7 People Narcissists Secretly Fear - I wish I knew this sooner!
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
- Narcissists are drawn to people they can control and manipulate like pirates to a treasure map....that's why in today's video, i want to break down for you the
7 types of people narcissists secretly fear and the ONE person they're always drawn to.
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This is garbage if you ask me, I assume you as a christian would respect people’s opinions. No sympathy from me, Miss. Madonna.
Thank you for sharing your free guide copy.
Yes, in agreement with you. I had to work with a narcissist for almost 17 years .. and had been shunned every time I needed to speak to him about work related things. I only learned a few years ago what a narcissist character is, etc. Thank you for insightful information. God bless you. Discernment is a blessed gift from God. 🙏🏻🙌🏻
I agreed and it's hard for people to understand you if they have not deal with narcissist abuse but if you're smart you will discover their two faces. Narcissist look for victims and they do everything inside close doors with out having witnesses. You never get no where with a Narcissist because they never accept the blame and always blame shift and confuse people by lying. They talk about you to family just so family won't believe you. The best thing I have done is avoid contact and giving the quiet treatment and not having to explain nothing to them because of their blameshifting. Thanks for your information. The person I know is a narcissist and is a fake Christian, manipulator, and controller.
KRIS, you're brilliant !!!! So valuable, what you said, an eye-opener!
You even made it cross the ocean.
Greetings from Germany ❤❤❤
Truth doesn't mind being questioned. A lie doesn't like being challenged
Absolutely. Truth stands on it's own. Lies require an endless, and exhausting trail of fabrication to make them appear plausible.
if u question / doubt a narcissist's believe/statement, that itself is a death sentence.
That doesn’t apply to law enforcement, they often want you to prove your innocence unconstitutionally regardless of your rights. Back the blue until it happens to you. Well if you got nothing to hide why don’t you cooperate… because I don’t have to !
Very true. I've never really thought of it like that.
@@spaideman7850 😢😢 sadly. Glad when you survive.
1. whistleblower / exposer
2. identity maverick - authentic
3. compassionate commander / empathetic assertive
4. wisdom warrior / discerning
5. emotional eagle / need-NO validation / non-codependent
6. boundary boss / intolerable
7. skeptic / critical thinker
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do not be a confused Christian.
@@user-yp1tk4gy4f ❤️❤️
@@user-yp1tk4gy4f neither a casual Christian also.
I appreciate you and thank you for sharing this.
Any idea how being a whistleblower is narcissistic?
@Alosipher this is a list of people the narcissist doesn't like or do well around
@@Alosiphermy friend i only wrote down the list that Kris is discussing on THIS video.
You should listen, Kris has some very insightful points.
“Can’t stand someone that can see right through them” - So so true
Trust your intuition !
@kenewald yes, I have been able to see right through a narcissistic neighbour for quite some time, but they are so full of themselves that they don't get it. It's really dispicable what they are doing. I dispise evil, it's so ugly. I just pray they keep getting exposed and they are. It has been amazing how much they are being exposed. But darkness does NEED to
be exposed by the light. Truth NEEDS to expose all their lies and underhandedness.
@marthaanderson2967 yes absolutely.
@@laurie2633 darkness does not move, light does have speed and it moves kinda pretty fast, darkness just sits there still. That is why people with obscure hearts hate people that shine because they have stuff in their darkness that they are trying to hide, light shines and dissipate the darkness where they are hiding corpses in, and they don't want the corpses to be seen, so they attack you whenever your light shines in their direction trying to divert attention away from themselves and the corpses they try to hide.
All 7 characteristics are already me or becoming more me. No wonder I am so hated by narcissists.
@@VictoriaFerro Praise God.
That is super awesome!!🎊👏🏽👑
So Far I'm Compassionate commander 🙏🏽Praying I will get the other 6 biblical traits 🙏🏽✝️
Wonderful. 💪
One thing I've learnt about Narcissist - is that they will totally destroy you - if you let them.(they have darkness inside)....🙄🥺.....so PRAY!!!....that at least you have a good EXIT strategy if it gets worse.....👍✝️🙏✨
Devil himself behind that...
@@karldunne5595 They are evil for certain.
