I thought I was the only one that finger detangle my kinky coily thick 4c type hair like this I do it like this because this is the only way water and natural products get into every strand of hair properly ❤ and I don't trim my but once a year
My hair never seemed to grow past my neck when I was getting it trimmed all the time. They stylists would always cut too much off and claim to "even my hair out". My hair is finally down my back. It's full, and I get compliments all the time. What changed? 1. I STOPPED going to hair salons. 2. I started a liquid multivitamin regimen. 3. I STOPPED trimming my hair every 6-8 weeks. I did not gain any length doing bi-monthly trims. 4. I don't wash my hair as frequently anymore. (I think this is the major key) 5. Protective styles. Just leave it alone sometimes. Wash, moisturize, style and leave it to rest. It will grow like crazy. I think that sometimes we "do too much".
She is 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 accurate . I don't cut my hair that often, i just cut my split ends and don't need to have even hair. I wear it curly and i did wear it straight they would cut my entire head because of a couple of split ends, just to make it even... then i was back to square one 😞😩😡😤 NO MOREEEE. I cut what needs to be cut only.... STAY WISE ABOUT YOUR HAIR AND LISTEN TO THIS LADY ❤🎉
Love, love this video. Because I have been saying the same thing forever and I am proof that you don’t need to keep cutting hair. Take care of it and there is no need to cut.
I just did the big chop only because I had splits from BKT ewwww and miz bb but I cut all that sh out! The splits were ridonkadonk like 4 inches long etc. I wanted new fresh hair. Now my hair gets single strand knots on every single strand it drives me CRAZAYYY. I did do the wet and put some beautiful oils on there and I liked the result that M oil my hair luvvvvs it. But I do 1 quadrant at a time and I was too tired to continue 😂 but the 14 years I did grow my hair I wouldn't let a single person near me with scizzors tho no mammmm. I never fell for that "u gotta trim"... no I don't! hahaha but when u broke out with that apple math I fell out laughin!!!!
Hahaha cut people out of your life 😅😅. Wow I’m listening .. I’m due to give my hair practically bra strap length a cut !! Because I’m stuck there for 2 years !! Been watching videos that tell me I need to do it to get to waist length !! lol ..
Facts boo , trims ain’t a requirement if you don’t have split ends , it just looks better , the knots will keep coming back if you don’t get them under control anyways so might as well fix the root of the problem and not be so quick to cut it off
Thanks for watching boo , if you don’t have a tons of split ends then a cut won’t make your hair grow longer , you gotta focus on length retaining if you feel your hair is not getting longer , really look into your hair care regime, could it be the products keeping your hair stagnant? How bout manipulation techniques and friction from fabrics ? Are you giving your hair nutrients and water and enough of it ? Are you combing out your ends ? So many questions to ask before you run to the scissors 😊
Just found your channel. I learned to stop trimming my hair from Chelsie Kryst, may she rest in peace. She had a Lion's mane and was absolutely gorgeous) Love how you explained the reasoning to stop! Your hair is beautiful!!!
I have been finger detangling for last 15 months - I have fine thin natural hair - Or so i thought. I can clearly see my hair can be thick (Or more !). I trim slowly to get rid off the 'see through ends' and embrace my newly found volume.
Yasssss babe , finger Detangling help you keep length and width 💪🏾 we love that 💕 long thick hair is your destiny babes , definitely if you don’t want them see through ends get rid of them for sho
@@denesewalker3247 your welcome my dear , yes trim only when absolutely needed for damage NOT uneven ends 💋😘🥰 good luck babes on your Long Hair Journey
You're so funny and so right! Now I only trim every 6 months because my hair bleached and there are times when my ends really do loc up on me and get crispy. Bleached hair is another type of care! But I totally agree about not cutting unnecessary length.
Literally for decades I have tried to get hair dressers to quit cutting my hair and calling it a trim. My hair never got any longer, but I knew it was growing. Now I’ve been natural for about 15 years and thanks to the pandemic I now do my own hair (crochet, sew-ins, twists). Thanks for confirming that depending on your hair, it’s ok to say “nah” to the trim, and also adding a little humor with your explanation. I really appreciate that! 🙏🏾
I have been saying this for yeeeeaaarrss😮 how are u going to see growth when someone is chopping on it every few months ???If I grow it out for 3 months and get 1 1/2 in. then go to the hairdresser and she cuts that 1 1/2 to 2 in. off in those 3 months in the name of keeping my hair healthy 😳how am I suppose to ever grow my hair down to my butt. If that’s what I want😮When I was a kid my mom did not cut my hair at all EVER!!!and my hair was down my back. I now only cut my hair when I want shaping , cause that is what I want. I really don’t listen to the bull about trimming or cutting every few months. I tune out every time I hear a stylist talk about hair trimming cause I believe it’s just something to get u to spend some money. I said what I said and I am sticking to that😒 thanks for your input.
I've decided to simply love all the "wrong" things with my hair and focus on having a healthy scalp. I believe it can feel our emotions! Your hair is beautiful!
I had 2 babies in 3 years and i was traumatized so i took birth control that was not good for me. So guess what my hair was breaking like crazy and i have long hair in certain area when my crown and my edges were flying out off my hair. And other parts were thining too and i did not want to cut because of my religion beliefs. I went to the internet to see what i can do and guess what everyone was telling to cut it off. You are the only person who is sating just let it be. And it very encouraging me.
