Hi sweetheart I got my broken relationship fixed with the help this great spiritual Dr who brought my partner Back in 48 hours After many years of separation.
TOM PLEASE stop cutting Lisa off 😅 let the woman finish her sentences and train of thought. I sometimes feel like that’s why she speaks so fast, just so that she’s able to get it all in while she can bcs you can be so controlling when it comes to that. I love your videos regardless but have noticed this pattern before
Hi sweetheart I got my broken relationship fixed with the help this great spiritual Dr who brought my partner Back in 48 hours After many years of separation.
Hey guys!;) Are you guys still committed to "relationship theory" as a part of your online presence? I know you guys are laser focused on your mission, so maybe this isn't a focus for you. I just want to know if I should be expecting more of this content or not!:)
Oh yes it is !! Apparently she needs to research how damaging porn is to a marriage. If she really thinks he has no secrets, I’m sorry porn leads to many other issues.
The more we work on our own selves, the better we attract, in this case, a better partner and a phenomenal relationship. There’s no such thing as the “right person” (to an extend) we have to become the right person first! You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, future and lives overall! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️
Hello, my relationship is back to normal again, my ex came back to me, we love each other and we are happy together. This great man helped manifest back our love together,. 🍀
I've been watching a lot of your guys' content lately, thank you for the content. Your conversations are very interesting. I do have a question (or criticism, I guess). A lot of your conversations hinge around your specific relationship, how you two navigate it, grow together, deal with problems, etc. But I don't see a lot of universalizable (if that's a word) advice. Meaning, the game plan you 2 have devised for yourselves seems to work great, but a lot of the time, I don't see how this would apply as broad advice to everyone. I understand getting that kind of advice is going to be very difficult, because at the end of the day, the most effective type of advice in this realm is always going to have to be tailored to the 2 individuals involved in the marriage, but to be pointed, your videos do hint at giving advice that would be applicable in relationships outside of just your own. "WATCH THIS To Build Sexual Desire & Find The PERFECT RELATIONSHIP!" does seem to imply there is advice that I, for example, could follow and be successful with, rather than just a conveyance of what worked for the 2 of you. I think the problem is going back to first principles, that there are basic assumptions in place about both of you, that make your methodology even possible at all. In other words, you are both the type of people that your methodology has a chance of working with. Not everyone is the same personality type as both of you, unfortunately. Not by a long shot. And I think the making of the bed example you guys talked about is a great example. Where you had to come to some kind of consensus with this clash of values, where both parties can be respected, and it's difficult to navigate, but you can get there through a lot of talking. I think you have a base assumption smuggled in there, that both parties would be open to that discussion to start with. Where more often than not, I think whatever the woman's position is (in this case, that the bed should be made every day), would just be adopted. This is how she was raised, it's "right", and she would degrade and belittle him until he accepted this view, because it's the only way he was going to get peace, or at the very least telegraphed that he has accepted this view, by making the bed. He may still think it's stupid, but ultimately, the bed is going to be made every day, because he just doesn't want the fight anymore. There would be no compromise. Because the woman is right, the man is wrong, and he is going to get belittled and emasculated until he capitulates. And I think this mentality quite commonly bleeds over into much more consequential clashes of values in a marriage, like mismatched sex drives for example. I think more often than not, the clash of values surrounding sex ends up with the man capitulating to the woman, and there is no humble discussion trying to respect both parties. There is a, "this is how it is, this is how I was brought up, or this is just how I feel and that's that". The current official statistic is 1 in 4 marriages are classified as sexless, but I think it's much higher than that, because of this very reason. This is the main complaint I hear from men about their marriages, so I find it hard to believe it's just 1 in 4. There is a clash of values on the topic of sex, and the woman will just continue to berate and emasculate the man until he capitulates to adopting her view or wishes. And any attempt at a conversation that would start with respect for both party's opinions and values on a consequential topic like sex, is just discarded out of hand, because the woman's values assumed valid, the man's are assumed invalid, and that's that. And then the man gets berated and emasculated until he accepts that. I think this dynamic is way more common than people could consciously articulate and are aware of. And to be honest, while I appreciate the conversations you 2 have, those of us that deal with the dynamic I laid out above, still feel out in the cold when it comes to advice, because none of the advice you have would apply in our situations, and a lot of the time that seems to be the case. Those that speak on relationships and relationship advice, don't have a lot of great advice for dealing with the very common problems I laid out above. Thank you again for all your content.
