Matthew McConaughey Shares his Trick for Getting What You Want

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  • Опубликовано: 12 ноя 2024

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  • @Froglet1968
    @Froglet1968 4 года назад +438

    Tom is one those interviewers who REALLY listens and gives people the space to say and explore what they want to share...thanks Tom! Great interview...

    • @hekto507
      @hekto507 4 года назад +6

      not like gary vee XD

    • @dannydoorod
      @dannydoorod 4 года назад +5

      Hes better than Tim Ferris😁

    • @thetaorobertshow265
      @thetaorobertshow265 4 года назад +2

      @@hekto507 you just beat me to it! 🤣 yeah....Gary should let the interviewing to the pros.

    • @matteisenhauer5850
      @matteisenhauer5850 4 года назад +3

      @@dannydoorod Nah, he's different from Tim Ferriss. Both Tom and Tim have brought a whole lot of value to my life. No reason to compare.

    • @AjayMathur
      @AjayMathur 4 года назад

      @@matteisenhauer5850 totally agree

  • @POSITIVEMILLIONAIRE
    @POSITIVEMILLIONAIRE 4 года назад +951

    I don't know who Needs to Hear This but " Greatness is often built when no one is watching ". So don't give up and keep going

  • @Professional_Nobody
    @Professional_Nobody 4 года назад +359

    The part of depression that they don’t talk about is how memories turn negative when we review them. Sometimes it feels like I have more negative or uncomfortable memories than I really do...this is why it’s important to journal joyous moments, moments when you performed well, when you were confident, when you were loved and when you proved capable of loving others unconditionally. If you get stuck in bad memories, or start feeling bad about yourself, who you are, or what level of success you have, you then can go to your journal to remember, it’s not all bad. You are the one you’ve been waiting for ♥️

    • @Rohit2Singh
      @Rohit2Singh 4 года назад +11

      Every word u wrote Lady, is true...Alteast for Me.... That's What I am going through right now....

    • @Ma1efcent
      @Ma1efcent 4 года назад +2

      So true T.Brenneman. Great post

    • @Professional_Nobody
      @Professional_Nobody 4 года назад +3

      @@Rohit2Singh stay strong ♥️

    • @Rohit2Singh
      @Rohit2Singh 4 года назад +1

      @@Professional_Nobody thnk u😊😇

    • @xXCreepyNeighborXx
      @xXCreepyNeighborXx 4 года назад +3

      Very true i anyways thought what a stupid thing to do until i stated for the first time yesterday, i thought i wouldn't even have anything to write but there i was filling up half a page and enjoying it. You are so right about us warping our memories for the worst we forget how good things actually were / are. It is something that i will continue to do daily and recommend it to anyone that will listen haha

  • @cristybello
    @cristybello 4 года назад +14

    Tom, what I enjoy the most about your interviews is that not only do you come well prepared to it but you also dig into details people are really interested knowing about. Great interview! I can realize that Matthew also like it because your questions are all so relevant and your spontaneity makes the conversation exciting and engrossing! Thank you Tom

  • @SamMartinPeakPerformance
    @SamMartinPeakPerformance 4 года назад +133

    McConaughey doing the rounds on all the best podcasts - he knows where his audience is at!

    • @ArtyMars
      @ArtyMars 4 года назад +6

      Literally everyone is his audience lol

  • @jzen1455
    @jzen1455 4 года назад +123

    A large part of my life has been spent trying to escape myself and become a totally different person with hopes of being as successful that dude or as confident and charismatic like so and so. I was just rarely comfortable in my own skin. Moving, traveling, turning one new leaf after another, rebirth, enlightenment, etc. I was constantly in flux shedding my skin as I attempted to escape and replace myself with a different better self that never seemed to materialize no matter how hard I tried. But lately, I've just been content being whomever I may be at the moment regardless of state I may be in. I'm still constantly trying to improve myself, but I'm also learning to appreciate who I am in the moment without anxiously searching and waiting for that elusive future better self to replace me.

    • @ilavalutupou5521
      @ilavalutupou5521 4 года назад +7

      I hope things go well man, I'm in the same rut myself. Just gotta stay consistent

    • @The72Nana
      @The72Nana 4 года назад +7

      The most important and hardest journey is the journey within. It is an awakening. It is painful even. But when we accept ourselves unconditionally, forgive ourselves for our mistakes and for being human, let go of negative self-talk and a whole lot of things that it takes to find ourselves, and ultimately love ourselves, it is so worth it. So, keep going.

    • @carlevans2121
      @carlevans2121 4 года назад +2

      very cool

    • @pamengland7863
      @pamengland7863 4 года назад +2

      That’s called Wisdom🙏🏼

    • @meinsley
      @meinsley 4 года назад +7

      I've found Dr. Joe Dispenza's interviews very helpful.

