That means a lot! It was so hard to say goodbye, and I really wanted to make a tribute to the time we had spent together, the love we shared. So glad that shows in the video! ❤️
Dear Daniel, I'm so sorry to know you are sad, but it's part of your life experience and it will make you stronger. Difficulties always make us stronger. Don't imprison your happiness in one person's hands. Your happiness and well-being cannot and must not depend on just one person. Enjoy your real freedom. WE ALL LOVE YOU! Love is too big to be limited to one person. You deserve to be happy! LOTS A LOVE TO YOU!💖💖💖
You're completely right, we should not put our happiness in someone else's hands. And that's kinda the reason we did decide to go separate ways. He has his dreams, and I have mine. They didn't really match, so we have to part ways, unfortunately. But that doesn't mean we doesn't love each other, we do. ❤️ And you deserve to be happy too, Elena! I hope you are, and if not, that you're on your path to become! Wishing you love and sending a big hug! 🤗🥰
Letting go of someone you love sometimes is the biggest act of Love💚 Love is freedom🧚♀️☀️ May your heart be always happy✌️💚 (what a beautiful video, thank you)
I couldn't agree more! If you love something, set it free! It wouldn't be fair to anyone to stay in the relationship and sacrifice our dreams - no matter how much we love each other. Thank you for watching and supporting us in our grief! ❤️🙏🏻
You have made some of the most endearing and timeless memories with Alex. But it just wasn’t meant to be forever. But I truly believe when he lays down at night and closes his eyes… he sees your beautiful eyes and smile.
When I was twenty one in 1980, I met my first love; he’d just lost his childhood best friend and secrete lover. Both Catholic, still living at home, a secret to everyone. When his partner was killed in a Motorcycle accident he went through the grief alone, no one knew the real nature of their relationship. I met him about a year later and we instantly fell in love. I’ll admit, I’m a caretaker and hearing his story broke my heart. For the next three years we were practically platonically together, sans a once a month getaway. At first , I thought he felt extreme guilt , remorse perhaps still in deep Morning. Then, I thought it was his deep catholic religious quilt. He never initiated intimacy. Finally, after three years, the truth, he was in love with someone he thought fit his self image of republican, Regan loving, catholic purity. Oh and I quest he thought he was hot! I tell you this because as painful as what your going through, you can admit, deep down inside, he did love you. That’s a lot! Imagine finding out your first love wasn’t really in love with you but just really needed a friend. But one thing I’ve learned , out of the deepest lows comes some good. Because of the practical celibacy and the depression that followed:, keeping me out of the scene: I probably avoided A.I.D.S. I’m sure of it! That sounds harsh, but life is a Mouther Fucker! You will recover, slowly, but the more you reach out to help others: I moved to Florida and joined the first A.I.D.S coalition. Joined the worst improv comedy troupe in the city: anything to keep my weekends busy, my ass out of trouble. Oh, and two years of therapy made me realize that everyone I’d dated I’d let them choose me. It was time for me to do the picking. Which I finally did and we’ve been together 30 plus years. Do the work, pay attention, seek therapy to see where you may err in judgement. You will survive. I will pray for you, I know what that pain is like. It gets better. Ken, Florida
Wow, I can't imagine how it must have felt, realizing the person you loved never really loved you back. But what a beautiful way to look at it, that the hardship of your broken heart, lead to something good! I'm positive that's how it will be for both me and Alex - in fact, I already know that's the case! Because even if we're not together, we're still the best of friends. And just that alone is worth everything. I know there's someone out there, that I can trust 100%. Alex knows the same, and that's something we truly value. I'm glad to hear that you finally started thinking about what YOU wanted, and ended up with someone you've now been with for 30+ years! That's wonderful! I hope the same goes for me! Thank you for your comment, and I wish you a Happy New Year! 🥰
You've made a beautiful video of precious memories. Those times you shared will never change, but now you have to follow different paths. You're a kind, gentle soul. Don't let this sadness change that. I hope you find a great companion with whom you can grow together. Hugs.
Thank you, Roger. Exactly, it’s time to start walking down a different path. Hopefully one I’ll love, even though Alex won’t be taking that path with me in that way. And I will really try to not let the sadness change me! Thank you for such sweet compliments. How are you enjoying the holidays? I hope it’s been lovely! ❤️
@@DanielErik We had a nice gathering with friends and then a traditional holiday dinner on Christmas day. I take vacation through new years and use it to catch up on personal tasks and think/plan for the year ahead. So, it's often a time of reflection as well. Do you have this week off work? How might you spend the time if so?
I put off watching this as I knew it would be sad. I can't imagine how difficult this time must be for you both, but for you especially as their are memories all around you. But what love you both have for each other to realize that in the long run you need to be apart.
Thank you for saying that. That's something some people don't understand. They think the love wasn't strong enough and that's why one breaks up. No! For us it was the absolute opposite! We loved and cared for each other so much, that we knew what was best for one another. And this was what was best, in the long run. Thank you for watching, and I hope you're having a lovely week! 🥰💕
Oh Babe. I laughed, cried and felt this all with you. I’m so sorry for the way things turned out. I am sure this love is real and it’s for always. It just looks different now. I love you. Hugs to you and kisses.
I’m also sorry. But I’m also so happy and grateful that I did get this time with Alex. I wouldn’t change it for the world! Like you said, the love is there, it’s just different now. Love you and sending hugs and kisses! ❤️
Dear Daniele I am seeing all the emotions following your journey so glad you have moved forward in such a positive way since this sad time in your life
oh Daniel, I sit here almost weeping. I really believe that where true love is there will be a way for this to work out for you still to be together. My heart aches for you right now. Where there's a will, there's a way! I'm glad though that you will still stay in touch.
I believe that as well! The only question is, maybe that love is supposed to be as best friends? I know we still love each other, but it seems like we can't be together as in a romantic relationship. 😔
@@lelandpeck4585 aww, thank you so much for giving me a thought! ❤️ I’m doing okay. I’ve been at the country house but back home now. It’s been a gray day, but still got some time out in nature to process everything. About to take a hot bath now. how are you doing, Leland? 💕
@@DanielErik spending about 10 days with some family members here in Venice, Florida. Will be heading back to St Petersburg on Jan 5. Right now here in Venice, Florida its 75 degrees (F). Glad you are doing ok.
Very beautiful memories indeed. I will carry them with me for the rest of my life. I'm glad to say that we're now best friends, and still text every day. 💕
So sorry you are having to go through this. I can only imagine the almost overwhelming emotions that your experiencing & how your heart aches for Alex. I wrap my arms around you ((((((Daniel)))))) & will keep you in my thoughts. ❤
I’m sorry too. But also so grateful that I got this time with Alex that I did. Wouldn’t change anything! Thank you for the nice hug, sending you one back! And hoping your holidays are nice! ❤️
Oh Daniel, wish there was something I could do or say to make you feel better. I've been there done this and it's not easy :( but what don't kill you makes you stronger. Hang in there sweet man, you'll find love again and be happy again, if not already. Sending a friendly hug your way in hopes it helps your day and days get easier.
It's hard to let go of someone you love so much. It's ten months later and you have let go and let love, and have a new life for yourself. Take care, Jenny
its the most beautifull and sad video i've seen recently... it makes me cry coz i remembered my ex love while watching . to say goodbye its the hardest thing ever. i hope now you are much better emotionally !!! big hug from israel !
Oh, yes. Saying goodbye is so extremely hard. I do feel better now though, and we still stay in contact! We talked a little just earlier today! 🥰 I hop you also feel better after your breakup!
