Look dude. Take a step back and do an honest self assessment. See if you're being too needy, or just trying to get her to do the stuff that YOU wanna do that she doesn't... And if it turns out that after your moment of clarity that you actually are being reasonable in what you're asking... Ditch her. If you're with a chick that only wants to see you like once or twice a month, then she isn't worth dealing with, she's not serious. And she also might have more than one iron in the fire.
Ive kinda just had the same thing and broke up with her 6 days ago! Like I'm 26 and she's 21 but she's had a history of lying about what she's doing and where she is to me etc. She always broke off plans or last minute before we are spent to stay over the night she just didn't say anything and cancels. But when mates come involve she makes the effort and goes to some party. I broke up with her as she lied to me again 3rd time & found out she got all dressed up bra showing etc and went clubbing! When she said she wasn't doing that, but she was. After i found her out, i sent her a message she didn't respond the whole night and i broke up with her ... i don't deserve to be lied to and treated like if she has time for kinda guy. Like i really love her but i think she's still in that stupid age. Long story but she picked her friends over us, btw she's been going out to party, house party, flat warmings, town a lot but never invited me, i don't care if she has a girl night etc but we never gone for drinks etc but her friends she had time for! Makes me so angry .....
I like my boy friend a lot but I works three to eleven pm so I rarely see my fam or friends or get to get things done except my days off but Everytime I'm off he wants to see me and sometimes I want my plans free
Had the same situation happen i just let her go no matter who she is if she doesn't give you the time of day let her go. I literally just had a situation where a female I've wanted a chance with for the longest I got in contact with her she responded one word then I told her how I felt ect I asked let's take things slow date and see where it goes I also let her know im not going to be sitting around waiting and putting my life on hold. Now if its meant its its meant if not oh well my main thing is once she's out of my system (head and heart) thats it. In those type of situations just let go tell her what you want she either say yes or no or don't respond if she says no or doesn't respond just move on with your life one thing use as men have to learn female's come a dime a dozen she might not give you a shot but go out start talking to women
After we broke up she kept calling me a month later she isn't trying to hangout now she says she has no urge. My answer was please don't call me unless u want to see me. Why would I sit here and go back and forth with someone who wants a phone buddy or has low interest with me ? She loves me but isn't in love me with me. She's basically friendzonin me in her own way. It's not forcing its called self respect I don't want friendship so I'm walking away
Never related to a video so much before. Just in a weird position where I know whats best. Thats to end things and move on. But i dont know how to go about it.
What you talking bout? If she live with you she don't have to make time for you, if she live with you, shes going to see you alot, your not experienced with woman I can tell to post such a stupid comment
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pretty simple really, if you want me in your life put me there, i shouldnt have to fight for a spot in it.
Look dude. Take a step back and do an honest self assessment. See if you're being too needy, or just trying to get her to do the stuff that YOU wanna do that she doesn't... And if it turns out that after your moment of clarity that you actually are being reasonable in what you're asking... Ditch her. If you're with a chick that only wants to see you like once or twice a month, then she isn't worth dealing with, she's not serious. And she also might have more than one iron in the fire.
Holy shit, he thinks her living 15 to 20 minutes from him is far? LOL that is nothing!
Leave them! And find someone else..
Ive kinda just had the same thing and broke up with her 6 days ago! Like I'm 26 and she's 21 but she's had a history of lying about what she's doing and where she is to me etc. She always broke off plans or last minute before we are spent to stay over the night she just didn't say anything and cancels. But when mates come involve she makes the effort and goes to some party. I broke up with her as she lied to me again 3rd time & found out she got all dressed up bra showing etc and went clubbing! When she said she wasn't doing that, but she was. After i found her out, i sent her a message she didn't respond the whole night and i broke up with her ... i don't deserve to be lied to and treated like if she has time for kinda guy. Like i really love her but i think she's still in that stupid age. Long story but she picked her friends over us, btw she's been going out to party, house party, flat warmings, town a lot but never invited me, i don't care if she has a girl night etc but we never gone for drinks etc but her friends she had time for! Makes me so angry .....
I'm in the exact same situation as the dude and you actually opened my eyes thanks dude
Glad to see that!
@@DavidTian update we broke up and I'm happier then ever!
I like my boy friend a lot but I works three to eleven pm so I rarely see my fam or friends or get to get things done except my days off but Everytime I'm off he wants to see me and sometimes I want my plans free
Bro I had similar situation. I basically gave her the boot.
Had the same situation happen i just let her go no matter who she is if she doesn't give you the time of day let her go. I literally just had a situation where a female I've wanted a chance with for the longest I got in contact with her she responded one word then I told her how I felt ect I asked let's take things slow date and see where it goes I also let her know im not going to be sitting around waiting and putting my life on hold. Now if its meant its its meant if not oh well my main thing is once she's out of my system (head and heart) thats it. In those type of situations just let go tell her what you want she either say yes or no or don't respond if she says no or doesn't respond just move on with your life one thing use as men have to learn female's come a dime a dozen she might not give you a shot but go out start talking to women
Move on before you waste years of your life with someone only capable of loving themselves and others are used to supply their immediate need.
After we broke up she kept calling me a month later she isn't trying to hangout now she says she has no urge. My answer was please don't call me unless u want to see me. Why would I sit here and go back and forth with someone who wants a phone buddy or has low interest with me ? She loves me but isn't in love me with me. She's basically friendzonin me in her own way. It's not forcing its called self respect I don't want friendship so I'm walking away
Great video
Never related to a video so much before. Just in a weird position where I know whats best. Thats to end things and move on. But i dont know how to go about it.
Great advice bro
Thank you, Parker!
30 seconds in and I'm sayin dump her
TRUE BRO
It's even worse when you live with her.
What you talking bout? If she live with you she don't have to make time for you, if she live with you, shes going to see you alot, your not experienced with woman I can tell to post such a stupid comment
If she doesent want to lead by you she wont make time
My last girl lived an Hr from me lolllll
Don't beat around the bush, . ..get to the point. Else you are boring.
You’ll hear no argument from me that I’m not boring :)