Are you self-aware or just self-absorbed? | Fin Sheridan | TEDxUnity Park

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  • Опубликовано: 26 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 49

  • @yugshende3
    @yugshende3 5 месяцев назад +7

    I used to think I was self-aware but after learning some skills around self-awareness I realized how much more self-aware one can be and I realized that I am a bit more self-absorbed than self-aware sometimes, partially because I have some guilt around how people might perceive me if I truly shed my raw emotions out there and I take solace in the fact that people don't care. Self-aware is not a switch that you can just turn on once you realize it exists in your brain. It is a constant learning process.

  • @dr.magdahhassan5580
    @dr.magdahhassan5580 5 месяцев назад +31

    Past trauma does make people more self-reflective and wiser. Thanks

    • @tomer339
      @tomer339 5 месяцев назад

      Stop supporting a terrorist group. 🇮🇱♥️🦾

    • @ShamanKeema
      @ShamanKeema 5 месяцев назад +10

      It does for some. There are others who get stuck in the victim mentality and don’t reflect on what they can do to improve their lot. There’s also those who come out of their trauma with psychological illnesses which is even harder again.

    • @tomer339
      @tomer339 5 месяцев назад

      Why are you supporting terrorism?

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl 5 месяцев назад +3

    Cultivating this skill not only enhances personal and professional relationships but also strengthens leadership by fostering empathy and decision-making. 🔑

  • @NafisaPalla
    @NafisaPalla 5 месяцев назад +4

    Evaluate and reevaluate is exhausting.. healthy round self awareness.. give and receive love !! That’s all is asked for !!

  • @jennamarieeeee
    @jennamarieeeee 5 месяцев назад +13

    Adding this to my list of All Time Favorite TED Talks 👏 👏 👏 👏

    • @finsheridan8041
      @finsheridan8041 5 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you so much 🥹

    • @paddybeer9020
      @paddybeer9020 5 месяцев назад

      😢😢😊😊​@@finsheridan8041

    • @nine182
      @nine182 5 месяцев назад +1

      ⁠@@finsheridan8041I relate to this particular talk more than any other. I've caught myself in the past being too self-aware and reflecting too much, and it is certainly a weird feeling being aware of your self-awareness. I've learned that sometimes, ignorance is bliss. Not that your self-awareness ever goes away, but it's important for your general happiness to avoid reflecting too much. Thank you for this talk!

  • @letsgocnote85
    @letsgocnote85 5 месяцев назад +3

    So good. I've been questioning this narrative of focusing on being the main character of your life and it seems be having this pressure filled snowball affect on so many. Helpful to take the pressure off.

  • @winfredasiamah9940
    @winfredasiamah9940 5 месяцев назад +3

    There's this book I read around the topic of self awareness. It changed my life, I can't seem to stop realizing the truth about self awareness ever since I read that book. It's called The Power of Now by Echkart Tolle. I recommend It to everyone, especially anyone going through depression and unhappiness.

  • @KhailingChao
    @KhailingChao 5 месяцев назад +7

    such great points and incredibly entertaining. anyone trying to better themselves authentically should watch this Ted talk!

  • @mykids8545
    @mykids8545 5 месяцев назад +5

    Well present;very humble and appealing.

  • @ur5860
    @ur5860 5 месяцев назад +8

    I’m very glad I clicked on this video! I REALLY needed to hear this and it was very helpful! Balance. Thank you for actually having a solution.
    💖💛💖💖🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @AyzhAmi
    @AyzhAmi 5 месяцев назад +12

    Let’s see what this one take us to. Congratulations 🎉

  • @YasmeenNoorRashid
    @YasmeenNoorRashid 5 месяцев назад +3

    Wonderful talk! I love this. Thank you soo much

  • @jeyhunbabirzade4285
    @jeyhunbabirzade4285 5 месяцев назад +3

    Great talk on understanding the reasons behind conversation replays, narcissism and other emotional issues

  • @debrabrown9120
    @debrabrown9120 5 месяцев назад +3

    Interesting view!

  • @inconceivabledark
    @inconceivabledark 5 месяцев назад +6

    Even better than why and what is how😁

  • @KevinDedhia11
    @KevinDedhia11 5 месяцев назад +2

    Next one on Meta-Awarness!

  • @jacobcurrin9014
    @jacobcurrin9014 5 месяцев назад +2

    I’m 99% there guys

  • @zooneyl2248
    @zooneyl2248 5 месяцев назад

    Very good

  • @skhprwdm
    @skhprwdm 5 месяцев назад +1

    Very interesting talk ❤
    Does anyone here have thoughts about what could be used as a tether to get back up from emotional drowning?

    • @finsheridan8041
      @finsheridan8041 5 месяцев назад

      I should’ve put a couple in - here are some that spring to mind… community, trusted relationships, a faith or belief system, a sense of purpose and meaning beyond yourself, a good therapist, healthy practices for your mind/body/soul, etc.

    • @skhprwdm
      @skhprwdm 5 месяцев назад

      @@finsheridan8041 thank you so much for the answer, and for the great talk 🙏

  • @johnpapp131
    @johnpapp131 5 месяцев назад

    To be fair, I chose the shock just because I was curious what it would feel like

  • @jasonuren3479
    @jasonuren3479 5 месяцев назад +6

    Ooo interesting question! 🤔
    Edit: maybe i missed it, but would have appreciated an example of what he speaks of as a tether 🤔

    • @finsheridan8041
      @finsheridan8041 5 месяцев назад +3

      Great point, Jason.
      I should’ve put a couple in - here’s some that spring to mind… community, trusted relationships, a faith or belief system, a sense of purpose and meaning beyond yourself, a good therapist, healthy practices for your mind/body/soul, etc.
      All of these have helped “tether” me out of my own head and introspection at various times.

    • @jasonuren3479
      @jasonuren3479 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@finsheridan8041 Ah, I did wonder if that was what was meant. Makes perfect sense now. Thanks for the clarification.

  • @manrooptiwari9357
    @manrooptiwari9357 5 месяцев назад

    Sir, I don't know what has happened that when someone speaks something behind me which is related to me, then I feel that he is speaking about me or someone speaks something in double sense, then I think he is speaking about me, please sir someone reply to me. 😢😢😢😭😭😭

  • @gulasalshodmonova
    @gulasalshodmonova 5 месяцев назад

    I would like to know what accent is it: American or British?

    • @finsheridan8041
      @finsheridan8041 5 месяцев назад

      Haha I’m British but I’ve lived in South Carolina for 6 years and married to a Southern girl for 9. It’s giving me into a weird hybrid accent.

  • @Education.R10
    @Education.R10 5 месяцев назад +2

    Anyone from bd?

  • @juliettecutler2541
    @juliettecutler2541 5 месяцев назад +1

    enneagram 3 called me out

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    @Ankushtreanding 5 месяцев назад +1

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    • @K101cool
      @K101cool 5 месяцев назад +2

      Good luck man

    • @Ankushtreanding
      @Ankushtreanding 5 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks ❤❤

    • @Ankushtreanding
      @Ankushtreanding 5 месяцев назад +1

      Will the comment here be answered?

    • @K101cool
      @K101cool 5 месяцев назад

      @Ankushtreanding probably not as ted talk x is very busy most times see if they have an Instagram and try to dm them

    • @Ankushtreanding
      @Ankushtreanding 5 месяцев назад

      Thanks for suggests. I will try it

  • @ApexJnr
    @ApexJnr 5 месяцев назад

    Try doing this with redditors.

  • @pinealgasm
    @pinealgasm 5 месяцев назад +2

    tether? everyone's too fuckin busy and addicted to money, their expectations of me are disturbing.