Thank you for this video, I really really enjoyed it. Dont apologise for "being too agressive" you called synni out on their bs and the points you made and tactics you recognised were completely valid, I felt the same when hearing them talk. I hope you're doing alright, please keep on posting! I enjoy listening to your thoughts a lot. :)
as someone in this situation with his boyfriend (my boyfriend does not pay for his food, i do, and he requires special items) honestly i can understand her frustration but putting this in the video was just.. strange
@@breakerbeams As someone with autism and someone who has mostly autistic friends who's sensory issues are VERY different to mine, and our food preferences very rarely match. No, I don't get it. There's no reason to be angry about it, because it's not their fault and you're never "fixing" it.
@@InkyGhoul i get that it sucks that something out of your control can cause issues for others and yourself but sometimes that's how it is. i never said i was angry at my boyfriend (personally speaking) but i am allowed to get frustrated with the situation for a variety of reasons
@@InkyGhoul none of this is really relevant to synni anyways, who is just using this to bite back and jack and throw him under the bus. she could have stopped paying for the food easily if she wanted to.
@@KoniWrin Even then, she brushes off her actions towards Eno and somehow finds a way to victim-blame instead of, uhh...taking responsibility as a legal adult?
she BARLEY touched on anything of note. Just shitted on Jack the whole time. She even literally called Eno the "supposed" victim. She's digging her own grave atp.
yeah no, Jack is DEF NOT speaking from EXPERIENCE or oh I dunno PERSONAL EXPOSURE TO THIS EXACT TOPIC. God Synni pisses me off, she has the absolute worst victim complex and uses the "im just a straight autistic girl uwu" excuse 24/7.
@@mercykissed it's almost like groomers actively GO FOR people who are already in similar situations to the ones they're trying to put them in?? i don't understand how synni thought that fact would prove anything. if a certain situation has already been normalized for a child, participating in keeping them in that situation is NOT A GOOD THING 💀
The comment's on that video are fucking crazy "Why is jack getting help and not the victim!!!" Um, maybe because the victims parents are abusive?? And Jacks an adult? Like jesus christ ppl 😭
The amount of people complaining that Eno isn’t getting money is so dumb. Like he don’t need to move away and pay for a house, the circumstances are totally different 😭
@@dammit_larrythat is so true it doesn’t even make sense. The most help Eno can get is support from their parents and any support they can get online for telling their story and to stay far away from synni while Jack needs to find a whole new place to live and a new way to fund themselves.
@@OnTheEdgeFan Yeah especially since Jack is, ya know, the one literally living with Synni rn and wanting to get the hell out of there. I swear it feels like Synni just said that as a manipulation thing, trying to get people to not help Jack so that they have no choice but to either stay there when they're clearly hurt by the fact that they found out what Synni did or risk talking to their parents who would very likely hurt them.
@@dammit_larry Fr like Eno doesnt currently LIVE with Synni and could block her anytime (if they havent already, idk ive heard they did but ive also heard the opposite) but Jack LITERALLY lives with her which for him being groomed before must be a TERRIFYING situation since it seems like the whole time theyve lived together Synni has displayed very... off *cough* grooming *cough* behavior.
Synni’s apology pissed me off so bad. You know she’s guilty when she apologizes and backpedals with manipulation. She knows what she did. Absolutely evil.
A point that no one talking about is Synni saying basically ‘I want to respect people’s boundaries and not make people uncomfortable!’ And then turning around and saying ‘yeah well this minor is SOOOOO sensitive for setting boundaries on their characters! It’s the internet you can’t stop me from doing this!’
She only cares about boundaries when they can benefit her yk, not when she's consistently drawing and engaging with freak stuff with someone's characters publicly,knowing they don't want that
It's okay to draw smut of any person's character. The thing is, you shouldn't force it down people's throats, especially when they are ten years younger than you!! THIS HUMAN WASTE LEARN ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!!!! 💯💯💯💯💯🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿
@@CÜ3IE.89nah, that can really depend. What if the person doesn’t want smut of their character because it would disturb them? The character could be a comfort character, a character they made for or in memory of a loved one, or if the character in question is a kid-a LITTLE kid. People can be horny and have attractions to characters all they want, but boundaries must be respected. At the very least, the nsfw they make of characters from artists who don’t want to see their nsfw should at least keep it private
@@CÜ3IE.89 I feel like you can draw that character cause yes no one can stop you but if the creator has made it clear they are uncomfortable with it then keep it to yourself. Not to mention this is an adult saying someone is sensitive for not liking it but going to say they wanted to make everyone comfortable, isnt that just hypocrisy? She’s only choosing to do it if she likes it.
Synni is and always will be a predator, Eno is not the only victim, but they were the youngest and the most abhorrent. She waited around for me and Keny to turn 18 so that she felt more comfortable continuing her depraved conversations with us. She isolated Eno and Bug Sprxy by keeping them on voice calls that would (from personal experience) last up to 7 or almost 10 hours. ALL those hours were spent talking about her fantasies, other nasty things, or sobbing for comfort (also from personal experience). She would guilt us by saying she trusted us and that she's so traumatized from having her dms leaked in the past and that "people just don't know how to keep things private anymore" She is an abuser and used tactics that my own abusers have used to me, and well now I can confidently say she is now one of my abusers. I still don't consider myself completely a victim of her predatory actions because she did WAIT the exact moment i turned 18 to get really nsfw in convos with me and I never once shut these convos down as I was so deluded and just wanted her attention my brain is still scrambled, i truly cannot believe her. I have my own unique experiences with her and things that were brought to my attention by her other ex friends in the context our friendship, but i wont ramble them here. She wants everyone to forget what she did to Eno, she wants to pin the blame on Eno and Jack, and she wants to sling shit at her former friends in the process. She is disgusting.
That does make you a victim. Having someone wait till they are of age is grooming and she waited for you, youbwere a victim for a while and bc ur of age you'd think it'll be okay but it's not. That's creepy af.
i left a comment under her video basically calling her out, but I was shocked to see the amount of people who were defending her under my comment. hopefully they’re just kids but still.
Given how comments work, it's likely Synni just gives attention to the people supporting her while the comments calling her out are just ignored or outright deleted.
There’s a bunch of bot comments that are defending her but they’re just spewing nonsense mostly. And the ones defending her don’t even have a defence they go completely silent when points are brought up against. So her defenders are bots and dumb people lol
Facts. I've seen a couple and they're just as petty and nonsensical as she is. Like their logic is so backwards and basically do the petty thing of "BUT! BUT! BUT! THEY DID THIS TOO!!"
“The conversation revolves around sadomachoism and sadistic fantasies, which is not a sex conversation-“ Is she even hearing herself? Those type of topics SHOULDN’T be around minors until they are of age. That can still lead to sexual conversation because it’s still a fantasy. Like c’mon bro. 😭
@@marvelous_680 "It's not about sex. It's about specific fantasies that revolve around and still involve sex. Totally different." Does Synni ever actually listen to herself and think "Hmm...maybe this sounds like terrible logic"? Or does she just run her mouth and expect to be coddled?
Jack doesn't have a clear history, he may not be a good person, but he sure as hell isn't out here grooming minors. Grooming a child isn't just "I'm going to do every step literally once at a time to perfectly match the definition of grooming", she ruined her OWN reputation by actively doing this time and time again. Perfect victims don't exist, Eno and Jack were both hurt in different ways, they're both victims, what she did to them was not their fault.
@@nightrose6116 I’m saying that because she’s talked about having severe paranoia and she’s blaming everything on Jack. I think she completely believes Jack is out to get her and also that shes innocent. I legit have the disorder, i recognize the signs very well
@@dammit_larrypotentially! Could it not just also be her shifting blame though intentionally? Not saying she doesn't have psychosis who knows what she's got going on
Doesn’t matter is she didn’t “technically groom” someone SHE SENT NSFW ART WORK/MESSAGES TO A MINOR???? BRO GET OFF THE INTERNET IF YOU CANT CONTROL YOURSELF AROUND KIDS
I mean, even if she wasn't looking to get into bed with a minor, she still sent them explicit stuff which definitely makes it under the technical terms of what a groomer is. Its just like Colleen Balinger's (or however you spell her name) case.
