How to make yourself more attractive: 1. Eat at least 1 good meal a day. 0:20 2. Substitute your bad thoughts with affirming ones. 0:57 3. Know your basic etiquette. 1:58 4. Take time to reflect. 2:47 5. Check up on your loved ones. 3:32 6. Stand up for your actions or words. 4:12 7. listen to understand. 4:44 8. Be supportive. 5:39
1. eat one magnet a day 2. substitute your magnetic field by an actually magnetic one 3. know your magnetism 4. take time to magnetize yourself 5. check up for any attracted metal 6. stand up to become the center of attraction, just like how a lightning rod attracts lightning i think 7. yummy magnets 8. mmm tasty metal
I'd like to point out that we don't need to be available to listen to someone's speech whenever they feel like it. We each have our own time as well and that's very important to be noticed.
Actually, I disagree. You have to be there for them whenever* they* need and not whenever you feel like it. The thing what you're saying is something equal as not caring. Your friend needs a crying shoulder right now. What's the point of being available tomorrow?
@@mabe1272 I think we’re talking about when they’re thinking they’re only person who is interested. I’m gonna shut that shit down. Reciprocation is name of game.
@@mabe1272 I think what OP means is like others said maintaining healthy boundaries. Ex.: I read somewhere the suggestion that if you're in need of a shoulder to cry on, ask the person you want to talk to something like "Are you in a good mental place right now to let me vent?" Obviously you prob. aren't going to ask that if you're in a crisis, but that's a different scenario. In that case then yes you should help the person in any way that's within your scope of ability, even if it means sending them to someone else who can help. Otherwise, by asking that question, if they say "no," you're not stressing them out, and you're not wasting your own time talking to someone who can't help or won't listen (or just doesn't care). Like finding the right balance between keeping boundaries and being supportive.
While physical appearance plays a role, your thoughts and how you carry yourself are the dominant power behind attractiveness. Be Real! A lot of people hide their true-self by putting on a false persona. When you do this, you not only obstruct your true self, but you also create false relationships. Those who are true to themselves are inherently more attractive. There’s no reason to hide your faults or pretend they don’t exist. Embrace your true qualities; no one expects you to be perfect.
Exactly. But don't let your flaws dominate you either. You still have to try do your own side of the relationship (as much as you can handle), and you need to make sure your treat your partner well. As someone with kin who was in a bad relationship, it's not healthy by any chance of it to have only one person do the work. Forgive yourself if you do mess up, but work to improve to make the both of you happy.
@@underratedbones6515 I can understand if you both want to find common ground and it's good to explore interests, but if you're ever forced to change or be someone you want to be, leave. In relationships both people should still have degrees of separation, and be their own people. You should be able to disagree on things, and if that was a serious situation then you both should be able to compromise. And well... I know this isn't what you asked but if affection is withheld when you do something they don't want and you get showed with that when you do something they want, *don't* stay. It's a manipulation tactic, and if they don't change after that's pointed out or try to guilt you then that's more reason to go. Sorry, I probably misunderstood the question, but I hope that helps at least somewhat.
But not everybody is worthy to be listened to. I tend to give anyone a try and if i see a result that satisfies me I'll keep helping them. Be aware of people just putting a load of their problems into your head and then leaving when they feel better :/ if u read this: much love, I hope u are doing well. Don't be so strict with urself. ur gonna get through everything
This, exactly. I hang around in quite a few vent channels and while there are some who are extremely active elsewhere and just vent when overwhelmed or vent only once to get it out, there are many who don't do anything other than that and complain about trivial things. Ultimately, help others as well as you can but have your own time to heal and form relationships that are more than "I take their bad feelings and work onto me."
One thing that I find extremely helpful is listening to self-love subliminals, and making a list of things I like about myself. I am _constantly_ shifting my view of myself, like it's a light switch that goes on and off and on and off. Subliminals are affirmations (positive messages) that are below our conscious hearing, so even if your conscious mind can slightly hear them, you cant decifer them. Music is usually put on top of them to block them out. The messages go past your conscious mind (which would usually deny them as not true) and go straight to your subconscious mind. When these affirmations are repeated, your subconscious starts accepting them as true and you start changing to fit them. I doubt it works with physical characteristics, such as eye color or face shape. But it helps so much with things like making you appear more attractive, giving a boost of confidence, increasing motivation, and even attracting soulmates (unless you're aroace.)
