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  • Опубликовано: 25 июн 2022
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    Raising a puppy is no joke. It has nothing to do with the Insta-fantasy of dog ownership we see everywhere. Here are some of the highs and lows I've experienced in the first week of living with my 9-week-old puppy, Vilk.
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  • @evazubeck
    @evazubeck  Год назад +1191

    This video is very honest. Yes, I could tell you it’s been a breeze, all rainbows and butterflies, and only show the really good parts. But I chose not to do that, because I like to think you’d prefer me to be honest about the ups and downs.
    Unfortunately not everyone in the comments seems to understand that. That’s fine - maybe you’ve never had a dog or maybe you prefer to only see perfection on social media. You can keep your judgment to yourselves 🙏
    And if you have felt some of what I’m feeling - I see you! I feel you! And from what I hear, it does get better ☺️ So much love even in the tough times!! ❤️

    • @alexanderstark5192
      @alexanderstark5192 Год назад +20

      lots of people like to think they know everything just ignore them, follow the advice and training you have learned and just stick with it and all will be well eva :). nice thing about you living this lifestyle is you can take as much time as you want in between trips to train and bond with your doggo.

    • @JPX3100
      @JPX3100 Год назад +19

      I appreciate your honesty. Thank you 🙏

    • @habibihhadid7603
      @habibihhadid7603 Год назад +15

      You are doing your best eva…and that is all that one can do❤️

    • @Vdpoorten
      @Vdpoorten Год назад +24

      Eva don’t worry. We dogg owners know what your going thu. It gets better. Raising an puppy is tough. Just try to get an daily routine. And when it get to tough try to find an friend to take care of vic for half an day. Also try to reach out to some youtube trainers for advice and guidance. Helpful for you and also for your viewers. And lastly enjoy every second. The grow up so fast.

    • @KristinaRaqs
      @KristinaRaqs Год назад +5

      get it Eva! Its easy to judge.

  • @NikkiDelventhal
    @NikkiDelventhal Год назад +865

    You’re doing amazing! When I found Camper and brought him into the Prius I cried at least once a week at least for the first 6 months! It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done, taking him in, training him, teaching him he’s not alone in the wild anymore, and truthfully he is still a challenge but I can tell you this… he was 100% worth the blood (literally hahah from squirrel chasing off cliffs & big falls hahah), sweat and tears! The challenging moments become some of the happiest moments. You have a best friend and a pal for life. I like to think of this a lot too, we are the only human they will know, we are their entire world, and how lucky are we to receive that unconditional love! CAN’T WAIT TO MEET VILK AND YOU! XOXOOX

    • @justwannasay5454
      @justwannasay5454 Год назад +25

      Camper is amazing because of all the ❤️ and attention he gets. You have a great dog.

    • @sarahr9181
      @sarahr9181 Год назад +15

      Awesome comment, Nikki. I love you and Camper!! We got a puppy at the end of April and I love her but sometimes I want to punch myself in the throat bc it’s so challenging. And I have a husband, an extra pair of hands!! You girls are doing it solo so hats off to you both!! ❤️

    • @minime7375
      @minime7375 Год назад +15

      Camper’s an amazing dog, in spite of his squirrelsphobia😁

    • @hennessy4666
      @hennessy4666 Год назад +32

      U 2 shoud meet and make a memorable video together .

    • @RedWhirlWind
      @RedWhirlWind Год назад +28

      Nikki!!! You and Eva should totally meet up for a dog walk!!! you guys are both in the usa for the first time ever

  • @minkim8478
    @minkim8478 Год назад +31

    When I got my puppy (also a working line GSD), I cried a lot the first 6 months. Now that he’s 6 1/2 years old, it’s so much easier, but I also feel sad to see him aging. The time has passed so quickly. Try to appreciate the moments even as hard as they are because it goes so quickly.

  • @fatimaj7692
    @fatimaj7692 Год назад +30

    I don’t know what its like having a puppy but it sounds exactly like having a newborn. When you were overwhelmed and teary, it was exactly how i felt once i had my newborn at home. That feeling of loving him so much yet wanting to escape for a few hours, that’s exactly how i felt with my baby. You brought back memories! I would say its the lowest i have ever felt with him.

    • @GholaTleilaxu
      @GholaTleilaxu 11 месяцев назад +2

      Having a dog or wolf-dog puppy is NOTHING like having a human newborn.

  • @Angela-ne9cy
    @Angela-ne9cy Год назад +146

    I cried every day for about 3 weeks when I got my puppy. I called the shelter twice to bring her back. I truly thought I'd made a HUGE mistake!!!! But here we are, 8 years later, and she is the absolute love of my life. It took time to figure out how to navigate our lives together but once we did, it was pure magic. You'll get there!!!!!!

    • @evazubeck
      @evazubeck  Год назад +25

      Oh I am so happy you persisted! You guys must have an amazing bond. Lots of love❤️

    • @bradford_shaun_murray
      @bradford_shaun_murray Год назад +3

      @@evazubeck a dream puppy should not be a nightmare 0:37 you'll be ok 18:44

    • @palli3112
      @palli3112 Год назад +2

      So true....the same happened to me. But I persisted and Max is the love of my life.

  • @jamesmazurstudios
    @jamesmazurstudios Год назад +54

    A well trained dog represents 1000's of hours of training from day one, everyday.

