Good video, I think you're spot on about talking to girls in public, it's so much more organic and masculine, I remember one time I saw some cute chick sitting alone watching the football game, I sat down next to her, asked her if she liked football, just had a totally non-threatening no pressure conversation, eventually she asked me if I had Facebook, we added each other, easy. Something else that I started doing is almost every time I go to the grocery store or some store, I always ask the cutest girl working there where I can find x item, I think that it must help in a way, hell the other day this cute chick was next to me as I was trying on sunglasses and I got her to tell me which ones looked best lol. You just gotta do small steps and eventually you'll feel good enough to shoot your shot when you feel like the moment is right. Although don't always wait for the moment, but there usually is a moment where you just know, like when to kiss a girl, you just know when. Keep em coming Andy your content is great.
Hey Andy just wanted to say thankyou for ur “get laid in 6 weeks ebook” I followed the simple steps, and I got laid within 2 days, I’ve been in a dry spell for a little over a year and ur ebook literally cured it. From the bottom my heart thankyou very much ur a legend. Thankyou for helping us guys out who struggle with this sorta thing. God bless
Cold approaching keeps me sharp. Even if I'm not necessarily looking for anything while cold approaching, doing it consistently allows me to fearlessly ask girls out in social circles or in warm situations, and it sort of makes it easier for me to make a move during dates. I think it's from exposure to so much rejection. Also, you get used to the feeling of jumping off of a cliff. Cold approaching a girl feels like jumping off a cliff. Going in for the kiss feels like jumping off a cliff. Asking her to come to your place feels like jumping off a cliff.
Andy, going out and do cold approaching is fun? I can't believe. I would say it is completely opposite. I decided to cold approach women but in night/disco club (during day too). When I asked gently one woman on dancefloor to dance with me she showed me a middle finger and she said she has a boyfirend. Next day in another club another woman showed me a middle finger just because I smiled to her for not even one second, another one literally said to me "fuck off" because I approached to talk to her. A few times in the clubs I had situation when women were looking down at me and walked away right after this when I introduced myself and asked them what is theirs name. They didn't even want to talk to me. Trust me it really happened. I didn't make it up. Cold approaching is a nightmare for me. I am in mid 30s, I think I don't look disgusting. I am 5 foot 10, fit (little bit muscular) and bald like you yet some of the women still were rude to me even when I was being nice to them. Some people just don't believe me when I tell them about my horrible experiences with cold approaching. Cold approaching is a nightmare I hate doing that. I would never expect from women to be so rude while I was being friendly. I got discouraged and it affected my self esteem to be honest. What would you do if a woman was disrespectfull to you? Have you ever had such a bad experiences?
Answered this in a podcast my man: www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/11909805 Most relevant to you: "If women are mean to you in a nightclub... remember they're literally on drugs (alcohol)."
@@Andy_Wells Hello Andy, First of all I really would like to thank you for recording podcast to answer my question I know how valuable your time is so it really means a lot to me. I am feeling like a was a chosen one! Thank you so much. Subscribing to your channel was really good decision. First of all It is just unbelievable that some people sent you an e emails saying that you should kill yourself when you spread awerness about depression and you try to help people. Sorry to hear that and respect for being immune to it. I mentioned "I think I don't look disgusting" because of my negative experiences. I used to think good about myself but due to constant rejections from women (not only in night clubs) it broke me. I thought I am average looking guy or even above average but when I had a lot of rejections I started thinking that I was wrong about how I look. In the podcast you said "I don't know how you look like, maybe you should lose weight, work out on the gym etc" I used to work out on the gym, I was into bodybuilding (but I stopped) but I am still fit and little muscular. I am 178 cm hieght (5' feet 10') and bald like you. I dress smart casual. Even though I was getting rejections so I stopped approaching or when I do it it is very rarely (without results anyway) I got demotivated because rejections that I had were painfull to me. BTW: I go to clubs because I used to practise dancing so on dancefloor I feel like a fish in the water.
The main takeaway then is: keep going. Don't let rejections stop you. This might help: ruclips.net/video/jYb07ekaAHg/видео.html And: ruclips.net/video/p5mCjqAh39M/видео.html Again, daytime out on the street is nicer - I promise. Maybe going out with a buddy or two as well - that way if you do have a girl be mean to you in a club, your friend is there to make you feel better and remind you that a woman being mean is HER problem, not yours. Finally, this might help: www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/index/girls-that-are-mean
Nightclubs are like 100% looks, it's not effective unless you're tall and muscular and have a good looking face. During the daytime though, you should have a pretty good success rate, if you don't, then maybe you're not approaching the right kind of women. If you're 35 and cold approaching 18-20 year olds, most will not respond positively, some might be into it but that's not the majority. Cold approaching works when you look good and have standards that are not too high, because you end up approaching more women than just the top 1%, which increases your chances massively and you're more likely to find one who likes you.
Andy, how do you make sure you're always consistent with your sessions in terms of hitting your approach numbers and not leaving until that's accomplished?
Who even does cold approach in 2021?? Back in my days that stuff was garbage! And a huge waste of time just for a date! You can almost never run out of too many matches with online if you live in a big city. You can also social network to get girl from work and other platforms like Facebook
Ur buggin. U live ur live on a screen. Cold approach is a masculine manky thing to do. Seems like You scared to say hello to a girl in real life smh. U a sad boy
Okay Agent SMP, we'll just stay in your neat parameters of the internet so we can keep being monitored and controlled by the powers that be. Never do anything outside the system...
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Good video, I think you're spot on about talking to girls in public, it's so much more organic and masculine, I remember one time I saw some cute chick sitting alone watching the football game, I sat down next to her, asked her if she liked football, just had a totally non-threatening no pressure conversation, eventually she asked me if I had Facebook, we added each other, easy.