This channel is an addiction at this point, but to be honest it's a good thing. It's cozy, help me feel good about myself and the people around me, thanks for the hard work you do, love you ❤️
my boyfriend. my boyfriend is the most attractive person i know!! what makes me (for anyone wondering if it helps all) find him attractive is how he's so soft spoken, kind, VERY thoughtful of others, so gentle towards me and kind of like protective of me, and yeah, his cute little smile definitely adds some points
I am very surprised that I missed option number 1. I have not eaten that well in a while so that'll change, soon. Number 2 is also something I am working on (it makes me soooo much more confident). Everything else I do very well :) Thanks again, Psych2go!
Way to give yourself credit for your accomplishments! I have a habit of downplaying them because I know I can technically do better. But habits can change!
So, i am so unnatractive that no matter how much confident i am or how good looking i say and feel i am, no one wants to talk with me. I'm tired of being the good guys with hopes of finding a good relationship, i need to accept that i may be lonely for the rest of my life, and doing it makes me feel better.
There’s always someone who will find you attractive for some it takes time and going out there and finding that one person. Don’t worry you will have that person sooner than you think
I know how that feels. One of my biggest fears is dying alone. I’m not good at making friends or building relationships and most people seem bored talking to me after a minute so I can’t help but fear that.
@@diiii_mond if they get bored you just haven’t found the correct friend group or people to keep the conversation going it takes two to chat isn’t supposed to be one sided
It has taken me years to develop these interpersonal skills , thanks to professional support. Follow this advice and over time the theory's never fail. Time and self love is the key. ✌️
Thank you. Great animation. It's our self confidence, attitude and being humane can make us more attractive not the physical appearance. We all are very beautiful in our own way that's why we are unique beauties.
Thanks for everything,this channel has inspired me to become a child psyclogist it helps me so much to understand myself and the poeple around me massive hugs to all the poeple who makes this channel possible🥰🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘
As someone who went from extremely ugly to good looking I agree with the video, but SERIOUSLY diet was huge for me, not cutting food but being mindful of the contents. 1. OIL makes you susceptible to acne break outs, blackheads, bad skin, bad gut, even worse skin 2. Sugar makes you BREAK OUT face is also going to be puffy, metabolism destroyed 3. SALT is the biggest face puffer out there, avoid highly salty foods. opt for less sauces and etc 4. DAIRYYY too much dairy as in cheese or butter can also worsen your skin a lot. PLEASE PLEAS RPLEAEE if you want to look better or want clearer skin, body whatever. just by changing these key eating habits you will be transformed. This seriously guarantees your skin and body improves unlike skincare which has mixed effects. diet is one of the only ways to actually guarantee an improvement. so please try avoid foods high in those ingredients, pls trust me and you will FEEL healthier too. I feel like my mind is clear, body is healthy and skin is super radiant with just dietary changes. Trust me ❤❤
5:44 "You are the main character" In your own story, yes. The problem is that allot of people don't get this important detail, they think they are the main character full stop. When you start treating people around you badly cause they are just "side characters", that's when you slip into "main character syndrome".
"The influence of your life on others around you" - instantly reminded me of *"It's a Wonderful Life"* movie ☺️ Whenever I'm down, I remember that and keep going ! P.S. Psych2Go's main animated character is the most attractive 🙃
Come sit down beside me ,I said to myself. And although it doesn't make sense, I held my own hand as a small sign of trust, and together I sat on the fence. Leunig.
Everyone, being attractive doesn't mean that you should have perfect nose or features, few things make us look more attractive, You should be kind You should often smile You should be confident with straight posture You should take care of your hygiene and body language You should be well dressed You should put on a good perfume You should make your hairs according to your face cut(it's the step that changes the way you look, i swear, hairs matter alot!!)
