I’m glad I am listening to this because it helps understand of why some people you love just distant themselves and make you feel like your the problem. 😔 Thank you Lord for always walking beside me. ♥️
It's really hard when it's family but like Denzel says - they have their own internal struggles and I've accepted that I have to stop thinking everything is my fault.
Exactly what I did, especially when someone disrespected you with their silence, when you told them that you need to talk to them. My silence, is not to give them space, but to give myself respect! Their silence, gave me all the answers I needed. Also, if they fill your absence with someone else straight away, it tells me, a lot about their insecurities
❤ Self-respect is essential for Muteral respect in any type relationship. Also be open-minded to the interpretation / possible reasons (ability or concern for external impacts), everyone grows at different pace. So important to feel safe and Loved and Secure / Trust- COMMUNICATION of feelings and needs / desires. That being said; Self love is invaluable. prioritize your health - you sound very insightful - I'm sure that person is missing you very much, from a distance %God will decide and guide~
I choose to let go & let GOD have it, if it's meant we'll connect, other than that ill serve them with a long handle spoon, Thank you Heavenly Father 👏🏽 for this message
OMG!!! I NEEDED THIS TODAY ME AND MY SIBLING IS GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING RIGHT NOW. I'M NOT FORCING ANYTHING. I HAVE TO LET PEOPLE DO WHAT THEY FEEL IS BEST. AS FOR ME I'M GOING TO LOOK WITHIN AND LOVE MYSELF MORE ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I totally agree with you. I have gone silent for necessary reasons. Reasons only I can understand. Your words are so profound and true. I am going through these emotions as I listen to you. You are always speaking to my heart. And at this time, my heart is very heavy. I love your understanding of all things that matter. Thank you for your words of wisdom. 💯❤️❤️
He is so right 100 percent right God's rejection is our protection .When you make sure your happiness is truly within do your work so you understand that peace is priceless and none negotiable no negativity only restored and again it's within ..When you stop looking for that happiness in others you will not truly understand you must love ourselves the way we would love another that's true love& free from the lies that bind !!!
Osnovno spoštovanje do ljudi,ki jih drugi izločijo.Danes sem pa bila priča v eni cerkvi neverjetnemu dogodku,ki me je prijetno pretresel.Malo ljudi je bilo v eni -to sem se pogovarjala z arhitektko-gotski cerkvi.Pela sem iz srca,na koncu maše-potem pa so in tudi midve z znako dobili blagoslov bolniškega maziljenja-obe sva v kriznih stanjih-hvala temu duhovniku!
Wonderful insights Denzel!!! This could be the best talk I have ever heard about people distancing themselves and the healthy way to respond and see this with clarity and wisdom❤
Myselfworth is not tied to anyone s acceptance and rejection of me.this distance is working in my own favour pushing me to greater heights and works in my life every one who leaves is a gift in my life, they do not constitute pain in my narrative.
I agree wholeheartedly.Had a coworker I thought that we was good but boy was I wrong.I’m glad that he distanced himself because it taught me to work and better myself.
I've watched three videos now and they have been so profound to me you're a modern day Yoda so much wisdom it was exactly the words I needed to hear brought tears to my eyes that gave me so much self-reflection you brought words to my mouth that were jumbling around in my head I have no idea how you have so much wisdom however it's given me so much reflection it actually brought tears to my eyes thank you so much for speaking truth I appreciate your every word I hung on to it like a child would to its mother keep on speaking keep on doing it like I said modern-day yoga Buddhist whatever it is
I feel all of this, I do! So..... basically, I need to stop falling in love? When someone convines us that we'll be one, we in this for life, then out of nowhere they switch. I want answers damn it!!!! Lol
Thank you for the bottom of my heart for sharing this ❤ I am having surgery tomorrow and your lovely voice and story really helped me relax. I hope you are well recovered ❤ sending you lots of love from California ❤
I so needed this today. I'm listening and its helping a lot. But its very painful after a 10 year relationship to have the person I love and who did love me retreat so completely. Yes, he's going through something profound. After so long together the dynamics changed in an instant and I feel suddenly alone. Listening to this helps me to trust myself more.
