Colleen Ballinger's "Apology" Is Manipulative As It Is Musical | Body Language Analysis
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Colleen Ballinger issued an apology video unlike any that I have ever seen. Here is the body language analysis.
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'im not a groomer, Im just a loser' is SUCH a dangerous statement.
Because all groomers are losers lol so it's not the argument she really wants to make.
that is the same type of things predators on how to catch a predator say when they’re confronted. “i’m not a predator, i’m just lonely” or “i’m just stupid” it is VERY dangerous.
Like dw girl, you can be both! Don't sell yourself short🥰
Also those things aren’t mutually exclusive. She’s definitely both.
@@feedmeastraycat8247right that’s exactly what I thought of . I’ve watched so many of those ep and when they ask why they say because I am a loser.
It's actually an ANTI-apology letter. She's trying to convince us that she SHOULDN'T apologize and that WE are the toxic ones. Without bringing up one tangible defense.
good point
And it has backfired on her 1000 percent!!!! She might become the most parodied online tuber of all time.
Exactly this point!
Well the internet is great at taking thing out of context and out of proportion! Yes the internet is very toxic (the people living for drama are many times toxic and unfair).
@@inesribeiro2863what exactly are we taking out of context? colleen asking to see pics of a minor’s ass? or her spreading a fan’s legs on stage and publicly humiliating her? or maybe youre referring to when she asked for details about her fan’s periods? because there’s photographic evidence of all of that, so i dont know what we would be blowing out of proportion when we’re just observing what happened.
This video brought me back to a quote from Instagram I saw like a year ago.
“A narcissists mindset.”
“That didn’t happen, and if it did, it wasn’t that bad and if it was, it’s not a big deal, and if it is, I didn’t mean to do it, and if I did, it was your fault.”
Pretty much sums up the entirety of it.
Exactly!
i thought of that too!! was scrolling instagram a couple days ago and saw a reel with that quote!
This.
Is generally called "the narcissists prayer."
@@raven3moonI thought it was called the narcissist chant that explains why I couldn't find the quote.
"I would never make a mistake like that"
Y'know guys, maybe she's right. Who hasn't tripped and accidentally found themselves in a group chat with a ton of kids and started asking them their fav sex positions and whether they're virgins? Who hasn't slipped and convinced a 9 year old to put his hand down their pants? Who hasn't fallen and sent their underwear through the mail to a 13 year old?
How can we blame her for such rookie mistakes?
Sadly society brushed under the rug when popexfrancis covered up abuse, supported cardinal Wuerl and other priests who shielded predators. N.Galilea wrote the investigation
Oh my f-ing god, the more i learn about this creature the more repulsed i am getting
“Oops, I tripped and mailed lingerie across the world to a minor”.
"oops, I tripped and spread a girl's leg on stage and called it a fart joke. She was even in a loose romper? OOPSIE!"
''Oops, I accidentally sent someone's nudes to minors and made fun of their body, whoopsie-daisy!''
This whole video just gives me the vibes of when a parent is like "well I guess I'm just a HORRIBLE parent then"
was literally thinking that
It’s exactly what this is.
YES FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT, SHE SOUNDS JUST LIKE MY MOM WHENEVER I CALL HER OUT ON ANYTHING THANK YOUUUUU
YES! Felt the exact same way.
Gives me the vibes of petty middle school drama lol
She’s so smug about it. So much arrogance to take this approach. I can’t believe people are still standing up for her and on her side.
RIGHT!!! This was basically a BIG F OFF. To the victims AND the folks who use to be fans and are now sick of her behavior.
Same! So smug and says there's gaps and all this stuff. Where colleen? She shows nothing just is being nasty
@@Idontwant1"f me right" yes.......????
@@rachaelford5525
Yess! Please Colleen show where the victims are lying. Where??? When “Miranda” spread a 15 year olds legs open on stage while she was in a dress? Is that the lie??? Because I saw the proof in that video. Or was it Adam who showed the screenshots of the conversations he had with her. No that’s not it EITHER. Or how about the messages Colleen sent to Kodee to discredit Adam and make him look like a liar and a hypocrite. No that’s not it either. Because even though Kodee is a horrible person herself. At least she finally proved that Adam wasn’t lying. In the conversations between Colleen and Kodee. So dope I see solid proof that all the allegations are true. Where’s the proof it’s lies and manipulation. The only manipulation is from Colleen trying to convince the minions she’s a good person.
Agreed! That song is so self-pitying and smug, makes my skin crawl
“You’re all so perfect and would never would make a mistake like that!”
Girl we don’t accidentally trip, fall, and groom minors!!
That awkward moment when you accidentally sit on your phone and hit the button to mail your underwear to some kid in Ireland
"Aw man; I walked into a school nude - again! How does this keep happen to me? 🥺"
Hate it when I accidentally butt dial the military and put an air strike on Georgia
Absolutely hate it when I accidentally make a bomb. Oopsie
IKR
_As a mother and a grandmother, I have only one simple little question to ask Colleen: Is she OK if people did the same stunts on scene like she did, with her own kids participating.. ?_
I think we probably don't want to hear that answer.
The thing is, Adams mother told her the exact same thing
And she went aggressive and said: DON'T BRING MY SON INTO YOUR "DRAMA" so quick
Thee hipocrisy is so loud
@@Isabella-vx3bc that response is quietly very telling. Colleen knows full well that it's disgusting and inappropriate if she's so horrified at the suggestion the same could happen to her own kid.
What a *fantastic* question.
Answer:
she's in photos making sexual/suggestive poses over and beside under-aged family members.
Thinks doing the bad thing is funny/comedy because its bad and shocking. Has no care or concern to the harm it can cause. That's everyone elses problem for getting bent out of shape over a "joke".
to such a person, intentions absolve guilt if no harm was intended.
This was not an apology video, it was a justification video
I don't think there was a single genuine apology in 10 minutes of this godawfully twee nightmare.
@@the.seagull.35maybe an undercurrent of “I’m sorry you feel that way” (which is already insulting) and even that is implied
@@the.seagull.35she only does the stupid, "did I do some bad things? Yes" bit that abusers do
She basically said "yeah I did do this" instead of denying the allegations, she was agreeing with them.
@@JDM-is-my-name yeah you're right. Everything she did wrong was minimized or excused. She blamed everything on everyone else, like the parents of the kids who watch her videos. Meanwhile she painted herself as the innocent victim of a mob mentality. She's just a kind soul who's been deeply wounded by this cruel world, and she needs our care and support. But she never said a single word to the people who were genuinely hurt by her. Barely even an "I'm sorry you feel that way". She had no compassion for anyone except herself.
Its actually insane how many red flags there are in this one video.
SHE is disappointed in US, that’s the vibe I got. Like she’s scolding us. It’s wild.
Of course she's scolding us. Because her world revolves around her. Knowing people like her when I was a kid, Colleen never grew up and preyed on kids because of it. Her entire character was childish and disturbed, behaving in ways that in your teens you realise were wrong. She'll never take accountability because to her she did an "Oopsie" a long time ago.