Baptize the spirit I was given discernment but it also comes from God. I was able to see things much clearer much Amazing it was so simple
I'm in the same situation rn I've been praying non stop for days, keep going 🎉❤
Now I understand why the narcs in my life have been so weird and at times passive aggressive with me (before I knew they were narcs). Now I just need to be consistent since God exposed them to me. Thank you Lord Jesus for this channel ❤🙏
Thankful you found out too,,,I just found out 2 yrs old. ALL the misery was him and my mother....42 years and I found my it was,,,,,then I found my voice!;; and I am in the process of my family members,,,are they narcs too,,,,no my 3 sons aren't thank God❤ and what I know now about the abusive behavior of my mother and x husband,,,God led me to find Kris Reeves!!!,🕊️🙏🥰God is good ❤ AMEN
for 40 years i was played like a fool by these narcs, thanks Lord gave me the wisdom to see thru them. and by the time i know this word 'narcissist', i have no idea why they act so weirdly ,full of jealousy, easily triggered. i was surprised to know that 90% of their character matches the narcissist's behavior, the other 10% is much worse than whatever published.
@@cynthialucasmoore6106 I’m always so glad to see when anyone has” seen the light” where narcissism is concerned. Also the ‘ light’ upon realizing maybe choosing to be with narc. was more than just , say. failure to recognize being with him wasn’t healthy. Maybe it’s not quite this simple, but sometimes it FEELS right bc it’s so familiar! Example. Although my mother was not a raging narcissist, her tendency to disregard boundaries was close enough! ( Literally). Years into adulthood, after healthy joy of detaching from my narc Ex., thinking about my mother’s behavior brought this more into focus. SO: 💐Best wishes to you & everyone here going forward.
I get it. My narc left yesterday. We were married 33 years. He had two chances to stay, he has made his decision.
I'm mad at myself for being so stupid and manipulated all these years, he's getting worse with age and has gotten vicious with his tongue and punches things.
I have to go. For better or worse yes, unless that worst turns to abuse.
God hates that, he is not a practicing Christian and we are unequally yoked. He even makes fun of my love for Jesus.
That's how I knew it was evil.
I release him, we are no longer married in a spiritual sense. I'm DONE. He can beg as much as he wants, he went too far yesterday, and he only has himself and his mouth
I simply stepped out of the arena and this has brought on a tide wave of complements, kindness and thoughtfulness. I have all those from the Lord and do not need them from any human. Oh and this only took 60 years of my life to find myself on secure ground.
Only 60? If You're only looking at those behind You You'll always be ahead. The common struggle with the aging process is, it was intended to make us ALL a little wiser at an earlier age. I don't think most truly understand what they're saying when they borrow from words such as, "I digress". The truth is we all digress when we can no longer find opportunity to share what we've gleaned from an experiential Life. Unfortunately today, the world can't tolerate those who can see more clearly despite being surrounded by all the Spectacles.
Oh, this is soooo good! I was once that confused Christian, whom people threw scriptures at, but now I pray for discernment, wisdom and knowledge and for the Lord to open my eyes. I put my trust and expectations in God, not people. God is so good! God Bless you my friend!🙏👏😃
God bless you Sherri!
@@sherrilynn8043 good evening…..my perspective on those who threw scripture at you…..well, it doesn’t make them better, or more knowledgeable, because you or I could study Shakespeare and recite his words too. That doesn’t mean we have a vast knowledge of English Literature. Reciting scripture is of no use if you don’t live Gods word. Everyday be the best human being you can be, and be thankful to our Father. ❤️❤️❤️
@@barbarabonnette2705 God Bless You!!
God has been helping me to be a "Whistleblower" Ephesians 5:11 Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them.
Me too, God Bless!
I struggle with this thinking I would be gossiping. Thank you for the Bible verse.
Thank you! I needed this reference. 🙏
@@alane_jnot if you do it to their face or are protecting yourself or family from manipulations. I thought so at one time too.
Truthtellers! They (NPD's) do something dirty to me, I tell on them. Of course they try to label this tit for tat to avoid being exposed, but plain and simple - their dirty deeds will not be kept secret. Evil thrives in darkness.
So far in this video my wonderful husband is 3 out of 3 of the type of person that repels narcissists. I wouldn't be surprised if he gets 7 for 7. I've seen narcissists get caught in their deceptions and sort of implode and quickly flee from him. And yet he is so kind and generous. Amazing human being.
Update: after hearing all 7...yep! My husband has all 7 traits. Love it.
Awesome! Hug him for me please.
