I’m going on 30, never had a relationship. 27 and went to the beach with a girl but she put me in the friend zone, now I’ve realized my parents badly sheltered me from sex and partying and having fun. Please don’t shelter your kids from the real world. It’s not doing them any favors and not setting them up for success.
Dude, I'm 34 and totally needed this. Being an Asian guy it feels exponentially worse having missed out on relationships, sex, and dating scene since we're so publicly mocked, ridiculed, and emasculated laughing stocks by the western media. I mean I've had 2 girlfriends total, gotten laid some, and been on a bunch of mostly worthless dates that didn't go anywhere. It helps to hear someone reassure someone like me. Won't lie though. It does feel more alone when you don't see an Asian male public figure who can understand me. The attitude I've had all my life up until recent is a victim and self-defeating mentality as I thought what's the point because there's no Asian male public sex figure who's a household name nor in areas of western entertainment. It's only now I know I want to change and be a part of that, especially with the COVID Asian hate crimes. Thanks for the vid. I scrolled through your website and glad to see you made such an amazing transformation. Will definitely have to follow your advice and coaching from there. Thank you.
Asian means jack shit - something like 10% of my coaching clients are Asian. They've all gotten laid; you will too. Become a sex god - I'm rooting for you. Go go go. -Andy
Just turned 37. Laid in a bed for 2.5 years dying. One day I said NOPE no more. I'm gonna TRY to live. Busted ASS. These videos inspired me. I had to study and become my own doctor bc I was totally ignored. Nobody helped. Not only was I very sick, I went totally broke, and was relying on my parents and the government. Fun shit. I made a decision to ACT like somebody who will eventually be a healthy strong Playboy and that I will at least have a chance. All fruit alkaline diet for 6 goddamn months. But it detoxed my CNS and gut enough so I could go to the next step. Then pushed myself to start walking outdoors again which used to suffocate me (long story). One day at a time : 1 block. 2 blocks. 3. 5. 1 mile. 1.5 miles. 2+ miles. Still weird symptoms but it's good enough. Then The next phase Which terrified me bc it out me in the ER 2x: lifting weights. Very scary for me. Said fuck that shit n did it anyways. First 3 workouts almost killed me (diaphragmatic paralysis). Well fuck mate. It's been 2 months of Working out 3x a week. I have almost no exacerbations or symptoms and work out til absolute failure - and you can see it in my upper body. Now - fat loss is next. Transitioning to a carnivore diet to (hopefully) cure the remaining meanering symptoms of chronic illness. All the while... I been teaching myself to trade forex. 1.5 years Working thru brain damage too. Now Working towards getting funded 100k of private equity with $2.5 million not too far off. . Health back. Money back. More than I ever had. Prob high 5 figures a month by 2024. And while I secure my health again and get my money really right... Next comes women. Haven't been laid in 10 years. Became a weird recluse. No more. I'll break out of this shell and stand on the foundations I'm building now and build myself a nice little harem of cute younger women who adore me. Can't wait to share the whole story one day. Once I get to the level of $400k of funding I'm coming for coaching. I'll drop 20 racks. Your channel is SO underrated based on your subscriber count. Hope you grow more. I been binging this weekend. Point of this comment was to show I can Man up even when none of the bullshit that happened to me was my own fault.
I’m 28. Went through the same thing for a good chunk of my 20’s. I feel like your early 30s are your prime since you still have some youth with some extra wisdom
Yeah, when you hit your 30's you're no longer a *total* dumbass (only a partial-dumbass). I'm sure by 40 life will be even easier - because we'll be even better. (The obvious caveat is you have to be IMPROVING yourself the entire time; most people just let themselves go and by the time they're 40, they're a fat, unproductive mess).
