How about choosing a partner who appreciates us from the beginning instead of someone with low emotional intelligence? I will no longer waste my time on people who only appreciate me when I leave. That’s not love. That’s attachment. My energy is precious and I will not waste it on undeserving individuals. Love yourself and stop wasting your time on these people.
I agree, women should not put up with this. Intelligent women should only engage with men who are as intelligent and mature, and at the same level, otherwise it will never work. I am someone who has never chased anyone, I don’t need to. I have a six figure salary and able to take care of myself, and currently enjoying myself. The older I get, the more I don’t feel like dealing with a man. Been there done that. I don’t feel like dealing with childish behavior.
I’ve been through a relationship like this, and it’s not worth it. I would never wish it on my worst enemy. This is a toxic attachment behaviour . Mind games and manipulation. Sorry but when I left that was a long thought out decision’ after many attempts at trying. I don’t want someone back after they’ve felt my absence and not valued my worth when I was present. This type of love is soul destroying and these types of people who are unable to give love /time/ respect in a relationship should not even engage in one as they are emotionally hurt and create absolute carnage in their wake. I speak from deep experience. Love is not a babysitting job. Heal first before you mess with someone else’s life!
I am being contacted by my ex after 8 years of no contact. In the meantime I got married, changed jobs, moved cities. I mean how far can one go with this BS of giving men the time to have an emotional reset and value what they have before them? This coming back happens when you have moved on completely. You no longer love them or need them or give a damn about them. So once they are back they no longer hold the same position in your life and can never reclaim what they once had. They have to lie on the bed they made, albiet all alone. Thank God my husband was not a fool like the men being talked about in this video. Once he saw me, he knew what he wanted, chased me down and didnt stop until we were hitched for life. He couldn't afford to lose me to anyone. This is the kind of man all women crave and want.
The problem always start from the beginning with this selfish partners, but people just fell in love without noticing the signs you need to know about their behaviour. It’s better to get rid of them before you get attached to them. ❤
As for me, if he had the mind to talk to me nd treat me like i am nothing and treat me like a tissue paper;that's it. He's done. Once nd for all.And if he's dumb enough to not realise the efforts that I have been putting in, I think I'm better off without him. If he comes back saying he needs me, even if he's on his deathbed I won't take him back. Ladies out there, do urself a favour, don't ever take them back. Not worth it nd they'll ruin ur life, heart nd peace again. Self respect over everything!!
I think it is applicable when a man was really involved and for a longer time. If a guy broke up because he didnt feel it or decides for other priorities, he will be happy youve moved on and left him alone
Nope, because the other women he dated during your absence broke off with them and they realized you are a person with a more amicable personality and less demands and expectations from them. So they come back thinking you will take them back. But no, you will not take them back.😅😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
I took back two people and regret doing so. My partner of 15 years has never needed space or a break up. There are people who know exactly what they want & exactly what they have. I have never wanted an ex back that I broke up with. Never!
You know what's more insulting? it's when my ex-boyfriend who cheated on me contacts me after 20 years of being with the other woman he cheated with. He snet me emails and tried to call me, and I contacted his girlfriend and told her to tell him to leave me alone. Needless to say, she was pissed.
What f I told you an experience with this type of man will drive you so deep into hurt and yes healing and that it doesn’t matter if he comes back - as he shouldn’t - he will be rejected as quick as he came - once women are driven so low emotionally- we don’t return to the source of that pain- our healing came with a heavy price- let him move on
Lizj , correct! One is afraid to start all over again. It’s if I have to ask for it I don’t want it anymore… when a man wants you, they’ll do everything possible to to be with you without playing games. His love for you is very obvious. Even if he’s busy he’ll make time to call you and be with you. There’s no guessing in the relationship. Once you have any doubts, it’s time to move on. Time is precious to waste in a person you’re not so sure about their love for you. Stop breaking your own heart.
One million percent agree. They don’t have the backbone to apologise cause they can’t see their part in it. Zero EQ, empathy! Love doesn’t hurt. End of
They will Apologise but only to get you back in, as soon your heart open again for them , they do exactly the same things they apologised for …. And to even get that apology it can take months …. Its never real .