  • @10XBULL
    @10XBULL Год назад +42

    As a person that has owned several dogs, let me just say this. Vilk seems like a good puppy. Soon you will be able to take him on your runs. I encourage you to get him started ASAP. As much as you travel, it can only benefit you to have him with you at all (most) times. As he matures, he will become your best friend and guardian. Loyalty is what you will eventually end up with, with Vilk. And on a positive note, the runs will make him want to crash afterwards giving you a new time slot to edit your post's 🙂

  • @mirceaparvulescu7925
    @mirceaparvulescu7925 Год назад +91

    Hi, Eva. I would suggest you get a ramp or ladder for him to get in and out of Odyssey, he will be doing it at least 6 times a day, probably a lot more, it could damage his joints.
    It is quite normal to feel overwhelmed, but to me it looks like you're doing fine so far :)
    I would like to offer another advice, especially for having Vilk off leash, if no one else already suggested it: find a secure, fenced in spot (it can even be a house), stop near a tree or some big object, ignore him so he gets bored and starts to investigate around and, when he's not looking at you, hide behind the tree. His eye sight is poor, so you don't have to be invisible. When he'll realize he lost you, he will panic a bit and start to search for you. Preferably wait for him to find you and, when he does, make a big deal out of it: treats, toys, ball, etc.; if he can't find you and you see him take off in some direction, call him back, before he gets too far, so he doesn't get lost or something (this is why it is important to be in a secure area, where he can't actually get lost), and then try again. Do this a lot, in as many places as you can.
    This will teach him that, if he's too focused on other things, he will lose you, so he will begin to keep a close eye on you, you should find it more and more difficult to actually get away from him, which in turn will mean that he will not get lost or something on a hike, HE will the one keeping track of you, and making sure you don't "escape".
    Hope this helps ! Good luck with the little one :)

    • @ooOxeniaOoo
      @ooOxeniaOoo Год назад +11

      This is a good tip for confident dog. An insecure dog you'll traumatize with that "trick". Most trainers don't recommend that anymore.

    • @mirceaparvulescu7925
      @mirceaparvulescu7925 Год назад +9

      ​@@ooOxeniaOoo Vilk comes from working gsd lines and from the very little i've seen of him, he seemed pretty confident, at least for this type of "stress".

    • @ooOxeniaOoo
      @ooOxeniaOoo Год назад +2

      @@mirceaparvulescu7925 I agree :)

    • @bluehaven3391
      @bluehaven3391 Год назад

      Yea, hip issues are big dog issues when they start approaching senior years...

  • @gregmuon
    @gregmuon Год назад +137

    Vilk is probably thinking, "She's so much more work than I was expecting!" 😁 Don't beat yourself up so much; you're doing fine.

    • @tannhauser5399
      @tannhauser5399 Год назад +4

      @Greg B - she is. It is a slow process, and both side are learning to read each other. Some people overthik this too much. At the end, this is an animal you have to take care of, protect if you have to, a member of your "family". Also driven by instincts in a lot of cases, so you have to remember that too. And dogs are good at reading a body language too, the same with most animals, even facial expressions, tone of the voice, and so on. They will know if you are excited, upset, happy.
      At the end... the puppy is responsibility too. And you have to know that at the end. It will all gets better. Taxing experience after few days/weeks? Nah. Not even close. For him, for the puppy you will be there for all of his/her life. And you will be there where the dog/cat/any other animal will die too. And you have to be there for it, at this moment. But for you it will be just a short part of your life. So learn from that. And in a way, learn from each other.
      Edit: grammar

    • @safe-keeper1042
      @safe-keeper1042 Год назад +6

      I wish Vilk the best of luck. With patience, he'll probably get Eva to do what he wants in time 😁😛.

    • @tannhauser5399
      @tannhauser5399 Год назад +3

      @@safe-keeper1042 - Exactly that! At the end, in a way, we are the "servants" - especially with cats :)

    • @the2ndcoming135
      @the2ndcoming135 Год назад

      He looked more like a wolf pup when he was smaller before his coat shed and changed a bit.

  • @fermisparadox01
    @fermisparadox01 Год назад +108

    When the puppy matures and starts staring deeply into your eyes, the journey is complete.

    • @93samsam
      @93samsam Год назад +5

      Yes!! Its such a satisfaction to see your pups grow and obey but most importantly, that connection and that stare man... Melts your heart.

    • @Atrayus1984
      @Atrayus1984 Год назад +2

      I always found it creepy when animals stare at me lol.

    • @curiousbystander9193
      @curiousbystander9193 Год назад

      you will have complete instructions to fill the dog bowl, regularly.... yup, just from the gaze in their eyes.

    • @curiousbystander9193
      @curiousbystander9193 Год назад +1

      @@Atrayus1984 on some primal level, they wonder if you taste good.

    • @Atrayus1984
      @Atrayus1984 Год назад

      @@curiousbystander9193 HA, I knew it!

  • @j.anthonyray8020
    @j.anthonyray8020 Год назад +17

    As a seasoned GSD parents, we laughed when you went to porta-potty and asked “where will this lead?”. Eva, you now have a GSD…..you will never be in the bathroom alone again!

  • @richardhanley3411
    @richardhanley3411 Год назад +7

    My dogs are alot older now and when I look at their puppy photos I realize that I have a smile on my face. 14 years now and I wouldn't trade a single minute for anything. Please don't worry, you'll be a great dog mom

  • @antxoncarbonero
    @antxoncarbonero Год назад +19

    Imagine yourself watching this footage in like 5 years when a mature Vilk and you have already lived a huge amount of experiences together. What a great adventure companion you just got!

