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I was wondering if I could use your video concept for a class project I’m doing for students in school out task is to make a video and I like this idea but I’d like permission first before going about making it
"Because my mom stopped paying him to babysit us" Their mom wanted them to have a complete family and never feel like they needed anything.... That's so sad....
RayRay Galeva oh then I read in too deeply because I thought it implied no biological relationships. I thought the mother was hiring a male babysitter.
you know.. I recently told my boyfriend that all thought his parents would hit him when he was younger just like mine did at least his still wanted him. I personally get kicked out by my mom twice an year.. I'm used to it but sometimes it hurts when I hear her say "I don't want you anymore". I wish she'd love me as much as I love her.
Can’t wait till I have a child so I can tell them I love them everyday, tell them their beautiful, worthy of life and can talk to me about everything because my mum never told me or offered me any of those things
💖 you're important. You're amazing. In every sense of the word. No matter what someone will miss you somewhere. My dad never told me he loved me when I would tell him and my mom only started saying it about 3 years ago. I'm 25 now.
I hate when people defend these kind of situations by saying “it’s still your family”. Yeah, it is, but my family is slowly killing me mentally and emotionally
the expression blood is thicker than water is actually supposed to be 'the blood of the is thicker than the water of the womb meaning the ones we choose arent stronger than ones we dont
The secret that struck me the most was the one about the sisters finding out they are not related but keeping it a secret to keep the peace. What a heavy burden to carry; but at least you have a sister to carry it with you.
Finding out they were half siblings (different dads) would make more sense. If they're really unrelated, parents have to know, and are probably also keeping the secret to keep the peace (one of them would have to be adopted).
@@huongle-bi5vp tbh I don't care anymore. I used to really feel worthless but I'm just over it now. I know who I am better than anyone else, even my mother
le anon yes, I totally get it. My mom is a kindergarten teacher and everybody thinks she’s so nice. So I’m the sick individual who has mental problems in their eyes. You know what FUCK THEM. YOU KNOW YOU WHERE ABUSED. You know the true story and you know it would happen again if you let them in your life again. People who went through the same thing will understand you. You made the right choice and I did so too.
My dad sexually,physically, and emotionally abuse me for years because I didn’t want him to hurt my little sisters and now they hate me for saying anything and getting him put in prison
@random name You would be surprised at what some parents can do. Sometimes people forget that parents are human beings before being parents. And there are some vile parents out there.
@@bootyeater damn that is the worst advice you could possibly give to someone... in any circumstance Cuz what u doin is that you dont solve the problem U just run from them And thats not how you deal life cuz the problems will haunt you making your life more miserable every second for the rest of your life
My parents too have done this. When I was away working on a cruise, my mom had a serious fall and had to undergo immediate surgery. They masterfully hid this from me because my mom feared I would leave my contract half way and come to her. It was my first contract and I needed the money to get out of debt. In hindsight, I'm not sure what I would have done if I had known about her.
He's one for you. My Great Grand father sexually abused his kids and grand kids. Over 3 and 4 generations later and most of us are still suffering from this either physically or emotionally. I will be better. I am better
Oh god I can never imagine what all of u went thru! I'm sorry it happened to u!!! But u made it thru! Ur an inspiration to so many, and ur so strong! U deserve every bit of love!!!
My secret: My family hates me because whenever my mother gets drunk she talks about me to anyone that will listen. She twists everything because she likes everyone to feel sorry for her and loves to be a victim for attention. Every night she is on the phone texting everyone about how horrible I am and all the bad things I have done that day. My uncle just got cancer and has said that he doesn't want to hide it anymore, he doesn't like me or my fiance and doesn't want to speak to us anymore. It hurts that my mother has done this to me and that I will never get to say goodbye to him. I have no family left because of what she has done and everytime I ask her why she has done this she laughs in my face. I believe that deep down my mother hates me and wants to ruin my life and when she is drunk she shows it. When I was younger I used to try to be perfect in hopes that my mother would stop talking about me and that my family would accept me but now I realise that only damaged my mental health and that i will never get my family back and it's time to move on. Thanks to anyone who reads this, sorry it's long.
Your mom shows signs of being a narcissist. Research more into that . And I am so sorry for how your feeling and what you went through. May God heal you
I hope you know that you always deserved better. Also, realize that she knows she never deserved you. Only very broken and damaged narcissists scapegoat their children. I really hope you protect yourself and find a way to keep her out of your life.
@@fortunatephasoana2408 thank you, she is and she blames me for all her problems because she cant cope. I think she has a lot of mental health problems but she refuses to get help so until she gets help I'm distancing myself from her as much as possible
@@kgrimes4934 thank you, she has brought me down a lot over the years and I never got a proper childhood I had to grow up quickly to sort out her problems. I wrote that paragraph when I was very down, I had a baby a month after and he has given me a new purpose in life. I cant let her drag me down because I have to support him and I finally know what love is. I'm saving up to go back to college next year and I have started focusing on my own future instead of getting caught up in her problems. I have my own life and I'm going to live it.
XaddyP it sucks that this is the only platform I can admit that. No one believes me, especially about my social anxiety. It’s been diagnosed and yet I have never told anyone in my life because I’m sorta the class clown I guess.. lucky I graduated literally last week so I don’t have to deal with that crap any more. So sick of this
Eithen Mkosana Ur not worthless ur special! Always remember that Jesus loves u and I love u too. Even though I don’t know u but there is someone that loves u.
I cried my eyes out in front of my sister recently. She was scared because she can't remember the last time she saw me cry. I can't express myself without being treated like a criminal.😢
The secret I hid from my parents and my Brother: My Brother used to come home in dirt and a sad look on his face. I instantly knew he was getting bullied. I confronted him with my brother twice yet it still continued happening, and my Brother told me that the bully even punched his stomach multiple times more fiercely. So one day, I cornered that kid, and I knew I cannot hurt him, so I verbally insulted him with every hatred I had from a secondary school student. My brother told me that he cried the whole day on the second day, and that he moved school in the next. I really don’t know if that is my proudest doing to protect my Brother, or my worse regret for insulting a kid so badly he moved schools.
I'm depressed, suicidal, and I suffer form anxiety. No one know this apart from you people reading this. And I want it to stay that way. This was, no one will worry about me (Update: it's been 2 years and I am doing much better. Please read my replied comment. I'm sorry to anyone that i made worry)
someone is worrying about you..... whether you believe this or not, I can promise you that there is at least one being who cares and worries about you and as a fellow human being i am also going to worry about you now....
I hope you're okay I suffer the same things & I try to hide my emotions from my parents so they won't worry. I know things will get better for both of us 🤗
If you think no one is worrying about you then, do it for yourself dont wait for someone to worry about you save yourself dear, think of the possiblities in the future everything will change
My Patents think I‘m always sad and Very insecure. The truth is that I‘m always happy and Laugh a lot. At least when i‘m Not with Family. They Will Never know who i really am.
same tho like when i was with my family i was really cold like i hardly smile (they even think that i was heartless person lol) but when i was actually alone and with my friends i was brighter than that, idk whats wrong with me for doing that but i feel so bad to them and feel like i am a bad family member
My uncle is cheating on my aunt with a 25 year old...they have a 6 year old innocent girl and a newborn son. I feel really bad and want to tell my aunt but I am too scared Update: I told her... Update: so its been a whole ass year basically and after I told her she left him. He's still with the 25 year old girl and he doesn't even talk to his kids that much anymore other than one phone call a week.. But my aunt is living her best life and has found someone that makes her really happy so :))
I recently broke out crying hysterically because for days I didn't know how to tell that to my mom..it took me like 20 minutes to calm down and I haven't spoken to my father since and I really don't want to be near him or in the flat when it's just the two of us home
My dad tried to throw a chair at me when I was a kid & I had a fight with my little sister one time & tried to throw a chair at her like he did & he raged.
@@anotheryale28 oh that's so sad, u know a lot of people who get raised in violence they mostly do the same unconsciously to others, i don't blame you for anything
It was the background music along with the lighting. Almost like subliminal messaging - it's meant to set the mood, the stories by themselves were sad but the other things brought out stronger feelings.
I walked in on my mother getting raped, know that my dad has cheated before, and have been molested by my brother. I can't wait to be 18, as I will finally be able to get away and not have to worry about this pain anymore.
I want to hug and care and love all the kids who have abusive/unhealthy parent relationships. I can't even imagine what it feels like. Be safe and stay strong everyone. You are sooo loved.
@@randomthings6977 I'm sorry, but I can't take you seriously because you're saying "our faces don't say it", but then I look at your profile pic, and just can't keep a straight face 😂
Family can hurt the most. They are family. And family supose to be the most suporting and beautiful thing in life. I understand the people who wrote those secrets. Be strong ✊🌹
i can relate to alot of those secrets, my dad left us a week before christmas. at first he wanted a break for a week so he stayed at his mom’s. it’s been almost a year now. when he left through that door, he didnt say a thing, not even goodbye to me. after a time we found out his mom forced him to leave mom and supported.. him cheating on my mom. it’s not a secret that his mom hated my mom but to go as far as this, even i was surprised. how can someone be this manipulative is what i asked myself. well my dad always had a rough childhood, growing up without a father himself and his mom not supporting him at all affected him alot. i had a hard time accepting the fact the he really left also because i’m not the type of person that shows feelings. this plays a big role in my depression and anxiety but i guess it gets better..
