Strangers Share their Biggest Regrets in Life
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What's one thing you regret in life?
Being lazy in high school.
My looks
Wasting time.
@@karthick2237 karthick I am from Pakistan .do u speak Hindi?
that i cared about what people thought of me, but i'm at a point in life where i just don't care anymore lol
''There's always two pains in life, the pain of discipline and the pain of regret. Discipline weighs ounces, regret weighs tonnes.''
Thank you I need to get back to work ❤️
Thanks for sharing that Lewis.
But I thought it's rather differrent when someone died.
That was what i needed
parents
I regret not being me. Instead. Being what people what me to be or be what their "Good" Is.
Correct💯
YES !!!! same.
Thats soo mee.
Same here
Same
Regret is useless unless it fuels you to do things differently in the future. That's the power of regret, a driving force. Dwelling on what you regret does absolutely nothing.
I should say: "dwelling on regret" at its root is a form of indulgence in self pity. It's actually pathetic. A better way is to learn from your mistakes and take the pain
Quote:
"The most important thing is always for all people to recognize that you’re not who you were a year ago. You’re not who you were five years ago, you’re not who you were last week. You’re who you are now, and this is the only s-t you have control over. So you’ve got to regulate how much you dwell on regrets of the past, you really got to be careful… for sure, who I am now wouldn’t have ever happened if I didn’t f-k up. If I didn’t make those mistakes I wouldn’t have understand the importance of friendship and kindness, and if I hadn’t been cruel at some point in my life or someone hadn’t been cruel to me, I wouldn’t understand the beauty of love. I wouldn’t understand the full range of it ’cause I hadn’t felt the sting… what I am saying is that there’s a f--g yin and a yang to this world, man, and you’ve got to fuel yourself with the f-ups, and most people get stuck in these patterns because they define themselves as a f--up, or they define themselves as the person who doesn’t follow through on their ideas, or a person who doesn’t pursue their real interest in loves, you define yourself by that. “Well, you know, I start things and then I quit.” No you don’t. No, you have started things and you quit, and it gives you a horrible sense of regret that’s made you define yourself by that. You don’t have to do that. You don’t have to do that."
--Joe Rogan
Seems your channel is blowing up, so i probably won't write any more comments, because they will most likely get lost in a huge torrent of other peoples' comments. Anyways, congratulations. If you do actually recognize me and do care, then all i have to say is: it's been a pleasure. Good luck with the massive popularity, be strong, and take care.
My biggest regret is the fact that i haven't let the right people in my life when they were showing all the signs. I've let past experiences/depression and other things blind me from the fact that there are some people who actually meant to make a positive impact in my life. Instead of paying more attention to these people and give them a chance to become part of my life, i've let the door closed without even realizing it at times to the point where they eventually stopped paying attention. They slowly turned into accountances, then strangers, and eventually faded away by going on with their own life ...
I regret not loving myself enough and never being confident enough to make my own decisions
One thing I truly regret in life is the fact that I didn’t realise my true potential. It was self doubt that prevented me from being who I am and from doing what I want to do. I’m 19 and learning.
I have the exact same problem. Can you share something more? Any improvements? Details.?
you are 19 ffs
you got a lot of life left to live. The fact that you're 19 and realizing this puts you milesssss ahead of your peers. keep going
MegaStar Dhoni My only advice is to be yourself no matter what. It is not ‘they’ who control your life, potential or success- it is you. Don’t let anyone prevent you from doing what you want to do, not even your deepest doubts. Only then, will you truly be content.
@@montecarloiv7617 well said👍
Ive NEVER regretted doing something.
Only not doing something.
👌
MAGA OFFENSIVE I regret dating my first my boyfriend. I don’t regret what I learned, but if I could go back in time I would definitely not do things that I have done, and even date him in the first place.
Trust me mate..."not doing" is sometimes being better than "doing it"..
@@billzkhan100 😂
What's up with this comment section turning into a dating site?😂
I regret not spending enough quality time with my dad and grandma before they passed away... especially while my dad was in a bad condition with his illness and I wouldn't spend much time with him because the situation was too painful for my mind to accept, so I just went and sat into my room (when I could have had endless interesting conversations with him and learn so many things about him that I now cannot...) SO PLEASE, SPEND TIME WITH YOUR FAMILY AND SHOW THEM YOUR LOVE BECAUSE THEY WON'T ALWAYS BE THERE.
