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How To Know If He Really Loves You | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • Опубликовано: 9 фев 2022
  • Many times people ask this question and over time I have realized sadly, that a lot of people get moved by words and forget love is an action, so I thought to make this clear to everyone who needs to learn and know how love works.
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Комментарии • 156

  • @oziiluv
    @oziiluv 11 месяцев назад +8

    1.If a guy loves you, he will pay attention to you. He will listen to you.
    2. He will be willing to wait for sex. He will be patient.
    3. He will be glad and quick to introduce you to people that matter.
    4. He will be protective of you. He will be protective of your welfare.
    5. He will include you in his future plans. He will share his future plans with you.
    6. He is willing to invest in the health and well-being of the relationship. He will like to go for seminars, to church, read books about relationships at your insistence.

  • @damiflexsolutions
    @damiflexsolutions 2 года назад +141

    Powerful message intro - 01:01
    How to know if he truly loves you
    1. He will listen you her, by paying attention. - 11:39
    2. He is patient for sex after marriage. - 14:13
    3. He will introduce you to people of integrity that matter to him, by being proud of you. - 20:12
    4. He will be protective of you from his relatives, friends and everyone. - 24:27
    5. He will include you in his future plans. - 31:04
    6. He is willing to invest in the health/well being of the relationship. - 33:01

  • @haniebrown8876
    @haniebrown8876 Год назад +51

    Im glad I met this channel b4 I messed up things...... I've realised many red flags already. Thanks for the advice.

  • @abbagoziemsylvia6568
    @abbagoziemsylvia6568 2 года назад +89

    I'm here bursting heavy laughs and Wondering how people are not laughing at the voice change when he read the passage about Tamar and amnon. Pst K has effortless humour

  • @vimilchar
    @vimilchar 2 года назад +74

    Oh! It's so good to watch a pastor dressed plain and simple. No big rings...No big chains around the neck...Ah!...and then he still speaks truth and give advise that you can really apply...Ah!
    Praise God!!!!

    • @speranzakiragu3491
      @speranzakiragu3491 2 года назад +6

      Yes,,, but not all with big chains are false pastors,,,,,,

    • @Nurseafenomijessica
      @Nurseafenomijessica Год назад +1

      There’s nothing wrong in a pastor wearing big ring or jewelries
      What!?? Hmm abeg abeg

    • @moureenmachanwe8986
      @moureenmachanwe8986 3 месяца назад

      Are you seriously focussing on what pastors put to listen to the message.. kindly check your intentions

  • @ezinnepaul2999
    @ezinnepaul2999 2 года назад +43

    So this guy really loves me this much. Father thank you for giving me the Best gift 🎁 in the world 🌎 ☺️

  • @ruthandrew3945
    @ruthandrew3945 2 года назад +26

    Now I'm 100% sure my boyfriend truly loves me. Thank you sir 🙏

  • @PrettySarah31
    @PrettySarah31 2 года назад +36

    These Honourable Pastors make serving God soooooo beautiful. Single women please let's be wise ooo

  • @phoebeappiah1245
    @phoebeappiah1245 2 года назад +16

    I hav ever ever see any pastor who coach like this before..... he is very intelligent

  • @zonywest4262
    @zonywest4262 2 года назад +12

    Soooo True! I had an experience.... Before sleeping with this guy, I was the most beautiful woman he had ever seen, he showed me off around town etc telling me he loved me. As soon as I let my guard down!!! He got mad at me! I suddenly became short and Ugly! I was one of the worst things on the planet. 😂😂😂 I laughed my but off!!!

  • @milikamalata7650
    @milikamalata7650 Год назад +7

    You are the voice that we need in this generation Pastor Kingsley. Thank you so much for all this wisdom. Keep increasing 🙏🙏

  • @exhortationsbyeva6345
    @exhortationsbyeva6345 2 года назад +15

    Infatuation and obsessed can get mistaken for love!

  • @daramolaayomide2859
    @daramolaayomide2859 Год назад +6

    As soon as the red flag is seen runn
    True love reciprocates each other it’s not one sided

  • @ernestmulenga3890
    @ernestmulenga3890 2 года назад +36

    "I love pastor Kingsley Okonkwo so dearly deep down my heart. His teachings has really changed my life. May God keep you long sir for the sake of the next generations to come who needs to hear to this kind of wisdom. Commenting from Zambia."

  • @jessejuangwa854
    @jessejuangwa854 2 года назад +23

    Your messages have literally shaped my way of thinking sir and loving

  • @mscurvy6922
    @mscurvy6922 2 года назад +15

    Love ..
    If a man loves you ..
    Your happiness he will put first .. and show in action!
    And same for a woman !
    If not it’s not love .. but just glossed up as love ❤️!