Issues with parents are the hardest to heal, they cut so deep. So much pain anger powerlessness etc. It might take years to heal or never at all. But in the end the only way to go forward is to realize that parents, people, only give you what they can. Your father couldn’t give you more than he had. He had very little even for himself to survive. That is when people go on selfish mode. But I guess that’s normal if you don’t have enough. It clearly wasn’t enough for the children, like at all! In so many ways! But bottom line they didn’t give because they didn’t have anything to give
Just to add to this depressing stuff I am an adopted Asian person in a white family, Every time that I saw my family together having fun and making memories. I'm constantly reminded that my family...didn't want those memories. I was their burden. I was their mistake. Off they were high school though. They didn't want me, nor did the parents I'm assuming. My birthday (which is suppose to be a celebration) is more like a funeral for a piece of my life that I will never ever getting to spend with them.
My older sister mentally, verbally and physically abused me for around 7 years. We grew up with a single mother who worked all the time. Although my sister has apologized and I've told her I forgive her...it's affected my life in so many negative ways. While she went on and married a great guy and travels, my life has been a hellish war...what a person does to another affects them, whether good or bad. Be kind to each other.
“I was Verbally, Emotionally And physically abused by my older sister.” I bully my little brother who is 8 sometimes..and now I feel like crap. I’ve been like this since I was 8 , sad, and angry a,most all the time. And when my little brother was born m I took care of him. But when my parents started to make me feel like I’m just a horrible mess, and so now, I suffer from depression.
Sometimes is okay, but be careful. He may start to resent women for the rest of his life and then become depressed because he's alone.. It wasn't my sister in my case but almost every girl from kindergarten till highschool seemed to do their best to male me feel worthless, and honestly (admittedly I dislike this about myself 😔) I don't trust women anymore, there's always this voice inside my head that "they" all will hurt you and don't care about you. I'm affraid I've missed opportunities of love because of this. But I can't fight it :(
@@Stormcloakvictory siblings are to give the support that the older generation cannot, u will never figure it out by yourself. Talk to someone, even a apprentice. Once u open up of what's going on, half of the frustration is released. Others may not help u but their understanding can heal u from a horrible mess atleast.
The worst is when others say "They're still your family". Being family literally got nothing to do with it.U cant luv someone cuz u have their blood in ur body. U can luv someone who took care of u and listened to u
Abuse is prevalent in all cultures. In my culture however, there is no concept of 'parental abuse' physical or emotional. People will tell you, you're abused for your own well being. Emotional abuse is just as horrible as physical abuse. It strips you of your self worth, damages you in ways that you're unable to completely fix, gives you trust issues, makes you more sensitive and introverted and feel you're not wanted. It's also interesting how other people criticize you for being too sensitive from a safe distance. If you see people who are sensitive or do not easily trust people but have trusted you, don't sit in judgement of their personality. I always fear conflicts and fights because I feel at a disadvantage as soon as someone raises his or her voice at me. It's because I was yelled at for decades. Either support people who have been physically or emotionally abused or if you can't, simply keep your judgements to yourself. We don't need to toughen up, you need to listen up and empathize.
Tears filled my eyes and it started to stream down my face without realizing when he read the note about how their mother made them feel worthless and how it makes them have suicidal thoughts, I can relate. I feel lonely, the only person I call my family is my mother because I'm the only child and my dad left us before I was even born, I really want to feel loved desperately it's something I never had when I was a child, I grew up feeling empty and broken inside, I made lots of (Ex) friends to fill the void of loneliness I realized no one can replace parents love. I can't talk open about my mental illness because I'm afraid of being told "it's human thing to feel that way so get over it" I have so many things I want to talk about but I don't see the point because letting things off my chest won't make me feel better anymore like it used to back then. If you're reading this thank you for listening to me ☺️❤️
Being the youngest and being raised in a culture where the oldest is the most respected,my siblings always made me feel worthless,they NEVER notice me no matter how hard I try and please them or reach out to them,and my parents always support them over me My sisters get to scream at me all they want but if I were to shout in desperation,my parents would always scold me I tried confiding in them sometimes but they always turned it into a joke I get that the age gape between my 2 sisters and I are quite huge and the age gape between themselves is just 1 year,but I want to be close to someone in my family It feels painful whenever my family breaks into individual conversations,my parents talking to each other,my 2 sisters and I pretty much lag behind helplessly staring at the floor,if it weren't for my phone,I would be in isolation most times so childhood was painful.I guess that was the reason for my habit of always being behind everyone during outings,and my family always scold and berate at me for always being behind them Whew,a bit of my chest lol
Im the oldest out of my siblings... and i honestly cant say that i feel respected at all if anything i feel hated since my family always call me retarded (im not) and always that i should be a better child 😢. As soon as im 18 im going to get my tubes tied because my siblings have given me a reason never to have kids 😂 life sucks.
Heilon Iris being the youngest can be tough because of all the social assumptions/“rules” that are thrown onto us. Im the youngest girl of four (3 older brothers) and growing up wasn’t easy. I acted like I was the oldest (taking care of things, working hard, getting good grades) but was never appreciated or heard when I spoke. Was constantly having to do what my older brothers told me to even if I knew it wasn’t right or when I questioned their orders I got in trouble. When 2 of my 3 older brothers started sexually assaulting me, and my mother decided I was lying, it hurt me a lot. Nobody would believe me because I was the youngest and just “seeking attention”. Even now, almost four years after all that ended, and I’m an adult now, the rare times I do talk to my family I’m still seen as a child or as immature and like I don’t know what’s best for me. It can hurt a lot. I’m sorry you’re going through similar situations with your family and aren’t being heard or appreciated
I'm so sorry you gotta get through this and idk why some cultures think someone is gotta be more repectfull then the other one, I hope you're okay now💔
@@katarinatillinghast153 That's really bad,I don't understand why we are always being ignored and I thought my experience was bad I hope it gets better with you and your family,but it's pretty hard to change their views to be honest
As I got older I realized everyone has something terrible happen to them. Mentally, physically, verbally... kinda changed the meaning behind “you’re not alone” forever for me
"You act strong (infront of your parents) even when things aren't fine" that hit 😭😭😭. I always do this, because i dont want them to worry about me, because they have worries of their own.
Here’s my secret since I’m also a stranger- It’s really hard for me to say this but my parents are divorced and my father has started his life with his other wife he never asked about me since I was 2 and I’ve always been with my mother and older sister my mom usually smacked us as kids which I guess was okay cause all Arab parents do it then she married my step-father and he’s a good person but she changed a lot she’s always angry at me she physically abuses me which again something totally normal for people in my family and I don’t see what part of it is okay but things are just what they are and she also mentally abuses me she makes me feel so worthless like whenever I come from school she stares at me in a bad way and she always says bad things about me like she calls me an animal she usually threatens me and his has been going on for a long time now and I once stood up to her and it ended up with me getting the shit beat out of me and I was sick of all of this but I never had the guts to stand up to her or do something about it but my sister did she went to my fathers house but she came back I still don’t know why but she says he’s nice and he changed and he’s not the same alcoholic person that never asked about us and don’t get me wrong I wanna go there and I wanna leave my moms house I just need to be happy for a day without thinking about killing myself or running away but I just think about my mom and how she would feel because at my point of view my mom didn’t leave me but my father did and she may be a psychopath that I hate I don’t know what’s holding me back maybe it’s the fear inside of me or maybe just deep down I love her..... and I forgive my father for leaving me but I can’t forget so right now I’m just thinking about the day I leave a day where I won’t have to see my mom nor my dad a day where I can be happy but right now all I’m thinking about is keeping my grades up so I can get a scholarship abroad and leave this damm house. - 💜
Listen Ally, at some point you need to think about YOU. If your father's place is an option - go there! Go before your love for your mother develops into hatred. As someone who hates their mother, I totally understand you. Escape the hell hole and get to some place a bit better. Talk to your dad, try to gauge him before you make any decisions...that can make it easier than just running to him. Probably try to spend a weekend at his house...try to see if you can bond. You don't have to rush if you don't want to but I think we both know that your father's place is safer than your current home...
Please get to see a psycologist, he or she will support and help you to choose what to do and feel much better. Maybe you can contact one with your school's help. I really wish you to be happy, Im having a hard time as well but everything will be fine okay? Please stay safe, you are super strong and you deserve to be happy. I send you a big virtual hug 💗
Hi Love. This was written a year ago. You may not see this. However, I just want to say thank you for sharing. YOU ARE STRONG. YOU ARE SMART. KEEP UP WITH YOUR STUDIES. MOST OF ALL YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND BRAVE. I have dealt with both. Abuse from one parent and being left from the other. However, all I want to say is forgive your parents but most of all forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for believing you deserved this treatment. Forgive yourself for thinking you were worthless. Love yourself. As you are. YOU ARE NOT AN ANIMAL. There will be a day... when you're free. Fix your wings now. So when you break out, you will fly...not crawl. Heal yourself. Train your mind to be stronger than their abuse and their demons. I believe in you.
I feel so lucky my family is united. My parents love each other, and my siblings and I are close. I cry just thinking if what others have to go through. No one might ever read this, but I hope you’re okay. I hope you found your paradise, and you’re not alone. Who knows, I could just next door. If you need anything. I’m here
I guess the family secret I wanna get out the most is when my sister used to struggle with ocd my dad took it really badlu and would harshly beat her up it made me feel so scared and guilty at the same time for not trying to protect her ...I would hate myself for not standing for her when I knew she couldn't help her mental illness. And after seeing the same beating every night I started going to bed early just so I wouldn't have to watch it and if I stayed up because of homework I'd get very anxious at the idea of me watching it all like every night . When my own mental health got bad with anxiety depression and an eating disorder and self harm and suicidal tendencies and my parents didn't take it the right way either ...I love my parentd and get that they didn't understand what was going on with both me and my sister but I really wish there would be more awareness about mental issues if they understood perhaps they would have been more gentle ....
WOW. That is so sad...why would he beat her for having OCD? I respect you and your sister a lot for bearing through all of this. I can't imagine how hard that feels. Keep holding on and ask other adults for help. Bless you for saying you still love them.
