Are you being manipulated? | David McCubbin | TEDxBurleigh Heads

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  • Опубликовано: 22 ноя 2024

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  • @lisasreallife
    @lisasreallife 3 месяца назад +8

    So true Domestic violence is becoming worse with increasing numbers of lost lives in my city alone but the problem is there's not enough support who want to help the places to protect having my Non-profit launched in March made me realize how sad this epidemic is being disregarded great speech thank you

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 2 месяца назад

      Hi Lisa, thanks for your thoughts. You're in the front line and I'm a keyboard warrior!!! If there's anything I can do to support your non-profit, reach out. (Sorry I haven't checked the comments for at least a fortnight!). My dream is to make the language of psychological action common, so people can find the words to describe what's happening, and I'm talking about compassionate accuracy. Noticing feeling and not being entirely ruled by it. Being able to say it like it is. In my view, the nature of psychological action and the practical implications of being blind to them are really not understood. I've been trying to catch the attention of the ministers responsible. I've got some polite correspondence but no one with the power to drive cultural change has taken notice. I'm just not so good at PR. But, I've decided to follow the direction of Shyamala Gopalan Harris and do something about it. All the best, David
      🙂

  • @kathleen7825
    @kathleen7825 6 месяцев назад +8

    After discovering everything I had over this past few weeks, in regards to hateful manipulative actions behind my back, ( a lot of indications, hypocricey, narcissism, etc...), i just want to say thank you for sharing this clip. 🙏

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 6 месяцев назад +2

      Sorry to hear you've been targeted. Thanks for letting me know the talk is useful.

    • @Lolcoca
      @Lolcoca 6 месяцев назад +1

      Just ignore it !
      I think the more you focus on something that you like and want in your life !
      You just don’t have a time to waste it for nonsense thing ! I call it « distraction » . . . Take it as an exercise to focus on yourself !

  • @shanticlements
    @shanticlements 6 месяцев назад +17

    Thank you, David. Still blown away by the term ‘artificial integrity’ and it’s impact. A great session! Thank you!

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 6 месяцев назад +5

      Thank you, Shanti. The worry is when Artificial Intelligence meets Artificial Integrity. I hope we keep ahead of it.

    • @Chi100Maria
      @Chi100Maria 6 месяцев назад +2

      I watched "social dilemma", I think we have lost already.

  • @chanelleprice2513
    @chanelleprice2513 6 месяцев назад +6

    He was spot on !! Thank you, buddy 💜

  • @deborahs3683
    @deborahs3683 5 месяцев назад +7

    such a powerful talk, with so many salient points. Well done🤩

  • @joshuahutt
    @joshuahutt 6 месяцев назад +6

    I love this talk. The content is matched by the delivery in thoughtfulness, interest, and value.

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 6 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you Joshua. You’ve nailed my ambition for this talk. 🙏

  • @kelvinnyantika3432
    @kelvinnyantika3432 2 месяца назад +1

    Eye opening talk. Thank you sir.

  • @pollystigger545
    @pollystigger545 6 месяцев назад +5

    Excellent, David!! 🙏👏

  • @Chi100Maria
    @Chi100Maria 6 месяцев назад +4

    Wow! That's powerful! Thank you sincerely for sharing it!

  • @obbievillanueva5620
    @obbievillanueva5620 2 месяца назад +1

    Great presentation. I definitely needed to see this. Gracias 🙏

  • @browe
    @browe 6 месяцев назад +7

    "Unsubstantiated entitlement" indeed. Reward systems activated. Overreach. We just want them to stop. Stand in inquiry. Hold your ground.

    • @MeRia035
      @MeRia035 6 месяцев назад +1

      And Speak the Truth.
      Amen
      🙂

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 6 месяцев назад +2

      That’s the best summation. Thank you.

  • @sherececocco
    @sherececocco Месяц назад +1

    I love it!

  • @lucindaarmour7422
    @lucindaarmour7422 6 месяцев назад +3

    Hugely insightful...and moving.

  • @heatherjeanmoyes
    @heatherjeanmoyes 6 месяцев назад +3

    Well done - great insight and presentation - important material.

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 6 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks Heather Jean. 🙏

  • @PhoebeFayRuthLouise
    @PhoebeFayRuthLouise 6 месяцев назад +6

    I really appreciate the insights!

  • @maggieo6672
    @maggieo6672 6 месяцев назад +11

    Awesome presentation, I thoroughly enjoyed it. And how true. Thank you for sharing pertinent information, so helpful in moving forward in freedom, without fear of power and control brokers out for themselves, using the likes of corrupt religion, government and war mongers dividing peoples against each other. ❤️🎶🍁

  • @katyhanara
    @katyhanara 6 месяцев назад +4

    Loved the 'tantrum', ....& how you managed to get up again!!!