It’s impossible to dream someone else’s dream considering there’s only one dreamer considering everything is within you. So this means that the seeming other which apparently ghosted you, he/she beautifully played the part you as the dreamer (writer - storyteller) assigned that person to perform in the scene the no contact for your own expansion or to have the experience of what the feeling of no contact is like. No matter the scene you’re always the main character It might seem you loose yourself for someone else but in reality you can never loose yourself. It was and is always yourself either you’re aware or unaware
@@marinettecachin5931 Um…. I believe we’re just making the observation that “Joe” said “we” when referring to women so….. the person narrating this is obviously a woman given that statement. It has nothing to do with stupidity?
Very inspiring, as I sit in total resonation. Wow, profound words of wisdom and assistance, Thank You for being a fine example of divine masculine energy. I appreciate you! Namaste
It happened to me through out live. Some men do try to revisit after they disappeared. I used to think it meant that this time it going to be ok. Nope! It was same nonsense all over again , followed by another disappearance act. So my advice to you never give them second chance.
It is necessary to work on oneself and do the inner work before entering into a connection with someone else. Unfortunately the majority of people are unwilling to do this therefore toxicity in relationships and friendships become more prevalent. Remember become whole within yourself emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually the person who is meant for you will not pass you by. Lots of blessings to all seeking connections.
💯 I agree It made me stronger True my spiritual Awkenning ,very independent Selfsuficent. ,,in my case I thank the universe He hasn't returned ,& I didn't chase & cut contact 100% Thanks to my knowledge about NPD.. ,WAS just short time .but my energies was depleted, took me some time to heal.. ,,I was alredy But much deeper after,, Thanks the universe Lovr & light ✨️
NPD.. yes correct. He blocked me before I had the chance to do it and reappear to express his Xmas wishes. And he didn’t understand why I expressed my feelings of hurt and frustration. It was all about him.. NPD never learn nor understand hence never are able to love.
I think every women who ever been that she is seriously looking lifetime partner will face that fact. That her love and care and sacrifice to the man she is serious with (the man might not on same level of seriousness) seems not enough then she is tired nor the man walk away without words (to keep his option open). The. He returns by showing that he is willing to be serious. So how to keep relationships on going if we not give care love and seriousness that not keeping man enough to stay ? I think it is only because the man not feeling grateful. He thinks all women like his current woman. After he walks away then he found out that the woman he left are not kind of woman that he could meet everyday. For me, my principle is that im looking someone who is worthy and deserve for my love and care.....and I will see how he treats me and maintain the peace, secure, convenient feeling consistently to me. If yes, then he might be the right one. He deserves my manifestation of my time and energy. Only time will tell.....
Ive never chased or run he has always done both from when we first met in 1979 we lost touch in 84 then he got back in touch in 2010 and it all started again....ive stopped waiting for him to sort his life . ...men are just stupid to admit thr feelings for someone ...so instead run so they dont have to say how they feel ...sick the games and it is game play . ..the shift in power is am looking after me as ive always been independent from the start .....
sorry but men are not babies, if he ran away, he ran to another woman. they only come lurking back to see if your still going to give them attention or sex. Nothing more. Stop watching Hallmark romance movies
Because they are an ass…… We can’t control how others treat us but we can control how we act on that behaviour…. My tolerance for bullshit has progressively got less and less … To the point now they get one chance and then they are gone… Don’t show up right.. don’t bother showing up at all.
This seems to assume that the no contact only affects the man. I dont know if he has those fears when I leave, but I do. I know that there is an emotional attachment there. I go into euphoric recall pretty quickly. This is what keeps me going back. Maybe his attachment allows me to.
stop being crazy! he probably has a lineup of women and breadcrumbs you to see if you'll still give him attention and sex. don't fall for it. you can be polite to him but don't see him again, he can use you like this for years!
This AI for sure.. I've heard YT videos with Neville Goddards AI voice😂... I mean in Nevilles time they never had emails but heard videos like this using NG voice in a lecture but talks about an email 😂😂😂
What if it’s 9 months amd I see him around all the time went back y on an x for a few weeks he told no one not with her now what if he is an avoidant do they still value the 6 years together ???
