When I Was 28, I Thought it was Too Late For Me.

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  • Опубликовано: 24 сен 2024

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  • @Andy_Wells
    @Andy_Wells  7 месяцев назад +4

    Grab an affordable 1-on-1 coaching call ($200) with me while I'm still offering them! kyil-extra.com/calls
    -Andy

  • @seanparker1759
    @seanparker1759 6 месяцев назад +7

    The only person stopping you is you. You have to be confident in yourself. That's the main thing women look for.

  • @EM-ju8bk
    @EM-ju8bk 6 месяцев назад +7

    28?! That’s super young

    • @Andy_Wells
      @Andy_Wells  6 месяцев назад +4

      Indeed. But a lot of guys in their late-20's/early-30's feel like it's "too late" for them. (A lot of women feel that way too.)

    • @johnfused8281
      @johnfused8281 6 месяцев назад

      It is super young even thirties but I with me i felt it was too late to start getting confident if that makes sense

  • @69TripHammer
    @69TripHammer 6 месяцев назад +4

    I'm 64 years old. I own my own business and am semi retired.
    I workout most days. Got the wear n tear of my age but desides that, am in good health.
    I look alot younger for my age and am in very good shape.
    I find it to easy to get women.
    Infact I don't bother trying and I find this actually attracts women as I'm hard to get.
    Just be positive, confident and be in good shape and you will have no problem in finding a women.
    Question is though, finding a good woman.
    Lots of wrong uns and gold diggers out there.
    So be picky when it comes to relationships.
    Tbh, it's easier to pull women as you get older than it is when your younger.
    I'm currently dating a 38 year old.

  • @andreasauke5724
    @andreasauke5724 7 месяцев назад +3

    God bless you both, you are awesome.
    I hope anyone that sees this seriously considers coaching with Andy and the team.. Im a student in the group coaching, and let me tell you.. its life changing. Dont take my word for it, watch Andy's interview with former clients..

    • @Andy_Wells
      @Andy_Wells  7 месяцев назад +2

      Appreciate you mate. You've done amazing things already - credit goes to you. We've just shown you the door; you're the one who's walked through it.

  • @itsdan722
    @itsdan722 6 месяцев назад +3

    God help anyone who believes that theres a certain age where you cant progress further. Progress is progress whether youre 80 or 18

    • @American-131
      @American-131 6 месяцев назад +2

      Best comment

    • @itsdan722
      @itsdan722 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@American-131 on top of that, imagine being 80 knocking on deaths door and having regrets about being as young as 28 and not taking a few risks here and there. Quick way to become old and bitter. Regret has got to be the worst feeling there is

    • @Andy_Wells
      @Andy_Wells  6 месяцев назад +1

      Love this.

  • @thisguyrools2807
    @thisguyrools2807 5 месяцев назад +1

    Biggest lie of all time is life ends at 30. I know so many people who have goals to get everything accomplished by 30. When they’ve reached those goals there’s nothing beyond that

  • @kellykcombination
    @kellykcombination 6 месяцев назад +3

    I'm dealing with this now. There's a girl I'm talking to at school who I like whose 21, and I'm 29, but I have qualms about it cause some of my friends say she's too young for me.

    • @Andy_Wells
      @Andy_Wells  6 месяцев назад +3

      Who would you be without caring what others think about how you live your own life?

  • @imadust
    @imadust 6 месяцев назад +4

    I just booked a one on one call with you on March 1. Im 32, feel likes it's too late for me, feeling lost. Looking forward to the talk with you though

    • @Andy_Wells
      @Andy_Wells  6 месяцев назад +1

      Looking forward to it mate. In the meantime, watch Ed's interview if you haven't already - he was 31, a virgin, very much felt like it was too late for him:
      ruclips.net/video/5neuOEzxwaA/видео.html
      And a TON of other clients in their 30's and 40's have also felt like it's too late for them. If they can do it, I promise you can too.
      Talk soon,
      -Andy

    • @imadust
      @imadust 6 месяцев назад

      @@Andy_Wells I will watch this video before tomorrow. Thanks Andy

  • @valentingartner3793
    @valentingartner3793 7 месяцев назад +1

    What a great video; exactly what I needed now ❤

  • @craigsmith6512
    @craigsmith6512 6 месяцев назад

    I'M 53 and I'm still seeing women 21 - 35. In fact, I get more now than ever before.

