +1

    Soooooo good!!

  • @charmainek3128
    @charmainek3128 2 года назад +1

    AMEN! DEEP BOW

  • @lindacohen9134
    @lindacohen9134 2 года назад +1

    U Spoke too me, Thank you ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @pathall9757
    @pathall9757 2 года назад +1

    Powerful ❤

  • @patharris5603
    @patharris5603 2 года назад +2

    Thanks I needed to hear this for myself 🙏

  • @wm8673
    @wm8673 2 года назад

    MOTHER IYANLA... THANK YOU!!!

  • @pinkymay8305
    @pinkymay8305 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you iyanla I needed this today
    I needed to check myself and create boundaries

  • @debrahjean0927
    @debrahjean0927 11 месяцев назад

    Good points. Thanks.

  • @tiffanyharris790
    @tiffanyharris790 11 месяцев назад

    This so amazing

  • @carlajohnson3682
    @carlajohnson3682 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks so much !

  • @Kammy_Royal22
    @Kammy_Royal22 Год назад

    Love this! This gives me insight on people.

  • @karenmcgrath1449
    @karenmcgrath1449 2 месяца назад

    Love your messages, always learn a lot from you. Keep doing what you’re doing to help me and a lot of people you’re a blessing.

  • @barbarawilliams9679
    @barbarawilliams9679 2 года назад

    Thanks! Great message...

  • @OutTheBlueTarot
    @OutTheBlueTarot 2 года назад

    You schooled me today.... #Perspective.. I will definitely be conscious of my words🙌🏾💖

  • @sanctumsantorum4230
    @sanctumsantorum4230 Год назад

    God bless you Iyanla Vanzant

  • @tnt01
    @tnt01 2 года назад +1

    Excellent.

  • @LarryBanks85
    @LarryBanks85 2 года назад

    I love this.

  • @donnataylor1363
    @donnataylor1363 2 года назад

    Thank you for your great words of wisdom and knowledge !!!

  • @sallylyon2318
    @sallylyon2318 2 года назад +1

    you just saved my life (again) ❤🙏❤

  • @sistajudith2458
    @sistajudith2458 2 года назад

    Thank you ❤️

  • @awakeningsoulmemory2082
    @awakeningsoulmemory2082 2 года назад +2

    Wow...needed to hear this in this very moment...🙌ASE

  • @KalimahSBICeo
    @KalimahSBICeo 2 года назад

    I like this perspective