You are very Lucky
So glad to hear someone’s hubbie does is all 7 - pray for protection and guidance for both of you. You both are needed to teach others how to do the same.
That sounds amazing!😀you’re one lucky girl. 🎉
Love how proud of your husband you are. Praying over your marriage!
Well done! My narcissistic mate always seems to challenges my integrity simply because I have a solid foundation! Its kinda funny in a way
I'm mildly autistic (professional diagnosis) and my dad was likely a narcissist. It was an explosive combination, because autists are naively honest. We just assume that people want to know the truth, because why wouldn't you?
Narcs can't stand being questioned.😅
Too general, a more pointed statement might suggest Prideful people can't stand being questioned. That trait alone is shared by many personalities today. Pride stands in direct opposition to those who understand why the world needs more Humility. Doubt the suggestion? Try to tell a prideful person why you THINK they're being ugly to You. Pride is always hyper aware of the perception of the listening/viewing audience. When You know what You looking for SM has endless examples of every type of behavioral trait You could otherwise Only imagine
No. They cannot.
Great video! I’d like to add if you don’t show these traits to the first narcissist that comes along and just wish they would go away, they don’t! It’s a demonic influence that will jump from one to another, so show your strength in the beginning, in order to save yourself years of pain!
@@jm5229 I showed my strength in the beginning by literally laughing at his question. I laughed because the question was so clearly manufactured, as part of his game. Yah, just call me the Scapegoat. He will blame me, or insinuate about me any chance he gets. It's exhausting.
Enlightenment about narcissistic people is a life saver. I used to say there only two kinds of people in the world: the empaths and narcissists.
The sad truth is that many don't know about narcissistic personality disorder or its damaging effects in their relationships until they had become victims.
Great content!
I listened over and over again.
The information you shared is very helpful.
@@chibuzonwankwo1793 Someone who claims they're an empath are actually a convert narcissist. It's magical thinking for starters, second it's a way to avoid accountability and blame how they feel on others. What strikes me to be very interesting is these empaths only choose to feel the negative emotions. If you can feel emotions, why is it that when someone is happy the empath doesn't become happy aswell. It's all BS.
@@mtuz8356
I disagree with that ascertion.
There are true empaths but not all of them are enlightened about how their empathy is being preyed upon.
Knowledge is key in the road to healing from narcissistic abuse.
If you want more clarification search out empaths.
Angels and demons!!!
Just stand with a phone videoing them(police ask if you have got them on your phone, and make sure it is in a space that is not private), they will continue to try and provoke you. It catches their gaslighting, sneakiness, being in a place they shouldn't be in, and trying to make you talk so they can say it is you. Guess this is a way to say no. They hate it, but will think they can still do it. It is evidence in a court of law.
The goal for any potential victim should be to learn to spot them early, so that the relationship doesn't get invested.
They get angry when you don’t agree or question anything that’s said 🤣😂🤣 Good riddance 🙏
He only had access to me because when we met I was lost in the world. That changed and ever since it’s been a challenge for them. I’m so thankful God delivered me from sick minded people who have no sense of self! 🥰❤️🙌
Yes! 👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽
Good riddance to bad rubbish 😅
So true. I am done saying, "Stop getting mad because I dont agree with everything you say or do what you want without questioning my actions." I'm not a freaking robot!!!!
Grateful for your work
I got my behind handed to me from religious narcissist in many witchcraft and controlling religious environment. All things is working together for my good now based on the wisdom and enlightenment I’ve leveled up in 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
This channel is a blessing
Thanks for sharing. I'm so glad it's a blessing to you!
@@Lovelywealthyhealed This channel TRULY IS A BLESSING‼️
Half of American voters NEED to see this video and LEARN from it!
YES! DEMONRATS are the epitome of evil and have no discernment.
@@aguerra1381 I'd say most politicians have narcissistic traits, so the all voters should he aware.
Thank you Kris. In the past, I was the confused Christian. Thank God, I am striving to become the 7 types of narcissist repellent.
I believe in God. I read the Bible. I pray for wisdom, discernment, and clarity. God makes the way for me.
My dependence is on God. ✝️❤️🙏🕊️
Hi Nikki, how's your day going with you?
Romans 11:29 says, "For the gifts and calling of God are without repentance".
Yes. These gifts aren’t taken away, we stop heeding the urging.