  • @Redmoom
    @Redmoom Год назад +21

    Dogs teach us many things and as a puppy it is called patience, When they grow up it is loyalty and unadulterated love. It all pays off 10 fold in the end.

  • @avenuesaco9532
    @avenuesaco9532 Год назад +103

    I perceived Eva as a very strong, empowered, confident and courageous woman and for that I admire her so much. But what I admire most is she’s also not afraid of showing her vulnerability. That’s honest, real, and she’s also human. Carry on Eva as you’re such an inspiration. Will be here with your journey. Cheers!

    • @Jamedia66
      @Jamedia66 Год назад +1

      It really does show a much more intimate look into how substantive these challenges she faces actually are. Experiencing amazing adventure and witnessing the surreality of beauty around the world, is not an easy feat. Well said…

    • @GholaTleilaxu
      @GholaTleilaxu 11 месяцев назад

      Empowered by what?

  • @JohnandCaraRetiredTravellers
    @JohnandCaraRetiredTravellers Год назад +19

    Welcome to parenthood! The joys outweigh the challenges! You’re doing great! 💖~Cara

  • @johnhall4445
    @johnhall4445 Год назад +36

    Almost 12 years ago I was where you are with your puppy. Today, like everyday for all these years he paid me back for any stress or difficulty he ever caused. It’s like you’re putting energy in a love account that pays you back with interest!

  • @michaelmontano919
    @michaelmontano919 Год назад +174

    I'm 62 and all I've ever had are German shepherds, many types like eastern, western Czech etc. It does get better Eva and your time and love will pay off. Through him, you will automatically become more aware of your surroundings ( where he looks, you'll look) and when he gets bigger, just the look on his face may deter any bad people from bothering you. My wife and I are so happy you found him. We always worry about you.

    • @prairrie
      @prairrie Год назад +12

      Absolutely agree the payoff will be 10 fold. He will keep her safe .

    • @laurabf777
      @laurabf777 Год назад +9

      Yesss the first year is soooo hard, but when they become adults they become completly different. I have now 3 dogs and they are now so polite

    • @pogo1140
      @pogo1140 Год назад +4

      @@laurabf777 The good part is that pup's first year is equal to babies first 6-8 years.

    • @marchuitt
      @marchuitt Год назад +6

      I'm 42 and have always had Malinois since I was elementary age. Two that were mine and that I always raised from 7, 8 weeks puppies (my parents were products of the 70s and 80s, and loved animals, my dad got first Malinois male (Flap, import from France) when I was 6 and I made it mine, it was my dog, he got a female (Katie) and made that one mine too (constantly with me where I went, spoiled em), then on in my family the Malinois were always mine). Got two now (one under my feet/desk, the other plopped against side of my chair). I miss their puppy days, for the most part - but Malinois, being Malinois, and I hated caging mine (I'd be gone, 8, 9, 10, however many hours at work and I hated the idea of cooping them in a cage for all that time), so every set I've had destroyed a couple houses (and one college apartment) in their early years (doors - including sliding glass ones they learned how to take off the track, carpeting, walls, appliances, furniture). I'll do it again, and again, and again, till day I die. its just part of having dogs (at least the kind I get). They're always devoted and I'm used to them always being there, and I'll never give that up.

    • @michaelmontano919
      @michaelmontano919 Год назад +1

      @@marchuitt I love it. Those are amazing dogs as well Marc. The hard times today are what we laugh at tomorrow.

  • @paulbrice9113
    @paulbrice9113 Год назад +105

    This is just the training phase; you got this!!! When he's older and well trained you'll get the reward of a lifetime. Hang in there!!!
    P.S. You're doing a great job!

    • @trottheblackdog
      @trottheblackdog Год назад

      One day, Vilk will go on runs with her!

    • @Darkest_Soul_187
      @Darkest_Soul_187 Год назад

      Few days and she's already crying and whining.. She don't got this

    • @DireDesign
      @DireDesign Год назад +2

      I came here to say essentially the same thing. Puppies ARE hard. That is IF youre actually doing the work. The good news is, all of that effort does pay off. Youre going to have a wonderfully bonded and focused dog who will be up for any challenge you put before him. The breed is brilliant, but yes a TON of energy. Thats great for you and your jogging though!
      I have a large pair of dogs in our Fifthwheel fulltime (pretty much a similar RV and Layout to the one you saw in texas), and we DONT jog everyday... So we got lazy breeds. My wife worked SO hard with them as puppies and theyre pretty well trained. Theyre enjoying the life on the road.
      I do know that German Shepherd dogs can be pretty people shy and not like strangers if theyre not socialized a lot early on. Perhaps thats the goal if youre more interested in personal protection, But sometimes a non-socialized dog can be a right pain in the butt. HAHA.
      Good luck, Eva. Youre doing great!

  • @dagr.johnsen2164
    @dagr.johnsen2164 Год назад +6

    The Little Guy is just beautiful.
    Seems like he is learning fast, too .

  • @GospelGary
    @GospelGary Год назад +22

    Staying in one place, a cabin in the woods, is good decision to allow the puppy to acclimate himself to his new world.

