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  • Опубликовано: 6 июл 2022
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Комментарии • 910

  • @lukedeker4676
    @lukedeker4676 2 года назад +2020

    We all deserve someone that smiles when they talk about us the way lex smiles when he talks about robots.

  • @johnelahad721
    @johnelahad721 2 года назад +922

    This is actually great advice from Joe - “Be somebody that someone wants to be in a relationship with.”

    • @locotek
      @locotek 2 года назад +50

      @JustMemes No that’s not what he means at all. He is saying don’t be a garbage individual who doesn’t work on oneself and you won’t have issues finding or maintaining a healthy relationship. People have a lot of nasty character traits and habits they don’t feel like addressing thus sabotage themselves throughout life. This stuff doesn’t need to be excused as part of one’s “personality”.

    • @pnut3844able
      @pnut3844able 2 года назад +6

      Duh. If people don't know this already they're fucked

    • @hype88
      @hype88 2 года назад +11

      @@pnut3844able It should be obvious but i've been all over this country and there is absolutely no doubt in my mind that a large percentage doesn't know or simply doesn't care to know. So basically you're right, they're fucked and honestly have nobody but them selves to blame as harsh as it is.

    • @keastymatthew2407
      @keastymatthew2407 2 года назад +7

      Yea he stole it off Jordan. Grow up

    • @pnut3844able
      @pnut3844able 2 года назад

      @@Platypus_Warrior what the fuck are you rambling on about? Go home, you're drunk. I remember when I had MY first drink.

  • @filbertovandette
    @filbertovandette 2 года назад +742

    "Don't settle for hot and mean. That's how you get Amber Heard."
    🤣🤣🤣💀

    • @Rendell001
      @Rendell001 2 года назад +16

      Borderline personality disorder in a nutshell - known a couple of ladies who fit that template and you got to get as far away from them as possible...

    • @1heart1mind
      @1heart1mind 2 года назад +1

      😅😅😅😅 so true !!! Great advice 😜

    • @roadkillraker
      @roadkillraker 2 года назад +4

      Hot and steaming?

    • @TonyMontana-os7kg
      @TonyMontana-os7kg 2 года назад

      I've heard she was no amber...

    • @user-lj2gx2bh8p
      @user-lj2gx2bh8p 2 года назад +7

      @@Rendell001 Dated one for two years. Never again.

  • @loopghost
    @loopghost 2 года назад +584

    "don't get hot and mean. hot and mean is not fun."
    the world is full of people who need to hear this and take it to heart.

    • @wojtekmazur2416
      @wojtekmazur2416 2 года назад +1

      like Johny Depp... Johny needs to hear this xD

    • @matthewcurry3565
      @matthewcurry3565 2 года назад +2

      No. It's about being brutal honestly, and rationally. You cannot be taken advantage from and do nothing. It makes even worse people. Kids when they get away with stuff truly think they have gained insight.
      He means don't go psychotic while you are hot. He is a man child with words.

    • @nev12345678910
      @nev12345678910 2 года назад

      I mean it can definitely be fun

    • @jamesk3612
      @jamesk3612 2 года назад +4

      Joe Rogan's brain is completely fried. Literally sounds like it came out of a third grader's mouth

    • @brianlee2646
      @brianlee2646 2 года назад +1

      It would seem most women are mean these days. There are still a few sweethearts left, but they’re not as common as they once were

  • @CGJUGO80
    @CGJUGO80 2 года назад +397

    To the guy that said "Lex is building his wife in his basement" I can’t stop laughing man

  • @philj212
    @philj212 2 года назад +807

    joe rogan having to hold back those man-tears just by describing his wife was sweet

    • @opsgreg8392
      @opsgreg8392 2 года назад +4

      💯💯

    • @robertgerrard
      @robertgerrard 2 года назад +36

      It's hard god dam work to find a great woman nowadays with all the fake bullshit out there.They are out there but it's hard to find the 1 who no matter what they are your partner 💯

    • @thecat7105
      @thecat7105 2 года назад +25

      The whole idea/thing about women in the eastern world just seems so much more attractive then women in the states these days.

    • @daryl9799
      @daryl9799 2 года назад +1

      @@robertgerrard You got that right

    • @jmannxiiiaaron
      @jmannxiiiaaron 2 года назад +25

      @FIGHFANNERD 9 It depends on where you live honestly. I live in LA... You're more likely to get struck by lightning than to meet a woman who's attractive but not a POS narcissist here.

  • @bgdream24
    @bgdream24 2 года назад +803

    Vulnerable moments like these is what makes the Joe rogan podcast a real experience, Lex always struck me as someone who had all his ducks in a row but I actually appreciate him more just for being human and having struggles like all of us but also an absolute legend

    • @thebzo
      @thebzo 2 года назад +43

      This is Lex's Podcast

    • @Absurdword
      @Absurdword 2 года назад +9

      Nailed it exactly my friend. Hearing joe talk this openly and sincerely takes me back to why I started listening to Joe back in 2010.

