I think... _Even as children, we understand that the people that love us -- don't hurt us_ _& the people that hurt us -- don't love us._ So when the people that love you -- are the same people that hurt you ...it can really mess up your ability to know when a person is safe or unsafe (because being hurt & feeling loved can sometimes feel like the same thing)
13 min mark. They can say you’re apart of our family all the want…..but we aren’t ..and that inside feeling..the biological feeling will not go away just because you say that
I think...
_Even as children, we understand that the people that love us -- don't hurt us_
_& the people that hurt us -- don't love us._
So when the people that love you -- are the same people that hurt you
...it can really mess up your ability to know when a person is safe or unsafe
(because being hurt & feeling loved can sometimes feel like the same thing)
13 min mark. They can say you’re apart of our family all the want…..but we aren’t ..and that inside feeling..the biological feeling will not go away just because you say that