  • @grahamcole7400
    @grahamcole7400 Год назад +46

    I am 73 and had dogs all my life, best advice I have always followed is.
    Ignore bad behaviour but generously reward good behaviour with love and treats especially when puppies.
    Never "punish" a dog with physical abuse, or isolation, as it will only manifest as aggression or nervousness, just be firm but fair with your voice if he steps out of line, and reward him immediately when he does the right thing. That way he will respect you as his pack leader and WANT to do the right things and follow you to the end of the earth.
    Socialising with other dogs while a puppy is also very important, so they learn the boundaries of play and manners to older dogs etc.....the majority of dogs are very good and very quick to work out the boundaries...if they are allowed to.
    My current15 year old Lakeland/Irish Terrier cross (Frodo) is the best companion I have ever had, so well behaved that sometimes it is almost embarrassing, and gives unconditional love back six fold.....even does therapy rounds at the local old peoples Care Home
    Looks like you have already formed a close bond, and as fellow travellers he will love it you will soon be inseparable.

    • @sdemosi
      @sdemosi Год назад

      I have a soon to be 15 year old bushland terrier who is also ridiculously well behaved, except for 2 things. He occasionally goes nuts if kept away from a dog he wants to smell. He is obsessed with the smell of hazelnut ice-cream and will try anything on his power to get it. He jumps on chairs, tables, flings himself at us & generally forgets how well behaves he normally is 🤣
      Apart from that he's socially astute, quiet, asks to go the toilet, is very loving and has a keen eye on the patterns of the day. Stuff like getting his toy bear and bringing him upstairs to his bed when he feels it's time for the family to go to sleep. He is a huge personality in a small sturdy body

  • @codrinseth15
    @codrinseth15 Год назад +17

    I have myself 4 dogs and 2 cats, all rescued from various places. The amount of love I get from them is something I can't put into words. Indeed, I have to wake up very early, give everyone their fair amount of attention and I basically built my life around them and their needs. It's not an easy journey but the rewards you have from them is incredible. Much love Eva from Cora, Nero, Bebe, Oreo, 3-legged-dog and Lady.

  • @barbraallbritton4222
    @barbraallbritton4222 Год назад +2

    Eva, Vilk is absolutely gorgeous! The first six months are the hardest but trust me, worth every second. I’ve had German Shepherds all my life, now on number seven and you couldn’t have picked a better breed. My girl I have now just turned eleven and she’s the dog of my dreams. ❤ You got this! I never had human children, only German Shepherds. Love your channel

  • @louburnett6782
    @louburnett6782 Год назад +65

    I sat in my kitchen, on the floor, after 2 weeks with a 2month old Ozzy (puppy dog) and thought - OMG what have I done. He is 2 now and I love him to bits. It does get easier. Dogs always need “looking after”, but the puppy stage is way more full on than a grown dog. Use the support of others if you can to have a rest. You WILL wonder how you ever lived without doggo eventually, me and Ozzy promise 🐶 😘

    • @evazubeck
      @evazubeck  Год назад +13

      Aww thank you for that ❤️

    • @zerocool2352
      @zerocool2352 Год назад

      Not sure where you're at, but in the USA we call them "Aussies" :)

  • @fittobetiedyed5315
    @fittobetiedyed5315 Год назад +30

    Having spent most of my life with German Shepherds Dogs (GSD's) I can tell you that the things that make them a lot of work and that cause challenges when they are puppies are the same things that make them intelligent, faithful and the best companion a person could ask for. Puppyhood is a small part of their life and believe me, you'll look back on this time with great fondness and find yourself wondering how it went by so quickly. The best part is that they seem to retain the qualities that make them so adorable and loveable as puppies throughout their entire life. Enjoy the puppyhood for as long as you can.

  • @kaizerblade75
    @kaizerblade75 Год назад +1

    RUclips life is never real life. But what is real, is when your puppy looks up at the steam pot with a cigar hanging out of is mouth is freaking priceless!!!!❤️❤️

  • @hassonmike
    @hassonmike Год назад +1

    A few months of challenge for years of joy. Worth every moment

  • @beaverhurl
    @beaverhurl Год назад +77

    I remember a short time ago you told us you were going to do things different. This was so you could enjoy life. It seems like you are still pressuring yourself to give us what we want and forgetting...we are here still. Take your time, enjoy it a little bit more. We aren't going anywhere, quit trying to please us and then we will see you at your happiest. Give yourself a little bit of credit, your audience is here for you.

    • @karylm23
      @karylm23 Год назад +7

      Omg yes!!! This all the way. We are along for Eva's ride!

  • @randywilliams4325
    @randywilliams4325 Год назад +10

    Traveling with my 2 dogs right now . Took them down from my motel room at 7am to go out . Went back to my room. Found a tick in the bed that the dogs brought back in . Make sure he is treated for fleas and ticks . Try to take him out every 3 or 4 hours . For the type of traveling you are doing he will be a great body guard . Training takes time and consistency. A little bit at a time many times a day . Dogs learn from just being around you . If you are calm they will stay calm . They can read your moods . Best of luck and don’t get frustrated . He will pick up on that .

  • @SandiByrd
    @SandiByrd Год назад +6

    This is the part about social media that I think is scary for anyone with a soft heart - you don't ever have to be perfect Eva. As a matter of fact - it is your imperfections that MAKE you the perfect EVA. We love you. Don't be so hard on yourself - you're doing amazing things! Anyone in your shoes would feel exhausted. xo

  • @whinnysworld4081
    @whinnysworld4081 Год назад +14

    We talked about maternal bones and decided we are alike. Ours are for puppies! Sweet to hear you say you are on constant look out for him not find ways to do injury to himself! I still have 3 of his siblings so it's all day making sure they stick tight with me on the farm so I know what they are doing. His other siblings are doing swell chasing mops and following the wee kiddos around. But girl when you went jogging while we boated the lake with him, I wish could have seen the separation anxiety on your face twice! I know without a doubt you love him! You are a good dog trainer, too! He's doing great with his commands. Wherever you are you know this is you and Vilks second home. Safe travels!