  • @faithethomas2823
    @faithethomas2823 2 года назад +26

    Very informative, I love it. This is coming from a man, listen very carefully.

  • @nyaramakurumidze9352
    @nyaramakurumidze9352 Год назад +10

    l wish if all girls could listen to these wise words full of wisdom and build permanent homes for Christ.

  • @chituruoji8939
    @chituruoji8939 2 года назад +11

    Correct pst k. Sex confuses so many things.

  • @preciousglory6735
    @preciousglory6735 2 года назад +7

    What you are teaching us the generation our parents never teaches us this if they did .,…. God blessed your home sir

  • @Angiie._tm
    @Angiie._tm 2 месяца назад +1

    I love how we laugh while learning over here!😂😂👏🏽🔥

  • @sampsonhope8215
    @sampsonhope8215 2 года назад +6

    You're very correct pastor K, obsession is oftenly mistaken for love and that's why whatever the lady will say doesn't count,God bless you pastor K

  • @abigailojieh
    @abigailojieh 2 года назад +11

    Thank you always Pastor K and Pastor M for your teachings.They are always worth listening to.God bless you sir

  • @mirriamm.3277
    @mirriamm.3277 2 года назад +15

    Amen... getting blessed by your insights on marriage and relationship....
    God bless you Pastor K and Pastor M....I love how you serve God together

  • @wana4592
    @wana4592 2 года назад +3

    Deep truth,,,, marriage is not a private issue,,,,, very important points raised!!!
    Thank you, Pastor K

  • @tinaluyo98
    @tinaluyo98 Год назад +2

    Some truths are bitter to swallow but sweet when they get into the stomach. Thank you sir

  • @attahprosper3610
    @attahprosper3610 2 года назад +7

    You are a blessing to me daddy 💕, I'm really learning a lot

  • @rianangaemaluta
    @rianangaemaluta 2 года назад +10

    Eye opening message.. Thank you Pastor K 🙏❤️🖤💜
    The best relationship coach ever...

  • @happybutterfly7124
    @happybutterfly7124 Год назад +3

    Awesome teaching. I don't want to be adversarial, but I dated my ex-husband for 3+ years. He didn't push me to have sex with him; he simply had sex with others instead. Fathered a child; lied to me about fathering the child only to admit it 40+ years later to our children after we'd divorced.

    • @jachinmajayc445
      @jachinmajayc445 Год назад +2

      In all these things, you should marry or date a born again Christian. Anyone can pretend. And if you are not discerning, you will fall for their pretence. Important factor is to have the holy spirit.

  • @rhulanipoetryfactory7623
    @rhulanipoetryfactory7623 Год назад +5

    This is wisdom- great wisdom. My eyes are opened, thank you Pastor.

  • @bueze4016
    @bueze4016 2 года назад +10

    Thank you sir. You re a good influence for our generation.

  • @anitaboima2582
    @anitaboima2582 Год назад +3

    Thank you Lord am grateful to listen to this wonderful massage, well-done sir 👌

  • @Marie_Doresse
    @Marie_Doresse 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you Pastor K for this teaching

  • @user-od7ft8rt7t
    @user-od7ft8rt7t 6 месяцев назад +2

    The 😂voices got to me😂... but great wisdom through God's vessel Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo.

  • @uchennakennedy65
    @uchennakennedy65 Год назад +2

    Pastor k. Ur teachings are inspiring.. I got value from it.. thank you sir nd God bless you.

  • @victoriachidinma2019
    @victoriachidinma2019 Год назад +3

    I'm glad, and praise be to God I can find all these in my fiance.. we have even done introduction without sex.. some people will insist they come back from abroad, spend time with the woman probably have sex bfore doing anything...
    I'm grateful to God! He planned it!

    • @Agu-042
      @Agu-042 8 месяцев назад

      I don't think sex after introduction is bad though....it's already official nau!

  • @gemanwaneri
    @gemanwaneri 2 года назад +1

    Kia! Sir, You are so full of Wilson. More grace to you, pastor K.

  • @comfortattah3623
    @comfortattah3623 Год назад +1

    Thanks for your words of wisdom pastor

  • @faithiris9614
    @faithiris9614 2 года назад +1

    Finally am here ,I thank God

  • @Angiie._tm
    @Angiie._tm 2 месяца назад +1

    “They go dey call you our wife, they all know that you’re not the one”… “those boys are wicked” 😂😂🙌🏽

  • @maggiemkawuda5870
    @maggiemkawuda5870 2 года назад +4

    Be blessed man of God

  • @TaiwoPeterOdeh
    @TaiwoPeterOdeh 2 года назад +2

    I celebrate you Pst Kingsley

  • @zoefrancis4417
    @zoefrancis4417 2 года назад +2

    May God strengthen you Pst K.