  • @Rachelle.9
    @Rachelle.9 4 года назад +58

    I just ADORE Matthew!!! He’s so wise & literally everything he’s saying is GOLD ✨🙌🏼

    • @everydayshowday5151
      @everydayshowday5151 4 года назад

      @yourstepdad - everyone has Gold but do they know that they have it or are they the gold?

    • @annalisa14
      @annalisa14 4 года назад +1

      The questions aren’t too bad, either

    • @raznatovicanastasija
      @raznatovicanastasija 4 года назад

      You ain't fucking him, forget about it.

  • @user-ql8og2zz5d
    @user-ql8og2zz5d 2 года назад +1

    No pain! No gain! I thank God for the bad times. It has shown me never give up! I fall down every day! But I get back up!

  • @LeksVucko
    @LeksVucko 4 года назад +171

    "I'd rather be a good man than a nice guy" this is for everyone I'd def rather be a good person than a nice one.

    • @michaelm9621
      @michaelm9621 4 года назад +3

      That is smooth and true.

    • @blessingsbest6838
      @blessingsbest6838 4 года назад

      What does it? Isn’t a good guy a nice guy?

    • @josephcoatofmanycolors
      @josephcoatofmanycolors 4 года назад +4

      @@blessingsbest6838 A good guy is a always good whatever the circumstances.
      A nice guy is nice today and not nice tomorrow.

    • @LeksVucko
      @LeksVucko 3 года назад +8

      @@blessingsbest6838 A good person is the one who always does what is right, has self-esteem and knows him/herself. A nice person does things to please others and often comes from lack of self-esteem.

    • @SunnyGirlFlorida
      @SunnyGirlFlorida 3 года назад

      It is so easy to be both. Why choose?

  • @earlkapulethegratitudemind4779
    @earlkapulethegratitudemind4779 4 года назад +11

    Hey Tom, you are one of the best interviewers that I’ve heard so far! Always very attentive, intuitive and great at asking the best questions to get the interviewer to give the most amount of value. Thank you for doing such a great job at getting others to be their true self and help impact others as much as they could in such a short time.

  • @jihopekwon9348
    @jihopekwon9348 4 года назад +65

    What a rare find in Hollywood. Such a wise and grounded person with discipline and values. I learnt so much from watching. Thank you so much.
    - from a young person

    • @muzzletov
      @muzzletov 4 года назад

      what did u actually learn?

    • @thedeskofamy2049
      @thedeskofamy2049 4 года назад

      @@muzzletov, ooh let me answer: Don't leave crumbs lying around.

    • @ir7862
      @ir7862 4 года назад

      Next minute....

    • @krismijares9782
      @krismijares9782 3 года назад

      Yeah? Go roll around in a Lincoln eating Doritos with him. That's wisdom for the ages.

  • @BeyondResist
    @BeyondResist 4 года назад +90

    “Tearing down the rest of the world won't make you happy. Look inside yourself. Because finding who you were meant to be? What you were put into this world to do? That's what fills the emptiness. It's the only things that can.”
    ― A.G. Howard

    • @arsenioseslpodcast3143
      @arsenioseslpodcast3143 4 года назад +1

      No

    • @ellenorchid01
      @ellenorchid01 3 года назад +1

      This true wisdom needs to be heard by all the Neo-Nazis who hate "the other" because they are unhappy with who THEY are. People who love themselves can accept others. Even love them.

    • @krismijares9782
      @krismijares9782 3 года назад +1

      Yeah? Go roll around in a Lincoln eating Doritos with him. That's wisdom for the ages.

  • @jeremyraglin8170
    @jeremyraglin8170 4 года назад +141

    Fantastic interview, great questions, McConaughey is one of the few actors who seems like a real person.

    • @neilhebert6429
      @neilhebert6429 4 года назад +4

      "I'd rather be a good man than a nice guy" this is for everyone I'd def rather be a good person than a nice one.

    • @AlituraNaturals
      @AlituraNaturals 3 года назад

      He is truly an inspiration to many, including myself!

    • @krismijares9782
      @krismijares9782 3 года назад +2

      Yeah? Go roll around in a Lincoln eating Doritos with him. That's wisdom for the ages.

    • @jds-skywayhills
      @jds-skywayhills 3 года назад +1

      Great response offers too.

    • @gadgalleto5906
      @gadgalleto5906 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/qF0YLKK0nik/видео.html

  • @BossManSays
    @BossManSays 4 года назад +62

    This might be the best interview I've seen with McConaughey with his book tour.

    • @RyanFila
      @RyanFila 4 года назад +4

      Honestly, his thoughts are really interesting.

    • @uknasa007
      @uknasa007 4 года назад +1

      @@RyanFila yes loved how he travelled alone

    • @BossManSays
      @BossManSays 4 года назад +3

      @@RyanFila agreed glad there's more there than a pretty face.