  • @CalixYukon
    @CalixYukon Год назад +36

    I've raised working line GSDs I know what you are going through. You can do it, and it'll be worth it. The first year is tough, and a steep learning curve but you will end up with the smartest most loyal companion ever. I've raised other types of dogs and worked in animal shelters. Working line GSDs are different and other dog owners wouldn't get it. Join a local schutzhund club, they will help you a lot! Also it will be a good chance to socialize him, it's so important to get lots of socialization in at this age so they don't grow up aggressive towards unusual people or dogs due to fear later.

    • @evazubeck
      @evazubeck  Год назад +3

      Thanks for that! Yeah looking forward to hanging out with other dogs once Vilk is fully vaccinated!

  • @MacTravellers
    @MacTravellers Год назад +5

    Some people match their dogs quite well. I think this guy is perfect for you!

  • @t.o.f.t.s.
    @t.o.f.t.s. Год назад +1

    Gorgeous animal. You're his world now. wishing you both much health and happiness together.

  • @jornaldnace6410
    @jornaldnace6410 Год назад +10

    It is a significant duty! You will have conflicting emotions, especially if this is your first time getting a puppy, but once you have nurtured a puppy, you will have trained him/her really effectively. IT'S A GIFT, the joy you see in every dog is priceless! We all know you're a good person, and you'll make an excellent furparent, EVA! Take it one step at a time. You'll become obsessed to adding lovely dogs one day.

  • @martirojas7521
    @martirojas7521 Год назад +48

    Your honesty with the ups and downs is one of the things that makes your vlogs so special!! Don’t let the “know-it-alls” get you down,please. We are all imperfect, and it’s often that imperfection that makes us special.

  • @Veilfire
    @Veilfire Год назад +6

    This dog will grow up to be your best friend and your fiercest protector! I can tell you're trying really hard. Trust me the effort will totally pay off 🤗

  • @darrellowings2343
    @darrellowings2343 8 месяцев назад

    Getting that dog is making all your emotions surface from the breakup and whatever. I know it's a year ago but that was a good thing. Healing. Look at you now.

  • @KaltrinaDemiri
    @KaltrinaDemiri Год назад

    Puppies are a lot of work but they are worth all the work they come with. He will be your lifelong best friend.

  • @leiftom9561
    @leiftom9561 Год назад +22

    Welcome to pet ownership ....my dog is 13yrs old now and she came back into a puppy pretty much...I lost my whole 20s raising her, but I don't regret it. One of the best moment of my life having a dog..stay safe and stay strong Eva

  • @jim6070
    @jim6070 Год назад +8

    I went from puppies that destroyed my house because I didn’t know what I was doing to mature well behaved dogs and now to elderly dogs that will be leaving me soon. I would give anything to be back to the wild puppy days with them. This is heartbreaking.

    • @eg348
      @eg348 Год назад +1

      💗💗💗

  • @softcicada_
    @softcicada_ Год назад +19

    Echoing so many comments here, but raising a dog is possibly the most difficult thing I've done! I thought I was prepared from having a dog growing up, I thought I did enough research. But I was crying almost every day some weeks with our puppy. It's an enormous adjustment when you're used to your routines and day to day life. You're doing great and I'm glad you found some comfort from reddit and a trainer to reassure you. (And to anyone else out there struggling with a pup, please find a local trainer, please reach out to people! You don't need to beat yourself up about it and suffer alone.)

  • @michaeloruaidh3605
    @michaeloruaidh3605 Год назад +1

    aww he is a good little fellow. what a beauty

  • @StrapaTatchki
    @StrapaTatchki Год назад +3

    I don't know but , it's super cool watching you , and not only me the whole family is here, keep going waiting for the next one Papppyyy

  • @JacksMilkyMoo
    @JacksMilkyMoo Год назад +13

    Thank you for normalising the first few weeks of puppy life! I was so overwhelmed the first few months I had my boy - there were many tears. But with lots of perseverance, many more tears, lots of laughs he is now an incredible 3 year old who is the best buddy ever. You got this!

  • @perjrgensen8280
    @perjrgensen8280 Год назад +1

    You have a best friend and a pal for life. You are the one and only in his life.. Never let him down.. 👍 Greetings from Denmark.

  • @phydeux
    @phydeux Год назад +18

    Eva, for whatever it's worth, perfection is a goal, not a destination. My mother didn't or couldn't understand that and it destroyed her from the inside out. She was never satisfied with herself or those around her. And it made her a bitter, angry, and spiteful person. What you're going through right now is normal, whether it's with a puppy, kitten, or a human baby. ESPECIALLY a human baby. You end up having to put the rest of your life on hold for a while as you get this new life up on it's feet and prepared for the world. Once you get past this, things will get back to normal. But don't let it make you question who you are. Just try to look for the light at the end of that tunnel where you'll have a long-time companion who will also have your back.

  • @andreasweber7828
    @andreasweber7828 Год назад +52

    I’ve found it helpful to get a trainer. My dogs were able to cope with everything, it was me who required the right training. It made our life very easy , more relaxed, really good.