Daniel I just found you and subbed. Love is eternal even though our human manifestation [body] may leave and part from us, the love is always there. You and Alex shared an infinite love bond, he will always be a part of you. He is no more gone than any other part of you. Hugs and love to you........Ray
Thank you, that's a very beautiful way to look at it! I also believe that our "energies" can live on even long after we're physically not here. And the love between me and Alex will definitely live on! ❤️ Thank you so much for you sweet comment, and I'm happy you liked my content to the point that you subbed! 😊🙏🏻
Dear Daniel, I am really sorry that you have to go through this. Each time seeing you cry, I just can't help myself but crying together with you. My heart aches for you right now. Sob... I just want you to know. You look amazing. You have an angel-like face with the right amount of facial hair. And those eyes, man, it's really hard to take one's eyes off you. You also have a body and skin to die for. Now let's talk about how smart, intelligent and talented you are. Look at all the amazing videos and pictures that you have shared with the world. One word - breathtaking! Other than great narration with your soothing voice, the cinematography is stunning and the music you choose fits right in for all the videos. It is also wonderful for global viewers to hear you speak perfect English with a generic accent. On top of that, you are a vegan and a nature lover. You saved an ant from a campfire. How many people on earth would do that? When you are given a chance to make 3 wishes, none of those wishes that you made are of your own interest. You wanted world peace, to end all animal cruelty, and last but not least, you wanted happiness for Alex instead of for yourself. That shows that you are a good person with a beautiful soul. I can go on and on... but all I wanted you to know is that you are amazing. You are still grieving and that is fine. One day, you will be back on your feet again. So please stay strong. I wish I could go to you right now to give you a big, big hug just to embrace you with all the love I have. Meanwhile, sending you virtual vegan hugs. Love and kisses.
Thank you so much for your love and support, it really means a lot! ❤️ And wow, I don't know where to start with all these compliments! You have really put a huge smile on my face! You've even helped me feel a bit of gratitude and joy in all of my sadness. You have no idea how much that means to me! My eyes are actually tearing up, reading everything you wrote. Thank you! ❤️🙏🏻 I'm sending back lots of vegan hugs, and hope you've enjoyed the holidays so far! And that the new year will be amazing for you! 🤗💕
@@DanielErik Thank you for the kind wishes. You deserve all the compliments. You are too perfect for this imperfect world! From where I come from, people will put you on a throne and start worshipping you (okay, this part is me kidding to make you laugh, or at least smile, haha). If I recall correctly, I have travelled from Denmark to Sweden and ate at a place called Vegeriet at Helsingborg. Have you been to that cafe before? If I ever come to your country again, I will try to pay you a visit. I can cook you a warm and hearty vegan meal to make you happy. And I promise to bring an extra set of silverware (wink)! Meanwhile, promise to stay strong and take care. xoxoxo 😘#iamhereforyou #veganlove #youarenotalone #youareawesome
Oh, if you ever come to Sweden it would be lovely to show you around a little! ☺️ I've never been to that café though! My favorite place here in Stockholm is Hermans, but it has gotten so ridiculously expensive, so I rarely go there anymore... 😭
i meet someone, my first love too. but he's first love is his best friend too. i know he still like him, but I will stay with him until he will be sure of his heart i'm ready of what will be the outcome. 💔
I doesn't, and I know there's still a lot in store for me in the future! I'm looking forward to the next year as well, to see what it brings! Hoping for the best for both of us! 🥰
I really feel sorry for you Daniel.. I know it hapened some time ago and hope you feel better now... I really enjoy your videos and your work ! Hope we can meet one day ! Love
Omg Daniel. My heart breaks next to yours. You are going to have to go through very hard times and nothing I can tell you is going to help. It is the chronicle of an announced departure that has now come true. All of us who have gone through this, we know that is possible to overcome it but it is a process that is built day by day with ups and downs. I know that now it seems impossible but you are going to smile again, to fall in love again. Time to time It's a grieving that it has to be traversed. How to send you a tight hug and make it feel like one. I wish I knew how to help you. Love you Daniel. As a song says: " You are bigger than the sea you are sinking in"
Hi Liliana, and thank you for your comment! ❤️ I really like that saying about being bigger than the sea we sink in. I also often say that "time heals all wounds, but might leave a scar". I know things will get better, but I also know that Alex and this relationship, is now a part of me and even if I heal, that part will still be there, and be missed. Which is a bittersweet feeling for me. It will forever make me sad, but it will also forever make me happy looking back at everything we did. Thank you so much for the hug you're sending. It means more than you know. ❤️ And I hope you're enjoying the holidays!
@@DanielErik Of course sweetie, we are made of scars and this will mark a stage of your history that enriched you and that you will be able to remember without pain. All my my love and support to you soulful heart. Keep blessed.
I felt sad while watching this video twice Daniel. Alex and you had reall good time together but then the end comes., and that´s make me totally sad. Hope the wound will heal little by little as time goes by! By the way, thank you for dropping to my channel last week.
It was a joy discovering your channel the other week! And yeah, they say time will heal all wounds... Which might be true, but I believe there will always be a scar there to remind you of it. Doesn't make me regret anything though! We had such an amazing time together! ❤️
Daniel I wish I could say I’ve never been heartbroken, also that I can’t emphasize how overwhelmed with grief and pain you’re feeling in the aftermath of your breakup.. I lost 7 1/2 years of being tormented constantly, by a man who had a very horrible and toxic personality.. He would curse in an ear piercing tone, as though I was a “terrible plaque to his wellness.. I didn’t feel deserving of love, because my heart had been shattered in so many pieces, to the point where my love meant absolutely nothing to him.. I often wake in the middle of the night, hearing is tormenting words, that had enough magnitude that my heart didn’t know what love felt like the last year of our relationship.. my ex enjoyed tormenting my heart, he had such a lack of care for both my daily wellness but also was “a double edged sword “ in his demeanor when he was around my family… The torment I experienced has left me unable to consider a romantic relationship, because he severely damaged my self-esteem and self-love… I didn’t at all deserve the constant “ abandonment and trauma he created .. Thankfully being single now since 2017, my heart has regained very joyful and very meaningful happiness… I don’t miss at all being violated by such a angry individual, furthermore not being in a unstable romantic relationship has been a huge blessing. Currently my life has gained some amazing friendships since my relationship ended, also my self love is stronger now because I’m not dating someone who’s hurt me so greatly.. I’m sorry Daniel that you’re breakup has caused you so much heartache, that you daily miss the love your partner gave to you, however please rediscover in your heart, that your you’re worthy of being loved wholeheartedly by someone who deserves your love . I hope you’re followers on your social media accounts, help provide you with empathy and compassion on behalf of their care for you…also it’s very evident your a wonderful person and I wish you prosperity being a RUclips creator as well. Seasons Greetings from the East Coast of the United States 🙏💐
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear how your relationship was, and how it left you feeling so broken and even unworthy of love. It sounds absolutely horrible, but I'm glad you're out of that now! And it sounds like you're doing a lot better! That makes me glad! Thank you for sharing your story. Sending you a big, warm hug! And you do deserve love! ❤️
As I am watching your video it made me feel so sad and it reminds me that I should be preparing myself about this kind of situation because I know one day me and my love one will be separate too and honestly I am not prepared on this. The pain is like im going to die specially when you have a good memories with each other. God bless you❤
Dear Daniel, I am so sorry to see you in so much pain. There is nothing I can say that will make you feel better. Just know that there are people who love you and that you can reach out any time you require someone to just listen. Sending you the biggest hug. 🤗💚
Dear Lourens, thank you so much for your support. I really appreciate it! And I know time will heal my wounds. Maybe it will leave a scar, but I will be healed. Sending you a big hug back! ❤️
Daniel, I can imagine how hurt you must have been. I hope you are strong again. I don't think I would be able to deal well if I had to break up with my partner. It would break me emotionally. You're a loving man 😘
Ohh this Video was proposed to me... now.. one year later I hope you are good balanced in your feelings and I hope you still have a good frindship with Alex. You're such a nice person. Good luck. Stay save. Heidi
Watching Daniel thanks for sharing your memories loving yourself is the best don't you worry someday there is someone is better for you just be who you are god bless
Hi there, and thank you so much! And yes, I will be who I am, I will never try to hide myself! And then everything else will follow naturally! Wishing you a great day! 🥰
Oh Daniel I saw your post on FB and watch your video and made me cry now😢I was not expecting sad ending 😮😢I hope you feel better ❤️🩹 make me feel sad when you cry 😢oh I 🙏 you be okay and find happiness ❤
Aww, I’m sorry I made you cry! But also glad that I was able to deliver how I felt, through this video. I do feel better now! We’re still best friends and talk every day! Thank you, I wish you happiness as well! 💕
Daniel I have watched this a couple of time because I can relate to it, mine is a long story but I was emotionally destroyed and felt I had been emotionally abused. Hang on to this these thoughts. I believe everything in life happens for a reason, not always apparent at the time but afterwards when you look back you realise things could have been much different and potentially worse if the change hadn't happened. I always say to myself that when we hit dark periods in our lives it is like entering a tunnel. We just have to get through it and come out the other end into the bright light and we are stronger for the experience, stay focussed on the bright light. Good always rises from bad. Hang onto your memories but don't dwell on the past, there is a whole new world waiting for you Daniel, believe me there is and I know. Your next partner will come along when you least expect it and from somewhere totally out of the blue. Don't go looking for love, it will find you and when it does find you give yourself wholeheartedly to it and don't be scared to do that.
