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A Beautiful Pain: Grief & Slow Living, Inner Healing, The Mindful Christian Life

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  • Опубликовано: 20 июн 2024
  • Hello and welcome back to the Mindful Christian Life! This week I have been reflecting on grief and slow living. I wanted to share a little bit of my personal story with grief and loss. Life is a journey, and the Lord is with us every step of the way. Remember to press into Him. He will not leave you not forsake you! If you are in a season of grieving, I’d love to pray for you. Leave a comment below.
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    Thank you for following along as I share what God is teaching me as I live mindfully with and for Him!
    Blessings in Christ,
    Halley
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    00:34 My Personal Story with Grief
    1:16 The Invitation Grief Brings
    2:10 The Best Tip for Healing
    3:00 Rituals of Healing
    4:06 Hope and Encouragement
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Комментарии • 227

  • @vandaguthrie1782
    @vandaguthrie1782 Месяц назад +108

    Both of my sons have died tragically. One in 2009 and the other 2023. I feel broken beyond repair, I've been a christian since I was 20 years old and now I am 70. Please pray for me and my husband.

    • @carolinew6095
      @carolinew6095 Месяц назад +12

      Praying for you both 🙏🏻✝️🙏🏻
      I am so very sorry for your dreadful loss

    • @user-qs6yh1ln1k
      @user-qs6yh1ln1k Месяц назад +6

      Bless you both 🙏🙏

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +13

      Oh my goodness, this is so devastating and I feel for you so much! This morning as I read your comment I felt Led to pray Isaiah 61 over you and asked the Lord to bring joy to your mourning as you process these very difficult losses of your sons. I’m so sorry but I feel honored that you were vulnerable and shared this with me. Many blessings to you and I’ll keep praying for you throughout this week!

    • @debt3297
      @debt3297 Месяц назад +2

      My heartfelt thoughts and prayers ❤️‍🩹

    • @foreverblest54
      @foreverblest54 Месяц назад +2

      So sorry. My prayers are with you both

  • @Judy-ys2ge
    @Judy-ys2ge Месяц назад +20

    I lost my son 3 months ago at the tender age of 20 in a car accident. We are attending our second session of griefshare through Moody Church. Please pray for my husband and I as we navigate our life without our son. Losing a child is the biggest pain any parent goes through. We trust in God and in his promises of a new life in him. Amen

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +2

      I’m so so sorry! This is very similar to our family’s story with my twin. It’s absolute tragic! I will pray for you today. The Lord is with you, one day at a time. Thank you so much for sharing your story. We are not alone in our hardships. Blessed are Those who mourn for they shall be comforted! Matt 5:4

    • @Judy-ys2ge
      @Judy-ys2ge Месяц назад +3

      @@halleymastrolonardo amen, The lord is close to the broken hearted and crushed in spirit 🙏

    • @Changeworld408
      @Changeworld408 Месяц назад +1

      I would be devestated, i feel yr pain,this is so sad, you could turn his loss into a purposefull life( preventing that other parents have to go through the same pain) visiting schools and explaining for young boys that dangerous behaviour can lead to terrible consequences

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      @@Changeworld408 that is a sweet idea, thank you for sharing!

    • @viccimauldin9786
      @viccimauldin9786 Месяц назад

      🙏 I am so sorry for your loss. May God continue to love on you two and create healing in your broken hearts. In Jesus's name, amen.

  • @rayk1714
    @rayk1714 Месяц назад +21

    I lost my son in 2012, then my best friend in 2013, then my sister in 2015. My pain exploded in 2015 and I called out to Jesus. He saved me on that day in May. Never stop knocking and asking for God and Jesus.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      @@rayk1714 I’m so sorry to hear! That is a lot to experience in a short amount of time. I’m blessed to read that Jesus came quickly and heard your cries! How faithful He is. Thank you so much for sharing your story, it is encouraging to us!

  • @colettecross3717
    @colettecross3717 Месяц назад +20

    My husband and I were heading to a Christian Christmas concert this past December when we were hit by a car. My dear loving husband was killed and I was in the hospital for 3 weeks requiring 2 surgeries and 4 months of recovery. I have 7 adult children and this has been very difficult for all of us. My deepest pain and grief is that some of my own precious children are walking away from the Lord and not towards Him. This was happening before the accident and not caused by it. please pray for my prodigal children. My heart is broken in such deep grief at every level in my life but this is the very worse.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +3

      Oh this is so tragic and devastating on so many levels. I cried reading your comment. The pain you must feel, Colette. I’m so very sorry. Christmas is such a rough time to lose someone then to have your children leaving the Lord - I can’t imagine all that you’re facing. I’m going to pray for you today and write your name down In my journal so I may intercede for your family. Thank you for sharing your story with me, may the Lord be ever near to you!

    • @malcolmthompson8529
      @malcolmthompson8529 Месяц назад +2

      No words are sufficient. Only prayer and God’s presence.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      @@malcolmthompson8529 amen couldn’t agree more

  • @amandagracedeal8710
    @amandagracedeal8710 Месяц назад +20

    Thank you for this video, and for pointing us to Christ. I just lost my 15-week unborn baby. This baby was our first, for whom we had prayed for years. 💔

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      Oh my goodness, I’m so so sorry for your loss. I can imagine the heartbreak and void that you feel. These things can feel so confusing. I pray the Lord meets you and brings redemption and joy to your story. Thank you for sharing your story with me and I will pray for you today 🤍

    • @claudiataffe9763
      @claudiataffe9763 Месяц назад +1

      Praying for you now.

