I found that after he left, I found peace. When he called Sunday, I became sick and didn't want contact from narcissist, abuser, and heartless individual.
Just leaving my 10 year narc abuse relationship and have to work with him, alone, offsite for a week. I leave Sunday and trying to gather all of the strength I can summon.
I walked away from a 20 year old marriage and relationship. I’m fresh 5 months still. I’m lonely but boyy I tell you I’m at so much peace in my life and I am loving every bit of it. Even our children are happier we are all glowing… I’ve finally found my worth as a woman. God is wonderful 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I feel the same way about my ex! I don't want him back either! He done did too much! I was with him 14 years. I let him good & I'm doing good. No more lies, headache, sneaky moves, or manipulation!
Lesson learned. I have grown, and matured in Christ as well. I can’t think of any I’d want back. If God put it on my heart one of them but I cannot see it with my eyes.
@@courtneycurrie8587this nine years for me and he’s trying to get me back after two years no contact! He’s always nice when trying to get me back then when he do it’s back to the horrible treatment and same toxic cycle
Thank you , I was crying before I found this video because I gave all my time , love and even money ( he was going through hard economic problems ) to a man who said he love me but he was disrespectful so I walk away now I let everything on God's hand's .
The silent treatment happened to me 2 years ago. Still silence and I have no urge to ever speak to him again. I moved on. I didn’t wait for him or chase. I know my worth and I learned lessons. I’m happy focusing on myself.
@@helentalia9923what does listening to a video mean???? I’m not going bc to my ex but I’m still here ..TF …if you want to argue just say that .. negative Nancy
Right . I'm here because, I messed up and I'm trying to improve myself. If "you" are already in the perfect relationship now then waste time on the video.
Denzel isn't talking about just any man. He's speaking of a "real man". Not a narcissist, not a disordered man, nor an unlawful, abusive man. There are "normal men" out there that haven't matured to the point he speaks of and need time to understand what real life is all about. No contact will definitely prove what kind of man he really is!!!
I ended a 11yr relationship 4 months ago, I got tired of begging him to see the gift he had in me and to appreciate and cherish it... he's in the stage where he's texting me all the time wanting to see me but I'M COMPLETELY DONE, I have nothing left for him and even if I tried I can't because I don't want him anymore or feel anything for him 🤷🏽♀️ I chose peace and it feels so good 😌 🙏🏽
@InspiredByYou55 either they move on to early after or they already had it planned so they make arguments to move on. I dont understand if you don't want someone, just communicate instead of cheating and trying to have your cake and eat it too.. you will always get caught.
Yesterday a guy who took me for granted reached out to me saying how much he misses me. I went no contact in June. He obviously enjoyed his summer and now that all the women he dated have realised how selfish he is, he's come back to me just as winter has started. What was funny is that he wanted me to travel to him and meet him. I havent heard from him in months but wants me to travel very far to see him. I said no. He has tried to call but I wont answer. Im just not interested and im really put off. The fact that he didn't even want to make the effort to come and see me shows how little he thinks of me. Ladies always go by a mans actions not what he tells you.
Signor user Seven se posso dare la mia opinione e io dico che tutto nella vita serve per imparare e che queste cose che lei sta portando come una ferita ti serva come una in stato e serve avanti perché la vita non si ferma e puoi guardare rancore è una cosa che fa molto male poi come si dice passato vuol dire passato. Allora segui avanti e lasciano il passato quello che è del passato. Mi sono ricordata una frase che diceva mia mamma che vive del passato eh Museum
Thats the common nature of men. This is why they serve eachother better when they become gays. Their nature is like snake, to sting and destroy no matter how you care for them
@@user-fb7we6hq4t how did u do it love?I'm so over mines,cuz he'll never change n I see that now after 8 yrs of marriage. It's like I'm trapped I never felt this way in my life,but I keep Praying God will protect me from this evil,narcissist man n his family
I did the same thing after 32 years plus it's a process it wasn't easy I totally understand I jumped without a parachute but I flew and I made it proud of you!! 🙏💯❤️😉🌞😎
@@mittosonia9438 I was married for 32 years Plus !! We have two beautiful children we have beautiful grandchildren I divorced him because I loved him and he needed to be set free that may not make sense but believe me what had to be done is done I am better for it!! There's no time limit when you got to go you got to go so yes I was married and yes I divorced him because I love him enough to give him his freedom 🥹 it's complicated but it's the best thing for me... 🙏💯❤️😉🌞😎
Solid information!🔥 To be a woman is to learn to be in our divine feminine energy which is simply “TO BE”. Where as true masculine energy is “TO DO”. Let the man come to you sis. The egg does not chase the sperm. Women need to learn to be women again. God made us beautiful and we need to simply step into it. Be Blessed!