Tack, Ragge! Ja, är det menat så hittar vi tillbaka till varandra! Vi hörs fortfarande dagligen, men tufft när man är på andra sidan jorden, och man bara vill vara i den andres närhet - oavsett om det bara är som vänner... 😭
It is heartbreaking to see tears on your kind and beautiful face my dear Daniel! It is when distance is required that love shines through the most. The emptiness of absence makes us love harder. It is all the memories that come back to us and the tears that come to our eyes that prove how much "letting go of love" is difficult to navigate. I truly understand since I lived the same experience of distance relationship! However I am here for you. Bisou mon cher Daniel🥰😭
You're so kind! ❤️ It was really hard to say goodbye, but it was fot the best. If we wouldn't, our love would slowly have shifted into resentment. Someone of us would have had to give up on their dreams, and that's not fair. This way, we can still be close friends! And we actually do talk every day! 🥰
This made me sad the whole day ... I remember all the pain ive been through when me and my ex had to let go off each other..... So much pain that I felt numb.. and afraid so afraid to love again😥😥😥😥😥😥😥
I really don't understand why schools are not educating young people how to form and maintain human relationships and face challenges of life. What else is there other than these?
There's a lot school should educate about life, but doesn't, unfortunately. I'm glad Alex and I have been able to remain friends! He was even here visiting me, when I moved up to my country house in north Sweden. That means a lot! ❤️
I am a new sub! And I feel obligated to give tough love in this circumstance! "You both are amazingly gorgeous men with a zest and love for life and each other". I can see how much you both are in love with each other and embrace each other's quirks. But where Alex leaves to the states cause he can't manage Sweden and Daniel stays behind in Sweden it's all wrong!! Personally I would of followed Alex to the states. Daniel you need to "bend with the wind" and accept probably a good decision for Alex's work to move! It doesn't have to be forever! You both must have an open relationship with each other? But I see you both and think what a catch to love each other you are both eye candy OMG!, sweet, caring, fun loving, you both have it all in each other, let go of personal needs keep the love strong it's the most important! There needs to be a realistic revaluation of your relationship! I just hate to see these beautiful couples break up, follow him!
Hi there, and thank you for you thoughts! I totally agree with you about "keeping the love strong" - which is exactly why we did break up! For anyone of us to give up the life we wanted, to be with the other peson, would only bring up feelings of resentment. Which in the long run would kill the love we have for each other. By breaking up, we can remember what a beautiful thing we shared, and stay life-long friends! This way, we can keep loving each other - just not in a romantic way. But that's definitely better than our love turning into resentment. About me moving to the US, there's several reasons I don't want that. The biggest thing is that I've spent enough time in the US to recognize that it's not a "living" friendly country. There's no healthcare for everyone, society gives up on people and let them live on the streets, it's so expensive to educate yourself that many will literally never financially recover from it, there's no paid vacation for everyone, medication costs a fortune, and there's no paternity leave and so on. I absolutely LOVE the US, but not as a country to live in. I love being there, visting and doing fun things! But in my eyes, it's not a country I would want to settle down in. Where I live now, I have all of the things I mention above, plus some. For an example, I'm back in school learning photography, and not only is it free - I actually get a small amount of money each month for educating myself! So I will definitely go back to the US, especially to visit Alex! ❤️ But when it comes to building a life, I would honestly choose Sweden every day of the week. With all of this said though, I completely understand where you're coming from - you're rooting for love! And that's beautiful! 🥰 And you're not the first one who has mentioned all of this, so maybe I should make a video where I go more into detail about it. ☺️ And I really appreciate that you care! If it means anything, I can say that both Alex and I are happy, and we're best friends! We talk everyday. And you might have seen in one of my other videos, that he has already been here visiting me. 🥰 Thank you for you comment, and I hope you understand where I'm coming from! 💕
I feel way better already! We're still best friends and write to each other daily. Thanks for mentioning how much you like my videos! That makes me so glad to hear! 🥰🙏🏻
Wow recien te conoci hoy por un blog que hiciste, y leyendo los comentarios tengo la idea de los que estas pasando, porque no se mucho ingles, y espero puedas leerlo, se que estas pasando por un momento triste y es dificil, y lo que diga puede que no ayude mucho, pero quiero compartir estas palabras, yo vi que compartiste muchos momentos con esa persona, miralo como una razon por la que se conocieron compartir un pequeño momento de su vida y ser felices, muchas veces tenemos que soltar personas aunque no queramos pero es parte de la vida, si es verdad no es facil porque te acostumbraste, pero ahora solo queda recordar lo bonito de ello y no lo feo, aprendiste mucho, de ahora en adelante debes darte un tiempo para sanar tu yo interno, eres tu prioridad, la vida aun continua, tienes que seguir adelante a pesar de todo, hay muchas cosas hermosas en esta vida y no te lo debes de perder, tienes que vivir y son experiencias que vamos a tener en esta vida, solo recuerdalo y ganaste un amigo en mi, si necesitas apoyo no estas solo, puedes contar conmigo. Animos Amigo :)
Mi inglés es pésimo, así que lo haré en español. Hay historias de amor que no deberían tener final, te abrazo con el corazón desde México. Llegué por el vídeo de tu abuelita y ahora veo que terminaste con tu novio. 2022 fue un año difícil para ti, espero que ahora todo vaya bien. Fuerza campeón. 💙
The beautiful thing about this love story though, is that it didn't really end! It ended in the way of us being together as a couple, but we still love each other as friends and talk daily! 2023 had overall been a good year! I finally got to move up to the countryside up north, which I've dreamt of! So that was huge! That has definitely given me a lot of anxiety on the road there though, and that was less great! 😂 But overall, it has been a really good year! I hope it has been for you as well, so far! ❤️
To be honest, I have a hard time figuring that out myself. Having a hard time processing my own feelings about it all. I'm in chock, even though I knew he was gonna leave more than a month before he actually did. 😔
How interesting that I just watched and commented on a video of the two of you camping together. I'd never seen these videos before. My comment was about your positive energy you exude. You do not need someone else to make you whole, because you have more inside then maybe you yourself realize. I'll be brutally honest in this comment, and I in no way mean this to be too negative, but as I watched that other video, I kept thinking, this guy seems like he deserves more then the one he's with. I can see you being around extremely artistic people for some reason. You have a lot to offer anyone, not just a partner, but anyone.