@@rhunieangella5424 I truly understand my dear , and thank you for watching , you have plenty time to nurse your hair to a healthier condition and grow it out with the unevenness, and if in the future when you reach a more comfortable length you can trim then to an more even aesthetic, till then really nurture your hair and get it back strong and healthy
Ultimately, of course you can always do what you want with your hair , I just wanted to give a different view point and spread the word if you don’t have split ends or severe damage , trims are not necessary for longer hair , thank you so much for watching babes 💯💕💋
I liked your video and this was the best video about not trimming the hair. I have had a relaxer over 40 years. I’m now 22months post relaxed on this natural hair journey. I’m still transitioning and did not do the big chop. I love it and so happy I did not do it. You are so encouraging not to do the trimming. I think back when I was I was a teenager that the word trim was not in our vocabulary. I’m going to go back to the day and today not to trim. Thank you. I’m a new subscriber!!!!
Trims every 6/8 week usually is to maintain a hair cut. I trim my hair every 3 month if not my hair don’t act right. I can usually go longer if I’m in braids. I’m currently close to mid back ready for waist length 🎉❤
Your welcome babes , if you enjoy the look of an even cut , please keep enjoying your hair as you see fit , this video is just to inform you , that you don’t need a cut for your to grow if you don’t have split ends or severe damage it’s ok to have uneven hair
@@terenarosa4790 ok, well maybe it’s time to take a hard look at what could be causing fairy knots and try things to try to lessen the amount of knots , like switching up your usual styles, or more water , different products, tucking your hair up avoiding fabric friction , just take little steps to improve the problem so you don’t have to resort to cutting as often
I definitely agree with the hair strands growing at different rates which cause uneven ends but it sounds like you may have a spiritual connection with your hair. Also there are people who caters to the length of their hair and others who chooses health over length.
Thanks babe for sharing , and your right definitely a spiritual connection between all of us and our hair , even if we do not realize it 🫣 why choose when you can have both long healthy uneven hair
Love the examples and analogies. Thanks so much for explaining things so well. I'm so glad your video came across my feed. I have watched a few 😊 I've been looking for some great natural hair products. You definitely have a new customer. Thank you for taking the time to do this.
@@cocaknotz I didn’t even tell you, remember my Ayurvedic oils I told you I made a while back? I just recently strained two mason jars (they’ve been infusing since June 2023! I have oil for the rest of the year, I have nine mason jars worth of oil, each jar gives me two full dropper bottles of oil!
You know child you're right on time because I was trying to figure out do I buy the shears or go found a place that do hair just to clip my ends now I am not doing it at all thanks sis so much with so much on time
Yall i have a dilemma someone help please! 😅 according to stylists my split ends are pretty bad, according to myself, i feel like my hair looks good. It’s full, very thick and almost bra strap length since going natural for about 18 months. My stylist recommended trims every 6-8 weeks, but before my natural hair journey i didn’t see any retention when i was consistently getting trims. I definitely see the split ends when my hair is straight but it doesn’t look bad and even stylists always compliment me on how my hair looks healthy and thick when they straighten it. But I’ve been hearing how your hair can fall off if you don’t get consistent trims? I only got one very small trim this year and that was it😅 and i don’t see a problem at all with length retention. Is trimming your hair worth it? I am deciding to at least get trims every 3-4 months a little at a time to get rid of these split ends.
Thank you for this video. I haven’t been trimming my hair much either being a natural type 4 person. Trimming looks different on natural hair. The ends of our hair look different, whether trimmed or untrimmed. Because psychologically we keep comparing the standard of hair against straight hair textures. That’s why I even want us to talk about what does too much heat mean? Is excessive heat for natural hair blow drying it once a week when you wash it? Or is it excessive if you blow dry it every two weeks? Is it excessive if you blow dry your hair once a week after every wash day but spritz it with water in between throughout the week until the next wash day? I’m throwing out these questions because I did notice that problems with heat styling are curved when you still moisturize your hair, and we all know that we mainly are trying to stretch our hair when we blow dry it but I know my type 4 hair needs to be set with water, especially if I try to twist out a blow dry. It’s even time for us to talk about what’s too much heat for us just like what’s too much trimming. I hope no one thinks my question is dumb, but I do feel like we need to talk about what that looks like in our routine because I know that when it comes to trimming, we’re still thinking according to European standards and I want us to start talking about, heat styling and defining what’s excessive for black hair. Because the thing is is that European straight hair is often maintained by washing it frequently and blow drying and heat styling it frequently which of course isn’t something that black naturals do even if we stay in silk presses. But they even have a threshold of constant heat that their hair can handle … whats our threshold for black hair? We may not be silk pressing it daily but is holding on to a silk press for 3 plus weeks bad cuz we avoiding water and never rehydrating it? What is excessive heat for those who like silk presses or for naturals who like to blow dry? The definition of excessive is looks different on our black hair and we are generalizing but i think there needs to be a deep dive. Cuz i just have a feeling that it needs to be discussed for 4 hair n what it can handle and not just generalizing avoid heat standard. What needs generalizing is a threshold , what is the threshold of frequent heat styling for type 4 hair. Cuz just like trimming its not always about the heat itself with black hair its about how often … i hope i make sense
In the past, I did become my own scissor happy girl. But I'm trying to recover. I just want my hair to look and be as healthy as possible. So I'm making sure my ends are always moisturized. I absolutely stopped all heat, and I keep my ends tucked away and protected. I do as little hair manipulation as possible. I'm trying to stick to only trimming my ends when I feel its needed. I'm shocked because I only trimmed my ends just once in this past year.