I was wondering the same thing. Maybe she misspoke and needs to elaborate because it’s totally opposite of what word of God says. I will say this: the gift is always there, but the anointing is GONE. It’s like what’s the point of having a beautiful house if it’s empty. That sort of thing…
I agree...gifts and callings of God are without repentance...however, we choose to walk according to the flesh or the Spirit. If the flesh, then grieving or quenching the Spirit can happen and as with Samson, the power of the Spirit may depart...until repentance and filling occurs.
Without Repentance,( bloodshed)
No wonder my Mom and Stepdad act like they can't stand me, I'm all of these 😂
😂
When you mentioned "Confused Christian", that was me during my teens 40 years ago when I barely knew our Lord Jesus for a few months and I encountered a guy in college who told me I need to submit to him because he knows more about the Bible than me. My first reaction was "Who made you boss?". I didn't know if I should submit to this guy or not because I don't know anything about him. I remembered the scripture "Be wise as serpents but gentle as doves". So I simply kept my distance and listened to what he had to say. When I didn't jump when he said jump, he threatened me and said "Support me or I will destroy you". That's when I put my foot down and told him "Back off!".
Yup that was me once too. Narcs will take the parts that they want you to follow and throw out the rest of the scripture. Like the scripture is WIVES submit to your HUSBANDS. He was just a guy. Not your husband. And husbands are expected to treat wives like they treat their own selves. So no hypocrisy. No rules for her that you wouldn’t apply to yourself. Husbands are called to lead, honor and protect and it’s easy to submit to a man that truly has your best interest at heart, and isn’t trying to manipulate and control you.
My Christian narcissists were trying to say I need to forgive them for all their abusive behavior… that they hadn’t even apologized or stopped doing. The scripture is if your brother REPENTS… aka turns away from doing that behavior you are supposed to forgive them. You can still forgive them in your heart even without their repentance. But your forgiveness doesn’t mean you have to reconcile with them for unchanged behavior. I cut them off. Because the Bible also says to not even sit or eat with people operating in certain behaviors like they were.
Autonomy.....as soon as you show the narcissist indifference, and you go your own way....they want nothing to do with you.
Im the truth teller. I'm the watchmen on the wall. I'm the one whose life is a court room. I hate injustice cuz God's throne is made of it and righteousness. The narc loathes the gifts God gives in u. No fellowship. No fruit. No humility.
I'm hated cuz He is. May we stand like flint cuz the whole house is wicked
I lived that. Now, with much prayer I can see small changes. Jesus can change the narcs especially if they’re a Christian that has backslid. Nothing is impossible with God!!
@@johannesvillanueva9214 i no longer pray for her. I've been released. Her inability to be broken, repentant and humble is why my face is set like flint. It's above me now. But I'm fleeing for my life at this point. God bless u
@@johannesvillanueva9214 Just know it's not your job to fix them. That can only come from them...and only them. Lead by example but keep boundaries.
I gave my 15 day notice at a toxic workplace, I am staying but great changes are taking place.
@@rosalynzografos Wait, are you leaving or staying? Are great changes taking place because you are leaving, or staying? 😄
Pray to God for me against narcs, manipulators, who take advantage of me, who lie to me . Please deliver me away from such evil in Jesus name. Amen. Please.
@@bieragaino440 I will pray for you , can you please pray for me too.. 🙏 God be with you 🙏
I have always been a wise and discerning Christian, but a people pleaser and respecting my 'elders '. That meant I got into family situations with my eyes wide open and a lot of suffering in private.
Now, I'm in my late 50s and awakened by a recent jolt. I'm going to have to learn how to become a compassionate commander. Thanks, Kris.
Everybody has to earn my respect. Including the elders. If I have to earn respect from people, I expect the same in return. I don't accept double standards.
I lost some of them but I have gotten them back, and I have been teaching my husband (the scapegoat). His problem was that he believed that he was the problem until we got married and we have gotten past that. And since it is his true nature he is just having fun.
Same here... Mine was the scapegoat too, with a Covert Narsisistic, Abusive Step dad and a very misled Co-dependant Mom
She thought i was dependent on her for my emotional welfare, but found out I was an emotion eagle and eventually boundary boss. She really couldn't handle that.
A narcissistic building manager who engages in all sorts of gaslighting called mr a liar. So I told the truth about his behaviour to other staff etc. the man cowered in front of me at one point. I told the bloody truth
I think narcissist is the secular word for wicked
it's another word for selfish
It's what the concept of evil is based on!