    • @marybailey6166
      @marybailey6166 Месяц назад +1

      Oh, I'm so sorry!!! Jesus support you. Your child is in heaven and you will meet him/ her someday...angel hugs❤️

  • @kathysimindinger8753
    @kathysimindinger8753 9 дней назад +1

    God bless all who are grieving. 🙏❤️

  • @nancymoore8939
    @nancymoore8939 Месяц назад +13

    I believe in the lord with all my heart. I lost my husband of44 years. 10 years ago feels like yesterday feels like forever. I just keep praying and thanking God for what I do have. May God bless all of us who lost love ones. Amen 🙏 😘❤

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      @@nancymoore8939 I’m so sorry for your loss. I bet it’s taken time to establish a new pace and life without him. I hope there’s been some beauty in all of it for you. The Lord is gracious to see us through. Thank you so much for sharing your story and encouraging others here. God Bless you!

  • @solange8432
    @solange8432 Месяц назад +17

    I am in a healing process after my baby girl passed away 4 months ago. She was born premature at 23 weeks and is the first time that I have experienced lost of someone close and so loved. I have to relay on the Lord everyday and put my heart at his feet, fully surrendering and letting my fears for the future. I been feeling hopeless and I fight everyday to not give up because Jesus is the love of my life and I know He has the best for all of us.
    Dont give up and dont let the enemys lies stop you from the beautiful future that is coming after all this hard time. God bless you all and remember Jesus never let us alone, He is the Prince of Peace 🧡

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      @@solange8432 oh my goodness, I am so so sorry for the loss of your baby girl. I can imagine the ache that this has brought to your heart. And maybe a void. He is with you, like you said. One day at a time. I’m praying for your comfort today. Thank you for sharing your story 🤍

  • @pammaddox4947
    @pammaddox4947 Месяц назад +13

    My husband is Stage 4 Pancreatic Cancer. I am struggling as he is starting to really decline. We will be married for 34 yrs end of July. We know God has a plan & as we say my husband is living on God's time, but the reality also sets in that I will be alone. Thank you for your kind words.

    • @anashappydays
      @anashappydays Месяц назад +1

      Sending you lots of strength ❤

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      Oh Pam, I am so sorry to hear. I know pancreatic cancer can be very aggressive. And the reality of what may soon come is hard to process. You are strong and to continue to trust God no matter what shows your faith, He is with you both every step of the way. I will pray for you today. Thank you for sharing your story with us here.

    • @angeladeleon5922
      @angeladeleon5922 Месяц назад +1

      🙏I'm so sorry about your husband. I, too, along with those in this, I'm sure will e praying for a healing miracle🙏. May God bless you & your family in this time and always❤. 6/27/24

    • @cryptojoecoin5480
      @cryptojoecoin5480 29 дней назад +1

      My wife and I have been married for 34 years as well. We are believers in Christ and have enjoyed our time together here on earth. I can’t imagine what you are going through. I pray that the Lord gives you and your spouse a peace that surpasses all understanding in the name of Jesus. ❤

  • @64534231
    @64534231 Месяц назад +7

    My mother passed on in 2022 and she was the foundation of my life … we were very close … this has left me grieving and mourning beyond heartbreak ….. please pray for me that I will find a future that is peaceful in some way … I miss her so much …

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      I’m so so sorry to read this. What a difficult loss! Losing your best friend and mother is very painful! It is such a process to learn how to live in light of the grief, each and every day. It will ease in time. The Lord has not left you! And I will pray Isaiah 61 over you today! Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story with me.

    • @64534231
      @64534231 Месяц назад +1

      Thank you for your kindness ….and your prayer …you are very special …,God bless you …

  • @jacquelinemcgowan8164
    @jacquelinemcgowan8164 Месяц назад +27

    My beautiful daughter passsed away last year, and the Lord gave me Psalm 84 v6 when you go through the valley of weeping, it will become a place of refreshing springs, the autumn rains will clothe it with blessing. I have never cried has much in my life, i am heartbroken, it was so sudden and i am probably still in shock, my husband has stage 4 cancer and i feel so caught up in death and sorrow, we have to go through it, and i liken it to a book, you have to go through all the chapters and some of them you remain in for has long has it takes to recover, my stage is sadness and i am determined to see it through so i can heal thoroughly, its has only been prayer and the kindness of others that has got me through, how else do we ever navigate this painful process, step by step even if that is all we can manage, and being kind to ourselves we are doing the best we can. thank you for sharing with us in your greif journey. God bless xxxxx

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +3

      @@jacquelinemcgowan8164 oh wow, thank you so much for sharing your journey of loss with me. I so appreciate the compassion and relatability of others. You’re totally right, it’s just one day at a time and we have to go through it with others. I love that scripture you quoted, amen, Lord! Maybe it be a place of refreshing springs to others. I am praying over you today! Isaiah 61

    • @carolinew6095
      @carolinew6095 Месяц назад +1

      Praying for Jacqueline xxxxx 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️✝️❤️✝️

    • @debt3297
      @debt3297 Месяц назад

      Prayers for you and your family🙏

    • @maggiesuderman9539
      @maggiesuderman9539 Месяц назад

      Hugs, I pray Jesus is with you every step of the way and he will heal your pain into joy, faith, courage.