This guy wasnt consistent so I told him to go away in the nicest way. Constantly checking my ig stories. Asked me for drinks. But not consistent. Im tired of this crap!
DEPENDS ON THE MAN, AND THE CONNECTION 2 PEOPLE HAD..AND OF COURSE, THE LEVEL OF CONSCIOUSNESS OF THE WOMAN TO BEGIN WITH.....NOT TO MENTION THE MAN, LOL!
Nope it's because they had just split up with another women and had nothing else better to do for christmas. Thinking he could come to me to cleanse his emotional palate 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
good message but the diction is messed up. Places where there should be a pause, the pause is deleted and sentences are run together making the message a bit awkward to follow. The initial caps also drive me nuts. It's like somebody took a speech and made an AI voiceover. Also no punctuation. So tacky!
So we must than the NPD’s for healing us? NO! Thank 🫵 for creating such a scene to simply remind you who you are. Is your story, your dream, your kingdom and no one else’s It was an I AM experience an act of imagination (God) as everything else in this wonderful imaginary world
Just mirrors of our innermost gold… we need to discover that we’re worthy even when a narcissist reflects contempt to us. A stranger showing us that same disdain would be obviously their own problem but a loved one shows us where we need to strengthen boundaries internally
How about choosing a partner who appreciates us from the beginning instead of someone with low emotional intelligence? I will no longer waste my time on people who only appreciate me when I leave. That’s not love. That’s attachment. My energy is precious and I will not waste it on undeserving individuals. Love yourself and stop wasting your time on these people.
Exactly!
Well said!!! Truth! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Preach✨✨
I agree, women should not put up with this. Intelligent women should only engage with men who are as intelligent and mature, and at the same level, otherwise it will never work. I am someone who has never chased anyone, I don’t need to. I have a six figure salary and able to take care of myself, and currently enjoying myself. The older I get, the more I don’t feel like dealing with a man. Been there done that. I don’t feel like dealing with childish behavior.
Now this is great advice!!
Always walk away. No man is worth having no peace.
May this kind of love never locate me ✋🏾
Amen!!
Amen!!
Thank you for this comment. Just when I was doubting myself; this is exactly what I needed to read! 🙌🏾
May your wishes come True,Merry Xmas
@@sylviahkinyangi9892 Merry Christmas to you too! Wishing you the best.
Men who ignore you don't deserve you
I’ve been through a relationship like this, and it’s not worth it. I would never wish it on my worst enemy. This is a toxic attachment behaviour . Mind games and manipulation. Sorry but when I left that was a long thought out decision’ after many attempts at trying. I don’t want someone back after they’ve felt my absence and not valued my worth when I was present. This type of love is soul destroying and these types of people who are unable to give love /time/ respect in a relationship should not even engage in one as they are emotionally hurt and create absolute carnage in their wake. I speak from deep experience. Love is not a babysitting job. Heal first before you mess with someone else’s life!
I am being contacted by my ex after 8 years of no contact. In the meantime I got married, changed jobs, moved cities. I mean how far can one go with this BS of giving men the time to have an emotional reset and value what they have before them? This coming back happens when you have moved on completely. You no longer love them or need them or give a damn about them. So once they are back they no longer hold the same position in your life and can never reclaim what they once had. They have to lie on the bed they made, albiet all alone. Thank God my husband was not a fool like the men being talked about in this video. Once he saw me, he knew what he wanted, chased me down and didnt stop until we were hitched for life. He couldn't afford to lose me to anyone. This is the kind of man all women crave and want.
Exactly. Well said. 100% true. ❤❤
This has never happened to me when I’ve walked away from the relationship. Once the relationship is over it’s over
This situation sounds more like hoovering though. Men who leave and come back generally leave again and come back again etc etc.
Sounds about right!
..they never will ends this poor handling😡never
Yes! I’m on round 3 with my husband leaving
Ladies don't go back to your vomit. It's not healthy.
Never good to go back. Walk away and keep it that way. I'll leave it at that.