I'd like her to stop him cutting in and interrupting. I want her to talk more and explain what she means by selfish. He is quite dominating and she does talk fast as if to get her opinions in fast.
If your husband watches porn, in his mind he wants other women. He thinks of other women and wants to have sex with them. So sad women accept this as a "no cheating" action. Ridiculous.
This is very mature and so important for the longevity of any relationship. The openness and space you guys hold for each other is very inspiring! It's beautiful to watch! 26:00 Two Things that drove a wedge between my Mum and Dad. Religion and Vegetarianism! They stuck it out for 19 years but it was a turbulent relationship! My mum's values changed 6-7 years into their relationship! It's so important to establish the values early on before having children. Also healthy/ good communication skills, so, so, so, so, so important! Fundamental... so is the trustworthiness of a person! The fact that you guys were honest with each other from the start, was the building blocks for a longterm relationship! 36:55 1:15:00
It is strange how Lisa lacks some of the very basic knowledge that everyone knows (no it's not a matter of different definitions).. she equates "self care" with the word "selfish",, these are totally different concepts.. she says when you're sick you need to be selfish (while she means you need to take care of yourself) ..... also she says that someone who wants to sexually satisfy their partner is "old fashioned" since when? till the day and age no man or woman ever says I'm modern hence I don't want to satisfy my partner for god sakes!! Lisa needs to read and learn at least quarter as much as Tom does in order to co-present these videos with him
Where do I go to look for your booking information? I work at the Family Crisis Center in Bastrop, Texas and am interested in asking you to come speak at our Women's Conference.
Garb. This whole "you need to do what makes you happy so that you others can be happy to be around you" is the same bs that led to jada pinkett having an affair, not good advice...
Even if he doesn’t want to text because he’s busy, it’s good to give yourself a break for a minute and bonus is his wife gets that comfort. I promise a mental break to tell someone you love them will only increase your productivity!
I think people who have partners who give a Lot… have a sort of privilege to highly value “selfishness”. For those who are coupled with people who wholly operate from a predominantly Selfish ethos can definitely say that being generous is underrated (selfishness as overrated)…. I think there’s a difference between “selfishness” (the need to take care of self despite the needs of others even to the point of detracting from others’ needs) and “self-care/self-respect” (which should be normal parts of living). Hmm! Interesting topics off the back!!! 👍🏽
I love this, all relevant to my relationship, all the same in alot of ways hahaha, communication has been the big thing in our relationship, we've had problems around communicating, but I've slowly reassured my partner and brought up communication to try to sort through our problematic thoughts and behaviors in our relationship, love it you 2, beautiful episode, loved the energy and clarity
Being sick is NOT not taking care of yourself. Its NOT not showing up. You're allowed to not be happy all the time and to not being fun to be around when you're sick. Relationship crippling when you're sick? Wtf???
@Sara Fox Yeah... I grew up with two sisters with a serious chronic illness. I understand the downer angle - only to an extent... I don't recall ever wanting them to feel better so that they could go back playing with me. I wanted them to get better soon for the sake of it, so they wouldn't be in pain... ofc! Until they did, we'd just go with whatever they were able to do at the time... no biggie. If kids can understand that illness is just part of life and you can/have to roll with it, I don't see why a grown ass man couldn't. It's just so sad to hear Lisa saying she feels that way with her husband. I hope I never made anyone feel like their illness was an inconvenience to me. That is just heartbreaking.