    • @RyanFila
      @RyanFila 4 года назад +2

      @@uknasa007 I think that solo travel is a HUGE booster in mental processing of how others lives and purpose in life.

    • @RyanFila
      @RyanFila 4 года назад

      @@BossManSays yeah, he’s the full package for sure!

  • @LulaS
    @LulaS 4 года назад +129

    You have unlimited potential. You have unlimited power. And it all lies in your brain. Train your brain every day for discipline, train your brain for perseverance, train your brain for success. 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽🔥🔥🔥

    • @zay395
      @zay395 4 года назад +3

      You can go so much further than your perceived limits sure, but unlimited is a bit of a stretch. Can your body fly on its own?

    • @LulaS
      @LulaS 4 года назад +4

      @@zay395 I see what you mean. No, we cannot fly or live without oxygen. Of course not. It’s not about being unreasonable, it’s about setting your brain for growth and achievement. And in that sense, yes, we are limitless. Every time we think we’ve reached a maximum limit, we realize we can always go further. And further. And further...

    • @PODMTHC
      @PODMTHC 4 года назад

      Quit being such a tool man

    • @LulaS
      @LulaS 4 года назад +1

      a tool for doing good is actually a cool thing to be 😉😎😙

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 4 года назад

      @@zay395 you have other potentials you can grow when another is maxing out

  • @OKSooo_TV
    @OKSooo_TV 4 года назад +150

    "I've been tip-toeing around here for so damn long not committing to anything. I'm missing out!"- well said

    • @RyanFila
      @RyanFila 4 года назад +3

      I feel this a lot!

  • @the_stepfit_maven3991
    @the_stepfit_maven3991 4 года назад +14

    Matthew Mcaugnhey is so multidimensional and authentic. Profound interview.

  • @phoenixmode6909
    @phoenixmode6909 3 года назад +2

    I love that Matthew McConaughey is such an in-depth, introspective human being. He gives us all a fine example of how we each should really live life: willingness to be real, to look in the mirror, to engage in introspection and self-awareness, which not only benefits and GROWS our own true self, but also benefits and sets an example to others for approaching life and living fully.
    I love this interview, as well as another one I listened to.
    I recently bought the Greenlights book for myself. While I haven't finished it yet, I find I have to read it in bits, in digestible chunks, because at times it triggers me; other times, it gives me some priceless nuggets of depth and wisdom that I just need to ponder over for awhile before moving forward. I'm so looking forward to, after listening to him speak, reading through the rest of it.
    I'm at a place of expansion in my life right now where this book is indeed a timely, much needed tool in my own renaissance-- or, as Matthew calls it, "McConnaisance", haha....
    I appreciate McConaughey's honest, open, and deep insights to living life, through his sharing his own insights.

  • @mentalityofmindset
    @mentalityofmindset 4 года назад +12

    I just purchased the book on Audible. Matthew is such a deep soul❣ Congrats Matthew! I also grew up Hollywood so I was very happy that he didnt buy into it and pushed himself beyond the fame. The ones that survive and thrive in the industry have strong families and a will to dig deep.

  • @cheryledwards4043
    @cheryledwards4043 3 года назад +1

    I am from Atlanta, Texas. Love the values you are writing and speaking about. Thankful to see it.

  • @marcoponts8942
    @marcoponts8942 3 года назад +5

    The being forced to do interviews like this during corona is actually a huge positive I think! Usually, when you (Tom) do Impact Theory there's all the cameras and angles and shots that make you and the interviewee look "perfect". But like this, seeing people in a normal room, without lighting effects and whatever gives it something real and I really do love that! I mean, that's what impact theory is ultimately about, right? To give people something real. And this makes it so much more relatable. Seeing these celebrities sitting in their homes just like me, that's real. That's a reminder that we are all in the same boat. We are all in this together. Not only with corona but with life. Thanks Tom for keeping up this incredible work! I might not be able to give you personally something back but I think that's okay, because I can do my best and pay it forward. And the people I hopefully touch can do the same. :)

  • @cindisowder2182
    @cindisowder2182 4 года назад +52

    Makes me realize how my every days are pretty much the same thing and about pleasing others. I’m always wondering why I’m so exhausted with zero enthusiasm.

    • @luckyman9903
      @luckyman9903 4 года назад +5

      Yeah have a day or two a week of not giving a fuck about what others think in any social situation, and learn to enjoy it

    • @MD-us1pj
      @MD-us1pj 4 года назад +4

      I recomend you the book of dr.Aziz Gazipura- Not nice

    • @cindisowder2182
      @cindisowder2182 4 года назад +2

      @@luckyman9903 my husband is always telling me this. He's on the spectrum and easily clicks people off. I usually avoid people so I don't feel smothered.