Is it fair to say that the lip compressions are an actor's attempt at "a brave smile"?
Like she wants us to believe that she is holding back her righteous indignation. Like she's being so very patient with all of us.
But it's all an act. She isn't really indignant. She's really scared.
same tho…… shes like “how dare u find out i did that”
@@mamawrayI’m not sure it’s as clean cut at that; the deception likely runs deep enough that she’s convinced herself that she’s angry and doesn’t know she’s actually scared of accountability.
Like the condescension and self righteousness is HORRID🫣 it’s a train alright…. A TRAINWRECK
Even if she legitimately didn’t know she mostly had kids for fans, she sure as hell would’ve figured it out by the first 100 shows
Not to mention the fact that she would repeatedly call up CHILDREN from the audience to do wildly inappropriate things with them. I'm disgusted with her, but I'm also disgusted with. all the parents who laughed at the things she did and didn't try to stop it! It's vile.
@@lilacfantasy4Yeah and people use the fact that the parents didn't care as an excuse for Colleen, it makes me sick.
Watch the videos about her children book, she would tell you it's not for children, but it sure it's marketed as such
The content is horrifying
Not to mention her show on Netflix is rated PG, even though it's crawling with suggestive humor and has an implied incestuous relationship between Miranda and her uncle 🤢
@@Isabella-vx3bc BookS. Plural.
Can you imagine if we pretended you could fob off crimes based on feelings?
"I'm not a murderer I just get angry"
"I'm not a sexual assaulter I'm just horny"
"I'm not an armed robber, I'm just hungry"
"it was forgery, I was just greedy"
"it wasn't kidnapping or slavery, I'm just lazy"
“I’m not a mass shooter, I’m just the school loser” - Definitive proof you can be both a “groomer” and a “loser”
This apology feels more like a lecture from a passive aggressive preschool teacher.
That is the point. This isn't for the adults of the internet, it's for her impressionable child/young teen audience. This is just another tactic.
Don’t let her around the kids though
I also hate the “little bony back” part. I think she is highly aware she is very thin and uses that as manipulation like “I’m so little, I’m incapable of doing harm. Am so smol uwu.” It’s so toxic in SO many ways.
theory is that was a dig at Trisha...
@@AdrienneZazulak the prevailing theory I've seen is that this was an act of body checking and that Colleen has been hiding struggles with an ED. She IS quite bony...
@@Kiss_My_Aspergers pretty sure she was open about her struggle with food though. But that does make sense
@@AdrienneZazulakAdam McIntyre brings up that she used that line because she body checked him and everyone else around her because she didn’t like anyone else that wasn’t skinny like her.
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I know it’s a very tiny detail but the “bony little back” line with her posture enhancing her thinness just reminded me that she was accused of body shaming a heavier women at one point. I can totally forgive that (even as an overweight woman myself) but the fact that she’s using her thinness to make us feel more sorry for her (like she needs to be protected from the “haters”) really gets under my skin. She has to be held accountable and find a different career path that doesn’t involve power and heavy influence over minors. Ooof this is a rough one to sit through. I send my best to those hurt by her actions over all these years. Never blame yourself for her manipulation. ❤
this brings me to the fact that colleen in the past would take trisha paytas onlyfans content, send it to her fans, and make fun of her with them.
so she stole protected, explicit content, shared that content unsolicited with minors, and then continued to then body shame her and make fun of her.
absolutely disgusting behavior.
She’s quoted saying. “I know it’s bad but I’m obsessed with thinness. Like sickly thin people.”
shes obsessed with being skinny, its honestly so weird.
Adam also shared that Colleen would only compliment him in pictures if he was skinny, like “omg your legs are so skinny” stuff like that. He said that it’s caused him (and I believe others) to develop severe body image issues and issues surrounding food. Adam said that he spent years trying to replicate his 15 year old body and still struggles with it a lot now. I wonder if those accusations is why she said the line about her “bony little back” 🤔
@@kylie9447 it almost made me feel like it was a direct jab at Adam...
And couldn't help but remember this is actually a common trait among female p**ophiles
They like to have an almost prepubescent body
I'm not saying that's what she is but... Considering the grooming and the body checking on Adam-
I don't know this makes me so uncomfortable
But also from a manipulation standpoint
It's a look at me I'm so tiny and defenseless... I could never abuse I mean I am such a tiny woman
Don't you want to protect me?
Colleen’s ‘apology’ video just goes to prove that over the last 10+ years, she’s learnt absolutely nothing and that my toenails have grown more than she ever has
"I'm not a groomer I'm just a loser" is an insanely dangerous concept to put out into the world. Guess what colleen? All groomers are losers. They're usually not some scary psychopathic masterminds like the stereotypes in horror movies, they are embarrassing little losers and are shockingly bad at hiding their manipulation- it's just that children can't see through that because they are *children*. You don't have to be a mastermind to manipulate children, it is incredibly easy that's why a loser can do that and all these groomers are usually losers. People don't understand that grooming doesn't look like some shocking spectacularly mastery of manipulation, it's just a weird loser adult talking to children inappropriately. And groomers can so perfectly hide behind that big scary manipulator stereotype "see I'm not like that I'm not a mastermind I couldn't be a groomer" yes you could and you are. This is exactly what grooming is.
Imagine if Larry Nassar sang “I’m not a p€dophil€, I’m a doctor … it was all medically standard practice and if it wasn’t, then it was the parents fault for choosing me when I endeared myself to their children in a cruel society”
This is absolutely 💯. Thank you for taking the time to write it out. Grooming is absolutely loser behavior, but loser behavior isn't innocent.
💯
👏👏👏
This should be posted on her video .. but she and her team are deleting comments .. not sure it would ever get viewed. But this is 💯spot on!
even without any body language analysis knowledge her video comes off so, SO angry and manipulative, its UNREAL.
The outro is so damning. I wouldn't have used that much venom even in an intimate 1:1 convo anymore unless I really hated the person lol
honestly! and she is so contradictory. first it’s all “gossip/rumours” then it’s “i took accountability” and THEN “it was just a mistake”. this woman needs help, how does she still have supporters?? i don’t understand this.
@@ari9352Cuz all her supporters are children😭
The TYPICAL "oh so I'm just a bad person right?? Well fck me then" of a narcissist
@@hashtagmateYEP.
She has ALWAYS said her live shows are for ALL AGES. She would make jokes for kids and then make sexual innuendos and hope that it goes over the kids heads.
NOW she's claiming it's PG13.
She's doing that to cover her ass. But it's a lie.
But also, she thinks it’s okay to spread the legs of 13 year olds? Or send lingerie to 13 year olds? If it’s PG-13, that’s still a huge problem lol.
Not to mention her Netflix show is not PG-13, it’s just PG!
the fact that she claims the sexual jokes are subtle and will go over the kids heads is ridiculous because they're not subtle at all. its like half of her "humour". half of it isn't even innuendos, although she likes to think so, it's just direct references to sex or sexuap topics.