  • @joycepatrick6862
    @joycepatrick6862 3 месяца назад

    All this is true.Thank you pastor

  • @victoriaoluwatimilehin8770
    @victoriaoluwatimilehin8770 Год назад

    Thank you pastor 😌 By God's grace, I hope to bring my future husband to you as my distance mentor when I'm ready to marry 😊

  • @ritakane2010
    @ritakane2010 11 месяцев назад +1

    Well done PK, more grace 🙏

  • @MaryOsabutey-b9g
    @MaryOsabutey-b9g Месяц назад

    This is a powerful message of wisdom

  • @dorcasiyanujesu6954
    @dorcasiyanujesu6954 2 года назад +2

    Thank you Pastor for putting us through. God bless you

  • @mihlalimirandambasane8340
    @mihlalimirandambasane8340 Год назад +1

    Wow thank you Papa this is really helping alot.💯❤️🙏🙇🙇🙇🙇we really needed this🥺

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 2 года назад +2

    Beautiful points
    Thank you Pst K

  • @citygirl237
    @citygirl237 2 года назад +8

    "The food burn" 😂😂😂

  • @Barnabas_Akinrinola
    @Barnabas_Akinrinola 2 года назад +3

    Thank you so much, Pastor K! This is the stuff to learn.

  • @classicalretroback
    @classicalretroback 2 года назад +2

    Real talk sir. You nailed it well.🎯

  • @gemanwaneri
    @gemanwaneri 2 года назад +2

    If he is hiding you, he is scamming you📌

  • @terryondecks350
    @terryondecks350 2 года назад +1

    I've been waiting for this teaching for so long.I only had short clip❤

  • @japhettonbrapade4112
    @japhettonbrapade4112 2 года назад +1

    Thank you pastor sir this is an eye opener.

  • @fatmatasesay7467
    @fatmatasesay7467 2 года назад +1

    Great speech, thank you so much sir.

  • @nyagowalavender4455
    @nyagowalavender4455 Год назад +2

    What a message. 🙏🏼

  • @chidinmaokeke9909
    @chidinmaokeke9909 2 года назад +1

    Thank u very much for the advice God bless you.

  • @borderlesstv777
    @borderlesstv777 7 месяцев назад +1

    Superb!!!!!!!!

  • @ohonbazillah4547
    @ohonbazillah4547 2 года назад

    Dear pastor, this is very interesting, thanks so much, God bless you

  • @tojuirone1997
    @tojuirone1997 2 года назад

    Always blessed by pastor K...God bless u Sir

  • @ntokotom147
    @ntokotom147 2 года назад +31

    "She thinks because she's cooking for us, we will vote her. Don't marry her" 😂😂😂😂My goodness

  • @evahhonour5008
    @evahhonour5008 Год назад

    Thank you Sir eye opening message.

  • @oluwadarasimi852
    @oluwadarasimi852 Год назад

    Thanks you so much sir
    This is really helpful

  • @serahmyls6208
    @serahmyls6208 Год назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ thanks Man of God ..be blessed 🙏🙏

  • @chinenyehappinesschidi5167
    @chinenyehappinesschidi5167 2 года назад

    Thank You So Much Sir..
    God Bless You Richly 🙏🙌

  • @edehchioma2561
    @edehchioma2561 2 года назад

    God bless you sir🙏🙏
    I’m always blessed by your words ......

  • @ebunlomooreoluwa
    @ebunlomooreoluwa Год назад

    Thanks so much daddy...

  • @chimchimo.5050
    @chimchimo.5050 Год назад

    Wow, this was very insightful 🥹👏🏾

  • @deborahakindeko2040
    @deborahakindeko2040 2 года назад

    Thank you, Pastor

  • @Nikky707
    @Nikky707 2 года назад

    Wonderful message

  • @ElizabethBimela
    @ElizabethBimela 2 года назад +2

    Thank you papa for this words of wisdom 🙏 sometimes we hardly get this thing's cuz we fail to understand actions...but actually today I'm blessed with this teachings, God bless you pastor 🙏🙌

  • @anazodoifunanyac
    @anazodoifunanyac 2 года назад

    Very educative. This video was reposted

  • @mercyn5422
    @mercyn5422 2 года назад

    Wow!!! Thank you sir

  • @helendelailomaloma6249
    @helendelailomaloma6249 Год назад

    Priceless!