That’s a pile of horseshit. Men find a replacement. They don’t sit alone thinking about you.
Only when it doesn't work out with the new girl, then they are hoping you'll be on standby, like we are that stupid, nope!
It depends on the link u had...
agree with you!
And this video has a lot of repetition! @@lindahughes9207
Maybe the men you encountered...
They always come back! But unlike a cheesy movie, the sight of them makes you sick and you tell them to leave you alone and it feels amazing!
The problem always start from the beginning with this selfish partners, but people just fell in love without noticing the signs you need to know about their behaviour. It’s better to get rid of them before you get attached to them. ❤
Don't take toxic people back.
As for me, if he had the mind to talk to me nd treat me like i am nothing and treat me like a tissue paper;that's it. He's done. Once nd for all.And if he's dumb enough to not realise the efforts that I have been putting in, I think I'm better off without him. If he comes back saying he needs me, even if he's on his deathbed I won't take him back. Ladies out there, do urself a favour, don't ever take them back. Not worth it nd they'll ruin ur life, heart nd peace again. Self respect over everything!!
I think it is applicable when a man was really involved and for a longer time. If a guy broke up because he didnt feel it or decides for other priorities, he will be happy youve moved on and left him alone
That's not the issue. The issue is most men ghost
You never get over loss. You keep moving but it's always in your heart.
Nope, because the other women he dated during your absence broke off with them and they realized you are a person with a more amicable personality and less demands and expectations from them. So they come back thinking you will take them back. But no, you will not take them back.😅😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
I took back two people and regret doing so. My partner of 15 years has never needed space or a break up. There are people who know exactly what they want & exactly what they have. I have never wanted an ex back that I broke up with. Never!
You know what's more insulting? it's when my ex-boyfriend who cheated on me contacts me after 20 years of being with the other woman he cheated with. He snet me emails and tried to call me, and I contacted his girlfriend and told her to tell him to leave me alone. Needless to say, she was pissed.
Wow 😮
20 years too late
You dodged a bullet lady
What f I told you an experience with this type of man will drive you so deep into hurt and yes healing and that it doesn’t matter if he comes back - as he shouldn’t - he will be rejected as quick as he came - once women are driven so low emotionally- we don’t return to the source of that pain- our healing came with a heavy price- let him move on
Lizj , correct! One is afraid to start all over again. It’s if I have to ask for it I don’t want it anymore… when a man wants you, they’ll do everything possible to to be with you without playing games. His love for you is very obvious. Even if he’s busy he’ll make time to call you and be with you. There’s no guessing in the relationship. Once you have any doubts, it’s time to move on. Time is precious to waste in a person you’re not so sure about their love for you. Stop breaking your own heart.
To see if you are still stupid
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🪦
Exactly
💯💯💯😂😂😂
I just 😂😹🤣
😂😂😂😂That part!!!!
Of they are a narcissist they will never grow and come back to apologize
Yes! And every time they come back they get worse and give less and less.
One million percent agree. They don’t have the backbone to apologise cause they can’t see their part in it. Zero EQ, empathy! Love doesn’t hurt. End of
@@laurenmurray1940so true!!!
They will
Apologise but only to get you back in, as soon your heart open again for them , they do exactly the same things they apologised for …. And to even get that apology it can take months …. Its never real .
If someone return after no contact dont take them back at all
It’s impossible to dream someone else’s dream considering there’s only one dreamer considering everything is within you. So this means that the seeming other which apparently ghosted you, he/she beautifully played the part you as the dreamer (writer - storyteller) assigned that person to perform in the scene the no contact for your own expansion or to have the experience of what the feeling of no contact is like. No matter the scene you’re always the main character It might seem you loose yourself for someone else but in reality you can never loose yourself. It was and is always yourself either you’re aware or unaware
"Men dont process emotions in the same way we do" joe you saying you is a lady now 😅
Yeah, that was a giveaway a woman is doing this video with AI
@@CF-tp6sb
A point to say us women are not so stupid!! Get real.
Joe thinks women don't need hormones either past a certain age. Never heard such a ridiculous statement..