@@justarandomperson331I mean there she was, on stage, making children dig through her pants so
Her tone here shifts from "I did nothing wrong," to, "This is all your fault- look what you made me do."
She also says "I did nothing wrong," and then, "I do a lot of things wrong, but I'm not bad for it".
That's called DARVO.
“That didn’t happen, and if it did, it wasn’t that bad and if it was, it’s not a big deal, and if it is, I didn’t mean to do it, and if I did, it was your fault.”
Her “fart joke” was so horrific. She took a minor on stage for a yoga challenge. The girl was wearing a dress and laying on her back. Colleen took her legs up in the air and spread them, not caring if she exposed her and the girl stated she was wildly uncomfortable and felt as helpless as she had during her own prior SA experience. Colleen is disgusting to just call it a “fart joke”.
Not to mention the girl was wearing a loose romper which revealed her undergarments to everyone when her legs were spread 😳
Like... you can see the spandex she was wearing underneath when she stands up in the vid.
That is definitely the worst part of the song, in my opinion. I can understand how a person may struggle to "get" the grooming stuff and why it's wrong, but I find it hard to understand how your reaction to that girl's video is "it was a fart joke relax sheesh" as opposed to the "Oh my god I am so sorry that you felt violated!". Acknowledging her experience doesn't automatically cast blame on you, unless you are very selfish and insecure. You can validate their experience, without somehow admitting to malicious intentions. So that one line to me speaks the most to her lack of empathy for others.
_As a mother and a grandmother, I have only one simple little question to ask Colleen: Is she OK if people did the same stunts on scene like she did, WITH HER OWN KIDS AS PARTICIPANTS...?_
Why isn’t she arrested by now?!!
If I'm not wrong, the girl also shared how after the show, GROWN MEN kept staring at her. So horrifying. Colloser is truly despicable.
The fact that she cries at the drop of a hat in her vlogs but didn't shed a single tear...she genuinely doesn't think that she did anything wrong. She's just playing the pity card and getting extremely defensive
This is spot on, she should really see a therapist
@@milahofstein13sad thing is, she already has one. They aren’t making much progress I guess
I thought about this too!
she is more than likely a narcissist. They lack empathy and crave sympathy
@@milahofstein13 She already does. Narcissists are usually not helped by therapy unfortunately, because they're incapable of self-reflection. They just end up manipulating their therapist.
As someone that was sexually abused by a narcissist, this video she made triggered me so much. Not a single apology made, completely tried to fault everyone that spoke up and out about her actions. This song sounds like someone that’s guilty and is trying desperately to convince everyone that she’s not. Everything she said is fake, she’s not sorry, she’s just upset that it’s all coming out now. It makes me sick to my freakin stomach. I never liked her to begin with and always felt like something was off. Now I see why.
Yeah I can relate to you.
The man who abused me as a kid put all the blame
On me and and my family and acted like we were the bad guys when my family decided they wanted nothing to do with him. Her attitude angers me too.
Colleen did one of the best things she could. She did the apology SO BADLY, that even people who would gave her a benefit of the doubt are now conviced, she did it all..
Well, she exposed herself with trying to camouflage it all.
People still defend her though.... i mean sure she is mentally ill, but for moms to defend her behaviour😰😢 keeps me up at night
@@MsChurromaiz I can forgive kids who believe her because, well, she litterally has a history of manipulating her younger audience. But anyone over 18 ? Nah.
“I made a fart joke.” Completely minimizing the trauma that young lady felt/feels. Reducing her fear, embarrassment, sense of betrayal to “hey, I didn’t *mean* any harm so I don’t have to acknowledge that I caused any.” while accusing others of not taking accountability. My god. Is this narcissistic wounding?
Yea for real. Playing an upbeat quirky little ukulele song that completely minimizes and downplays all the hurtful/damaging things she did... Calling it all "lies, rumours, gossip, manipulation"... While also sprinkling in CLASSIC manipulation like "oh, I'm sorry, I didn't realize you were all perfect, go ahead and criticize me" (IM NOT EVEN PARAPHRASING, LIKE HOLY SHIT LMAO) and self-victimization about how she's "not going to survive" and "didn't deserve to die" and how her career and reputation are being ruined with these LiEs.... Also the whole fkn encore bit at the end where she explains to us how "sometimes people make a mistake but they're still not a terrible person" in a really condescending way, AGAIN just reducing a repeated malicious pattern of behaviour to "a mistake" and asserting that she is still "a good person" (protip - if you're actually a good person you won't need to aggressively condescendingly INSIST that you're a good person lmao)... The whole thing just screams narcissist at every turn
Adding on to your comment- Colleen also made it sound like it was a one time “joke”. This was a bit on her tour, so she did that to a kid at every show. Becky shared her feelings/experience publicly because the clip she was in went viral without consent. Colleen is so insanely unhinged - that part of her rebuttal song upset me the most
@@madison77621I wonder if TMZ having an article framed that way helped her come up with that line. Swoop talked about it in her video.
Yep, typical. That's my dad too: "I didn't mean to hurt anyone so if you are hurt(/sad/angry) that's a you-problem, meanwhile crossing everyone's boundaries.
What is she referring to when she said she “made a fart joke” ? I never really watched her.
I’m not a body language expert, but I still can literally see in your eyes how your soul is withering when you watch her video.
And if you look closely in the background of Colleen's footage you can very faintly see my soul waving goodbye
Legit I'm seeing Observe be like nooooopeeee so early lmfao
Was going to say this! 😂 Lmao rip
Not sure if it's just me but I can hear it in his voice too
Observe looks like he's about to cry and I'm 2 minutes in
“at least you’re having fun” of course! that’s why Adam was in tears watching Kodee’s video resurfacing some of the terrible things Colleen did to him. reliving trauma is so much fun!
was it the video of him watching the livestream?
This frail woman is not living in reality. Who addresses such serious allegations this way? What in the WORLD?! She’s a clown and a creep and needs to stay away from all kids.
excuse you, shes boney not frail
What would u say if I told you she has become a mom?
Its funny how she sings about "Manipulation Station" while literally trying to manipulate us into pitying her and feeling bad for holding her accountable.
She knows she won’t get canceled without her consent. This will blow over. So she’s just trying to be viral and make bank off of it. That’s why she did this.
Disgusting.
She invented manipulation station 😂
The problem is if she's NOT an intentional manipulator, she DEFINITELY lacks self awareness. And that's why she did what she did. Most kids, KIDS, make the mistakes she made, making jokes and asking friends to do weird things. But by 16 you realise you were wrong. Colleen never grew up.
I don’t think she’s trying to make us feel bad for her. What she’s singing is kinda right. No matter what apology video she makes and no matter how many times she takes accountability, literally nobody will accept it. The only thing they’ll accept is seeing her vanish from the internet for good.