:We always wanna show our parents that we are strong and everything is fine" I can relate totally but late at night i just cry so hard in silence and wake up the next morning with a poppin smile
I’ve had to pay my sons father to babysit him. He’s autistic and it’s difficult finding childcare for him. He moved to another state when I found someone to help. I got pregnant at 18, and he was 30. There are no regrets in my heart though, my son is my best friend and this journey has made me who I am.
Relatives are the people you're related to, family is the people who love you and you love ,alot of the time not the same people . I hope you all find your family ❤️❤️❤️
I have 2 family secrets 1. My half sister found out that she has another half sister some where and she keeps talking about what her other sister is like and I want to tell her that at least I’m here. 2. My dad says that I’m half of him and half of my mum but it makes me feel like I’m meant to me just like them and that’s my nightmare
I am the reason my parents got a divorce. People always try to convince me that its not, but it really is. We used to be a happy family, my parents were so inlove and moved in together at 18. They’re now 43 and 46 and are getting a divorce. If I hadn’t gotten the mental illness I have, they would still be together. I ruined my family. My sister is lonely, my dad is out partying every week in another country and my mom is heartbroken. And its all my fault.
BookMilla hello! I know you don’t know me but trust me when I say that it isn’t your fault. Your parents are adults and they made their decisions by themselves. I know it’s easy to blame yourself when things go rough because you want to understand why they decided to separate. But you shouldn’t be because you’re being unfair to yourself. I’m sure they had marital problems way before your issue surfaced. Moving in at the age of 18 is pretty early too so there might be some issues that were buried that resurfaced causing them to reach their breaking point. My parents have been married for 35 years and I say this as I saw it through my own eyes that they weren’t happy all the time. My dad is now 62 and my mom is 55. They had so many rough times especially when they have 4 daughters they needed to feed in a low income household. Me and my siblings weren’t the best daughters too. We made a lot of mistakes but at the end of the day, down the road my parents decided for themselves that they will stay together. They could’ve left each other and found a better life with someone else but they didn’t. That was their decision. Your parents getting a divorce is not your fault. IT WAS THEIR DECISION. Take care of yourself okay? I hope you feel better. Bad days don’t last 💖 Sending you love 💖💖💖
I was going to say the same thing as sugar&spice but she summed it up perfectly. But i also wanted to say that you didn't ask for or seek out the mental illness did you so how on earth could you be to blame for it? Don't ever let anyone try to convince you that it's you're fault.
That is NOT your fault. Why..?? Because you have no control over a mental illness you have.. It's that simple. It's up to your parents to work through the problems and if they love each other, then they should be able to get past whatever problems that arise, learn from it and have a stronger relationship because of the experience. It's not up to you to do that. When people become parent, they should know there are numerous risks in doing so and if they don't, that isn't your fault. The fact that they moved in together at 18 years old tells us that they don't make the best choices.
I know you’re all trying to help but it IS my fault. My parents do everything for me. My mom even gave up her fulltime job just so that I wouldn’t be home alone all of the time. It’s not even my parents fault that I have this mental disorder, cause I got it from trauma. I wasn’t born with it. I haven’t been to school for 2,5 years, and we can’t do any family activities together. My sister begs my parents to go on a holiday, but because of me we have to stay at home. Everything is evolved around me, because I am the reason my family has a horrible life, all of us. I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again, I am the reason why they got divorced. My parents fell out of love because of how much they struggle. They were always sad when they lived together, because of me. My dad had breakouts where he’d yell at me, my mom would then get mad at him and when my mom got mad at me my dad would get mad at my mom. It was an evil circle, and I was the cause of that circle. My mom literally had to move out so that everyother week she’d get a week of peace from me. So please stop telling me otherwise, cause it is my fault completely.
One day I got home from work early and over heard my mom talking on the phone, she said I don’t have the same father as my siblings, I never told her I heard what she said, I still don’t know who my biological father is
We need to start embracing our children. When parents ask about school at the dinner table ( if we have parents or a table at all) open up to your parents. And we need to open up and tell them exactly what is going on with us in all aspects of our life. We need them and they need us!!
The one about the mom, room, suicidal thoughts; that hit me as it's exactly what happens to me :(( You really feel so scared and hopeless in situations like that, and you have no control over it
My deepest family secret is that even though my Dad still has rampages of abuse against different family members, I'm just glad it's not me getting hit anymore. I'm ashamed for not standing up against it, because I don't want to be hurt. I hate myself everytime I see it and don't call the cops.
One of my Deepest Family Secrets that I have never admitted, and feel ashamed doing so because my mom is a wonderful mother: I come from a family of cheaters. My mom has been involved. My mom's mom has been involved. Their daughters have been involved and everyone else around. Deep inside my heart, sometimes I'm scared to think about the fact that I might grow up to be just like them too. I know cheating isn't right, and there are of course multiple reasons for it. But the thought of me putting someone through that kind of pain is such a horrible thought that it makes me disgusted with myself and my lineage, and for that I feel guilty.
When i was at school i was bullied by people because of the way i look and for my slight leg deformities, i started feeling sick then got better, the thing is I didn’t tell my mum i got better so that i could stay away from school, the Doctors did not understand what was wrong with me, they took for x-rays and put me on medication, i then moved on to secondary school where i met a friend who’s digestive system was recked by the medicine i took, i never felt so guilty and sorry for my mum, it was only recently i told her the whole truth, she was not angry but she did cry and hug me, those who reading these comments, please do not make the same mistake, talk to your loved ones, they might surprise you.👍
@1:17 hearing that i wasn't alone in experiencing these things growing up in a Hispanic family means so much to me. It really helps me not feel so alone in the struggle with it.
Literally 10 seconds into the video and I'm already sad. Why do I watch these videos when I know it's going to be very depressing?The bullying one is so true. The reason why kids don't tell their parents that they are having a hard time at school is because they don't want them to be upset or cause them to worry/fear for their child. It's heartbreaking. I got bullied before (it wasn't as bad as what other people have to go through) and I avoided school as much as possible because the teachers were bad at handling these kind of situations. I learnt from my mistake. Avoiding it won't help. if anyone is getting bullied at school PLEASE PLEASE just tell someone. Tell someone who you trust. Bullying is unacceptable
I was 6 year old when my dad hit my mother it wasn't the first time he did it but I only remember this one. I felt so helpless I was scared I didn't know what to do I remember hugging my mom while my dad was beating her up. Most of the beating landed on my body, but I was glad that my mom didn't had to go through the pain alone... I was so scared I thought it was normal
to anyone that can relate to the secrets, i'm not really sure what to say since i'm lucky enough to have such an amazing family. i just hope that you'll stay strong, thay hopefully your family can work it out and understand each other better. avoid keeping your thoughts to yourself, share them with someone you trust. you are worth it, it isn't your fault, and you should not be battling anything alone. see a school counsellor/very trusted teacher, get a friend to talk with, find an outdoor activity/hobby/club that you can participate in if you'd rather not stay at home. if you're with a therapist or counsellor, please don't lie and just tell the truth on how you feel, or nothing will change. don't let too many negative thoughts consume you to the point you feel like hurting yourself, but it's okay to cry and let out your emotions. please stay safe, and thank you for staying strong. i believe in you, i know that you're worth so much.
One of my close friends parents died when he was 3-4 months old. He was adopted by a couple that look like they could be his parents. He told me, his girlfriend, his ex girlfriend (back when they where together), and the school counselor. His brother didn't know and I accidentally told him. I paid my friends brother to keep quite. When my friend found out his brother and I blamed it on his ex ( when they were still together). They broke up, and I blame myself that I ruined a happy relationship.
Since I’m sure no one will see this... my mom told me that when she was pregnant with me, he threatened her to get an abortion. And of course my “dad” isn’t a part of my life
here’s my story: I’ve never had a father in my life since my mom and my biological father broke up even before they got married and raised me. When I was 3 years old, I had a step father which was very supportive and very caring whom I later on lost because of a super typhoon that hit our city. Later on, my mom dated someone else and it was currently my boyfriend’s father since my ex’s father at that time was also single, they were also in a relationship while I was dating my ex boyfriend. I have been bullied about that since then. I’ve never ever felt more betrayed than I ever did in my entire life and it is coming from my own mother. Until this day, I am not okay with this situation as to I have to act normal and accept the fact that my ex lover is now my step brother since we now have a sister by blood. guess I should’ve sent my story..
