This letter was beautiful, and profound! I had been feeling so happy, and amazing for months! Thanks for saying that SEW can take years to get right. My husband and I are both working too much, and trying to buy a house, and he's living in Florida, and I am in living Chicago. I will try to keep forging ahead, but my drive to survive wants to hurt him, for him hurting me. I'll get some rest and keep trying. Maybe I'll become like a feather, unhurtable. We will see.
Paul, this is so amazing. A real life example and reactions are so useful. I am already taking the course and have the confidence to move forward to the coming weeks and practicing the SEW.
I am taking the full for the second time and taking notes in each section. This time listening to this video for the hundredth time, a light bulb went off to some things I need to seriously apply S.E.W. with. Looking at revent FB friends, who liked their post, wondering who is sending a text when their phone dings ARE ALL BAD FOR MY MARRIAGE!! DON'T GIVE UP. WE CAN SAVE OUR MARRIAGES.
Yes, you get it, because our love should never be imposed upon by anything once we commit to it. It is only God who loves, we are His channel, so our love should be His love, unconditional.
Would this method (your course) help me get my husband out of a religious cult? It seems to me as if there are so many similarities between an emotional affair and your spouse being in a cult.
The cause and effect within your marriage is our focus so your marriage will improve, dramatically if you follow the directions, beyond imagination. Will that shift his attention to you? At least to some degree and hopefully the cult aspect will lose its appeal as you become all-satisfying for him...ironically, by being a true fount of God's love, for it is only God's love that can satisfy and love is of God, so as long as that is coming to him, why not?
This letter was beautiful, and profound! I had been feeling so happy, and amazing for months! Thanks for saying that SEW can take years to get right. My husband and I are both working too much, and trying to buy a house, and he's living in Florida, and I am in living Chicago. I will try to keep forging ahead, but my drive to survive wants to hurt him, for him hurting me. I'll get some rest and keep trying. Maybe I'll become like a feather, unhurtable. We will see.
Paul, this is so amazing. A real life example and reactions are so useful. I am already taking the course and have the confidence to move forward to the coming weeks and practicing the SEW.
I am taking the full for the second time and taking notes in each section. This time listening to this video for the hundredth time, a light bulb went off to some things I need to seriously apply S.E.W. with. Looking at revent FB friends, who liked their post, wondering who is sending a text when their phone dings ARE ALL BAD FOR MY MARRIAGE!! DON'T GIVE UP. WE CAN SAVE OUR MARRIAGES.
Thank you for sharing. Yes, the knowledge compounds and then you are into the light. I too am still a student and still growing in love and happiness.
In other words....you love him through it ❤
Yes, you get it, because our love should never be imposed upon by anything once we commit to it. It is only God who loves, we are His channel, so our love should be His love, unconditional.
Thank you Paul. God bless you, your beloved family and The Marriage Foundation ❤
Thank you so much
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Your awesome
Amen!
Would this method (your course) help me get my husband out of a religious cult? It seems to me as if there are so many similarities between an emotional affair and your spouse being in a cult.
The cause and effect within your marriage is our focus so your marriage will improve, dramatically if you follow the directions, beyond imagination. Will that shift his attention to you? At least to some degree and hopefully the cult aspect will lose its appeal as you become all-satisfying for him...ironically, by being a true fount of God's love, for it is only God's love that can satisfy and love is of God, so as long as that is coming to him, why not?