Hell man I’m 39 and my 30’s were better than my 20’s but they were still kind of shitty. Got laid a bit more but a lot of death in the family and heartbreak. This resonates with me because he’s right. Ruminating on the past will get you no where unless you learn from it and do things differently. And you know what. You can be in your prime at any age just take care of yourself. At 39 I get told I look like I’m in my late 20’s. The time is now. Be well sir
@@Andy_Wellsthat’s why I think fitness is so important any any age. I stopped drinking about a year ago and honestly best decision I ever made. I still socialize without it. Thanks for the motivation. Shit is real
I'm a 24 year old woman and feel this way :/ it's not about sex for me, but I feel like I didn't use my youth enough in a sense that I would experiment with different projects, like making a short movie with friends or travel alone and have some amazing experiences. I used to be a really positive, proactive, bubbly person that loved to try out new things and do stuff, and now all of that posititivty and excitement is gone, and all that's in my mind is: no woman your age is doing bubbly childlike things anymore, just grow up and have a good CV. And it gets worse with every year 😅 I'm so scared that someday I will wake up and realize that the door to some opportunities has actually closed, but at the same time I feel like I have no time to do all the fun things now because I haven't accomplished enough yet. My mind is broken
What's one bubbly, childlike thing you can do right now, right this very second? What if you try doing that one, small little thing, and reply to this comment once you've done it.
i missed out on 8 years of life dealing with a bunch if health problems both metal and physical but i realized im still young so thats what keeps me going its really hard sometimes tbh
Andy your content is spot on man. I've seen this issue with almost all guys, they think with every passing decade that everything is over and future does not bring anything. They need to realize that they have the power of now and they can work now, crush it, use their previous knowledge for the better and build a great future. You can do it gents! Listen to Andy, go get coached by him, you wont be disappointed.
I’ve been feeling so down lately because I already regretted missing out on my teen years and early 20’s. I’m now 25! I was always shy and now I’m feeling this intense regret that I never lived my youth eventhough I’m still young.
It's almost like you're talking to the young you huh. That's how much it hurt, but that's how much you had to do it. It was literally all or nothing at 28.
I’m 39 I’ll be 40 in a few months. I missed out on a lot but I did have some fun. Still wish I had more but it’s never too late. Don’t let society and others put you in a box
In my 20s i basically tried nothing else but build muscle, have a career in comedy and get laid. I tried as hard as i could at all of these and failed miserably. I am 31 now, still cant get laid, just got fired from my job and still look like i have never worked out.
Go read my Tinder guide (link is in the description) and take action on it. If you need more help than that - I'm happy to jump on a coaching call with you.
If I wanted to? At the peak of my sex life, I had a few fun weeks like having sex with 3 different women in 10 hours, 5 women in 3 days, things like that. Sex isn't my priority right now (helping people is, along with peace/happiness).
I have a very similar situation. Went hard trying to get a career going and lifting in my 20s, failed at getting any career going and after 5 years of lifting I look almost the same at 30.
the older you get the fewer friends you can have because everyone is busy moves away and think of you as too old it gets creepy fast when you get older
Start with this: kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxury Make small tiny changes each day to work towards fixing the things you aren't happy with. Success is just a process of taking hundreds of tiny little baby steps every single day. You got this.
I'm 30. I'm quite fit. I was a lonely cold approacher with no friends. I recently started leaving my house and I realize that in every social group I am in, at least 3 or 4 cute girls in their 20s make themselves available to me. It's sweeeeeeeeeet! I like this more than cold approaching. Going on cold approach dates feels like a chore. It's a rough transition... there's a method to the madness with social circles. Though, for quick and many lays, cold approach and online dating is definitely much better.
i definitely did. i was busy trying to be normal after s----y teenage years. my parents ruined everything. they kept me from friends and dating. how can i possibly make and keep friends and a girlfriend? im a lonely tired 34 year old stuck in a dying city.
im 16, im so young its crazy, i do feel like a loser at times but better to start now that later yea ? im looking forward to my later years, so much to experience biggest crutch to me is that im so so so so socially dumb
Start now and you could be an absolute BEAST by the time you're 20. Socially dumb - that just requires practice. Start talking to anybody and everybody you can. Put yourself out there more - go to meetup.com and start socialising. Being good at socialising is literally just a skill you can learn, through practice.