    • @bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
      @bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12 3 года назад

      XYZ
      ruclips.net/video/n-zTWlSR5Yw/видео.html

  • @MonteroKirilenko
    @MonteroKirilenko 4 года назад +1

    I almost gave this interview a double thumbs up. Unfortunately RUclips rejected my request. I love all the McConaughey movies I've watched. And now, watching him talk about real life with such wisdom only reinforces my love and respect for this great man. Great interview as always Tom! Keep changing lives through with your ever-increasing great content.

  • @POSITIVEMILLIONAIRE
    @POSITIVEMILLIONAIRE 4 года назад +560

    I Pray Whoever Is Reading This Becomes Successful in Life

    • @LuanaJantz
      @LuanaJantz 4 года назад +4

      Equally

    • @carlosparra8976
      @carlosparra8976 4 года назад +6

      successful meaning millionaire? If some wise men told you: "I will make you successful in life, but you probably wont be a millionaire". Would you take him up on his offer?

    • @LuanaJantz
      @LuanaJantz 4 года назад +1

      Do you have a quote page on instagram?

    • @POSITIVEMILLIONAIRE
      @POSITIVEMILLIONAIRE 4 года назад +2

      @@carlosparra8976 success is not about money. Its all about our ambitious. Goals. How happy you are when you are doing your best work.

    • @carlosparra8976
      @carlosparra8976 4 года назад +1

      @@POSITIVEMILLIONAIRE But according to your name and your channel,, your main ambition is to become a millionaire. So to you, success=millions in your bank.

  • @michaelk.615
    @michaelk.615 4 года назад +33

    I listened to this as a podcast yesterday while on a 10 mile run. Inspiring. Thanks gentlemen.

    • @kewli7344
      @kewli7344 4 года назад +2

      NO WAAAY !!!! Never thought I’d see McConaughey on this channel . Huge fan of both your work . This was amazing to watch 👍🏽

    • @SandyBonnyman
      @SandyBonnyman 3 года назад +1

      You ran 10 miles in 64 minutes?!! And took in a podcast too?! Kudos to you! 👍

  • @jelizabethpetrie6656
    @jelizabethpetrie6656 3 года назад +3

    Exactly...ladies think toward a man...’I may want you. But I don’t need you.’ 💃 It is the most freeing mindset...🙏❤️🎯

  • @ssreiinc585
    @ssreiinc585 4 года назад +2

    I have always enjoyed Matthew McConaughey's movies, and his true passion as an actor shows in his acting performances. It is so nice to hear him speaking from the heart and knowing that his genuine love of living, which is evident in his acting, is real. We are all connected.

  • @MindNow
    @MindNow 4 года назад +30

    *If it really means THE WORLD to u then u will do anything to get to there!* 🙏

  • @G.Shawley
    @G.Shawley 3 года назад +5

    Tom Bilyeu is phenomenal at interviewing people, what an amazing episode 🔥

  • @sanyodude14
    @sanyodude14 4 года назад +6

    This guy has really lived his life. (Matthew)
    You can see it from the way he talks, he's so expressive and has so many lessons to teach us... Man, I really find myself in his topics... Right now I'm living in the kind of loneliness he'd lived in the outskirts of Sydney, but I know there's a lot of greenlights in the future. Thank you so much man. I really enjoyed this talk.

    • @oeu3669
      @oeu3669 4 года назад +1

      His eyes are very bright. And comfortable. He has definitely lived his life and really did it how he wanted. Only he really knows everything he went through. And it’s not even important for him to share it. It’s who he is. Brilliantly observed about his expressions

  • @drivenbygrowth7924
    @drivenbygrowth7924 4 года назад +84

    NO WAAAY !!!! Never thought I’d see McConaughey on this channel . Huge fan of both your work . This was amazing to watch 👍🏽

    • @RyanFila
      @RyanFila 4 года назад

      He’s really started focusing on helping others and it’s really cool to watch and listen to Matt’s ideas.

    • @drivenbygrowth7924
      @drivenbygrowth7924 4 года назад +1

      Ryan Fila thats really interesting man , I know he will do great in the self help industry his charisma is unmatched !

    • @RyanFila
      @RyanFila 4 года назад

      @@drivenbygrowth7924 Honestly!

    • @svetlanabondarenko3991
      @svetlanabondarenko3991 3 года назад +1

      it depends what you want you from this life, learn from Budda he is the permanent answer, other people just want something from you.

    • @krismijares9782
      @krismijares9782 3 года назад

      Yeah? Go roll around in a Lincoln eating Doritos with him. That's wisdom for the ages.

  • @cipberchi
    @cipberchi 4 года назад +11

    I started my day with this interview. Loved it. Respect for you Tom, your team and your work.

  • @dopamineshock5257
    @dopamineshock5257 4 года назад +4

    What an amazing person Matthew is. A man that does the right things, and loves life. Spectacular.