@@cresselia67 she hasn’t even made an effort to apologize in the first place😂 she continues to call hardcore evidence “lies, and toxic gossip trains” and maybe her best choice IS to vanish off the internet because look at what she’s done to all of those kids? She doesn’t deserve to have an apology accepted nor has she made an effort to a thoughtful apology
I’m kinda living for everyone mocking her with their own instruments 😭 lmao
It’s so funny😭😭😭
Thinking about that kid on tiktok who broke a ukelele over his knee like a stick
My favorite tiktok is a kid who started a beat and went:
"Manslaughter, man's laughter is what I call it
When I drove drunk, huh I don't recall it"
Busted out laughing
Mama Doctor Jones did one today and I actually choked. The sheer scope of how many content creators are mad might be setting a record.
@@reiniamajiki4179nah thats FOUL 💀💀
One part that got me is where she starts to sound really genuine then deliberately cuts herself off and says "what? Oh, you don't care..." and continues on to manipulate the situation to "im the victim, I did nothing wrong" she'd fake thought this entire excuse video.
Contempt is the only genuine feeling a narcissistic person can have.
The fact she legitimatized this in her head tells me all I need to know
Still wonder if we of her young fan followers gave the rhyme of lyrics. Bet they were not paid, while she monitizes off of their lyrics and help.
I’m wondering if it was all planned by her team. Look like you’re losing your mind and breaking down and people will start feeling bad for you
She probably even rehearsed it
@@246kissesI don’t think so, her crisis pr team prob fired her as a client after she made this. A crisis pr team would’ve told her to either keep silent and let it blow over OR make a very “genuine” heartfelt apology for her behavior.
i know this is about colleen's body language but oh my god the amount of uncomfortable Logan is expressing is too funny, I cant stop laughing. The cringe factor is real.
It was the little dance he did for me 😂
I want him to do a video on his reaction to this and analyzing his body language 😅
He’s really showing us how to read body language in a new way 🤣
Oh man, I started laughing since the beginning of the video seeing him with his little guitar 😂
@@zelene5572totally agree
"I would never make a mistake like that" "I didn't realize that all of you were perfect"
You know what? You're right. I'm not perfect. However, what I can confidently say is that I am not guilty of is GROOMING CHILDREN or SEXUALLY HARASSING CHILDREN. So you know what... I will cast a stone.
The fact she can't even see her wrongs is really scary when her wrongs involve children and sexually exploiting children. She needs to be in jail
"I didn't do those things, but if I did it was a mistake, but if it wasn't a mistake I didn't have bad intentions, but even if I did all those things I'm still a good person."
As a survivor this makes my blood boil.
Exactly. Doing everything besides taking accountability. I know people this way in my own personal life… it truly is my biggest pet peeve and always will be :(
if the police hadn’t made sure we wouldn’t contact each other anymore, if my abuser had said something like this, i would’ve flipped the fuck out. i’m not violent at all, but i would climb over a table and claw his throat and eyes out 😒🙄
Its highly Narcissistic that's for sure.
This is so well said.
The narcissist prayer. It didn't happen, and if it did it wasn't that bad, and if it was it's not a big deal, and if it is it wasn't my fault, and if it was I didn't mean it, and if I did you deserved it
She comes off as very defensive, narcissistic and manipulative
12:47 Well... at least she knew it too.
She's aware of that
@@JimmyTheTurtle-hz3kq ah but idk if they all deserve condemnation for that. They're mainly just fans who grew up watching her videos. A lot of them are pretty young and they're susceptible to her leading them astray.
It comes off as a narcissist getting a narcissistic injury for suuure you’re totally right
@@Binstabihcan we not throw these clinical terms around so loosely?
We all need to collectively stop calling her video an apology video, because it wasnt. Also i dont think ive ever seen you so shaken up by a video youve analyzed, i hope you are okay.
Lmao he's fine.
My favorite part is how she says her team advised her not to come online and say what SHE wants to say...implying that what she had to say would be b.s. and after seeing her video, I can see why they didn't want her to say what she wanted to say
The amount of times I've had to suffer this song in order to enjoy people's reactions... bittersweet.
I keep having to listen to other earworm songs to make sure her's doesn't get stuck in my head
thats so real.. ive watched an unhealthy amount of reactions/commentary to this
Same😂😢
I’ve fallen down a rabbit hole of AI voice covers of the song and now I can’t stop.
@@JokerFan-hj4iv oh Lord, those exist?? I’ve had a toxic gossip train cleanse for the past day or two. 😂
Grooming aside, this will hit home to anyone who has ever been abused.
> Yeah I abused you but you called me out for it and it made me sad so who's the real bad guy here?
> (Literally has evidence against them) "You're just trying to ruin my reputation!!!"
> "Oh right, all of you are perfect, none of you make mistakes that ruin someone's entire life!"
> I "might" admit my mistakes but only if you ask nicely
Yep, this is like a TEXTBOOK case of manipulative and abusive bs. Heard it too many times to have troubles recognizing it.
Plus the part where she calls out people who say she's gaslighting to try and deflect :/
It reminds me of those psychology videos " X signs you're in a toxic relationship", not even only romantic ones, friendship or family based as well.
Exactly. It has hit home for many of us, "Oh I recognize this." People who don't understand our point of view and experiences, and dismiss them, are also dangerous. Hope none of them have kids .... But of course they do, and she does too.
@@notCynicalReally She would'a been better off never even saying that part (I mean, really, she would'a been better off never posting that video), because despite her mocking tone, she actually called herself out with that part. She IS gaslighting and manipulating. She IS a narcissist.
The problem is no one is accusing her of grooming the children for sexual favors but she absolutely was grooming them to be super fans who will defend her from the “haters” and arguably to even provide her with narcissistic supply as well.
I think the most impressive thing about this apology is how it has broken so many people mentally. It's like... How do I even respond to someone who responds to these kind of allegations with a *ukelele?* Where do we even start unpacking this, and Jesus, is that my brain melting out of my ear?
Am I the only one who can’t stop noticing how empty and evil her eyes are
I have trouble watching her video because her face makes me uncomfortable. 😭 I have to look away most of the time.
same! i used to watch her videos but her eyes in that video are especially sinister 😭😭
Yeah... just hollow and unblinking
Literally am watching this late and want to tape half of my screen because her face freeaaks me out
Also because of the filter, it makes her look very uncanny valley
She doesn't say she's sad that some of her fans were betrayed, she says she's sad that some of her fans FEEL betrayed. Worst way to not acknowledge the impact of one's actions.
And she said “sad” she didn’t even say “sorry”
Aw but guize, she said it wasn’t her “INTENTION to manipulate”
Imagine if intentions totally absolving the individual’s personal responsibility… I didn’t INTEND to kill them officer… I just pushed them off a cliff and shot them on the way down, I didn’t KNOW it would KILL them…
There was no way she didn’t know, she was in the room with her brother being creepier than her to HER children fans and said nothing to protect/defend them from him. She’s okay with much worse, if she doesn’t think any of this is bad enough to take action on.
Legitimately the "Im sorry you feel that way" apology.
@@healgoth I couldn't have said it better.
My mother said basically the same thing to me after I wrote to her that I didn't trust her.