It’s not just for the man in your life. It is for anyone who didn’t see the value you brought to the table. Perhaps they didn’t even realise that you were at the table.
I no longer stay in places where I am not appreciated or wanted. My ex-husband cheating on me was the best thing he could have ever done. That continued disrespect was what finally led me to completely remove myself spiritually, mentally, and physically. Peace is priceless.
This message came right on time. My divorce was finalized a few days ago. I've had no contact for almost a year. The way that man is spiraling is because I've cut off all access. Today is the day he abandoned me and our marriage. I almost broke my silence to get things off my chest, but this video was the first thing that popped up. I was meant to see this. I will stay silent. He's also a covert narcissist, so he's incapable of self-awareness.
Can you help me. 16 years marriage and 4 small children. Husband is cover I left him back in Sept. It's so hard on me. I see him posting videos on RUclips and he lied and got a protection order against me the same day after I left. He knew he lost the control over me. I'm still very emotionally sick. Haven't seen the children or spoken to them. My old two children keep telling me he doing it to get revenge and to hurt me for leaving
I am so sorry you are going through this! Pray and ask God for guidance and try to make a way to see your younger children in a "safe & peaceful" environment even if it involves the court system. 🙏
@@IndigoCherokee I'm so sorry this is happening to you I wish I could help you somehow. Try to pray and find someone you trust you can talk to.....and if you have no one to talk to I'm here, sometimes all we need is a listening ear
I’ve ALWAYS known that when I wanted a man’s attention and wanted him to see my value, it would be in my disappearance. My absence will always be louder and more pronounced than any words I could say. It is my signature move. I love this expression to other women because it works and it’s extremely powerful.
@hennnyyc it’s normal to miss a person but remember with Time everything heals.. this too shall pass! Your life is better now; meaning He was your hinderance , so live on Queen! One day you’ll meet your King🙏🏾💯❤️
I had different relationships in my teens and my early 20s; I was treated like garbage. Those guys ended up getting married to other women and then got divorced. After I got happily married, they reached out to me. They didn’t realize what they had. You will survive.
This is powerful. Ladies we deserve Gods best. Lets not compromise and accept terrible treatment for the sake of having a man in our life. The right one is out there waiting for us to get healthy and whole so we can live our happily ever after.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️
@vasilicaconstantinescu4008 you got this baby. It does hit hard, but God puts no more on us than we can handle. Keep your head up, I promise it gets better in time. It takes time, and you gave it to someone undeserving, so use this time for you to grow and prosper. God bless you.
I don’t want to think about how me leaving has affected him. It was ALWAYS about him- I’m just not interested. I want to think about how leaving affected me and what I want to do with my life now. I don’t want him back
@@helentalia9923 I was painting the front door and had it on “keep playing” mode…eventually I had to stop painting becauseI I couldn’t listen to it any more.
I walked away from 17 yrs. with my child. He did some of everything to lose my trust and love. I realize that what he had for me was not love it was a lesson. It's been 3 yrs. since we separated and haven't had any contact and that's because he's probably doing g the same things- no change, no apologies, nothing. The only we have in common is our child. I wish him the best. I'm living my life and continuing to heal.
U now know your own worth n that my friiieenn is priceless ❤continue lookin up for strength Guidance n preserverence n you'll be jus fine! I'm super proud of u n Jesus n your child is too!!! Keep shinin we see you glowing ✨️💛 😍 hugs from me to u!🫂
❤ I'm in t same situation, but I Thank God no child is involved and he is still t same way ❤.They never change they just jump from one to another.Mines feels money,n sex is everything.I've learned no matter who he get with he'll never change he don't feel he needs to change.But one day he'll see when he's by him self in this world alone.
When people have very low to no communication with me and I have done absolutely NOTHING to deserve it it’s like a switch flips in my brain. I have learned much much faster sooner than later to cut off all contact, and if they ever see me as valuable or they want to communicate I let them come to me. I stopped chasing people many many years ago.
I let mine go. The peace I experienced was a blessing. I recently went to see him in the hospital. Still spinning lies and pretending to be everything he isn't. I will never subject myself to that nightmare again.
