I was with this girl for 2+ years and we had it hard adapting to each other but one day i snapped and didnt want to be with her no more she cried her guts out and begged and i decided to get back with her and give it another go....months later booom "im not happy, i need time" and here i am sad as fuck wishing I had left that past time.....
Update..... ignored her and started doing my life even if i was sad but completely cut her off and she came back..... sounds fucked up but i kind of lost the way i felt for her after making me feel how she did and now we are together.....
Me and My girlfriend were having the best time of our lives together. But we broke up cause she felt she didn’t know what she wanted our who she was. I spent 2 days crying my heart out cause I missed her and I missed what we had. Then she hits me up one night saying she’s done listening to her mind she hadn’t really figured herself out but she felt that she wanted to be with me in heart she felt that. Then a few days later were talking about doing things differently this time. And a few hours later she says she wants to end it again this time for good cause her relationship with herself she feels like she wants the single life and she said she doesn’t wanna be with me that she loves me but she’s not in love. I respect what she wants and I want her to be happy. But I’m heart broken. I don’t wanna move on even after everything I have this slightest hope she’ll come back to me I can’t move on cause I keep telling myself. Even if I’m not the love of her life she’ll always be the love of mine
Same...exact....words, same exact situation for me. I loved this woman with everything I had and when my fuel was already low, I could find it in me to do something exciting for her. When I last saw her, she gave me the exact same bs. We got very emotional, we were crying and at some point I confirmed with her, "so, you're not in love with me?", to which you could tell she put up a poker face and abruptly went "mmyeah". I knew she loved me, but she was more obsessed with Disney movie idealisms of what love is as opposed to true love, which two people build. This was a week ago. Say you go to the gym, you turn your life around and what-not and this woman would still not want you. Why? Because, she's not a woman, she's a girl. Sometimes, it's out of our reach. I deleted everything, stopped all cognitive loops by not having her in my life, not even a glimpse of her pictures and now I'm ready to move on. Have you ever stopped to think about how many beautiful, intelligent, great, exciting women exist on this planet? Women who appreciate your quirks and who will still call you out when you talk out of your ass? Geez-louise, I can't wait to see what life has in store for me. You should too, instead of watching these videos online. These videos are your mind trying to feed the cognitive loop. No offense, Dr. Tian.
Same man.....3.5 years of dating a girl that was PERFECT. We just signed a lease together and we were doing so well. Randomly one day she says she needs a break and doesn’t wanna talk. I cry and beg for 5 days and nothing worked. Finally starting together I’ve decided to let her be and give her the break. It hurts. A lot. Only thing getting me through the day is the hope that it’ll be okay soon. Any update on yours? You guys ever work it out?
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My gf said she wanted space to go find herself we have dated for 8 month now and i am just scared about all of this i know she doesn't like anyone she still likes me and idk what is happening with her i am just really scared and worried
hi doc ive been dating a young woman at her mid 20s and im 41 already were been goin out for the past 3 weeks now were getting along very well we enjoy every moment that were together.. and there one night that we are in very intimate moment and after that she told me she cannot decide for us... she needs to find her self.. and by then she pull away by instant... and me i just told her im giving her space and time.... and now she havent call me or even txt nothing.. i like this girl very much i want her to be my GF..and now she just disappear.. can you help me what to do... thanks and GOD bless....
I was with this girl for 2+ years and we had it hard adapting to each other but one day i snapped and didnt want to be with her no more she cried her guts out and begged and i decided to get back with her and give it another go....months later booom "im not happy, i need time" and here i am sad as fuck wishing I had left that past time.....
Update..... ignored her and started doing my life even if i was sad but completely cut her off and she came back..... sounds fucked up but i kind of lost the way i felt for her after making me feel how she did and now we are together.....
Me and My girlfriend were having the best time of our lives together. But we broke up cause she felt she didn’t know what she wanted our who she was. I spent 2 days crying my heart out cause I missed her and I missed what we had. Then she hits me up one night saying she’s done listening to her mind she hadn’t really figured herself out but she felt that she wanted to be with me in heart she felt that. Then a few days later were talking about doing things differently this time. And a few hours later she says she wants to end it again this time for good cause her relationship with herself she feels like she wants the single life and she said she doesn’t wanna be with me that she loves me but she’s not in love. I respect what she wants and I want her to be happy. But I’m heart broken. I don’t wanna move on even after everything I have this slightest hope she’ll come back to me I can’t move on cause I keep telling myself. Even if I’m not the love of her life she’ll always be the love of mine
Same...exact....words, same exact situation for me.
I loved this woman with everything I had and when my fuel was already low, I could find it in me to do something exciting for her.
When I last saw her, she gave me the exact same bs. We got very emotional, we were crying and at some point I confirmed with her, "so, you're not in love with me?", to which you could tell she put up a poker face and abruptly went "mmyeah". I knew she loved me, but she was more obsessed with Disney movie idealisms of what love is as opposed to true love, which two people build.
This was a week ago.
Say you go to the gym, you turn your life around and what-not and this woman would still not want you. Why? Because, she's not a woman, she's a girl. Sometimes, it's out of our reach.
I deleted everything, stopped all cognitive loops by not having her in my life, not even a glimpse of her pictures and now I'm ready to move on. Have you ever stopped to think about how many beautiful, intelligent, great, exciting women exist on this planet? Women who appreciate your quirks and who will still call you out when you talk out of your ass? Geez-louise, I can't wait to see what life has in store for me.
You should too, instead of watching these videos online. These videos are your mind trying to feed the cognitive loop.
No offense, Dr. Tian.
Same man.....3.5 years of dating a girl that was PERFECT. We just signed a lease together and we were doing so well. Randomly one day she says she needs a break and doesn’t wanna talk. I cry and beg for 5 days and nothing worked. Finally starting together I’ve decided to let her be and give her the break. It hurts. A lot. Only thing getting me through the day is the hope that it’ll be okay soon.
Any update on yours? You guys ever work it out?
Blu muffin thank man I appreciate it 😔
Bailey Schultz nah it’s been almost 3 months since we broke up it’s been hard 🤧🤧
Same exact thing I am dealing right now I just gave up on everything
I am a Desire Dude, David, and have been signed up to you and Christian for over 2 years. I have now subscribed to your channel here; this video alone justified it. Rest assured, I'll be checking through your backlog to sharpen my Social Man Skills at every opportunity. Keep the Aura glow on how, Doc.
Thanks, Shenruss! More videos coming soon! Join the private Facebook group! Lots of new material in there has been keeping me too busy the past few weeks.
My gf said she wanted space to go find herself we have dated for 8 month now and i am just scared about all of this i know she doesn't like anyone she still likes me and idk what is happening with her i am just really scared and worried
I’m in the same situation right now. Update me on how you’re doing.
Same thing happened to me 8 months aswell
Answer: realise that she got piped down by some other dude and is making time for him
If a woman wants a break, just cut your losses and leave. She's with another man.
hi doc ive been dating a young woman at her mid 20s and im 41 already were been goin out for the past 3 weeks now were getting along very well we enjoy every moment that were together.. and there one night that we are in very intimate moment and after that she told me she cannot decide for us... she needs to find her self.. and by then she pull away by instant... and me i just told her im giving her space and time.... and now she havent call me or even txt nothing.. i like this girl very much i want her to be my GF..and now she just disappear.. can you help me what to do... thanks and GOD bless....
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Hi doc can you give me an advice
damn this sounds a lot like my situation
Any updates?
I'll definitely read your article about millennial happiness lol
lol