I am 27 and still living with my parents. Have a good job with good pay and benefits with a good industry. Currently waiting for my job offer which I discussed 85K pay rate and would put me in top 15% income bracket for my age but I am completely defeated with my love life. It simply does not exist. Only been with 3 girls and feel like a total loser and i am terrified of cold approach.
My question to you is - you literally make good money, why the hell haven't you signed up for the coaching program already so you can FIX this, instead of sitting around feeling defeated??? You're top 15% in terms of income for your age - so you've already proven you are capable of greatness. Do the same thing with your love life. kyil-extra.com/coaching-sfw Fill out the form, I'll hop on a call with you and discuss the fears/limiting beliefs you have. Do it now. I can't help you in a youtube comment mate. Decide you're going to improve this, and let me help you actually improve this.
You're in the most amazing position to build a god-tier life by 25. Start right now - bust your ass, surround yourself with good people, and work on yourself just a little bit each day. Start here: kyil-extra.com/slight-edge
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-Andy
I’m going on 30, never had a relationship. 27 and went to the beach with a girl but she put me in the friend zone, now I’ve realized my parents badly sheltered me from sex and partying and having fun.
Please don’t shelter your kids from the real world. It’s not doing them any favors and not setting them up for success.
This is the video that cured my depression in 18 minutes 🙂
Dude, I'm 34 and totally needed this. Being an Asian guy it feels exponentially worse having missed out on relationships, sex, and dating scene since we're so publicly mocked, ridiculed, and emasculated laughing stocks by the western media.
I mean I've had 2 girlfriends total, gotten laid some, and been on a bunch of mostly worthless dates that didn't go anywhere. It helps to hear someone reassure someone like me.
Won't lie though. It does feel more alone when you don't see an Asian male public figure who can understand me. The attitude I've had all my life up until recent is a victim and self-defeating mentality as I thought what's the point because there's no Asian male public sex figure who's a household name nor in areas of western entertainment. It's only now I know I want to change and be a part of that, especially with the COVID Asian hate crimes.
Thanks for the vid. I scrolled through your website and glad to see you made such an amazing transformation. Will definitely have to follow your advice and coaching from there. Thank you.
Asian means jack shit - something like 10% of my coaching clients are Asian. They've all gotten laid; you will too.
Become a sex god - I'm rooting for you. Go go go.
-Andy
Hey, don’t forget that >70% of anti-Asian hate crimes in the US are committed by white men, despite the anecdotal evidence you saw on video
I had this feeling before finding your tinder guide/forum. Thats what killed this thought and one of the reason im so motivated to change myself. 💪
Yep I had that thought too - "I'm 28, it's too late for me". It's NEVER too late, not until the moment you take your last breath.
Just turned 37. Laid in a bed for 2.5 years dying. One day I said NOPE no more. I'm gonna TRY to live. Busted ASS. These videos inspired me. I had to study and become my own doctor bc I was totally ignored. Nobody helped. Not only was I very sick, I went totally broke, and was relying on my parents and the government. Fun shit. I made a decision to ACT like somebody who will eventually be a healthy strong Playboy and that I will at least have a chance.
All fruit alkaline diet for 6 goddamn months. But it detoxed my CNS and gut enough so I could go to the next step. Then pushed myself to start walking outdoors again which used to suffocate me (long story). One day at a time : 1 block. 2 blocks. 3. 5. 1 mile. 1.5 miles. 2+ miles. Still weird symptoms but it's good enough. Then The next phase Which terrified me bc it out me in the ER 2x: lifting weights. Very scary for me. Said fuck that shit n did it anyways. First 3 workouts almost killed me (diaphragmatic paralysis). Well fuck mate. It's been 2 months of Working out 3x a week. I have almost no exacerbations or symptoms and work out til absolute failure - and you can see it in my upper body. Now - fat loss is next. Transitioning to a carnivore diet to (hopefully) cure the remaining meanering symptoms of chronic illness.