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 5 месяцев назад +2

      It was a bit of a struggle 😊

    • @Kris-yr3zc
      @Kris-yr3zc 3 месяца назад

      😂❤

  • @aaronspetersen
    @aaronspetersen 6 месяцев назад +2

    Great presentation, bang on point. Nice one David. Sharing now!

  • @Romans15.32
    @Romans15.32 6 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you so much. This was a great presentation.

  • @tobypease4990
    @tobypease4990 6 месяцев назад +6

    Great talk - such an important subject. So well expressed and illustrated. Thank you

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 6 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks TP. I’ve always thought the film set was the exemplar of great teamwork and collaboration, despite the sensational horror stories. Choosing you moment, picking your battles. Definitely come to work skills for cinema professionals, don’t you think?

  • @BlakeElliott35
    @BlakeElliott35 6 месяцев назад +3

    Well said

  • @drumbum3.142
    @drumbum3.142 6 месяцев назад +4

    We/A Lot of us are Being Manipulated Now More than (Practically) Ever Before.

  • @Michael-qh1ip
    @Michael-qh1ip 6 месяцев назад +2

    Helluva talk 👍🔥

  • @Srindal4657
    @Srindal4657 6 месяцев назад +6

    Thought provoking...

  • @hassnalbaghe7826
    @hassnalbaghe7826 6 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you darid a the still

  • @williamkazak469
    @williamkazak469 6 месяцев назад +5

    Politicians give the war cry and people still go to wars. So very sad. I stopped voting. I am not convinced! Excellent.

    • @MeRia035
      @MeRia035 6 месяцев назад +2

      I stopped voting as well. Voting changes absolutely nothing (unless it's local for City councils, boards etc.).

  • @sanskriti_kalra
    @sanskriti_kalra 6 месяцев назад +20

    Every person in a relationship should watch this 😂

    • @SMALLDANE
      @SMALLDANE 6 месяцев назад +4

      Every parent should see this, too 🙂

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 6 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you. I can’t tell you how much drama I’ve avoided by having an eye on the power dynamics.

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@SMALLDANE I agree that being explicit about power, in a practical way, helps parents make good decisions about boundaries. It’s ok to be the one in charge, as long as there are times when you’re not.

    • @Chi100Maria
      @Chi100Maria 6 месяцев назад +1

      And who is Not? We are all In the relationships.

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@Chi100Maria agree. Power dynamics are present in every moment in every relationship. Not always toxic or abusive. But always present.

  • @jordohiz1493
    @jordohiz1493 6 месяцев назад +2

    "artificial integrity" made me wince. I thought the clickbait title belied matters of determinism & agency. "Hi I'm a theater major, and today, I'm going to talk. People make me feel sad, sometimes." O rly

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 6 месяцев назад +1

      😂. Theatre major! Sorry you feel baited. If you'd like to talk about determinism and agency, I'd love to understand your view. How can we discuss agency without recognising the mechanisms and decisions that give a person agency? How can we talk about determinism without addressing the cues for action that give someone the power to determine their future? This isn't the forum of course. I think we live in different worlds and I'd like to understand yours. In my world, I see political leaders hoodwink vast populations, and no one can describe it in a way that puts an end to the nonsense. In our country, we have a huge issue with men killing women, often ex-intimate partners. This Theatre Major wants to shake the tree. Happy to learn from you. Reach out. 🙏

  • @lauraw.9876
    @lauraw.9876 6 месяцев назад +1

    Artificial Integrity - expose it for what it is and offer suggestions for disarming it...ooh. a major challenge

  • @BirdnestArquitectura
    @BirdnestArquitectura 6 месяцев назад +2

    Great 👍

  • @bettyangwenyi1797
    @bettyangwenyi1797 6 месяцев назад +3

    48 Laws of Power.

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 6 месяцев назад +2

      Yes. Read it. I’m planning to reach out to Robert Greene to discuss our shared conclusions.

  • @whatinthehelen
    @whatinthehelen 12 часов назад

    And the coveted Nobel Peace Prize is awarded to.... !!!!!!! ! 👈✨

  • @fannydarat3545
    @fannydarat3545 6 месяцев назад +4

  • @ajitrai6160
    @ajitrai6160 6 месяцев назад +3

    ❤❤❤

  • @landmimes
    @landmimes 6 месяцев назад +4

    What if you're being manipulated by media conglomerates?

    • @stephaneboisjoli1320
      @stephaneboisjoli1320 6 месяцев назад

      You need to do your own research. But beware, there are a lot of charlatans that have convincing dialogs that are basically not true. Check their credentials, and not just what they claim (plus I have heard supposed experts say factually wrong things).