I'm so glad you've found my videos! I hope you'll like them! They are more about my life at the countryside now, than being with my boyfriend. I mean, we did break up after all - and I leaved the city for a life closer to nature! Alex is an absolutely wonderful person, anyone who ends up together with him is extremely lucky! But it wasn't right for me, no. Just like I won't right for Alex. We're really good and close friends now, and that feels really good! More like what we're "supposed" to be. 🥰
@@DanielErik See, even your comment has positive energy. Being in nature does something for people, it brings peace to the Spirit within you. Birds, animals, even bugs sometimes 😄, can have an affect on us. Glad things are well with you.
I horribly, desperately, strongly just want to HUG you. I WANT to HUG you and tell you that everything will YET be amazing. IT just will. Trust me, from the deepest shit I am in, I know -Things not only get better, they get AMAZING. Love and hugs to you.
Thank you for this!! Sending you lots of digital hugs back!! 🤗🥰 This was a very hard time, but it does feel better now. Alex and I have been able to remain great friends! He was even here visiting this summer, when I moved up to the countryside! That means a lot, he's such a good friend and person! I deeply appreciate you reaching out and sending me hugs! Much love to you, all the way from Sweden! ❤️
You just cry and one day you will stop. A lot of people say you shouldn't put your happiness in another persons hand! Then my question is , why have that person? The fact that it hurts so much just proves how real it was. I dont really know you , but my heart feels your pain! I was with my partner for 29 yrs, and lost him to leukemia! My situation is different and my pain is different, but it is pain nonetheless. ❤❤❤❤
Hi there! I'm so sorry to hear you've gone through pain like that. 29 years is a very long time. Like you said, the fact that it hurts so much is such a proof of how much it all meant! I hope your breakup lead to something beautiful, ultimately. For me and Alex, we're both best friends now! I'm so happy we were able to remain in each others lives! ❤️
I know it will. It's though right now, especially when it's the holidays as well. But I know it will be okay! And people like you, who encourages and support me in all of this! ❤️ I hope you're enjoying the holidays! 💕
Que lindo você. Estou conhecendo seu canal através desse vídeo postado no canal RexRed com uma linda música de fundo. Extremamente madura sua decisão. Parabéns! Sim, quem ama solta. Atitude altruísta a sua deixá-lo construir seus sonhos. Nem sempre é assim. O apego é grande as pessoas que amamos. Também penso como você. Sou hetero mas não sei responder porque amo tanto os gays. Isso se fortaleceu mais quando assisti a serie Queer as Folk.(2000-2004 USA) Sou grande defensora. Amo vocês. A você desejo felicidades e que você possa ainda vibrar muito com o sucesso do seu amor do seu amigo. Beijos 🥰🥰🌻🌻🇧🇷🇧🇷(Brasil)
Oh, I had no idea I was on that channel! Now I have to go check it out! Thank you so much for congratulating me! And I'm so glad and thankful that you seem to be such an advocate for gay rights! I really appreciate that, we need more straight people like you! ❤️ I also like the show Queer as Folk (US)! Again, thank you so much for watching, and for your support for everyone to love whoever they love! Sending you a big hug!! 🥰
We wanted different things out of life. I want a more simple life at the countryside, close to nature, while he wants focus on his acting career. Which means he basically has to live in a big city, a bigger one than we have here in Sweden. So we would have to do long distance, which we don't want to... But he's coming here to visit in less than a week, actually!
Не понятно, почему он бросил Даниеля? Может испугался рака? Я могу предположить, что он узнал о каком-то агрессивном виде рака, с маленьким процентом к ремиссии и решил не мучиться и сразу расставить точки над i ?
Hi there! I don't fully understand your comment, since I'm using Google Translate. But this had nothing to do with cancer. We just wanted different things out of life. For an example, I was longing for a life at the countryside, while Alex wasn't ready for that. We do reamin great friends, and I'm so, so thankful for that! 💕 Wishing you a beautiful new week! 🥰
This is the most beautiful representation of a beautiful relationship I think I've ever seen
That means a lot! It was so hard to say goodbye, and I really wanted to make a tribute to the time we had spent together, the love we shared. So glad that shows in the video! ❤️
You have made beautiful memories with Alex. Its ok to be sad and when you least expect it, love will find you again
Thank you! I do hope it will find me again! And I hope it will find you as well, if it hasn’t already! ❤️
Where do you live there like to meet up with you there ok love David 🤩😝🤩😝
@@davidiorwerthjones1891hello
When you love a person and part with them, it simply causes pain. It touched me so much, dear Daniel.
Dear Daniel, I'm so sorry to know you are sad, but it's part of your life experience and it will make you stronger. Difficulties always make us stronger.
Don't imprison your happiness in one person's hands. Your happiness and well-being cannot and must not depend on just one person.
Enjoy your real freedom.
WE ALL LOVE YOU! Love is too big to be limited to one person.
You deserve to be happy!
LOTS A LOVE TO YOU!💖💖💖
You're completely right, we should not put our happiness in someone else's hands. And that's kinda the reason we did decide to go separate ways. He has his dreams, and I have mine. They didn't really match, so we have to part ways, unfortunately. But that doesn't mean we doesn't love each other, we do. ❤️
And you deserve to be happy too, Elena! I hope you are, and if not, that you're on your path to become! Wishing you love and sending a big hug! 🤗🥰
Letting go of someone you love sometimes is the biggest act of Love💚 Love is freedom🧚♀️☀️ May your heart be always happy✌️💚 (what a beautiful video, thank you)
I couldn't agree more! If you love something, set it free! It wouldn't be fair to anyone to stay in the relationship and sacrifice our dreams - no matter how much we love each other. Thank you for watching and supporting us in our grief! ❤️🙏🏻
@@DanielErik 💚
I can feel the love that you shared through the Video, so beautiful ❤❤. Thank you ❤❤
Such a beautiful spirit you have, may the universe give you all the love you deserve. 🌍🌞🌈
You have made some of the most endearing and timeless memories with Alex. But it just wasn’t meant to be forever. But I truly believe when he lays down at night and closes his eyes… he sees your beautiful eyes and smile.
When I was twenty one in 1980, I met my first love; he’d just lost his childhood best friend and secrete lover. Both Catholic, still living at home, a secret to everyone. When his partner was killed in a Motorcycle accident he went through the grief alone, no one knew the real nature of their relationship.
I met him about a year later and we instantly fell in love. I’ll admit, I’m a caretaker and hearing his story broke my heart. For the next three years we were practically platonically together, sans a once a month getaway. At first , I thought he felt extreme guilt , remorse perhaps still in deep Morning. Then, I thought it was his deep catholic religious quilt. He never initiated intimacy.
Finally, after three years, the truth, he was in love with someone he thought fit his self image of republican, Regan loving, catholic purity. Oh and I quest he thought he was hot!
I tell you this because as painful as what your going through, you can admit, deep down inside, he did love you. That’s a lot! Imagine finding out your first love wasn’t really in love with you but just really needed a friend. But one thing I’ve learned , out of the deepest lows comes some good. Because of the practical celibacy and the depression that followed:, keeping me out of the scene: I probably avoided A.I.D.S. I’m sure of it! That sounds harsh, but life is a Mouther Fucker! You will recover, slowly, but the more you reach out to help others: I moved to Florida and joined the first A.I.D.S coalition. Joined the worst improv comedy troupe in the city: anything to keep my weekends busy, my ass out of trouble. Oh, and two years of therapy made me realize that everyone I’d dated I’d let them choose me. It was time for me to do the picking. Which I finally did and we’ve been together 30 plus years.
Do the work, pay attention, seek therapy to see where you may err in judgement. You will survive. I will pray for you, I know what that pain is like. It gets better. Ken, Florida
Wow, I can't imagine how it must have felt, realizing the person you loved never really loved you back. But what a beautiful way to look at it, that the hardship of your broken heart, lead to something good! I'm positive that's how it will be for both me and Alex - in fact, I already know that's the case! Because even if we're not together, we're still the best of friends. And just that alone is worth everything. I know there's someone out there, that I can trust 100%. Alex knows the same, and that's something we truly value.