Only get the single-strand knots so that you won't have breakage. Other than that, I never really trimmed a section of my hair, and its so long and thick.
I strongly disagree with stop getting your trims. Personally, my hair shades like crazy around the time my hair is due for a trim. Deep conditioning, water, or oil doesn't stop the shading until I trim my hair. By the way, I do use natural products, finder detangling, and have natural hair. Some people's hair thrive without a trim, but some thrive with a trim regularly (3-4 months).
Ok I understand, we have to do what’s best for our hair 💕🥰 this video was made to shed light on uneven ends are still healthy too , our hair has a growth pattern and doesn’t follow a straight across line , and frequent 6 week trims are not necessary if there isn’t any split ends or damage or in your case shedding, basically I wanted people to understand uneven ends are not bad and does not always mean damage or split . Thank you for watching 🌸
@@cocaknotz That makes sense. In the video, it sounds like you were saying that trims are not necessary and to stop getting trims. Thanks for explaining!
@@sobruhkey I misspelled the word shedding on my post so you might be confused. Hair shedding is the process of losing hair strands from the scalp. That's the kind of shedding I was referring to & not "shading." Sorry for the confusion.
Everyone nowadays try to take food out other people mouth... when your hair need trim you will know... if your hair long and have this thin long inches end it's automatically look unhealthy period. If your hair is breaking badly due to heat and Untreated properly you will definitely need to cut some out and start to re-think on how you would make your hair routine different. If you don't have that figured out than there is no need to cut....
Exactly my hair needs to be trimmed in order to remain healthy and contrary to her saying in this video people who manipulate their hair are the ones who needs constant trimming, is not true for everyone. I’m natural and have been for 8yrs and I absolutely need trims. So everyone is different.
I agree definitely do whatever you need to keep your hair long and healthy, this video is purely to show that uneven hair can be healthy as well and trims can be optional
I had to do a big chop recently cause I had severe damage from a dye. Then my stylest was like your ends need cutting and I wad looking at her like she crazy cause I didn't understand why. This video hit just right
Exactly, babe you already big chopped , what you need a trim for just because she don’t like how uneven it looks ? That’s not fair to be cutting people hair just for the heck of it , I’m all for the aesthetic look it’s cute and all …. but please leave my ends alone and let me grow my hair to 30 inches then I may consider an even cut . Thanks for watching my dear
Gurl my hair is solt but no one never comb my hair without my brush and cup of water it makes my hair so much easier to manage I don't cry much when the brush pop thur curl it stings you go hold the roots and it easy and every one wanna to comb my hair because it was curly but grease brush and a cup of water ❤❤ lvu thus topic
I wish, I found your channel early. I did the big chop twice since I have been natural. The hair stylist told me at first, that I have to cut off all the old perm/relaxed hair 😡
Hey babe , well now you found me and your still going to get the hair of your dreams , yes relaxed perm hair should be cut off when you are ready because it will become a headache trying to blend two textures, but once you get your hair on a healthy virgin hair path , trims aren’t needed unless you want one , uneven hair is healthy hair too
Remember it’s your hair and you decide what’s best for it , this video is just here to inform you uneven ends are still healthy and trims aren’t needed if you don’t have damaged split ends my dear 💎
They saying uneven hair is split which is lie. I call it hair theft when they keep saying trim every two months. I wont be running for trims anymore. I got set back 6 months cause of scissor happy stylist.
Routine trims ARE necessary for healthy hair… whether you get it done at a salon or whether you do it yourself. Who wants raggedy looking ends?? Not me. Health over length any day
Nope I see plenty of naturals that believe this & when they finally get trims the hair looks awful. Not saying it has to be trimmed very often. But I definitely do not believe ppl should not use proper tools & keep up with trims.
But what about single strand knots? Just dust? I just got a trim after a year from shaving my head and starting over while recovering from surgery. I thought once a year is ok for a trim... 😅 My hair is healthy. I'm going to be honest. I just wanted my hair to be even. She trimmed about 1/4 of an inch. Don't come for me sis 😅 Edit: I had my hair trimmed... Never again! You were right sis! It ain't worth it for me.
Oh girl please , I would never come for your hair choices , it’s okay to get trims for aesthetics because hair cuts hit different it looks bomb every time , but this video is to inform those who feel that if they don’t get regular trims their hair is unhealthy, uneven hair is healthy as well . As far as single strand knots , they will always show up so cutting them away you will be cutting forever , instead try a different product on your ends , change up your protective style , just really take a look at your hair regimen and see what changes you can implement to keep them at bay 💕💯
@@cocaknotz Thank you sis! I didn't have many single strand knots because I watch your videos and use your products but I have fine hair and it just happens sometimes. Thank you for everything you do! Since I've been using your products and I learned how to finger detangle my hair has been so happy and thriving!
This lady is a mess,,.. I know she is trolling with this crazy….😜 the ppl who trim their hair want healthy strong long hair. If you chosen not to trim your hair grows n breaks n splits and is not as strong or healthy. The goal is to promote healthy hair not to say you must trim or else…..