All the while... I been teaching myself to trade forex. 1.5 years Working thru brain damage too. Now Working towards getting funded 100k of private equity with $2.5 million not too far off. .
Health back.
Money back. More than I ever had. Prob high 5 figures a month by 2024.
And while I secure my health again and get my money really right... Next comes women. Haven't been laid in 10 years. Became a weird recluse. No more.
I'll break out of this shell and stand on the foundations I'm building now and build myself a nice little harem of cute younger women who adore me.
Can't wait to share the whole story one day. Once I get to the level of $400k of funding I'm coming for coaching. I'll drop 20 racks.
Your channel is SO underrated based on your subscriber count. Hope you grow more. I been binging this weekend.
Point of this comment was to show I can Man up even when none of the bullshit that happened to me was my own fault.
The fact that your reading this. You have no excuses. Start now
I’m 28. Went through the same thing for a good chunk of my 20’s. I feel like your early 30s are your prime since you still have some youth with some extra wisdom
Yeah, when you hit your 30's you're no longer a *total* dumbass (only a partial-dumbass). I'm sure by 40 life will be even easier - because we'll be even better.
(The obvious caveat is you have to be IMPROVING yourself the entire time; most people just let themselves go and by the time they're 40, they're a fat, unproductive mess).
Hell man I’m 39 and my 30’s were better than my 20’s but they were still kind of shitty. Got laid a bit more but a lot of death in the family and heartbreak. This resonates with me because he’s right. Ruminating on the past will get you no where unless you learn from it and do things differently. And you know what. You can be in your prime at any age just take care of yourself. At 39 I get told I look like I’m in my late 20’s. The time is now. Be well sir
@@Andy_Wellsthat’s why I think fitness is so important any any age. I stopped drinking about a year ago and honestly best decision I ever made. I still socialize without it. Thanks for the motivation. Shit is real
I'm a 24 year old woman and feel this way :/ it's not about sex for me, but I feel like I didn't use my youth enough in a sense that I would experiment with different projects, like making a short movie with friends or travel alone and have some amazing experiences. I used to be a really positive, proactive, bubbly person that loved to try out new things and do stuff, and now all of that posititivty and excitement is gone, and all that's in my mind is: no woman your age is doing bubbly childlike things anymore, just grow up and have a good CV. And it gets worse with every year 😅 I'm so scared that someday I will wake up and realize that the door to some opportunities has actually closed, but at the same time I feel like I have no time to do all the fun things now because I haven't accomplished enough yet. My mind is broken
What's one bubbly, childlike thing you can do right now, right this very second? What if you try doing that one, small little thing, and reply to this comment once you've done it.
Absolute golden encouragement from the best self improvement guy on YT
i missed out on 8 years of life dealing with a bunch if health problems both metal and physical but i realized im still young so thats what keeps me going its really hard sometimes tbh
Take it one day at a time. You got this.
Andy your content is spot on man. I've seen this issue with almost all guys, they think with every passing decade that everything is over and future does not bring anything. They need to realize that they have the power of now and they can work now, crush it, use their previous knowledge for the better and build a great future. You can do it gents! Listen to Andy, go get coached by him, you wont be disappointed.
Amen brother. You're never "too old" until the moment you take your final breath.
I’ve been feeling so down lately because I already regretted missing out on my teen years and early 20’s. I’m now 25! I was always shy and now I’m feeling this intense regret that I never lived my youth eventhough I’m still young.
Did you watch the video?
25 is so insanely young. I'm 35 and I feel like I'm barely getting started.
Just turned 26 and this is what I needed to hear
It's almost like you're talking to the young you huh. That's how much it hurt, but that's how much you had to do it. It was literally all or nothing at 28.
Wish I was 28, I'm 34. Gonna have to work super hard!
Get started right now. No excuses. Go go go.
I’m 39 I’ll be 40 in a few months. I missed out on a lot but I did have some fun. Still wish I had more but it’s never too late. Don’t let society and others put you in a box
In my 20s i basically tried nothing else but build muscle, have a career in comedy and get laid. I tried as hard as i could at all of these and failed miserably. I am 31 now, still cant get laid, just got fired from my job and still look like i have never worked out.