    • @Changeworld408
      @Changeworld408 Месяц назад

      you are beautifull and yr love is still with them🥰

  • @tammiegleaves4646
    @tammiegleaves4646 Месяц назад +9

    I lost my husband 2 and a half years ago. I prayed and fasted for this man. We met late in life after losing our spouses. We were so happy but I lost him after only 3 years. It is a beautiful pain. I. Glad you said that. God gave me a special gift by giving him to me for those three years. My life is forever changed. Thank you for your video.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      @@tammiegleaves4646 wow I’m so sorry for both of your losses. Time can feel so short with those we love. I am happy to hear you can see the beauty in it all and how your life was changed. Thank you for sharing your story with us here! May God bless you in this journey of life

  • @waltergerlach1059
    @waltergerlach1059 Месяц назад +7

    I recently
    just went through a divorce , please keep me in your prayers to find peace and contentment. Thank you for sharing your testimony and for your prayers!

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      I am so sorry, I can imagine you’re grieving a lot. I will pray for you today!

    • @waltergerlach1059
      @waltergerlach1059 Месяц назад +1

      @@halleymastrolonardo , thank you

  • @user-fr2eq3hq9n
    @user-fr2eq3hq9n Месяц назад +11

    I think because we are created to love we suffer so much when we lose those we have a close relationship with, it is the worst pain and it makes us question everything, for me it brought me closer to God and I knew there must be a purpose to life and a life after death or it is all a waste of time. We can never blame God when tragedy strikes because he did not create us as machines, we are fearfully and wonderfully made and complex, we have freedom of will and things can go wrong. I lost my dad when i was in my early 20's , he died as a result of a road traffic accident, it was the worst experience of my life so far but Jesus walked with me every step of the way through the grief and His strength held me together. I am sorry for your losses and I can only imagine how traumatic it was for you to lose your twin, we know God will wipe away all tears and there will be no more suffering in His Kingdom but for now we walk by faith trusting in His promises. God bless you sister. xx

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +2

      Amen! Thank you so much for your comment and I loved your insight. I completely agree, the Lord uses these things to bring us closer to Him and that’s exactly what happened to me. So even though it’s incredibly painful, it’s also beautiful and I wouldn’t trade my relationship with Jesus for anything! We meet Him in a deeper way through grief. I love the saying “the deeper the love you have for someone, the deeper the grief you feel” it’s so so true. May God bless you today and thank you for watching :)

  • @anashappydays
    @anashappydays Месяц назад +6

    I have experienced lots of losses. My brother, my parents, my baby girl and best friends 🙏 It all makes me feel grateful for having them being part of my life. The wonderful moments I had with them all it will always live forever in my heart. Every day in earth is a miracle to enjoy while we can 🙏✨

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      I’m so sorry, Ana! That is a Lot of loss! I truly feel for you. Compounding loss is the hardest to walk through. It is a miracle we can rejoice while losing so much and yet we have each day to practice gratitude like you said. I appreciate your comment as it encouraged me a lot today!

    • @anashappydays
      @anashappydays Месяц назад +1

      @@halleymastrolonardo ❤️

  • @VeronicasVeil333
    @VeronicasVeil333 Месяц назад +4

    This is beautiful and soothing. 8 and 1/2 years ago I lost my only son to suicide in the military. Prior to that his baby boy died at birth…..our only grandson. For 4 and 1/2 years i struggled through a hell I do not like to recall. But one day I cried out Jesus’ name out loud - over and over and over and over………and He heard my cry and lifted me up and exalted me! I am redeemed, happy, and I have the peace that surpasses understanding. It is all because of what Christ did for me and now I live for Him. Thank you for a beautiful message and video. God bless you.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      @@VeronicasVeil333 oh my goodness, what heartache! I’m so sorry for both of your losses and I celebrate with you over the faithfulness of Jesus to meet you when you cried out to Him! 😭🙌🏻 He is so good! He sees us through every dark valley and I pray that He continues to strengthen you when you have hard days. I so appreciate your comment and that you shared your story with me. It touched me so much! God bless you

  • @kareneastman6139
    @kareneastman6139 24 дня назад +1

    Thank you for this video, I lost my son. It will be two years to August. It has been the hardest thing I’ve ever been through. I miss him so much. I am a Christian and have been for a long time listening to this video gave me some hope again, thank you again🙏💔

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  24 дня назад

      @@kareneastman6139 oh Karen, I am so sorry to hear that. The pain can truly be unbearable at times. Only with God can we make it through these devastating experiences and losses. Thank you so much for sharing your story with me. He is with you and will not forsake you! Press into Him. Thank you for being here!!

  • @rachelcatt6977
    @rachelcatt6977 Месяц назад +8

    Thank you, my mother recently died . I've been dealing with it by not thinking about it. I told God I didn't know how to deal with it and He sent me you video. Thank you . Have a blessed day.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much for your comment. It was very encouraging to me! I love how the Lord leads and speaks to us all so personally and uniquely. Right when we ask, He answers. i pray this week you find much comfort and solace in Him. I prayed for you this morning. He loves you and your mom! I’m so sorry for your loss

    • @rachelcatt6977
      @rachelcatt6977 Месяц назад

      @@halleymastrolonardo thank you, I've subscribed to your Chanel as it's hard to find content like it. I hope your day went well.

  • @tweir2973
    @tweir2973 Месяц назад +7

    Thank you Halley. I know that I would be utterly lost without Jesus’ help through my grief. I thank Him many times each day for the time I had with my husband. Grief makes me feel so helpless and I miss him so much, but God has been carrying me through. Thank you Jesus.
    Halley, I’m very sorry for your loss.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      @@tweir2973 you’re welcome, I’m thankful to meet people like you online!