I feel like if I were to start saying my family secrets everyone would look at me with pity because they’re never ending. I’ve found a way to move on and I pray that anyone who’s suffering finds a way too.
when I was 2 my mom left me with my dad and went around to clubs and different guys (they were together for quite some time now but my dad knew that she was cheating with multiple men) we stayed with my aunt since we had moved to Arkansas when I was 4 and everything was going well with my aunt and my dad as a single parent. My mom went to prison (doing something bad at the club) when I was 5 and my dad went to Texas to bail her out. when he did, my mom took me and left with her boyfriend at that time. My dad not wanting to let go of me followed her all the way to Carolina (we lived in Ohio) and tried to take me back because he loved me so much and didn’t want to leave me with her. My mom called the cops on him saying he “took me.” but my dad went back to her because me, not knowing anything and finally meeting my mom for the first time said, “daddy, where’s mommy? I want to go back.” So when he arrived the cops were there and he explained everything, nothing bad happened. My dad tells me that bailing my mom out from prison was the worst thing he did because she had ruined his life yet he still went back to her and chased after her. I am currently living with my mom, but I still see my dad. I remember crying when my dad explained this because I felt so bad and never knew he did all that just so I would be happy.
i just heard this song and i got really really emotional my dad died a month or 2 ago and my mom lied about it it was a Sunday morning i think my dad was going to work and the last thing i heard from him was i love you and i didn't say it back cause i was half asleep and i regret it and i will regret it for the rest of my life i have anxiety and depression because of that and because of my mom, my mom keeps saying she hates me and all i ever really want everyday is her attention her love and for her to realize how much im hurting every single day i came out a tomboy because i spent most of my time with my dad because my mom was always with my younger brother and sister my mo never really cared about me it was always just my dad i miss every moment of him that we had together i always told him before he wen t to work o bring his gun and that SAME morning is when he got kidnapped and i blame myself for it im having another anxiety attack again okay im back i should have responded to him when he said i love you and people say that he doesnt want me crying and being sad over him but i cant help it i mean if i ended my life i could just be with him the first time i had a dream about hi is when i didnt know that he got kidnapped (my mom and aunt said he went on a 6 month contract for a business trip) i had a dream that he came home safe with a big smile on his face and that he was excited to see us and i was the first one to run down the steps to say hi to him and hug him so in my dream i ran downstairs and hugged him and cried and i woke up crying i was crying really loud and my lil sister started crying cause i accidentally woke her up and my mom started taking care of her and she stoped crying but she let me cry fir an hour straight i have these times for when im alone i think of my dad and cry for an hour straight non -stop so i believed themi keep having mental breakdowns where i start screaming and crying and once i went to the kitchen to grab a knife and tried to commit suicide but my aunt caught me before i could cut myself i might ask my mom if i can go see a therapist because next time no one will be able to stop me i just want my dad back he was everything i had if i could grant one wish it would be to bring my dad back because without him im miserable my dad always told me not to trust people thats why i only have 1 friend and now i will never love anyone again because i already had enough heart breaks and i dont want to suffer over anythig else bu my dad and tbh if i ha to kill myself to bring someone back i would kill myself to bring my dad back T~T i cried alot writing this
And i am crying reading this. Its okay. Everyone have to go. Just turn to God you will dfntly feel peace there.. learn to live without him. I know its soo hard butyes time is the greatest healer.
I love my father and just the thought of losing hurts so much and my mother is not my favorite person. I can very much relate to this but There is a life outside where people will love you and care about you. Please don't take any decisions that your father would not be proud of. I hope you get a beautiful future with lot of happiness
The moment I started reading this, I already knew you were crying. I hope you are okay. You are loved. God loves you. Let the dead rest in peace. Daddy is watching you nd he can only rest well if he sees you moving on
I love my mother I really do, but she told me that I needed to lose a few more pounds and that I should exercise more. For first time when I was twelve. She still does it and recently she said that I should eat slower and tells me not to get up for a second plate. What she doesn't know is that I struggled with Anorexia for 5 months on my own. No one knows. I had to pull myself out of it and it is really hard to not relapse when I am being told that I need to lose the weight. I am 5'3.5 and weigh 120 pound
i love this series so much. it really shows the emotional struggle of secrets that we hold from people we trust. especially in this episode. i love how calming this is. they don't over do it. thank you so much.
I am being bullied in school, I kept it hidden from my parents, but when I couldn’t take in anymore and broke down to them... My mother scolded me and shamed me, and my father told me how much of a shameful child I was.
I have been through a lot and my family has been through more then all of those people combined the amount of stuff and pain that I hold in me is Insane I pray you will all be ok🙏🏽.
The one about the mom and suicidal thoughts! And feeling worthless! I immediately started crying because I’m not the only one! There is at least one other person out there! Thank you for that!
I failed life, my grades were verry low,my dad told me that i am a failure and when i asked him why he told me it's my fault and he fights with my mom every day but today he told me that he is proud of me😥
I told my dad I needed to visit a therapist because I was hurting so much. I don't like to speak much, I don't even have friends and it took so much courage to ask for help. He said that life was hard for everyone gave a lecture on how I'm not the only one suffering. After that he said he was late for office and left.
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Jubilee thank you (:
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Beautiful people being torn apart by miserable disgusting people who have no self worth so they destroy others.
I was wondering if I could use your video concept for a class project I’m doing for students in school out task is to make a video and I like this idea but I’d like permission first before going about making it
Unfortunatly a free Version isnt available within Europa??? Try to charge 7.92 € 🤔
"Because my mom stopped paying him to babysit us" Their mom wanted them to have a complete family and never feel like they needed anything.... That's so sad....
@NaAnna Thomas dad was only there becuase the mom gave him money to stay with the kids
@NaAnna Thomas deadbeat biological father who needed money as a reason to stay
Idk sounds like my family dynamic
:(
RayRay Galeva oh then I read in too deeply because I thought it implied no biological relationships. I thought the mother was hiring a male babysitter.
The fact that so many people in the comment section says they can relate is scary and sad at the same time
I guess that the people interested in this kind of content is in its majority people who are suffering or have suffered issues in one way or another.
Ikr
@@aliena28898 Smart thinking! But still that's way more than I'd expect
@@aliena28898 Not me i just came here to laugh
Yeah.
A shout out to all the mothers and fathers who love their kids unconditionally. We take them for granted not knowing that others yearn for that love
So true! Love your parents!!
💙💙💙
miss mash 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿
Amen.
Yeah!! Reading those rude parents secrets make me love my parents even more cause they love me and understand me...💕
you know.. I recently told my boyfriend that all thought his parents would hit him when he was younger just like mine did at least his still wanted him. I personally get kicked out by my mom twice an year.. I'm used to it but sometimes it hurts when I hear her say "I don't want you anymore". I wish she'd love me as much as I love her.
Can’t wait till I have a child so I can tell them I love them everyday, tell them their beautiful, worthy of life and can talk to me about everything because my mum never told me or offered me any of those things
No...damn.
I'm crying. This hit me hard.
I never felt love in my parents...
Wow this made me cry, honestly same
I really hope that all of you and people with the same problems know that you’re all loved by someone. It just doesn’t necessarily mean your parents.
But you can offer her
💖 you're important. You're amazing. In every sense of the word. No matter what someone will miss you somewhere. My dad never told me he loved me when I would tell him and my mom only started saying it about 3 years ago. I'm 25 now.
I hate when people defend these kind of situations by saying “it’s still your family”. Yeah, it is, but my family is slowly killing me mentally and emotionally
the expression blood is thicker than water is actually supposed to be 'the blood of the is thicker than the water of the womb meaning the ones we choose arent stronger than ones we dont
Yes!!!😠😤
YES
same
same sometimes I just feel like disappearing without hurting them.
The secret that struck me the most was the one about the sisters finding out they are not related but keeping it a secret to keep the peace. What a heavy burden to carry; but at least you have a sister to carry it with you.
LadyPeace89 I dont understand how the parents didn’t know tho one must’ve been swapped at birth
Finding out they were half siblings (different dads) would make more sense. If they're really unrelated, parents have to know, and are probably also keeping the secret to keep the peace (one of them would have to be adopted).
One parent probably cheated
BirdsForever but they said they were literally unrelated
Everliza A but they’d still be related
I got chills when they read the note about the person and how their mother made them feel worthless. I can relate.
@XXXOOO XIVVIX I do believe that, that's why I am still here
same...
Zainab Zafar I feel the same. I always try my best to prove she is wrong. But sometimes I'm tired 😓
Me too
@@huongle-bi5vp tbh I don't care anymore. I used to really feel worthless but I'm just over it now. I know who I am better than anyone else, even my mother
Family isn’t the save haven for most people. We should get rid of that stereotype that family is inherently good.
And it sickened me when stereotype people say I'm an ungrateful kid for leaving my parents, who have been abusing me mentally and emotionally
le anon yes, I totally get it. My mom is a kindergarten teacher and everybody thinks she’s so nice. So I’m the sick individual who has mental problems in their eyes. You know what FUCK THEM. YOU KNOW YOU WHERE ABUSED. You know the true story and you know it would happen again if you let them in your life again. People who went through the same thing will understand you. You made the right choice and I did so too.
Thank you!! Someone finally said it!
Fax
💯
My dad sexually,physically, and emotionally abuse me for years because I didn’t want him to hurt my little sisters and now they hate me for saying anything and getting him put in prison
@random name You would be surprised at what some parents can do. Sometimes people forget that parents are human beings before being parents. And there are some vile parents out there.
@@kephrenh na i dont know
Cuz imagine
Its your own fleshn bone
No one would do that
@@bootyeater damn that is the worst advice you could possibly give to someone... in any circumstance
Cuz what u doin is that you dont solve the problem
U just run from them
And thats not how you deal life cuz the problems will haunt you making your life more miserable every second for the rest of your life
@random name If you really believe that, it means you have shielded yourself from a lot of ugliness.
Toxic Queen I’m sorry. You did the right thing by putting him in jail.
"We all want to show parents that you're like strong even when things aren't fine" sheesh that hits very hard cuz its true
Yeah we are too focused on impressing our parents and others that we don't know what we want for ourselves.
it hurts even more when each time we cry we don't want anyone to see because we are supposed to be strong.
My parents too have done this. When I was away working on a cruise, my mom had a serious fall and had to undergo immediate surgery. They masterfully hid this from me because my mom feared I would leave my contract half way and come to her. It was my first contract and I needed the money to get out of debt. In hindsight, I'm not sure what I would have done if I had known about her.
Some family members really aren't needed.
All family members are needed it's just that sometimes we might end up having a parent that we can't have because of certain characteristics...
Alex handsome And if we can't have them and are perfectly fine without them, then we don't need them.
@@hanaomer4940 You know what I mean...
Alex handsome I do :)
Real talk💯
If you’re reading this, you’re worth it and I love you. We will get through the tough times.
If you're reading this, you and everyone you know will die and no one will remember you. c:
gay daddy People like you make me sick.
gay daddy Bruv what is wrong with you
Vinny Vigs thank you
@@austindonnelly7892 don't know what ppl going through and u gonna make that comment can ur really sick and mean!!