Ngl, This made me cry omgg
'Nothing kills a person's soul more painfully than regret "
Being an introvert is I regret having an opportunity to approach someone or build a relationship with them but sadly my social skills aren't that good.
If you want the change that, you should stop calling yourself an introvert.
Theres nothing wrong being an introvert dudee!!!
Then, you are not an introvert. You are socially anxious.
Introvert is not some type of defect. It's part of your personality.
Don't fell sorry to your self. Being introvert is not a problem
The biggest regret is when you look back in your life, and you suddenly realize that you never took time to say the ones who matter to you that you love them. Nothing will go with us when we make it to the other side of our pelerinage. We need to be more compassionate towards each other, showing more love. That way no regrets will be brought about.
I feel you. I really hurt my parents. I made the mistakes to call them I wish they never gave birth to me or that I want them to die or abandon me. But I was so stupid. I realized that they really take care of me and are trying their best. At least they are still alive, I already apologized but I know that's not enough and I'm working on it
While my wife was dying (I'd cared for her the final three years at home), there are things I think I could have done better. Spending more time with her. Not having such high expectations of her. Of not having demanded more of the medical system. Of not having radically changed her diet and instead going with what she liked. Of not focusing on how self-deprecating she was and how little she demanded. What-ifs killed me for months. Every morning after she was gone, I looked at her portrait to say, I'm SORRY! And all I could fall back on was the idea that she had finally seen the other side as being way better than keeping a brave face on what clearly wasn't getting any better on this side of the Veil. If you asked a hundred people who knew her who the best person they ever met was ... she would universally make the top three. So anything I might have done to buy an extra day would be like an extra lifetime! But realistically, at the end her body was betraying her so badly I told the nurses to get out and the docs to fix the pain and let God sort out the rest. It was the hardest thing I ever did. And it felt like the biggest failure imaginable.
5:25 I regret letting my past dictate my future...
:( thats what I still keep doing
Regret and bitterness are torments that are insanely insidious and kill off parts of you. You think time is a healer til you realize decades later you still carry this afresh like the very first day. Whats horrific is regret is as old as time itself yet no one comes up to you in a panic warning of the horror, sitting you down and telling you the truth of how regret kills, like any other form of life threatening habit like cigarettes, drugs etc. Though you may survive it til old age, it killed you a long time ago.
Indeed ... Regrets never leave your mind honestly, you just find ways to burrow them/forget about them for an undetermined amount of time and pretend that everything is ok. Until the day they comes back to the surface for some reason ...
Not taking my studies as serious
One of mine in school too. But then again I learned a lot reading outside of school.
Is*
Don't worry, we were same on earth although we don't know each other :u
same
I actually regret taking my studies too seriously
"In 20 years you'll regrets more the things you didn't do than the things you did."
I love this line by Mark Twain so much!
Hey Lana,
I'm a young footballer and I saw this channel recently. I really thought: 'what is this for channel?' Meanwhile, I really enjoy your channel. These videos are so underrated. People always want to improve in their lives. They always want to learn train their muscles and learn new stuff. Sometimes people get ripped apart because of their lives. It's not that, it's because you are your own worst enemy. I always made that mistake. I just had to be my own friend, to love and enjoy myself. I also took too little rest mentally. It's the same as rest for trained muscles because the mental side of your brain is also a muscle. You have to let it rest from time to time.
Thank you Lana for making my day and learning me new things. I know the chance of this getting read by you is small, but have a great day Lana. You are beautiful and humble. I am sending the message without identity. Sooner or later I will get the success I was working for because of your messages that you spread. Thank you very much for that.
Have a lovely day
I regret not walking away from people sooner, and letting people dictate my next move at different stages in my life, I regret not saying no more often and despite being "confident" letting people walk over me because I wanted to please them, make them happy and not make them be mad at me. I regret the fear of being alone or going places alone (still struggling with moving a lone but I believe that working on myself will help me step into my power, and unlearn everything that has held me back.)