  • @koroglurustem1722
    @koroglurustem1722 3 года назад +1

    Tom knows how to extract pearls of wisdom from his guests. This interview looks nothing like any other interview with McConaughey. What I found reall valuable were the lessons about not being needy, instead being involved and not giving a damn about how I come across. Another great lesson was about staying with yourself until you feel comfortable in your skin, forgive some and say enough to some of the things in your life.

  • @imogensharma
    @imogensharma 3 года назад +7

    Tom Bilyeu has taken the chat show concept to the stratosphere. Thanks so much for these amazing insights.

  • @mylarca
    @mylarca 4 года назад +6

    I love when he said "theres a lesson here you know" cos I tell myself that all the time.

  • @trinymusiq349
    @trinymusiq349 4 года назад +3

    As soon as I heard about the book, I wanted Tom to interview him. He is the best interviewer!

  • @caseygursslin6317
    @caseygursslin6317 3 года назад +9

    Matthew wants to fix the issue and move on, so he works on himself!
    This is the way I am!!!

  • @KhoiNguyens
    @KhoiNguyens 4 года назад +40

    I listened to the audible...incredible and highly recommend. if you're a fan of Tom & impact theory, you'll love it.

    • @contessacarrer5501
      @contessacarrer5501 4 года назад +1

      Such an amazing interview. The clarity of thought in life is so clear

    • @HG51_
      @HG51_ 4 года назад +1

      Awesome, this will be my next audiobook!

    • @aaron6968
      @aaron6968 4 года назад +2

      Why will being a fan of Tom make us enjoy the book? Not doubting you just wondering why before buying the book...

    • @TheSipsakci
      @TheSipsakci 4 года назад

      @@aaron6968 my thoughts exactly

    • @planetwalker798
      @planetwalker798 4 года назад

      audible of the book? confused because your next sentence mentions Tom...

  • @Stormy_Dawn
    @Stormy_Dawn 3 года назад +3

    There's something so deep & raw about both of you that I have always loved. I'm so glad you did this interview!!

  • @-optimist-2697
    @-optimist-2697 4 года назад +3

    Matthew can definitely be a great mentor.

  • @crescentnovell8421
    @crescentnovell8421 3 года назад

    This man is amaaazing. He’s always been great to me but this interview tells the real truth: he’s dynamic. I could not peel my eyes away. So brilliantly human and mesmerizing. I’m getting the hard copy and the audible. Even his voice is magic. Thank you, Tom. Bless you, Matthew. 🙏🏾

  • @paulaquiroz4837
    @paulaquiroz4837 4 года назад +8

    I really resonate with the moments of discomfort and value of being alone.

  • @dishang1526
    @dishang1526 3 года назад +1

    I can relate with Mathew he is indeed practically sensible in his life!ive been in a place where aint my comfort zone, life is uncomfy but you become resilient in life and as you getting stronger in mind everyday!

  • @alexandercinca7093
    @alexandercinca7093 4 года назад +18

    Oh my god ! Thank you Tom for bringing Matthew Mcconaughey on . That is amazing!!!!

    • @RyanFila
      @RyanFila 4 года назад +2

      They both crush it!

  • @solitario779
    @solitario779 3 года назад

    My soul is crying without tears.
    I look around and i see so so much suffer.
    The world needs a hero.
    A real hero.
    Where are you? :(

  • @JacquiMwangi
    @JacquiMwangi 4 года назад +9

    The way Matthew tells the Africa village story is amazing! Had me on the edge on my seat thought. He should write more scrips and books

  • @winonawilson5962
    @winonawilson5962 3 года назад +1

    Matthew I have enjoyed you through the years.
    I have been shy natured most of my younger years. When I had watched your confidences in your movies, I started to make myself more confident.
    As I really had no example to follow realistically.
    So, thank you for giving that confidence to me by helping or showing me what I could do if I reacted to your behavior.
    So, that was how I basically learned how to take or make a pattern to follow and live.
    Congratulations you are one of several abmirable persons I have learned from to build my life.

  • @angelicaluce3230
    @angelicaluce3230 3 года назад +5

    "STYLE" - is knowing who you are, what you have to say - and NOT GIVING A DAMN" Gore Vidal

  • @bizzybee3762
    @bizzybee3762 3 года назад

    Tom Bilyeu, you are the best interviewer in today’s world...
    I love how your intuitive nature and how your ability to understand and see beyond the words to a deeper understanding or message pique the interest and seem to push your guests beyond what they seem to expect. Thank you!
    Love McConahey already but you brought out excitement and inquiry within himself I have not seen him respond this way in any other interview. Good job!

  • @ReneHamilton123
    @ReneHamilton123 4 года назад +4

    You know what I want to hear from you Tom, How to listen so keenly and to formulate such thought-provoking questions! I'm often surprised that you have been exposed to so much similar content yet you rarely jump in but rather just provide a stage for your speakers. Your comments at best only accents the message of your speakers. It's impressive how long you're able to stay engaged in this way.