Ppl judge me lie on me accuse me dtare at me hate on me ignore me and those ppl dont know me they hear gossip about me but it not me its them their insecurities.. i ignoree those ppl give them to God....
Sometimes they distance from you to gossip about you. To show they do not have the patience to be with such person. Or even to have you in their circle. Then they demand your attention.. they even force you to communicate with them ..but in this distance. They show you disrespect but demands the respect for them. They think they have the right to make you a slave. They also try to cut off everyone who is good to you. They do not have the hope in hell. They distant them selves to release their demons on to you. But those demons shall eat them instead. ruclips.net/user/shortsTZNtu2I1YGM
ljudje z krasno osebnostjo,ki so se umaknili,da ne bi ranili drugega! Lahko bi v enem besu maščevanja uporabili jezo,ki ruši in požiga vse pod sabo.pa niso!
What if the person who has been abandoned has wronged the other person? Don't you think they have something to care about if at all they are rational human beings? I agree with the notion of resilience in solitude but I recon it is dependent on many factors.
Yo soy quien soy por que se que solo hay dos caminos el bueno que es hacer lo correcto y el camino de los infieles que solo hacen el mal 👎🏼 y ese jamás caminará conmigo mi camino es en camino con Dios el correcto 👍🏼 para eso me bastó yo sola así ha sido y así será siempre elegiré el camino correcto para conmigo y para con los que estén conmigo, Amén ✝️✝️✝️
I don't agree . Yes I respect their freedom and space when they communicate it with respect. When they ghost and ignore you I don't care what their issue is , I don't accept them back , I don't give them time and space . I respect myself more than them
na primer:delavci za mir-znani so mama Tereza,Martin Luter King,pa še v Indiji Gandhi,ali bilo kdo v okolici ki ne dela dobra dela da ga vsi vidijo in na ves glas hvalijo-ni lahko tako živeti!
He kept pursuing me only to withdraw again and again. Bc we had never had sex it was a bit easier to let go, but it still hurt bc I didn’t contact him each time I gave him his space. However, I'm not a rehabilitation center for broken men. He did it again recently. I contacted him through reliable channels. I'm done.
He distance himself - I respected myself
He distance himself - I protected myself
He distance himself - I gained more peace ✌🏾
AMEN🙌❤💖⚓🙏 7:55
When someone leaves, leaves you with more space to love yourself
I don't chase, I create space.
👍👏
Amen. Amen. Amen to God be the glory. Amen
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What is happening today is exactly what should be happening. I hand over and let go. Amen.
I’m glad I am listening to this because it helps understand of why some people you love just distant themselves and make you feel like your the problem. 😔 Thank you Lord for always walking beside me. ♥️
Amen ❤
Release them without guilt or apology..let them go🙋♀️
It's really hard when it's family but like Denzel says - they have their own internal struggles and I've accepted that I have to stop thinking everything is my fault.
Exactly what I did, especially when someone disrespected you with their silence, when you told them that you need to talk to them. My silence, is not to give them space, but to give myself respect! Their silence, gave me all the answers I needed. Also, if they fill your absence with someone else straight away, it tells me, a lot about their insecurities
❤ Self-respect is essential for Muteral respect in any type relationship. Also be open-minded to the interpretation / possible reasons (ability or concern for external impacts), everyone grows at different pace. So important to feel safe and Loved and Secure / Trust- COMMUNICATION of feelings and needs / desires. That being said; Self love is invaluable. prioritize your health - you sound very insightful - I'm sure that person is missing you very much, from a distance %God will decide and guide~
@Newlifef158 I don't think she misses me, but I don't really care anymore. 😉
Just let go!
God thank you for blessing me with peace God thank you for talking to me
Im screaming inside. U are answering every question i have. Ty so much
Silent screaming is so bad for you. I know exactly what you are going through. The only thing to make it better is DISTANCE. I wish you well.
The Power of silence 🙋♀️
My best learning and growth is what happened. I did look inward. I changed with the faith of and in God. Jesus is my rock.