The fact that the principal of “selflessness” needs caveat in today’s society just shows where today’s society (in terms of “the so called progressive”) truly is. 👍🏽
Hello, my relationship is back to normal again, my ex came back to me, we love each other and we are happy together. This great man helped manifest back our love together,. 🍀
When I asked the bus driver for the for the dispatch number, Safety Pin claimed, I'm not to be believed because I'm his girlfriend after he gently assaulted my knee making it ache that day, I told the bus driver, we had sex once even. Henry that bus driver remarked, it isn't Henry's business. Most of those play the role of street psycho therapist.
Part of love is being able to discern when being selfish and selfless is important to balance love and life. My husband was sick, disabled, and yet there is a balance to things. When he had some low moments I would find a small gift to show love. There were times I would have to define a boundary and also show love.
Thank you all for recommending Dr Akunda the great spell caster to the rest of us on here. If not for your recommendation I won’t have found help. He specializes in other stuffs like, lotto numbers, Abundant money, Bring Ex lover back, Banish Evil spell. you can be lucky too,
Thank you very much for the education about ready after enough touches. My neighbor Gower who I don't want talks that touches are crucial between him and I.
Nobody's perfect. Something comes up not in the partner's presence but triggering bout between you and your partner or otherwise. You're not gonna be in the mood to please your partner next time you see him her.
Thank you all for recommending Dr Akunda the great spell caster to the rest of us on here. If not for your recommendation I won’t have found help. He specializes in other stuffs like, lotto numbers, Abundant money, Bring Ex lover back, Banish Evil spell. you can be lucky too,
Hi sweetheart I got my broken relationship fixed with the help this great spiritual Dr who brought my partner Back in 48 hours After many years of separation.
Red flag don’t turn green You can’t move forward if you’re constantly looking at the past So you don’t have to stick around waiting. I know this certified cyber expert and private investigator he’ll be glad to offer my hacking and full phone cloning services to anyone dealing with infidelity. He can provide access to old messages as far back as for years back social media accounts access, pictures, videos and even deleted texts conversations also Recovery of email accounts.. it helped in divorce ,custody case and cold cases Message him privately for help👆👆
Yeah, this will not last. when you are past 50 or 60. The only beautiful thing you will have left is your children. You're going to enjoy your past through your future while you're in the middle. People should spend more time with older folks. I mean a lot of older folks. Not your grandparents only.
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Hi sweetheart I got my broken relationship fixed with the help this great spiritual Dr who brought my partner Back in 48 hours After many years of separation.
Wtzp Dr Akunda.
➕𝟙𝟡𝟜𝟡𝟝𝟞𝟡𝟚𝟡𝟝𝟛 ♻️♻️🚻🎦🎦你好，現在怎麼,
Being best friends. Accepting each other and helping each other grow through the different stages of life.
TOM PLEASE stop cutting Lisa off 😅 let the woman finish her sentences and train of thought. I sometimes feel like that’s why she speaks so fast, just so that she’s able to get it all in while she can bcs you can be so controlling when it comes to that. I love your videos regardless but have noticed this pattern before
Do you think So or you really need help .💁,..
Hi sweetheart I got my broken relationship fixed with the help this great spiritual Dr who brought my partner Back in 48 hours After many years of separation.
Message him for help🙏
➕𝟙𝟡𝟜𝟡𝟝𝟞𝟡𝟚𝟡𝟝𝟛 ♻️♻️🚻🎦🎦你好，現在怎麼,
Sounds like they’re in a conversation. That’s the usual pattern of a conversation.
He’s not interviewing her. I don’t think he’s meant to be.
Hey guys!;) Are you guys still committed to "relationship theory" as a part of your online presence?
I know you guys are laser focused on your mission, so maybe this isn't a focus for you.
I just want to know if I should be expecting more of this content or not!:)
This is such a red flag 46:27
Oh yes it is !! Apparently she needs to research how damaging porn is to a marriage.
If she really thinks he has no secrets, I’m sorry porn leads to many other issues.
The more we work on our own selves, the better we attract, in this case, a better partner and a phenomenal relationship. There’s no such thing as the “right person” (to an extend) we have to become the right person first! You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, future and lives overall! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️
Do you think So or you really need help .💁,..