    • @HuatulcoGuy
      @HuatulcoGuy Год назад +4

      THIS!!!! 👍

    • @greenwave819
      @greenwave819 Год назад +1

      have you seen her videos? do you think she's ready quit? lol, not a chance

    • @s3731711
      @s3731711 Год назад +1

      So true. Trainers help with the dog but pur trainer said he is really training us on the psychology of the dog and techniques to use.

    • @billrife
      @billrife Год назад +1

      Yes, Totally.

  • @silvia_music
    @silvia_music Год назад +48

    The first week I had my puppy, I was so stressed and sleep deprived I almost rear-ended someone. But it got better and now my baby is 9! I savor every moment since she’s getting up there and she’s such a good dog. It was worth the time, love and training. I love her so much.

    • @evazubeck
      @evazubeck  Год назад +6

      Ah so so lovely to read you ❤️ Thank you for sharing!

    • @sarahgirard1405
      @sarahgirard1405 Год назад

      Very true. I was exhausted with Schnee the first months aswell. And hopefully you will gain a lovely cuddle Buddy. She is so cute. Also, other dogs can be great trainers, so when she is old enough take advantage of the dogparks in America. I haven’t found one here in Germany yet. :-/

    • @KCadbyRacing
      @KCadbyRacing Год назад

      @counselthyself Excellent video and @Eva I think the Whistle is a great idea for future times when Vilk might stray further away form you than he should 👍

  • @JohnEllis-wt1ij
    @JohnEllis-wt1ij Год назад

    Putting in the hard work now with Vilk will be returned with a lifetime of satisfaction with your pup.

  • @annndddrre
    @annndddrre 11 месяцев назад

    It gets better with a puppy every week and after a while, you understand each other perfectly.

  • @kenhoward3512
    @kenhoward3512 Год назад +6

    Puppies are all wild-and-crazy. He'll grow up fast and eventually calm down, and you'll look back and treasure the memories of him when he was young and energetic. Dogs pass through all the stages of life all-too-quickly. I've never known a human I could have a 14-year relationship with, day-after-day, and still find totally loveable.

  • @splinterandwedge
    @splinterandwedge Год назад +49

    Hang in there. Getting a puppy is a lot of work, especially with a working line GSD! But it’s worth it and it does get easier. I’ve always compared it to having a new born for that first little while. You’re both doing great and before you know it, it won’t seem like work anymore and you will have yourself the most loving, loyal best friend as a companion. I look forward to seeing your progress together!

    • @evazubeck
      @evazubeck  Год назад +2

      That means so much. Thank you ❤️

  • @heydiddlediddlegal9001
    @heydiddlediddlegal9001 Год назад +4

    My parents rescued a puppy at the beginning of this year, we found her chasing a car along a road and felt we had no choice but to take her in.
    The first month or so was an absolute nightmare, we all felt exactly the way you do right now, there were many mental breakdowns and fights and it was really hard.
    Many months later, she's now a very calm and loving pup, doesn't bite anymore and makes my parents so happy, it takes time for them to calm down and for the overwhelm to fade, but as everyone else in the comments has been saying, it's so worth it :)
    Keep pushing through, and don't be hard on yourself! ❤️

  • @topher7276
    @topher7276 Год назад +5

    Vilk is such a beautiful dog! The more exercise he gets, the easier it will be for you. He will release a lot of that pent-up energy with exercise and will become a well-rounded and well-behaved dog. It does get better and you're well on your way to having a best friend share your experiences with you, for years to come! 🐕‍🦺

  • @amberchen3335
    @amberchen3335 Год назад +20

    My first time out walking my little puppy Luka, I remember feeling exactly the same way as you. I passed a little old lady at the park who said "You two have so many beautiful walks ahead of you". That comment has stuck with me through it all and makes me smile every time I think about it.
    Now Luka is 10 years old, we did indeed have countless incredible walks and adventures together and I look forward to many more.
    Look ahead, you are right now asking yourself "what have I done" but in no time you two will merge into each other's lives. You are doing great :)

  • @ieva_ivasko
    @ieva_ivasko Год назад +7

    As a mother of 3 kids, I feel you 💛 the crying, the nonstop energy, the struggles, trying to get time for yourself while kids or dog sleeps 🙈

  • @dondedieumemento3757
    @dondedieumemento3757 Год назад

    When I got I puppy (5 months) I cried everyday. I was completely exhausted. I read from morning till evening about dog training, searching for solutions . Finally I did not manage. He bit me two times, bit two leashes in pieces to run away, was pooing in the appartment although we had a walk of two hours before. Finally I had to admit that I was not able to and I found him a really loving new family. But the "ghost" if having a dog in my mind didn't disappear, and two years later, after a looot of dog-videos and training tips, I tried it one more time, but I felt really afraid about failing one more time. I adopted an older dog from a shelter Croatia. Since two and a half years she lives with us and fills our live every day with joy and love. Never ever I would live without a dog again, my husband neither. I am happy for you!

  • @ni6toli4no
    @ni6toli4no Год назад

    the bond between human and dog is unbreakable ❤

  • @dalewarner4216
    @dalewarner4216 Год назад +3

    You have opened the door to a whole new world when you got your awesome puppy. Your life won’t be the same. He should have you very well trained shortly. Soon you’ll wonder how you lived so long without him. He’s beautiful and very smart.