He's one for you.
My Great Grand father sexually abused his kids and grand kids. Over 3 and 4 generations later and most of us are still suffering from this either physically or emotionally.
I will be better. I am better
Hope u get better
Your strong... I am proud of you ... I mean it 💛
Ben L I can’t believe the parents left you guys with him when they knew what he does. I’m sorry you had to go through that. I hope you get better
You got this
Oh god I can never imagine what all of u went thru! I'm sorry it happened to u!!! But u made it thru! Ur an inspiration to so many, and ur so strong! U deserve every bit of love!!!
Plot twist: what if they’re reading their own secrets...?
sene leaoa there’s always a chance 😂😂
Yup.
Everybodys laughing but what if its true..
Ugh shuttup 🙄
I was thinking the same
My secret:
My family hates me because whenever my mother gets drunk she talks about me to anyone that will listen. She twists everything because she likes everyone to feel sorry for her and loves to be a victim for attention. Every night she is on the phone texting everyone about how horrible I am and all the bad things I have done that day. My uncle just got cancer and has said that he doesn't want to hide it anymore, he doesn't like me or my fiance and doesn't want to speak to us anymore. It hurts that my mother has done this to me and that I will never get to say goodbye to him. I have no family left because of what she has done and everytime I ask her why she has done this she laughs in my face. I believe that deep down my mother hates me and wants to ruin my life and when she is drunk she shows it. When I was younger I used to try to be perfect in hopes that my mother would stop talking about me and that my family would accept me but now I realise that only damaged my mental health and that i will never get my family back and it's time to move on. Thanks to anyone who reads this, sorry it's long.
Your mom shows signs of being a narcissist. Research more into that . And I am so sorry for how your feeling and what you went through. May God heal you
I hope you know that you always deserved better. Also, realize that she knows she never deserved you. Only very broken and damaged narcissists scapegoat their children. I really hope you protect yourself and find a way to keep her out of your life.
@@fortunatephasoana2408 thank you, she is and she blames me for all her problems because she cant cope. I think she has a lot of mental health problems but she refuses to get help so until she gets help I'm distancing myself from her as much as possible
@@kgrimes4934 thank you, she has brought me down a lot over the years and I never got a proper childhood I had to grow up quickly to sort out her problems. I wrote that paragraph when I was very down, I had a baby a month after and he has given me a new purpose in life. I cant let her drag me down because I have to support him and I finally know what love is. I'm saving up to go back to college next year and I have started focusing on my own future instead of getting caught up in her problems. I have my own life and I'm going to live it.
Stay strong
When you thought your family had issues..
Yup...
Never thought my family had issues
My family is sorta worse than these...
ryli fisher same
XaddyP it sucks that this is the only platform I can admit that. No one believes me, especially about my social anxiety. It’s been diagnosed and yet I have never told anyone in my life because I’m sorta the class clown I guess.. lucky I graduated literally last week so I don’t have to deal with that crap any more. So sick of this
"She reminds me of how worthless I am"
I can relate.
Eithen Mkosana if you get chance in this world to be a parent be “different “ and worthy ✊
Eithen Mkosana
Ur not worthless ur special! Always remember that Jesus loves u and I love u too. Even though I don’t know u but there is someone that loves u.
Oh please
xBipolarSunshine is there a problem?
What do you want? Being pitied by others? Words that you are not? Poor baby.
Not even 30 seconds in and I’m already crying
Bruh same
righttt!!. after the first one i paused the video and just sat here thinking about how fucked up the world is.
Biebsus Christ OMG ME
me 2
30 seconds in and im laughing
My parents always ask me
Why it take me 1hr while bathing
I never told them that I always cry inside the bathroom
Stay strong
It's so good that you allow yourself to cry. That's so important. Look for someone you trust and tell your problems. It might help :)
I cried my eyes out in front of my sister recently. She was scared because she can't remember the last time she saw me cry. I can't express myself without being treated like a criminal.😢
@@geonite2072 Ikr, people have to normalize this. It's okay to cry
I don't know if I'm late bt BE STRONG!!! I'M with u
The secret I hid from my parents and my Brother:
My Brother used to come home in dirt and a sad look on his face.
I instantly knew he was getting bullied.
I confronted him with my brother twice yet it still continued happening, and my Brother told me that the bully even punched his stomach multiple times more fiercely.
So one day, I cornered that kid, and I knew I cannot hurt him, so I verbally insulted him with every hatred I had from a secondary school student.
My brother told me that he cried the whole day on the second day, and that he moved school in the next.
I really don’t know if that is my proudest doing to protect my Brother, or my worse regret for insulting a kid so badly he moved schools.
I would have done the same thing.
how old were you all
You're my hero. Pity you couldn't do that more to the sucker. No pity for the bully
Just Ethan Hope the bully finally learned his lesson, would have done the same thing if it was one of my siblings
You have done right .It was necessary at that moment.
Be safe everyone 💔
Za'kiyah Johnson you 2🙏🏾
U 2
easier said than done
You too
Za'kiyah Johnson you too baby💕💕
If I wrote my family secrets.. you guys will probably think we need to be in a psych ward. Family last name is literally Savage.
Me too 😔
You: I've been Savage my whole life
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 mines to lissa mines too
@Angel Agbettor hah gay
Adam Savage's last name is Savage and doesn't mean he's Savage so I doubt your family is savage
my biggest regret: not getting help or wanting a therapist
Theres still time ❤️
Same..
@@jrodd05 same....
@caved68 hi! thank you for asking, i’m getting through life; perfectly fine ofcourse!!
done lots since last year
Even tho my best freind killed herself, i still add she number when I get a new phone and I still text the number Gn..
Ashlyn Rae I am sorry for your loss. We all manage pain how we need to and I understand.
I felt that. Sorry for your loss
Ashlyn Rae I would to I hope you’re doing okay she is in a better place now 👼🏻
I'm so sorry hope your doing ok!😘
Thats so heartbraking
I'm depressed, suicidal, and I suffer form anxiety.
No one know this apart from you people reading this.
And I want it to stay that way.
This was, no one will worry about me
(Update: it's been 2 years and I am doing much better. Please read my replied comment. I'm sorry to anyone that i made worry)
someone is worrying about you..... whether you believe this or not, I can promise you that there is at least one being who cares and worries about you and as a fellow human being i am also going to worry about you now....
I hope you're okay
I suffer the same things & I try to hide my emotions from my parents so they won't worry.
I know things will get better for both of us 🤗
You're stronger than you realize and I Know that my comment won't cure you, but I can't pass this without telling you that you are strong.❤️
•EclipseGames• I love you. You are loved. Stay safe.
If you think no one is worrying about you then, do it for yourself dont wait for someone to worry about you save yourself dear, think of the possiblities in the future everything will change
My Patents think I‘m always sad and Very insecure.
The truth is that I‘m always happy and Laugh a lot. At least when i‘m Not with Family. They Will Never know who i really am.
Same they think I'm always sad/angry but I'm never really like that :/
vanilla Is there a reason why you act so diffrent towards your family? I can kind of relate tho.
same tho like when i was with my family i was really cold like i hardly smile (they even think that i was heartless person lol) but when i was actually alone and with my friends i was brighter than that, idk whats wrong with me for doing that but i feel so bad to them and feel like i am a bad family member
E ツ thats a good question, but i honestly don’t know why I Act like that
mygkk k absolutely same. I feel bad for acting so heartless and it makes me feel even worse
My uncle is cheating on my aunt with a 25 year old...they have a 6 year old innocent girl and a newborn son. I feel really bad and want to tell my aunt but I am too scared
Update: I told her...
Update: so its been a whole ass year basically and after I told her she left him. He's still with the 25 year old girl and he doesn't even talk to his kids that much anymore other than one phone call a week.. But my aunt is living her best life and has found someone that makes her really happy so :))
omg.. you have to tell her really, imagine this happening to you and no one tells you. Wish you all the best
do it so she can be free
Tell her no matter what, she needs to know the harsh truth
Please tell her. It will cause strife but she needs to know. Cheating is awful and for her to blindly be in that relationship isn't right
Do it. She deserves to know.
Sometimes I wonder if this world will ever be good.
ELITEKILLERZZ YT it wont
Now you know how I gotta is it a lot
It will get better
Can't take you serious with that profile pic
It won’t until Jesus comes
My dad still doesn’t know that I know things about him like he cheated on my mom and i can’t see him the same way.
I can relate 😓
I would confront my mother or my father depending on who cheated and slapping them back into reality metaphorical speaking
I know how that feels
I have this secret about both my dad AND mom. It sucks, man.
I recently broke out crying hysterically because for days I didn't know how to tell that to my mom..it took me like 20 minutes to calm down
and I haven't spoken to my father since and I really don't want to be near him or in the flat when it's just the two of us home
“we all want to show our parents that we are strong, even when things aren’t fine..” that line right there immediately made me sob
My dad threw a chair at my face when i was 13.
My relationship with him isn't that good since then.
@Angel Agbettor he never did.
How old are you now?
@@hajarabouarnadasse2417 18
My dad tried to throw a chair at me when I was a kid & I had a fight with my little sister one time & tried to throw a chair at her like he did & he raged.
@@anotheryale28 oh that's so sad, u know a lot of people who get raised in violence they mostly do the same unconsciously to others, i don't blame you for anything
Right off the bat depressing
Golden Face facts...
Ikr
It was the background music along with the lighting. Almost like subliminal messaging - it's meant to set the mood, the stories by themselves were sad but the other things brought out stronger feelings.
right that first one...
I walked in on my mother getting raped, know that my dad has cheated before, and have been molested by my brother. I can't wait to be 18, as I will finally be able to get away and not have to worry about this pain anymore.