Demon possessed would be my vote
@@johnchacko1425 I completely agree with you. I’ve been with one for 12 years smh
@@SusieBear-ji3hq yes it is - Jezebel spirits.
I can only do all these things with the Holy Spirit of God
@kathyriacastro6038 Me Also! It took the Power Of God to break the chains of demonic holds that had me bound!!!
Thank you for this upfront, plain-speaking message. So well did John say in 3:20: For everyone practising evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed. If you have had a narcissist for a boss just as l used to have, his/her fav tactics probably include gaslighting, threat, ad hominem... none of which is Christlike. Neither is retaliating likewise Christlike. Praying that God will give all of us, apart from His wisdom, "the patience of the saints" so precious in His sight.
I really thought it was about setting boundaries like to protect myself. but God already protects me and with Him the boundaries are limitless. However, once I forgave her, I was literally free to RECEIEVE all God has for me. Life is pure joy now. I only needed to look within and allow God to show me the darkness inside me b/c we all become our mother.
Thank you for sharing and your willingness to self reflect. So few are willing to repent of their own shortcomings 👏🏼
Thank you so much - I like the community you have built and respect you - appreciate you
My boyfriend is a Narcissist but calls other people Narcissists. I call him out on his behavior and actions. I’m growing in Wisdom and growing tired of his deflecting behavior.
@@neojazzgospel Are you still with him?
@@lindak4799 Ashamed to say, but yes.
Please leave him, it’s not worth your time. You’re seeing it now to save you years of heartache. Sending love your way. Better s broken relationship to a marriage
Please ditch him. He is a complete waste of your time. He's not interested in a healthy relationship.
Sad truth, I have lived with many facetted narcissists.
One stole all my belongings.
The other scattered my family with a false message from God by distorting the word of God while I was not matured enough to say no.
Christian narcissist ruins you more than the fake and cheater one.
The second will make you blame God Himself for the consequences upon His word.
You are blessed, dear teacher!
The gifts and calling of God are irrevocable.
Hi Debbie, how's your day going with you?
@@user-tk1lp3qh8r similar to OSAS, right??
We are Divine Beings the gifts are inherited!!!!!!
You are perfectly correct. I started standing up for myself after 43 years
I can 100% confirm that these traits repel a narcissist, but the funny thing is they still continue to hover and start over with you time and time again thinking they can win/you'll fall for their games. Once you know their game they have no power over you
Oddly enough, the narc in my life always considered herself to be a whistle-blower. But what she really was doing was trying to stir up crap.
@ocean I can relate because my narc mom and a recently exposed narc friend says after being rude to people," I just say it as it is "its there justification for being unpleasant.
👍. People are scared to stand up & on truth because the fear of being outcast.
The wrong intentions part really hit home for me. I was always being accused of all kinds of stuff.
Was in a cult church Remnant church 1974-84 I still regret it, my mind got messed up
Thank you for your obedience to your assignment. This video is going to help a lot of recovering confused Christians forgive ourselves for being so easily manipulated. Ready to heal & enjoy the fruit of healthy balanced relationships with a clear and sound mind 🩵🏆✨
I just saw this today. Thank you very much for teaching the biblical way of dealing with a narcissist. I wish I knew this long time ago. I can see myself in all of the 7 in varying degrees. Only with God’s help that I survived! I stay close to God and the Holy Spirit to quench the fiery darts of the enemy and with the power of prayer! 😍
God is so Good to me
Amen!
Phew!!! I think you might need to make a course out of this video!! I’d love a deeper dive into each of these types of people. I now see how I am getting better at repelling narcissist because of how I’m embodying these more. Now I have to forgive myself for when I didn’t know any better. 🙏🏾♥️✨
Because of my early exposure to narcissistic behavior I developed six of the seven traits, but failed for years at boundaries. I believe this trait is the hardest but most important. The other six are passive repellent but boundaries requires actually standing up for yourself against a skilled oppressor. The day I finally spoke for myself was like a bomb going off and gave real power to the other six traits.
Beautiful connections laced with spectacular thoughts. Thank you.
*Larry Burkett's book on "Giving and Tithing" drew me closer to God and helped my spirituality. 2020 was a year I literally lived it. I cashed in my life savings and gave it all away. My total giving amounted to 40,000 dollars. Everyone thought I was delusional. Today, 1 receive 85,000 dollars every two months. I have a property in Calabasas, CA, and travel a lot. God has promoted me more than once and opened doors for me to live beyond my dreams. God kept to his promises to and for me*
There's wonder working power in following Kingdom principles on giving and tithing. Hallelujah!