Colleen gives me the same vibes of "how dare you tell me that I did something?! You must just not be in control of YOUR feelings!!!"
something that makes me so incredibly mad is her usage of the word "mistake" to allude to her literal grooming of minors. that's called a crime that leaves the victim scarred and humiliated that you committed on multiple occasions, not a "mistake", Colleen.
Everytime she says accountability i think of Inigo Montoya. "You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means."
The fact that she calls the accusations “entertainment “ is so gross. Nothing about child grooming is entertaining it’s disgusting.
What is the new definition of grooming, please. I understand that the English language is constantly changing, so I am just trying to keep up.
@stevnated Grooming is when someone builds a relationship, trust and emotional connection with a child or young person so they can manipulate, exploit and abuse them.
@@tynealsummerell8282 To add onto this, the relationship can be used and the minor manipulated in ANYWAY, not only sexually. So whilst we don't have enough evidence she groomed children for sexual purposes (although her creepiness in the group chats makes me worry), she has definitely groomed minors into performing free labour for her.
She is referring to how other people are treating it. Many people are making memes and jokes about the situations in video comments, on Twitter, on Tiktok, on Reddit, etc. A lot of people are finding it entertaining.
Obviously this is the worst apology on planet earth but can we also please talk about how excruciatingly CRINGY it was to watch through this? What grown adult in their right mind thinks this is acceptable? None, that's the answer.
Such bad 2nd hand embarrassment 😣
real this is so cringe 😭
She's 35 and acting like this... how embarrassing.
Some brainwash idiot making death treats to the victims, it’s so disgusting
Right?! The minute her fingers touched the cords I exit the video 😂 it was too much.
Even calling her actions "mistakes" is a form of manipulation, because it implies they were unintentional.
I think a lot of people use the word "mistake" when what they mean is "blunder." For example, in chess, if you tip your king over with your elbow while hitting the time clock, that's a mistake, and nobody will take that as a real surrender. If you make a move that results in you quickly getting checkmated, that's a blunder, and that loss is all yours. Mistakes are unintended actions; blunders are intentional actions with unintended consequences.
if she's trying to seem upset and sad, all that's coming through is anger and defensiveness
her trying to be like “all i did was make a fart joke!” makes me so angry bc she KNOWS she’s purposely misrepresenting what she actually did in an effort to manipulate those that don’t know the whole story.
right??? like people aren't upset about the fart joke they're upset that she put a young fan in a dangerous situation without any thought to provide help or safety to that fan after putting her in that situation
Just like she did in her “apology” from three years ago when she edited the live stream to make it seem like Adam just asked for the panties and not that she OFFERED THEM
I don't even know what fart joke she's talking about 🙄
@@LovelyComplex14 ruclips.net/video/EYmqRyUs13I/видео.html
@@LovelyComplex14 the fart joke everyone is referring to is that during her show on tour she brings an audience member up to the stage to do a "yoga challenge" thing. what that entails is that the audience member gets brought up on stage, lays on their back, and colleen as miranda is above them and spreads their legs open as wide as they can go. after a point with their legs apart a fart noise gets made, miranda backs away and lets go of the legs looking disgusted, and the audience member gets back up and goes back to their spot in the audience while the rest of the audience are all laughing at them.
what happened in this specific instance that we are all mad about is that one of the people brought on stage was a 16 year old girl wearing a short, flow-y romper and had her legs spread open in front of the entire audience to the point where the flow-y romper moved as one would expect that type of fabric to and exposed the spandex shorts the young girl was wearing underneath her romper to the entire audience. had this young girl not been wearing spandex, her underwear, or worse, would have been exposed to the entire audience for laughs because colleen chose to still bring her on stage even after realizing this audience member wasn't wearing pants.
this entire bit still isn't great doing to a kid no matter what but had the audience member been wearing actual pants so that they wouldn't have to worry about their clothing riding up or anything then it would have been a slightly less bad situation, still bad tho. hope this helped provide some clarity?
The way she softens her voice and facial expressions when she talks about how much she “loves” her fans is so creepy. And mentioning death threats that had nothing to do with her victims is manipulative as hell. Adam just had to file restraining orders on her fans.
poor little me voice
Frrrrr
@@nomadichomebody4230 also her mentioning how little she is while suggesting they’re just attacking her, mixed with how proud she is of being skinny and hates bigger bodies is worth a psychiatric dissertation
What I find interesting about her "I'm not a groomer I'm just a loser" line is if you watch the to catch a predator videos when those guys are confronted and asked why are you doing this sooooo many of them say "cause I'm a loser".
That's what I've been saying!!! If a man did one single thing of all the things she did, he would be in jail.
And I'm saying this as a woman: where's the justice???
She is literally broadcasting her narcissism so loudly, no one can miss it 😂
The way she says she was messaging minors “but not in a creepy sorta way”
Meanwhile Colleen was asking minors what their favorite sex positions were.
The only one manipulating is you Colleen !!
Shit. I was wondering what she did that was this bad.
Right? She acts like she's the weird aunt of the family.... like NO!!! My aunties don't ask me what my favorite sex position is OR go into detail about our periods!!! She's unhinged, out of touch, and she thinks the kids will always be there to make her money-back again. Remain relevant somewhat. I wonder what Disney is gonna do about her cameo in Wreck it Ralph 2....
She asked kids for butt pics too
ALSO both Colleen and her best friend Kory sent porn to minors on separate occasions, which is an actual federal crime!
@@jadeeliss1370for real??
“Ugh, I would never make a mistake like that!”
Yeah, it’s super duper easy to not message and inappropriately communicate with minors?! You in fact really have to go out of your way to do that, ma’am
For real, in what universe is what she did «a mistake»? «Oopsie, I asked a child to send me pictures of their butt». It’s a pretty active choice and as a grown woman she definitely knew it was wrong.
For YEARS
Right? I'm a year older than her and I can confidently say that I have never had inappropriate chats with minors, sent them explicit material or let them grab food out of my pants. I also never let minors work for me for free or used them as my therapists. Those behaviors aren't that hard to avoid, Colleen.
Yeah, I mean sending lingerie to a minor is a totally easy mistake to make for sure 👍👍
@@h1ghrothgarrher cat probably just stepped on her keyboard 💀
It feels like she's throwing every abusive/manipulative tactic at the wall and hoping somthing will stick and it's equally horrifying and hilarious
I have a feeling like Colleen have lived through something horrible in her childhood (too many uncle and x-rated jokes, unhealthy behaviour with kids in general) and she has a narcissistic personality disorder or something. This disorder makes you a chameleon with excellent abilities to adapt when needed, very charming (to easily get your way), to create and wear appropriate masks, but without even a bit of empathy and very low levels of natural hormones of happiness and satisfaction, which makes you a very dangerous person. It also affects your brain: areas that are responsible for feeling guilt, sympathy, remorse and those that enable you to analyse your behaviour, they are not developed at all! That's why they act so strange. Also their memory alters what really happened, they twist the reality in their mind and truly believe they are innocent, and that's why they are so good at gaslighting - they really believe what they say, and they enjoy hurting people and only accept unconditional admiration. There's so much more about this disorder, and I really see it in Colleen. She doesn't think she's guilty or did something wrong, she thinks people just despise her for fun (she sees it as the only probable reason because it's what she feels towards everyone and what she does). Also Miranda is a way for her not to wear her 'appropriate' mask sometimes and openly be disgusting to people. Public opinion is very important for her as for all narcissists, and right now she feels extreme pain because she's been exposed and caught, but the pain is because people hate her and don't admire her anymore. She is really unhealthy, and trying to communicate with her as with a healthy person will not work. That doesn't excuse her as well. She needs help.
