Dos & Don'ts of Parallel Parenting

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  • Опубликовано: 10 мар 2023
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Комментарии • 26

  • @heavenlyprecog23
    @heavenlyprecog23 Год назад +14

    I totally agree @ 10:54: my children are the ONLY good thing that came out of that horrible connection 😊😊😊

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Год назад +1

      I'm here for you and rooting for you every step of the way

  • @nickt.7305
    @nickt.7305 Год назад +14

    I can attest to everything in this video. If you’re parallel parenting with a narcissist, do your best to follow this list of do’s and don’ts. The narcissist will try to provoke you. Responding to provocation will only make things worse for you and the children.

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Год назад

      Thanks for sharing your wisdom, readers will find it beneficial. Together we can raise awareness and work on self-improvement.

    • @d.t.4150
      @d.t.4150 8 месяцев назад +2

      So true!! He provoked me on yesterday and I reacted instead of ignoring him the way I usually do!! My son has never seen or heard us argue until yesterday and I feel so bad because I know better!! I learned a lesson to continue to ignore him because that’s best and I see he can’t stand it!!

  • @JennyGaston
    @JennyGaston Год назад +10

    These are some great tools and realistic expectations of parallel parenting. Especially know that you can't control how your ex parents. Be mindful that your ex will still try to use your child(ren) to triangulate you from time to time ❤️

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Год назад

      Appreciate your sharing your thoughts, readers will definitely benefit from it. Keep spreading awareness and self-healing.

  • @amylou8319
    @amylou8319 9 месяцев назад +2

    This is so completely true! I knew my ex husband didn’t love our two kids the same way I did when they were babies. It saddened me then and it still does. This video was spot on with his behavior and exactly what I needed to hear. I have always gotten emotional and fought back verbally. It always makes things worse. I need to set boundaries so my kids aren’t damaged more than they already are having him for a father. Thank you for this video.

  • @tazzelmcbazzel
    @tazzelmcbazzel Год назад +3

    You can do something if the other parent is abusive. I think it’s my job to step up and protect my child . Because the law doesn’t

  • @kimberlysimmons5802
    @kimberlysimmons5802 Год назад +2

    He has my mom and brother for his support I literally have nobody....😢

  • @LizEarthAngel3
    @LizEarthAngel3 Год назад +5

    There is something to do gather evidence of drug use/dealing etc and incidents like kids finding a gun behind the lounge pillows, this is not safe, if they are not safe take steps to expose the perp and protect the children!

  • @patrician8778
    @patrician8778 7 месяцев назад

    This is excellent advice. You presented this very respectfully, maturely and professionally. 👏🏼

  • @collectivemindsunique7945
    @collectivemindsunique7945 6 месяцев назад

    Extremely helpful

  • @fourcharms4
    @fourcharms4 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you, this was so helpful 💚🙏🏾

  • @donnarakitzis2719
    @donnarakitzis2719 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you

  • @user-lb5jv7db5s
    @user-lb5jv7db5s 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this. I really am trying and I have to hold myself back

  • @mariomallet1824
    @mariomallet1824 Год назад +1

    Very useful tools 🤸‍♂️
    Thank you 💕

  • @j.chayo45
    @j.chayo45 Год назад +2

    You described my husband's ex wife! Thank you

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Год назад +1

      Thanks for watching, i hope i am able to educate and spread awareness :)

  • @deadfujoshi796
    @deadfujoshi796 Год назад

    I've decided to grey rock. But I have a question Do I tell my daughter to not tell him anything about how I'm doing? We are currently working through trauma she has from the relationship in therapy.

  • @standingontherock3239
    @standingontherock3239 4 месяца назад

    What would you say to the step parent being attacked by a her husband’s nark ex wife. I have stayed out of what I can of their co-parenting . But now she has told the courts that I beat my kids. They didn’t believe her but how do I put a stop to it without causing more trauma and turmoil for my kids and my stepdaughter?

  • @tarshaledwards7468
    @tarshaledwards7468 Год назад +4

    Just get a court ordered restraining order. All this will be over with!!

    • @leea3531
      @leea3531 6 месяцев назад

      So toxic lol 😂