  • @nicolemariebrown4076
    @nicolemariebrown4076 Месяц назад +8

    I lost my 31 year old younger brother two and a half years ago. It gets harder as time goes on but the support has gotten less as others have returned to their lives. I ache daily with his passing and try to find comfort and solace in my faith in Christ but all I feel is lonliness and despair. I'm going through the motions of life.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      @@nicolemariebrown4076 I cried reading your message. I’m so sorry for your loss. The pain can be hard to navigate and the loneliness is so real! When others move on and you feel stuck and alone. The Lord is with you, and I’m going to pray for you today - that he’d give you just what you need even if it means waiting a little longer for the support that would help the most! Thank you for sharing your story with me.

    • @nicolemariebrown4076
      @nicolemariebrown4076 Месяц назад +2

      @@halleymastrolonardo thank you for replying. Sibling loss in early adulthood can be a lonely journey as many around me have not yet experienced it. They think you should have healed by now. Thanks for sharing your story.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      @@nicolemariebrown4076 it’s very true. They do think that. I often tell people that losing my sibling/twin is like losing your childhood. Especially if they’re your only one. It’s like your childhood dies with them in a way. At least it’s been that way for me

    • @nicolemariebrown4076
      @nicolemariebrown4076 Месяц назад +1

      @halleymastrolonardo I agree, a huge part of my childhood was lost with him. I appreciate your openness and vulnerability. It's really been Internet strangers who have been through ot that have helped the most. God bless you.

    • @nicolemariebrown4076
      @nicolemariebrown4076 Месяц назад

      @JC-du6sn will do. Thanks. Is it freely available online?

  • @melindaferreira9879
    @melindaferreira9879 Месяц назад +8

    Sunday June 23rd was the sixth month anniversary of my mom's death. God is near to the brokenhearted. Ps. 34:

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      @@melindaferreira9879 amen, this is one of my life verses. I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you have many fond memories with your mom and the Lord has shown you the beauty in it all 🤍

  • @T-S-s160
    @T-S-s160 Месяц назад +4

    Thank you. I needed to hear this. I’am grieving 2 deaths 7 months apart.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      @@T-S-s160 that is a lot of grief! I’m so sorry. I am praying Isaiah 61 over you today!

    • @T-S-s160
      @T-S-s160 Месяц назад +1

      @@halleymastrolonardo Thank You❤

  • @karenthompson6511
    @karenthompson6511 Месяц назад +3

    Your video is so poignant, so true. Thank you for sharing. I’ve lost both of my parents and the grief is hard to describe at times. I want to get a bike again and take bike rides down country roads. It feels overwhelming at times. But I also find cooking, hiking, kayaking, journaling are therapeutic. You’ve inspired me much to journal again. I find I want to return home to a farm that has been taken over by my sister. God bless you, Halley. Thanks for sharing God’s word. I may watch your video again. Peace of Christ. 5:39

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      I loved reading your message! Thank you for sharing your reflections with me! I love all of these ideas and your mindful practices for healing. God bless you as well in your journey. He’s with you!

  • @DeborahDazey-ej4eq
    @DeborahDazey-ej4eq Месяц назад +2

    This is so beautiful. It is exactly the path I followed to overcome grief and loss a couple of years ago. Daily quiete deliberate healingg sessions with the Lord. It's the only way.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      This was so encouraging to read! Thank you so much for commenting and I am very happy to hear this has been your journey as well. It’s truly the best way to move towards healing. Our Lord is so faithful and good!!

  • @desertrose8982
    @desertrose8982 Месяц назад +1

    Dear Halley , I just found your channel and I’m so grateful to God, you are so inspiring. Please pray for me, my husband left after 34 years of marriage and it is hard for me and my children, though I feel your loss is harder🙏🏽 I’m 64 years old and trying to get my life back together and wishing to meet a godly person to share my life with. I will pray for you, please pray for me and my children🙏🏽

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      Oh my goodness, I am so very sorry to read this. This loss is just as devastating. I don’t think someone’s is necessarily harder than another’s, just different maybe. God knows your pain. I am definitely going to pray for you tonight and for your children. May the Lord restore joy and hope. And love and companionship with another Godly man! Thank you for sharing your story with me ❤️

  • @AnneHavens-ym8je
    @AnneHavens-ym8je Месяц назад +5

    Dear Halley, just came across your channel by God's providence!
    After 15 years of being estranged from my two now grown daughters, my heart is still grieving. I have reached out many ,many times over the years through gifts and cards, but no respond. One daughter has moved and will not allow me her contact info. My other daughter has a little girl and a new baby on the way.
    I raised both of my daughters to know and love Jesus, but they have walked away from Him many years ago and are living in ways that grieve Him and me.
    I am divorced from their father..and they have a very close relationship with him. He recently retired and moved across country to be near them.
    God has been so gracious and faithful to me over these years. He is my everyrhing! I pray that He will heal my broken heart and help me to continue to move forward with Him. I pray that He will bring my daughters back to himself and restore our relationships. He is the only one who can do this!! May He be glorified!!
    Grace and Blessings!

