Me too! I will be. 10 months zero contact soon! I moved changed my phone number blocked him on everything. Im no longer scared or thinking how he will act today. Lord it was painful living with him for 3.5 years. And to think I was married to him for 1.5 years I divorced him in 2017. Started seeing him again a year after the divorced and he moved in with me in May 2020. Big mistake We bought a house together Jan 2023 thought that would help our relationship. It just got worse like bad like really bad. I thank God I didn’t Marry him a second time. He cheated with women in our new community he spoke badly about me to neighbors. In November 2023 I called the cops on him I just could not take his emotional and verbal abuse. He didn’t get arrested but that scared him enough to stop 🛑 mistreating me we put the house up for sale. That man grew even worse a week before by he closing I had to hire an attorney because he said he wasn’t going to sale the house I was so confused I was ok he is cheating on me and he had the nerve to tell me you ruined this you did it when you divorced me and now with the sale of the house and he said know that I loved you and I still love you like what the heck are you kidding dude. I will never look back that man is pure evil! 😈. I’m so glad I have God in my life is not easy but I know that man is capable of of killing me or get me arrested he tried twice to get me in jail when we were married and I forgave him . That man is evil evil evil. Thank God I had no kids with him!!! God alerted me the day I got married and i refused to listen. He was nice to everyone except me a handful of folks chose his side. It hurts but it’s ok I’m no longer scared. My eye stopped twitching my heart beats normal again I no longer have to hide my belongings and I can have a relationship with my family. We sold the house 2 weeks before we made a year living in that house! God protected me. I now see that. That house believe it or not was a blessing even though I lived a nightmare in there but that opened my eyes and Lord knows I will not go back with him. I was his main supply because I brought him To this country in 2015 as of Jan 2024 he still don’t have his 10 year green card I wish all the best. But far far away from Me whether her min the 🇺🇸 or his home in the Dominican Republic 🇩🇴 he tried to arrest me twice he applied as a victim of domestic violence abuse they closed that case and he thought I was going to marry him again all I did was a letter of reference in 2020 that he was a changed man. But little did I know.
This is so accurate. I believe 100% the narcissist wants you to hurt. They get a kick out of you hurting. It makes them feel good. It's true they treat everyone better than you. They do it on purpose.
They take you for granted. Youll always be there so i dont have to try. Their friend? They have show them love because they dont feed the narcissist. You do!!
It it such a great weight lifted when they are GONE!! It’s like a sack being taken off your throat. Work on you and don’t look back.😮💨 Thanks Leon!!🎉❤
It definitely happened with my soon to be ex wife, she has to constantly put up with the "ms nice girl mask" to keep her harem of men and girlfriends happy and with no suspicions, someone told that she still watches tiktoks about empowerment,princess treatment and all that, it never ends... better watch for accountability, too... oh w8, that's not in her DNA. Thank you Leon , stay strong ❤
I used to tell my ex that all the time, and he would deflect. I would tell him how he was well within his right, and I made my decision to let go of my feelings for him. As soon as the opportunity came to leave him, I DID!
Thank you Leon for telling me the truth. You are really helping me understand the nightmare. It's not only boyfriends. It's parents, siblings, bosses, so-called friends, neighbors, store clerks, cops, landlords and the list goes on. Once you see it, you can't unsee it. You are offering people protection and healing. I hope you are healing too! You are a blessing 🙌 🙏 to me and I cherish your insights and wonderful videos that help me heal and stay aware of narcissistic people. They are everywhere 😮. Thank you!
Wow Leon you nailed it again! This is 100 percent absolutely true! Keep educating on narcissists destruction! It definitely helps those who have never experienced it and are spinning in a whirlwind of WTF! Keep up the great work and posts! 👍👍👍
Thanks so much for the amazingly right on time validating videos!!!! I had grown accustomed to feeling confused. I so appreciate you being in my corner Leon. I feel like I’m in the Twilight Zone. I’ve been in intensive therapy going on 6 months. Your videos Lee Hammock’s videos, Dr. Ramani’s videos, Exposing the Narcissist’s videos & more have helped me to get where I am today. I still have so long to go seeing as though the discard was on April 4, 2024.