    • @Westropp_
      @Westropp_ 2 года назад +3

      @@Absurdword lex is pretty good and so is joe

    • @jamiestewart48
      @jamiestewart48 2 года назад +5

      The way Joe talks about his wife and his friends.. he's truly happy and truly happy to have found these people to have in his life. Don't care what anyone ever says about him or who tries to take him down. Judge a person on who they surround themselves with and who is friends with them in return.

    • @bgdream24
      @bgdream24 2 года назад

      @@thebzo lol true true,

  • @MrMonkeyInk
    @MrMonkeyInk 2 года назад +205

    Ok. That's pretty bloody sweet; Rogan getting a little choked up when he talks about how nice his wife is. Love it.

  • @brucegelman5582
    @brucegelman5582 2 года назад +47

    "What a strange illusion it is to believe beauty is goodness"
    Leo Tolstoy

    • @StKrane
      @StKrane Год назад

      Thank you for sharing this quote. 👍🏻

  • @arkcorps9138
    @arkcorps9138 2 года назад +524

    Two grown men having an open conversation about relationships and somehow people still find things to hate about them

    • @thatswhatithought6519
      @thatswhatithought6519 2 года назад +31

      Envy

    • @kod4062
      @kod4062 2 года назад +4

      cause this reveals how normal and boring they are lel

    • @joeseppy949
      @joeseppy949 2 года назад +16

      Misery loves company man.

    • @PauIdenino
      @PauIdenino 2 года назад

      There are things to hate about Joe at least

    • @Nick_Leo
      @Nick_Leo 2 года назад +3

      @@PauIdenino like what?

  • @patryka11
    @patryka11 Год назад +42

    I had many girlfriends and even I proposed once. But deep there I knew I did not want that. So I waited like an asshole and changed inside and finally found completely different girl, different to any former girls. She is genuine kind and nice person, no stupid pride to say something nice, no manipulation but honesty. So I say - be alone, learn to be alone. Many people are with others because they do not know how to be alone and they chose wrong. When you learn how to be alone and because you start to really like yourself then everything change. You are no longer with somebody because you hate to be alone but you like yourself and you invite somebody to your great life.

    • @DragonBallZuper
      @DragonBallZuper Год назад +1

      Is it okay to never be in a relationship and be single my whole life by choice if I’m happier that way too? :]

    • @TheGiantMidget
      @TheGiantMidget Год назад +1

      ​@@DragonBallZuper absolutely, read up on the ancient cynics of greece, they were homeless by choice and had no possessions and they were very content with their lives. You can be happy with all sorts of different lifestyles if you do it righteously

    • @jesusmtz29
      @jesusmtz29 4 месяца назад

      @@DragonBallZupersorry that makes you a loser who never learned to be a real man capable of commitment

  • @frozentspark2105
    @frozentspark2105 2 года назад +85

    My grandma who was married for over 50 years said, find someone who can deal with your brand of crazy. My grandpa said, have a place that grandma won't go

    • @MrNanomonkey
      @MrNanomonkey 2 года назад +6

      🤣

    • @user-og2wt3le4j
      @user-og2wt3le4j Год назад

      Like a man cave?

    • @JoachimMoeller
      @JoachimMoeller 5 месяцев назад

      What your grandma said is basically the take-home lesson from the movie *Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind* and a key reason for my adoration of it.

    • @frozentspark2105
      @frozentspark2105 5 месяцев назад

      @@JoachimMoeller I had absolutely no idea, now I'm curious. Tyvm 👍

  • @weeohwee100
    @weeohwee100 Год назад +17

    joe's advice is something i always tell myself and others: be the best version of yourself for someone. Too often people worry so much on what they want in a partner , but they forget about trying to hold the same standards for themselves. If you want someone who is genuine and kind and honest apply those same rules to yourself. And lastly, find people who share same values and beliefs as you do.

  • @hannahmitchell87
    @hannahmitchell87 2 года назад +511

    Lex, you already *are* someone people would want to be in a relationship with.
    Don't change yourself in the search for love, unless it's an aspect you actually want to change

    • @mrpotatoguy1
      @mrpotatoguy1 2 года назад +29

      Chicks dig Lex

    • @denniskatinas
      @denniskatinas 2 года назад +17

      Lex, my only regret in life is having kids late, at age 31. Find a lady who wants a big family, it's not about your happiness perse, but about duty and your servitude towards your forefathers who got you here. It is a task to undergo and suffer, but also to enjoy. It will all make sense, go for it, don't waste more time.

    • @theRatPackwasthebest
      @theRatPackwasthebest 2 года назад +44

      @@denniskatinas lmfao

    • @denniskatinas
      @denniskatinas 2 года назад +11

      @@theRatPackwasthebest Haha its true tho, for me it is. I never wanted kids, my girlfriend had to seduce and trick me for years. There's no regret. Get as many kids as you can bare around you. It's why you're here.

    • @adamz560
      @adamz560 2 года назад +7

      Very well put, I agree. Lex has a lot going for him but it's hard to see especially when most of your life was spent well disciplined in the academic world

  • @Michael.Virtus
    @Michael.Virtus 2 года назад +66

    The worst factor in relationships is that in the early phase when the love bio-chemistry is through the roof both partners want to please their loved ones and are open and tolerant to the other's favorite preferences (interests, hobbies, food, etc). And after that period is over than you realize this person actually enjoys things that you are not liking at all. And it becomes very unpleasant to live with a person so different than you.