I agree most with listening +1... and rest too... thank you for heads up for people who are supportive and yet have self doubts..... and would love to see series of videos on ocd with ruminating intrusive negative thougts, gaslighting and clobbering.... Being one of your audience I believe that certain points relating to above mentioned topics would no wonder help people to break their guilt trips and bumpkin beleifs...
@@davidfails2866 what's physically attractive. Something different to everyone. I've seen burn victims find love ,have families. Amputees,etc. I found love and married in my 40s. Don't call yourself unattractive unless you have an ugly heart and soul. Xxx
Hey @psych2go I just wanted to say thank you so much not specifically this video but a lot of your other videos helped me be more open and comfortable with myself and others and I can trust people more, and best of all I finally found someone who shares the same feelings for me, and I honestly don't get what they see in me but I am grateful none the les 🙏
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How to make yourself more attractive:
1. Eat at least 1 good meal a day. 0:20
2. Substitute your bad thoughts with affirming ones. 0:57
3. Know your basic etiquette. 1:58
4. Take time to reflect. 2:47
5. Check up on your loved ones. 3:32
6. Stand up for your actions or words. 4:12
7. listen to understand. 4:44
8. Be supportive. 5:39
Is that pfp from The Completionist?
Oh thanks you for the list
Thank you
❤️
1. eat one magnet a day
2. substitute your magnetic field by an actually magnetic one
3. know your magnetism
4. take time to magnetize yourself
5. check up for any attracted metal
6. stand up to become the center of attraction, just like how a lightning rod attracts lightning i think
7. yummy magnets
8. mmm tasty metal
I'd like to point out that we don't need to be available to listen to someone's speech whenever they feel like it. We each have our own time as well and that's very important to be noticed.
which ties nicely into being assertive aka setting healthy boundaries
For real sis! Some folks really don’t respect the humility in otherS
Actually, I disagree. You have to be there for them whenever* they* need and not whenever you feel like it. The thing what you're saying is something equal as not caring. Your friend needs a crying shoulder right now. What's the point of being available tomorrow?
@@mabe1272 I think we’re talking about when they’re thinking they’re only person who is interested. I’m gonna shut that shit down. Reciprocation is name of game.
@@mabe1272 I think what OP means is like others said maintaining healthy boundaries. Ex.: I read somewhere the suggestion that if you're in need of a shoulder to cry on, ask the person you want to talk to something like "Are you in a good mental place right now to let me vent?" Obviously you prob. aren't going to ask that if you're in a crisis, but that's a different scenario. In that case then yes you should help the person in any way that's within your scope of ability, even if it means sending them to someone else who can help. Otherwise, by asking that question, if they say "no," you're not stressing them out, and you're not wasting your own time talking to someone who can't help or won't listen (or just doesn't care). Like finding the right balance between keeping boundaries and being supportive.
Did you know that you already are attractive? But you just don't know it yet.
I have a question are blue eyes really attractive
@@titusmcafoos7949 Sure!
I love you!
@@Psych2go that was fast
Don't lie to me.
For all the lovelies
I need this: #7 listen to understand: +1 listen, +2 don't interrupt, +3 understand, +4 do not judge, +5 respond.
Love your mellow voice!
I love how these are pretty much just good advice that helps you, not just be more attractive :)
Glad you like them!
true
@@Psych2go omg thanks for making my day 🤩
This is more than how to be more attractive, I'm sure these small steps will lead you to become a better person in general. ♥
Thanks for sharing!
While physical appearance plays a role, your thoughts and how you carry yourself are the dominant power behind attractiveness. Be Real! A lot of people hide their true-self by putting on a false persona. When you do this, you not only obstruct your true self, but you also create false relationships.
Those who are true to themselves are inherently more attractive. There’s no reason to hide your faults or pretend they don’t exist. Embrace your true qualities; no one expects you to be perfect.
Yeah i do it so often at first everything goes well but after some time i wasn't able to keep it up any longer.
and i disappoints them.
Facts....👍👍
Exactly. But don't let your flaws dominate you either. You still have to try do your own side of the relationship (as much as you can handle), and you need to make sure your treat your partner well. As someone with kin who was in a bad relationship, it's not healthy by any chance of it to have only one person do the work. Forgive yourself if you do mess up, but work to improve to make the both of you happy.