But then, how do you get all that in that period of time? What is it you do please, mind sharing?
It is the digital market. That's been the secret to this wealth transfer. A lot of folks in the US and abroad are getting so much from it, God has been good to my household Thank you Jesus
Big thanks to Ms. Susan Jane Christy❤️✨💯May God bless Christy Fiore services,she have changed thousands of lives globally
How can I start this digital market, any guidelines and how can I reach out to her?
I need to work on several of these, thank you so much.
Yes, Jehovah, (through Jesus), is the One who provides us with forgiveness, which enables us to continue to humbly and repeatedly beg for Godly wisdom.
My biggest takeaway here is: I used to have wisdom and need to pray to regain it. What a wonderful reminder, thank you so much.
Me saying No made him mad!!! Telling me that im A stubborn woman! Hey My boundaries I held strong!!! Won't Be Used!!!
"Narcissist word salad" love this description
... for the first time in my life I now understand why the Narcissist (mother & sister) didn't want me around and wouldn't include me in their grand lifestyle 😂 I feel so light .... thank you very much Kris .... wow! Wow! Wow! 😊 and thank you Jesus!
Before I listen to the scripture episode, I'm wondering if any of the following will be listed?here are my mother's favourites that she used and I have a hard time hearing these scriptures now: 1. "Don't get tired of doing good" 2. "Be still and know that I am God" 3. "Forget the past" and her favourite expression "forget about yourself"
Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the ungodly nor stands in the ways of sinners nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. But his delight is In The Lord.and In This Law Does He Meditate Day and Night!!!
She's definitely taking a lot of scriptures out of context.
This woman knows her subject it’s 100% accurate I’ve used every single one of those by intuition alone it’s not a wonder the narcissist was “scared of” me said his ex-wife to me lol
At my job people are told that if you don't really want to know the answer, don't ask Trisha. Lol
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"Truth doesn't mind being questioned. A lie doesn't like being challenged."
I saw myself in more than one of this personalities that narciccists hates, I learned from what I went through in the past! I experienced the person I work for actually get very irritated with me as I can discern lies. Amen
This is by far one of the most useful and achievable characteristics, anti-narc or Narc detox strategies I've ever heard. Wow! Amazing
I turned into a wisdom warrior in the last year the narc was in my life.
On my end, been no contact for 3 months. He is still sending me email. And just recently (today) he sends an email asking to come to church with me. See how he said "with me" and not seeking a relationship with God himself. Even worse manipulating God just to see me.
You should just block him off completely and don't even respond. Like, block him off emails, Facebook, social media accounts. he's definitely trying to manipulate you and he has obviously forgotten that he can't manipulate God.
Thankyou ... God bless you my friend!!
Hi Teresa, how's your day going with you?
This video was an absolute GODSEND!!
Thank you for clarifying-and sharing-your wisdom with us!!
God bless you!!
This teaching is so good and very helpful. Thank you, I am learning a lot from you ❤.
I need more on the Christian covert narcissist. The victim playing and blaming their childhood and crying and acting so depressed and how they don’t feel good enough. While they treat people passive aggressively and manipulate and lie
Frick yeah!!! I'm an emotional Eagle 🦅 🙌 type #5 @7:09 , but unfortunately not until I was a confused Christian first. @10:51 😢
Hallelujah!!! I’m favored and blessed with $60,000 every week! Now I can afford anything and also support the work of God and the church.
Oh really? Tell me more!,how do you make so much monthly? I’m interested.
This is what Ana Graciela Blackwelder does, she has changed my life.
After raising up to 60k trading with her, I bought a new house and car here in the US and also paid for my son’s (Oscar) surgery. Glory to God.shalom.
I know Ana Graciela Blackwelder, and I have also had success...
Absolutely! I have heard stories of people who started with little or no knowledge but managed to emerge victorious thanks to Ana Graciela Blackwelder.
Thank you! This is soooo validating and filled with spiritual resources for growth and self improvement. I love the way you carry yourself and deliver your message,--a winning combination for us affected by narcissists.
So glad i watched this. I am happy to see that I am starting to grow in these areas. Something else I have learned about narcissistic behavior is that people who are displaying these traits~ need you to agree with them and be on the same page as them but if you disagree with something they present to you - you will be punished or replaced. They need you to look up to them because they need to put you below them. The validation they seek is a bottomless pit.