@@drawingbluejay7938 exactly! Like idk how she can sit there and think “I repeatedly nsfw stuff to a minor but not in a groomer way” like??? Girl clearly there’s a problem here???
Exactly! I don’t understand how anyone can send that, to a kid and then try to justify it? Even as an adult I wouldn’t send stuff, like that to another adult or to anyone in general. Nor would I want someone to send stuff like that to me, so how can she even make excuses for that? She just needs to accept, her career is done for, there’s no coming back from this for her.
Literally just don't talk to kids if you have no filter. Like I don't talk to kids, I'm an adult and I talk about mature topics WITH MY ADULT FRIENDS. The only "kid" I know is my brother and I would never even think about being this way towards him.
While watching her ‘apology’ she mentions how Jack said all that to ruin her reputation. Like!??? Why does that matter, you’re just mad you got caught talking to a minor inappropriately, and are now facing the consequences of your actions 😨😨
Makes me genuinely so mad when ppl r like “i can do whatever I want with your character” like most of my characters represent me so I’d be livid if some random adult started thirsting over them
once i posted a drawing of one of my ocs and someone said ''hear me out'' under it. even though they didn't explicitly say anything i still understood what they meant and it made me very upset, the drawing wasn't even suggestive in any way either.
I think the big thing too is it was like PUBLIC. If you wanna do freak shit with my character offline I guess I cant stop you but why go outta your way to air it out??
“We talked about gore and sadomasochism.” GIRLIE, SADOMASOCHISM IS SEXUAL IN NATURE. IT’S ABOUT GAINING PLEASURE FROM SEEING PEOPLE IN PAIN OR BEING IN PAIN.
its not sexual in nature, it can exist outside sexual situations too. but in this case, she was discussing gore and sadomasochism in a sexual context, so yeah, hypocritical of her.
A fellow epilepsy struggler I see. Also I already know "I'm Autistic, I'm Stupid." is going to become one of my new vocal stims because it really came off like "I'm not a groomer, just a loser".
“Im straight so i couldnt have taken advantage of a young girl!” This is one of the dumbest things shes said. Sexual abuse/exploitation/harassment isnt tied to your attraction to the victim. sexual abuse doesn’t happen because the perpetrator was “so attracted” that they couldnt control themselves. Its about abuse, dominance and control over a victim. Its a powertrip. She may not have sexually abused Eno physically, she may not be attracted to eno, but having sexually charged conversations with a child as an adult is predatory and inapropriate no matter what
a couple rebuttal points to synni (in no particular order): synni either doesn’t understand or refuses to acknowledge that she held power over jack (an unemployed trans guy with a pretty rough internet footprint who depended on her for shelter and financial support) and eno (a minor fan who looked up to synni as an idol/big sister figure)- it’s possible that they reason they didn’t say “no” or tell her to stop the sexual talk/touching was because they felt like they *couldn’t* say no to her, lest they lose her attention/support. (also: even if eno was the one who initiated contact, synni still had the responsibility to set a healthy distance between herself and a young fan and the responsibility of shutting down any sexual conversations. and obviously, she didn’t do the responsible thing) jack did list what the $10,000 was for in his gofundme: refills for his meds, food, pet supplies for his cat, and the cost of an apartment until he could find a way to support himself. if it comes out that he’s been using that money frivolously then i’ll retract this defense, but from what we know he was very transparent about what the money was for. just because synni didn’t have sexual intentions towards eno doesn’t mean she didn’t groom them! if you’re an adult who normalizes sexual topics to a child, that desensitizes them to the warning signs of dangerous people- someone who “only” normalized those topics should still be held accountable.
Honestly? Id say 10k is lowballing what hed need. It can take months to sort out issues with social security and most apartment complexes expect you to have several months worth of rent in the bank. Even if he goes cheap and gets an old studio and rent isnt expensive, that plus moving, meds, his cats, and cost of living might last him two months if hes careful
I am still so frustrated that I was once a fan of Synni. This whole video is more just her bashing Jack than her taking accountability for grooming a minor. She is making this a “Birdie Drama” when this is supposed to be about her and her own vile tactics. Even worse with knowing she is threatening Jack’s social presence AND HIS LIFE! I just wish the Victim, Jack and all the people Synni hurt a lot are safe. They ABSOLUTELY did not deserve what Sunni has done and hid from them. And Synni most definitely needs to leave, just, leave the internet and leave her victims alone. For everyone’s sake
The fact that I saw nothing wrong with her suggestive content when I was younger makes a lot of sense to me considering I was a very gullible kid and was groomed on several occasions by people just like her.
17:07 I would have these same exact paranoid thoughts and assumptions and perceptions about my dad when I was having a psychotic break when I was 15. All he did was hold me accountable for my poor treatment of myself and others. She is unstable
The fact that her apology wasn’t even Sincere and was scripted makes me very upset, she’s not sorry and is trying to hurt Jack. I support Jack and the victims
Silence doesn’t mean yes, it’s that simple. She always goes back a lot on “well I don’t really remember if he said it was ok, so he never said it was not.” Is so stupid. Jack I think is a victim of grooming, he may be hesitant to set boundaries (I obviously can’t speak for him) or be hesitant to speak up about it.
Another thing you can set boundaries for your characters, it’s ok to do so. Just because you’re behind a screen doesn’t mean you can get away with whatever you want.
I am only hearing a minute into her 'apology', and my eye is already twitching. What do you mean you never discussed anything sexual and then proceeded to put up the definitions for 'masochism' and 'sado-masochism', two very well-known sex kinks tied into BDSM something I already knew when I was 14 were kinks.
The frustrating part about her blaming Jack bits was when she brought up his family and how they helped pay for stuff and was nice to her. This felt really gross to hear especially since in his return video, the exact reason he moved in with her was to get away from his abusive family members- literally who cares if they were nice to her or gave Jack and her money occasions? That's not how love works. It honestly made me realize how little she ever listened to Jack and how little she cared about the abuse he went through. Tbh I'm glad he's leaving before she got even worse behind closed doors. I'm glad she was exposed and he can escape. Also 10k to start fresh as a person without a job and is disabled, isn't a fuck ton of Money. Hes American, 10k can't do shit here. He has 10 months max to think about how to get more money. Jfc.
I was shocked to read the reply under Lorel's comment on Synni's video where someone claimed "who are you to claim she's like that" or something, as if Lorel didn't state she used to be her friend for _YEARS??_ who are *YOU* to act like you know Synni longer than the people who knew her?? I swear her defenders act like they knew Synni better, yes, i know false accusations exists but in this case, Synni is GUILTY and is just trying to paint the whole blame on Jack, i understand Jack didn't handle the situation well but that doesn't mean we should ignore Synni's red flags??
Like, how did they even manage to not notice the red flags. I had to delete my comments because i didn't want to be surrounded by her defenders who claims she "isn't excusing anything".
Considering she is, from what I'm hearing, experiencing a psychotic breakdown, I'd be more willing to bet that she doesn't know that she's using these manipulation tactics. From what I've heard, she has threatened herself, threatened Jack, and has unsuccessfully attempted to hack his accounts, which is what leads me to believe that she is experiencing a psychotic break. Regardless, she should still not have made this response and should have just stayed away like she said she would in her initial apology video.
I’m not sure about the psychotic break thing, tbh she just seems more like a pissed off manipulator. From my all to wide range of experience that seems to be a common pattern, they get exposed and do anything they can think of to get leverage.
@@hellodaydream6684 Yeah, probably... I'm just wanting to give a RUclipsr I loved throughout my childhood the benefit of the doubt, but her actions are making that very difficult :/
@@bonnietelocole6777 Yeah I understand it can be hard when someone you trusted takes advantage of their platform. After reading through a post Jack made on twitter I’d say it’s a bit of both. At the time of her video I think she was just pissed but after seeing that she’s not coming back from this, I think she’s gone insane.