Thanks for watching, you can have healthy strong long hair without a trim , trims are to remove damage or split ends , most of the people who watch my channel we have avoided heat and chemicals so we don’t have damage or excess split ends if any , this video is to spread valuable information that uneven hair is still healthy you don’t need trims , if you don’t have damage , most trims are just for the aesthetics 💕
@@cocaknotz Hey I have no judgment everything is an opinion. I just have always found it interesting that blacks seem to be the only ppl who can’t grow hair w/o magic 🪄🤣🤣 but hey yo house yo rules yo choice
Exactly I’ve been natural for 8 years and I absolutely need trimming at least three times a year. Those long split ends are damaged and need to go. This video is crazy 💆🏾♀️
Actually I did , at aveda institute and are graduated as well 😃 been doing hair for over a decade 🤗 this video was to inform people that uneven hair is still healthy, long hair means long hair 😊 thanks for watching
Ok . You said your hair is damaged and you have split ends , some people don’t have those issues, uneven hair is still healthy hair and if there is no need for such frequent trims at all . Thanks for watching 💕
I agree. All hair splits over time because the ends are the oldest. That's why the ends look so thin. Further, when use thread to sew down cornrows with weave etc. it damages your ends too. Also, in the keratin damaged hair video, the damaged hair first needed to be cut off and instead it was braided down damaged and all.
@@jk9084 thanks for sharing, cool advice , some people would rather grow their hair to a certain length before they do a clean cut . And you can always trim the split ends in that specific area without cutting your entire head , and yes the hair would have benefited from a cut after the keratin treatment but she said she will cut it after it grows another inch or two , because she wants to wear wigs and not have a short Afro that can’t braid down so her hair can lay flat under her wigs , that’s why no cut happened. Thanks for watching darling 💕
I have never heard someone explain hair growing, so clearly like you have!!! Always so happy that I found your channel ♥️♥️🙏🏿❤️❤️🎀
Thank you babes 🥰😘 I appreciate that ! Welcome to the long hair society
I thought I was the only one that finger detangle my kinky coily thick 4c type hair like this I do it like this because this is the only way water and natural products get into every strand of hair properly ❤ and I don't trim my but once a year
My hair never seemed to grow past my neck when I was getting it trimmed all the time. They stylists would always cut too much off and claim to "even my hair out". My hair is finally down my back. It's full, and I get compliments all the time.
What changed?
1. I STOPPED going to hair salons.
2. I started a liquid multivitamin regimen.
3. I STOPPED trimming my hair every 6-8 weeks. I did not gain any length doing bi-monthly trims.
4. I don't wash my hair as frequently anymore. (I think this is the major key)
5. Protective styles.
Just leave it alone sometimes. Wash, moisturize, style and leave it to rest. It will grow like crazy. I think that sometimes we "do too much".
Preach sister !!!!! These were some major keys 🔑 you just dropped I am glad you found this recipe to healthier stronger thicker hair
What liquid vitamin do you take?
Same thing. My hair stopped growing for months. I refuse to get more than one trim a month now. I learned the hard way.
Switch to hair lotion and make your own hair tonic and the growth is on.
She is 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 accurate . I don't cut my hair that often, i just cut my split ends and don't need to have even hair. I wear it curly and i did wear it straight they would cut my entire head because of a couple of split ends, just to make it even... then i was back to square one 😞😩😡😤 NO MOREEEE. I cut what needs to be cut only....
STAY WISE ABOUT YOUR HAIR AND LISTEN TO THIS LADY ❤🎉
Yes 🙌🏾 ma’am , stay wise about your hair , or them stylists will do you like a fool , and cut your hair too much and set your journey back years
I just gotta pay you for talking sense 😂❤
Oh my love ❤thank you soooo much
Love, love this video. Because I have been saying the same thing forever and I am proof that you don’t need to keep cutting hair. Take care of it and there is no need to cut.
Facts !!!! Queen , it’s literally that simple . Thanks for watching love 💕
Girl, you are right about getting trim every 6 week not required. Gimmick !’
Big gimmick 🙃🧐 thanks for watching babes 😘
"Did yo hair take yo man?" hahahaha
I just did the big chop only because I had splits from BKT ewwww and miz bb but I cut all that sh out! The splits were ridonkadonk like 4 inches long etc. I wanted new fresh hair. Now my hair gets single strand knots on every single strand it drives me CRAZAYYY. I did do the wet and put some beautiful oils on there and I liked the result that M oil my hair luvvvvs it. But I do 1 quadrant at a time and I was too tired to continue 😂 but the 14 years I did grow my hair I wouldn't let a single person near me with scizzors tho no mammmm. I never fell for that "u gotta trim"... no I don't! hahaha but when u broke out with that apple math I fell out laughin!!!!
Hahaha cut people out of your life 😅😅. Wow I’m listening .. I’m due to give my hair practically bra strap length a cut !! Because I’m stuck there for 2 years !! Been watching videos that tell me I need to do it to get to waist length !! lol ..