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      Hi! I’ve been trying to write a reply to you the last few days but keep having trouble. It looks like it’s working now. I am very sorry to read about your daughters, how heartbreaking that must be. It probably feels lonely with also being divorced and they’re near their dad now. I am going to pray for you tonight. I hope it improves and I so appreciate you sharing your story with me! May God bring you much comfort

  • @debranicholson9223
    @debranicholson9223 Месяц назад +3

    I l9st my mother 2 years ago July 5th. I had been her full time caregiver for over 16 years. This had certainly been the most difficult season of grief. I just finished with a Grief share group..I may take it again in the fall..very helpful ❤

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      @@debranicholson9223 wow I’m so sorry. That is a very significant loss. I can imagine how hard it’s been transitioning into a new sort of lifestyle and pace since she’s been gone. I’m so glad to hear you went through grief share and might do it again. It helped me so much! Both times I went through it. I will say a prayer for you today. 🤍

  • @shalomdonna
    @shalomdonna Месяц назад +4

    I lost my dad (67) to a Glioblastoma. It was horrific and I feel lost. Prayers appreciated x

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      @@shalomdonna I’m so sorry to hear! I will pray for you today, that the Lord would be your comfort and joy🤍 thank you for sharing and watching

    • @shalomdonna
      @shalomdonna Месяц назад +1

      @@halleymastrolonardo thanks so much xxx

    • @Changeworld408
      @Changeworld408 Месяц назад +1

      i pray for you that yr pain can be transformed into beauty and love for all and everyone

  • @purseypurslane
    @purseypurslane Месяц назад +2

    Oh Halley this video is the most heartfelt and accurate (at least to me) on grief, there truly are no words for it other than to go through it and realize that it may stay with you for years and years..... it just gets a bit easier. We hope that we see our lost loved ones in Heaven but that's never a guarantee -- thank you for reminding us to always turn to God and leave our burdens at His feet. Thank you for offering your prayers to us, I'll surely need that at some point.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you for your kind words! The Lord is so gracious to us and I do pray to see my loved ones in eternity!

    • @purseypurslane
      @purseypurslane Месяц назад

      @JC-du6sn Thank you! Is this a book? I always appreciate suggestions for learning

  • @deniserouthierledoux8133
    @deniserouthierledoux8133 26 дней назад +1

    I just lost my husband of 48 years last month --i had been caring for him since last November. My mornings are the most difficult time of day, waking alone in this house is difficult. I spoke to the Lord to give me strength to care for him which he did and now I am asking the Lord to give me the strength to grieve however way or how long it will be. The Lord is who I thank upon waking and the last when I go to bed. Thank you for your videos Halley, they are comforting.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  25 дней назад

      I’m so sorry to hear this, Denise. I’m sure it’s been really hard to navigate after being together for so long, and with taking care of him. I bet it is lonely. I love that you’re asking Jesus to give you the strength you need day by day. He is so faithful. He will. Thank you for much for sharing your story, it means a lot to read these comments from others! Thank you for being here

  • @ana-maria448
    @ana-maria448 Месяц назад +3

    I am sorry for your losses. I lsot my father 5 months ago to pancreatic cancer and it's been difficult. Never lost someone from thr immediate family. This is painful. I miss him and his childish way of being. I cannot imagine how difficult was for you after 2 losses, but I hope you find comfort in Jesus. 🙏God bless you!

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much, Jesus is our comfort and hope! The first loss within your immediate family is always so shocking and hard to walk through. I’m very sorry for you as well. God will show Himself faithful to you through your journey of grief. I will pray Isaiah 61 over you today! Thank you for sharing your story with me 🤍

  • @debt3297
    @debt3297 Месяц назад +1

    My youngest son passed in April 2023 at the tender age of 24. I’m not even sure how I came across your channel but appreciate your content. I too am a believer and began attending Grief Share one month after my Seth passed, I just finished my 3rd round of 13 week sessions . It is an incredible support system. I highly recommend. I’m sure I will return to it in the near future and hope to help others too along the grief journey.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      I’m so sorry to hear about your sweet son.🥹 it is so so devastating. I’m glad to hear you also went through grief share. What a gift that program is to many! I pray that God continues to minister to you as you go through your grief. Thank you for sharing your story with me. I am blessed to know others walking a similar road 🙏🏻

    • @Changeworld408
      @Changeworld408 Месяц назад

      i pray for yr pain to be relieved

  • @carolinesmith8024
    @carolinesmith8024 Месяц назад +2

    Greetings Halley I'm so sorry for your loss 😢❤

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      Oh thank you so much! So kind! Thanks for being here

    • @carolinesmith8024
      @carolinesmith8024 Месяц назад +1

      @@halleymastrolonardo you're welcome I hope n pray you ok I lost my family I know the pain may God be with you and bless you I can't find words because it's too much pain sorry

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      @@carolinesmith8024 thank you! He’s brought me a long way! I’m doing much better than I used to and has healed me a lot. I’m sorry to hear you’ve lost your family, too :(

    • @carolinesmith8024
      @carolinesmith8024 Месяц назад

      @@halleymastrolonardo , 💦💦💦💦💦💦💦💦 😭😢😢😢😭😭😭

  • @margarettownsley9500
    @margarettownsley9500 Месяц назад +1

    I’m crushed in spirit I can hardly lift my head from my pillow Nor can I be bothered to wash my face I have had many many years of mental abuse and suffering and my son is a thorn in my side he’s so nasty to me I’ve truly been suffering at the hands of evil and this latest situation feels like the final straw that broke the camels back I feel I want to withdraw a way from every one and disappear to a new town where no one knows me I’m like job in the bible I feel so disappointed and broken I’m tired of this world’ I’ve just found your channel thank you for your video

  • @ellekelammerinks4315
    @ellekelammerinks4315 Месяц назад +1

    I miss my beloved parents. They loved us, children, unconditional 😢 I also will pray for them, that God reunited them together. They loved each other so deeply, so deeply. My fathers suffering to lose his wife was devastating. And we could not do anything to lighter his grief. Wil you also pray for them. And my good friend John. I had friendship with him for 35 years. Thanks....