Something else that I started doing is almost every time I go to the grocery store or some store, I always ask the cutest girl working there where I can find x item, I think that it must help in a way, hell the other day this cute chick was next to me as I was trying on sunglasses and I got her to tell me which ones looked best lol. You just gotta do small steps and eventually you'll feel good enough to shoot your shot when you feel like the moment is right. Although don't always wait for the moment, but there usually is a moment where you just know, like when to kiss a girl, you just know when. Keep em coming Andy your content is great.
Hey Andy just wanted to say thankyou for ur “get laid in 6 weeks ebook” I followed the simple steps, and I got laid within 2 days, I’ve been in a dry spell for a little over a year and ur ebook literally cured it. From the bottom my heart thankyou very much ur a legend. Thankyou for helping us guys out who struggle with this sorta thing. God bless
That's amazing my man. Much love to you (and the women you meet!)
Cold approaching keeps me sharp. Even if I'm not necessarily looking for anything while cold approaching, doing it consistently allows me to fearlessly ask girls out in social circles or in warm situations, and it sort of makes it easier for me to make a move during dates. I think it's from exposure to so much rejection. Also, you get used to the feeling of jumping off of a cliff. Cold approaching a girl feels like jumping off a cliff. Going in for the kiss feels like jumping off a cliff. Asking her to come to your place feels like jumping off a cliff.
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Cheers, I put a shitload of effort into it.
Andy, going out and do cold approaching is fun? I can't believe. I would say it is completely opposite. I decided to cold approach women but in night/disco club (during day too). When I asked gently one woman on dancefloor to dance with me she showed me a middle finger and she said she has a boyfirend. Next day in another club another woman showed me a middle finger just because I smiled to her for not even one second, another one literally said to me "fuck off" because I approached to talk to her. A few times in the clubs I had situation when women were looking down at me and walked away right after this when I introduced myself and asked them what is theirs name. They didn't even want to talk to me. Trust me it really happened. I didn't make it up. Cold approaching is a nightmare for me. I am in mid 30s, I think I don't look disgusting. I am 5 foot 10, fit (little bit muscular) and bald like you yet some of the women still were rude to me even when I was being nice to them. Some people just don't believe me when I tell them about my horrible experiences with cold approaching.
Cold approaching is a nightmare I hate doing that. I would never expect from women to be so rude while I was being friendly. I got discouraged and it affected my self esteem to be honest.
What would you do if a woman was disrespectfull to you? Have you ever had such a bad experiences?
Answered this in a podcast my man: www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/11909805
Most relevant to you: "If women are mean to you in a nightclub... remember they're literally on drugs (alcohol)."
@@Andy_Wells Hello Andy,
First of all I really would like to thank you for recording podcast to answer my question I know how valuable your time is so it really means a lot to me. I am feeling like a was a chosen one! Thank you so much. Subscribing to your channel was really good decision.
First of all It is just unbelievable that some people sent you an e emails saying that you should kill yourself when you spread awerness about depression and you try to help people. Sorry to hear that and respect for being immune to it.
I mentioned "I think I don't look disgusting" because of my negative experiences. I used to think good about myself but due to constant rejections from women (not only in night clubs) it broke me. I thought I am average looking guy or even above average but when I had a lot of rejections I started thinking that I was wrong about how I look.
In the podcast you said "I don't know how you look like, maybe you should lose weight, work out on the gym etc" I used to work out on the gym, I was into bodybuilding (but I stopped) but I am still fit and little muscular. I am 178 cm hieght (5' feet 10') and bald like you. I dress smart casual.
Even though I was getting rejections so I stopped approaching or when I do it it is very rarely (without results anyway) I got demotivated because rejections that I had were painfull to me.
BTW: I go to clubs because I used to practise dancing so on dancefloor I feel like a fish in the water.
The main takeaway then is: keep going. Don't let rejections stop you. This might help: ruclips.net/video/jYb07ekaAHg/видео.html
And: ruclips.net/video/p5mCjqAh39M/видео.html
Again, daytime out on the street is nicer - I promise.
Maybe going out with a buddy or two as well - that way if you do have a girl be mean to you in a club, your friend is there to make you feel better and remind you that a woman being mean is HER problem, not yours.
Finally, this might help:
www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/index/girls-that-are-mean
Nightclubs are like 100% looks, it's not effective unless you're tall and muscular and have a good looking face.
During the daytime though, you should have a pretty good success rate, if you don't, then maybe you're not approaching the right kind of women. If you're 35 and cold approaching 18-20 year olds, most will not respond positively, some might be into it but that's not the majority.
Cold approaching works when you look good and have standards that are not too high, because you end up approaching more women than just the top 1%, which increases your chances massively and you're more likely to find one who likes you.
Andy, how do you make sure you're always consistent with your sessions in terms of hitting your approach numbers and not leaving until that's accomplished?
@@josheves9022 Thank you. 🙏🏾
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Daygame sucks, nightgame is so much better
Who even does cold approach in 2021?? Back in my days that stuff was garbage! And a huge waste of time just for a date!
You can almost never run out of too many matches with online if you live in a big city. You can also social network to get girl from work and other platforms like Facebook
I know right! Literally not a single man on the planet would do cold approach in 2021! Literally nobody! Omg!
Ur buggin. U live ur live on a screen. Cold approach is a masculine manky thing to do. Seems like You scared to say hello to a girl in real life smh. U a sad boy
Okay Agent SMP, we'll just stay in your neat parameters of the internet so we can keep being monitored and controlled by the powers that be. Never do anything outside the system...