Pls save your mom too.
Please save your mom 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 stay strong
Save your mom please
Hopefully you are now, I hope things are better
"We all want to show our parents that we're strong, even when things aren't fine." I honestly don't know why that hit me so hard, but damn. damn.
I want to hug and care and love all the kids who have abusive/unhealthy parent relationships. I can't even imagine what it feels like. Be safe and stay strong everyone. You are sooo loved.
💕💕💕
@@jahanarabegum1923 ❤🤗❤
Thank you
Ik this is a year old but ❤️
@@chaderwin9834 haha no worries, love is still the same, have an great day 🥰❤
Oh my gosh...
Our faces dont say it but our hearts do
@@randomthings6977 I'm sorry, but I can't take you seriously because you're saying "our faces don't say it", but then I look at your profile pic, and just can't keep a straight face 😂
Nagisa ;)
Family can hurt the most. They are family. And family supose to be the most suporting and beautiful thing in life. I understand the people who wrote those secrets. Be strong ✊🌹
i can relate to alot of those secrets,
my dad left us a week before christmas.
at first he wanted a break for a week so he stayed at his mom’s. it’s been almost a year now. when he left through that door, he didnt say a thing, not even goodbye to me. after a time we found out his mom forced him to leave mom and supported.. him cheating on my mom. it’s not a secret that his mom hated my mom but to go as far as this, even i was surprised. how can someone be this manipulative is what i asked myself. well my dad always had a rough childhood, growing up without a father himself and his mom not supporting him at all affected him alot.
i had a hard time accepting the fact the he really left also because i’m not the type of person that shows feelings. this plays a big role in my depression and anxiety but i guess it gets better..
Issues with parents are the hardest to heal, they cut so deep. So much pain anger powerlessness etc. It might take years to heal or never at all. But in the end the only way to go forward is to realize that parents, people, only give you what they can. Your father couldn’t give you more than he had. He had very little even for himself to survive. That is when people go on selfish mode. But I guess that’s normal if you don’t have enough. It clearly wasn’t enough for the children, like at all! In so many ways! But bottom line they didn’t give because they didn’t have anything to give
I can't with your username ksksksjsj
Stay strong 💜
Just to add to this depressing stuff
I am an adopted Asian person in a white family, Every time that I saw my family together having fun and making memories. I'm constantly reminded that my family...didn't want those memories. I was their burden. I was their mistake. Off they were high school though. They didn't want me, nor did the parents I'm assuming. My birthday (which is suppose to be a celebration) is more like a funeral for a piece of my life that I will never ever getting to spend with them.
All the best for your future brother .
thanks to all the nice words, i‘m improving and trying to feel better, day by day!:)
almost every family has its secrets, and almost all kids have issues with their family.
My older sister mentally, verbally and physically abused me for around 7 years. We grew up with a single mother who worked all the time. Although my sister has apologized and I've told her I forgive her...it's affected my life in so many negative ways. While she went on and married a great guy and travels, my life has been a hellish war...what a person does to another affects them, whether good or bad. Be kind to each other.
Some of these make me think about my family
That first one was messed up
Noona Sunbae all of them are
I didnt get the first one. Dont know but the voice is not clear.
Can someone write it down Please
@@unknownperson-qd1xt The dad left because the mother didn't pay him anymore to babysit their kids
ur mom that one really caught me off guard..
hey random person scrolling threw the comments
be safe okay?
❤️
Thanksss
walker ? You too...okay?💓
Ok you too
You too beautiful
“I was Verbally, Emotionally And physically abused by my older sister.”
I bully my little brother who is 8 sometimes..and now I feel like crap. I’ve been like this since I was 8 , sad, and angry a,most all the time. And when my little brother was born m I took care of him. But when my parents started to make me feel like I’m just a horrible mess, and so now, I suffer from depression.
Sometimes is okay, but be careful.
He may start to resent women for the rest of his life and then become depressed because he's alone..
It wasn't my sister in my case but almost every girl from kindergarten till highschool seemed to do their best to male me feel worthless, and honestly (admittedly I dislike this about myself 😔) I don't trust women anymore, there's always this voice inside my head that "they" all will hurt you and don't care about you.
I'm affraid I've missed opportunities of love because of this.
But I can't fight it :(
@@Stormcloakvictory siblings are to give the support that the older generation cannot, u will never figure it out by yourself. Talk to someone, even a apprentice. Once u open up of what's going on, half of the frustration is released. Others may not help u but their understanding can heal u from a horrible mess atleast.
Keep in mind that your brother will grow to be stronger than you in the future. Be careful.
The worst is when others say "They're still your family". Being family literally got nothing to do with it.U cant luv someone cuz u have their blood in ur body. U can luv someone who took care of u and listened to u
Abuse is prevalent in all cultures. In my culture however, there is no concept of 'parental abuse' physical or emotional. People will tell you, you're abused for your own well being. Emotional abuse is just as horrible as physical abuse. It strips you of your self worth, damages you in ways that you're unable to completely fix, gives you trust issues, makes you more sensitive and introverted and feel you're not wanted.
It's also interesting how other people criticize you for being too sensitive from a safe distance. If you see people who are sensitive or do not easily trust people but have trusted you, don't sit in judgement of their personality. I always fear conflicts and fights because I feel at a disadvantage as soon as someone raises his or her voice at me. It's because I was yelled at for decades. Either support people who have been physically or emotionally abused or if you can't, simply keep your judgements to yourself. We don't need to toughen up, you need to listen up and empathize.
Can relate
Same
I don't wanna be insensitive cause I don't really know what you webt through, but it sounds like you guys arent really abused and just disciplined
Tears filled my eyes and it started to stream down my face without realizing when he read the note about how their mother made them feel worthless and how it makes them have suicidal thoughts, I can relate.
I feel lonely, the only person I call my family is my mother because I'm the only child and my dad left us before I was even born, I really want to feel loved desperately it's something I never had when I was a child, I grew up feeling empty and broken inside, I made lots of (Ex) friends to fill the void of loneliness I realized no one can replace parents love. I can't talk open about my mental illness because I'm afraid of being told "it's human thing to feel that way so get over it" I have so many things I want to talk about but I don't see the point because letting things off my chest won't make me feel better anymore like it used to back then. If you're reading this thank you for listening to me ☺️❤️
Family Secret;
I live in Alabama, I hope you know the rest
@Mysterious Chris
INCEST lol😂😂
@@ayooalexx1209 why are you laughing? What if they didn't intend for it to sound like a joke and it's actually serious?
Hajarry Styles
Fuck Off I don’t care I’m sure it was a joke 🖕😂 if not it’s still funny 🤷♂️😂
@@ayooalexx1209 bro wtf is with the emojis
Tbh Its not funny and i hope you are doing ok until this day
Being the youngest and being raised in a culture where the oldest is the most respected,my siblings always made me feel worthless,they NEVER notice me no matter how hard I try and please them or reach out to them,and my parents always support them over me
My sisters get to scream at me all they want but if I were to shout in desperation,my parents would always scold me
I tried confiding in them sometimes but they always turned it into a joke
I get that the age gape between my 2 sisters and I are quite huge and the age gape between themselves is just 1 year,but I want to be close to someone in my family
It feels painful whenever my family breaks into individual conversations,my parents talking to each other,my 2 sisters and I pretty much lag behind helplessly staring at the floor,if it weren't for my phone,I would be in isolation most times so childhood was painful.I guess that was the reason for my habit of always being behind everyone during outings,and my family always scold and berate at me for always being behind them
Whew,a bit of my chest lol
Im the oldest out of my siblings... and i honestly cant say that i feel respected at all if anything i feel hated since my family always call me retarded (im not) and always that i should be a better child 😢. As soon as im 18 im going to get my tubes tied because my siblings have given me a reason never to have kids 😂 life sucks.
Heilon Iris being the youngest can be tough because of all the social assumptions/“rules” that are thrown onto us. Im the youngest girl of four (3 older brothers) and growing up wasn’t easy. I acted like I was the oldest (taking care of things, working hard, getting good grades) but was never appreciated or heard when I spoke. Was constantly having to do what my older brothers told me to even if I knew it wasn’t right or when I questioned their orders I got in trouble. When 2 of my 3 older brothers started sexually assaulting me, and my mother decided I was lying, it hurt me a lot. Nobody would believe me because I was the youngest and just “seeking attention”. Even now, almost four years after all that ended, and I’m an adult now, the rare times I do talk to my family I’m still seen as a child or as immature and like I don’t know what’s best for me. It can hurt a lot. I’m sorry you’re going through similar situations with your family and aren’t being heard or appreciated
I'm so sorry you gotta get through this and idk why some cultures think someone is gotta be more repectfull then the other one, I hope you're okay now💔
@@monae5964 It's really sad reading these comments but I hope you stay strong :/
@@katarinatillinghast153 That's really bad,I don't understand why we are always being ignored and I thought my experience was bad
I hope it gets better with you and your family,but it's pretty hard to change their views to be honest
As I got older I realized everyone has something terrible happen to them. Mentally, physically, verbally... kinda changed the meaning behind “you’re not alone” forever for me
"You act strong (infront of your parents) even when things aren't fine" that hit 😭😭😭. I always do this, because i dont want them to worry about me, because they have worries of their own.