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much for your comment and sharing your story. Grief is so hard! Especially when you spend years together with your souse - losing them is true heartache and it’s hard to recover from. I will pray for you, as you miss and mourn your parents and also for John! May God comfort you each and every day

  • @tonyd1149
    @tonyd1149 Месяц назад +1

    God[Bible] Bless you Miss Halley M.

  • @cecile-p
    @cecile-p Месяц назад +5

    Thank you for your message of hope. It's beautiful.

  • @viccimauldin9786
    @viccimauldin9786 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you so much for your video. Lost my husband in 2011 to cancer. Still working through this loss with God. It is not an easy process at all. God bless you in your walk with Him and continued healing in your life. ♥

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      I’m so sorry! I can imagine the heart break! Losing your husband brings such a new and different life that’s hard to navigate on your own. I will pray for your healing tonight. Thank you for sharing your story with me!

  • @markelliott7121
    @markelliott7121 Месяц назад +1

    Very calming video. I loved it.

  • @kathysimindinger8753
    @kathysimindinger8753 Месяц назад +7

    Beautiful message. Thanks.

  • @Cloud_JOB
    @Cloud_JOB Месяц назад +1

    The Son of God enjoyed your video. See you soon.
    - the Messiah

  • @DeirdreBaker-zo9gl
    @DeirdreBaker-zo9gl Месяц назад +1

    I lost my beloved mother in February 2023. And still navigating the stages of grief, as I miss her dearly. I know joining a,church will greatly help with spiritual growth and group support. I hope to choose the right one for me.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      I’m so sorry to hear that! It’s very hard to navigate grief, I will pray for you today that the Lord will help you find a great church! It will certainly help you grow and heal. Many blessings to you and thanks for sharing your story with me!

  • @yogininamaste
    @yogininamaste Месяц назад +1

    amen . just found your channel. thank you

  • @ellekelammerinks4315
    @ellekelammerinks4315 Месяц назад +2

    Thanks.

  • @deatraparks4739
    @deatraparks4739 Месяц назад +2

    Hello, so happy to meet you...and re reminding of our Lords guidance..blessings to you...deatra

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you so much for your kind comment, so happy to have you here!

  • @mariasupa2014
    @mariasupa2014 Месяц назад +1

    Beautiful reflections, so graced with gratitude. Your faith sharing is truly from the heart and my prayers are with you during this time of grief. They say Joy comes in the morning and I pray Joy finds your sweet heart and blesses you. A friend in Jesus, Maria

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much! Your comment was so sweet and appreciated! The Lord has brought me a long way and I’m very grateful. I pray He continues to meet you wherever you are today as well!

  • @RelishThisMoment
    @RelishThisMoment Месяц назад +2

    Wow Halley! Thank you for sharing your story with us. ❤ I definitely can relate to this. You have really encouraged me today. GOD BLESS YOU

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      Oh of course and thank you so much for your kind comment. I pray the Lord continues to heal you in your own journey. Blessings and thank you for watching!

  • @clementquidor2876
    @clementquidor2876 Месяц назад +1

    Hello , i m Clément a new follower from France 🇫🇷, i just discover your Channel and your video touched me because i have a twin brother and i
    can t imagine your loss , thank you for sharing your thoughts and wisdom . Blessings

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      @@clementquidor2876 thank you so much for your comment, it means so much! I always love meeting other twins. It’s special! I love France, I’ve been twice and want to go again in the future. I hope you and your twin have a close bond and I wish many blessings to you both. Thank you for following :)

  • @marilynhodgkinson5299
    @marilynhodgkinson5299 Месяц назад +1

    Hi Halley just subscribed. I watched your video twice, very sorry for your losses. My sister-in-law passed away 1 week ago and l am really sad she died of cancer. Her 2 adult children passed away a few years ago of cancer. It is truly a sad time. I do ask God for help, l know he is always there. Thank you. 💔

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      Thank you for your comment and for sharing your story with me. I’m so very sorry to hear this. That is a lot in a short amount of time! Keep seeking the Lord for comfort and all that you need and I will pray over your family today. Many blessings to you, I appreciate you being here

  • @123jonidavis
    @123jonidavis Месяц назад +1

    Beautiful ❤

  • @rijd2304
    @rijd2304 Месяц назад +2

    For me, regret was a stage in my grieving. I liked that meditation book called 30 Days to Overcome Regret by Harper Daniels.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      Oh I have so been there too! Thank you for sharing honestly about that. I would love to read this book, thank you for the Rec. God bless you in your healing journey!

  • @LisaB837
    @LisaB837 Месяц назад +1

    💓 thankyou for your vulnerability. Makes me feel less alone and encourages me to keep pushing through

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      I’m so glad it was encouraging and gives you some hope. It can be really hard to walk through all of the unknowns. Sometimes you want to give up, but the Lord is with you, one day at a time. I’ll say a prayer for you tonight, Lisa!

  • @sweetengland99
    @sweetengland99 Месяц назад +1

    I enjoy your videos so much. 🥰

  • @lovedbyhim8212
    @lovedbyhim8212 Месяц назад +1

    I am griefing because of lost childhood. Because of that I am griefing because of lost motherhood to my son also. I do my best. But as you say to be free we also have to be willing to throu the deep valley.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      I’m so sorry, I completely understand. It is hard to parent when you are grieving and you have hurts and wounds from the past. I will pray for you tonight, that God will show you what steps to take and that His love and comfort would be with you! Thank you for sharing your story with me

    • @lovedbyhim8212
      @lovedbyhim8212 Месяц назад +1

      @@halleymastrolonardo Thank you❤

  • @clintzieandromeda6216
    @clintzieandromeda6216 Месяц назад +2

    This is so incredible and I hope you keep up the good work for your channel.