Watching this video and doing some research on grooming has kinda made me realize how much my own groomers made me feel like what I went through wasn't grooming, I'm horrified that another child who was my age when I was groomed go through this and suffer. I hate this for them, I hate synni for this. I know I shouldn't be as upset as I am but it feels like a repeating situation and I can't help but feel empathy as much as I do for eno, I'm praying for their recovery and that they do heal from this. No one deserves this and I'm saddened by it happening, I'm very thankful you made this video because you mentioning her manipulative wording and tactics is something I haven't seen someone else cover
Her saying that the conversations revolved about sadomasochism and masochism rather than sex is like saying the conversations were about coke and pepsi but they weren't about liquids. Idk if people will get it, but if she pulled up the "OOOHHH SPECIFICALLY SEX???? I DID NOT TALK ABOUT SPECIFICALLY SEX BUT I DID TALK ABOUT TWO FETISHES THAT HAVE TO DO WITH IT" who's gonna tell her that both of those are of sexual nature, which is mentioned in the definition.
Is it just me, or does Synni trying to downplay her asking Jack to sit on her face by saying it’s “gay af” (when she knows full well that Jack identifies as a GUY) kinda come across as……a bit transphobic? Like, obviously it’s not the main issue with that particular issue, especially when coupled with literally every other disgusting thing she’s done, but still, that just kinda hit me very wrong in that area.
Crazy how she keeps belittling Jack and making him seem like he's some terrible person for speaking out, only to then praise him and call him a good person right after calling him a mooch and shit!!! Really puts a sour taste in my mouth. I hope everyone involved, especially the victim can get some closure after this mess is over with. (Also blaming the literal victim for being a child is WILD! Synni needs to log tf off fr.)
i honestly feel like how concerning her going back to her victim after everything because “eno’s all i had” or whatever she said exactly isn’t being talked about enough. it’s so insanely horrifying to hear her say she called her victim after all of this. she put eno in more of a spot where they felt they HAD to be there for her, she continued to groom this kid even after being called out. she was so concerned about losing jack that she went back to the child SHE GROOMED to cry to them about how they made jack leave her and make eno feel even worse. she’s truly a horrifying and disgustingly freakish person. despite the heavy topic this was a great video! 💕
It's beyond disturbing and disgusting how 'most' groomers blame their mental illness (in this case, Synni's autism) as an excuse. It's definitely an explanation, but NEVER an excuse.
I think the parts where she talks about jack shows how much she was obsessed with him. She goes from complaining and being angry at him to missing him and wishing for him to come back.
it's like she's trying to replicate the feeling of bring upset and remorseful (like she did in the call w her and Jack after he said he wanted to leave) bc she doesn't genuinely feel these things, she's only doing it to gain sympathy
kumo called an autistic 15 y/o ret#rded, so I have no doubts that kumo would turn his back on synni the moment he finds out she's autistic EDIT: 14:12 oh dear god synni's using carmenrider's logic (carmenrider told the autistic 15 y/o when they were still 14 that she could use them like a fl#shlight)
I watched the whole thing and it’s pretty much: ‘technically my actions toward Eno do not fit the definition of grooming and Jack is a meanie and I hate him’
This response actually pissed me off. Synni is actively using DARVO tactics in this response. She denied being a(n alleged) predator She attacks multiple people (Jack especially) for "wanting to ruin her reputation" And then has the audacity to reverse the situation by saying that she was a victim of grooming and couldn't have been a perpetrator herself. Synni has no clue how horrible these things that she's saying are. Literally all she would need to do is stick by her first words and log off to take therapy. I looked up to Synni for so long and even credit her as someone who inspired me to be an animator and digital artist. Seeing her mask off like this is genuinely heartbreaking.
She keeps saying that she didn't send "sex stuff" to the victim but I've looked at the document three times AND YES, she DID. AND NO!! It wasn't a simple "girls locker" conversation because she is 20 and Eno 14.... That would've been the case if she was a MINOR not a full on adult.
so me as an autistic person, i HATE HATE HATE fakeclaiming. but god, her telling jack, who is also an autistic person on how to handle social situations and stuff and shaming him for sensory sensitivity when it comes to food kinda makes me doubt that she's actually autistic, and that she's doing that for the sake of using it as a shield and shit. =/ like she already faked being polish, and now i won't be surprised if she's claiming to be neurodivergent. not saying im right or wrong or something, please correct me if i might misunderstood smn
I'm the same age as Synni 21 and born in 2003 I wont be friends with anyone under 19 (I don't mind talking to younger people but I'm very careful what I say) I'm autistic and unfiltered so i'm very careful who i'm friends with for that reason. As an adult AND ESPECIALLY as a content creator it is your job to be responsible who you talk to, It would be one thing if the victim had lied about their age but they had said they were 14 many times and synni had even joked about it. She has no defense no matter what labels given to her or what excuses she has or how many times she wants to defame jack, Synnibear03 talked and shared sexual content with a 14 year old at the age of 21 full stop
12:43 Synni is so tone deaf because I think Jack has mentioned before that he's new to having friends and isn't sure if allowing them to touch him like that is okay
Her attempt at making herself the "victim" and blaming the victim only makes herself look worse. No one except bootlickers and other preds would even buy into what Synni's saying.
This is the most minor of points but the absolute irony that she said Sock was too sensitive over their characters and she’s allowed to do what she wants with them but then she says it’s wrong that Jack is taking her characters and trying to say he’s horrible for that. That’s just wild she doesn’t see how that looks. Like she really wrote that out and didn’t see a problem with it
God, that response angers me so much. Synni did some despicable and unforgivable SHIT yet she responds to it with stuff like "I'm just a girl!" and "I'm Autistic and stupid". I'm an Autistic and Hypersexual person myself, and I can assure you that if you assault/groom someone, the only person you have to blame is YOURSELF. The problem isn't your victims or your childhood trauma or your conditions, it's YOU. Synni only has herself to blame, regardless of whatever twist she pulls out of the void. Eno and Jack deserve so much better, man :(
Synni doesn't seem to understand that 10K in this modern day and age... Is only about 4 or 5 Months Rent in bigger Cities for decent living Let alone gas for cars, food, utilities if rent doesn't cover that. Heck, My rent is 380 a month and I still need roughly 1k Total to meet all my bills currently. I wonder if Synni thinks moving is easy let alone without a constant and stable job. I LIVE IN A CHEAPER STATE TO LIVE IN. Basic rent around me is anywhere from 500- 900 a month. So Synni doesn't get to speak on the GoFundMe Issue considering Jack (Most Likely) doesn't have a job at the moment.
this video is greatly appreciated - being neurodivergent, i didn't do a good job at noticing some of these manipulation tactics she used. also, i like how sensible and level-headed you are. informative video!
"I didn't isolate them because they already talked to only 3 people" is NOT the slamdunk she thinks it is. Someone could easily just say she picked a good target
this is such a well articulated video. hearing synni try to be so damn manipulative in so many ways, literally switching up MID VIDEO. is fucking baffling. thank you for deconstructing this and pointing out all her tactics
SAME OH MY GOD! I have bpd and I’ve been medicated for a LONG time. I’ve been called all sorts of names and just seeing it happen to others it pisses me off because we get so much hate :(
@@MooseTrack_Inc the fact she babied him and was all like "he's not thinking right guys🥺" really angers me so much LIEK DAWG its so annoying seeing people dehumanize and belittle us cause of something we cannot control
@@wraitharcs “he’s not thinking right” Yeah maybe to you because you want to seem like the perfect person who didn’t do anything wrong 😑🤷 I really don’t understand how people like that (Synni) can fully be like “yes I’m in the right” when they’re disgusting human beings and use others mental health against them but when *you* are the issue it’s an excuse in an innocent way
thank you for this video and spreading awareness, it can be really difficult to recognize manipulation tactics (esp bc a lot of ppl in this community r neurodivergent including myself). i also just wanted to add that you have a very lovely and kind voice !!
One of the insane details about it, is that Eno has been groomed 3 times by someone before the situation. Also Eno allegedly lives with an abusive parents. In the video Synnibear03 confessed and used as a defense the fact, that she didn’t isolate her victim, but her victim was already isolated. So out of all minors that she could send indecent images, it just happens to be a victim of previous grooming, already isolated and living in an abusive household.
4:29 thought it’d be interesting to note this is NOT the first time this has happened to eno. (Nekozuna situation) They SHOULD NOT be on the internet, they actively seek out older individuals for sexual conversions and relationships and its very concerning
@@Jan-cc7wb yeah synni is an absolute freak. I fully believe they both need to get off the internet, and neither can be trusted to safely interact with people out of their age range.