  • @jacobtacosta
    @jacobtacosta 2 года назад +17

    “To have a worthy mate, be worthy of a worthy mate.” - Charlie Munger

  • @br9377
    @br9377 2 года назад +54

    The modern day poet 2 Chainz said it best. "Don't try to find the one, focus on becoming the one."

    • @jordan8659
      @jordan8659 2 года назад +1

      @@M00NBULLET …and also a man

    • @jordan8659
      @jordan8659 2 года назад +1

      @@M00NBULLET good point lmfao

    • @Rctdcttecededtef
      @Rctdcttecededtef 2 года назад +1

      Can you not do both lol

    • @barryt2666
      @barryt2666 2 года назад

      If you become " the one ", won't that make you binary?

  • @mynameismynameyourname6197
    @mynameismynameyourname6197 2 года назад +31

    Why is the thumbnail always have Natalie Portman when lex is getting relationship advice

    • @Frey-Doh
      @Frey-Doh 2 года назад +11

      I think he’s trying to throw out a hint… lol

  • @sotoskount
    @sotoskount 2 года назад +49

    "Hot and mean it's not fun." The quote of the day.

  • @TeresaKayWilliams
    @TeresaKayWilliams 2 года назад +24

    Heres a question I learned long ago… “Are you the man the woman you are looking for is looking for?”

  • @HORNGEN4
    @HORNGEN4 2 года назад +48

    Meeting people as an adult in general is the real challenge. Especially people who are open-minded, creative and stay away from alcohol.

    • @AManCalledDutch
      @AManCalledDutch 2 года назад +2

      Stay away from alcohol 🤣 wtf 🤡🤡

    • @HORNGEN4
      @HORNGEN4 2 года назад +18

      @@AManCalledDutch Some people can keep it to an occasional drink, so great if you do. For many it's a toxic addictive drug that destroys lives. It's not for me personally, so I prefer a significant other to not drink either. Shouldn't be hard to understand...

    • @gemmadidit4118
      @gemmadidit4118 2 года назад +4

      Call me...

    • @usualdosage7287
      @usualdosage7287 2 года назад +5

      @@AManCalledDutch y'know, not destroying your brain, since when did that become strange?

    • @HORNGEN4
      @HORNGEN4 Год назад +1

      @By Way Of Deception perhaps that's largely true but I don't accept it. We need to grow as a culture to put more value on developing deep friendships. We go all in on one relationship, just like we go all in on one career, and one way of living. Capitalism. It's unhealthy on many levels and at the root of the rapidly growing mental health crisis.

  • @hermes_logios
    @hermes_logios 2 года назад +78

    The same advice applies to business and career/money. Everyone wants to get paid, but what are you GIVING?
    I believe that Lex will find his person, and they will have wonderful children.

  • @benpreston2163
    @benpreston2163 Год назад +34

    Its crazy to see how much Joe has grown, from a meathead to a thoughtful person

    • @GourSmith
      @GourSmith Год назад +3

      He’s always been thoughtful … 🤡

    • @rogersfc
      @rogersfc 7 месяцев назад

      Joe Rogan is a fantastic human being. Also Lex. I think I would feel better arround Lex, kind of personality reasons i think. What i appreciate the most about them is how real they are plus they are doing such a great job for humanity

    • @tomzadvydas1758
      @tomzadvydas1758 28 дней назад

      True but the meathead is still very
      much there lol

  • @777jones
    @777jones 2 года назад +14

    Attitude, smarts and looks. In that order. It is nice to have all 3, but the most important is attitude.

  • @free_at_last8141
    @free_at_last8141 2 года назад +46

    "You're a great guy."
    -Every woman's first words before rejecting a guy.

  • @innnews6299
    @innnews6299 2 года назад +11

    Joe Rogan’s best, best, BEST advice ever. Choosing the right partner is one of life’s most important decision ever.

    • @user-og2wt3le4j
      @user-og2wt3le4j Год назад

      I would also add check that potential partner out. If no one among family, friends, church, co-workers says anything bad about her that's a good sign. Most women have some people they don't along with. So if everyone loves your woman that's a good sign. A bad sign: if she has no female friends that's a red flag.

  • @Arcadi4.44
    @Arcadi4.44 2 года назад +13

    I dated a girl who I thought was the one, fairly attractive and so kind, she changed hard, got back into hard drugs, made up lies about me, spoke to me like shit, threw things at me, lied to me. I wasnt on the ball, I didnt grow up in a very loving home and I probably projected my kindness onto her superficial front. I miss the person I thought they were, hopefully I’ll meet them for real, whoever they are…

    • @mcchickenmuhchicken
      @mcchickenmuhchicken 2 года назад +1

      i dont think she changed, i think everyone acts nice in the beginning and then once they have you they show you who they really were all along.

    • @Arcadi4.44
      @Arcadi4.44 2 года назад +1

      @@mcchickenmuhchicken yeah I guess, I flip between perspectives. Based on all my experiences I think you’re right it just hurts I was blind to it for so long, but at least I can be grateful that I wised up to the bs

    • @ChristAliveForevermore
      @ChristAliveForevermore Год назад +1

      I've experienced something similar (though not to this extreme). They're out there, man, you gotta attract her by becoming your best self. You won't find her consciously.