  • @kathrynsena6657
    @kathrynsena6657 Месяц назад +2

    Beautiful, Hal! Perfect words! ❤️❤️😭

  • @jolynmcteigue8371
    @jolynmcteigue8371 Месяц назад +1

    Mine is a difficult kind of grief that leaves me feeling like a failure. My four children are alive, but my older two have had no contact with me for three years, and my younger one, though 19 and at home, has lied to me for three years. I homeschooled my third child one year and has been away at college for three years but seems more connected. I was an only parent. No one else to blame but me.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      @@jolynmcteigue8371 I am so sorry, this is definitely a painful grief you’re experiencing with your children. Any mother would feel this way. although I do not know your circumstances and there’s of course sincere and honest reflections we can make as moms, and where we could have made different choices, they too are responsible for their own decisions and the enemy wants to use this situation to further accuse you and lie to you so that it intensities your grief. We are imperfect parents but GOD can do the impossible with wayward and prodigal children. This is both mine and my husbands story. I’m going to pray for you today, for the Lord to restore encouragement and hope for you! And as you pray for them may you pray as if you already have victory and they’ve returned to you and Him! Thank you for sharing your story with me today

  • @brookemcmorris7853
    @brookemcmorris7853 Месяц назад +1

    I was in a spiritually abusive situation as a child and it distorted my view of God and myself. I still have the wounds and even though i logically understand that it was not God who was abusing me, its been hard for me heal. Please pray for me my dear sister in Christ ✝︎

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      @@brookemcmorris7853 I’m so so sorry this has been your story. Those situations are very hard to recover from. It’s true, it does totally distort your view of God and yourself. I am praying over you this morning and for Jesus to heal and mend those broken places and renew your view of Him that is filled with love and mercy! Thank you for sharing your story with me! 🙏🏻

  • @EKelly-nu7op
    @EKelly-nu7op Месяц назад +1

    My grief is caused by the way my immediate family is choosing to live which has made me lose most things and people outside my family. The Lord has not changed my circumstance and is walking me through the process.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      @@EKelly-nu7op I’m so sorry to hear this. It is very painful to have your family life so differently than you, it can easily feel like they’ve died in a way. The mourning is real. I appreciate you sharing your story with me. I’d love to pray for you tonight. As you seek the Lord He will continue to be faithful to you! Thank you for being here

  • @dominiclapinta8537
    @dominiclapinta8537 Месяц назад +1

    Story of my life. My entire life has been Satan trying to kill steal and to destroy me. Relationships going out the door, and some quicker than others. Not allowed to be married, nor have children, nor fellow brethren who can relate spiritually to who I really am. I wonder how many more decades it will be before I finally receive. Either way, my relationship with Jesus and the revelation of His Word, will sustain me. But until I am accepted because my bank account will be large enough for them to judge me worthy of fellowship, I will hope and continue to watch and pray, for those who God is telling to minister to me, but they will not. I will continue my ministry unto them..

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      @@dominiclapinta8537 I’m so sorry to read about the hardship and loneliness/rejection you’ve endured. It can be very hard. Relationships are so vital to our life. Tonight I will say a prayer for you and that God begins to bring some strong healthy and life giving friendships into your life! God bless you

    • @dominiclapinta8537
      @dominiclapinta8537 Месяц назад

      @@halleymastrolonardo thanks. God's been growing me a lot through it all, but I have a desire for fellowship with people in person. Almost every way that I have wanted or tried to have it, it seems that people get turned against me. If I did have a thorn in the flesh, I would say that perhaps I have been assigned a demon to cause people to avoid me like how a wild animal somehow knows not to eat something with aspartame in it.

  • @bonnieyuse5876
    @bonnieyuse5876 Месяц назад +1

    As I was listening to this...
    The Church Bell Rang! ❤

  • @jbcowgill
    @jbcowgill Месяц назад

    This is very beautiful. Thank you for sharing. You are an amazing woman.

  • @jck6920
    @jck6920 Месяц назад +3

    My dad died Dec ‘21; lost a baby to miscarriage March ‘23; lost a baby to miscarriage Dec ‘23; lost a baby to ectopic pregnancy June ‘24.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      I’m so so sorry to hear this! How devastating it must all be. My heart aches for you. Today I am praying for the Lord to open your womb and give you the joyful news of a healthy viable baby, an easy pregnancy and that any potential further loss would be dismantled in the name of Jesus! May He guard you with his righteous right hand, with favor, blessing and grace. I pray for understanding an enlightenment for anything that could be a factor affecting your fertility journey and wisdom with how to move forward. Lord, give her your love and spirit of comfort today. Thank you so much for sharing your story with me. 🤍

    • @jck6920
      @jck6920 27 дней назад +2

      @@halleymastrolonardoThank you ❤ I’m sorry for your losses. God bless you and your channel 🙏🏻

  • @kaseythompson6537
    @kaseythompson6537 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for this. My father died 9 days ago at the age of 95. His death has brought up memories and emotions from my mothers untimely death 46 years ago when I was 20. Please pray for me to allow myself to fully grieve and in doing so strengthen my relationship with Jesus.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      I’m so sorry to hear about your loss! It’s so hard! I know how these things stir up all sorts of stuff. I’ll pray for you tonight, Kasey! God is with you

  • @mariacorral8934
    @mariacorral8934 Месяц назад +1

    This was so beautiful and gave me peace thank you very helpful

  • @gracekalima2888
    @gracekalima2888 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for your word of strength, u have really touched my heart.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      That is so kind and encouraging to read. Thank you so much and I pray the Lord strengthens you each day!