Go read my Tinder guide (link is in the description) and take action on it. If you need more help than that - I'm happy to jump on a coaching call with you.
@@Andy_Wells thanks. How many tinder dates could you go on a week if you wanted to?
And also is there a way around tinder bans
If I wanted to? At the peak of my sex life, I had a few fun weeks like having sex with 3 different women in 10 hours, 5 women in 3 days, things like that. Sex isn't my priority right now (helping people is, along with peace/happiness).
I have a very similar situation. Went hard trying to get a career going and lifting in my 20s, failed at getting any career going and after 5 years of lifting I look almost the same at 30.
the older you get the fewer friends you can have because everyone is busy moves away and think of you as too old it gets creepy fast when you get older
Andy you are our drug.We f@ckin love you brother!!!!!!!!
I'm 29. Working a job I hate :-( And going through a long dry spell. You're motivating me.
Start with this:
kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxury
Make small tiny changes each day to work towards fixing the things you aren't happy with. Success is just a process of taking hundreds of tiny little baby steps every single day. You got this.
I'm 30. I'm quite fit. I was a lonely cold approacher with no friends. I recently started leaving my house and I realize that in every social group I am in, at least 3 or 4 cute girls in their 20s make themselves available to me. It's sweeeeeeeeeet! I like this more than cold approaching. Going on cold approach dates feels like a chore. It's a rough transition... there's a method to the madness with social circles. Though, for quick and many lays, cold approach and online dating is definitely much better.
Andy knows I’m better than all his other viewers
That's true, they hate you 'cause they ain't you.
i definitely did. i was busy trying to be normal after s----y teenage years. my parents ruined everything. they kept me from friends and dating. how can i possibly make and keep friends and a girlfriend? im a lonely tired 34 year old stuck in a dying city.
im 16, im so young its crazy, i do feel like a loser at times but better to start now that later yea ? im looking forward to my later years, so much to experience
biggest crutch to me is that im so so so so socially dumb
Start now and you could be an absolute BEAST by the time you're 20. Socially dumb - that just requires practice. Start talking to anybody and everybody you can. Put yourself out there more - go to meetup.com and start socialising. Being good at socialising is literally just a skill you can learn, through practice.
Bro I'm so jealous...I'm 21 and wish I started this journey at your age. You definitely going to be unstoppable if you start putting in the work.
I am 27 and still living with my parents. Have a good job with good pay and benefits with a good industry. Currently waiting for my job offer which I discussed 85K pay rate and would put me in top 15% income bracket for my age but I am completely defeated with my love life. It simply does not exist. Only been with 3 girls and feel like a total loser and i am terrified of cold approach.
My question to you is - you literally make good money, why the hell haven't you signed up for the coaching program already so you can FIX this, instead of sitting around feeling defeated??? You're top 15% in terms of income for your age - so you've already proven you are capable of greatness. Do the same thing with your love life.
kyil-extra.com/coaching-sfw
Fill out the form, I'll hop on a call with you and discuss the fears/limiting beliefs you have. Do it now.
I can't help you in a youtube comment mate. Decide you're going to improve this, and let me help you actually improve this.
Have any field reports on various forums?
Have you checked my website, lol?
I’m 19 so I turn 20 next February
You're in the most amazing position to build a god-tier life by 25. Start right now - bust your ass, surround yourself with good people, and work on yourself just a little bit each day. Start here: kyil-extra.com/slight-edge
@@Andy_Wells yeah I got no idea how to start a business
what exactly did you do for self-improvement? I'm curious....
A LOT. Go to his website.
Search "My Transformation" on my site.
Others had fun in there 20s now they are having fun in there 30s
You still missed out 😂
Can’t do anything about it bro ☹️☹️
That sounds like it would be a very stressful story to hang onto.
This isn't the message I wanted to hear, it was the message I needed to hear!