Well said💯
But why didn’t her husband ever intervene? He seems like a perfectly normal person.
@Kennylovessandwiches because she's a pro at what she does. Manipulation and gaslighting which is much easier to do to people who love you unconditionally.
You hit it with this one. I'd say you're spot on. And her body issues are also a tell-tale sign of something that happened in her past as well.
You can only help someone who is willing to change and be helped, and she has rather spectacularly showed she has no interest in either. It's compassionate of you to look deeper and try to understand why she's like this but I think that help is better given to her victims, the people who actually think and care about others and who were really hurt by her. She may have been hurt as a child but as an adult she is still responsible for her own choices. Her downfall is of her own making and completely deserved. Save your kindness for the brave young people like Adam who took a risk and came forward with organized facts to expose her for the monster she has become so no one else will fall for her lies and be hurt by her again. Give them your support so they know they are heard and to show society victims can be heard.
The fact that she blames kids watching her content on their parents not paying attention is DEMONIC. She SOUGHT OUT a child audience and molded them to go to war for her! Befriended them! Kept them close!
And Miranda sings has been on RUclips kids
Her channel is literally created for a younger audience...
I don't understand how anyone can believe otherwise.
She's obnoxious as all hell, dresses like a literal clown for everyone
and says funky replacement words as if she's talking to a child.
It isn't looking good for her when the news stations are reporting.
Because the way it looks to anyone who was blessed with eyes -
A. Made a channel directed at children.
B. Sexually solicited children through messengers on social media.
C. Literally left the group chats only a month or so ago, she's 36!!!
It is on both YT kids and Netflix kids as of today. She lied.
Yea legit, love how she says her content and shows are PG 13 but most of things she would do was very over sexual and I wouldn’t say suitable for 13+ more like 18+ , just in my opinion and the fact she blames the parents… she did look for kids to befriend and actively used them for work and to fully groom them, doesn’t have to be sexual grooming but it was grooming. Disgusting woman honestly.
To a certain extent yes it is on the parents HOWEVER she acts like she didn’t know her audience was mainly children even though the jokes are catered to them and she has done meet and greets she clearly knows her content is for kids so she needs to take responsibility for her actions as well just because it’s for the parents to decide doesn’t mean you should just act absolutely disgusting
Colleen : "I used to message my fans, but not in a creepy way"
Also Colleen : DMs weenies "Are you a virgin", "What's your fav position"
“Pics adam” * IMMEDIATELY after he said something about his a$$ looking good *
Sure though, current Colleen shouldn’t have to honestly confront why on Gaia’s green Earth ~30 year old her said THAT
EDIT: AND sent her panties and bra to that SAME someone half her age and in a fan groupchat
Well technically those questions were to Adam, just in the weenies group chat, so the questions in front of others
Colleen: I stand up for woman
Also Colleen: it was a fart joke!!
Showed her true colors with this song.
she also sent an underwear to a 13-year-old fan. she's insane oml
@@_straubryreally,??! Omfg
I’m not sure you knew the details about the “fart joke” she brings up, it was her at a live show pulling a 16 year old girl in a dress on stage to have her lay on her back while Colleen spread her legs open to do “yoga” and then played a fart track to embarrass her. She’s really downplaying exactly what happened that everyone is actually mad about
Honestly she should just not have mentioned that at all because that made things worse
My stepdad always tell me “it doesn’t matter what you meant, it’s what was perceived that matters.” in regards to interacting with other people, especially if the other party is hurt. And she says “I made a mistake”. Sending underwear to a minor isn’t a mistake. That’s a series of bad decisions leading up to a REALLY bad decision which she admits outright in another video.
She must think of herself as the victim and ACTUAL victims as "the attackers". Mind-blowing.
She has narcissistic personality disorder, she 100% believes she’s the victim and everyone is actually bullying her to gain popularity through her downfall. It’s a very very common behavior of a narcissist.
This is a perfect example of "DARVO" deny, attack, reverse victim and offender.
@@yabby2000I 💯 agree with what you said.
@@yabby2000💯
She said she wanted to defend herself and “take accountability” but why would she do that if, in her words, everyone is just hopping on the ‘toxic gossip train’? She can’t even keep her own narrative straight. She HAS to be panicking
Yup, true
She just wants to take accountability for the lies and rumors everyone made up for clout. Makes total sense, tell us more girlie!
After watching that video I felt like I had done something wrong😭 I felt like I had personally attacked her. Lord the manipulation
I appreciate how moved you are about this whole thing, Logan. It's comforting to see a man addressing this issue and being moved by it. Thank you for being strong and pushing through to make the video.
This was disgusting. Blame shift. Blame the kids. Blame the parents. Deflect. Lie. Manipulate. Zero accountability. Calling everyone toxic. Thank God there’s saved images of the chats & videos to prove her behavior.
As someone also pointed about out her appearance & her calculated decision to wear what she wore to portray a dark, sad, gaunt appearance while slouched over her little ukulele in a spaghetti strap shirt so we all won’t miss her bony appearance is ALL carefully thought out..she’s a performer..performers put great thought into every single small detail, this includes clothing, posture, expressions, tone, colors, hair, makeup etc. She’s trying to be a mastermind but everyone (hopefully) saw through this intent of manipulation. She obviously has mental health issues and unfortunately some people with mental health issues..because they need help & don’t think with a normal mindset are the most dangerous to others. They are mean, aggressive, narcissistic & blame shifters & they leave permanent damage. My mother is just one of them I’ve come across like this.
If it weren’t for the tangible evidence (the saved chats, pics, video, etc) not many people would have believed the victims.
I have to admit, without that stuff, I think I’d have trouble believing it. I try to believe victims as a general rule but, let’s face it, not every accusation of wrong doing is true. In the case of grooming accusations against Colleen Ballinger? Yes, I absolutely would have had my private doubts if not for that stuff.
So for so long, she’s been a YT icon, and perceived, by myself even as a casual admirer, as a kind of oasis of wholesomeness and kindness in a sea of trash and mud throwing.
Sp this is extremely disappointing and confronting, to be so completely wrong about someone.
I'm proud of those kids, they were really smart and fortunately they have amazing parents.
After seeing the video about how she actually killed her pet dog by abusing him so he attacked her and then had to be put down, is not quite a PAST and shows her very psychopatic behavior.