  • @samantha_budhu
    @samantha_budhu Месяц назад +1

    Beautiful video. Grieving after my divorce. 🙏🏽

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      🥹thank you so much for watching. I’m very very sorry to hear of your divorce and the pain it has brought. I know it is a major life change, and there are a lot of things you must be mourning. I will say a prayer for you today. Thank you for sharing your story with me

  • @unimaginaryemily
    @unimaginaryemily Месяц назад +1

    Blessings! Thank you for sharing this

  • @lovelifementoring5399
    @lovelifementoring5399 Месяц назад +1

    What a beautiful message thank you ❤

  • @jakestephens4939
    @jakestephens4939 Месяц назад +2

    I hope your spouse prays and uplifts you always. Iron sharpens iron, one sharpens another. When i have a wife, im gonna always be available to pray with her and be there for her. God will never leave you nor forsake you.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      @@jakestephens4939 yes! Absolutely. My husband has been my absolute rock and the best spiritual leader through all of our hardships and loss. I’m so blessed and grateful.

    • @jakestephens4939
      @jakestephens4939 Месяц назад +1

      ​That is awesome
      Praise the Lord

  • @venamorgan9980
    @venamorgan9980 29 дней назад +1

    ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏

  • @peaceandquiet1983
    @peaceandquiet1983 Месяц назад +1

    Amen🙏

  • @ameldahayat670
    @ameldahayat670 Месяц назад +1

    Lost my dad suddenly 3 months ago please keep me in your prayers as I’m having a hard time dealing with it

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      I’m so so sorry, I will pray for you today - that the Lord would touch your heart and give you wisdom with what steps to take next. Thank you for sharing your story with me

  • @markh3376
    @markh3376 Месяц назад +1

    It's not easy in our lives.... God care you and everyone in Jesus' Name Amen 🙏 ❤😔

  • @JudySprowl
    @JudySprowl Месяц назад +1

    I lost my son last year at the age of 44 2 days after his birthday. My heart pains so bad😢😢😢

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      Oh I’m so sorry! I can only imagine the heartbreak that you feel. May the Lord give you tremendous comfort and peace as you grieve and mourn your son. He is with you each day and I do appreciate your comment and vulnerability!

  • @ladyofjazz-ip5gc
    @ladyofjazz-ip5gc Месяц назад +1

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      @@ladyofjazz-ip5gc thanks for watching! 🤍

    • @ladyofjazz-ip5gc
      @ladyofjazz-ip5gc Месяц назад +1

      @@halleymastrolonardo very needed thank you dear sister ❤

  • @jencee
    @jencee Месяц назад +1

    Please pray for me .thank you

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      I just prayed for you this morning! 🤍

    • @jencee
      @jencee Месяц назад +1

      @@halleymastrolonardo THANK YOU!☺️

  • @adriennedunne1748
    @adriennedunne1748 Месяц назад +1

    When the music got louder, i found it hard to understand what she was saying. Up to then it was helpful

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      @@adriennedunne1748 sorry about that! I’m still trying to work on my editing skills haha. Turning captions on might help as well :)

  • @ElVlogDeDrew
    @ElVlogDeDrew Месяц назад +1

    You looks like Blake lively ❤

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      Oh that’s so sweet! Haha I’ve never heard that one before. Thanks for watching :)

  • @purseypurslane
    @purseypurslane Месяц назад

    I'd love to support your channel but can't understand how the LTK site works -- have you considered listing your items on Amazon as an affiliate? That will give you lots of exposure and a familiar way to shop for a lot of us. I guess I'm just old school!😅💙

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      Hi! Sorry it’s confusing but like to know it is similar , but it allows you to link to other stores besides just amazon, and I can receive commissions on various platforms. It acts as the same as amazon affiliate just lets me include all the places I shop like Etsy :) I have also considered signed up for the amazon influencer program as well. If I do I’ll link it in my coming videos!

    • @purseypurslane
      @purseypurslane Месяц назад +1

      @@halleymastrolonardo I'm glad! I went on the LTK site again and it wasn't that hard lol - I just ordered a steam iron from TJ Maxx and it was super easy -- I'm glad you suggested that site, it's actually quite easy. I love those blue and white china plates on your page, so beautiful, I love the old time things.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      @@purseypurslane oh I’m glad it worked out! Haha and yay for a new steam iron! :)

  • @MartinaStammler-ux4zn
    @MartinaStammler-ux4zn Месяц назад +2

    🙏🌸🌷🩷

  • @ms-ex8em
    @ms-ex8em Месяц назад +1

    bless u flower !! u have no shoes on ur feet

  • @danielmastrolonardo7274
    @danielmastrolonardo7274 Месяц назад +1

    Powerful my love. God has molded and shaped you so beautifully as you have come to him with broken pieces for him to put back together.

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад +1

      @@danielmastrolonardo7274 awww thanks my love!! Couldn’t have done it without you, too

  • @breynnbailey1287
    @breynnbailey1287 Месяц назад

    This was lovely. Thank you for sharing your journey. I lost my husband suddenly almost 4 years ago. Keep going through. ❤‍🩹

    • @halleymastrolonardo
      @halleymastrolonardo  Месяц назад

      I’m so sorry for your loss! I can imagine the pain you feel losing your husband. I will pray for you today. Thank you so much for sharing your story with me 🤍