I'm glad to hear that you finally started thinking about what YOU wanted, and ended up with someone you've now been with for 30+ years! That's wonderful! I hope the same goes for me!
Thank you for your comment, and I wish you a Happy New Year! 🥰
You've made a beautiful video of precious memories. Those times you shared will never change, but now you have to follow different paths. You're a kind, gentle soul. Don't let this sadness change that. I hope you find a great companion with whom you can grow together. Hugs.
Thank you, Roger. Exactly, it’s time to start walking down a different path. Hopefully one I’ll love, even though Alex won’t be taking that path with me in that way. And I will really try to not let the sadness change me! Thank you for such sweet compliments.
How are you enjoying the holidays? I hope it’s been lovely! ❤️
@@DanielErik We had a nice gathering with friends and then a traditional holiday dinner on Christmas day. I take vacation through new years and use it to catch up on personal tasks and think/plan for the year ahead. So, it's often a time of reflection as well.
Do you have this week off work? How might you spend the time if so?
I put off watching this as I knew it would be sad. I can't imagine how difficult this time must be for you both, but for you especially as their are memories all around you. But what love you both have for each other to realize that in the long run you need to be apart.
Thank you for saying that. That's something some people don't understand. They think the love wasn't strong enough and that's why one breaks up. No! For us it was the absolute opposite! We loved and cared for each other so much, that we knew what was best for one another. And this was what was best, in the long run.
Thank you for watching, and I hope you're having a lovely week! 🥰💕
I just found this video. Crying , but being happy for your friendship with Alex. I hope you can meet with him many times. Love from Florida .❤
Oh Babe. I laughed, cried and felt this all with you.
I’m so sorry for the way things turned out. I am sure this love is real and it’s for always. It just looks different now.
I love you. Hugs to you and kisses.
I’m also sorry. But I’m also so happy and grateful that I did get this time with Alex. I wouldn’t change it for the world! Like you said, the love is there, it’s just different now.
Love you and sending hugs and kisses! ❤️
Dear Daniele I am seeing all the emotions following your journey so glad you have moved forward in such a positive way since this sad time in your life
Thank you! Yes, I'm very glad of where I am now! 🥰
Even though this is a painful time I am so glad you have such wonderful memories and experienced a great love.
Yes, these memories means the world to me! And I would have done it all over again, including the parts that hurts! THat's how special it's been! ❤️
So sorry for your loss Daniel. It happens to all of us. Sometimes love is just not enough. But in time you will Go and Love Some More.
Yes, sometimes love is just not enough. But hopefully I’ll find it again! And I hope you’ll find or have already find it, too! 🥰
oh Daniel, I sit here almost weeping. I really believe that where true love is there will be a way for this to work out for you still to be together. My heart aches for you right now. Where there's a will, there's a way! I'm glad though that you will still stay in touch.
I believe that as well! The only question is, maybe that love is supposed to be as best friends? I know we still love each other, but it seems like we can't be together as in a romantic relationship. 😔
Daniel, its Friday, Dec 30 here in sunny, warm Florida and I'm thinking of you. I hope you are doing ok.
@@lelandpeck4585 aww, thank you so much for giving me a thought! ❤️ I’m doing okay. I’ve been at the country house but back home now. It’s been a gray day, but still got some time out in nature to process everything. About to take a hot bath now. how are you doing, Leland? 💕
@@DanielErik spending about 10 days with some family members here in Venice, Florida. Will be heading back to St Petersburg on Jan 5. Right now here in Venice, Florida its 75 degrees (F). Glad you are doing ok.
@@lelandpeck4585 that sounds wonderful! I hope you’ll enjoy your time with your family! 💕 And that’s definitely warmer than it’s been here! 😅
Dear Daniel, sending you lots of love!!!
Thank you, dear Gioia! It means more than you know! ❤️🙏🏻 Sending you big hug back! 🤗
Beautiful couple. Beautiful memories. So sorry Daniel. Heartbreaking. Thanks for sharing with us
Very beautiful memories indeed. I will carry them with me for the rest of my life. I'm glad to say that we're now best friends, and still text every day. 💕
Great video. Awesome journey. So sorry for your pain! Hope all gets well !
Thank you! It was a wonderful and beautiful journey! Not regretting a thing! We're able to still be best of friends, and that feels right! ❤️
“The greatest thing you'll ever learn is to love and be loved in return”
So sorry you are having to go through this. I can only imagine the almost overwhelming emotions that your experiencing & how your heart aches for Alex. I wrap my arms around you ((((((Daniel)))))) & will keep you in my thoughts. ❤
I’m sorry too. But also so grateful that I got this time with Alex that I did. Wouldn’t change anything! Thank you for the nice hug, sending you one back! And hoping your holidays are nice! ❤️
Oh Daniel, wish there was something I could do or say to make you feel better. I've been there done this and it's not easy :( but what don't kill you makes you stronger. Hang in there sweet man, you'll find love again and be happy again, if not already. Sending a friendly hug your way in hopes it helps your day and days get easier.
Thank you for the hug, Donald! I'm sending one back, and ope none of us has to go through heart break again! 💕
It's hard to let go of someone you love so much. It's ten months later and you have let go and let love, and have a new life for yourself. Take care, Jenny
Dearest Daniel, i send you the power and the power of love!!! I think of you ! Petra.
You're always so kind, Petra! ❤️🙏🏻
You too, Daniel!@@DanielErik
@@petrap.3125❤. Hello from Poland 🇵🇱 and rural life...( channel)
its the most beautifull and sad video i've seen recently... it makes me cry coz i remembered my ex love while watching . to say goodbye its the hardest thing ever.
i hope now you are much better emotionally !!! big hug from israel !
Oh, yes. Saying goodbye is so extremely hard. I do feel better now though, and we still stay in contact! We talked a little just earlier today! 🥰 I hop you also feel better after your breakup!
Daniel I just found you and subbed. Love is eternal even though our human manifestation [body] may leave and part from us, the love is always there. You and Alex shared an infinite love bond, he will always be a part of you. He is no more gone than any other part of you. Hugs and love to you........Ray
Thank you, that's a very beautiful way to look at it! I also believe that our "energies" can live on even long after we're physically not here. And the love between me and Alex will definitely live on! ❤️ Thank you so much for you sweet comment, and I'm happy you liked my content to the point that you subbed! 😊🙏🏻
Dear Daniel, i wish i would be there to hug you and say that it's going to be okay. ❤️😊🫂
Lots of Love from India🇮🇳
Hi Rajiv, and thank you so much! Sending you a digital hug! 🥰
Dear Daniel, I am really sorry that you have to go through this. Each time seeing you cry, I just can't help myself but crying together with you. My heart aches for you right now. Sob...
I just want you to know. You look amazing. You have an angel-like face with the right amount of facial hair. And those eyes, man, it's really hard to take one's eyes off you. You also have a body and skin to die for.
Now let's talk about how smart, intelligent and talented you are. Look at all the amazing videos and pictures that you have shared with the world. One word - breathtaking! Other than great narration with your soothing voice, the cinematography is stunning and the music you choose fits right in for all the videos. It is also wonderful for global viewers to hear you speak perfect English with a generic accent.
On top of that, you are a vegan and a nature lover. You saved an ant from a campfire. How many people on earth would do that? When you are given a chance to make 3 wishes, none of those wishes that you made are of your own interest. You wanted world peace, to end all animal cruelty, and last but not least, you wanted happiness for Alex instead of for yourself. That shows that you are a good person with a beautiful soul.