Hello, my relationship is back to normal again, my ex came back to me, we love each other and we are happy together. This great man helped manifest back our love together,. 🍀
Goosebumps with this couple ❤ Pure love and mature conversation
@@hyeladziraalvary790hi there
I've been watching a lot of your guys' content lately, thank you for the content. Your conversations are very interesting.
I do have a question (or criticism, I guess). A lot of your conversations hinge around your specific relationship, how you two navigate it, grow together, deal with problems, etc. But I don't see a lot of universalizable (if that's a word) advice. Meaning, the game plan you 2 have devised for yourselves seems to work great, but a lot of the time, I don't see how this would apply as broad advice to everyone.
I understand getting that kind of advice is going to be very difficult, because at the end of the day, the most effective type of advice in this realm is always going to have to be tailored to the 2 individuals involved in the marriage, but to be pointed, your videos do hint at giving advice that would be applicable in relationships outside of just your own. "WATCH THIS To Build Sexual Desire & Find The PERFECT RELATIONSHIP!" does seem to imply there is advice that I, for example, could follow and be successful with, rather than just a conveyance of what worked for the 2 of you.
I think the problem is going back to first principles, that there are basic assumptions in place about both of you, that make your methodology even possible at all. In other words, you are both the type of people that your methodology has a chance of working with. Not everyone is the same personality type as both of you, unfortunately. Not by a long shot.
And I think the making of the bed example you guys talked about is a great example. Where you had to come to some kind of consensus with this clash of values, where both parties can be respected, and it's difficult to navigate, but you can get there through a lot of talking.
I think you have a base assumption smuggled in there, that both parties would be open to that discussion to start with. Where more often than not, I think whatever the woman's position is (in this case, that the bed should be made every day), would just be adopted. This is how she was raised, it's "right", and she would degrade and belittle him until he accepted this view, because it's the only way he was going to get peace, or at the very least telegraphed that he has accepted this view, by making the bed. He may still think it's stupid, but ultimately, the bed is going to be made every day, because he just doesn't want the fight anymore.
There would be no compromise. Because the woman is right, the man is wrong, and he is going to get belittled and emasculated until he capitulates.
And I think this mentality quite commonly bleeds over into much more consequential clashes of values in a marriage, like mismatched sex drives for example. I think more often than not, the clash of values surrounding sex ends up with the man capitulating to the woman, and there is no humble discussion trying to respect both parties. There is a, "this is how it is, this is how I was brought up, or this is just how I feel and that's that".
The current official statistic is 1 in 4 marriages are classified as sexless, but I think it's much higher than that, because of this very reason. This is the main complaint I hear from men about their marriages, so I find it hard to believe it's just 1 in 4.
There is a clash of values on the topic of sex, and the woman will just continue to berate and emasculate the man until he capitulates to adopting her view or wishes. And any attempt at a conversation that would start with respect for both party's opinions and values on a consequential topic like sex, is just discarded out of hand, because the woman's values assumed valid, the man's are assumed invalid, and that's that. And then the man gets berated and emasculated until he accepts that.
I think this dynamic is way more common than people could consciously articulate and are aware of. And to be honest, while I appreciate the conversations you 2 have, those of us that deal with the dynamic I laid out above, still feel out in the cold when it comes to advice, because none of the advice you have would apply in our situations, and a lot of the time that seems to be the case. Those that speak on relationships and relationship advice, don't have a lot of great advice for dealing with the very common problems I laid out above.
Thank you again for all your content.
Stay single .Its not worth it.I got used once.I rather have my car.More faithful.
Thank you for turning on the lights and bringing a fresh perspective to relationships!
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I'd like her to stop him cutting in and interrupting. I want her to talk more and explain what she means by selfish. He is quite dominating and she does talk fast as if to get her opinions in fast.
If your husband watches porn, in his mind he wants other women. He thinks of other women and wants to have sex with them. So sad women accept this as a "no cheating" action. Ridiculous.