13:01 "it was like a silly scream" you have no idea how mad i felt hearing synni try and use this excuse. like, even if jack didn't literally scream bloody murder like a horror movie that doesn't mean it's just funny to poke him in the ass because he "made a funny noise" he still made a noise that showed it wasn't something he liked. i make noises too when i feel discomfort like making a "myeh" sound when i get flashed with a bright light but that doesn't mean i'd want someone to just constantly flash a bright light in my face so they could hear me make that noise.
i remembered lourel mentioned in her vid how sinny have a weird obsession towards jack ..and seeing her rant about jack and begging him....its clear she hast gotten over that obsession. im happy jack is far away from her
that entire video was just "local predator downplays talking inappropriately with a 14 year old child with "it's not THAT bad guys!! it was cringe and weird!!!" and guilt trips someone she SA'd for thirty minutes straight". why am i not surprised. (and yeah, what she did to Jack WAS SA. as someone who has been in a similar position, that was absolutely SA as Jack did not give informed and comfortable consent. i've been through similar shit and it makes me so unbelievably mad to hear her say that it wasn't.)
this is slightly off topic but thank you for like showing all the manipulation tactics n such cause it really made me think back on how a close family member used to treat me and it's helping me process and move past it, so again thank you a lot i appreciate this a bunch♥️
The respond is really trashy things i noticed is that she just made the video all about jack instead of actually addressing the issue to what she did to the poor victim and its so weird to trash talk to abt jack and then cry that jack wants to leave and not want to be near her. i feel like anyone found this out abt their close one ofc were not gonna wanna be near them :| and its crazy how they are adults and acting like this :[
@@MarquisLeary34tbh, kinda. It’s more the personality of the person who’s most likely to become a content creator. My, idk I guess groomer would be the word is or at least was pretty popular on therain TikTok. The personality in question is outgoing but not very social and they tend to believe that they are always right (this is going to sound very victim blame-y but that’s not the intention) they don’t pick up on social cues very well and believe that if the person either doesn’t say anything or consents it’s okay, which with consent I can kinda understand but when it’s with minors they cannot consent and that behavior is not okay. If the person is of age it’s understandable but when it becomes an adult and a child they are without a doubt a predator, the circumstances don’t matter.
i was suscribed to her for years, after Jack spoke i lost all respect for her but with her recent video i'm just fully disgusted. i've never been so mad at anyone on the internet before.
I said this under synnis video and had someone go thru the same thing as me but like The same shit synni was saying in her video was the same shit my groomer said to defend themselves and i think that says everything i need to know about the situation
Did she understand that having inappropriate relationships with minors,getting into blind rage, writing this bs, being obsessive, planning to get into relationships by manipulating someone‘s mental health, having violent fantasies to the point of making grape comics abt them, sexualy harassing them,making them financially dependent on you and making threats of violence over breakout is behaviour deeply associated with….physically abusive boyfriends, domestic abusers,male incels before assaulting their gf. Which makes her putting emphasis on her „girlyness“( „its just girlies locker room talk“) seems more manipulative.
i feel sick, hearing everything she is trying to do, the straws she is grasping at, saying what she did was only "cringy" and not a literal crime... and making jack seem like he's in the wrong for not feeling safe with someone who groomed a child and groped him!?
i kind of disagree with the "youre an adult, theres no reason for you to be friends with a child" argument. i think adults and children CAN have healthy nonsexual friendships but the problem comes in when ppl (like the subject of the video) treat the children like theyre just as able to consent to certain topics as an adult. disclaimer its super sus to seek out child friends as an adult and i (obviously) do NOT condone grooming (and what synni did was definitely grooming) but being friends isn't a crime. i had a few adult friends when i was a minor and none of them groomed me, which is anecdotal and not very good evidence but idk trying to segregate adults and minors might lead to more children seeking out adult attention to rebel.
just wanted to say that this is a very well put together. your commentary is very insightful and thoughtful, and i really appreciate you making this video. thank you for educating us, and thank you for calling out her absolutely insanely disgusting actions.
Im sorry but in NO WAY should Synni been touching Jack anywhere other than what was NON-INTIMATE and CONSENTED HE WAS A MINOR/MUCH YOUNGER AND IMPRESSIONABLE THAN HER!!! Like the fact that she knowingly did this bs and labels him as the "aggressor" and talks about how she LITERALLY WANTS HIM UNALIVED IS INSANE WORK?!
ALSO FOR ANYONE READING THIS, ANYTHING BUT A CLEAR YES IS N O T CONSENT!!! EVEN IF SOMEOME IS QUIET ABOUT YOU TOUCHING THEM DOESNT MEAN ITS A YES THEY COULD JUST BE VERY SCARED/ UNCOMFORTABLE!!!!
try not to grate my head into flesh spaghetti challenge
WHAT-
HUH
Thank you for this video, I really really enjoyed it. Dont apologise for "being too agressive" you called synni out on their bs and the points you made and tactics you recognised were completely valid, I felt the same when hearing them talk. I hope you're doing alright, please keep on posting! I enjoy listening to your thoughts a lot. :)
Unrelated, but I just wanna say your voice sounds fine! I like how chill it is, totally unrelated I apologize but I just thought u should know
Fuck the neurological condition your voice is so soft and therapeutic for me, it’s smoother than butter. I get tingles when I hear it
Her using "I'm autistic, I'm stupid" but then shaming Jack for needing different textures in his food because he's also autistic????
Autistic hypocrism is crazy ....
as someone in this situation with his boyfriend (my boyfriend does not pay for his food, i do, and he requires special items) honestly i can understand her frustration but putting this in the video was just.. strange
@@breakerbeams As someone with autism and someone who has mostly autistic friends who's sensory issues are VERY different to mine, and our food preferences very rarely match. No, I don't get it. There's no reason to be angry about it, because it's not their fault and you're never "fixing" it.
@@InkyGhoul i get that it sucks that something out of your control can cause issues for others and yourself but sometimes that's how it is. i never said i was angry at my boyfriend (personally speaking) but i am allowed to get frustrated with the situation for a variety of reasons
@@InkyGhoul none of this is really relevant to synni anyways, who is just using this to bite back and jack and throw him under the bus. she could have stopped paying for the food easily if she wanted to.
Did Synni really just say “I’m just a girl”? In this? 😭
its giving "Im just a girl" in the "girls do no wrong" way LOL
i’m just a wittle girl 🥺👉👈
I'm just a girl!!! Wdym it's bad to talk to a child about sexually charged things ...
"It's just a girl thing hehEE"
"I may have groomed a child, SAd my roomate and sent death threats to them; but I'm just a girl!"
its always the victim blaming 😭😭
gyup…..
Thats pretty common behavior of child predators, blame the child, not the predator. :/
REAL THO- (first reply, 4 like)
if only that were the sole case. She keeps trying to make the whole deal about Jack. It ain't about him, it's about Eno, her victim
@@KoniWrin Even then, she brushes off her actions towards Eno and somehow finds a way to victim-blame instead of, uhh...taking responsibility as a legal adult?
Fr.
Gotta love DARVO tactics. /sarc
she BARLEY touched on anything of note. Just shitted on Jack the whole time. She even literally called Eno the "supposed" victim. She's digging her own grave atp.
What does atp mean?
@@ExoticXz-t9vat this point
@@ExoticXz-t9vadenosine triphosphate
1:30 “Jack doesn’t know what he’s talking about” isn’t Jack literally a victim of grooming
He was groomed several times and to a severe extent, but ig he doesn't know what he's talking about according to big brain synni
Yeah, and he's been groomed MULTIPLE times. I'm pretty sure he does know what he's talking about
yeah no, Jack is DEF NOT speaking from EXPERIENCE or oh I dunno PERSONAL EXPOSURE TO THIS EXACT TOPIC. God Synni pisses me off, she has the absolute worst victim complex and uses the "im just a straight autistic girl uwu" excuse 24/7.
she lists isolating a child as if she didn't do that by keeping Eno and i on really long calls every day for periods of time
her noting Eno was ALREADY isolated was crazy too like,, that doesnt justify much, bud!
I’m so sorry to hear that :(( hope ur doing okay and getting away from her!!
@@mercykissed it's almost like groomers actively GO FOR people who are already in similar situations to the ones they're trying to put them in?? i don't understand how synni thought that fact would prove anything. if a certain situation has already been normalized for a child, participating in keeping them in that situation is NOT A GOOD THING 💀
@@b3dbvgs exactly
I remember your whole video exposing her, I’m sorry nobody listened to you, about her being a creep.