I can go on and on... but all I wanted you to know is that you are amazing. You are still grieving and that is fine. One day, you will be back on your feet again. So please stay strong. I wish I could go to you right now to give you a big, big hug just to embrace you with all the love I have. Meanwhile, sending you virtual vegan hugs. Love and kisses.
Thank you so much for your love and support, it really means a lot! ❤️ And wow, I don't know where to start with all these compliments! You have really put a huge smile on my face! You've even helped me feel a bit of gratitude and joy in all of my sadness. You have no idea how much that means to me! My eyes are actually tearing up, reading everything you wrote. Thank you! ❤️🙏🏻
I'm sending back lots of vegan hugs, and hope you've enjoyed the holidays so far! And that the new year will be amazing for you! 🤗💕
@@DanielErik Thank you for the kind wishes. You deserve all the compliments. You are too perfect for this imperfect world! From where I come from, people will put you on a throne and start worshipping you (okay, this part is me kidding to make you laugh, or at least smile, haha). If I recall correctly, I have travelled from Denmark to Sweden and ate at a place called Vegeriet at Helsingborg. Have you been to that cafe before? If I ever come to your country again, I will try to pay you a visit. I can cook you a warm and hearty vegan meal to make you happy. And I promise to bring an extra set of silverware (wink)! Meanwhile, promise to stay strong and take care. xoxoxo 😘#iamhereforyou #veganlove #youarenotalone #youareawesome
Oh, if you ever come to Sweden it would be lovely to show you around a little! ☺️ I've never been to that café though! My favorite place here in Stockholm is Hermans, but it has gotten so ridiculously expensive, so I rarely go there anymore... 😭
i meet someone, my first love too. but he's first love is his best friend too. i know he still like him, but I will stay with him until he will be sure of his heart i'm ready of what will be the outcome. 💔
@@rqrjq4iari4 oh, I’m sorry to hear he still likes his best friend. I hope everything sorts itself out somehow, soon! Best wishes! ❤️
Sad thing happens in our life. but not to blame life as we have already experienced all the beautiful part of it! wish you can go through this!
Thank you, I will get through it! ❤️
Your story does not end here. 😊I am looking forward to the next year
I doesn't, and I know there's still a lot in store for me in the future! I'm looking forward to the next year as well, to see what it brings! Hoping for the best for both of us! 🥰
I really feel sorry for you Daniel.. I know it hapened some time ago and hope you feel better now... I really enjoy your videos and your work ! Hope we can meet one day ! Love
Thank you, I appreciate that! I do feel better now, and we're good friends! But it was really hard back when we broke up. Much love to you! 💕
Omg Daniel. My heart breaks next to yours.
You are going to have to go through very hard times and nothing I can tell you is going to help.
It is the chronicle of an announced departure that has now come true. All of us who have gone through this, we know that is possible to overcome it but it is a process that is built day by day with ups and downs. I know that now it seems impossible but you are going to smile again, to fall in love again. Time to time It's a grieving that it has to be traversed.
How to send you a tight hug and make it feel like one. I wish I knew how to help you.
Love you Daniel. As a song says: " You are bigger than the sea you are sinking in"
Hi Liliana, and thank you for your comment! ❤️ I really like that saying about being bigger than the sea we sink in. I also often say that "time heals all wounds, but might leave a scar". I know things will get better, but I also know that Alex and this relationship, is now a part of me and even if I heal, that part will still be there, and be missed. Which is a bittersweet feeling for me. It will forever make me sad, but it will also forever make me happy looking back at everything we did.
Thank you so much for the hug you're sending. It means more than you know. ❤️ And I hope you're enjoying the holidays!
@@DanielErik
Of course sweetie, we are made of scars and this will mark a stage of your history that enriched you and that you will be able to remember without pain.
All my my love and support to you soulful heart. Keep blessed.
I felt sad while watching this video twice Daniel. Alex and you had reall good time together but then the end comes., and that´s make me totally sad. Hope the wound will heal little by little as time goes by! By the way, thank you for dropping to my channel last week.
It was a joy discovering your channel the other week! And yeah, they say time will heal all wounds... Which might be true, but I believe there will always be a scar there to remind you of it. Doesn't make me regret anything though! We had such an amazing time together! ❤️
Daniel I wish I could say I’ve never been heartbroken, also that I can’t emphasize how overwhelmed with grief and pain you’re feeling in the aftermath of your breakup.. I lost 7 1/2 years of being tormented constantly, by a man who had a very horrible and toxic personality.. He would curse in an ear piercing tone, as though I was a “terrible plaque to his wellness.. I didn’t feel deserving of love, because my heart had been shattered in so many pieces, to the point where my love meant absolutely nothing to him.. I often wake in the middle of the night, hearing is tormenting words, that had enough magnitude that my heart didn’t know what love felt like the last year of our relationship.. my ex enjoyed tormenting my heart, he had such a lack of care for both my daily wellness but also was “a double edged sword “ in his demeanor when he was around my family… The torment I experienced has left me unable to consider a romantic relationship, because he severely damaged my self-esteem and self-love… I didn’t at all deserve the constant “ abandonment and trauma he created ..
Thankfully being single now since 2017, my heart has regained very joyful and very meaningful happiness… I don’t miss at all being violated by such a angry individual, furthermore not being in a unstable romantic relationship has been a huge blessing. Currently my life has gained some amazing friendships since my relationship ended, also my self love is stronger now because I’m not dating someone who’s hurt me so greatly..
I’m sorry Daniel that you’re breakup has caused you so much heartache, that you daily miss the love your partner gave to you, however please rediscover in your heart, that your you’re worthy of being loved wholeheartedly by someone who deserves your love . I hope you’re followers on your social media accounts, help provide you with empathy and compassion on behalf of their care for you…also it’s very evident your a wonderful person and I wish you prosperity being a RUclips creator as well. Seasons Greetings from the East Coast of the United States 🙏💐
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear how your relationship was, and how it left you feeling so broken and even unworthy of love. It sounds absolutely horrible, but I'm glad you're out of that now! And it sounds like you're doing a lot better! That makes me glad!
Thank you for sharing your story. Sending you a big, warm hug! And you do deserve love! ❤️
As I am watching your video it made me feel so sad and it reminds me that I should be preparing myself about this kind of situation because I know one day me and my love one will be separate too and honestly I am not prepared on this. The pain is like im going to die specially when you have a good memories with each other. God bless you❤
Oh no, I really hope you two can make it work!! 💕
@@DanielErik I am praying for that.. thank you so much❤️
Dear Daniel, I am so sorry to see you in so much pain. There is nothing I can say that will make you feel better. Just know that there are people who love you and that you can reach out any time you require someone to just listen. Sending you the biggest hug. 🤗💚
Dear Lourens, thank you so much for your support. I really appreciate it! And I know time will heal my wounds. Maybe it will leave a scar, but I will be healed. Sending you a big hug back! ❤️
Daniel, I can imagine how hurt you must have been. I hope you are strong again. I don't think I would be able to deal well if I had to break up with my partner. It would break me emotionally. You're a loving man 😘
Ohh this Video was proposed to me... now.. one year later I hope you are good balanced in your feelings and I hope you still have a good frindship with Alex.
You're such a nice person.
Good luck. Stay save. Heidi
Watching Daniel thanks for sharing your memories loving yourself is the best don't you worry someday there is someone is better for you just be who you are god bless
Hi there, and thank you so much! And yes, I will be who I am, I will never try to hide myself! And then everything else will follow naturally! Wishing you a great day! 🥰
Los Momentos de Gran Amor no se olvidan, y aunque ya no Este, nos da fuerza para seguir , Abrazo Grande
Yes, this will never be forgotten! We learned so much from each other! And we’re still best friends! Thank you for your comment! ❤️
This is not an end. Love you from İstanbul ❤ 🥰
No, it wasn't! We've remained good friends since then! 🥰
Oh Daniel I saw your post on FB and watch your video and made me cry now😢I was not expecting sad ending 😮😢I hope you feel better ❤️🩹 make me feel sad when you cry 😢oh I 🙏 you be okay and find happiness ❤
Aww, I’m sorry I made you cry! But also glad that I was able to deliver how I felt, through this video. I do feel better now! We’re still best friends and talk every day!