Same girl. 😭 I gave multiple chances with those toxic people, but they didn't learn. I'm so done. I'm choosing my self now. 🌱🍃
I regret getting sucked into drugs and alcohol in high school, which made me lose so much time to improve myself and become a better version of myself. but now, looking upon all of what ive done, ive learned to look at it all as a synchronistic arrangement by the universe to bring me where i am today. without those experiences, i would never be who i am today. I am grateful i cut everyone out my life that didn't and currently doesn't serve me, and quitting all of those habits was one of the most difficult times of my life. but i did it all. ive made peace with it knowing that i would never been the best version of myself today without experiencing the person i don't want to be.
Hi Lana. Here is past midnight and i'm just sitting here in the dark with the cat purring near my head. Thinking about past, thinking about present and what will be.I see my choices i've made in life as bricks that compose me. I the end all those little blocks, "good" and "bad" create a wonderfull and unic pattern... No regrets.
I have a friend from Sweden and we met at workplace in Canada. She always encourages me when I doubt myself, cheers me up when I am feeling lost and watching your videos just reminds me of her. Oh dear I miss her and the good old times❤️ hope I can go to Sweden next year to reunite✨
I can relate to the first voice testimony. A friend from high school died of cancer and although I visit him a couple of times, I regret not being closer and provide more companion to him.
Not giving it a chance, cuz now it’s too late... i think about it every day.
My first love (and only)
Need to let go man
Yes yes yes.. he was the only one that I have ever loved
I just regret sharing my story like my job or activity to my people, but all they could do is judge me. Give a bad vibes. I think this is my own life. But people seems to wanting control my experience without give a real solution. And It’s like more comfortable to talk with someone new like stranger than people in my life.
Just found your channel and loving it!☀️
Same!
Me too! I just find myself smiling when I hear her speak cause I relate to a lot of what she says. Definitely will be watching forevermore...
Glad you're here.
I found it today and I’m loving it as well!
Same
The dictionary definition of regret is "Feel sad, repentant, or disappointed over (something that one has done or failed to do)"
I also agree with you that having no regret is the best way to live which made my experience watching the video interesting. Hearing most of these regrets felt pointless because there are ideas behind them of what should have happened instead of accepting what happened and learning from it to create a better life. We can often feel like victims to circumstances but we are so much more powerful than that.
I also then wondered... because I have this view that it is useless to have regrets maybe I have some repressed ones.
Going back to the definition I will phrase them in a way that works with that because I feel regret is too vague.
I felt disappointed when I left a band I was in a few years back. I don't have any desire to be bring the band back together now but at the time it was a difficult thing to accept and let go of. I rarely think about it because I live in the moment and follow my unique desires.
I feel sadness thinking about the past Andy who thought he couldn't speak with confidence when delivering presentations. He felt pressured into not breaking expectations of himself and others. He put himself in a prison that no one wanted him to put himself in but he thought they did. He was scared of big reactions because he has always been sensitive.
What he didn't know was that he could embrace his sensitivity fully, surrender to it and still remain non-reactive if he wanted to... or be reactive and acceptant of that. He often heard people say he was too sensitive so would pretend he wasn't and try and hide it instead of fully accepting it as a beautiful part of him.
I stayed with a girlfriend after I had found out I had been cheated on. I felt regret for this one for sure but now I am grateful for the lesson. It taught me to follow intuition and not stay in a relationship out of fear of being alone or an assumption that I am not valuable enough to find someone else. Now I know I am awesome and will always find people just as brilliant. I have been with my current girlfriend for over 7 and a half years who is amazing and so in sync with me and I am very grateful for that too.
All these could be classed as regrets but to me they are something different. The past you is not you. That is a fiction. A persona. Simply just a concept. What you are is much more than that and in this moment you are completely different person from who you were in any past moment. You ARE the moment and you place your power into ideas and concepts to play the game. Many people think they are the character but that's just a tool.
We are all fluid beings and we are all made up of energy. We are consciousness itself and don't have to believe the idea of duality. There is no separation.
When we convince ourselves we are separate it's like children playing together and giving each other a character to play. I'll be the wizard and you can be the princess. That's what we're all doing so we don't have to take the character so seriously. We CAN but we don't HAVE to. Big difference.
We're here to play and explore, connect with others and enjoy the play but there's much more going on outside of this game.
4:47 no way 8 years...poor guy :(.