Same. It's crazy to hear someone that you don't know break down your life like this. Why couldn't we see this? It's like they all read from the same script!
This explains it ALL!!! Spot on!!! Always had friends around that he prioritized over me! This is making sense! NC going on 1 month. Hurts but I mean Im not texting/calling either. Im working on me!!
This information & your content in general is confirming what I already knew or suspected. However, it's difficult to hear how intentional the abuse was and is......I will have to forgive when I can wrap my head around all my relationships from over the years. This can be a lot Leon.😂And draining.🙄Thanks for EXPOSING this & your transparency.
I’m sorry. I know that it can be a lot. I hope to liberate people with my truth. All these things, are things that I have done so I have to help you all.❤️🙏🏾
@leonrwalkerjr I appreciate it Leon. I just get emotional at times, however I continue to watch and stay no contact with my most recent relationship. And with my Daughter's father I have no choice on contact with him.😏Trust & believe it's been and will always be minimal contact with him.😂
The thing’s favourite was to leave me as soon as we got to events. Bolt over to his friends and leave me all alone. Used to think he needed guy time. No. He’s an inconsiderate asshole. And no one needs a second one.
Our mutual friend passed way a few months back. I was already speaking to my friend’s sister, checking up on her and the family, etc. I found out from her that he just recently reached out to her. He said he “loved her (my friend who passed) dearly” and that his aunt is a lawyer who can help (because she died in a tragic hit and run) and it just broke me. When she was alive I kept wanting to know if he loved her and he would never say. I just knew she was one of the girls he was messing with. The problem was that I loved her dearly regardless of anything. She was just as much of a victim as I was. For a split second I even questioned if he was a narc for real because of this gesture and confirmation of his love for her. I am in no contact still and will be for the rest of my life, God willing.
@@sunshinet1157 If you are having this reaction to this, I can’t even imagine what you will think if I told you what he ACTUALLY did to me. I was sexually abused as a child and feel like for my entire life I will choose these people unless God brings someone amazing to me. I literally do not know how bad someone treats me until I tell it to someone else.
I think we often mistake the meaning of love.There was a time when we used the word like;seems that word is non-existent today.Would you have felt better had your man said he liked your friend? I believe there’s a big difference between loving and being in love
Two things can be true at the same time. Yes the friends think highly of the wife. Yes she is not being treated well at home. Many times the friends know she’s not being treated the best due to the husband’s history with ex his partners.
Im kicked back on my new bed in my new home, smiling because he thought I would put up with it. Now he doesnt even know where I am.
Me too! I will be. 10 months zero contact soon! I moved changed my phone number blocked him on everything. Im no longer scared or thinking how he will act today. Lord it was painful living with him for 3.5 years. And to think I was married to him for 1.5 years I divorced him in 2017. Started seeing him again a year after the divorced and he moved in with me in May 2020. Big mistake We bought a house together Jan 2023 thought that would help our relationship. It just got worse like bad like really bad. I thank God I didn’t Marry him a second time. He cheated with women in our new community he spoke badly about me to neighbors. In November 2023 I called the cops on him I just could not take his emotional and verbal abuse. He didn’t get arrested but that scared him enough to stop 🛑 mistreating me we put the house up for sale. That man grew even worse a week before by he closing I had to hire an attorney because he said he wasn’t going to sale the house I was so confused I was ok he is cheating on me and he had the nerve to tell me you ruined this you did it when you divorced me and now with the sale of the house and he said know that I loved you and I still love you like what the heck are you kidding dude. I will never look back that man is pure evil! 😈. I’m so glad I have God in my life is not easy but I know that man is capable of of killing me or get me arrested he tried twice to get me in jail when we were married and I forgave him . That man is evil evil evil. Thank God I had no kids with him!!! God alerted me the day I got married and i refused to listen. He was nice to everyone except me a handful of folks chose his side. It hurts but it’s ok I’m no longer scared. My eye stopped twitching my heart beats normal again I no longer have to hide my belongings and I can have a relationship with my family. We sold the house 2 weeks before we made a year living in that house! God protected me. I now see that. That house believe it or not was a blessing even though I lived a nightmare in there but that opened my eyes and Lord knows I will not go back with him. I was his main supply because I brought him
To this country in 2015 as of Jan 2024 he still don’t have his 10 year green card I wish all the best. But far far away from
Me whether her min the 🇺🇸 or his home in the Dominican Republic 🇩🇴 he tried to arrest me twice he applied as a victim of domestic violence abuse they closed that case and he thought I was going to marry him again all I did was a letter of reference in 2020 that he was a changed man. But little did I know.