  • @katarzynakolodynska9387
    @katarzynakolodynska9387 7 месяцев назад +2

    My husband decided to do the nose licking challenge as a joke. He approached almost every woman at a large club that we went to (mind you, he only speaks Russian, and had to ask me how to say "Can I lick your nose" in English, and reherse it). 7 of them, mostly drunk foreign students, said yes. I tried the same on men, and out of the 15 men that I asked, 11 of them agreed. Then the 15th guy tried to pull me in for a kiss, I pushed him away (he used quite a bit of force to try to pull me in), and after that incident, I no longer felt comfortable doing the challenge - much to the disappoitment of 3 guys that approached me, asking me to lick their nose, and one guy who wanted me to lick a more... private area of his.

    • @Andy_Wells
      @Andy_Wells  7 месяцев назад +2

      This made me laugh so much. You two are hilarious for running this experiment!

  • @jackwaterhouse148
    @jackwaterhouse148 7 месяцев назад +1

    Hi Andy and Cam,
    I'm currently 26 and have never cold approached a woman in the way you describe. "Hey, I thought you were cute and I wanted to come over and talk to you."
    I've seen plenty of videos on RUclips that contradict each other, some people (like yourselves) say it works while others believe that compliments of any kind don't work.
    Is it really as simple as saying "Hey, I thought you were cute and I wanted to come over and talk to you."

    • @Andy_Wells
      @Andy_Wells  7 месяцев назад +3

      Would it help to try it and find out for yourself? We're just 2 guys on the internet - don't take our word for it. Go try it.
      -Andy

  • @Jerry12768
    @Jerry12768 7 месяцев назад +1

    Unfortunately none of your advice or coaching strategy could apply to me. I’m 38 year old virgin diagnosed with learning disability at young age and held back in live over the years who was never a pat of the crowd. I grew up always believing that I didn’t have much to offer a quality girl but I was also shy as well with bad social anxiety. Never even put myself in a position to ask a girl out because I lacked the proper avenues being through work or going to university at older age. It has always particularly been a struggle for me as someone who has sought self improvement and not achieving the substance needed for getting women and going on dates. I have tried multiple of the popular dating apps and never get anywhere as the majority of girls are either looking for attention, promoting their social media, or have very high standards and model like. I really don’t care anymore and downplay the situation to be honest. It is what it is. Girls can be complicated besides the fact I have no friends anyway which in my opinion is key. I will just bite the dust and cope with it until it might change for the better and if not so be it.

    • @Andy_Wells
      @Andy_Wells  7 месяцев назад +1

      What would you like from me/the community?

    • @Jerry12768
      @Jerry12768 7 месяцев назад

      Nah nothing there isn’t anything that I don’t already know. There just is no feasible option for me. Looking back at the envy, frustrating, and strong desire as a result of encountering these creatures, I just find alternative ways to cope. I’m just secluded from experiencing any of it, weather being in a meaningful relationship or the pickup game.

  • @NM-sd4ce
    @NM-sd4ce 6 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤ from Mexico

  • @brcage
    @brcage 6 месяцев назад +2

    Is 35 too old? Or is it just another chapter

    • @Andy_Wells
      @Andy_Wells  6 месяцев назад

      You tell me. Is 35 too old?

    • @EM-ju8bk
      @EM-ju8bk 6 месяцев назад +2

      No, it’s not.

    • @sadiqdelil5189
      @sadiqdelil5189 6 месяцев назад

      Go abroad to find a woman😂. You will be seen as young, fresh and attractive. It is western standards that made having a family an impossible task.

  • @jimmy7434
    @jimmy7434 6 месяцев назад

    What do we have to say about performance anxiety due to inexperience. I assume I’ll be a poor performer so shy away from the shame.

    • @Andy_Wells
      @Andy_Wells  6 месяцев назад +1

      ruclips.net/video/1BIzyr3Rj9c/видео.htmlsi=4IyM4KzN-AubIde7
      ruclips.net/video/V07pjSPwKzY/видео.htmlsi=vmpXtUz6v0bMvcbp