But what happens if the person your attractive to expects you to be like them when it comes to their interest and what they like to do?
@@underratedbones6515 I can understand if you both want to find common ground and it's good to explore interests, but if you're ever forced to change or be someone you want to be, leave. In relationships both people should still have degrees of separation, and be their own people. You should be able to disagree on things, and if that was a serious situation then you both should be able to compromise.
And well... I know this isn't what you asked but if affection is withheld when you do something they don't want and you get showed with that when you do something they want, *don't* stay. It's a manipulation tactic, and if they don't change after that's pointed out or try to guilt you then that's more reason to go.
Sorry, I probably misunderstood the question, but I hope that helps at least somewhat.
But not everybody is worthy to be listened to. I tend to give anyone a try and if i see a result that satisfies me I'll keep helping them.
Be aware of people just putting a load of their problems into your head and then leaving when they feel better :/
if u read this: much love, I hope u are doing well. Don't be so strict with urself. ur gonna get through everything
Thanks for sharing !
This, exactly. I hang around in quite a few vent channels and while there are some who are extremely active elsewhere and just vent when overwhelmed or vent only once to get it out, there are many who don't do anything other than that and complain about trivial things. Ultimately, help others as well as you can but have your own time to heal and form relationships that are more than "I take their bad feelings and work onto me."
One thing that I find extremely helpful is listening to self-love subliminals, and making a list of things I like about myself. I am _constantly_ shifting my view of myself, like it's a light switch that goes on and off and on and off. Subliminals are affirmations (positive messages) that are below our conscious hearing, so even if your conscious mind can slightly hear them, you cant decifer them. Music is usually put on top of them to block them out. The messages go past your conscious mind (which would usually deny them as not true) and go straight to your subconscious mind. When these affirmations are repeated, your subconscious starts accepting them as true and you start changing to fit them. I doubt it works with physical characteristics, such as eye color or face shape. But it helps so much with things like making you appear more attractive, giving a boost of confidence, increasing motivation, and even attracting soulmates (unless you're aroace.)
This channel is an addiction at this point, but to be honest it's a good thing. It's cozy, help me feel good about myself and the people around me, thanks for the hard work you do, love you ❤️
'Have courage, and be kind.'
I've wrote down the whole quote. I'll look at it at least once every day 🐘
Thank you psych2go! And Brittany Cardau 💗
my boyfriend. my boyfriend is the most attractive person i know!! what makes me (for anyone wondering if it helps all) find him attractive is how he's so soft spoken, kind, VERY thoughtful of others, so gentle towards me and kind of like protective of me, and yeah, his cute little smile definitely adds some points
I am very surprised that I missed option
number 1. I have not eaten that well in a while so that'll change, soon. Number 2 is also something I am working on (it makes me soooo much more confident). Everything else I do very well :)
Thanks again, Psych2go!
Way to give yourself credit for your accomplishments! I have a habit of downplaying them because I know I can technically do better. But habits can change!
Thanks for sharing!
"Depriving yourself that ice-cream is not worth it..."
Truest phrase spoken in the entire video.
this new art style is so cute !!!
Thank you!
All this is linked to being a friend to yourself
The framerates are so good and art style is so cute!! It matches a lot with the vibe of this topic ♡♡
Glad you think so!
I've learned this channel back in 2015. Helps me developed toward a better me. I've come along way. Thank you
the art style is so cute😭🤍
I believe that being myself will make me attractive and I don't need to make an effort nor does anyone we all are attractive the way we are
man what will i do without this channel
Your animations are so cute.... I really feel energetic after seeing those cute and pretty animations.. + your voice makes it even calming. 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Well i think confidence is the most attractive trade but for it you need to be certain about that thing.
That requires knowledge 🙂
whoever does the voiceover has the most soothing and pretty voice i've ever heard
You are beautiful!
These tips are the BEST! We appreciate this channel soo much and looking forward to more amazing content :)
You're the best!
The animation is better... it's cute. I absolutely admire it
I just wanna say that your voice is so calming
I just wanna say that you are the sweetest person in the world and you are beautiful
I love this channel so much like for real, ya'll helped me so much in so many ways😣❤️☺️
First! Love your videos. They helped me understand so much about myself and others! Grazie!