It's not about getting over, it's about living without remembering
I regret seeking validation from the people who didn't give a shit about me which affected my mental health this year. I regret putting all of my efforts on a wrong person who left me. I regret not being myself for the longest time. I regret taking wrong decisions in the flow of my emotions. I am watching your old videos. You are amazing. I actually feel lighter after a long long time. Thank you❤
New subscriber here, and as an introvert I am, I recently came from your Day in a Life of an Introvert and I was pretty impressed with your content as a smaller (although bigger to me) youtube creator. I really appreciate the content you've been making and I feel you have a lot of potential! Keep up the consistency :)
I love this channel thank you! I came from the introvert video and I’m staying. “Change things that you can and let go of the things you can’t” is just perfect! Some quotes of the introvert video also helped me too. Thank you for your words and sentences that just describe me.
I'm glad you found it helpful!
I try never regret. It’s all my live. All that moments made me the person who i am. They’ve made me stronger and farsighted.
I love reading the comments and know I am not alone ❤️ I wish the best for everyone.
I regret for not standing up for myself when I was abused by a narcissist friend , I regret for always self doubting and not being confident enough to go after my dreams, I regret being horrible to people , I regret for not stopping the bullies bully my classmate ! There are many things I regret but I have surely learned from my past experiences and now I am trying my best to be better version of myself!
Thanks for sharing these videos ! The stories of people made me emotional !
Commenting and sharing thoughts , replying each other, helping out!! This is great 💙 If you are regretting something let go of that forgive yourself or do something that can make up to it , you deserve a second chance. Having a mind that accepts your own self mistakes are lovable ❤️
Lana, please continue to upload quality videos like this one. I’m so ready to learn more from you.
STRONG VIDEO. IT MADE ME THINK IN A DEEP LEVEL, THESE PEOPLE PUTTING OUT A VULNERABLE AND SO PERSONAL SIDE OF THEIR SELVES, I FELT IT.
Emotions, pleasant or otherwise, all serve an important function - as you say, just as no emotion should ever be ignored, neither should an emotion be indulged ad infinatum. The surrealist and slightly anime-esque style of these recent videos is both poignant and effective, and gives a voice to an emotional undercurrent that may otherwise go unexpressed in this mask-based world we currently live in. Giving people catharsis in such a manner is an absolutely great idea.
P.S. I found your channel from your Love Who interview, and while I use any 'type code' loosely I have to say it's great to see an INTJ (INF-T) in touch with their true nature.
This video shows how you are not lonely with your problems. This gives me hope
I thoroughly enjoyed this video. My mother died exactly one week ago to the day of this comment.
I loved her dearly.
My regret is that I didn’t spend more time with her.
I’ve had the same regret with everyone I’ve lost in my life, which at this point is quite a few people.
I’ve realized that this life is too short to waste being upset or angry or depressed.
Spend every moment that you can with the ones you love, because it’s never enough.
I'm at loss of words. The regret of not spending enough time with lost loved ones is a natural reaction, even if we actually did spend lots of time with them.
Lana Blakely thank you.
You have a lovely soothing voice, just works like a sedative and also helps to calm down.
Thank You for creating such brilliant videos
Thanks a lot Sagar!
Just found youre channel and it is pure bliss so peaceful and comforting, thank you.
I regret "Always comparing my life with others and feeling miserable about myself."
Congratulations Lana on 20K subs. I’ve followed you since your J. Peterson posts, ~3K subs. You deserve a following for your talent and insight. While I’ve made many mistakes, and more of omission rather than commission (it’s common to regret actions not taken more than those taken), for whatever reason I personally don’t harbor any regrets. I’ve always viewed my past as prologue, or at least now that I’ve matured, and looking back regretfully steals energy from the present. Perhaps it’s a subtle distinction, but acknowledging past mistakes without regret seems to me a little more balanced. Regarding Frankl’s “Man’s Search for Meaning,” it’s a profound book that bears reading and rereading. It shows that, even in the most horrific of circumstances, we still have the freedom to choose grace and even joy. I will mention that there is an Audible version; the narrator is superb.
I remember your comments from early on! We're actually reading Man's Search for Meaning for the book club this month. Thanks for sharing your perspective, Larry.
This channel is going to be the next big thing from SWEDEN.
I regret not hanging out with this girl I knew in highschool. She asked me so many times but at that time I had very bad anxiety and I couldn’t get myself to say yes and hang out with her. I’m sure if I would have went out with her, we would still be friends, I wouldn’t be as lonely as I am now, and my anxiety would have probably disappeared. But I am happy with who I am. I am lonely and still have a bit of social anxiety but I have improved a lot and might be a completely different person if I would have said yes. Either way I can’t go back in time so it does not matter anymore.