I'm so glad you watched it too. :) I'm also glad that your growing!
Thank you very much for this information Kris. God bless you and yours.
I have been binge-watching "real crime" interrogations. I'd say 99% of the suspects show narcissistic traits, moving from self-entitlement to self-pity as they move from trying to hoodwink the interrogators to trying to plead victimhood. The best interrogators are the ones who can navigate this journey with the suspect, pretending to play along in order to get the confession. ("I can't help you unless you give me the truth ...")
I've noticed that a lot of narcissists are either 1) atheists or 2) people who think they're specially chosen by God, and will "explain" what your religion really means.
@@RatedArggg OMG.. So true. My narc always says "I have a purpose from God. There is a reason why I am here". He hates when I tell him THATS ALL OF US!!!😂. I can laugh but it's soon annoying.
Called god complex ...
This is logical, because normal religion requires submission. (Christian nationalist/fascists and other non normal religions don’t, they can be in those).
The first idea in her head is not a hypothesis, but the final conclusion, and unquestionable.
All 7 in one person- me!
I am almost 16 years old, and I recognize all of these types of repelling personalities in myself! I don’t think I’ve ever been a victim of narcissistic abuse, but all of the qualities that repel narcissist, that you have mentioned, I embody to some extent
Very powerful! Great job discussing narcissism from a Biblical perspective !!
I could write a book about narcissists. I have two sister in laws that are classic narcissists. They like to talk trash talk their targets when it’s just the two of them together. They won’t do it around other people.
I think I do all seven of these depending on how I'm feeling at that moment and the situation itself.
me too, but when you're vulnerable I think you can fall off the "wisdom wagon"... they are really good at getting you to step out of character, and sadly its the adults that helped raise me.... and pretty much all family so it's hard to come to terms with.
Thank you for this. I am dealing with a classmate like this and I’ve responded only in firm professional manners, as she continually attacks me and attempt to make me look incompetent in front of my professor.
Walked this journey exactly. It wasn’t easy but BEST JOURNEY EVER!
Untouchable. Glory to God!
Well I'm a whistle blower an my husband is the narcissist help me pray that the lord will deliver him and restore him
I’m helping a friend out understanding her husband & your videos have been tremendously helpful. Her eyes have been slowly opened now…she loves the Lord & now realizes she is unequally yoked…she’s constantly under stress living with him. I told her your back story, etc. it is giving her courage. Thank you Kris for your Christian guidance, insight & for always bringing God’s truth into your presentations…God bless you & your work!
Great video. Brings light to things ive always wondered about narcs. They absolutely loathe authentic people to the core. Authenticity sees roght through BS.
Narcissists are drawn to people pleasers that are willing to stay after mistreatment, Christian or not.
So im a whistle blower but why is my spouse still with me. He is a narcissist and tries to make me feel like im losing my mind and seeing the facts wrong and goes its always facts with you and then yells at me and tries to break me down. Im so tired that i on accident lash back now :(
Your husbands behavior sounds like my adult daughter. I have finally come to the conclusion that she has the narcissist spirit. I also know that it was learned from negative family and environment. Because of my circumstances through the years. I was limited. I am a pro at setting boundaries now with any and everybody else. But because she is my daughter. I tried to talk to, reason with and point out things to her. But within the last couple years. Her behavior has gotten beyond disrespectful. I cannot stand for verbal and emotional abuse. It is said that narcissist cannot change. I do not want to believe that for her. I went before the Lord after a huge blow up! Toiled, prayed and cried! I looked up what the Bible says about Mothers and daughters. If you read it. May give you solace. Matthew 10. My answer was verses 34-39.
I love my daughter dearly. But I am learning… I desire a relationship with her. A Healthy one NOT Toxic! I will not settle for anything less.
He didn’t find ( yet) a better narcissistic supply.
That could be one answer,or he doesn’t want to end up with only 50% of whatever you two have .
Who knows and do you really care why???
I don’t see that should be his decision only.
Why are you still with him?
Haha 😢look I am not judging I am in similar situation.
I wish my narcissists will just go away but it’s not up to them only it’s up to me.
So I don’t fall for theirs BS,and try that their behaviour doesn’t effect me
But it’s hard because it’s not working 100%.