Yes I let go of a 35 years marriage 41 years of knowing this person💔 because of infidelity, for a long while I thought I was in the "Twilight Zone" but I gain peace like I never knew🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿❤️
@@jacquelinevaughn5626 Absolutely. The first few months after separation, I went through the trauma bond or twilight phase. We put our heart and soul into our marriage only to find out years later, it was the wrong person. I am at peace and loving my new life.
I love this! Mr. Washington isn't talking about any man. Denzel is speaking about a REAL man. Not a narcissist, a manipulator or one who discards your heart. One who fully knows how to be "present" in a relationship and is in tune with his own inner being, his core, his weaknesses and strengths. Values and cherishes the gift you are to him. Don't settle for anything less. ❤
I ran across this video tonight. It is so timely. Happening to me. I have decided to go radio silence. We shall see. To hear Denzel Washington speak makes this message even more powerful.
@@Flufero23 Do you not realize this man is a PDF FILE? He's been exposed by several survivors for crimes against humanity. All of Hollywood is Satanic. When will you all wake up and end the idolatry of these criminals. Satanic rituals, blood sacrifices, ped0fi1ia, many are destroyed by what these people do.
❤ you are not alone,I'm in the same situation right now in my marriage.He knows he's not good for me,but he refuse to leave n let me have peace 😢 he moved me to his state which was t worse thing I have ever done in my life.I regret it now.I trust God will protect me from his evilness
Once you start working on yourself and focusing on YOU, that's when you will begin to feel better. Start doing things you've been wanting to do but put aside, go to school, learn a craft. It's not until you pull all your energy back from this soul tie that you will begin to feel better. Self- care, don't look back unless you're planning on going there, don't look too far forward because you don't know how far ahead you'll make it, focus on one day at a time. God bless you!
I had given him a "3rd" chance. He had too many "bodies". I walked away in July. He has attempted contact and for some reason I've missed them. GOD covers me. Thank you, Denzel💚
I'm glad I found the strength to walk away and focus on myself. It was the hardest thing I have ever done in my life but it was worth it. Self-respect over disrespect and confusion. Everything in this video is true
@@Blessed.Allwin mine was almost 2 years of complete silence . Blocked on everything . He did come back, and our marriage is better for it. I did pray for strength not to contact him, and let me tell you it was difficult . I have faith in God, not man
I hope that there are women listening who have some hope for reconciliation in their relationship after hearing this. For some of Us, too much has happened and moving forward alone is the BEST thing we can do for Ourselves. I would love to save my marriage, and I also know that I shouldn’t. 😢
If u end up on such video why u should leave, just leave girl and don't look back. Its not our job to build that man or fix him. We just gonna make him better but for other and u will be traumatized and dry.
He broke up with me after one year being together, an amazing year full of good emotions and closeness, OVER THE PHONE, out of nowhere. And I never saw him again. Still don't understand why. No normal conversation, not even a proper goodbye. Nothing. It's been four months, and I now know with absolute certainty that I would never go back to someone who did this to me. It's downright sociopathic behaviour. And this is a man who's 40 years old, not a teenager. I was never anything but loving and supportive to him. If he didn't want to be together, the least I think I deserved was some basic respect for my feelings. A conversation, an explanation with compassion, some closure. Not to be thrown away like a bag of garbage, out of the blue. It's insane, it shatters your trust in people. Be careful of avoidants who bottle everything up, they will hurt you badly. And probably will never come back to apologise.
Hope this message helps you and give you clarity and peace. Many times it's not you or anything you've done. It's him. It's not always a bad thing but growth and maturity. I pray 🙏🏽 the best for you.
I totally understand how you feel because I’m going through the same thing. I couldn’t commit because it was long distance and I hadn’t met him. I didn’t want to hurt him so kept it at friendship for 1.5 years. I didn’t want to give someone false hopes but he on the contrary gave me all the hopes and suddenly as soon as he found another woman disappeared without a word. I know I was in the wrong because I didn’t commit but I was there for him and bonded over that time. I am not an animal to have been discarded like that. It has shattered me into pieces and can’t seem to come out of my depression. For the pain I’m now feeling I don’t know if it was love finally that I had for him or the loss
This is very similar to my story. Sending you a huge hug, and positivity. It is a hard road out of the pain, the confusion, and the cruelty. I hope you are finding yourself again x
When I woke up today and was giving my gratitude to God for all the blessings He has given me I asked if there was something He could show me that I needed to know. When I started the computer your channel was the first I saw and decided to try it. Talk about having your prays answered !. Thank you for all of this as it is exactly what I needed. Don't know where you got your wisdom from but it is right on. Thank You.