How did you overcome your anxiety? I'm kinda in a similar situation . I have cut all the unwanted people out of my life so I get lonely . I'm highschool rn what's your best advice for me?
Abhi Narayan the only way to over come something is by doing what you don’t want to. If your struggling with anxiety, just hang out with someone. If someone tells you to go out with them just say yes! It’s easier in highschool so just say yes to everyone. Yes yes yes!
I love the way you talk slowly, but sweetly.
This was a beautiful and reflective post. I do think regret can teach us quite a few things if we treat them with respect. However it can be easy to let regrets take a poisonous turn. I don’t particularly like the word ‘balance’ as it is often used in a way that diminish all the strenuous mental work. It’s easy to say to someone ‘you just need balance’ when in reality, the process of getting a certain psychological comprehension of your demons, is quite hard. This post just gave so much tranquil space for reflection and self examination. Beautifully done. Subscribed!
And ps: I didn’t know you’re Swedish until I heard the end of the video...and as a Norwegian I jumped and was startled by the familiarity 😅✌🏻
Oh hello neighbour 👋 Thanks a lot Sindre.
Your videos are so calming and relaxing. I don’t know but I vibe so much with your personality ♥️
My biggest regret is living up to other people's expectation rather than my own. I had to sacrifice so much of my own time and happiness for theirs, and yet they are still never pleased with the results. I'm sorry I can't always be at the top of my class, be in the career field that you want me to be in, or meet your expected desired salary at my age.
They might have failed to succeed in their own life. That doesn't mean they should make up for it by controlling yours.
Ive tried answering this question for some time now and i always come to the same realization. To regret any single thing in my life is to negate where I am today. All the apparent “fuck ups” in my life, the relationships I scrutinized, the drug addictions etc etc. They have all led me to where I am today. I am far from perfect but I’m slightly better than I was yesterday and a fuck load better than I was a couple years ago.
Just found this channel. It's become my favourite channel instantly. Love it
Thank you so much.
My biggest regret is losing my best friend because I was busy making new friends. She would always be the one asking me if we should hang out, and it would rarely be the other way around. I tried to stay in contact during summer break until I found out she was trowing a birthday-party I wasn't invited to. When I moved school, she was miserable, because I was her only friend. But when she started at theater class and created new friendships there, she slowly stopped asking me if I wanted to hang out, and I did nothing to keep in contact.
Not spending enough time with my dad... Prioritising my friends instead of him... Now he already passed away
If you didn't have those regrets, You wouldn't know what you know now. So instead, be thankful for the regrets because you've learned something.
Woah! Lana! You got over 10k subs in just a few days!
*CONGRATULATIONS!!*
Thanks a lot!
I am really thankful to you for creating this channel. I wanted some sort of knowledge on emotional field to cope up with myself. It becomes really hard if u ignore it,because only after having a real feel of it u can try to manage it ..thanks in advance!
Glad you found your way here Chirag.
@@LanaBlakely 😄
Allowing others to determine my value; lying to myself in order to hide things I found too uncomfortable to face; being ashamed of expressing my emotions.
My biggest regret is not punching the loud extroverted bullies on the face right after bullying someone or shy, loner introvert that they always picking on...
this was one of the best video shares i have listen to we are never alone in our mistakes and regrets i wish more people show us this thank you
My biggest regret is, how I have turned myself to the same misshapen monsters - those that let the world shape them until they lose their glowness- type of monsters, a broken dream, a forgotten promise.
my young, loving-self used to fight those same monsters and promised to keep on holding the purness of youth, i used to imagine fighting the sananity out of those same lost people.
What a shame.
Qossay R T.Amayra what kind of monsters
taking computer science instead of business for high school...i can still learn later but rn computer science is really making me sad.
also not standing up for myself when people demand or say shit, being too nice and calm as a person
btw you are beautiful!
Nothing in high school matters
@@NotQuiteFirst GCSEs and A levels rlly do! at least for me.
Bra video som vanligt 🌻
Åh tack Jasmin!
One thing I regret is not studying aboard during college and I resolved that regret by moving overseas. I have never been more happier.
Covid stopped me from studying abroad😔. Good for you though!
A wonderful film once again! ❤
I hope you start posting again soon.