    • @derpestarzt
      @derpestarzt Год назад +1

      never date a drug addict!

    • @Arcadi4.44
      @Arcadi4.44 Год назад

      @@derpestarzt bs, I was a drug addict too, I just never went back to it. Feel free to steer clear but you’ll be missing out on a lot of good people

  • @patricksperspective99
    @patricksperspective99 2 года назад +151

    Joe's energy as he thinks about his wife >
    How can anyone hate this man ? 😂😂

    • @bgdream24
      @bgdream24 2 года назад +30

      right?! The friends I have that don't like him honestly don't fucking know him, they are just tribal sheep who recently were told what to think about him. It takes a certain personality to "hate him" I can understand like some of my girl friends who just don't vibe with his choice of topics and hobbies but to actually hate him just takes ignorance

    • @opsgreg8392
      @opsgreg8392 2 года назад +2

      Facts

    • @jamesross2373
      @jamesross2373 2 года назад +1

      So true.

    • @favianmadrid6345
      @favianmadrid6345 2 года назад +2

      @@bgdream24 tribal sheep imma have to use that one day lmaooo

    • @dionneharris6149
      @dionneharris6149 2 года назад +2

      Absolutely! People just wanna hate. Those are usually intimidated by the fact he is absolutely well rounded they would love it if he was just a “bro “ who was tough and didn’t talk about emotions just about fights and comedy and basic stuff but when a tough guy shows he is more than that it throws people into a spin they can’t cope. Their little brains can’t cope so they hate !

  • @TA_Tactics
    @TA_Tactics 2 года назад +7

    1:36 "You can be deceived by perfect symmetry." Great quote.

  • @rangowilder8099
    @rangowilder8099 2 года назад +12

    That little impersonation of Alex Jones @ 1:58 was perfect lmao

  • @zachcreek9629
    @zachcreek9629 2 года назад +37

    You always think you know what Joe is going to say but then he still manages to pleasantly surprise you

  • @proddreamatnight
    @proddreamatnight 2 года назад +60

    "Be somebody that someone wants to be in a relationship with" thanks Joe

    • @jschoma11
      @jschoma11 2 года назад +5

      That's actually really solid advice..there are plenty of people with little to offer who can't figure out why they're single

    • @jamsteroffthewheel4731
      @jamsteroffthewheel4731 2 года назад

      @@jschoma11 most single ppl don’t think they have anything to offer. That’s why they stay single and don’t ask ppl out

    • @jschoma11
      @jschoma11 2 года назад

      @@jamsteroffthewheel4731 right..thats why Joe's advice is good..if they don't think they have anything to offer then they need to fix that

    • @jamsteroffthewheel4731
      @jamsteroffthewheel4731 2 года назад

      @@jschoma11 I think they know that and would fix it if they knew how

    • @jschoma11
      @jschoma11 2 года назад

      @@jamsteroffthewheel4731 well..isn't it obvious? If someone is down on their looks..get in shape..dress better..if they feel their personality is lacking..interact with more people and so on..work on whatever you feel bad about..and it's all down to the individual..the "knowing what to do" isn't the hard part..it's actually doing the work that is

  • @cspace1234nz
    @cspace1234nz 2 года назад +75

    Joe Rogan has a really good understanding of relationships, the key being that whatever you want in a partner you have to be that. In other words, what are you prepared to give. People won’t do that these days so much, it’s all take take take

    • @quentins8165
      @quentins8165 2 года назад +1

      To a certain point I agree, I know I was by no means the best partner. I could barely manage a good night or a good morning text. I don't know if I was taking too much, I just don't think I was open enough to give enough.

    • @bonsummers2657
      @bonsummers2657 2 года назад +1

      There's more key detail. One must be secure in oneself (and a connection with God, humbleness in regard to God is good,… if one has such feelings),… and have an abundance mindset,…. not 'needy'.

    • @cspace1234nz
      @cspace1234nz 2 года назад

      @@quentins8165 That's really the same thing. If you're not giving you're taking, you'll be draining energy from the relationship.

    • @cspace1234nz
      @cspace1234nz 2 года назад

      @@bonsummers2657 being secure in oneself, indeed, knowing oneself is the same as knowing God and in so doing humility will arise, along with natural kindness and compassion.

    • @ralphholiman7401
      @ralphholiman7401 2 года назад

      And, the "Don't settle for hot and mean. They're are plenty of hot and nice girls out there." Very true.

  • @hipnhappenin
    @hipnhappenin 2 года назад +80

    Just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years and I said exactly this. Before I go looking for someone who I deem worthy of me, I need to be someone worthy.

    • @johnstone2029
      @johnstone2029 2 года назад +13

      shoot me an email baby you got the goods!

    • @daryl9799
      @daryl9799 2 года назад +5

      Good on you for not hoping into something new right after the breakup good men are looking for women who work on themselves.

    • @davidgalea6113
      @davidgalea6113 2 года назад

      @@johnstone2029 no dont simp. men like you are the reason most women have a severely over inflated sense of value. also have some self respect and dont be so desperate..