I choose to let go & let GOD have it, if it's meant we'll connect, other than that ill serve them with a long handle spoon, Thank you Heavenly Father 👏🏽 for this message
OMG!!! I NEEDED THIS TODAY ME AND MY SIBLING IS GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING RIGHT NOW. I'M NOT FORCING ANYTHING. I HAVE TO LET PEOPLE DO WHAT THEY FEEL IS BEST. AS FOR ME I'M GOING TO LOOK WITHIN AND LOVE MYSELF MORE ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I totally agree with you. I have gone silent for necessary reasons. Reasons only I can understand. Your words are so profound and true. I am going through these emotions as I listen to you. You are always speaking to my heart. And at this time, my heart is very heavy. I love your understanding of all things that matter. Thank you for your words of wisdom. 💯❤️❤️
I keep silent to save my peace of mind I get tired of insecurities the questions we don't match the same energy
I keep quiet, so i can have peace, but i keep giving it to Jesus Christ
Words are wonderful. They have power. Use them wisely ❤
He is so right 100 percent right God's rejection is our protection .When you make sure your happiness is truly within do your work so you understand that peace is priceless and none negotiable no negativity only restored and again it's within ..When you stop looking for that happiness in others you will not truly understand you must love ourselves the way we would love another that's true love& free from the lies that bind !!!
Osnovno spoštovanje do ljudi,ki jih drugi izločijo.Danes sem pa bila priča v eni cerkvi neverjetnemu dogodku,ki me je prijetno pretresel.Malo ljudi je bilo v eni -to sem se pogovarjala z arhitektko-gotski cerkvi.Pela sem iz srca,na koncu maše-potem pa so in tudi midve z znako dobili blagoslov bolniškega maziljenja-obe sva v kriznih stanjih-hvala temu duhovniku!
Wow! Thank you, I really needed to hear this; so powerful. ❤
This is truth,
sooooo good!
Love these words of wisdom! ❤😊
With silence it brings me peace/ anxiety no more gone thank you for when i step back it's because i care more for myself.
No contact has worked for me, to work on me and my solitude.
A TIME to submit yourself to God
Truly Father...Amen.🎉
My goodness I wish I saw this video 2 months ago. But anyway I let him go and I am not mad at him anymore.
ME TOO NEEDED TO HEAR THIS 6MONTHS AGO I let it happen.
Absolutely correct 💯🙏🥰
This is a Great Message❤❤❤
PTL a deeper relationship with you and God
29:10 cultivating the fond memories of the past keeps me centred on the value they once brought to my life.
Wonderful insights
Denzel!!!
This could be the best talk I have ever heard about people distancing themselves and the healthy way to respond and see this with clarity and wisdom❤
Looove this ❤🙏 I needed this so much right now. Yes I will not force or lead it. I needed this lesson for myself!
Great, thank u so much
Myselfworth is not tied to anyone s acceptance and rejection of me.this distance is working in my own favour pushing me to greater heights and works in my life every one who leaves is a gift in my life, they do not constitute pain in my narrative.
I don't mind silence I don't like when people disturb my silence for their own personal gain
💯 ❤🎉
I agree wholeheartedly.Had a coworker I thought that we was good but boy was I wrong.I’m glad that he distanced himself because it taught me to work and better myself.
Amen the Gods heaven Truth
I've watched three videos now and they have been so profound to me you're a modern day Yoda so much wisdom it was exactly the words I needed to hear brought tears to my eyes that gave me so much self-reflection you brought words to my mouth that were jumbling around in my head I have no idea how you have so much wisdom however it's given me so much reflection it actually brought tears to my eyes thank you so much for speaking truth I appreciate your every word I hung on to it like a child would to its mother keep on speaking keep on doing it like I said modern-day yoga Buddhist whatever it is
Thank you 🫶🏾
Thank u for your message
I feel all of this, I do! So..... basically, I need to stop falling in love? When someone convines us that we'll be one, we in this for life, then out of nowhere they switch. I want answers damn it!!!! Lol
Would love to hear some practical tips on things to say to peoole who do come back but youve moved on and are more self aware
Thank you for the bottom of my heart for sharing this ❤ I am having surgery tomorrow and your lovely voice and story really helped me relax. I hope you are well recovered ❤ sending you lots of love from California ❤
Wonderful
I so needed this today. I'm listening and its helping a lot. But its very painful after a 10 year relationship to have the person I love and who did love me retreat so completely. Yes, he's going through something profound. After so long together the dynamics changed in an instant and I feel suddenly alone. Listening to this helps me to trust myself more.