The comment's on that video are fucking crazy
"Why is jack getting help and not the victim!!!" Um, maybe because the victims parents are abusive?? And Jacks an adult? Like jesus christ ppl 😭
The amount of people complaining that Eno isn’t getting money is so dumb. Like he don’t need to move away and pay for a house, the circumstances are totally different 😭
@@dammit_larrythat is so true it doesn’t even make sense. The most help Eno can get is support from their parents and any support they can get online for telling their story and to stay far away from synni while Jack needs to find a whole new place to live and a new way to fund themselves.
Not to mention, Eno is underage, they can't simply leave the house until they reach 18..
@@OnTheEdgeFan Yeah especially since Jack is, ya know, the one literally living with Synni rn and wanting to get the hell out of there.
I swear it feels like Synni just said that as a manipulation thing, trying to get people to not help Jack so that they have no choice but to either stay there when they're clearly hurt by the fact that they found out what Synni did or risk talking to their parents who would very likely hurt them.
@@dammit_larry Fr like Eno doesnt currently LIVE with Synni and could block her anytime (if they havent already, idk ive heard they did but ive also heard the opposite) but Jack LITERALLY lives with her which for him being groomed before must be a TERRIFYING situation since it seems like the whole time theyve lived together Synni has displayed very... off *cough* grooming *cough* behavior.
Synni’s apology pissed me off so bad. You know she’s guilty when she apologizes and backpedals with manipulation. She knows what she did. Absolutely evil.
@@helisxythe agreed indeed
A point that no one talking about is Synni saying basically ‘I want to respect people’s boundaries and not make people uncomfortable!’ And then turning around and saying ‘yeah well this minor is SOOOOO sensitive for setting boundaries on their characters! It’s the internet you can’t stop me from doing this!’
She only cares about boundaries when they can benefit her yk, not when she's consistently drawing and engaging with freak stuff with someone's characters publicly,knowing they don't want that
It's okay to draw smut of any person's character. The thing is, you shouldn't force it down people's throats, especially when they are ten years younger than you!!
THIS HUMAN WASTE LEARN ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!!!! 💯💯💯💯💯🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿
@@CÜ3IE.89nah, that can really depend. What if the person doesn’t want smut of their character because it would disturb them? The character could be a comfort character, a character they made for or in memory of a loved one, or if the character in question is a kid-a LITTLE kid.
People can be horny and have attractions to characters all they want, but boundaries must be respected. At the very least, the nsfw they make of characters from artists who don’t want to see their nsfw should at least keep it private
I do think so, but honestly, who's willing to stop them,
In my case, it's better not to emphasize it to the Creator,
Unless they're okay with it....
@@CÜ3IE.89 I feel like you can draw that character cause yes no one can stop you but if the creator has made it clear they are uncomfortable with it then keep it to yourself. Not to mention this is an adult saying someone is sensitive for not liking it but going to say they wanted to make everyone comfortable, isnt that just hypocrisy? She’s only choosing to do it if she likes it.
Synni is and always will be a predator, Eno is not the only victim, but they were the youngest and the most abhorrent. She waited around for me and Keny to turn 18 so that she felt more comfortable continuing her depraved conversations with us. She isolated Eno and Bug Sprxy by keeping them on voice calls that would (from personal experience) last up to 7 or almost 10 hours. ALL those hours were spent talking about her fantasies, other nasty things, or sobbing for comfort (also from personal experience). She would guilt us by saying she trusted us and that she's so traumatized from having her dms leaked in the past and that "people just don't know how to keep things private anymore"
She is an abuser and used tactics that my own abusers have used to me, and well now I can confidently say she is now one of my abusers. I still don't consider myself completely a victim of her predatory actions because she did WAIT the exact moment i turned 18 to get really nsfw in convos with me and I never once shut these convos down as I was so deluded and just wanted her attention
my brain is still scrambled, i truly cannot believe her. I have my own unique experiences with her and things that were brought to my attention by her other ex friends in the context our friendship, but i wont ramble them here.
She wants everyone to forget what she did to Eno, she wants to pin the blame on Eno and Jack, and she wants to sling shit at her former friends in the process. She is disgusting.
I'm so sorry you and others went through this :[
That does make you a victim. Having someone wait till they are of age is grooming and she waited for you, youbwere a victim for a while and bc ur of age you'd think it'll be okay but it's not. That's creepy af.
Waiting til you are 18 is technically a form of grooming and outright predatory on Synni's end especially
10 HOURS??!!!? ?? WHAT
i left a comment under her video basically calling her out, but I was shocked to see the amount of people who were defending her under my comment. hopefully they’re just kids but still.
Given how comments work, it's likely Synni just gives attention to the people supporting her while the comments calling her out are just ignored or outright deleted.
There’s a bunch of bot comments that are defending her but they’re just spewing nonsense mostly. And the ones defending her don’t even have a defence they go completely silent when points are brought up against.
So her defenders are bots and dumb people lol
I know there was some person saying that I "didn't give Synni a chance to explain" like what?
Facts. I've seen a couple and they're just as petty and nonsensical as she is. Like their logic is so backwards and basically do the petty thing of "BUT! BUT! BUT! THEY DID THIS TOO!!"
@@T_E_G I've seen a few claiming "OH BUT SHE ISN'T EXCUSING ANYTHING"
what's that supposed to means??
“The conversation revolves around sadomachoism and sadistic fantasies, which is not a sex conversation-“
Is she even hearing herself? Those type of topics SHOULDN’T be around minors until they are of age. That can still lead to sexual conversation because it’s still a fantasy. Like c’mon bro. 😭
@@marvelous_680 "It's not about sex. It's about specific fantasies that revolve around and still involve sex. Totally different."
Does Synni ever actually listen to herself and think "Hmm...maybe this sounds like terrible logic"? Or does she just run her mouth and expect to be coddled?
@@devofficialchannel She definitely thought she would coddled like she's a kid (prime era) when she's an adult already.
exactly like???? on what planet does a 14 year old need to know about fucking sadomasochism???????
Gee, I find it ironic that Synni has a video titled 'A lesson in victim blaming' and here she is...doing just that...
No no see that just means she's well versed in it!! Cmon guys she went through the trouble of doing it to research well!! How kind
@@idi0tsanswich379 destroying competition.
EXACTLY. she pent a whole 3 hours defending jack to someone who thinks all queer people are groomers and her actions destroyed that ENTIRE RANT..
my jaw genuinely dropped when synni started talking about how "sensitive" sock is being ???????? Like it's sock's own characters HELLO
Jack doesn't have a clear history, he may not be a good person, but he sure as hell isn't out here grooming minors. Grooming a child isn't just "I'm going to do every step literally once at a time to perfectly match the definition of grooming", she ruined her OWN reputation by actively doing this time and time again. Perfect victims don't exist, Eno and Jack were both hurt in different ways, they're both victims, what she did to them was not their fault.
Didn't she send stuff to an 11year old
It baffles me how someone who was abused as a child proceeds to victim blame the child she abused 💀
Psychosis
@@dammit_larry thats not what psychosis is like at all
@@nightrose6116 i literally have it lol.
@@nightrose6116 I’m saying that because she’s talked about having severe paranoia and she’s blaming everything on Jack. I think she completely believes Jack is out to get her and also that shes innocent. I legit have the disorder, i recognize the signs very well
@@dammit_larrypotentially! Could it not just also be her shifting blame though intentionally? Not saying she doesn't have psychosis who knows what she's got going on
Doesn’t matter is she didn’t “technically groom” someone SHE SENT NSFW ART WORK/MESSAGES TO A MINOR???? BRO GET OFF THE INTERNET IF YOU CANT CONTROL YOURSELF AROUND KIDS
I mean, even if she wasn't looking to get into bed with a minor, she still sent them explicit stuff which definitely makes it under the technical terms of what a groomer is. Its just like Colleen Balinger's (or however you spell her name) case.
@@drawingbluejay7938 exactly! Like idk how she can sit there and think “I repeatedly nsfw stuff to a minor but not in a groomer way” like??? Girl clearly there’s a problem here???