I agree with everything you've said. I am so relieved there is saved images, videos etc to provide evidence for all of the dear victims. I really hope people don't get manipulated by her apology video :(
Some of her supporters are claiming that the screenshots are photoshopped 💀
Watching Colleen sing and play ukelele about how she's a good person was wild. She also said she wanted to address the facts and then didn't, in fact, address any facts lol
Right? She literally just called everyone manipulative liars 💀
She said “everyone’s mad at me because I told a fart joke”
Fart Joke In Question: * involves spreading a thirteen (?) y/o girls legs on stage/camera *
The girl came forward to say after that show she felt unsafe due to the way men were looking at her differently than before she went on stage and was spread and exposed and laughed at…
Or maybe she meant the “porn” joke where she brings up skimpily dressed girl on stage and then backstage to meet her creepy brother? The joke being of course that the girl she picked that was dressed like her was good and the porn girl was bad and gets hit with a “porn unicorn horn” …
Maybe it was the “reach into my pubic area and eat cheese balls on a date with me and also kiss me on the cheek and tell me you love me, 9 year old bri’ish boy”? Could be that joke too probably
yeah she didnt reference a single specific thing... except her cats i guess 😭
True manipulation right there, if a person tells you over and over how "good" they are, it's not true.
@@healgoth how is anyone a fan of hers? Her material is terrible
21:01 Am I the only one who sees her trying to hide a smile after the “fart joke” line? It’s almost like she knows she’s purposely downplaying and minimizing it and she wanted to laugh so bad but she turned her head down and to the side to collect herself before continuing. I wonder how many takes that took to look somber and hold back the laughter. She knows she’s lying but doesn’t care.
Curious that the line “fart joke” was also used by TMZ in their article. Almost like it was a leaked story to TMZ to get ahead of the backlash and say it was just a “fart prank” to discredit Becky and hope no one looks into the situation closer. Colleen and her “team” know exactly what they’re doing. ON PURPOSE
If I was Colleen i would make a video saying sorry and would send a message to everyone I had done something bad to, then i would delete all my social media and try to find why I was like that then i would try to be better person and go to therapy and fix what was wrong and be then be the best mother to my kids
💯👏🏽
Its truly impressive how her "apology" (pity me) video has made her EVEN CREEPIER THAN BEFORE. I thought we reached the absolute max yet she managed to exceed the limit.
Did she ever say that it was an apology?! The title is "hi" and she only said that she would "take accountability".
@@PenteadosBarbie_3 which is why I wrote it as "apology".
@@jaybee_. And I guess thats why everyone is assuming that it is an apology... Because someone started referring to her video as so...
Yeah, when she said this song wouldn't change our minds about her, I was like, oh it did, but it's WORSE than before.
another creater I can't recall the name of off the top of my head stated that this was a historic shift. It is no longer the Strisand Effect.
It is forever more, the Colleen Effect.
Make a move to sweep something under the rug or hide information about one's self and thereby making it even more widly known.
And what's more, Colleen, in her blind brazen narcissism accidently outed herself for all to see who she really is as a person.
*This* is the real Colleen Balinger
She NEVER stopped talking to her underage fans: until last week! ANYONE who supports or defends this really needs help! This is why children are victimized and actual adults are defending it! Wtf is wrong with everyone?! Using the allegations that people are telling her to kill herself is manipulation; what about her own Stan’s she caused to attack a 17 year old boy! What about what he ACTUALLY went through! Next level narcissist! As far as Miranda Sings being PG 13; is she blind? Does she not see ALL the young children at her shows? She wrote a self help book FOR KIDS that was so gross and alluded to her uncle molesting Miranda! Give me a break! She knows exactly who she was targeting!
Yep. She last left a group chat about a WEEK ago. “In the beginning of my career….” My ass lol
Doesn't make online harassment okay period
@@iiiiiiiggggare you referring to her harassing that 17 year old? And telling her fans to send hate his way?
@@tracy3418 I said exactly what I said , and it seems you’re already trying to twist it , go for it
@@iiiiiiigggg They're asking you tho
It feels like she is correcting the viewers. So creepy
This is like when a band pretends they're leaving the stage, and come back out 2 minutes later for a 'spontaneous encore'.
i think what colleen isn't grasping is that intent doesn't matter when you caused harm to children. she groomed them, hurt them, traumatized them, even if she didn't "intend" to.
Right I mean it’s the same thing the predators on dateline and shit say “oh she seemed lonely, I just wanted to be her friend” - well you’re an adult and she’s 12, that’s not ok
She groomed them? Like sexually or what did she do
@@goodgolly4726there are screenshots of her talking to underage kids within the past 5 years and asking them to send pics of certain body parts, basically having them working for her, coercing them into bullying people online amongst other things
@@kate0330 So she "accidentally" requested certain body part shots from many minors. Got it. 🙄 I'd seen the channel name "Miranda Sings" referenced in the past. Just assumed it was some teenybopper show on the Disney channel.
Exactly !!! I’m not hear this much from others but exactly what I thought
Her framing grooming kids as "a silly little mistake teehee but I am still a good person tho" shows that she is, in fact, not a good person. A good person usually doesn't have to INSIST on being a good person for other people to go "oh yeah, they are good", a good person can be recognized easily by their actions.
Logan is a good person.
Colleen is not. She is horrible in fact
If she had shown any empathy or understanding for the people who were hurt. Even if she thought it was an innocent misunderstanding. I would still have had something positive to say.
This... this was... not that.
Yup. I think it's very true that the more someone has to insist they are something, (i.e. I'm SO empathic, or I'm SO nice) they probably aren't.
If someone accused me of hurting a child in ANY WAY i would be falling over myself to apologize and make amends. This is a slap in the face to everyone she hurt
who’s logan
@@-chirpchirp- I believe it's the guy whose channel this is~
You also cannot blame parents for allowing their children to be groomed. No parent would allow that. Once Adams Mother messaged her…she starting attacking Adam behind the scenes through other people. Her being held accountable by another adult was too much for her. She’s gross. Her whole family is towards children:
Speaking as someone who was a fan of this woman for MANY YEARS, starting watching her vlogs when I myself was a teenager, I am so stunned by all of this but I've entirely lost every last ounce of respect for her after this excuses video. She gets nothing but my hatred now, these are horrific allegations backed up with endless receipts and she wants us to feel sorry for her?? She managed to make me feel like I, along with the rest of her fans, wronged her?? Its so weird. Shes despicable.
It's just so shocking that this is how she chose to address this. 😮
Adams reply was a little funny with the ukulele.
Because she is TRYING to be calculated, but she isn't very good at it
@@brenda4085is video was great 😂 I watched his instead of hers lol
So messed up
Right! I definitely did not have this on my bingo card for the year 😬
She isn’t the bothersome aunt, she is the she the uncomfortable family who makes comments about your bigger boobs, asks you about your sex life or lack of, hugs you a little to long, offers you alcohol as the “cool” family member and buys you underwear. It’s not a “mistake”. It’s a pathology I hope she getting help for. It’s damaging to those affected. She truly doesn’t see how what she did was wrong. She sent people after Adam when he tried to tell her. She had no intention of learning or changing. This is her wake up call. Get some help.