Like for real 😂😂
Facts boo , trims ain’t a requirement if you don’t have split ends , it just looks better , the knots will keep coming back if you don’t get them under control anyways so might as well fix the root of the problem and not be so quick to cut it off
Thanks for watching boo , if you don’t have a tons of split ends then a cut won’t make your hair grow longer , you gotta focus on length retaining if you feel your hair is not getting longer , really look into your hair care regime, could it be the products keeping your hair stagnant? How bout manipulation techniques and friction from fabrics ? Are you giving your hair nutrients and water and enough of it ? Are you combing out your ends ? So many questions to ask before you run to the scissors 😊
you are so funny ❤
Awww thank you babe 💯
I agree! I usually trim my hair myself once a yr and i finger detangle too😁
Period Pooh , only when you feel like it not because some stylist tell you some every six weeks bull crap🙃 thanks for watching pretty lady
@@cocaknotz 😄 hahaha, I agree....oh my heart, thank you beautiful 😘
@@GrowingGoodHair your absolutely welcome 💋
Just found your channel. I learned to stop trimming my hair from Chelsie Kryst, may she rest in peace. She had a Lion's mane and was absolutely gorgeous) Love how you explained the reasoning to stop! Your hair is beautiful!!!
Thank you for watching and I am not familiar with her message, I shall look her legacy up 💕👍💋
Thanks girl friend, someone finally said it.i don't cut my and it's grown 20ins already, and I don't trim at all
Period !!! You proved this theory right . Your welcome babes , thanks for watching
I have been finger detangling for last 15 months - I have fine thin natural hair - Or so i thought. I can clearly see my hair can be thick (Or more !). I trim slowly to get rid off the 'see through ends' and embrace my newly found volume.
Same here
Yasssss babe , finger Detangling help you keep length and width 💪🏾 we love that 💕 long thick hair is your destiny babes , definitely if you don’t want them see through ends get rid of them for sho
Girl I love the message. I love the examples and math. Nicely done
Your welcome babes , I had to babes got this sh*t don’t add up 😂😂
Thank you for making this video 🤣🤣🤣. I've been 3 years on my grow out journey. I was really seriously considering trimming my hair but not now ❤❤❤❤
@@denesewalker3247 your welcome my dear , yes trim only when absolutely needed for damage NOT uneven ends 💋😘🥰 good luck babes on your Long Hair Journey
You're so funny and so right! Now I only trim every 6 months because my hair bleached and there are times when my ends really do loc up on me and get crispy. Bleached hair is another type of care! But I totally agree about not cutting unnecessary length.
Thanks babe , and yes gotta stay on top of those colored ends , and your right trims aren’t always a must
Literally for decades I have tried to get hair dressers to quit cutting my hair and calling it a trim. My hair never got any longer, but I knew it was growing. Now I’ve been natural for about 15 years and thanks to the pandemic I now do my own hair (crochet, sew-ins, twists). Thanks for confirming that depending on your hair, it’s ok to say “nah” to the trim, and also adding a little humor with your explanation. I really appreciate that! 🙏🏾
Soooooo agree not wearing it straight so even for what.
Exactly 👍 what’s the point if they are not split or damaged
I had to because my ends weren’t just loving each other, but mid-shaft of other strands 😫
This video is heaven sent. Keep spreading your hair knowledge and breaking those hair growth myths 🙌🏽
@@divinebeauty4444 thank you my love 😘🥰 and thanks for watching
Your commentary is so funny! I had to subscribe 😂😂
Thank you darling welcome to the long hair society, it’s lit 🔥 over here 😉
I have been saying this for yeeeeaaarrss😮 how are u going to see growth when someone is chopping on it every few months ???If I grow it out for 3 months and get 1 1/2 in. then go to the hairdresser and she cuts that 1 1/2 to 2 in. off in those 3 months in the name of keeping my hair healthy 😳how am I suppose to ever grow my hair down to my butt. If that’s what I want😮When I was a kid my mom did not cut my hair at all EVER!!!and my hair was down my back. I now only cut my hair when I want shaping , cause that is what I want. I really don’t listen to the bull about trimming or cutting every few months. I tune out every time I hear a stylist talk about hair trimming cause I believe it’s just something to get u to spend some money. I said what I said and I am sticking to that😒 thanks for your input.
Facts sis , you are PREACHING 💪🏾💯👍🤗😃
I've decided to simply love all the "wrong" things with my hair and focus on having a healthy scalp. I believe it can feel our emotions!
Your hair is beautiful!
The tree analogy is boss🎉🎉❤very insightful
Thanks my dear 💎 thanks for watching
Watching this after I did a trim and this got me ready to cry over trimming my ends 😭😂 I ain’t parting with my ends again okkkk ❤
I know that’s right babe don’t let nobody trick you , if it ain’t damaged it’s just uneven babe and that’s ok 👌
I had 2 babies in 3 years and i was traumatized so i took birth control that was not good for me. So guess what my hair was breaking like crazy and i have long hair in certain area when my crown and my edges were flying out off my hair. And other parts were thining too and i did not want to cut because of my religion beliefs. I went to the internet to see what i can do and guess what everyone was telling to cut it off. You are the only person who is sating just let it be. And it very encouraging me.