I totally agree with you I know these phones can hear you talking and they will give you a Google search videos, etc. can these phones hear you think I literally went to RUclips and I was going to search for videos where when people have poor communication what are you do? This was right on time when people have poor communication with me I have learn to trust my intuition and stop trying to contact them if they want to contact me, I’ll let them do it in their own time and in their own way your absence and your silence speaks volumes. Stop begging people to communicate with you and stay in your life who don’t want to whether it’s romantic or non-romantic.
Dont listen to their words, wait for their actions, and their actions will tell us all we need to know. Sadly, until they heal themselves, they will continue to hurt other's along the way. We just need to love ourselves enough to walk away and do our own healing work so that we can have healthy, secure, and loving relationships with ourselves and others. As hard as it is, we deserve so much more ❤
I went back after a break up, it happened only once, never again. You waste your time caring and repairing and the reason you left comes into the picture again. Spend the time that you would be crying, feeling sorry for self, going on dates talking about the ex to a date on self improvement and self respect.
The pain,the hurt and all the tears..He make me feel like I am worthless and unloveable..I taught for a momement I was too blame for all of this..I blame myself for not being there enough,for not understanding and for being dramatic..but I was never too blame..I was too vulnerable and available anytime when he enters..He always choose someone else..So where do I fit in..So if others are too good and I am the bad guy,why bother to be around someone who will never saw your worth or effort..It is better to left then to be a burden in someones life😥😥
The ghosting, the silence, etc. was the best thing, it taught me not to look behind me, but look what's in front of me. I won't go backwards, I'll continue to go forward.
This message came in no way of a coincidence. When I realized my worth and cut this person out 6 months ago, he reached out yesterday and owned his behavior, Denzel nailed it on point! This is exactly what I needed to hear💖
That's why you always practice being alone even in the midst of others. It is not hard to do. It takes practice and skill with your mind shifting in and out of realities Just excuse yourself a little bit at a time when surrounded by others at a gathering, or large event. Go to the restroom for a little bit and close the door and lock it if possible. Go into a changing room and lock the door if you can. Do this a little at a time and gradually work yourself mentally of being alone even around others. When the time comes and it will for them all to suddenly, or slowly disappear from your life as you grow, or outgrow them you will not miss them as much as opposed to being used to seeing or being around them regularly. This exercise works automatically and even when using technology. The phone is a good tool to use as well. Just start turning on to off silence mode or anything else that regularly connects you to others. You are not isolating yourself just getting into the habit of knowing how to turn off the noise of people while in their presence.
I doubt very seriously that my husband will miss me when I am gone. He already has “female best friend!” the whole time we were married. I don’t want to block his happiness! I am moving in silence.
Trust me he does that because he knows it piss you off. Try avoiding him & act uninterested around him, see how he will react 🤗 You & your feelings matter ❤
@realestatecoach8626 Trust me, I was in the same boat. It just makes you look like the whole relationship or marriage was just a big lie and deceit. Silence is power, move in it, and set boundaries that should never be crossed again after lesson learned. God bless .
That’s why I’m learning boundaries with female “friends” in dating! Not blind to the other sex- just want to know that if I’m the one there’s no other need for others! I’m sorry you went through this.
Oh he will MISS you. My EX husband did the same thing years back!!! Re marry someone else and Had a bigger wedding and all. And another kid. Etc. Found out he’s been talking about me to my family etc and how he misses “us”. It took him years later to realize I was a GOOD woman and it was too late by that time. I moved on. Even in pain I Moved on. And then he left that Wife and MARRY his 3rd wife… 🤔🤦🏾♀️… Had children etc. And HE STILL trying to convince himself I will be his friend by sending me a facebook request?! This was recent. I keep denying his request. He sent it 3-4 times. I even saw him friends with my Siblings and Family and mutual friend still on social media SMH! 🤦🏾♀️ and They all talk still and I DON’T. Feels awkward that the family don’t understand it’s OVER. And I AM GONE. - This is almost 16 or more years now. He still there and I am done!! And I was told he is in the church now and supposedly a “Christian “. Now he wants to communicate with me after his Abuse, and lies and cheating and etc. I am Over him and over it. His a Virgo!!! ♍️ Virgo men when they will try control and manipulate etc. I am sure anyone is this way!! But even though if I forgave him. I don’t want to GO BACK TO THAT GARBAGE 🗑️!!! Just leave me alone and continue to move on sir.