    • @FakefulandDisgracedSlaveClass
      @FakefulandDisgracedSlaveClass 2 года назад +2

      With a profile picture like that , you will have no issue getting a new boyfriend

    • @fearless6947
      @fearless6947 2 года назад

      Be someone that men like. You go girl 👍

  • @breakthecode1126
    @breakthecode1126 2 года назад +66

    Everyone wants someone they can gain from that’s the problem. People forgot what love is. And it isn’t always about what you can get out of the other person

    • @CabroNation11
      @CabroNation11 2 года назад +9

      well said code breaker

    • @andrewfreeman88
      @andrewfreeman88 2 года назад +2

      The Joker has sound advice..

    • @breakthecode1126
      @breakthecode1126 Год назад

      @@lesshuman00 ofcourse not sex is part of love. It’s wrong if all your looking for is sex. It’s lust.

    • @padarousou
      @padarousou Год назад +1

      Speak for yourself, not everyone is like you

    • @breakthecode1126
      @breakthecode1126 Год назад

      @@padarousou lmao I know everyone isn’t like that but most are selfish materialistic and immature. I didn’t even say once that’s how I think. And did you watch the video. Basically saying if you don’t have anything they want it’s ok for them not to be interested. Enhancing the idea to gain something from other people. I believe love is more about giving then getting. And when you put someone else above your own wants that is the beginning of figuring out what love is. I know every person in the world doesn’t think alike. What is the point?

  • @eveclancy3288
    @eveclancy3288 2 года назад +78

    It took me finding someone who treated me the way I was treating guys I liked and respected, to know I was on the right track (been married to him for almost 14 years). It also took me a long time to figure out I didn't need to be, nor did I want, an 8x10 glossy. That's one way of saying, "Be yourself," but people have to understand that in their own way. You might not be ready for "the one" yet, which as another commentor said, is OK.

    • @eveclancy3288
      @eveclancy3288 2 года назад +2

      @\f_a/ Haha, damn I'm old!

    • @eveclancy3288
      @eveclancy3288 2 года назад

      @\f_a/ 😊

    • @logic8673
      @logic8673 2 года назад

      if you are not hot for him when you can be , then you are lazy and entitled.

    • @kelvincasing5265
      @kelvincasing5265 2 года назад +1

      Be your best self

    • @nickjohnson1178
      @nickjohnson1178 2 года назад +1

      so you rode the carousel with the chads and when you hit the wall, got a nice guy to pay full price(used) for what others got for free(new). How romantic.

  • @JimMacintosh
    @JimMacintosh 2 года назад +11

    The bit about Tim Dillon is the best part of this great conversation lol

  • @maryprince6011
    @maryprince6011 2 года назад +294

    Lex...literally every woman watching this is waiving their hand over here volunteering to go on a date with you.

    • @gekkkoincroe
      @gekkkoincroe Год назад +11

      Many*
      Work on your grammar first

    • @mirunahodo4573
      @mirunahodo4573 Год назад +1

      haha so true

    • @ratneshchandna
      @ratneshchandna Год назад +16

      If that was true, it would be easy to find you. It isn’t, so you might want to revise your statement. Like, you, the ones waving your hands ALSO are, to no fault of your own, subconsciously looking for: height, build, humour, physically confident, etc. People like Lex don’t fall into most of those categories and end up not even making the corner of your eye sitting in the same coffee shop, restaurant, or a friend’s party as you. When you’re approached by the Lexs of this world, you don’t seem stimulated enough sexually, so you filter that off as nice guy / friend. And there you have it. In real life, you end up waving your hands at the wrong guy.

    • @Unanythang
      @Unanythang Год назад +7

      She down bad

    • @hannahlennertkristiansen4797
      @hannahlennertkristiansen4797 Год назад +6

      girl sshhh hes mine

  • @MrNanomonkey
    @MrNanomonkey 2 года назад +5

    I think the best advice is what Joe said about surrounding yourself with positive, healthy, friendly, generous people.

  • @claritywithteekay
    @claritywithteekay 2 года назад +11

    Bickering is my biggest flaw, being a perfectionist won’t take you far in life bro, get THAT part together, even I hate that about myself and have been working on it for ages

  • @kaisersozay2217
    @kaisersozay2217 2 года назад +8

    Joe very obviously loves his beautiful, smart, and kind wife

  • @kylep3349
    @kylep3349 2 года назад +13

    Both of you guys are my top favorites! Thank you for doing what you do!

  • @gaberoyalll
    @gaberoyalll 2 года назад +22

    I like the idea of pretending all my thoughts and conversations are recorded. That will help me have a more positive mindful mindset ! 🙏 🙌

    • @hypno5690
      @hypno5690 2 года назад +1

      that's honestly a little insane. You're being conditioned to self censor, not at all healthy for a free thinking individual. Maybe you should be re-educated as well?

  • @benhallo1553
    @benhallo1553 2 года назад +53

    With Lex it revolves around the fact he never puts himself in situations where he can serendipitously meet women. If he spends all day his study learning, your meetings with new potentiel women per year falls drastically, and with that, your ‘hit rate’ because you aren’t practicing your social skills

    • @evedotcom
      @evedotcom 2 года назад +13

      Hit rate, cringe. Also you don’t know what he’s doing. And there are multiple ways to go about this beyond the path you mention. I heard Andrew Huberman talk about setting him up with a friend. He may be meeting more women than you think. He seems fairly social for an introvert.