💯🙌🏽
Love it ❤ that’s my goal!!
Sameeeeee😂
This is so accurate. I believe 100% the narcissist wants you to hurt. They get a kick out of you hurting. It makes them feel good. It's true they treat everyone better than you. They do it on purpose.
Seemed intentional
Sadistic they are !!!
I complained about this for years and he pretended he didn’t see it. I thank GOD he’s not in my life anymore.
Whew!!! 💯💯💯💯
Same here. 3yrs no contact and the recovery is real
They take you for granted. Youll always be there so i dont have to try. Their friend? They have show them love because they dont feed the narcissist. You do!!
Counting down until I can leave
Yeah, they want their cake and eat it too!! It's such an emotionally immature way of thinking! Don't put up with this. Know your worth.
It it such a great weight lifted when they are GONE!! It’s like a sack being taken off your throat. Work on you and don’t look back.😮💨
Thanks Leon!!🎉❤
Hypocritically, they expect to be your number one EVERYTHING.
Ex covert expected me to prioritize him over my son.
They a waste of energy. Boring. Next.
Big boring
Damn that's exactly what happen to me. She was a master at blame shifting
Legit thought this was Tank. 😂🤦🏿
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yes! Baby I deserve 🎶🎵 😅 Love from The DMV
I see it. He sounds like him too. 😊
He actually didn't want me around any of his friends or any guys AT ALL
That jealousy is a monster
My narc did the same. In fact I felt hidden. I started to feel not enough. Why?
It's mind Games
❤
This is diabolical behavior. My husband would do this to me. I would watch him be so kind to people and treat and talk to me like sh!t for no reason.
I dont even have time for that no more.. i dont even talk about the abuser like he exist
It definitely happened with my soon to be ex wife, she has to constantly put up with the "ms nice girl mask" to keep her harem of men and girlfriends happy and with no suspicions, someone told that she still watches tiktoks about empowerment,princess treatment and all that, it never ends... better watch for accountability, too... oh w8, that's not in her DNA. Thank you Leon , stay strong ❤
Wow. I can only imagine living with that type of person. Very draining. We get our karma though!!
@@leonrwalkerjr she seems so happy that I'm gone in her media
@leonrwalkerjr oh Jesus I can only imagine
Bless you brother.❤
I used to tell my ex that all the time, and he would deflect. I would tell him how he was well within his right, and I made my decision to let go of my feelings for him. As soon as the opportunity came to leave him, I DID!
This is extremely too much. They can go to hell… expeditiously
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Amen!
Thank you Leon for telling me the truth. You are really helping me understand the nightmare. It's not only boyfriends. It's parents, siblings, bosses, so-called friends, neighbors, store clerks, cops, landlords and the list goes on. Once you see it, you can't unsee it. You are offering people protection and healing. I hope you are healing too! You are a blessing 🙌 🙏 to me and I cherish your insights and wonderful videos that help me heal and stay aware of narcissistic people. They are everywhere 😮. Thank you!
you just saved a big part of my sanity… I always thought it was me! Thank you, Leon for giving back and sharing your knowledge it is truly a gift
Wow Leon you nailed it again! This is 100 percent absolutely true! Keep educating on narcissists destruction! It definitely helps those who have never experienced it and are spinning in a whirlwind of WTF! Keep up the great work and posts! 👍👍👍
I’ve experienced this throughout my 24 yr. marriage. My God!
@@crystalball3717 I can only imagine!!!! That’s a long time to be done that way.
Thanks so much for the amazingly right on time validating videos!!!! I had grown accustomed to feeling confused. I so appreciate you being in my corner Leon. I feel like I’m in the Twilight Zone. I’ve been in intensive therapy going on 6 months. Your videos Lee Hammock’s videos, Dr. Ramani’s videos, Exposing the Narcissist’s videos & more have helped me to get where I am today. I still have so long to go seeing as though the discard was on April 4, 2024.
