This is my case too. I could care less about his past - we've all done things with other people. It's irrelevant. I also don't want to stalk phones and social media. What gets me is intrusive thoughts and mental movies (from what he's already been told me- voluntarily.)
I actually started dating a new girl 8 months after a 4 year relationship ended. And I accept she has baggage like everyone else.. I however don't. I'm in my mid 20s and has only had 1 girlfriend.. said 4 year relationship. I feel so 'inferior' because everyone else including the girls I meet, has so much more experience. I wish there were more girls out there who were in the same place as me. Anyways I don't want to know anything about her past!! But I think it's always going to be difficult if you don't address the underlying insecurities. How do I do that?
Lots of open and honest communication between you. Just because she has some baggage doesn’t mean u guys can’t work through it together. Have you told her that u don’t want to know about her past ?
This is my case too. I could care less about his past - we've all done things with other people. It's irrelevant. I also don't want to stalk phones and social media.
What gets me is intrusive thoughts and mental movies (from what he's already been told me- voluntarily.)
I actually started dating a new girl 8 months after a 4 year relationship ended. And I accept she has baggage like everyone else.. I however don't. I'm in my mid 20s and has only had 1 girlfriend.. said 4 year relationship. I feel so 'inferior' because everyone else including the girls I meet, has so much more experience. I wish there were more girls out there who were in the same place as me.
Anyways I don't want to know anything about her past!! But I think it's always going to be difficult if you don't address the underlying insecurities. How do I do that?
Lots of open and honest communication between you. Just because she has some baggage doesn’t mean u guys can’t work through it together. Have you told her that u don’t want to know about her past ?
What do I do if my gf has done many men?
Watch his other videos he vas hundreds adressing all sorts of things
I don't ask anymore because i know it's a waste of time because she has put up with my RJ for so long she would never tell me the truth.