@@marinettecachin5931 Um…. I believe we’re just making the observation that “Joe” said “we” when referring to women so….. the person narrating this is obviously a woman given that statement. It has nothing to do with stupidity?
@@marinettecachin5931 I’m not sure you heard the part we are talking about, I don’t think you understand the point.
Definitely AI but the information is spot on
Very inspiring, as I sit in total resonation. Wow, profound words of wisdom and assistance, Thank You for being a fine example of divine masculine energy. I appreciate you!
Namaste
Don’t want love when I already attain self love
It happened to me through out live. Some men do try to revisit after they disappeared. I used to think it meant that this time it going to be ok. Nope! It was same nonsense all over again , followed by another disappearance act. So my advice to you never give them second chance.
This is not Dr Joe. He does not talk of such topics.
That's what I was thinking too. It's some AI bs.
You're right- "men don't process emotions the same way we do". Um, ok
Powerful words. Bless you.🙏📑
It is necessary to work on oneself and do the inner work before entering into a connection with someone else. Unfortunately the majority of people are unwilling to do this therefore toxicity in relationships and friendships become more prevalent. Remember become whole within yourself emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually the person who is meant for you will not pass you by. Lots of blessings to all seeking connections.
💯 I agree
It made me stronger
True my spiritual Awkenning
,very independent
Selfsuficent.
,,in my case I thank the universe
He hasn't returned ,& I didn't chase & cut contact 100%
Thanks to my knowledge about
NPD..
,WAS just short time .but my energies was depleted, took me some time to heal..
,,I was alredy
But much deeper after,,
Thanks the universe
Lovr & light ✨️
NPD.. yes correct.
He blocked me before I had the chance to do it and reappear to express his Xmas wishes. And he didn’t understand why I expressed my feelings of hurt and frustration. It was all about him.. NPD never learn nor understand hence never are able to love.
Very enlightening. Thank you Joe❣️
Man who goosted me never comes back into my life...I'am a choice not an opption 💪
These are very high vibrational observations. Great 🎉
I think every women who ever been that she is seriously looking lifetime partner will face that fact. That her love and care and sacrifice to the man she is serious with (the man might not on same level of seriousness) seems not enough then she is tired nor the man walk away without words (to keep his option open). The. He returns by showing that he is willing to be serious. So how to keep relationships on going if we not give care love and seriousness that not keeping man enough to stay ? I think it is only because the man not feeling grateful. He thinks all women like his current woman. After he walks away then he found out that the woman he left are not kind of woman that he could meet everyday. For me, my principle is that im looking someone who is worthy and deserve for my love and care.....and I will see how he treats me and maintain the peace, secure, convenient feeling consistently to me. If yes, then he might be the right one. He deserves my manifestation of my time and energy. Only time will tell.....
I think it is applicable for a guy who is single not someone who is married. Does not work on married guys
True, for some 20 years, drives me crazy, I moved forward and he is stagnant, not good with me. Really pisses me off...
Ive never chased or run he has always done both from when we first met in 1979 we lost touch in 84 then he got back in touch in 2010 and it all started again....ive stopped waiting for him to sort his life . ...men are just stupid to admit thr feelings for someone ...so instead run so they dont have to say how they feel ...sick the games and it is game play . ..the shift in power is am looking after me as ive always been independent from the start .....
sorry but men are not babies, if he ran away, he ran to another woman. they only come lurking back to see if your still going to give them attention or sex. Nothing more. Stop watching Hallmark romance movies
Great psychological findings
Emotional reset well explained 🙏
Is coming back well over30 years long enough?
Thank you!❤️
Well you should be a twin flame coach you could make a fortune these days explaining the ins and outs of focusing on self
Priceless words. Thank you ✨💫
The only ones who don't return are geminis
But how if they are the one who happen to block you at the first place
But do you really need to loose communication with your partner?
Why not communicate?
In NO WAY IS THIS JOE DISPENZA HE WOULD NEVER MAKE SUCH A VIDEO...IS IN ANYCASE OBVIOUSLY AI
It seem like some kind of effort to get on the lucrative twin flame bandwagon
This is the first time I am listening to him. What makes you say that this is not him but AI?