Awesome! Thank you!
I have been watching this channel for a while and my crush has many of these signs. Great masterpiece BTW keep up the good work
Glad you like them!
@@Psych2go yep I do like them
Is no one going to talk about the art style , it's soo cute!!!
Awesome I already do all these things naturally 🥰
Great job!
I love all of your videos!! But I do suggest that there’s more things about mbti as an infj who likes it a lot 😁😁✌️
Thank you!
So, i am so unnatractive that no matter how much confident i am or how good looking i say and feel i am, no one wants to talk with me. I'm tired of being the good guys with hopes of finding a good relationship, i need to accept that i may be lonely for the rest of my life, and doing it makes me feel better.
There’s always someone who will find you attractive for some it takes time and going out there and finding that one person. Don’t worry you will have that person sooner than you think
I know how that feels. One of my biggest fears is dying alone. I’m not good at making friends or building relationships and most people seem bored talking to me after a minute so I can’t help but fear that.
@@davidfails2866 i'm almost 30, man. At this point is just a pretty illusion.
@@germanasem2426 30’s the prime for men buddy that’s the best time to settle down with someone woman panic thats perfect for you. Trust me.
@@diiii_mond if they get bored you just haven’t found the correct friend group or people to keep the conversation going it takes two to chat isn’t supposed to be one sided
i’m just stalking the channel to see if she likes me or how i can make them attracted to me lolz, love all these videos !!
A genuine thanks to every video you upload
ty for watching!
my cat fell asleep listening to you, your voice is a magic charm
That voice helps me feel less depressed.
I love your videos!! i ALWAYS look forward to them
Thank you so much!!
I love this animation character. so cute and very attractive.
'listen to understand' really got me . thanks for pointing this out.
2:17 What are the pixels on the floor? Did the postman take a dump right in the sidewalk 🤨
Came here to find these answers
Haha, lmfao 😅🤣😅
You don’t need to be pretty you are pretty as you are Every one is pretty
so why didn't i ever have a girlfriend whole life?
Yeah, Im not pretty.
Thank you 😊😊 I need this little bit of confidence
happy to help!
We need to dispense with ridiculous standards of beauty that most of us can’t meet. And just start feeling good about how we look naturally! 😎
So true.
This would remove so many problems👍
True!
“Listen to understand” hit me all the way down my spinal cord
Just finished watching a video and saw "uploaded after 54seconds" and i was like gotta see!!
OKAY IVE BEEN HITTTTT WHAT???
That “ you are everything you need to be and that’s gorgeous
It has taken me years to develop these interpersonal skills , thanks to professional support. Follow this advice and over time the theory's never fail. Time and self love is the key. ✌️
This type animation is soooo cute ! 😍
Thank you. Great animation. It's our self confidence, attitude and being humane can make us more attractive not the physical appearance. We all are very beautiful in our own way that's why we are unique beauties.
Thanks for everything,this channel has inspired me to become a child psyclogist it helps me so much to understand myself and the poeple around me massive hugs to all the poeple who makes this channel possible🥰🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘
You are so welcome!
Holy moly this was actually helpful
Why have I seen this already when they've just uploaded this
0:21 watching this while eating cookies and cremee ice cream
She's not only attractive and buetiful, she's an angel.
Dig the positive affirmations 👊✌️
As someone who went from extremely ugly to good looking I agree with the video, but SERIOUSLY diet was huge for me, not cutting food but being mindful of the contents.
1. OIL makes you susceptible to acne break outs, blackheads, bad skin, bad gut, even worse skin
2. Sugar makes you BREAK OUT face is also going to be puffy, metabolism destroyed
3. SALT is the biggest face puffer out there, avoid highly salty foods. opt for less sauces and etc
4. DAIRYYY too much dairy as in cheese or butter can also worsen your skin a lot.
PLEASE PLEAS RPLEAEE if you want to look better or want clearer skin, body whatever. just by changing these key eating habits you will be transformed. This seriously guarantees your skin and body improves unlike skincare which has mixed effects. diet is one of the only ways to actually guarantee an improvement. so please try avoid foods high in those ingredients, pls trust me and you will FEEL healthier too. I feel like my mind is clear, body is healthy and skin is super radiant with just dietary changes. Trust me ❤❤
This video is rlly good tho I agree with everything ❤❤❤
5:44 "You are the main character"
In your own story, yes. The problem is that allot of people don't get this important detail, they think they are the main character full stop. When you start treating people around you badly cause they are just "side characters", that's when you slip into "main character syndrome".