👏👏👏 absolutely 💯
That family member who gets mad bc you don’t want to hug and kiss them hello…….
she's also not actually a family member to these kids doesn't matter if you watch a celebrity share their life online they're still a stranger 💀
Can confirm I have a family member who did most of these things. very creepy
She actually did buy one of her fans lingerie on a live.....
him just admitting he’s never “observed” a situation like this before is more genuine than her entire song (dont think it’s fair to call it a apology)
Yeah Colleen. The people you traumatized as young teenagers who still can’t forget what you did and said to them are having a blast with this situation.
I love how she straight up says, "I messaged my fans but not in a creepy way." And then it is "I'm like that weird aunt at family gatherings." That's interesting Colleen because it sounds like it is the exact same thing. Especially when you asked children what their favorite s*x position is. Then claims she took accountability lmao
Especially when she makes her nieces and nephews call her “Auntie Panties”. Not creepy at all. She even bought one nephew tear away pants.
@@giabarrone7422I swear everything new that I learn about her just gets worse and worse💀like it’s baffling
@@giabarrone7422 I've heard them call her that and always wondered at the story behind it
For real like is she trying to say that “weird family members” or whoever can’t also be inappropriate to children? Because idk I’ve seen those things often go hand in hand… lol
Like ma'am there is NO way to message kids that is NOT creepy
She really said, " I'm sorry some of you feel that way." but musically. Who taught her how to apologize, my father?
😂😂😂 OUR fathers
Oof. Sorry to both of you
@@AnnaBeNanfor real
@@AnnaBeNanTruer words have never been spoken.
Girl me too. When literally anything bad happens to me, my dad says that I can choose how to feel about it.
Your entire reaction and facial expression is the visual embodiment of how we all pretty much felt watching this “train wreck”
Colleen: 🎶 take accountability 🎶
Me: You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
She is really stuck in 2010. Her singing and cringe, humor, and it’s like she never grew up. She is somebody’s mom 😳
She’s the mother of three people.
Exactly this!! She’s not reading the room of society today in 2023! And still acting like a sarcastic teenager.
She obviously hasn’t matured and can’t even accept her faults. I didn’t hear an apology. Grown ass woman
she’s literally probably 12 years old in the head it’s fucked up
definitely. She really thought this would go well 😂
Im surprised it wasn’t mentioned how absolutely creepy and aggressive her STARE was
Its so predatory it almost triggers fight or Flight in me each time I see it 😬
Same..her whole vibe makes me feel unsafe
It's giving "dead empty eyes"
I definitely noticed....yikes
YES. The way she stares into the camera is intense and it seriously made me uncomfortable
same! i was expecting him to mention something about it. I was unaware of what the whole situation was before I watched her original video and I was so uncomfortable and confused because she never says any specific facts. I had to Google wtf was happening and after watching Adam's videos immediately unsubbed from this crazy creep. I'm kind of glad she did this because I would've been very oblivious to what happened if she hadn't made this creepy video.
9:37 😂😂 is the accountability in the room with us????
Never thought I’d see a worst apology than Laura Lee 😂
Idk the Sienna Mae interpretive dance one is up there
The part that really gets me is the whole “I do feel like shit”, cue heart-wrenching stare and hanging of her head….then immediately comes back into the chorus with not the slightest emotional crack of her voice. She’s a terrific performer.
Reminds me of Casey Anthony, when the only time we ever see any genuine sadness or remorse is only when she’s talking about how SHE is suffering, not about how anyone in her life was affected by any of her actions.
Yeah, because you got caught. She never once apologized to the victims
She’s an actress
"I changed my behavior and took accountability" meanwhile she literally *just* left the "weenies" group chat with kids LAST WEEK. She tries so hard to act like this was years ago when it very clearly wasn't. I'm so glad I'm not the only person who's head exploded watching this bizarre train wreck lol
Yep. And she last responded to them in Dec 2022. That is less than a year ago, Colleen.
*Starts song* “Many years ago…. I used to talk in group chats with my fans” oh you mean less than a year ago?
@@sarahbornhorst7072 6 months probably feels like years when you're used to talking to kids everyday lol
Never seen a youtube creator be so discomforted by a topic they have to cover. Thank you for your service king 💜
Because she’s an “actress”, this whole thing feels like a bit or a skit. It’s completely bizarre. I put actress in quotes because if she were more talented, we wouldn’t be so acutely able to press the bullshit button on her. She didn’t rehearse her facial expressions enough. I’ve never felt like I was the one being judged in someone else’s apology video…
That "Fart Joke" thing pisses me off so bad. That poor girl, Becky, had a lot of harassment from HER fans over coming out and saying Colleen made her feel unsafe adn exposed her to an audience without her permission. its not just a fart joke. Its hurting someone that she never addressed and never called off her attack dogs.
I think it’s cool just trying to make it like that like people speaking out for a
Yes, that is the worst part of her completely disgusting narcissistic self pity video. She minimized and dismissed Becky's real trauma over the incident...."Fart joke". That is ALL it was and ever will be to Colleen. A simple fun non-threatening fart joke. What a POS!
@@mesquitegirl2013huh?
It made my blood boil
Wait what is it about like why did it piss u off
"I didn't realize that all of you are perfect, so please, criticize me"
Sure, no one is perfect, but not everyone grooms minors in groupchats either
I once put a white shirt in with the colored laundry and now I'm forbidden from criticizing child groomers because I make mistakes too, so really I guess we're the same.
The level of UNHINGED in that argument??? She's really relying on no one having the two brain cells to rub together that 'extensive evidence of child grooming and inappropriate/predatory behavior towards minors from multiple sources' is not your everyday ~innocent little mistake~ that everyone makes, and yeah, maybe those of us who don't do that shit ARE in a position to spit down on her.
That or - and this is a scary thought - she really does think what she's done is something everyone is a little bit guilty of, and she truly cannot conceive of how many other people do not think or act like she has, EVER. Thinking of her essentially going "oh, like YOU'VE never groomed a minor" (but not in those words, because then she'd have to admit she actually did something to take responsibility for, and it's clear taking responsibility for things makes her break out in hives) in the full belief that other people DO regularly make those 'mistakes', that what is normal for her is totally normal for everyone else, is honestly chilling.
So which is it, Colleen? Are you blatantly minimizing the severity and harm of your actions by acting like child grooming is just an innocent little mistake everyone makes, or are you so warped that you think everyone does things like this so no one has the right to judge you for it? Because either you believe what you're saying or you don't; it's a binary choice.
She clearly views larger women as ugly even referencing them as "whales" (Trisha). The first time I heard "little bony back" I visibly cringed and got the immediate feeling of fatphobia. I'm nowhere near someone who uses this terminology but I just feel it fits well with her.
"At what point is it solved via a ukulele?"
Most perfect response to this whole thing I've seen, yet. Lol.
Logan, you're awesome. Thank you for suffering through this for us and being a mega-champ!