  • @Archaidence1
    @Archaidence1 Год назад +16

    Don't be so hard on yourself, the struggle is part of the journey. Cute pupper, he will love you for ever.

  • @susannoland7385
    @susannoland7385 8 месяцев назад

    Welcome to motherhood of a four legged fur baby! They are the best babies, I knew I never wanted human babies but four legged babies are the very best gift we can give ourselves.

  • @rayray9996
    @rayray9996 7 месяцев назад +1

    One of the best videos I have seen in the recent past. Hope your love for Vilk stays strong forever. Take good care of him always and forever as you are doing now.

  • @budget-adventure
    @budget-adventure Год назад +9

    Wow when you said you were getting a dog I 1- thought it would be a rescue dog, and 2- something small. I know this is probably to as the security factor when travelling but that little guy is going to be one big dog when it’s grown. Good luck, it does get easier and after a while you’ll be able to sit back and enjoy the morning coffee again

  • @mizoxxx
    @mizoxxx Год назад +27

    I totally get what you are going through, last year i got my self a pupper, it was mad hard at the start but now i dont see my life without him, he is my family "period" he is my son and i love him to the end of the world, it is tough in the start but it will 1000% get better and ul remember those days when he was smol and miss those hard days.

    • @evazubeck
      @evazubeck  Год назад +13

      Aw thank you so much for your kind words! Yes, I know 100% it’s worth the investment in terms of energy, time, and attention. Love the little guy. Sending lots of love to yours⚡️

  • @kurtmckelvey9478
    @kurtmckelvey9478 Год назад

    When that dog grows up he will protect you with his life !!!!!! 🐺 😊

  • @k9projectworks
    @k9projectworks Год назад +3

    Enjoy this ride! Be patient, your little furkiddo is going to be one of the best experiences in your lifetime, and everything you are experiencing is all good!! We're cheering for you and Vilk. Such a lovely doggo!!

  • @gawebm
    @gawebm Год назад +19

    We recently got a second dog. We thought it would be easy because he was 3 years old and we are experienced owners. Just like you, we seriously underestimated the time and effort and patience involved. Owning a dog is a tremendous responsibility. It is a both a time commitment and an emotional commitment. You will get thru this! You have a great puppy there. As you've no doubt heard its very important to train them and set boundaries. Of course these things take time.

  • @truckingwithtobee
    @truckingwithtobee Год назад +15

    Believe me…… ALL of us parents cried exactly like you when our kids were newborns and we were sleep deprived. Thinking we were the worse parents. But, as time passed. Things got easier (Until they become teenagers)🤷🏼‍♀️😂 None of us would ever change anything about becoming parents or pet parents. Try to stay positive and welcome to being a parent. 💕💕💕💕

  • @motourge3061
    @motourge3061 Год назад

    in 1, 2, 3 + years from now that puppy will be your best friend and stick by you when others won't. The struggle is real early on, but it'll be worth it!

  • @caliluv1219
    @caliluv1219 Год назад +4

    All this stress and hard work is SOOOOOO worth it Eva. Hang in there.🐾❤️🐾❤️🐾

  • @fasihabatool
    @fasihabatool Год назад +12

    He's so energetic he brings energy to your vlogs he will never leave you alone ❤️you are an amazing mother

  • @NefariousBella
    @NefariousBella Год назад +5

    Raising a puppy is tough but so incredibly rewarding! Hang in there Eva! You got this!

  • @joejones9520
    @joejones9520 Год назад +4

    I used to have four dogs, all rescues I just happened to find, 20 yrs all together I raised them, they all got old and died, I miss them but it was hard work, stressful and very expensive.... I couldnt go thru it again.

  • @davidsartin5708
    @davidsartin5708 Год назад

    Don't be sad, this is a once-in-a-lifetime adventure in your life. Make it fun as much as you can and never look back. Always look forward.

  • @midwestlakelife
    @midwestlakelife Год назад +5

    Ahhh memories.
    When I first brought my puppy home, I said to myself, "Oh my, what did I do?"
    Mixed emotions everywhere. It was challenging.
    My puppy would not even let me take a shower without her in the room with me.
    Almost 10 years later and she's still the best thing that ever happened to me.

  • @rrrrrrtt1
    @rrrrrrtt1 Год назад +6

    He's a beautiful doggy! Dogs are just giving you their unconditional love. When they're puppies it looks different from when they are grown. Hang in there!

  • @danremington8910
    @danremington8910 Год назад

    I was a bicycle racer here in the US and living in North Carolina back in 2001. I found a Belgian Malinois puppy running the streets when his owner moved away and left him. He became the most amazing dog in my life and my bike racing eventually stopped. I bought a house for him to have a yard and I never regretted it. I miss that boy a lot and I'm happy I could give him a fun filled life of hiking and running. Cheers to Joey, my best buddy.

  • @ObsessedWithDogs
    @ObsessedWithDogs Год назад +5

    Vilk is absolutely adorable!! Congrats on the awesome addition to your pack! Puppies are most definitely a ton of work and it can feel so overwhelming at times, but the hard work really is all so worth it. Having an amazing bond with a dog is an incredible feeling.