    • @dannykuang9433
      @dannykuang9433 2 года назад +1

      @@evedotcom soon as I read hit rate and imagining "tagging" women like some deer out in the wilds...*cringe* lol, but I sorta get what he means although his description leaves much to be desired. Never be "eager" for something, especially meeting someone for a relationship, it never ends well. Find someone when you find someone, no point to force it to happen. I've never put myself in social situations to increase my "hit rate" and never really was trying to look for a girlfriend..but guess what? I always ended up finding one when I found one.

    • @benhallo1553
      @benhallo1553 2 года назад +6

      @@evedotcom didn’t mean Hit rate as in sleep with them. I just mean interactions that lead to some form of romantic development. Also if you want proof of this, look at what he says in this video where talks about working too hard and not making the time and on top of that he has another video which is like an example of his usual. He literally spends it completely alone studying AI, exercising alone and like practicing guitar

  • @abditus5842
    @abditus5842 2 года назад +12

    Great advice from Joe. Shared values and a positive attitude. The fruit of the Spirit as the Apostle Paul described.

  • @hawleygriffin1800
    @hawleygriffin1800 Год назад +3

    You're kind, you're fit, you're 6 ft. tall, you run 5 or 6 days a week you lift 3 days a week, you make 200K a year, you're really happy with your life largely because you don't have much for expectations and have really over achieved compared to where you came from, but all that you are now takes up so much of your time, that even though you're none of the bad things Joe listed, that fact that you don't feel the need to keep up with the Jones's with bigger houses and more cars, still disqualifies you, not because you're bad but you're still not enough because you aren't mainstream enough compared to most women's expectations.

  • @R_a_m_a_z_a_n
    @R_a_m_a_z_a_n 2 года назад +9

    The best way to find your love is just go and meet people. Be on some events, do something with others and just live surrounded with people.
    Just do it! No need to think much about it and ask others for advice.
    Good luck! )))

  • @rohithdsouza8
    @rohithdsouza8 Год назад +1

    -Focus on yourself and be better
    -Be with someone who has similar values as yours
    Most Valuable: Surround yourself with great people.

  • @darrisnelson5223
    @darrisnelson5223 2 года назад +10

    So right Joe…find someone who shares your values, who is kind, smart and honest. So nice to hear Joe speak about his wife.❤️

  • @junk_rig_sailor1698
    @junk_rig_sailor1698 2 года назад +23

    I'm sure Joes wife is as nice and happy as he says, but she now has a 100 million reasons to be even happier.

  • @cmans777
    @cmans777 2 года назад +2

    Patience and kindness are the keys.
    Equal energy Exchange above all.

  • @smcd7779
    @smcd7779 2 года назад +25

    I love it how Joe hardly talks bout his family ya don’t even know there names,he shields them ya don’t want no weirdos knowing about your family his got it sussed perfectly 👌

  • @hlf_coder6272
    @hlf_coder6272 2 года назад +48

    It took me years and several relationships to realize I actually prefer being single. I think relationships are highly overrated. If you can accept that you don’t need to be in one, life can be damn liberating. My career took off, I found new hobbies and was far less stressed

    • @evedotcom
      @evedotcom 2 года назад +14

      Interesting. It took me years and several relationships to realise I’m okay and enough being single. I‘ve become much healthier and more successful since (after an initial painful transition). But I would not say I prefer being single and relationships are highly overrated. I would say at this time in my life, being single has been necessary and, contrary to popular belief, a fulfilling experience. I can see value in a high quality relationship and I’m gradually opening up to it, but I also feel whole on my own. It’s a great position to be in. There can be so much value in extended periods of being single.

    • @dalegrant9282
      @dalegrant9282 2 года назад +2

      No question that career takes off when you're single, best time of my life was when I was single, saved the most money.

    • @davidgalea6113
      @davidgalea6113 2 года назад +3

      you guys must be american

    • @MideanStone
      @MideanStone 2 года назад +3

      @@davidgalea6113 Aussie here, absolutely love being single, career is in a great place, life is great. I also only sleep with someone i love, so the downside is no sexytime, but the gym takes care of that haha.

    • @davidgalea6113
      @davidgalea6113 2 года назад +4

      ​@@MideanStone relationships are important, evolution hardwired this into us. Look at the The Harvard Study of Adult Development. one of their conclusions from this massive 75 year study is that there is a very strong correlation between happiness and relationships. Im single i might be content the way things are but im not going to pretend that a good relationship is not one of the most important thing is life.

  • @63mckenzie
    @63mckenzie 2 года назад +8

    I learned an important lesson early in life. There was a stunningly beautiful woman in an office where I worked. One day she came to work beside me. I was the happiest man on earth. Then I learned she had zero personality and was as interesting as a blank wall. Personality is what you fall in love with.

  • @kevinmichael4829
    @kevinmichael4829 2 года назад +1

    Not sure why Joe Rogan gets so much shit. The man wears his heart on his sleeve. And isn’t afraid to have difficult conversations. The world needs people that are not afraid to disagree and share ideas.