@ I was wondering the same thing
Why didn't they treat me well in the first place?
Because you allowed it!!!
Because they are an ass……
We can’t control how others treat us but we can control how we act on that behaviour….
My tolerance for bullshit has progressively got less and less …
To the point now they get one chance and then they are gone…
Don’t show up right.. don’t bother showing up at all.
It means I spend less of my time and energy on undeserving assholes …
You won’t feel as hurt if you haven’t invested so much …
This sounds like A.I 😂
Whatever it is, it wise👌
It is 😠
No it's not 😂 it's Dr Joe, catch up
Just a crap quality audio 😂
The message is good though
He’s an extortionist. I am finished! He should be in prison.
Those words are not true for narcissists who replace someone even before they leave.
They can come back if the door is left cracked. Just made that mistake and he ghosted me again. Never again...
These videos are unnecessarily long with repetitive points. Get with the times, guys.
Does it always have to be like a game?
This was interesting until he started getting into the part when they get back together. NOPE.
It’s your own fault, you can’t make it possible for them to do that
This seems to assume that the no contact only affects the man.
I dont know if he has those fears when I leave, but I do. I know that there is an emotional attachment there.
I go into euphoric recall pretty quickly. This is what keeps me going back. Maybe his attachment allows me to.
stop being crazy! he probably has a lineup of women and breadcrumbs you to see if you'll still give him attention and sex. don't fall for it. you can be polite to him but don't see him again, he can use you like this for years!
I would agree
AI, Dr Joe wouldn’t say this
Thats Not Joe 😂
Yeah, we know. But the content is actually pretty good.
@christinepetersen1103 Absolutely. It's about the message, not the author.
Amen
I have a question for you Sr if he comes back he called me or he texting me so if I'm ignoring him what do you think he go do please let me know
They just want you to chase them. No Thank you
This AI for sure.. I've heard YT videos with Neville Goddards AI voice😂... I mean in Nevilles time they never had emails but heard videos like this using NG voice in a lecture but talks about an email 😂😂😂
What if it’s 9 months amd I see him around all the time went back y on an x for a few weeks he told no one not with her now what if he is an avoidant do they still value the 6 years together ???
This guy wasnt consistent so I told him to go away in the nicest way. Constantly checking my ig stories. Asked me for drinks. But not consistent. Im tired of this crap!
Sounds like narcissistic hoovering to me. I’ll pass
DEPENDS ON THE MAN, AND THE CONNECTION 2 PEOPLE HAD..AND OF COURSE, THE LEVEL OF CONSCIOUSNESS OF THE WOMAN TO BEGIN WITH.....NOT TO MENTION THE MAN, LOL!
Nope it's because they had just split up with another women and had nothing else better to do for christmas. Thinking he could come to me to cleanse his emotional palate 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
AI ? 😢
LoL 😂
@ God is good all the time
good message but the diction is messed up. Places where there should be a pause, the pause is deleted and sentences are run together making the message a bit awkward to follow. The initial caps also drive me nuts. It's like somebody took a speech and made an AI voiceover. Also no punctuation. So tacky!
Because it's not Dr Joe
That’s trouble from some man
💙
I don't think this is joe dispenza
Few days? Ha!
This man is talking in circles about Psychology 101. 🙄
So we must than the NPD’s for healing us? NO! Thank 🫵 for creating such a scene to simply remind you who you are. Is your story, your dream, your kingdom and no one else’s It was an I AM experience an act of imagination (God) as everything else in this wonderful imaginary world
Just mirrors of our innermost gold… we need to discover that we’re worthy even when a narcissist reflects contempt to us. A stranger showing us that same disdain would be obviously their own problem but a loved one shows us where we need to strengthen boundaries internally
None of this is true, and if they’re coming back it’s for one reason.
Not joe, ai
These AI videos are getting out of hand
Sounds like some fake AI
Boring stufff
😂😂😂
Naw the narcissistic womanizer has moved on with all his new harem .... they can have him
BS
AI lol this is not Dispenza
The voice more seems like Jordan Peterson and not Joe D
😂😂😂
Boring stuff
Lol Ikr! 🥱