  • @tojuirone1997
    @tojuirone1997 2 года назад

    Can't wait for that of the famales

  • @otobongedem9586
    @otobongedem9586 2 года назад

    Very helpful thank you

  • @ifeomadibiagwu9528
    @ifeomadibiagwu9528 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much sir. This is very helpful ❤️

  • @ufink
    @ufink Год назад +5

    So I love this teaching but the part that doesn’t feel right to me is every time he talks about Amnon and Tamar story is that he says Amnon was not a bad person because he thought he was in love. Amnon was a bad person who raped someone and it cost him his life. I don’t think that story should be told lightly.. He forced himself on her.. so I think the way he also portrays Tamar as talking so sweet and making light of it is not fair, she was probably terrified. I can appreciate the message from the story.. but that was a very sad story and should be portrayed as such.

    • @adedoyinbadejo679
      @adedoyinbadejo679 Год назад +3

      I felt exactly this way, I understand he's just trying to add humour to his preaching but this passage can never be humourous in anyway. I'd have preferred he used a "silly" voice for amnons part to portray Amnons stupidity
      A person who thinks he's In love won't even consider rape, Amnon and his friend where evil for that orchestration

  • @shedrachameachi8183
    @shedrachameachi8183 2 года назад

    Thank uh sir for this 😊😌😌😌

  • @proxpee8984
    @proxpee8984 2 года назад

    Thank you so much sir

  • @angelknight6626
    @angelknight6626 Год назад

    Alwayz love your teachings but thought you said you was gonna teach 6 each n 7 combined...I was disappointed it finished so quickly 🙄😔😉

  • @kalenuka-bestlifegeng461
    @kalenuka-bestlifegeng461 2 года назад +1

    My mum can’t wait to get to Canada oh🤣🤣🤣🤣 I understand the joke wella🤣🤣🤣

  • @lExN34
    @lExN34 3 месяца назад

    But PK 😂😂😂, The first voice change I actually thought my speaker had malfunctioned 😂🤣

  • @goodnessogbonna9851
    @goodnessogbonna9851 2 года назад

    Thank you for all you do sir
    God continue to bless you

  • @KateTriumph
    @KateTriumph 2 года назад +1

    Hello, Pastor Christopher, I ordered the A to Z of marriage for about 2 months ago but haven't received it please could you advise. Thanks and remain blessed.

  • @favourewere
    @favourewere Год назад

    This so true

  • @moeshaj.6637
    @moeshaj.6637 Год назад +1

    Loved this 😂😂

  • @davefx_
    @davefx_ 2 года назад +22

    Every fornicator is an adulterer in training!!!

  • @neroonose4585
    @neroonose4585 2 года назад +2

    The voice change to 😂😂

  • @aregbesolazainab9267
    @aregbesolazainab9267 2 года назад +1

    Ahhhhh chai…… too bitter truth 😭

  • @ambassadoremmanuel1553
    @ambassadoremmanuel1553 Год назад

    Please how dp i get the concluding part of this message because im eager to hear what he says about guys

  • @joanneclarke4226
    @joanneclarke4226 2 года назад +1

    Lol separating anxiety 😅 🙃 😬

  • @successokoro5959
    @successokoro5959 Год назад

    Is now I know am not in relationship at all 😩😩

  • @vickyneldo9994
    @vickyneldo9994 10 месяцев назад

    Well sir am feeling worse now 😂😭💔

  • @brendandong9344
    @brendandong9344 Год назад

    Good evening pastor. I'm Brenda from Cameroon. I wanted to know if the guy is supposed to have all of these qualities or just some? What if he's lacking in a few, should the lady still leave him?

    • @adedoyinbadejo679
      @adedoyinbadejo679 Год назад +1

      He should have all, these are the bare minimum if a man loves you, he must have all these qualities

    • @laraiyammah9467
      @laraiyammah9467 Год назад +1

      What is lacking now, are you ready to deal with it for the rest of your life?. Think about it

  • @kelechiprogressejike1622
    @kelechiprogressejike1622 2 года назад +2

    If a failure loves me. Does it matter. If he can be failing me. How can he be great to be the kind of man I admire. Please I don't care except its someone who inspires me. And doesn't fail . why will I want a failure to love me. God forbid.

    • @nnajichidiebere5749
      @nnajichidiebere5749 2 года назад +2

      it's like your hungry or bored

    • @liz9664
      @liz9664 2 года назад

      @@nnajichidiebere5749 Hahaha 😂

    • @billionairejumzietopbabe3304
      @billionairejumzietopbabe3304 2 года назад +2

      @@nnajichidiebere5749 I don't even understand what he is saying 🤷🤣. Hunger it is! 👌

  • @solomone94
    @solomone94 Год назад

    I show my now girlfriend to everyone 🤗

  • @christyamaso26
    @christyamaso26 2 года назад +2

    We can't marry under the chair😂