  • @landonwright8804
    @landonwright8804 3 года назад +2

    "it's not really a risk unless you lose the fight" lol he keeps dropping these gems bro

  • @theredhottruth2061
    @theredhottruth2061 4 года назад +4

    Yep I've been on that limbo looking back 10 years and realising I've lived the same year 10 times. Frightening to acknowledge how much time I've wasted. Great wisdom, thank you.

  • @DML575
    @DML575 3 года назад

    Another fantastic interview, McConaughey is a straight forward, honest, insightful, real human being. Tom continues to make the world a better place with his interviews.

  • @RickEllwood
    @RickEllwood 3 года назад +4

    28 mins in Matt gives probably the most important advice to anyone who is looking for their goal in life as a human being. Respect Dude

  • @DM-og9fq
    @DM-og9fq 4 года назад +1

    I really love that his advice is so different from what people normally advise about self-awareness and direction: Be subjective. And if you're wondering which way to go, just pick and commit and see where it leads you.

  • @scarr6200
    @scarr6200 4 года назад +8

    What an awsome interview! Matthew is a stand up dude!

  • @JamesDThomas1981
    @JamesDThomas1981 4 года назад

    I am so glad you did this interview. I first saw an interview with Gary V. I love me some Gary V. But he did not let Matthew speak a full thought. Tom, you are one of the best interviewers because you let the guest speak but also guide the conversation through their lives. I can tell, you must do a ton of research into the guest and you must have a fantastic memory. This interview brought so much value to my life as I make a big career transition. The part about wanting something but not need something is so true. Keep up the good work.

  • @immortalized_onion
    @immortalized_onion 4 года назад +3

    I love what he talks about uncovering or creation. I think Tom spoke about this once as well, finding what interests you/what you're good at naturally and do you want to be that or not, is there a need for it?then working towards it.

  • @bahramk11270
    @bahramk11270 3 года назад

    Thank you 4 z interview, Tom and Matthew! Tom is on of the best interviewers on the net. Matthew McConaughey is a great actor. Great to see that he is an honest, opened and thoughtful person, as well as a writer. Would be great to see the book made into script, directed or acted future film by the author. Could be very timely and timelessly valuable, at the same time. Stay well and good luck to both of you!

  • @Aapijustice
    @Aapijustice 4 года назад +3

    From Seoul, South Korea, and the UT Alum of Korea, this was a great interview 👍

  • @danielraj3315
    @danielraj3315 4 года назад +1

    Ethernally grateful for this interview with one of my favourite people on planet Earth. Immense value in this 1 hour. Laughed my ass off at times, there are some hilarious stories he has. And the way he says and relives it, oh my... So good!
    Thanks Tom!

  • @AaroHuttunen
    @AaroHuttunen 4 года назад +17

    Have been waiting for this one! Seems like Matthew is into podcasts - Joe Rogan, Tim Ferriss, just awesome. 👌🏽 Good one Tom!

    • @RyanFila
      @RyanFila 4 года назад

      His thought process is great insight!

    • @YvetteVB
      @YvetteVB 4 года назад

      He's been on more podcasts too lately. I guess it's for his book

  • @harryabsy1694
    @harryabsy1694 3 года назад

    I stopped watching tom interviews since it went home and not in person, but this one was way too good to miss. Oscar winner and Tom.

  • @drelenashirleydvmcvama8517
    @drelenashirleydvmcvama8517 4 года назад +22

    I absolutely love the concept I’m not asking permission. That doesn’t mean rolling over everybody without a care for the carnage that may be in your week as you go forward and more women need to learn not to ask permission to be who they are thank you Matthew

    • @7Earthsky
      @7Earthsky 4 года назад

      Martin Scorsese said something similar about breaking into ''the industry''....His advice was pretty much the same in saying '''Create your own industry''.

  • @KirkYardley
    @KirkYardley 4 года назад +2

    Mathew had done like 20 podcasts in the last month and I never get tired of him.

  • @anujmayapuri2036
    @anujmayapuri2036 4 года назад +7

    This is exactly what I needed right now thank you Tom thank you Matthew

  • @paulaa.6833
    @paulaa.6833 3 года назад +1

    Am I the only one making the correlation between Mathew's year in Australia in solitude and now facing the pandemic? Great lesson on tuning in with oneself and becoming self reliant, creating a controllable routine with measured daily outcome.

  • @juliadisciullo7511
    @juliadisciullo7511 4 года назад +5

    I am incredibly appreciative for Impact Theory and the high caliber, high frequency content made accessible to me. I’ve read so many books that have been suggested here. Mindset by Carol Dweck and others have lit me up. This interview and wisdom shared is timely. Getting Green Light ASAP! Thank you for sharing.

  • @belroyale
    @belroyale 4 года назад +1

    Major truth bombs Matthew, Inspirational and authentic. A breath of fresh air. Thank you both!