Here’s my secret since I’m also a stranger-
It’s really hard for me to say this but my parents are divorced and my father has started his life with his other wife he never asked about me since I was 2 and I’ve always been with my mother and older sister my mom usually smacked us as kids which I guess was okay cause all Arab parents do it then she married my step-father and he’s a good person but she changed a lot she’s always angry at me she physically abuses me which again something totally normal for people in my family and I don’t see what part of it is okay but things are just what they are and she also mentally abuses me she makes me feel so worthless like whenever I come from school she stares at me in a bad way and she always says bad things about me like she calls me an animal she usually threatens me and his has been going on for a long time now and I once stood up to her and it ended up with me getting the shit beat out of me and I was sick of all of this but I never had the guts to stand up to her or do something about it but my sister did she went to my fathers house but she came back I still don’t know why but she says he’s nice and he changed and he’s not the same alcoholic person that never asked about us and don’t get me wrong I wanna go there and I wanna leave my moms house I just need to be happy for a day without thinking about killing myself or running away but I just think about my mom and how she would feel because at my point of view my mom didn’t leave me but my father did and she may be a psychopath that I hate I don’t know what’s holding me back maybe it’s the fear inside of me or maybe just deep down I love her..... and I forgive my father for leaving me but I can’t forget so right now I’m just thinking about the day I leave a day where I won’t have to see my mom nor my dad a day where I can be happy but right now all I’m thinking about is keeping my grades up so I can get a scholarship abroad and leave this damm house.
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I can’t re-read this cause ima cry so if something is messed up I’m sorry.
Ally Stay Strong Ally 💔💔
Listen Ally, at some point you need to think about YOU. If your father's place is an option - go there! Go before your love for your mother develops into hatred. As someone who hates their mother, I totally understand you. Escape the hell hole and get to some place a bit better. Talk to your dad, try to gauge him before you make any decisions...that can make it easier than just running to him. Probably try to spend a weekend at his house...try to see if you can bond. You don't have to rush if you don't want to but I think we both know that your father's place is safer than your current home...
Please get to see a psycologist, he or she will support and help you to choose what to do and feel much better. Maybe you can contact one with your school's help. I really wish you to be happy, Im having a hard time as well but everything will be fine okay? Please stay safe, you are super strong and you deserve to be happy. I send you a big virtual hug 💗
Hi Love. This was written a year ago. You may not see this. However, I just want to say thank you for sharing. YOU ARE STRONG. YOU ARE SMART. KEEP UP WITH YOUR STUDIES. MOST OF ALL YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND BRAVE. I have dealt with both. Abuse from one parent and being left from the other. However, all I want to say is forgive your parents but most of all forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for believing you deserved this treatment. Forgive yourself for thinking you were worthless. Love yourself. As you are. YOU ARE NOT AN ANIMAL. There will be a day... when you're free. Fix your wings now. So when you break out, you will fly...not crawl. Heal yourself. Train your mind to be stronger than their abuse and their demons. I believe in you.
If you’re reading this ... please push through ... I love you ❤️.. there’s somebody out there that could HELP you .. don’t give up
Thank you ♡
I feel so lucky my family is united. My parents love each other, and my siblings and I are close. I cry just thinking if what others have to go through. No one might ever read this, but I hope you’re okay. I hope you found your paradise, and you’re not alone. Who knows, I could just next door. If you need anything. I’m here
I cried everytime my parents yells at me, because i always have the thought that they will hit me....they always hit me.
I guess the family secret I wanna get out the most is when my sister used to struggle with ocd my dad took it really badlu and would harshly beat her up it made me feel so scared and guilty at the same time for not trying to protect her ...I would hate myself for not standing for her when I knew she couldn't help her mental illness. And after seeing the same beating every night I started going to bed early just so I wouldn't have to watch it and if I stayed up because of homework I'd get very anxious at the idea of me watching it all like every night . When my own mental health got bad with anxiety depression and an eating disorder and self harm and suicidal tendencies and my parents didn't take it the right way either ...I love my parentd and get that they didn't understand what was going on with both me and my sister but I really wish there would be more awareness about mental issues if they understood perhaps they would have been more gentle ....
WOW. That is so sad...why would he beat her for having OCD? I respect you and your sister a lot for bearing through all of this. I can't imagine how hard that feels. Keep holding on and ask other adults for help. Bless you for saying you still love them.
Write a letter to them. Maybe they really don't know what their behavior caused. Wish you the best.💜💜
:We always wanna show our parents that we are strong and everything is fine"
I can relate totally but late at night i just cry so hard in silence and wake up the next morning with a poppin smile
I’ve had to pay my sons father to babysit him. He’s autistic and it’s difficult finding childcare for him. He moved to another state when I found someone to help. I got pregnant at 18, and he was 30. There are no regrets in my heart though, my son is my best friend and this journey has made me who I am.
You are a great mother. You have my respect.
Please make these videos longer!! I want to see more
Relatives are the people you're related to, family is the people who love you and you love ,alot of the time not the same people . I hope you all find your family ❤️❤️❤️
No one, not one single person, deserves to feel these emotions, to go through this.
I hate being around people that make me feel lesser and judge me for who i am
I have 2 family secrets
1. My half sister found out that she has another half sister some where and she keeps talking about what her other sister is like and I want to tell her that at least I’m here.
2. My dad says that I’m half of him and half of my mum but it makes me feel like I’m meant to me just like them and that’s my nightmare
I am the reason my parents got a divorce. People always try to convince me that its not, but it really is. We used to be a happy family, my parents were so inlove and moved in together at 18. They’re now 43 and 46 and are getting a divorce. If I hadn’t gotten the mental illness I have, they would still be together. I ruined my family. My sister is lonely, my dad is out partying every week in another country and my mom is heartbroken. And its all my fault.
BookMilla it isn’t your fault. You cannot control that you have a mental illness either!
BookMilla hello! I know you don’t know me but trust me when I say that it isn’t your fault. Your parents are adults and they made their decisions by themselves. I know it’s easy to blame yourself when things go rough because you want to understand why they decided to separate. But you shouldn’t be because you’re being unfair to yourself. I’m sure they had marital problems way before your issue surfaced. Moving in at the age of 18 is pretty early too so there might be some issues that were buried that resurfaced causing them to reach their breaking point. My parents have been married for 35 years and I say this as I saw it through my own eyes that they weren’t happy all the time. My dad is now 62 and my mom is 55. They had so many rough times especially when they have 4 daughters they needed to feed in a low income household. Me and my siblings weren’t the best daughters too. We made a lot of mistakes but at the end of the day, down the road my parents decided for themselves that they will stay together. They could’ve left each other and found a better life with someone else but they didn’t.
That was their decision. Your parents getting a divorce is not your fault. IT WAS THEIR DECISION.
Take care of yourself okay? I hope you feel better. Bad days don’t last 💖
Sending you love 💖💖💖
I was going to say the same thing as sugar&spice but she summed it up perfectly.
But i also wanted to say that you didn't ask for or seek out the mental illness did you so how on earth could you be to blame for it? Don't ever let anyone try to convince you that it's you're fault.
That is NOT your fault. Why..?? Because you have no control over a mental illness you have.. It's that simple. It's up to your parents to work through the problems and if they love each other, then they should be able to get past whatever problems that arise, learn from it and have a stronger relationship because of the experience. It's not up to you to do that. When people become parent, they should know there are numerous risks in doing so and if they don't, that isn't your fault. The fact that they moved in together at 18 years old tells us that they don't make the best choices.
I know you’re all trying to help but it IS my fault. My parents do everything for me. My mom even gave up her fulltime job just so that I wouldn’t be home alone all of the time. It’s not even my parents fault that I have this mental disorder, cause I got it from trauma. I wasn’t born with it. I haven’t been to school for 2,5 years, and we can’t do any family activities together. My sister begs my parents to go on a holiday, but because of me we have to stay at home. Everything is evolved around me, because I am the reason my family has a horrible life, all of us. I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again, I am the reason why they got divorced. My parents fell out of love because of how much they struggle. They were always sad when they lived together, because of me. My dad had breakouts where he’d yell at me, my mom would then get mad at him and when my mom got mad at me my dad would get mad at my mom. It was an evil circle, and I was the cause of that circle. My mom literally had to move out so that everyother week she’d get a week of peace from me. So please stop telling me otherwise, cause it is my fault completely.
"It's easier to feel that there is something wrong with you"💔
One day I got home from work early and over heard my mom talking on the phone, she said I don’t have the same father as my siblings, I never told her I heard what she said, I still don’t know who my biological father is
We need to start embracing our children. When parents ask about school at the dinner table ( if we have parents or a table at all) open up to your parents. And we need to open up and tell them exactly what is going on with us in all aspects of our life. We need them and they need us!!
The one about the mom, room, suicidal thoughts; that hit me as it's exactly what happens to me :(( You really feel so scared and hopeless in situations like that, and you have no control over it
2:46 The fact that she smiles while saying that shows how painful it is. Maybe it isn't because it's painful, though, maybe it's just regret.
My deepest family secret is that even though my Dad still has rampages of abuse against different family members, I'm just glad it's not me getting hit anymore. I'm ashamed for not standing up against it, because I don't want to be hurt. I hate myself everytime I see it and don't call the cops.
1:54 "we all want to show our parents we're strong, even when things aren't fine" wow...that hit me hard.
One of my Deepest Family Secrets that I have never admitted, and feel ashamed doing so because my mom is a wonderful mother:
I come from a family of cheaters. My mom has been involved. My mom's mom has been involved. Their daughters have been involved and everyone else around. Deep inside my heart, sometimes I'm scared to think about the fact that I might grow up to be just like them too. I know cheating isn't right, and there are of course multiple reasons for it. But the thought of me putting someone through that kind of pain is such a horrible thought that it makes me disgusted with myself and my lineage, and for that I feel guilty.