  • @nawaf9948
    @nawaf9948 2 года назад +3

    Joe being on the right side of the table affected my equilibrium.

  • @stevena8719
    @stevena8719 2 года назад +3

    Relationships are about compromise dog. Gotta learn where and when to compromise and where and when to stay firm. So long as you have your values in line with one another, its all about picking your battles well.

  • @greg.peepeeface
    @greg.peepeeface 2 года назад +6

    Lex and Joe are the bromance we all outright or secretly want.

  • @ELNACHO78
    @ELNACHO78 2 года назад +2

    Never go for hot, go for smart and funny. The physical will change this is the most important fact. Think to yourself. Do I want to be in a team with that other person? A relationship is a team.

  • @blueskynrainbows
    @blueskynrainbows 2 года назад +1

    A little more kindness, a little less judgement

  • @mailboxxy
    @mailboxxy 2 года назад +4

    I agree though keep great people around you. Don't let negativity invade your life.

  • @khashayarx6530
    @khashayarx6530 2 года назад +3

    I love the way joe talks about his wife, i can feel love in those words.

  • @GuilhermeSpindola
    @GuilhermeSpindola 2 года назад +4

    Lex loves Natalie Portman on his thumbnails clips HAHAHHA

    • @lyrand6408
      @lyrand6408 2 года назад

      Can't blame that, Natalie Portman is basically perfect (of course, it's subjective but... it's not lol, she's perfect).

  • @mullyfla
    @mullyfla 2 года назад +3

    This is my fave
    Love these 2 guys. Rogan is so rock solid.

  • @EmilyW.isawakenotwoke
    @EmilyW.isawakenotwoke 2 года назад +3

    You are so lucky to have Joe to be your friend. He obviously deeply cares for you, and is a great role model.. ❤️🕊️🙏

  • @blakeeubank4520
    @blakeeubank4520 2 года назад +12

    Lex, I am a little worried about you man. I don't know if it is a thing with Russian guys but you have a kind of sadness about you. I think if you just relax and let things come to you you will find someone special. And if not you have some good friends that will keep you from being lonely.

    • @szn7548
      @szn7548 2 года назад +3

      Yeah, we have that generational depression shit passed around from our family tree

    • @Targus28
      @Targus28 2 года назад +4

      He's an INFJ 5w4. He'll always have this sadness about him and there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. It doesn't mean anything, it's just the way he his. It takes an intelligent person to understand this.

    • @Targus28
      @Targus28 2 года назад +1

      And he is relaxed. He's just trying to understand his self, life, the universe. He's a complicated person that needs an intelligent mate.

    • @hannahmitchell87
      @hannahmitchell87 2 года назад

      @@Targus28 Really?? Now it makes sense why I feel such an affinity!!

  • @Jeremy-Ai
    @Jeremy-Ai 2 года назад +1

    Hmmmm. I dont know whats best for you Lex.
    Love.
    Learn.
    Fail.
    Grow.
    Succeed.
    Fail again.
    Learn.
    Succeed.
    Question everything…
    Blah blah blah…Eventually just have some children please.
    I can say with confidence that
    This world needs more
    “lil Lex’s” running around.
    Because we absolutely appreciate your hard work and influence my friend. :)
    Jeremy.

  • @ben21016
    @ben21016 2 года назад +1

    lex's "brick house" line at the end was gold!

  • @EnwardSnowman
    @EnwardSnowman 2 года назад +3

    It's not complicated, man. Just star in several syndicated TV shows and become enormously wealthy. Simple.

  • @EliUnityGoldsmith
    @EliUnityGoldsmith 2 года назад +3

    Kind loving good people especially your soul mate a happy good energy person🥰🥰 great advice from Joe to Lex…

  • @michaelc.3812
    @michaelc.3812 2 года назад +1

    Yeah, I have to agree with another commenter. Don’t look for perfection, but BE the perfection (as best you can) for someone. BE the person everyone wants to be with. That might just help you find a great mate. And of course have very similar perspectives on faith, family, and life…..

  • @carlitoscabana7197
    @carlitoscabana7197 2 года назад +2

    Best advice I can give is to be a leader. Woman want that. And I know other females here will tell you I'm wrong but I'm telling you they don't want to deal with the consequences of decisions. Be confident!!! If she threatens you with leaving then offer to help pack her bags. When she knows you can get another girl after her leaving it removes the power of the cooch that she has over you.

  • @ShyMplsMale
    @ShyMplsMale 2 года назад +4

    Be the "best" version of yourself. Whatever that may be. Whatever makes you happy. As you are striving for that... is when you will meet someone who is right for you.

  • @alisonbartlett2907
    @alisonbartlett2907 2 года назад +3

    I don't know what faith Lex is if any, but I think for me finding someone who shares the same faith and values makes a huge difference. Start there and see what you find... yourself as well as your other half

  • @ldn0224
    @ldn0224 2 года назад +1

    Sense of humor is huge, be kind and be a mature man as best you can and keep growing.