You both remind me of me and my SO. Exactly the same…delicate flower meets logical rock. I’m glad to see it work!!!
This is very mature and so important for the longevity of any relationship. The openness and space you guys hold for each other is very inspiring! It's beautiful to watch!
26:00 Two Things that drove a wedge between my Mum and Dad. Religion and Vegetarianism! They stuck it out for 19 years but it was a turbulent relationship! My mum's values changed 6-7 years into their relationship! It's so important to establish the values early on before having children. Also healthy/ good communication skills, so, so, so, so, so important! Fundamental... so is the trustworthiness of a person! The fact that you guys were honest with each other from the start, was the building blocks for a longterm relationship!
36:55
1:15:00
It is strange how Lisa lacks some of the very basic knowledge that everyone knows (no it's not a matter of different definitions).. she equates "self care" with the word "selfish",, these are totally different concepts.. she says when you're sick you need to be selfish (while she means you need to take care of yourself) ..... also she says that someone who wants to sexually satisfy their partner is "old fashioned" since when? till the day and age no man or woman ever says I'm modern hence I don't want to satisfy my partner for god sakes!! Lisa needs to read and learn at least quarter as much as Tom does in order to co-present these videos with him
@Dr. Christopher Johnson hi Lisa, why are you using another account to chat with us (;
Where do I go to look for your booking information? I work at the Family Crisis Center in Bastrop, Texas and am interested in asking you to come speak at our Women's Conference.
Garb. This whole "you need to do what makes you happy so that you others can be happy to be around you" is the same bs that led to jada pinkett having an affair, not good advice...
Even if he doesn’t want to text because he’s busy, it’s good to give yourself a break for a minute and bonus is his wife gets that comfort. I promise a mental break to tell someone you love them will only increase your productivity!
Who's show is this?
I wonder what her transformation would be like after leaving this man ?
I think people who have partners who give a Lot… have a sort of privilege to highly value “selfishness”. For those who are coupled with people who wholly operate from a predominantly Selfish ethos can definitely say that being generous is underrated (selfishness as overrated)…. I think there’s a difference between “selfishness” (the need to take care of self despite the needs of others even to the point of detracting from others’ needs) and “self-care/self-respect” (which should be normal parts of living). Hmm! Interesting topics off the back!!! 👍🏽
My ex ordered me to cheer up.
I love this, all relevant to my relationship, all the same in alot of ways hahaha, communication has been the big thing in our relationship, we've had problems around communicating, but I've slowly reassured my partner and brought up communication to try to sort through our problematic thoughts and behaviors in our relationship, love it you 2, beautiful episode, loved the energy and clarity
Being sick is NOT not taking care of yourself. Its NOT not showing up. You're allowed to not be happy all the time and to not being fun to be around when you're sick. Relationship crippling when you're sick? Wtf???
No one wants to be around a sick person unfortunately… woman should be always happy and sexy 😆
@Sara Fox Yeah... I grew up with two sisters with a serious chronic illness. I understand the downer angle - only to an extent... I don't recall ever wanting them to feel better so that they could go back playing with me. I wanted them to get better soon for the sake of it, so they wouldn't be in pain... ofc! Until they did, we'd just go with whatever they were able to do at the time... no biggie.
If kids can understand that illness is just part of life and you can/have to roll with it, I don't see why a grown ass man couldn't.
It's just so sad to hear Lisa saying she feels that way with her husband. I hope I never made anyone feel like their illness was an inconvenience to me. That is just heartbreaking.
Where yall at?????
The fact that the principal of “selflessness” needs caveat in today’s society just shows where today’s society (in terms of “the so called progressive”) truly is. 👍🏽
Yes.! can we figure out how to figure out how to be in good relationship.?
Negotiation and compromise to the level of peace.!
Thanks1 so much changes in society!
More long episodes like this please
Phenomenal episode, excellent discussion on values and applicable strategies we can implement in relationships. Thanks a million!
I love you guys 🙏🏽💝
Do you think So or you really need help .💁,..