Exactly! I don’t understand how anyone can send that, to a kid and then try to justify it? Even as an adult I wouldn’t send stuff, like that to another adult or to anyone in general. Nor would I want someone to send stuff like that to me, so how can she even make excuses for that? She just needs to accept, her career is done for, there’s no coming back from this for her.
Literally just don't talk to kids if you have no filter. Like I don't talk to kids, I'm an adult and I talk about mature topics WITH MY ADULT FRIENDS. The only "kid" I know is my brother and I would never even think about being this way towards him.
While watching her ‘apology’ she mentions how Jack said all that to ruin her reputation. Like!??? Why does that matter, you’re just mad you got caught talking to a minor inappropriately, and are now facing the consequences of your actions 😨😨
Makes me genuinely so mad when ppl r like “i can do whatever I want with your character” like most of my characters represent me so I’d be livid if some random adult started thirsting over them
Right?? Like how would Synni feel if some freak made her character do weird kink stuff like poop-play or something? 💀💀
Ironic is that she’s so mad Jack is doing the same thing she’s doing to Sock’s character and she’s furious about it
once i posted a drawing of one of my ocs and someone said ''hear me out'' under it. even though they didn't explicitly say anything i still understood what they meant and it made me very upset, the drawing wasn't even suggestive in any way either.
@@Bleplebeian people can be so strange on the internet 😭😭
I think the big thing too is it was like PUBLIC. If you wanna do freak shit with my character offline I guess I cant stop you but why go outta your way to air it out??
“We talked about gore and sadomasochism.”
GIRLIE, SADOMASOCHISM IS SEXUAL IN NATURE. IT’S ABOUT GAINING PLEASURE FROM SEEING PEOPLE IN PAIN OR BEING IN PAIN.
its not sexual in nature, it can exist outside sexual situations too. but in this case, she was discussing gore and sadomasochism in a sexual context, so yeah, hypocritical of her.
A fellow epilepsy struggler I see.
Also I already know "I'm Autistic, I'm Stupid." is going to become one of my new vocal stims because it really came off like "I'm not a groomer, just a loser".
epilepsy gang )):
"hopefully he'll come to his senses" mother gothel type shit 💀💀
“Im straight so i couldnt have taken advantage of a young girl!” This is one of the dumbest things shes said. Sexual abuse/exploitation/harassment isnt tied to your attraction to the victim. sexual abuse doesn’t happen because the perpetrator was “so attracted” that they couldnt control themselves. Its about abuse, dominance and control over a victim. Its a powertrip. She may not have sexually abused Eno physically, she may not be attracted to eno, but having sexually charged conversations with a child as an adult is predatory and inapropriate no matter what
a couple rebuttal points to synni (in no particular order):
synni either doesn’t understand or refuses to acknowledge that she held power over jack (an unemployed trans guy with a pretty rough internet footprint who depended on her for shelter and financial support) and eno (a minor fan who looked up to synni as an idol/big sister figure)- it’s possible that they reason they didn’t say “no” or tell her to stop the sexual talk/touching was because they felt like they *couldn’t* say no to her, lest they lose her attention/support. (also: even if eno was the one who initiated contact, synni still had the responsibility to set a healthy distance between herself and a young fan and the responsibility of shutting down any sexual conversations. and obviously, she didn’t do the responsible thing)
jack did list what the $10,000 was for in his gofundme: refills for his meds, food, pet supplies for his cat, and the cost of an apartment until he could find a way to support himself. if it comes out that he’s been using that money frivolously then i’ll retract this defense, but from what we know he was very transparent about what the money was for.
just because synni didn’t have sexual intentions towards eno doesn’t mean she didn’t groom them! if you’re an adult who normalizes sexual topics to a child, that desensitizes them to the warning signs of dangerous people- someone who “only” normalized those topics should still be held accountable.
Honestly? Id say 10k is lowballing what hed need. It can take months to sort out issues with social security and most apartment complexes expect you to have several months worth of rent in the bank. Even if he goes cheap and gets an old studio and rent isnt expensive, that plus moving, meds, his cats, and cost of living might last him two months if hes careful
I am still so frustrated that I was once a fan of Synni. This whole video is more just her bashing Jack than her taking accountability for grooming a minor.
She is making this a “Birdie Drama” when this is supposed to be about her and her own vile tactics. Even worse with knowing she is threatening Jack’s social presence AND HIS LIFE!
I just wish the Victim, Jack and all the people Synni hurt a lot are safe. They ABSOLUTELY did not deserve what Sunni has done and hid from them.
And Synni most definitely needs to leave, just, leave the internet and leave her victims alone. For everyone’s sake
Agreed #TerminateSynniBearfromRUclips
The fact that I saw nothing wrong with her suggestive content when I was younger makes a lot of sense to me considering I was a very gullible kid and was groomed on several occasions by people just like her.
Well said! 👏🏼
@@mysryuza agreed
why is she mad that the creator of boy has boundaries about him😭
Your voice is calming to listen to
I agree. Very well spoken as well.
yeah i know shister says in the video about a neurological condition and warn about it but its a pleasant voice, a sing-song like one. i like it
17:07 I would have these same exact paranoid thoughts and assumptions and perceptions about my dad when I was having a psychotic break when I was 15. All he did was hold me accountable for my poor treatment of myself and others. She is unstable
very, very unstable. Her thinking of killing herself is not likely a lie. It's messed up and she needs help asap before something goes horribly wrong.
she is EXTREMELY unstable and she needs a visit to the psych ward
The fact that her apology wasn’t even Sincere and was scripted makes me very upset, she’s not sorry and is trying to hurt Jack. I support Jack and the victims
Silence doesn’t mean yes, it’s that simple. She always goes back a lot on “well I don’t really remember if he said it was ok, so he never said it was not.” Is so stupid. Jack I think is a victim of grooming, he may be hesitant to set boundaries (I obviously can’t speak for him) or be hesitant to speak up about it.
Another thing you can set boundaries for your characters, it’s ok to do so. Just because you’re behind a screen doesn’t mean you can get away with whatever you want.
Your voice is very pleasant and clear. Please dont apologize for having a neurological condition
I am only hearing a minute into her 'apology', and my eye is already twitching. What do you mean you never discussed anything sexual and then proceeded to put up the definitions for 'masochism' and 'sado-masochism', two very well-known sex kinks tied into BDSM something I already knew when I was 14 were kinks.
The frustrating part about her blaming Jack bits was when she brought up his family and how they helped pay for stuff and was nice to her. This felt really gross to hear especially since in his return video, the exact reason he moved in with her was to get away from his abusive family members- literally who cares if they were nice to her or gave Jack and her money occasions? That's not how love works.
It honestly made me realize how little she ever listened to Jack and how little she cared about the abuse he went through. Tbh I'm glad he's leaving before she got even worse behind closed doors. I'm glad she was exposed and he can escape.
Also 10k to start fresh as a person without a job and is disabled, isn't a fuck ton of Money. Hes American, 10k can't do shit here. He has 10 months max to think about how to get more money. Jfc.
I was shocked to read the reply under Lorel's comment on Synni's video where someone claimed "who are you to claim she's like that" or something, as if Lorel didn't state she used to be her friend for _YEARS??_ who are *YOU* to act like you know Synni longer than the people who knew her??
I swear her defenders act like they knew Synni better, yes, i know false accusations exists but in this case, Synni is GUILTY and is just trying to paint the whole blame on Jack, i understand Jack didn't handle the situation well but that doesn't mean we should ignore Synni's red flags??
Like, how did they even manage to not notice the red flags. I had to delete my comments because i didn't want to be surrounded by her defenders who claims she "isn't excusing anything".
Considering she is, from what I'm hearing, experiencing a psychotic breakdown, I'd be more willing to bet that she doesn't know that she's using these manipulation tactics. From what I've heard, she has threatened herself, threatened Jack, and has unsuccessfully attempted to hack his accounts, which is what leads me to believe that she is experiencing a psychotic break. Regardless, she should still not have made this response and should have just stayed away like she said she would in her initial apology video.
I’m not sure about the psychotic break thing, tbh she just seems more like a pissed off manipulator. From my all to wide range of experience that seems to be a common pattern, they get exposed and do anything they can think of to get leverage.