Who is the "you" that feels regret? Certainly not the Supreme Self as the true identity beyond the illusory egoic games. There is no such thing as regret in the Loving Awareness of Pure Consciousness. Everything else is mind noise of "me and my story". Fleeting thoughts with no intrinsic existence unless attached to and identified with. Just drop it. Regret is suffering. Only used as a way to perpetuate the root suffering of beLIEf in a false seperate self. Have no fear - beneath the insecure regretful "you" that appears is nothing but Pure Love. 💓🦅⚡🌞🙏
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I regret I never confessed about my rape, my Taekwondo coach kept molesting me for a year by touching my parts but after a year he raped me, i didn't know what to do and how to confess it to parents because I was 9 years old and I was so scared after that whenever someone touched me i got goosebumbs and my body temperature got lower like if I'm sleeping barely in Winter outside.
Then after 2 years that coach showed up and did the same to my friend's younger brother but he told his parents then they didn't take any action.
After all these 13 years, I've become so strong to deal these
Am so sorry
U know its not too late even now to tell them
She is so fucking beautiful. I enjoy her words so much more because of it
This is the 3rd video i’ve watched in this channel and i’m in love with all of them! Thank you for all that content❤️
Thank you so much!
The guy at 2:00 😭 hopefully he'll find someone like his first love again ❤
This video is so beautiful. Even though regret is something negative this is one of the most beautiful videos I have ever seen. Right now things are though and I'm fighting with my thoughts. But I believe this video helps me or has already helped me. Thank you so much. You are truly an incredible person.
Thank you so much for your kind comment.
this is a beautiful woman what in the fudge
@Blue eyed Eurasian I TOO lust after this woman! This is truly incredible!
I don't really regret my mistake, I wasn't patient enough to save up money, and then start my business, instead i tried to rush things and it cost me time, but that's ok since i've never stopped educating myself about what i do, and i can feel that now is my time, trust me guys, if you really want to change your life, it's all in the mind, i literally battled anxiety, through consistent work & effort i put in towards my goal my purpose my dream. It's ALL about habits, Exercise, Meditation and Books helped me a lot, but you have to make a decision to change your life and you have to visualize what you want and try to feel that joy, only then things will turn into your favor and your life will change for the better.
Hey ... Just found your channel randomly and Honestly it's amazing. That introvert video and this one is really good. I can connect to these topics.
My biggest regret is that I havent told a girl how much I love her. She's still a friend but I didn't get the courage of telling her about how I feel about her. Maybe because of rejection or maybe I don't wanna lose her.
Your Channel is great.
I hope you find the courage :) Thanks a lot, Xayn.
thanks Lana.
Ååh vaa bor du i Sverige?!?! Wow! Det hade jag aldrig kunnat gissa! Så bra på engelska och väldigt sofistikerade videos. Känns inte som de flesta svenska kanaler jag kollat på eller hört talas om. De har känts väldigt röriga! Du är lugn och metodisk, jag gillar att se det här på yt👍🏻
Ja bor i Stockholm! Tack så mycket :-)
One of my new favourite RUclips channels by far 💕
I'm saving this into my playlist. I just felt so motivated listening to this.
Lana your voice is amazing and your English too.
The only regret I have is perhaps not to have spent more time with my mother before she passed away ,but apart that there is nothing i regret .I always look forward and move on.
My biggest regret is not being ready (while fully knowing how to ready myself) and therefore not having seized a special moment when I had the chance.
Oof the Degree regret one was hella relatable. Very nearly made that mistake because I was too focused on the money. I mean sure, I was good at it but it didn't feel like it would make a positive impact on the world. I want to help people and change lives, not just turn a pay check. Biggest thing education has taught me: trust your gut, usually it knows the better path loooong before your brain does. Now I've noticed why I've not felt fulfilled I can work on rewriting my story with a better chapter ❤️
Hope you are well.
My biggest regret has been not to respect and be grateful, for what I had (time, people, money, opportunities).
I took all of them for granted and lost all but gained an invaluable lesson.
Respect and be grateful for what you have, preserve and nurture them.
Take care of yourself 🙏
Regret is a such an outdated word and needs to be null, void, discontinued.
There is a reason and lesson behind each and every experience. Everything has a purpose. Whatever choice you make in life, the purpose is to learn and grow as a person. How can we ever regret a learning experience? It could have be uncomfortable or difficult, but purposeful nonetheless. Love you Lana.