Thank you, I wish you happiness as well! 💕
May Your Sweetness Always have the Greatest Love find You every step of Your Live and Eternally !❤😊
Thank you, dear! 🥰
Love is a flame without smoke!❤️🔥
Daniel I have watched this a couple of time because I can relate to it, mine is a long story but I was emotionally destroyed and felt I had been emotionally abused. Hang on to this these thoughts. I believe everything in life happens for a reason, not always apparent at the time but afterwards when you look back you realise things could have been much different and potentially worse if the change hadn't happened. I always say to myself that when we hit dark periods in our lives it is like entering a tunnel. We just have to get through it and come out the other end into the bright light and we are stronger for the experience, stay focussed on the bright light. Good always rises from bad. Hang onto your memories but don't dwell on the past, there is a whole new world waiting for you Daniel, believe me there is and I know. Your next partner will come along when you least expect it and from somewhere totally out of the blue. Don't go looking for love, it will find you and when it does find you give yourself wholeheartedly to it and don't be scared to do that.
Jävligt tråkigt att höra Danne! Är ni menade att vara kommer ni att hitta tillbaka till varandra! Skickar all min styrka till dig mannen ❤ /Ragge
Tack, Ragge! Ja, är det menat så hittar vi tillbaka till varandra! Vi hörs fortfarande dagligen, men tufft när man är på andra sidan jorden, och man bara vill vara i den andres närhet - oavsett om det bara är som vänner... 😭
i love the scenery, the songs. but a heartbreaking story..
Thank you, I'm glad you like the scenery! But yes, it's all very heart breaking... I miss him so much. 😭
@@DanielErik it's hard but i'm hoping you can recover from the pain 🙏❤️
Jonna Jinton also used this music is one of her videos. It’s beautiful !
It is heartbreaking to see tears on your kind and beautiful face my dear Daniel! It is when distance is required that love shines through the most. The emptiness of absence makes us love harder. It is all the memories that come back to us and the tears that come to our eyes that prove how much "letting go of love" is difficult to navigate. I truly understand since I lived the same experience of distance relationship! However I am here for you. Bisou mon cher Daniel🥰😭
You're so kind! ❤️ It was really hard to say goodbye, but it was fot the best. If we wouldn't, our love would slowly have shifted into resentment. Someone of us would have had to give up on their dreams, and that's not fair. This way, we can still be close friends! And we actually do talk every day! 🥰
really hard to see you so sad, wishing you the best always.
Thank you, Josh! Wishing you the best as well! 💕
This made me sad the whole day ... I remember all the pain ive been through when me and my ex had to let go off each other..... So much pain that I felt numb.. and afraid so afraid to love again😥😥😥😥😥😥😥
I'm sorry I made you sad the whole day! Yes, it's very painful process... Are you feeling better by now? ❤️
This made me cry I'm still crying!!
Aww, thank you for the sympathy! I hope I didn't make you cry too much with the video though! Again, thank you! ❤️🙏🏻
@@DanielErik You're welcome! Yeah I boo cried it was so sad it's like I felt all your sadness.
@@jodieblake7398 your empathy means a lot to me, Jodie! 💕
@@DanielErik You are most welcome!
Oh, Daniel Ican feel your pain, I'm so sorry! I send you Love your way
Thank you for sending some love! I really appreciate it, and I'm sending some right back at you! Have a wonderful weekend! 🥰
Aww I'm sorry Daniel, I hope you are feeling much better now
Thank you, Karina! I feel much better now, especially since we've managed to remain friends. Thank you for caring! ❤️
I'm not crying, you are 😭😭😭
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I really don't understand why schools are not educating young people how to form and maintain human relationships and face challenges of life. What else is there other than these?
There's a lot school should educate about life, but doesn't, unfortunately. I'm glad Alex and I have been able to remain friends! He was even here visiting me, when I moved up to my country house in north Sweden. That means a lot! ❤️
@@DanielErik thank almighty, you people can see each other at one's need. Take care, love.
I am a new sub! And I feel obligated to give tough love in this circumstance! "You both are amazingly gorgeous men with a zest and love for life and each other". I can see how much you both are in love with each other and embrace each other's quirks. But where Alex leaves to the states cause he can't manage Sweden and Daniel stays behind in Sweden it's all wrong!! Personally I would of followed Alex to the states. Daniel you need to "bend with the wind" and accept probably a good decision for Alex's work to move! It doesn't have to be forever! You both must have an open relationship with each other? But I see you both and think what a catch to love each other you are both eye candy OMG!, sweet, caring, fun loving, you both have it all in each other, let go of personal needs keep the love strong it's the most important! There needs to be a realistic revaluation of your relationship! I just hate to see these beautiful couples break up, follow him!
Hi there, and thank you for you thoughts! I totally agree with you about "keeping the love strong" - which is exactly why we did break up! For anyone of us to give up the life we wanted, to be with the other peson, would only bring up feelings of resentment. Which in the long run would kill the love we have for each other.
By breaking up, we can remember what a beautiful thing we shared, and stay life-long friends! This way, we can keep loving each other - just not in a romantic way. But that's definitely better than our love turning into resentment.
About me moving to the US, there's several reasons I don't want that. The biggest thing is that I've spent enough time in the US to recognize that it's not a "living" friendly country. There's no healthcare for everyone, society gives up on people and let them live on the streets, it's so expensive to educate yourself that many will literally never financially recover from it, there's no paid vacation for everyone, medication costs a fortune, and there's no paternity leave and so on.
I absolutely LOVE the US, but not as a country to live in. I love being there, visting and doing fun things! But in my eyes, it's not a country I would want to settle down in. Where I live now, I have all of the things I mention above, plus some. For an example, I'm back in school learning photography, and not only is it free - I actually get a small amount of money each month for educating myself!
So I will definitely go back to the US, especially to visit Alex! ❤️ But when it comes to building a life, I would honestly choose Sweden every day of the week.
With all of this said though, I completely understand where you're coming from - you're rooting for love! And that's beautiful! 🥰 And you're not the first one who has mentioned all of this, so maybe I should make a video where I go more into detail about it. ☺️ And I really appreciate that you care! If it means anything, I can say that both Alex and I are happy, and we're best friends! We talk everyday. And you might have seen in one of my other videos, that he has already been here visiting me. 🥰
Thank you for you comment, and I hope you understand where I'm coming from! 💕
So sad for you. Letting go is always so hard. Hope you find someone some day. ❤🙏
Thank you so much, Mia. I hope so too! I hope the both of us will have tremendous amount of love in our lives! 🥰
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You are a strong person Daniel. Be firmed ... You will be okay soon . . Love ur videos so much. I would love to live and be with nature again. 😥😥😥😥
I feel way better already! We're still best friends and write to each other daily. Thanks for mentioning how much you like my videos! That makes me so glad to hear! 🥰🙏🏻
Wow recien te conoci hoy por un blog que hiciste, y leyendo los comentarios tengo la idea de los que estas pasando, porque no se mucho ingles, y espero puedas leerlo, se que estas pasando por un momento triste y es dificil, y lo que diga puede que no ayude mucho, pero quiero compartir estas palabras, yo vi que compartiste muchos momentos con esa persona, miralo como una razon por la que se conocieron compartir un pequeño momento de su vida y ser felices, muchas veces tenemos que soltar personas aunque no queramos pero es parte de la vida, si es verdad no es facil porque te acostumbraste, pero ahora solo queda recordar lo bonito de ello y no lo feo, aprendiste mucho, de ahora en adelante debes darte un tiempo para sanar tu yo interno, eres tu prioridad, la vida aun continua, tienes que seguir adelante a pesar de todo, hay muchas cosas hermosas en esta vida y no te lo debes de perder, tienes que vivir y son experiencias que vamos a tener en esta vida, solo recuerdalo y ganaste un amigo en mi, si necesitas apoyo no estas solo, puedes contar conmigo. Animos Amigo :)
Thank you for the kind words! I think I understood most of it thanks to Google Translate! And I agree with every word! ❤️
Mi inglés es pésimo, así que lo haré en español. Hay historias de amor que no deberían tener final, te abrazo con el corazón desde México. Llegué por el vídeo de tu abuelita y ahora veo que terminaste con tu novio. 2022 fue un año difícil para ti, espero que ahora todo vaya bien. Fuerza campeón. 💙
The beautiful thing about this love story though, is that it didn't really end! It ended in the way of us being together as a couple, but we still love each other as friends and talk daily! 2023 had overall been a good year! I finally got to move up to the countryside up north, which I've dreamt of! So that was huge! That has definitely given me a lot of anxiety on the road there though, and that was less great! 😂
But overall, it has been a really good year! I hope it has been for you as well, so far! ❤️
I am sorry there is so much pain in you right now. I can only hope that nature and time will move you to a more peaceful place soon enough. ❤
Nature will surly help me! I’m at the country house right now, actually! And time will help too, of course! Happy holidays! ❤️
@@DanielErik And I hope yours go peacefully.
