"Why Does My Wife Always Want To Argue?" | Paul Friedman
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- Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
- It's a very interesting thing. There's this false idea out there that it takes two to make a marriage great and it's not true. It only takes one but it does take two to argue. One person arguing by themselves run out of steam. The whole idea of arguments is that you bounce off of each other, you build yourself into a tizzy, you storm out. It's no fun. It's interesting too because we have a course for men at The Marriage Foundation and I think it's one of the very first video classes. It's called the anatomy of a fight where you understand in-depth why you fight. And more importantly, you understand not how to get out of a fight that's easy. You just stop fighting but, how to control your own mind? How to control your own passions, your own habits of reactiveness, your own instinctive fight thing going on? There should be zero fighting, zero arguing in a marriage and I hear all the time.
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I'm on the brink of leaving my woman. She challenges every single thing I have an opinion on. Every bloody day. I told her "I'm not arguing with you anymore" and she says "you just need to be right about everything and you refuse to look at different opinions" no, the issue is; I'm sick and tired of being challenged
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Mine stirs and stirs me, doesn't listen to me, the throws 'gaslighting' at me.....why? Does she hate me? I never used to react, 10 years on, I do. I can't ignore it anymore
So, now it iss time for you to get the course for men and change your lives themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
Maybe divorce.
Ive had it with my wife she has argued since I got with her raises her voice constantly, ive put up with it since 2017 its now 2024 not sure much more i can put up with
If you have children I suggest you get the course for men so you have a wonderful marriage, and don't suffer anymore
😂omg ur so right, thanks for telling me thag it takes 1 person to make the marriage right, and 2 people to argue to make an argument😂, thanks i really appreciate this advice,i no longer will ever argue with my husband
Exactly!! It is amazing how simple it is and how some resort to sarcasm but are desperate to do anything but what is needed. themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
The tao would say "a wise man does nothing, says nothing" and so on. I should put it to practice tbh..nbut i still get yelled at for not answering
Yes, why question this common sense approach? Too simple? LOL
I know this sounds extremely simple and like a “just don’t do it” kind of statement…I mean it is but if you actually sit and think on what he said about “just don’t argue” and pair it with the thought of his Shakespeare example, it’s actually quite profound.
My wife and I just had a child and she said she wanted to get in shape so when I’m trying to train her in our home gym all she does is argue with me she is not doing the exercises right and I tell her how to do it and ahead of time just yells at me all I am doing is trying to help her out I’m in great shape and she wants to be like me but she argues when I tell her how to do it to the point I don’t want to help and she can figure it out herself she tells me then I’ll just stay fat and you will find another women why go there I love her it’s so frustrating
Never try to teach your wife anything, sir. Hire a trainer for her ..femake, of course.
Is there normal arguments between husband and wife?
Arguing is destructive to marriage, period
@@TheMarriageFoundation Oh I see. Well, unfortunately, it happened to everyone that is married, including my mom and dad. They argued alot of times and it happened.
You are right, it is unfortunate. Now you can break the cycle by deciding to never argue and focus on building love and happiness
Yes my wife takes offense when I say anything no matter how it's deliverd and she also takes offense even if I say somthing about someone else people we know or just random people on the street
Ok, you have described the symptoms, now it is time to introduce cures...