@@leonrwalkerjr#27 😢
Same. It's crazy to hear someone that you don't know break down your life like this. Why couldn't we see this? It's like they all read from the same script!
@@pettynettie5514we pretty much do. Some have the same upbringing too.
This question has haunted me for too long after dealing with a Narc. It is so hurtful and confusing.
Yeah well, That shit is OVER
This explains it ALL!!!
Spot on!!! Always had friends around that he prioritized over me! This is making sense!
NC going on 1 month. Hurts but I mean Im not texting/calling either. Im working on me!!
SPOT TF ON!!! and thank you.
This information & your content in general is confirming what I already knew or suspected. However, it's difficult to hear how intentional the abuse was and is......I will have to forgive when I can wrap my head around all my relationships from over the years. This can be a lot Leon.😂And draining.🙄Thanks for EXPOSING this & your transparency.
I’m sorry. I know that it can be a lot. I hope to liberate people with my truth. All these things, are things that I have done so I have to help you all.❤️🙏🏾
@leonrwalkerjr I appreciate it Leon. I just get emotional at times, however I continue to watch and stay no contact with my most recent relationship. And with my Daughter's father I have no choice on contact with him.😏Trust & believe it's been and will always be minimal contact with him.😂
You are right 💯
Smh it’s true but so sad🥹
They do that cause they know their abuse is wrong and they wouldn't be able to get away with treating everyone like crap...
That’s exactly what happened to me Leon.
Thank you Leon❤
Everyone else if a future target potentially
The thing’s favourite was to leave me as soon as we got to events. Bolt over to his friends and leave me all alone. Used to think he needed guy time. No. He’s an inconsiderate asshole. And no one needs a second one.
Oh my gosh....so eye opening
Thank you Leon.
Much appreciated
THIS HIT SOOO CLOSE 2 HOME BOSS!
My mother!
😔😪
Me too sweetie.
And her boyfriends and flying monkeys.
Wow!!! That’s deep!!!
Yes that sounds like my narcistic boyfriend!!!! Fck m
Our mutual friend passed way a few months back. I was already speaking to my friend’s sister, checking up on her and the family, etc. I found out from her that he just recently reached out to her. He said he “loved her (my friend who passed) dearly” and that his aunt is a lawyer who can help (because she died in a tragic hit and run) and it just broke me. When she was alive I kept wanting to know if he loved her and he would never say. I just knew she was one of the girls he was messing with. The problem was that I loved her dearly regardless of anything. She was just as much of a victim as I was. For a split second I even questioned if he was a narc for real because of this gesture and confirmation of his love for her. I am in no contact still and will be for the rest of my life, God willing.
What did I just read? Never put up with any sort of this ever again.
@@sunshinet1157 If you are having this reaction to this, I can’t even imagine what you will think if I told you what he ACTUALLY did to me. I was sexually abused as a child and feel like for my entire life I will choose these people unless God brings someone amazing to me. I literally do not know how bad someone treats me until I tell it to someone else.
I think we often mistake the meaning of love.There was a time when we used the word like;seems that word is non-existent today.Would you have felt better had your man said he liked your friend? I believe there’s a big difference between loving and being in love
Boyyyy I never went back
STARFIRE CHOSEN ONE is listening from California. Thank you for this message. 🌟🔥😇🙏
Two things can be true at the same time. Yes the friends think highly of the wife. Yes she is not being treated well at home. Many times the friends know she’s not being treated the best due to the husband’s history with ex his partners.
Thankyou
They should stay there
Jep en dat al zoveel jaar. En ja ik weet dat ook allenmaal.
My mother.
My parents but most times my dad
Dubious
😢
✨💜✨
Told ya 😮
TAMLA TANETTE MOORE IS THE MOST HIGH AND UNSTOPPABLE TOO..ASE HEKA AMEN RA AHO MOORE NATION GRAND RISING KARMA
nope he treated the old supply ( they never new lol ) much worse..he never laid a hand on me
🤮