@@hellodaydream6684 Yeah, probably... I'm just wanting to give a RUclipsr I loved throughout my childhood the benefit of the doubt, but her actions are making that very difficult :/
@@bonnietelocole6777 Yeah I understand it can be hard when someone you trusted takes advantage of their platform. After reading through a post Jack made on twitter I’d say it’s a bit of both. At the time of her video I think she was just pissed but after seeing that she’s not coming back from this, I think she’s gone insane.
Watching this video and doing some research on grooming has kinda made me realize how much my own groomers made me feel like what I went through wasn't grooming, I'm horrified that another child who was my age when I was groomed go through this and suffer. I hate this for them, I hate synni for this. I know I shouldn't be as upset as I am but it feels like a repeating situation and I can't help but feel empathy as much as I do for eno, I'm praying for their recovery and that they do heal from this. No one deserves this and I'm saddened by it happening, I'm very thankful you made this video because you mentioning her manipulative wording and tactics is something I haven't seen someone else cover
Her saying that the conversations revolved about sadomasochism and masochism rather than sex is like saying the conversations were about coke and pepsi but they weren't about liquids.
Idk if people will get it, but if she pulled up the "OOOHHH SPECIFICALLY SEX???? I DID NOT TALK ABOUT SPECIFICALLY SEX BUT I DID TALK ABOUT TWO FETISHES THAT HAVE TO DO WITH IT" who's gonna tell her that both of those are of sexual nature, which is mentioned in the definition.
Is it just me, or does Synni trying to downplay her asking Jack to sit on her face by saying it’s “gay af” (when she knows full well that Jack identifies as a GUY) kinda come across as……a bit transphobic? Like, obviously it’s not the main issue with that particular issue, especially when coupled with literally every other disgusting thing she’s done, but still, that just kinda hit me very wrong in that area.
Finally, someone else mentions it! She’s really letting her transphobia show.
Crazy how she keeps belittling Jack and making him seem like he's some terrible person for speaking out, only to then praise him and call him a good person right after calling him a mooch and shit!!! Really puts a sour taste in my mouth. I hope everyone involved, especially the victim can get some closure after this mess is over with.
(Also blaming the literal victim for being a child is WILD! Synni needs to log tf off fr.)
i honestly feel like how concerning her going back to her victim after everything because “eno’s all i had” or whatever she said exactly isn’t being talked about enough. it’s so insanely horrifying to hear her say she called her victim after all of this. she put eno in more of a spot where they felt they HAD to be there for her, she continued to groom this kid even after being called out. she was so concerned about losing jack that she went back to the child SHE GROOMED to cry to them about how they made jack leave her and make eno feel even worse. she’s truly a horrifying and disgustingly freakish person. despite the heavy topic this was a great video! 💕
Her video felt like
1% grooming allegations
&
90% Jack..
(It was rlly 30% the allegations and 70% Jack tho)
Ironic that Synni posted a video about victim blaming only a month prior to this response video.
It's beyond disturbing and disgusting how 'most' groomers blame their mental illness (in this case, Synni's autism) as an excuse. It's definitely an explanation, but NEVER an excuse.
I think the parts where she talks about jack shows how much she was obsessed with him. She goes from complaining and being angry at him to missing him and wishing for him to come back.
The way she said jack doesn't know what he is talking about with grooming is so disgusting what the hell 😰
The way she talks at 15:54,16:11,17:02-17:11 feels like she is fake crying 2 be honest? I can't explain it but it feels like it
it's like she's trying to replicate the feeling of bring upset and remorseful (like she did in the call w her and Jack after he said he wanted to leave) bc she doesn't genuinely feel these things, she's only doing it to gain sympathy
kumo called an autistic 15 y/o ret#rded, so I have no doubts that kumo would turn his back on synni the moment he finds out she's autistic
EDIT: 14:12 oh dear god synni's using carmenrider's logic (carmenrider told the autistic 15 y/o when they were still 14 that she could use them like a fl#shlight)
synni's response is actually fucking DIABOLICAL, my jaw is quite literally on the floor, how disgusting, i'm shocked, idek what to say.
I watched the whole thing and it’s pretty much: ‘technically my actions toward Eno do not fit the definition of grooming and Jack is a meanie and I hate him’
This response actually pissed me off. Synni is actively using DARVO tactics in this response.
She denied being a(n alleged) predator
She attacks multiple people (Jack especially) for "wanting to ruin her reputation"
And then has the audacity to reverse the situation by saying that she was a victim of grooming and couldn't have been a perpetrator herself.
Synni has no clue how horrible these things that she's saying are. Literally all she would need to do is stick by her first words and log off to take therapy. I looked up to Synni for so long and even credit her as someone who inspired me to be an animator and digital artist. Seeing her mask off like this is genuinely heartbreaking.
She keeps saying that she didn't send "sex stuff" to the victim but I've looked at the document three times AND YES, she DID. AND NO!! It wasn't a simple "girls locker" conversation because she is 20 and Eno 14.... That would've been the case if she was a MINOR not a full on adult.
so me as an autistic person, i HATE HATE HATE fakeclaiming.
but god, her telling jack, who is also an autistic person on how to handle social situations and stuff and shaming him for sensory sensitivity when it comes to food kinda makes me doubt that she's actually autistic, and that she's doing that for the sake of using it as a shield and shit. =/
like she already faked being polish, and now i won't be surprised if she's claiming to be neurodivergent.
not saying im right or wrong or something, please correct me if i might misunderstood smn
I'm the same age as Synni 21 and born in 2003 I wont be friends with anyone under 19 (I don't mind talking to younger people but I'm very careful what I say) I'm autistic and unfiltered so i'm very careful who i'm friends with for that reason. As an adult AND ESPECIALLY as a content creator it is your job to be responsible who you talk to, It would be one thing if the victim had lied about their age but they had said they were 14 many times and synni had even joked about it. She has no defense no matter what labels given to her or what excuses she has or how many times she wants to defame jack, Synnibear03 talked and shared sexual content with a 14 year old at the age of 21 full stop
12:43 Synni is so tone deaf because I think Jack has mentioned before that he's new to having friends and isn't sure if allowing them to touch him like that is okay
Her attempt at making herself the "victim" and blaming the victim only makes herself look worse.
No one except bootlickers and other preds would even buy into what Synni's saying.
This is the most minor of points but the absolute irony that she said Sock was too sensitive over their characters and she’s allowed to do what she wants with them but then she says it’s wrong that Jack is taking her characters and trying to say he’s horrible for that. That’s just wild she doesn’t see how that looks. Like she really wrote that out and didn’t see a problem with it
It wasn’t even her character lol, scootaloo belongs to hasbro 😭
God, that response angers me so much. Synni did some despicable and unforgivable SHIT yet she responds to it with stuff like "I'm just a girl!" and "I'm Autistic and stupid". I'm an Autistic and Hypersexual person myself, and I can assure you that if you assault/groom someone, the only person you have to blame is YOURSELF. The problem isn't your victims or your childhood trauma or your conditions, it's YOU. Synni only has herself to blame, regardless of whatever twist she pulls out of the void. Eno and Jack deserve so much better, man :(
Watching her response while my blood pressure is already high was not a good idea at all oh my god
Your voice is lovely and your points were very concise, thank you for making this
Synni doesn't seem to understand that 10K in this modern day and age... Is only about 4 or 5 Months Rent in bigger Cities for decent living Let alone gas for cars, food, utilities if rent doesn't cover that. Heck, My rent is 380 a month and I still need roughly 1k Total to meet all my bills currently. I wonder if Synni thinks moving is easy let alone without a constant and stable job.
I LIVE IN A CHEAPER STATE TO LIVE IN. Basic rent around me is anywhere from 500- 900 a month. So Synni doesn't get to speak on the GoFundMe Issue considering Jack (Most Likely) doesn't have a job at the moment.
YES! It is so out of touch that she thinks it's so cheap for Jack to move and that he can just ask his family for such large amounts of money.
this video is greatly appreciated - being neurodivergent, i didn't do a good job at noticing some of these manipulation tactics she used. also, i like how sensible and level-headed you are. informative video!
"I didn't isolate them because they already talked to only 3 people" is NOT the slamdunk she thinks it is. Someone could easily just say she picked a good target
I actually really enjoy listening to your voice! It’s calming ^_^
Unrelated but holyshit another zim pfp!