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 6 месяцев назад +3

      If? That's their prime objective.

  • @suzismith9729
    @suzismith9729 6 месяцев назад +2

    The 3 card system.

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 6 месяцев назад

      You got it!
      1. Destabilise
      2. Reassure
      3. Coerce
      Awfully effective when executed well.

  • @World_cities_nature
    @World_cities_nature 6 месяцев назад +3

    Assalomu alaykum from uzbekistan 😊

  • @hassnalbaghe7826
    @hassnalbaghe7826 6 месяцев назад +3

    Ervery peeson in relationship should watsh this

  • @piku5637
    @piku5637 6 месяцев назад +9

    Normalize Ⓐctive labour unions and worker owned companies. Democratize🗳️💙the workplace. Workers make society run, workers should run society☭.🌸🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

    • @МихаилИльин-р5р
      @МихаилИльин-р5р 6 месяцев назад

      Oh yeah soviet union, gulag, concentration camps, holodomor starving to death 6 million people in one year, thats what you want

  • @mariaantoniettamontella9173
    @mariaantoniettamontella9173 6 месяцев назад +2

    applausi

  • @SanderQuekel
    @SanderQuekel 7 дней назад

    Artificial ignorance

  • @maythamalwabari1531
    @maythamalwabari1531 6 месяцев назад +2

    nis 👍

  • @Torreann
    @Torreann Месяц назад

    Its like giving the nuclear codes to a lunatic.

  • @nexovec
    @nexovec 3 месяца назад

    This is great but this man has rehearsed this talk verbatim. Might be better of as a blogpost.

  • @flyboymic7182
    @flyboymic7182 6 месяцев назад +1

    We’re all slaves

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 6 месяцев назад

      Unless we exercise freedom by holding ground when the tyrant commands

  • @Phoenix56801
    @Phoenix56801 6 месяцев назад

    No wtf, I'm not being manipulated m

    • @creeib
      @creeib 6 месяцев назад +4

      People who can't see it, are most likely to be affected 👍

    • @stephaneboisjoli1320
      @stephaneboisjoli1320 6 месяцев назад +1

      If you cannot see the power lines they are probably tugging at you. There's so many different goals requiring people to do different things... It's almost guaranteed.

  • @Saabdude40
    @Saabdude40 Месяц назад

    Yup...that's Trump to T

  • @monicaraybon1802
    @monicaraybon1802 2 месяца назад

    Trump uses this

  • @Saabdude40
    @Saabdude40 Месяц назад

    "Sorry Trump, you lost " But we've done a good job" 😅😅😅😅

  • @craig617
    @craig617 День назад

    You keep referencing being white and middle aged. Whats that got to do with the topic in hand?

  • @susans7091
    @susans7091 18 дней назад

    Artificial integrity. Ugh. Apparently trump watched this. and playing the three card trick. I am not convinced. Make the truth a priority. Share poser!

  • @DeeTeaDee
    @DeeTeaDee 6 месяцев назад +2

    Christ that was patronisingly dull

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 6 месяцев назад +4

      Sorry Dee. At least you won't have to watch it again. (Please don't call me Christ.) 😉

    • @DeeTeaDee
      @DeeTeaDee 6 месяцев назад

      @@coupleader didn’t watch it. It was in my ears at work

    • @MeRia035
      @MeRia035 6 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@DeeTeaDeeI thought it was more interesting than most Ted talks. He incorporated much gesticulating.& physical movement 🙂 So yes it's different watching vs listening, imo.

    • @lucindaarmour7422
      @lucindaarmour7422 6 месяцев назад

      Introvert triggered by watching it and another commenting after listening to a physical presentation. Ok then.

    • @User-mncbjlfjrebxkl
      @User-mncbjlfjrebxkl 6 месяцев назад

      @@lucindaarmour7422 why did you say that Lucy?😥😓

  • @МихаилИльин-р5р
    @МихаилИльин-р5р 6 месяцев назад +1

    Omg, speculative talking with no real point

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 6 месяцев назад +3

      My point? Be aware. Your post could be described as the action "to belittle", or to "dismiss". It's easy to play simple dismissive psychological actions from the bunker of anonymity provided by online communications. Build the habit of being reckless with your actions, and you might damage important relationships. Is that who you want to be? Probably not. That's my point.
      Does this feel like a slap-down? Sorry. Not my intent. When preparing the talk, I was super aware of everything I couldn't go into in 15 minutes. It's only possible to go from speculation to decisive action with a conversation, not a talk. Happy to have one with you, if you're interested.