This video gave mi chills! hearing the voices of everyone just made it so much more real and it made me realize I still have hope to do the things I want, which most of the time is "leave the house, go out", too many days I am scared of going out.
You are not only a beautiful woman Lana, but also very smart and experienced.
Congratulations young lady! You've tripled subscribers in like 6 days. Well done! ;)
There are things that were not my fault but I do regret the way I handled it. I had anxiety so I always run away from my problems. Now I am almost 23 and I am living my life much better now but I fear that I ll always have this feeling that I wasted the best years of my teen life.
I have almost the same regret, because I suffered from anxiety in my late teens.
I honestly have ZERO regret in life and am so damn proud of my past decisions. I have always been courageous, hardworking, respected both myself and others, grateful, mature for my age and took life seriously. Because of these traits, I always made the right decisions with the limited amount of knowledge and life experiences I had at every single point in my life.
I just subscribed a couple of hours ago and she was at 15k, now she's at 19k!!
Her channel's growing faster that my eyebrows
She's at 20k now lmao
Over 9,000!
I just love her she's such a beauty
I regret failing my senior year.. I really feel sad and worthless even though I moved to another country a year ago and the whole year was really really hard cause its a different school system,new people, culture away from my friends that I grew up together and my parents tell me that I should be proud that I finished all the other subjects except one and its on another language that I am not fluent in ..but it honestly does not help. I feel really sad I can't eat,sleep and I got my period 12 day earlier because of stress and nothing helps to cheer me up.. I tried talking to my family and friends and I know I studied and everything but I feel so bad and I'm blaming myself and I cant remeber when in life I was so demotivated..there are worse things, I know, but why do I feel so broken..please if someone can help me to stop feeling like this it would mean the world to me . Sorry for bothering.
Roma la you are going to succeed my dear, you are going to pass this senior year, you are going to be passionate about your studies and you will get a wonderful job! Never doubt about this! You have many skills and you are an amazing person! 🌸
@@moonmoonlune6267 thank you really! Ily💜
@@moonmoonlune6267 it really means a lot to me!wish you all the best in life😚
this me right now ... i hate myself
3:34
I regret holding on to people longer than i should have and let others take advantage of me. Especially this one girl who i thought was my best friend, who then cut me off when i was struggling and needed her the most. I didn't deserve that.
Could relate to every word said.
Another original and beautifully filmed and edited video. You're rising to the top slowly but surely.
Means a lot. Thank you.
This is beautiful
I regret not being there for myself when I needed me the most, I regret not being able to walk away before, staying for the worst, I regret all the pain and poor bonds I put myself through.
I regret hurting the people I've hurt. I regret being a doormat for most of my life, for not speaking my mind, not being my authentic self. I regret ruining my chances to be in a relationship with an amazing woman, because I didn't feel confident enough. I regret having wasted so much time of my life, not taking my studies serious enough and just the sheer amount of bad habits I've adopted from an early age on. I'm 28 and still learning. Also, I think you're doing a great job with these.
Regret: Not dating more in late teens instead of waiting till mid 30s.
Your vids are soooooo aesthetic........ I’m just like WOW
My Biggest Regrets :
● *Believing in Something Like GOD and had Expectations* ...
● *Couldn't Tell Her My Feelings* ....
● *Never Understand My Father and I didn't Did as He Desired* ....
● *Not Having Enough Study* ...
Well,I'm sorry that GOD is on your regret list....but,ONE DAY you'll be SURPRISED how right you where before you GAVE UP and became an 'atheist'...I promise❤:))
I wish you all the best🤗
“Marry, and you will regret it; don’t marry, you will also regret it; marry or don’t marry, you will regret it either way. Laugh at the world’s foolishness, you will regret it; weep over it, you will regret that too; laugh at the world’s foolishness or weep over it, you will regret both. Believe a woman, you will regret it; believe her not, you will also regret it… Hang yourself, you will regret it; do not hang yourself, and you will regret that too; hang yourself or don’t hang yourself, you’ll regret it either way; whether you hang yourself or do not hang yourself, you will regret both. This, gentlemen, is the essence of all philosophy.” Kierkegaard. That's somewhat my life philosophy to live life to the fullest and just be in action because I will always have something to be regretful about.