This is so well said I’m going through something similar and this feels so good to hear this I thought it was me he didn’t want to be around
No closure here.
Thank you very much I always love your speech too true 👍 👏🙏♥️🙏
Amen and Amen 🙌🙏😊❤😇
I need to hear this so bad
Distance to no connecting I think is better
Reset
I keep quiet because the storm is right behind
Yeah
Amen
🔥🔥🔥
Their distance doesn’t define your worth. Stay strong and focus on what truly matters to you.
All I hear from you Denzel is excuses for those people. Tired of the excuses.
Nice one
🙏🏾
true dat
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏❤
Alhamdulillah
Thank you
I have spent time and money on her
I treated her well
Now i am sick at bed
She knows it
But no sign of her
Not even a message
I'm sorry. Get well soon. 😢
Ppl judge me lie on me accuse me dtare at me hate on me ignore me and those ppl dont know me they hear gossip about me but it not me its them their insecurities.. i ignoree those ppl give them to God....
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Sometimes they distance from you to gossip about you. To show they do not have the patience to be with such person. Or even to have you in their circle. Then they demand your attention.. they even force you to communicate with them ..but in this distance. They show you disrespect but demands the respect for them. They think they have the right to make you a slave. They also try to cut off everyone who is good to you. They do not have the hope in hell. They distant them selves to release their demons on to you. But those demons shall eat them instead. ruclips.net/user/shortsTZNtu2I1YGM
@@JuLiAnnablessed
Laughter is good
Thank You
ljudje z krasno osebnostjo,ki so se umaknili,da ne bi ranili drugega! Lahko bi v enem besu maščevanja uporabili jezo,ki ruši in požiga vse pod sabo.pa niso!
I was dating a lady for 2 years and she suddenly changed and we are separate but I'm still staying there but we sleep on seperate beds wot can I do
What if the person who has been abandoned has wronged the other person? Don't you think they have something to care about if at all they are rational human beings? I agree with the notion of resilience in solitude but I recon it is dependent on many factors.
Yo soy quien soy por que se que solo hay dos caminos el bueno que es hacer lo correcto y el camino de los infieles que solo hacen el mal 👎🏼 y ese jamás caminará conmigo mi camino es en camino con Dios el correcto 👍🏼 para eso me bastó yo sola así ha sido y así será siempre elegiré el camino correcto para conmigo y para con los que estén conmigo, Amén ✝️✝️✝️
This is not Denzel, it is AI.
😂 interior is the true heart
I don't agree . Yes I respect their freedom and space when they communicate it with respect. When they ghost and ignore you I don't care what their issue is , I don't accept them back , I don't give them time and space . I respect myself more than them
na primer:delavci za mir-znani so mama Tereza,Martin Luter King,pa še v Indiji Gandhi,ali bilo kdo v okolici ki ne dela dobra dela da ga vsi vidijo in na ves glas hvalijo-ni lahko tako živeti!
Ljudi ločimo,ker nam ne ustrezajo-to vidim:imajo lepe obleke,ki si jo tudi drugi želijo,pa so nevoščljivi,češ kaj si važička,lej,kako se šopiriš!
He kept pursuing me only to withdraw again and again. Bc we had never had sex it was a bit easier to let go, but it still hurt bc I didn’t contact him each time I gave him his space. However, I'm not a rehabilitation center for broken men. He did it again recently. I contacted him through reliable channels. I'm done.
Ali je treba vse ljudi,ki imajo obdobja manije,melanholije,pa to ne prikrivajo,izločiti iz skupinskih krogov-češ lej tega norca?
What can you do when a child involved has no choice
Family law isolates family
Your not on your own🙏💕
Yes, but when the other distances themselves with no accountablity, fn hard to respect their space.