I love your Voice Psych2go!!!
Thanks!
this is what it came too. . .
Your voice is so soothing, had to say it.
Thanks!
Thank you! #5 Since the pandemic, I have been checking on my relatives more often.
As an infj, the last two are pretty much easy work
Haha
I feel like every video her styles change every video
You are everything you need 😊😊. Always Happy to watch your new videos 😇😇. Thank you Psych2Go 🤗🤗.
Glad you like them!
@@Psych2go 😇😇
Yess Cinderella reference!!
I love this channel because it helped me so much thank you so much
You are so welcome!
bro this is like free therapy, no joke.
I have learnt something here. Thanks Psych2go
Your voice is relaxing
120. Your videos has helped me alot. Thank you.🙏🏻
i love the animation!!!
Thanks!
Almost everything here except for the communication and self affirmation is what I do, and I got a bf !!!
My favorite part of this video is when you tell me how attractive I am. 😊 Well played, Psych2Go. 😉
Yay!
9. always carry a big magnet
You teach me a lot.
I paraphrase Dr. Covey, "Seek to understand, THEN be understood."
I know the messages are good but I can't help to notice the good animation
You are beautiful!
Could you do a video on "how depression can hurt/change you physically"
Okay!
@@Psych2go i didn't think you'd actually respond lol. thank you :)
Thank you so so so so so much!!
"The influence of your life on others around you" - instantly reminded me of *"It's a Wonderful Life"* movie ☺️ Whenever I'm down, I remember that and keep going !
P.S. Psych2Go's main animated character is the most attractive 🙃
Come sit down beside me ,I said to myself. And although it doesn't make sense, I held my own hand as a small sign of trust, and together I sat on the fence. Leunig.
Yep, this is gonna help me a lot ig
Everyone, being attractive doesn't mean that you should have perfect nose or features, few things make us look more attractive,
You should be kind
You should often smile
You should be confident with straight posture
You should take care of your hygiene and body language
You should be well dressed
You should put on a good perfume
You should make your hairs according to your face cut(it's the step that changes the way you look, i swear, hairs matter alot!!)
Thank you psych2Go I've learned a lot everyday by watching your vids 💛
Hey i love this videos. 😮❤😊
"in life you're the main character"
Me: *starts crying*
*pat pat*
This is very helpful
Okay hear me out, her voice is so calming lol
Thanks ❤
Oh, new vid.
I agree most with listening +1... and rest too... thank you for heads up for people who are supportive and yet have self doubts..... and would love to see series of videos on ocd with ruminating intrusive negative thougts, gaslighting and clobbering....
Being one of your audience I believe that certain points relating to above mentioned topics would no wonder help people to break their guilt trips and bumpkin beleifs...
This is so cool
Thank you 😊
You're welcome 😊
I’m not very attractive but I try to be nice and polite whenever I can.
Then you are attractive David.
@@louiseskip3488 ☺️ I wish the best for the best kind of people.
@@davidfails2866 what's physically attractive. Something different to everyone. I've seen burn victims find love ,have families. Amputees,etc. I found love and married in my 40s. Don't call yourself unattractive unless you have an ugly heart and soul. Xxx
You are attractive!
@@Psych2go why you always lying 🤥 😂😬😂
All these tips and traits I learned and put into effect a long time ago..
Just wish some of my neighbors actually recognized them
You are beautiful!
Hey @psych2go I just wanted to say thank you so much not specifically this video but a lot of your other videos helped me be more open and comfortable with myself and others and I can trust people more, and best of all I finally found someone who shares the same feelings for me, and I honestly don't get what they see in me but I am grateful none the les 🙏
Aw Glad we could help xoxo
@@Psych2go xx😅😊xx
how to start following 2nd one?