However they know me and respect my boundaries ( to a degree,haha).
You do end up getting sick eventually for they frequently forget that you have boundaries now .
Why do I still have contacts with my narcissists?
I suppose I love them ,I still care for them ,I promised to take care of them always.
I am to lazy to cut them off totally.
However in a way I did cut them off and tread carefully what I share .
The short clear sentences are only way to communicate and be able still to live with them and have peaceful existence.
It’s lonely sometimes but I have God.
@@dianabilic2649ear plugs are your best friend. Drowns out their legit nonsense and accusations of others. They are “the accuser” aka satan. The Bible states all of this, just written in a different generation. “Spiritual ware-fare” aka mental illness; they don’t want you to research how-to “overcome this world 🌎 “ bc this place is the closest to heaven they will ever get. Ask Jesus Christ to show you how to earn your crown (chakra) and if he feels your ready, he will give you eternal “life”
Jesus's Instruction to be " wise as a serpent" along with His cautionary " harmless as doves" comes to mind. The son of God admonishing His Disciples to be "Wise as Serpents "BEFORE adminishing them to be "harmless as doves " . Christ Knew what we were Up against "be not decieved for in the world you will have tribulation but do not worry, I have OverCome the World " and his Ringing Words " for Greater is He that is WithIN you than he that is in the World " FatherGod Please Make us Wise as Serpents as well as being harmless as doves Give us the spirit of Discernment and Teach us how to Protect ourselves and Our Loved ones from Wolves in Sheep's Clothing !
Excellent examples!! Thank you
This is outstanding best video on narcissists
1. My mother used the verse Give and it shall be given unto you to take everything From me and my daughters. 2. My exhusband said if he wasn't a Christian I'd be dead. As he stole my credit money jewelry and then fought the divorce and refused to pay any child support or anything the judge ordered. Me and my daughter are homeless over it
Yoy're a gem... Having listened to tins of very infirmative content on the subject, i find your content too notch sooo on point, so complete 👌✨
Kris, your videos are always timely.
My narcissistic husband laughed at friends who were honest about their intentions, saying they were stupid because they showed their hands. I used to wonder why he criticized and made fun of his friends so much behind their backs. I thought it was his peculiar sense of humor. Now I know it is narcissism.
Yeah, I met somebody who sees right through people, my wonderful JESUS !!! I'm getting better recognizing them quickly.
Are narcissists evil? Seems they are with all the manipulation and rage.
Evil is a good word for narcs. They do not abide in the truth and they serve the demons that they carry. They resent God's ways. They rob, kill, and destroy. Unrepentant. EVIL.
You are the best ever related to this. I have read, listened and watched a lot of people but you nail it ✨
I'm the only one here out of 140 residents and more people that is not one even though I do understand that I can have some traits and I need to if only to know how to deal with THEM. My father, most of his family and too many more were malignant narcissistic people.
Great video. It's so clear. I have been making my way (stumbling blindly many times) through discovering these 7 through my error in falling into the potholes of *not knowing* them...and then having to sit in the misery created by not knowing them until I finally said "Aha ! I see what just happened." I just wrote down your list of 7 in a notebook for future reference. No need to spend any more time in misery. 🙂
The narcissist is quite crafty and that is knowledge I want to keep front and center.
Thanks again for this very clear video. Glad it popped up n my feed today !
I m a dragon !!!
Keep it up,lady !!
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What about the gifts being irrevocable? Just wandering. If wisdom can be taken away, or just wasted. Love all your videos!
Lately I haven't been put off for getting into it with the narcs in my life. Their mouth is their only weapon and it's more annoying than threatening, funny as hell when you understand what's going on. If you stick to the facts in an argument and are calmer than they are, you run right through them. I don't like arguing but I do love debate or getting to the bottom of something and that's how I look at it. It's not a fight, for me it's an exploration. I go at it with curiosity and a lot of humor and mild sarcasm. If I'm gonna be in a crappy situation I might as well get something out of it, learn something and enjoy myself. All the narc does is seethe and fume which they're going to do anyway. Even if it pisses them off, let yourself be heard. That's not to say attack or berate them but don't be shy or scared to say what needs to be said, because it needs to be said. Understand that most of what they're doing is trying to get you to shut up, DON'T. Right is right and truth is truth, if they get upset it's because they did it to themselves.
Of course the boss would have "respect" for someone who actually values themselves. They wish they had that strength.