@@rhunieangella5424 I truly understand my dear , and thank you for watching , you have plenty time to nurse your hair to a healthier condition and grow it out with the unevenness, and if in the future when you reach a more comfortable length you can trim then to an more even aesthetic, till then really nurture your hair and get it back strong and healthy
I trim because I like the thickness of blunt ends
I love the look of it too 💋💕
You’re making sense!! 😊
Yasss babes making sense/scents and dolllars 😂😂😂
And I’m happy I seen this video because I was thinking about cutting my hair to good video
Ultimately, of course you can always do what you want with your hair , I just wanted to give a different view point and spread the word if you don’t have split ends or severe damage , trims are not necessary for longer hair , thank you so much for watching babes 💯💕💋
@@cocaknotz 🫶🏽👍🏼
You said so much Sis! Thanks for this alternative view! 🌺😊
Your absolutely welcomes babes 😉
I liked your video and this was the best video about not trimming the hair. I have had a relaxer over 40 years. I’m now 22months post relaxed on this natural hair journey. I’m still transitioning and did not do the big chop. I love it and so happy I did not do it. You are so encouraging not to do the trimming. I think back when I was I was a teenager that the word trim was not in our vocabulary. I’m going to go back to the day and today not to trim. Thank you. I’m a new subscriber!!!!
Trims every 6/8 week usually is to maintain a hair cut. I trim my hair every 3 month if not my hair don’t act right. I can usually go longer if I’m in braids. I’m currently close to mid back ready for waist length 🎉❤
You gro girl !!! I love this , you are so right , you know what your hair loves and how to keep it happy and flourishing 🌸😉
Act right? Twisting work no matter how long you don't trim. 🤣
Loving this video. True true true. That's it.
Thanks for watching my darling 💕
I enjoyed your message with great information/ hilarious details, lol❤
You’re absolutely welcome my babes . 💕💯💪🏾
Thank you I needed to hear this
Your welcome my love 😍
I needed to hear this. I cut my hair every week
Every 6 months or year depends if needed
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Your welcome babes , if you enjoy the look of an even cut , please keep enjoying your hair as you see fit , this video is just to inform you , that you don’t need a cut for your to grow if you don’t have split ends or severe damage it’s ok to have uneven hair
@@cocaknotz I constantly cut my hair because of fairy knots
@@terenarosa4790 ok, well maybe it’s time to take a hard look at what could be causing fairy knots and try things to try to lessen the amount of knots , like switching up your usual styles, or more water , different products, tucking your hair up avoiding fabric friction , just take little steps to improve the problem so you don’t have to resort to cutting as often
How you recommend dealing with single strand knots
I never trim my daughter's hair and I purchased a revair for her. Her hair is all the way down her back
I definitely agree with the hair strands growing at different rates which cause uneven ends but it sounds like you may have a spiritual connection with your hair. Also there are people who caters to the length of their hair and others who chooses health over length.
Thanks babe for sharing , and your right definitely a spiritual connection between all of us and our hair , even if we do not realize it 🫣 why choose when you can have both long healthy uneven hair
Love the examples and analogies. Thanks so much for explaining things so well. I'm so glad your video came across my feed. I have watched a few 😊 I've been looking for some great natural hair products. You definitely have a new customer. Thank you for taking the time to do this.
I’m RIGHT on time!!
I know dats right 💋💋💋
@@cocaknotz Sending you love and positive energy babes ❤️❤️❤️
@@os4305 thank you darling, right back at cha!!! 😉
@@cocaknotz I didn’t even tell you, remember my Ayurvedic oils I told you I made a while back? I just recently strained two mason jars (they’ve been infusing since June 2023! I have oil for the rest of the year, I have nine mason jars worth of oil, each jar gives me two full dropper bottles of oil!
Keep rapping the knowledge it's practical and sensible and done with such honesty! I love it. Thank you!
@@amb7412 thanks pretty lady 💋💋💋 I will always be hair for you
You know child you're right on time because I was trying to figure out do I buy the shears or go found a place that do hair just to clip my ends now I am not doing it at all thanks sis so much with so much on time
Glad I could help 💕💋🥰
You are right. I will be cutting off my ends bc they remind me of a bad time in life, but they did not cause my hair to split up to my roots.
Exactly! I didn't get shorter hair from them so it is damn lie needing trim bi monthly.
Wow ❤ great learn something love this
You tell them sister, preach preach😘🦋💐
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Yall i have a dilemma someone help please! 😅 according to stylists my split ends are pretty bad, according to myself, i feel like my hair looks good. It’s full, very thick and almost bra strap length since going natural for about 18 months. My stylist recommended trims every 6-8 weeks, but before my natural hair journey i didn’t see any retention when i was consistently getting trims. I definitely see the split ends when my hair is straight but it doesn’t look bad and even stylists always compliment me on how my hair looks healthy and thick when they straighten it.
But I’ve been hearing how your hair can fall off if you don’t get consistent trims? I only got one very small trim this year and that was it😅 and i don’t see a problem at all with length retention. Is trimming your hair worth it? I am deciding to at least get trims every 3-4 months a little at a time to get rid of these split ends.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 oh my days. You've got me in bits!