Thank you for this video because it really encourages me on the journey of setting boundaries with my boyfriend, who always avoids commitment but gets back whenever he needs me around. I value myself and need not say much but rather go silent in setting boundaries. I draw more strength from this video. Thanks for he gonna lose me.
This message really gave me a great sight on my ex relationship I do see how he's missing me but acting like he don't but he's going to lose me that way because I don't like confusion
Yes, I learned to match his energy. He was too much of a coward to express himself, instead he ghosted me. It was very hard at first, because I was left without any answers. As time passed, it began to sting less and less. I stopped reaching out attempting to get answers, blocked and moved on. I have given myself closure.
Thank you Mr Denzel. You are wonderful. I listen for strength every day. When I don't listen I cry and pray for strength I never have to be so foolish again.
Nice to know, but too late. He had 20+ years to treat me well and and appreciate me. I hope he works this out, but not for me, for him. He had a good thing, no more.
The way Denzel Washington speaks is like what a daughter needs from her father. Though I never had the opportunity from my own, it’s this kind of talk I needed to embrace that we all go through heartbreaks and never understanding why it happened, but we know our worth and will come across someone who is at our level and loves the way inside and out.
This piece has brought a lot of insights to me. It tells the untold power of silence and distance. Thank you Denzel. It is my prayer that one day, I am able to meet you 8n person and say, "Thank you"!
Just gave Me the best understanding of an on and off 15 years relationship, realize Me having the strength to walk away to give him his space, He would always come back seeking a relationship once again, even if it was two years later. In the meantime I just put more time into My family. I’m now over it. Just enjoying life, family and friends, that see Me. Thanks for finally understanding the why. 🙏🏾
Repetitive patterns can disrupt. Loneliness is real but as the song goes, I'd rather be alone than unhappy, as well as that saying, "when someone shows you who they are, believe them." Ladies...love who loves you.
No more, when he left, he did me a favor. I thank God for him leaving, I love me more. I deserve better. Now, I have closed this chapter in my life. Now it's time for God to work on me
Thank you Denzel, for speaking truth! Most men don’t have the courage to admit this truth!! For all of us who at some point been through a break up that caused you pain, heal and forgive yourself first for trusting and loving someone who took it for granted! Love on yourself and thank GOD you made it out alive and with yet another opportunity to really be true to you first! Much life , love, and healing vibes sent your way 🙏🙏🌹
This is so Lovely 😍 I haven't spoken to him in almost 5 months but have kept my distance, I know my worth even if he didn't 💔 this video confirms that I was right to do that 💯
Men move on within weeks. They underneath another woman really quickly even if they are hurting and in pain !!! Women move on differently!!! Oh he will MISS you. My EX husband did the same thing years back!!! Re marry someone else and Had a bigger wedding and all. And another kid. Etc. Found out he’s been talking about me to my family etc and how he misses “us”. It took him years later to realize I was a GOOD woman and it was too late by that time. I moved on. Even in pain I Moved on. And then he left that Wife and MARRY his 3rd wife… 🤔🤦🏾♀️… Had children etc. And HE STILL trying to convince himself I will be his friend by sending me a facebook request?! This was recent. I keep denying his request. He sent it 3-4 times. I even saw him friends with my Siblings and Family and mutual friend still on social media SMH! 🤦🏾♀️ and They all talk still and I DON’T. Feels awkward that the family don’t understand it’s OVER. And I AM GONE. - This is almost 16 or more years now. He still there and I am done!! And I was told he is in the church now and supposedly a “Christian “. Now he wants to communicate with me after his Abuse, and lies and cheating and etc. I am Over him and over it. His a Virgo!!! ♍️ Virgo men when they will try control and manipulate etc. I am sure anyone is this way!! But even though if I forgave him. I don’t want to GO BACK TO THAT GARBAGE 🗑️!!! Just leave me alone and continue to move on sir. This is with any of my ex’s they get with a NEW woman and marry or whatever and still trying to “See what I am up to” and I feel sorry for those other woman they be with. Smh. 🤦🏾♀️. I want to find and be with my PERSONs. Who don’t go out his way to lie and hurt me. Etc. I deserve a love that builds new foundations, understanding, love, kindness , friendship, support and trust. I love to travel and do whatever it takes to keep my sanity and peace and happiness. If we aren’t on the same page, I want us to be able to COMMUNICATE with Understanding and RESPECT!! And don’t seek it elsewhere but with each other. Look out for each other even when it comes to our families etc. ❤❤❤. I don’t see a Masculine man this way anymore. Or probably never. I rather be single and die alone than to be miserable chasing behind false dreams and hopes. Thanks for this. Video 🎉
I find this so interesting because I think this video was partly intended to help a woman if she’s hoping to get her ex back, but if you read the comments, all of the women are quite happy to be done with their ex
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If he doesn’t value your presence, you should give him your absence🙌🏾🙌🏾
Now that's classic 😊
Period!!!