  • @nagesh7550
    @nagesh7550 Год назад +39

    Slowly but surely you will love this experience as time goes on and everytime you feel sad your pup is going to be there to bring back happiness and joy ❤

  • @stuierich
    @stuierich Год назад +5

    Oh my god! you are doing an amazing job! you will form such a strong bond with Vilk - you will go through the 'what have i taken on / what the hell have i done?!' stage but it's so worth it -

  • @upandaway5844
    @upandaway5844 Год назад +5

    Thank you for your honesty, Eva! i adopted a stray dog from Romania 2,5 years ago and whoa - was I tired/exhausted/overwhelmed for the first year with her! My perfectionism + her unknown past and trauma = no easy combo... But it's gotten sooooo much better now through patience and positive training, as it did for you and Vilk 💕 I feel you!

  • @slickyjorj
    @slickyjorj Год назад

    Hang in there. You adopted a best friend. Your life changed for the better. A dogs love is so pure

  • @hybridwolf66
    @hybridwolf66 Год назад +37

    I do recommend a Harness instead of a Collar. It will make it easier on you when he gets bigger. As for you being "perfect", we do not watch you because you are perfect. We watch because you NOT perfect. You are a normal girl with normal problems. THAT is what we love. Whatever you do, keep being you. 💖

    • @brendanmorin9935
      @brendanmorin9935 Год назад

      i think she plans on training him to be off leash by the time he gets older- also she already has a harness for him, you can see it while hes in the car

  • @robertowens9979
    @robertowens9979 Год назад +4

    Puppies are hard and he seems to have a lot more energy than other breeds. Good luck traveling with a pup!

    • @Killswitch1411
      @Killswitch1411 Год назад +2

      Yeah its a working dog.. German shepherds are no joke.. You must commit lots of time to training.

    • @robertowens9979
      @robertowens9979 Год назад

      I am envious of your grand adventure, and your pup is going to be a faithful companion!!

  • @billbabcock1833
    @billbabcock1833 Год назад

    Hello from Colorado. What a beautiful boy. I can't imagine not having my dog. I often say to people thinking of getting a dog, it might not be the most important thing in your life, but you're the most important thing in its life.

  • @XLL-LyricaLance
    @XLL-LyricaLance Месяц назад

    Your imperfection and your soul keeps me coming back you so real, life long support here....

  • @BerkshireBitch
    @BerkshireBitch Год назад +7

    Eva, you are smart to let Vilk run with the leash attached. It will keep him grounded. EDIT: Please don't go into a port-a-potty barefoot!

  • @denisalala
    @denisalala Год назад +31

    You are perfect the way you are: a loving, caring, smart, cute, determined, plant based doog mom. Dog parenting is hard but it gets better, I pawmise. 💚

  • @scottv.4140
    @scottv.4140 Год назад

    Puppies are a roller coaster of emotion, happiness, frustration, etc. They want to play when you are tired, they are tired when you want to play. You are taking him to a whole new world, everything is new to him and they are curious about everything. One big thing is socialization, get him exposed to as many different situations, people and other dogs as you can. The more exposure he has to people and things the calmer he will be in new environments. They are a ton of fun and a lot of work to do it right. Those moments when they come up to you an snuggle make your heart melt, then 5 minutes later you are pulling your hair out because they chewed up something or had an accident. But as time goes on and he learns he will be a great friend on your travels.

  • @vonheise
    @vonheise Год назад

    Having had a dog or dogs from as far back as my memory goes, a puppy can be a challenge, but you are creating a friend for as long as they live. Getting a grown dog can bring its own challenges, but they too adapt.

  • @elizabethmanovill4871
    @elizabethmanovill4871 Год назад +7

    When we first rescued our dog, I cried every single day for three months. People rarely talk about the adjustment period and how hard it can be. Your life is upended and your time doesn't feel like your own. But it gets better over time! You and the dog will both grow and adjust to each other and settle into your new norms and routines. You got this!

  • @eazyio
    @eazyio Год назад +3

    It takes a lot of time and patience to train a puppy, but looks like you’re doing an amazing job.
    It brings the realization home that you’re alone and must do all of this yourself, which can be taxing, but you are doing great!
    To That little guy, you’re his world. It’ll be worth it!
    Keep your head up! 🥰

  • @shmurr
    @shmurr Год назад +8

    My first puppy that I raised it was love at first sight, and he was so calm and sweet, a perfect angel honestly I had no complaints. Second one - same breed, got her from the same lady - was a totally different story! She was so hyper and took me a while to adjust. You’re not alone. Once they get past that puppy craziness they are your ride or die best friend for life

  • @kermitadkins9498
    @kermitadkins9498 Год назад +2

    Such a beautiful dog. Glad you found a companion! Dogs are amazing.

  • @iDoit4LoLz
    @iDoit4LoLz Год назад +24

    My Golden Retriever is just over 5 months old and some days can still be tough but it gets so much better. He will get it. That bond with discipline is all it takes with persistence. We are cheering you and Vilk on!

  • @ralphbaker2850
    @ralphbaker2850 Год назад +3

    A fun game you can play with your dog, is to get him to sit, someplace where he can't see you. That's the hard part. Then take his favorite treats and hide them around the round and then call him in and tell him to go find em and while he's looking, keep asking him, "where is he," until he finds them all.

  • @quintenputnam4578
    @quintenputnam4578 Год назад +1

    Don't sweat the little things and everything is little... Be happy you have a beautiful new little friend enjoy all his quirks and idiosyncracies that's what makes life special... 🙂

  • @shlomitabrahamoff4504
    @shlomitabrahamoff4504 Год назад

    Eva,Vilk is amazing. He is super smart. You will be surprised how much fun you will have together in a few months. Good luck