😂😂 thanks boo , for watching
I soooo loved this! ❤
Thank you for this video. I haven’t been trimming my hair much either being a natural type 4 person. Trimming looks different on natural hair. The ends of our hair look different, whether trimmed or untrimmed. Because psychologically we keep comparing the standard of hair against straight hair textures. That’s why I even want us to talk about what does too much heat mean? Is excessive heat for natural hair blow drying it once a week when you wash it? Or is it excessive if you blow dry it every two weeks? Is it excessive if you blow dry your hair once a week after every wash day but spritz it with water in between throughout the week until the next wash day? I’m throwing out these questions because I did notice that problems with heat styling are curved when you still moisturize your hair, and we all know that we mainly are trying to stretch our hair when we blow dry it but I know my type 4 hair needs to be set with water, especially if I try to twist out a blow dry. It’s even time for us to talk about what’s too much heat for us just like what’s too much trimming. I hope no one thinks my question is dumb, but I do feel like we need to talk about what that looks like in our routine because I know that when it comes to trimming, we’re still thinking according to European standards and I want us to start talking about, heat styling and defining what’s excessive for black hair. Because the thing is is that European straight hair is often maintained by washing it frequently and blow drying and heat styling it frequently which of course isn’t something that black naturals do even if we stay in silk presses. But they even have a threshold of constant heat that their hair can handle … whats our threshold for black hair? We may not be silk pressing it daily but is holding on to a silk press for 3 plus weeks bad cuz we avoiding water and never rehydrating it? What is excessive heat for those who like silk presses or for naturals who like to blow dry? The definition of excessive is looks different on our black hair and we are generalizing but i think there needs to be a deep dive. Cuz i just have a feeling that it needs to be discussed for 4 hair n what it can handle and not just generalizing avoid heat standard. What needs generalizing is a threshold , what is the threshold of frequent heat styling for type 4 hair. Cuz just like trimming its not always about the heat itself with black hair its about how often … i hope i make sense
Thank you so much!
Your welcome babes
In the past, I did become my own scissor happy girl. But I'm trying to recover. I just want my hair to look and be as healthy as possible. So I'm making sure my ends are always moisturized. I absolutely stopped all heat, and I keep my ends tucked away and protected. I do as little hair manipulation as possible. I'm trying to stick to only trimming my ends when I feel its needed. I'm shocked because I only trimmed my ends just once in this past year.
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So funny & informative ❤ Finger detangling is key 🎉
Thanks Boo , my pleasure 🥰 the number one ☝️ key
Only get the single-strand knots so that you won't have breakage. Other than that, I never really trimmed a section of my hair, and its so long and thick.
I strongly disagree with stop getting your trims. Personally, my hair shades like crazy around the time my hair is due for a trim. Deep conditioning, water, or oil doesn't stop the shading until I trim my hair. By the way, I do use natural products, finder detangling, and have natural hair. Some people's hair thrive without a trim, but some thrive with a trim regularly (3-4 months).
Ok I understand, we have to do what’s best for our hair 💕🥰 this video was made to shed light on uneven ends are still healthy too , our hair has a growth pattern and doesn’t follow a straight across line , and frequent 6 week trims are not necessary if there isn’t any split ends or damage or in your case shedding, basically I wanted people to understand uneven ends are not bad and does not always mean damage or split . Thank you for watching 🌸
@@cocaknotz That makes sense. In the video, it sounds like you were saying that trims are not necessary and to stop getting trims. Thanks for explaining!
@@wellness2holisticliving4u 🤗🥰💕 thank you for commenting and spreading some good hair knowledge, we all in this together 🙏 thanks darling
What does 'shading' mean?@IntegrativeHealthWellness
@@sobruhkey I misspelled the word shedding on my post so you might be confused. Hair shedding is the process of losing hair strands from the scalp. That's the kind of shedding I was referring to & not "shading." Sorry for the confusion.
I got splits ends from a sewin
Yikes 😬, sorry to hear that , I wish you double growth 👍
You are funny , thanks for the message I cut mine every time
lol 😂 I understand babe , and cut always hit different because it looks soooo good , but when you don’t want a cut uneven hair is just as healthy 💕💎
Jesus wasn’t going around cutting his hair. 😂
Everyone nowadays try to take food out other people mouth... when your hair need trim you will know... if your hair long and have this thin long inches end it's automatically look unhealthy period.
If your hair is breaking badly due to heat and Untreated properly you will definitely need to cut some out and start to re-think on how you would make your hair routine different. If you don't have that figured out than there is no need to cut....
Exactly my hair needs to be trimmed in order to remain healthy and contrary to her saying in this video people who manipulate their hair are the ones who needs constant trimming, is not true for everyone. I’m natural and have been for 8yrs and I absolutely need trims. So everyone is different.
I agree definitely do whatever you need to keep your hair long and healthy, this video is purely to show that uneven hair can be healthy as well and trims can be optional
@@iasiaboone8544 yes dear everyone hair it's different. Is like saying people need to stay away from salt, when everyone health it's different.
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When you start seeing small broken hairs you need a trim
Yes 🙌🏾
The only time I cut my hair as been when I had damage other than that I haven’t really cut my hair and 7 years it’s grown very long
Facts sis !!! Uneven hair is still healthy hair !! 💋💋
Great tree 🌳 metaphor
Thanks babe 😃🤗
I had to do a big chop recently cause I had severe damage from a dye. Then my stylest was like your ends need cutting and I wad looking at her like she crazy cause I didn't understand why. This video hit just right
Exactly, babe you already big chopped , what you need a trim for just because she don’t like how uneven it looks ? That’s not fair to be cutting people hair just for the heck of it , I’m all for the aesthetic look it’s cute and all …. but please leave my ends alone and let me grow my hair to 30 inches then I may consider an even cut . Thanks for watching my dear
Gurl my hair is solt but no one never comb my hair without my brush and cup of water it makes my hair so much easier to manage I don't cry much when the brush pop thur curl it stings you go hold the roots and it easy and every one wanna to comb my hair because it was curly but grease brush and a cup of water ❤❤ lvu thus topic
Yassss Queen , thanks
I wish, I found your channel early. I did the big chop twice since I have been natural. The hair stylist told me at first, that I have to cut off all the old perm/relaxed hair 😡
Hey babe , well now you found me and your still going to get the hair of your dreams , yes relaxed perm hair should be cut off when you are ready because it will become a headache trying to blend two textures, but once you get your hair on a healthy virgin hair path , trims aren’t needed unless you want one , uneven hair is healthy hair too
Ugh I don’t know what to do with my hair lol. One minute it’s don’t cut your ends and the next cut em.