Hello, my relationship is back to normal again, my ex came back to me, we love each other and we are happy together. This great man helped manifest back our love together,. 🍀
Wtzp Dr Akunda.
➕𝟙𝟡𝟜𝟡𝟝𝟞𝟡𝟚𝟡𝟝𝟛 ♻️♻️🚻🎦🎦你好，現在怎麼,
When I asked the bus driver for the for the dispatch number, Safety Pin claimed, I'm not to be believed because I'm his girlfriend after he gently assaulted my knee making it ache that day, I told the bus driver, we had sex once even. Henry that bus driver remarked, it isn't Henry's business. Most of those play the role of street psycho therapist.
My Uncle George told me, Harold didn't really molest me when I was little so that I won't want Uncle George to leave me a lump of money when he dies.
If you don't have friction burns then why are you stopping! LMAO 🤣
Part of love is being able to discern when being selfish and selfless is important to balance love and life. My husband was sick, disabled, and yet there is a balance to things. When he had some low moments I would find a small gift to show love. There were times I would have to define a boundary and also show love.
1:02:28 - you guys should really make a relationship board game or card game built on cultivating healthy communication in a long term relationship.
Always inspiring 🙏🏻❤️🩹✨
Do you think So or you really need help .💁,..
Thank you all for recommending Dr Akunda the great spell caster to the rest of us on here. If not for your recommendation I won’t have found help. He specializes in other stuffs like, lotto numbers, Abundant money, Bring Ex lover back, Banish Evil spell. you can be lucky too,
➕𝟙𝟡𝟜𝟡𝟝𝟞𝟡𝟚𝟡𝟝𝟛 ♻️♻️🚻🎦🎦你好，現在怎麼,
Thank you very much for the education about ready after enough touches. My neighbor Gower who I don't want talks that touches are crucial between him and I.
Nobody's perfect. Something comes up not in the partner's presence but triggering bout between you and your partner or otherwise. You're not gonna be in the mood to please your partner next time you see him her.
The break up lines in my palms aren't changing after hearing this. Can you change the lines in my palms?
The safest sex is public sex. But tell the public to hide the children's eyes.
#2 uncovering your hidden expectations
Yup, Magic Organ is for me. We laughed together.
Collisions in the underwear relationship
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Tes! thanks for the information. It helps~
This tea story..I honestly feel Tom seems unreasonable about it. He can justify It all he wants but it’s a ridiculous topic to fight over
Do you think So or you really need help .💁,..
Thank you all for recommending Dr Akunda the great spell caster to the rest of us on here. If not for your recommendation I won’t have found help. He specializes in other stuffs like, lotto numbers, Abundant money, Bring Ex lover back, Banish Evil spell. you can be lucky too,
What'sApp him for help...
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Do you think So or you really need help .💁,..
Hi sweetheart I got my broken relationship fixed with the help this great spiritual Dr who brought my partner Back in 48 hours After many years of separation.
Wtzp Dr Akunda.
➕𝟙𝟡𝟜𝟡𝟝𝟞𝟡𝟚𝟡𝟝𝟛 ♻️♻️🚻🎦🎦你好，現在怎麼,
correct?
Mariage? how does it work?
Red flag don’t turn green You can’t move forward if you’re constantly looking at the past So you don’t have to stick around waiting. I know this certified cyber expert and private investigator he’ll be glad to offer my hacking and full phone cloning services to anyone dealing with infidelity. He can provide access to old messages as far back as for years back social media accounts access, pictures, videos and even deleted texts conversations also Recovery of email accounts.. it helped in divorce ,custody case and cold cases
Message him privately for help👆👆
So basically he didn’t want her to get the tea because of money 😂😂😂😂
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Yeah, this will not last. when you are past 50 or 60. The only beautiful thing you will have left is your children. You're going to enjoy your past through your future while you're in the middle. People should spend more time with older folks. I mean a lot of older folks. Not your grandparents only.
Despite the money and status, Tom comes off as being a bit insecure and beta-ish. Too much posturing.
I miss these episodes-when will there be new episodes? 🥹