@@InvaderBB LOLZ TWINZ
this is such a well articulated video. hearing synni try to be so damn manipulative in so many ways, literally switching up MID VIDEO. is fucking baffling. thank you for deconstructing this and pointing out all her tactics
the bpd part made me SO uncomfy as someone who has bpd like why is she blaming his bpd and basically demonizing people who have bpd😭
SAME OH MY GOD! I have bpd and I’ve been medicated for a LONG time. I’ve been called all sorts of names and just seeing it happen to others it pisses me off because we get so much hate :(
@@MooseTrack_Inc the fact she babied him and was all like "he's not thinking right guys🥺" really angers me so much LIEK DAWG
its so annoying seeing people dehumanize and belittle us cause of something we cannot control
@@wraitharcs FOR REAL
@@wraitharcs “he’s not thinking right”
Yeah maybe to you because you want to seem like the perfect person who didn’t do anything wrong 😑🤷
I really don’t understand how people like that (Synni) can fully be like “yes I’m in the right” when they’re disgusting human beings and use others mental health against them but when *you* are the issue it’s an excuse in an innocent way
@@MooseTrack_Inc IKRRR ITS SO WEIRDD
so glad i never watched synni's videos, it was always so strange to me and ITS SO BAD NOW EUGHH.
i found her scootdolo videos strange
@@Trixiestar0 NO FR ME TOO
thank you for this video and spreading awareness, it can be really difficult to recognize manipulation tactics (esp bc a lot of ppl in this community r neurodivergent including myself).
i also just wanted to add that you have a very lovely and kind voice !!
One of the insane details about it, is that Eno has been groomed 3 times by someone before the situation. Also Eno allegedly lives with an abusive parents. In the video Synnibear03 confessed and used as a defense the fact, that she didn’t isolate her victim, but her victim was already isolated. So out of all minors that she could send indecent images, it just happens to be a victim of previous grooming, already isolated and living in an abusive household.
There’s no hope for Synni at this point
her apology pissed me off so bad it’s not even funny
I never thought we’d seen a toxic gossip train sequel but here we are😥
the way she acts sounds like she isn't seeing a therapist at all. 😅people do lie about getting better!
4:29 thought it’d be interesting to note this is NOT the first time this has happened to eno. (Nekozuna situation) They SHOULD NOT be on the internet, they actively seek out older individuals for sexual conversions and relationships and its very concerning
So it means that even out of all children, she choose the one who was already isolated, had abusive family and had past grooming expiriences.
@@Jan-cc7wb yeah synni is an absolute freak. I fully believe they both need to get off the internet, and neither can be trusted to safely interact with people out of their age range.
13:01 "it was like a silly scream" you have no idea how mad i felt hearing synni try and use this excuse. like, even if jack didn't literally scream bloody murder like a horror movie that doesn't mean it's just funny to poke him in the ass because he "made a funny noise" he still made a noise that showed it wasn't something he liked. i make noises too when i feel discomfort like making a "myeh" sound when i get flashed with a bright light but that doesn't mean i'd want someone to just constantly flash a bright light in my face so they could hear me make that noise.
i remembered lourel mentioned in her vid how sinny have a weird obsession towards jack ..and seeing her rant about jack and begging him....its clear she hast gotten over that obsession. im happy jack is far away from her
that entire video was just "local predator downplays talking inappropriately with a 14 year old child with "it's not THAT bad guys!! it was cringe and weird!!!" and guilt trips someone she SA'd for thirty minutes straight". why am i not surprised.
(and yeah, what she did to Jack WAS SA. as someone who has been in a similar position, that was absolutely SA as Jack did not give informed and comfortable consent. i've been through similar shit and it makes me so unbelievably mad to hear her say that it wasn't.)
1:16 hey, you speak beautifully don’t feel bad. I think you sound very clear through out your video don’t ever apologise for something like that 💗
All the points shes making are wild- Next thing you know shes going to say, "Not a groomer, just a loser 😔"
please dont apologise for the way you speak! your speech is perfectly clear and understandable.
this is slightly off topic but thank you for like showing all the manipulation tactics n such cause it really made me think back on how a close family member used to treat me and it's helping me process and move past it, so again thank you a lot i appreciate this a bunch♥️
"Jack raised money for himself and not the victim" HE IS A VICTIM TOO THOUGH????⚰️⚰️⚰️
The respond is really trashy things i noticed is that she just made the video all about jack instead of actually addressing the issue to what she did to the poor victim and its so weird to trash talk to abt jack and then cry that jack wants to leave and not want to be near her. i feel like anyone found this out abt their close one ofc were not gonna wanna be near them :| and its crazy how they are adults and acting like this :[
the way she admitted to holding onto him while he was working on HIS video.
Why is everybody in 2024 predators 😭🙏
Literally oh my god 😭
Does it contractually come with being a content creator or something?!
@@MarquisLeary34tbh, kinda. It’s more the personality of the person who’s most likely to become a content creator. My, idk I guess groomer would be the word is or at least was pretty popular on therain TikTok. The personality in question is outgoing but not very social and they tend to believe that they are always right (this is going to sound very victim blame-y but that’s not the intention) they don’t pick up on social cues very well and believe that if the person either doesn’t say anything or consents it’s okay, which with consent I can kinda understand but when it’s with minors they cannot consent and that behavior is not okay. If the person is of age it’s understandable but when it becomes an adult and a child they are without a doubt a predator, the circumstances don’t matter.
Synni never truly loved or cared about jack. For her to backstab him like this is disgusting
12:51 “i thought he was joking when he said no” HUH?
i was suscribed to her for years, after Jack spoke i lost all respect for her but with her recent video i'm just fully disgusted. i've never been so mad at anyone on the internet before.
I said this under synnis video and had someone go thru the same thing as me but like
The same shit synni was saying in her video was the same shit my groomer said to defend themselves and i think that says everything i need to know about the situation
Did she understand that having inappropriate relationships with minors,getting into blind rage, writing this bs, being obsessive, planning to get into relationships by manipulating someone‘s mental health, having violent fantasies to the point of making grape comics abt them, sexualy harassing them,making them financially dependent on you and making threats of violence over breakout is behaviour deeply associated with….physically abusive boyfriends, domestic abusers,male incels before assaulting their gf. Which makes her putting emphasis on her „girlyness“( „its just girlies locker room talk“) seems more manipulative.
i feel sick, hearing everything she is trying to do, the straws she is grasping at, saying what she did was only "cringy" and not a literal crime...
and making jack seem like he's in the wrong for not feeling safe with someone who groomed a child and groped him!?
i kind of disagree with the "youre an adult, theres no reason for you to be friends with a child" argument. i think adults and children CAN have healthy nonsexual friendships but the problem comes in when ppl (like the subject of the video) treat the children like theyre just as able to consent to certain topics as an adult. disclaimer its super sus to seek out child friends as an adult and i (obviously) do NOT condone grooming (and what synni did was definitely grooming) but being friends isn't a crime. i had a few adult friends when i was a minor and none of them groomed me, which is anecdotal and not very good evidence but idk trying to segregate adults and minors might lead to more children seeking out adult attention to rebel.
The fact I had a friend treat me the way she treats jack and she thinks jack is the problem makes me so mad.
I just want to say
Your sonas design is just so good
I love them
Half expected her to drop a “I’m not a groomer, just a loser” at some point during that manipulative rambling, damn.
just wanted to say that this is a very well put together. your commentary is very insightful and thoughtful, and i really appreciate you making this video. thank you for educating us, and thank you for calling out her absolutely insanely disgusting actions.
“Not a groomer, just a loser” type apology
Im sorry but in NO WAY should Synni been touching Jack anywhere other than what was NON-INTIMATE and CONSENTED HE WAS A MINOR/MUCH YOUNGER AND IMPRESSIONABLE THAN HER!!! Like the fact that she knowingly did this bs and labels him as the "aggressor" and talks about how she LITERALLY WANTS HIM UNALIVED IS INSANE WORK?!
ALSO FOR ANYONE READING THIS, ANYTHING BUT A CLEAR YES IS N O T CONSENT!!! EVEN IF SOMEOME IS QUIET ABOUT YOU TOUCHING THEM DOESNT MEAN ITS A YES THEY COULD JUST BE VERY SCARED/ UNCOMFORTABLE!!!!
Silence is not consent, neither is not reacting.