  • @garethyoung24
    @garethyoung24 4 года назад +11

    The interview I've been waiting for has finally arrived

  • @itamaravraham4068
    @itamaravraham4068 2 года назад +2

    Great interview. Loved how down to earth Mathew is. Great lessons to learn of embracing challenges and uncertainties in order to grow and expand our capabilities and confidence. Also to take responsibility and plan for tomorrow and for a better future for ourselves and our families

  • @quinnvitums5184
    @quinnvitums5184 4 года назад +53

    One thing I would’ve liked to see talked about is how he doesn’t have a victim mentality and how he came about having a creator mentality, like he said he was molested as a teen and never felt like a victim.

    • @chironOwlglass
      @chironOwlglass 4 года назад +2

      Well, I guess that explains why he has absolutely no fucking understanding of the concept of consent!

    • @christopherharrisintexas
      @christopherharrisintexas 4 года назад +2

      I was molested multiple times from various people, never felt like a victim.

    • @rayj.9568
      @rayj.9568 4 года назад +1

      @@chironOwlglass , Why do you say that? Has Matthew been accused of sexual assault?

  • @maaikeswellness
    @maaikeswellness 4 года назад +2

    This book is going on my list to read this year. I love the adventure and the self learning and awareness

  • @lilamnbdh967
    @lilamnbdh967 4 года назад +6

    Tom thank you so much for this interview , you’re the best🙏.

  • @edhiett
    @edhiett 4 года назад +2

    From a stringent year in Australia practicing self discipline, onto a walkabout in Africa, conceived from the inspiration of a dream. What a way to live your life! So many lessons, such an entertaining storyteller. McConaughey is one of the best actors of all time imho, because of the depth of his character. This was captivating, thank you both! 🤘

  • @RyanFila
    @RyanFila 4 года назад +65

    Who ever reads this please know:
    You have so much potential inside you.
    You are beautiful and strong.
    Have a wonderful day ❤️.
    Much love!🙏🏽

    • @RyanFila
      @RyanFila 4 года назад

      @new light That’s awesome! I’m glad you enjoyed it! I try to keep my focus right, and not annoy people to make them watch the channel. Plus if they’re already annoyed they probably won’t like your video anyways.
      I’ll keep keepin it real! And bringing the best content I have 🤓 Thanks for checking out my channel!

    • @Donna-im1rl
      @Donna-im1rl 3 года назад

      May the same be returned to you 🙏🏻♥️🌻🌻
      This is just flow what we put out we get back
      Loved your video thank you maybe we should all try this more especially in relation to stuff we hold back from doing due to fear

  • @Stego86
    @Stego86 4 года назад +1

    I'd listen to these two great men talk for days!

  • @That_Bender
    @That_Bender 4 года назад +5

    This is awesome. An incredible insight into personal development. Hell, I might just have to buy his book now.

  • @BZSchnoodle
    @BZSchnoodle Год назад

    WOW! WOW! JUST WOW! I have read the book out of the library like I always read from, bought and sent the book to my son, and still learned so much more from this interview. I am going to buy me my own copy of the book to highlight and reread. He is setting out to make a difference is each of our own lives by sharing with us what he has learned. I just rewatched him in the movie, A Time to Kill, and even his character in the movie is about doing the hard work and commitment through it. Greenlights!!!

  • @ChillTheWorkOut
    @ChillTheWorkOut 4 года назад +4

    I love how Matthew appears as a such a normal guy just on a normal phone call. That's priceless 😊

  • @kwanelechilixo
    @kwanelechilixo 4 года назад +2

    I've watched if not ten of the same interviews of him and his book, and this one right here, love love questions posed.

  • @7lesley9
    @7lesley9 4 года назад +3

    I REALLY enjoyed this talk. Thank you Tom and greetings from the UK.

  • @lancemiller3217
    @lancemiller3217 4 года назад +1

    “Less impressed more involved” the gotta gave it number 1 thing...1st aha I heard, grabbing the audio book now! Thanks for a great interview gentleman!

  • @Novacynthia
    @Novacynthia 3 года назад +6

    Wow That’s the first thing I’ve heard in a while that I completely resonate with; Inspiring and encouraging! It’s lit 🔥 can’t wait to hear and read the Book Green Lights On!!

  • @n.elliott9122
    @n.elliott9122 4 года назад +1

    To understand his message and the interview,you must do more than hear, do more than listen. You have to be in a place in your own life to where you can feel and connect with his "ENERGY" . Do not confuse his energy with his mood. Energy in Hertz,in frequency. Thank you both for a deeply spiritual and illuminating interview. Peace and love.

    • @indiracamotim2858
      @indiracamotim2858 4 года назад

      And if we can’t ????