Remember it’s your hair and you decide what’s best for it , this video is just here to inform you uneven ends are still healthy and trims aren’t needed if you don’t have damaged split ends my dear 💎
They saying uneven hair is split which is lie. I call it hair theft when they keep saying trim every two months. I wont be running for trims anymore. I got set back 6 months cause of scissor happy stylist.
Lmbooooooo girl, you are my kind of funny 😂
Now you tell me, after I just got it cut.😩😂💚💚💚
It’s okay babes , your still beautiful and next time you will know 😊
Routine trims ARE necessary for healthy hair… whether you get it done at a salon or whether you do it yourself. Who wants raggedy looking ends?? Not me. Health over length any day
Yes they are if you have damaged ends , but uneven hair is still healthy long hair .
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I don't trim my hair at all ,i don't have to ,i just take good care of my ends
Facts Queen let em know it’s so simple and I’m sure your hair is healthy and flourishing 🥰
Thank you soooo much 😊
How, dear
I agree with the no cutting though but the finger detangling no
Nope I see plenty of naturals that believe this & when they finally get trims the hair looks awful. Not saying it has to be trimmed very often. But I definitely do not believe ppl should not use proper tools & keep up with trims.
Thanks for sharing!! Trim whenever you see fit 😃
Trims is for when we was perming our hair
That part !
😂😂😂😂😂 obsession over clean cut!!
Facts babe , they obsessed with it
But what about single strand knots? Just dust? I just got a trim after a year from shaving my head and starting over while recovering from surgery. I thought once a year is ok for a trim... 😅 My hair is healthy. I'm going to be honest. I just wanted my hair to be even. She trimmed about 1/4 of an inch. Don't come for me sis 😅
Edit: I had my hair trimmed... Never again! You were right sis! It ain't worth it for me.
Oh girl please , I would never come for your hair choices , it’s okay to get trims for aesthetics because hair cuts hit different it looks bomb every time , but this video is to inform those who feel that if they don’t get regular trims their hair is unhealthy, uneven hair is healthy as well . As far as single strand knots , they will always show up so cutting them away you will be cutting forever , instead try a different product on your ends , change up your protective style , just really take a look at your hair regimen and see what changes you can implement to keep them at bay 💕💯
@@cocaknotz Thank you sis! I didn't have many single strand knots because I watch your videos and use your products but I have fine hair and it just happens sometimes. Thank you for everything you do! Since I've been using your products and I learned how to finger detangle my hair has been so happy and thriving!
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This lady is a mess,,.. I know she is trolling with this crazy….😜 the ppl who trim their hair want healthy strong long hair. If you chosen not to trim your hair grows n breaks n splits and is not as strong or healthy. The goal is to promote healthy hair not to say you must trim or else…..
Thanks for watching, you can have healthy strong long hair without a trim , trims are to remove damage or split ends , most of the people who watch my channel we have avoided heat and chemicals so we don’t have damage or excess split ends if any , this video is to spread valuable information that uneven hair is still healthy you don’t need trims , if you don’t have damage , most trims are just for the aesthetics 💕
@@cocaknotz Hey I have no judgment everything is an opinion. I just have always found it interesting that blacks seem to be the only ppl who can’t grow hair w/o magic 🪄🤣🤣 but hey yo house yo rules yo choice
@@cocaknotzexactly! Split ends come from snatching hair or using protects that damage hair.
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Thanks for watching 😂😂
Clearly you haven't studied hair professionally. Long hair doesn't mean health hair and your post is outrageous.
Exactly I’ve been natural for 8 years and I absolutely need trimming at least three times a year. Those long split ends are damaged and need to go. This video is crazy 💆🏾♀️
Actually I did , at aveda institute and are graduated as well 😃 been doing hair for over a decade 🤗 this video was to inform people that uneven hair is still healthy, long hair means long hair 😊 thanks for watching
Ok . You said your hair is damaged and you have split ends , some people don’t have those issues, uneven hair is still healthy hair and if there is no need for such frequent trims at all . Thanks for watching 💕
I agree. All hair splits over time because the ends are the oldest.
That's why the ends look so thin. Further, when use thread to sew down cornrows with weave etc. it damages your ends too. Also, in the keratin damaged hair video, the damaged hair first needed to be cut off and instead it was braided down damaged and all.
@@jk9084 thanks for sharing, cool advice , some people would rather grow their hair to a certain length before they do a clean cut . And you can always trim the split ends in that specific area without cutting your entire head , and yes the hair would have benefited from a cut after the keratin treatment but she said she will cut it after it grows another inch or two , because she wants to wear wigs and not have a short Afro that can’t braid down so her hair can lay flat under her wigs , that’s why no cut happened. Thanks for watching darling 💕