  • @UniversalMysteries343
    @UniversalMysteries343 Год назад +9

    Joe's entire ethical system seems to be built on work, at least subconsciously. "Find yourself someone that isn't lazy" "I like my wife because she works hard" "I surround myself with people that inspire me to work harder"

  • @marisol114
    @marisol114 2 года назад +8

    Great advice from Joe Rogan ! So many people are in a relationship for superficial reasons.

    • @singhshredz
      @singhshredz Год назад +1

      What kind of superficial reasons do you mean?

    • @BL-zi9wb
      @BL-zi9wb Год назад

      hey

  • @kawstar78
    @kawstar78 2 года назад +5

    Love these two men. Wise words.

  • @alexander3558
    @alexander3558 2 года назад +2

    Don’t be in a relationship period. Focus on your dreams, your passions, be selfish AF with your time, money, success, and resources. And if you do happen to be in one, don’t have kids, get married or live with them. Ever

  • @Shmandalf
    @Shmandalf 2 года назад +7

    Lex has a point. Everything kind of stops when you're in love - it is a lot of work but its always been worth it in my experience.

    • @GeneralRamm910
      @GeneralRamm910 Год назад

      Wasn't worth it once to me. Not once. Only worth it in the fact that I experienced it enough to actively swear it off and have grown exponentially as a person, not only being alone, but WANTING to be alone.

  • @steveN111333
    @steveN111333 2 года назад +5

    Lex could find someone easy ! He's a cool dude 😎

  • @ChewingBarbie
    @ChewingBarbie 2 года назад +11

    I feel like this podcast is turning into a long list of romantic pieces of advice for Lex. Hopefully you'll find someone nice💜

  • @ashwinshankerg
    @ashwinshankerg 2 года назад +2

    how cute.."shes so nice..shes always smiling"

    • @bcampbell1826
      @bcampbell1826 2 года назад

      Married to a guy worth 120 million dollars. [ Google search ] Pays to be nice lol!

  • @edgar9651
    @edgar9651 Год назад +1

    It also helps a lot to meet many (new) people. It seems Lex is so busy with his work and he doesn't spend much time to just go out there.

  • @rachellesawyer6523
    @rachellesawyer6523 2 года назад +3

    This is Joe Rogan at his best - love it

  • @oiyajiamv6736
    @oiyajiamv6736 2 года назад +5

    I dont give af about relationships, but since its Joe Rogan im listening

  • @timothyblazer1749
    @timothyblazer1749 2 года назад +2

    The problem for Lex is that he needs to seriously vet them. He is very good, and very popular, and so he will need to be very careful.

  • @BowlerTheHatGuy
    @BowlerTheHatGuy Год назад

    Lex with his calm, hypnotic voice would make an excellent therapist

  • @SeasonOfLove14
    @SeasonOfLove14 2 года назад +3

    Let him finish his question Joe!

  • @rayanahosn
    @rayanahosn 2 года назад +4

    Video Title: “Joe Rogan relationship advice to Lex”
    First sentence from Joe to Lex:”Well you’re a great guy. This definitely doesn’t necessarily apply to you….

  • @mkg5ive703
    @mkg5ive703 2 года назад +2

    Lex has upgraded his humor stats😂

  • @fe5018
    @fe5018 Год назад

    3:56 positive, healthy, friendly, generous people.

  • @lsporter88
    @lsporter88 2 года назад +3

    That's right. That's damn good advice. Great video.

  • @jeffxanders3990
    @jeffxanders3990 2 года назад +16

    The only relationship that really matters is the one you have with yourself.

    • @shantanushekharsjunerft9783
      @shantanushekharsjunerft9783 2 года назад +2

      That’s Buddha said, the only person that will stay with you from your first to your last breath is you!

    • @evedotcom
      @evedotcom 2 года назад +2

      I’d change that too *the most important* relationship. Other relationships matter too.

    • @moiseechen
      @moiseechen 2 года назад

      Satc quote?

  • @markdimeo7060
    @markdimeo7060 11 месяцев назад +1

    Listen up, Lex. Rule #1 Don't be a Simp. Rule #2 When in doubt, refer to Rule #1

  • @mrmaxaxl
    @mrmaxaxl 2 года назад +1

    Meeting someone who "hot" is not my priority. It's a plus sure. But the most important thing for me is that you have fun together and have at least a few things in common.

  • @maevemaiden
    @maevemaiden 2 года назад +14

    Ah I love this clip and Lex and Joe having a genuine discussion about real relationships and what is truly important in partners and friends. I would add to the traits of kindness and happiness, someone intelligent like you Lex!
    I love to discuss movies and music and art and want to know what books you've read and interesting conversations you've had. If I ever try dating again that would be my criteria. In the meantime I'm enjoying my solo journey

    • @ceasarinvictus3857
      @ceasarinvictus3857 10 месяцев назад

      have you had moments where you’ve fallen or have you been able to balance it well

  • @DrJanpha
    @DrJanpha 2 года назад +3

    Joe and Lex - thanks for the best podcast ever!

  • @lahaza6515
    @lahaza6515 2 года назад

    Most informative, SOUND 5 minutes either of these two has spoken about publicly.
    Make it VIRAL!

  • @nayukie1
    @nayukie1 2 года назад +1

    That was elegantly said. Very beautiful description, and advice. Thank you.