    • @rickyalan1227
      @rickyalan1227 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@indiracamotim2858there's a great quote that says: "Whether you think you can or think you can't, you're always right". To change a belief (or set of beliefs) we must make it a life purpose to become more aware of our thoughts and emotions. When we are aware of what we don't want we can start to move towards what we want. One step at a time, even if you decide to sprint. :)

  • @JennyG2805
    @JennyG2805 4 года назад +44

    Sometimes I forget what an icon Tom is. Still feels like he's my bff only. 😂

  • @suzannecrookshanks8257
    @suzannecrookshanks8257 3 года назад

    Outstanding hour of conversation with a gazillion golden nuggets of serious, yet entertaining, life wisdom and lol moments. Plan to purchase book for my son. Tom's is masterful interviewer. Thank you!

  • @cristybello
    @cristybello 4 года назад +19

    I hope that one day when my work is so relevant, Im a Bossa Nova/Jazz singer, that I get to the top you will interview me too :) I love the I dont give a damn mentality really

    • @liandyogi
      @liandyogi 4 года назад

      Go girl!

    • @burcucengel8391
      @burcucengel8391 4 года назад +1

      I am in love with Bossa Nova covers :) believe you can :)

  • @taiwong1186
    @taiwong1186 3 года назад +2

    Tom your podcast is life changing

  • @mayka90
    @mayka90 4 года назад +3

    i love his phylosophy of life. i started pursuing similar behaviours as him in the past. i didnt know that they have 'name'

  • @landonwright8804
    @landonwright8804 3 года назад

    Matthew. I ain't seen most of your work but your mind and personality shine through.
    I'm a fan.

  • @KingKull1971
    @KingKull1971 4 года назад +28

    Who would have thought that Matthew McConaughey is really a philosopher impersonating an actor 🤣HAHAHA
    That's a compliment 👍🏾

    • @OrganicallyLuxeLife
      @OrganicallyLuxeLife 3 года назад +1

      Best comment ever lol

    • @krismijares9782
      @krismijares9782 3 года назад

      Yeah? Go roll around in a Lincoln eating Doritos with him. That's wisdom for the ages.

    • @KingKull1971
      @KingKull1971 3 года назад

      @@krismijares9782 as long as it's Cool Ranch 🤣

    • @krismijares9782
      @krismijares9782 3 года назад

      @@KingKull1971 -- LOL! ruclips.net/video/jLz8Qmj01og/видео.html

    • @krismijares9782
      @krismijares9782 3 года назад

      Thank you for writing this!!!

  • @HEOEvgeny
    @HEOEvgeny 3 года назад

    Matthew is the man with wisdom that I lean. Knowledge is about the past though..
    Thank you for such great interview and your time

  • @marouanebaid5944
    @marouanebaid5944 4 года назад +161

    Alright, alright, alright!
    Rule 1: Never ask for permission

    • @rawguitarplayer
      @rawguitarplayer 4 года назад +3

      You’re the only one that needs to give yourself the permission!

    • @someonesomeone25
      @someonesomeone25 4 года назад

      Hmmmm ... doesnt seem to work. I mean I gave myself to take that guys money, wife and life then fly away but ... I ended up in gaol. So 1/10 wouldnt recommend.

    • @Sammyli99
      @Sammyli99 4 года назад +1

      @@imsaltylit3101 Just Salty. However, mask and Oxygen deprivation, maybe the reason to weaken those who are already weak.

    • @HK-iz7vg
      @HK-iz7vg 3 года назад

      @@imsaltylit3101 You Americans are soooo funnny!

  • @VladProkhorovDrums
    @VladProkhorovDrums 3 года назад +1

    Wow man, Matthew is dropping some serious secrets here, maybe not secrets but things people just don't think about. The thing about him needing an agent subconsciously moving to number 2 on his list after the Germany trip blew my mind, I'm going to use that technique starting tomorrow, Thank you Tom!!!

  • @AlwaysManifesting
    @AlwaysManifesting 4 года назад +8

    2 of my favourite people!! Really enjoying watching this. Thanks.

    • @RyanFila
      @RyanFila 4 года назад +1

      They’re great to watch!

    • @ivanavasiljevic2848
      @ivanavasiljevic2848 4 года назад +1

      Mine too ❤️❤️ Amazing!

    • @NGUJZ
      @NGUJZ 4 года назад

      I've literally watched every interview that he's done about this book. Very impressive!!

  • @pamcolding5925
    @pamcolding5925 4 года назад +1

    Well well he's not just a pretty face, there is actual substance there! I cannot WAIT to listen to this book. Tom this was another GREAT interview. You are truly a master of interviewing. Good stuff.

  • @SUABANANAshorts
    @SUABANANAshorts 4 года назад +3

    Wow Tom!! You are interviewing the Matthew Mcconaughey!! He is a freaking movie star man!

  • @TheAustinJapan
    @TheAustinJapan 4 года назад +1

    Matthew's life experiences with past, present and future advice is extremely insightful..Thank you!