When i was at school i was bullied by people because of the way i look and for my slight leg deformities, i started feeling sick then got better, the thing is I didn’t tell my mum i got better so that i could stay away from school, the Doctors did not understand what was wrong with me, they took for x-rays and put me on medication, i then moved on to secondary school where i met a friend who’s digestive system was recked by the medicine i took, i never felt so guilty and sorry for my mum, it was only recently i told her the whole truth, she was not angry but she did cry and hug me, those who reading these comments, please do not make the same mistake, talk to your loved ones, they might surprise you.👍
@1:17 hearing that i wasn't alone in experiencing these things growing up in a Hispanic family means so much to me. It really helps me not feel so alone in the struggle with it.
the one that said “I didn’t want to make my mom upset, so I never told her.” I can relate so much.
Literally 10 seconds into the video and I'm already sad. Why do I watch these videos when I know it's going to be very depressing?The bullying one is so true. The reason why kids don't tell their parents that they are having a hard time at school is because they don't want them to be upset or cause them to worry/fear for their child. It's heartbreaking. I got bullied before (it wasn't as bad as what other people have to go through) and I avoided school as much as possible because the teachers were bad at handling these kind of situations. I learnt from my mistake. Avoiding it won't help. if anyone is getting bullied at school PLEASE PLEASE just tell someone. Tell someone who you trust. Bullying is unacceptable
42 jade
I care! There will always be someone who cares about you. Please don't think that you don't have anyone. Everything will get better. 💜
I was 6 year old when my dad hit my mother it wasn't the first time he did it but I only remember this one. I felt so helpless I was scared I didn't know what to do I remember hugging my mom while my dad was beating her up. Most of the beating landed on my body, but I was glad that my mom didn't had to go through the pain alone... I was so scared I thought it was normal
to anyone that can relate to the secrets, i'm not really sure what to say since i'm lucky enough to have such an amazing family. i just hope that you'll stay strong, thay hopefully your family can work it out and understand each other better.
avoid keeping your thoughts to yourself, share them with someone you trust. you are worth it, it isn't your fault, and you should not be battling anything alone. see a school counsellor/very trusted teacher, get a friend to talk with, find an outdoor activity/hobby/club that you can participate in if you'd rather not stay at home. if you're with a therapist or counsellor, please don't lie and just tell the truth on how you feel, or nothing will change. don't let too many negative thoughts consume you to the point you feel like hurting yourself, but it's okay to cry and let out your emotions.
please stay safe, and thank you for staying strong. i believe in you, i know that you're worth so much.
One of my close friends parents died when he was 3-4 months old. He was adopted by a couple that look like they could be his parents. He told me, his girlfriend, his ex girlfriend (back when they where together), and the school counselor. His brother didn't know and I accidentally told him. I paid my friends brother to keep quite. When my friend found out his brother and I blamed it on his ex ( when they were still together). They broke up, and I blame myself that I ruined a happy relationship.
Since I’m sure no one will see this... my mom told me that when she was pregnant with me, he threatened her to get an abortion. And of course my “dad” isn’t a part of my life
sounds like you two dodged a bullet!
glad to have you around
here’s my story: I’ve never had a father in my life since my mom and my biological father broke up even before they got married and raised me. When I was 3 years old, I had a step father which was very supportive and very caring whom I later on lost because of a super typhoon that hit our city. Later on, my mom dated someone else and it was currently my boyfriend’s father since my ex’s father at that time was also single, they were also in a relationship while I was dating my ex boyfriend. I have been bullied about that since then. I’ve never ever felt more betrayed than I ever did in my entire life and it is coming from my own mother. Until this day, I am not okay with this situation as to I have to act normal and accept the fact that my ex lover is now my step brother since we now have a sister by blood. guess I should’ve sent my story..
I can’t believe how hard of a situation this must be for you 😞 thank you for sharing - I’m sending good vibes and thoughts your way!
Mlin321 thank you, it means a lot. 🤍
I feel like if I were to start saying my family secrets everyone would look at me with pity because they’re never ending. I’ve found a way to move on and I pray that anyone who’s suffering finds a way too.
when I was 2 my mom left me with my dad and went around to clubs and different guys (they were together for quite some time now but my dad knew that she was cheating with multiple men) we stayed with my aunt since we had moved to Arkansas when I was 4 and everything was going well with my aunt and my dad as a single parent. My mom went to prison (doing something bad at the club) when I was 5 and my dad went to Texas to bail her out. when he did, my mom took me and left with her boyfriend at that time. My dad not wanting to let go of me followed her all the way to Carolina (we lived in Ohio) and tried to take me back because he loved me so much and didn’t want to leave me with her. My mom called the cops on him saying he “took me.” but my dad went back to her because me, not knowing anything and finally meeting my mom for the first time said, “daddy, where’s mommy? I want to go back.” So when he arrived the cops were there and he explained everything, nothing bad happened. My dad tells me that bailing my mom out from prison was the worst thing he did because she had ruined his life yet he still went back to her and chased after her. I am currently living with my mom, but I still see my dad. I remember crying when my dad explained this because I felt so bad and never knew he did all that just so I would be happy.
i just heard this song and i got really really emotional my dad died a month or 2 ago and my mom lied about it it was a Sunday morning i think my dad was going to work and the last thing i heard from him was i love you and i didn't say it back cause i was half asleep and i regret it and i will regret it for the rest of my life i have anxiety and depression because of that and because of my mom, my mom keeps saying she hates me and all i ever really want everyday is her attention her love and for her to realize how much im hurting every single day i came out a tomboy because i spent most of my time with my dad because my mom was always with my younger brother and sister my mo never really cared about me it was always just my dad i miss every moment of him that we had together i always told him before he wen t to work o bring his gun and that SAME morning is when he got kidnapped and i blame myself for it im having another anxiety attack again okay im back i should have responded to him when he said i love you and people say that he doesnt want me crying and being sad over him but i cant help it i mean if i ended my life i could just be with him the first time i had a dream about hi is when i didnt know that he got kidnapped (my mom and aunt said he went on a 6 month contract for a business trip) i had a dream that he came home safe with a big smile on his face and that he was excited to see us and i was the first one to run down the steps to say hi to him and hug him so in my dream i ran downstairs and hugged him and cried and i woke up crying i was crying really loud and my lil sister started crying cause i accidentally woke her up and my mom started taking care of her and she stoped crying but she let me cry fir an hour straight i have these times for when im alone i think of my dad and cry for an hour straight non -stop so i believed themi keep having mental breakdowns where i start screaming and crying and once i went to the kitchen to grab a knife and tried to commit suicide but my aunt caught me before i could cut myself i might ask my mom if i can go see a therapist because next time no one will be able to stop me i just want my dad back he was everything i had if i could grant one wish it would be to bring my dad back because without him im miserable my dad always told me not to trust people thats why i only have 1 friend and now i will never love anyone again because i already had enough heart breaks and i dont want to suffer over anythig else bu my dad and tbh if i ha to kill myself to bring someone back i would kill myself to bring my dad back T~T i cried alot writing this
And i am crying reading this. Its okay. Everyone have to go. Just turn to God you will dfntly feel peace there.. learn to live without him. I know its soo hard butyes time is the greatest healer.
I love my father and just the thought of losing hurts so much and my mother is not my favorite person. I can very much relate to this but There is a life outside where people will love you and care about you. Please don't take any decisions that your father would not be proud of. I hope you get a beautiful future with lot of happiness
im so sorry you have to go through all this sweetheart
The moment I started reading this, I already knew you were crying. I hope you are okay. You are loved. God loves you. Let the dead rest in peace. Daddy is watching you nd he can only rest well if he sees you moving on
I was also verbally, and emotionally abused, and emotionally manipulated by my older sister. Now my childhood is ruined.
I love my mother I really do, but she told me that I needed to lose a few more pounds and that I should exercise more. For first time when I was twelve. She still does it and recently she said that I should eat slower and tells me not to get up for a second plate. What she doesn't know is that I struggled with Anorexia for 5 months on my own. No one knows. I had to pull myself out of it and it is really hard to not relapse when I am being told that I need to lose the weight.
I am 5'3.5 and weigh 120 pound
Sis.. you got a loving mother. Just speak up with her. She will understand your condition. She will help you. It is treatable.
This makes me feel so lucky that I didn’t grow up in a broken home. But it’s also makes me wonder, at 18 years old, how much I don’t know.
i love this series so much. it really shows the emotional struggle of secrets that we hold from people we trust. especially in this episode. i love how calming this is. they don't over do it. thank you so much.
I am being bullied in school, I kept it hidden from my parents, but when I couldn’t take in anymore and broke down to them... My mother scolded me and shamed me, and my father told me how much of a shameful child I was.
I have been through a lot and my family has been through more then all of those people combined the amount of stuff and pain that I hold in me is Insane I pray you will all be ok🙏🏽.
No matter what you are Worth it, It's not your fault , you are important, you do Matter. No WEAPON formed against thee shall prosper
The one about the mom and suicidal thoughts! And feeling worthless! I immediately started crying because I’m not the only one! There is at least one other person out there! Thank you for that!
I literally felt my heart melt when they read the note about the person and how their mother made them feel worthless. I can totally relate...
I can't control my laughter and sometimes I space out and think about something funny while in a serious situation and start laughing.
I failed life, my grades were verry low,my dad told me that i am a failure and when i asked him why he told me it's my fault and he fights with my mom every day but today he told me that he is proud of me😥
We’ve never talked about my step dad until recently. It turns out that we were all abused differently but tried to keep it from each other.
I told my dad I needed to visit a therapist because I was hurting so much. I don't like to speak much, I don't even have friends and it took so much courage to ask for help. He said that life was hard for everyone gave a lecture on how I'm not the only one suffering. After that he said he was late for office and left.
My family fought a lot when I was young. I blamed myself as I would hear my name come up over and over again. Due to that I adapted on being alone.
Sometimes I jealous of my friends for having a family because I didn’t talked to my family for more then 5 years
Same & i dont want to talk to them for the rest of my life