I can't imagine what that must feel like
To be honest, I have a hard time figuring that out myself. Having a hard time processing my own feelings about it all. I'm in chock, even though I knew he was gonna leave more than a month before he actually did. 😔
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Thank you, I know I will! It's just a matter of time! I hope you're enjoying the holidays btw! 🥰
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❤ sending positive love to you.
Thank you, Natalie! That means a lot! ❤️ I'm glad to tell you that we've managed to stay really good friends! ☺️
How interesting that I just watched and commented on a video of the two of you camping together. I'd never seen these videos before. My comment was about your positive energy you exude.
You do not need someone else to make you whole, because you have more inside then maybe you yourself realize.
I'll be brutally honest in this comment, and I in no way mean this to be too negative, but as I watched that other video, I kept thinking, this guy seems like he deserves more then the one he's with.
I can see you being around extremely artistic people for some reason. You have a lot to offer anyone, not just a partner, but anyone.
I'm so glad you've found my videos! I hope you'll like them! They are more about my life at the countryside now, than being with my boyfriend. I mean, we did break up after all - and I leaved the city for a life closer to nature!
Alex is an absolutely wonderful person, anyone who ends up together with him is extremely lucky! But it wasn't right for me, no. Just like I won't right for Alex. We're really good and close friends now, and that feels really good! More like what we're "supposed" to be. 🥰
@@DanielErik See, even your comment has positive energy.
Being in nature does something for people, it brings peace to the Spirit within you. Birds, animals, even bugs sometimes 😄, can have an affect on us.
Glad things are well with you.
My heart break when I hear or see the word end😢😢😢😢😢😢
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I horribly, desperately, strongly just want to HUG you. I WANT to HUG you and tell you that everything will YET be amazing. IT just will. Trust me, from the deepest shit I am in, I know -Things not only get better, they get AMAZING.
Love and hugs to you.
Thank you for this!! Sending you lots of digital hugs back!! 🤗🥰 This was a very hard time, but it does feel better now. Alex and I have been able to remain great friends! He was even here visiting this summer, when I moved up to the countryside! That means a lot, he's such a good friend and person!
I deeply appreciate you reaching out and sending me hugs! Much love to you, all the way from Sweden! ❤️
You just cry and one day you will stop. A lot of people say you shouldn't put your happiness in another persons hand! Then my question is , why have that person? The fact that it hurts so much just proves how real it was. I dont really know you , but my heart feels your pain! I was with my partner for 29 yrs, and lost him to leukemia! My situation is different and my pain is different, but it is pain nonetheless. ❤❤❤❤
Hi there! I'm so sorry to hear you've gone through pain like that. 29 years is a very long time. Like you said, the fact that it hurts so much is such a proof of how much it all meant! I hope your breakup lead to something beautiful, ultimately. For me and Alex, we're both best friends now! I'm so happy we were able to remain in each others lives! ❤️
Hang in there Daniel, it will be alright :/
I know it will. It's though right now, especially when it's the holidays as well. But I know it will be okay! And people like you, who encourages and support me in all of this! ❤️ I hope you're enjoying the holidays! 💕
New door will open 🙏💜🙏
I hope so! Thanks for the encouragement! 🥰
Que lindo você.
Estou conhecendo seu canal através desse vídeo postado no canal RexRed com uma linda música de fundo.
Extremamente madura sua decisão. Parabéns! Sim, quem ama solta. Atitude altruísta a sua deixá-lo construir seus sonhos. Nem sempre é assim. O apego é grande as pessoas que amamos. Também penso como você. Sou hetero mas não sei responder porque amo tanto os gays. Isso se fortaleceu mais quando assisti a serie Queer as Folk.(2000-2004 USA) Sou grande defensora. Amo vocês. A você desejo felicidades e que você possa ainda vibrar muito com o sucesso do seu amor do seu amigo. Beijos 🥰🥰🌻🌻🇧🇷🇧🇷(Brasil)
Oh, I had no idea I was on that channel! Now I have to go check it out! Thank you so much for congratulating me! And I'm so glad and thankful that you seem to be such an advocate for gay rights! I really appreciate that, we need more straight people like you! ❤️ I also like the show Queer as Folk (US)!
Again, thank you so much for watching, and for your support for everyone to love whoever they love! Sending you a big hug!! 🥰
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We broke up with my boyfriend too, and I still can't handle for months 😢
Why did you split up?
We wanted different things out of life. I want a more simple life at the countryside, close to nature, while he wants focus on his acting career. Which means he basically has to live in a big city, a bigger one than we have here in Sweden. So we would have to do long distance, which we don't want to... But he's coming here to visit in less than a week, actually!
@@DanielErik That is wonderful that you were able to let go to let him follow his dream. Shows how much you love him.
@@TheShislon thank you! I couldn’t agree more. If you love someone, set him free! ❤️
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With your sensitivity u will find love 7:16
Thank you, I hope so! ❤️🙏🏻
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This is a very sad video. Love is for such a short time. i m so sorry.
Yes, it was a very sad period. Still is sad! But we're remaining very good friends, and that means a lot! ❤️
Like you, I had a love. And we had to abandon each other, because I had to come to Moscow because my mother fell ill
I'm so sorry to hear your story. Are you able to still stay friends?
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I hope you have moved on. I know it's not easy to let go someone whom you truly love.
Slowly but steady. Even though time heals all wounds, there may always be a scar left! Thank you!
@@DanielErik Yes. That's true.
ill date ya but you will have to move to USA we can build a future together in a forest here and I will bake you bread
Best way to get over a man is get under another one.
Berörande😢 önskar dig/er all lycka
Tack snälla! 🙏🏻❤️ Vi har fortfarande en väldigt god kontakt! Men det är absolut hjärteskärande att det inte gick.
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Не понятно, почему он бросил Даниеля? Может испугался рака? Я могу предположить, что он узнал о каком-то агрессивном виде рака, с маленьким процентом к ремиссии и решил не мучиться и сразу расставить точки над i ?
Hi there! I don't fully understand your comment, since I'm using Google Translate. But this had nothing to do with cancer. We just wanted different things out of life. For an example, I was longing for a life at the countryside, while Alex wasn't ready for that.
We do reamin great friends, and I'm so, so thankful for that! 💕 Wishing you a beautiful new week! 🥰
Bello saludos desde España Madrid 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
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