@@coco-m1f5x And leave it at that.
Agreed!💯
When you have that feeling it's a sign something isn't right
I found that after he left, I found peace. When he called Sunday, I became sick and didn't want contact from narcissist, abuser, and heartless individual.
Amen, stop talking about my ex husband! 😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉
Not all men are this way i am the complete opposite 🥴🤣
My dear you are no victim you allowed that by not setting good boundaries...There are no losses just lessons!
Just leaving my 10 year narc abuse relationship and have to work with him, alone, offsite for a week. I leave Sunday and trying to gather all of the strength I can summon.
I hear all of that . Been there!
I walked away from a 20 year old marriage and relationship. I’m fresh 5 months still. I’m lonely but boyy I tell you I’m at so much peace in my life and I am loving every bit of it. Even our children are happier we are all glowing… I’ve finally found my worth as a woman. God is wonderful 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
20yrs? Wow. I hope you have many peaceful & wonderful days to come❤
For me I no longer want the headache, lies, or betrayal. Lesson learned.
I feel the same way about my ex! I don't want him back either! He done did too much! I was with him 14 years. I let him good & I'm doing good. No more lies, headache, sneaky moves, or manipulation!
Lesson learned. I have grown, and matured in Christ as well. I can’t think of any I’d want back. If God put it on my heart one of them but I cannot see it with my eyes.
@@courtneycurrie8587this nine years for me and he’s trying to get me back after two years no contact! He’s always nice when trying to get me back then when he do it’s back to the horrible treatment and same toxic cycle
Be blessed ladies keep THRIVING
Because no one compare to you
Seriously, Silence is power over everything (PERIOD)
It sure is.
YES, silence is golden!!
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Or a way of manipulation...
Period 💯
I don’t want him back. Him leaving was the best thing he could have done.
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here here
Baby, it's his loss. Like he said, let him wonder, and let him think. He did not know your worth or value. Real talk.
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Amen
His actions tell you exactly the kind of man he is
So many woman in here which experienced the same💔 wish everyone well❤ dont let your beautiful ❤ever break again!! 😘
I experienced someone just like this
Thank you kind soul ❤🙏🏼
Thank you!!❤❤❤❤
Thank you , I was crying before I found this video because I gave all my time , love and even money ( he was going through hard economic problems ) to a man who said he love me but he was disrespectful so I walk away now I let everything on God's hand's .
AMEN
The silent treatment happened to me 2 years ago. Still silence and I have no urge to ever speak to him again. I moved on. I didn’t wait for him or chase. I know my worth and I learned lessons. I’m happy focusing on myself.
Yet, you're here listening to this video.
@@helentalia9923what does listening to a video mean???? I’m not going bc to my ex but I’m still here ..TF …if you want to argue just say that .. negative Nancy
Right . I'm here because, I messed up and I'm trying to improve myself. If "you" are already in the perfect relationship now then waste time on the video.
@@annmcgruder8770 I get what you saying ..sometimes I look at videos that doesn’t have anything to do with my life .. some videos be interesting ..
@@Strawberryfreeze3000agree negative Nancy!
Denzel isn't talking about just any man. He's speaking of a "real man". Not a narcissist, not a disordered man, nor an unlawful, abusive man. There are "normal men" out there that haven't matured to the point he speaks of and need time to understand what real life is all about. No contact will definitely prove what kind of man he really is!!!
Truth
Agreed!
Facts!!
I think this is AI with Denzels voice 😅
This is AI Denzel
I ended a 11yr relationship 4 months ago, I got tired of begging him to see the gift he had in me and to appreciate and cherish it... he's in the stage where he's texting me all the time wanting to see me but I'M COMPLETELY DONE, I have nothing left for him and even if I tried I can't because I don't want him anymore or feel anything for him 🤷🏽♀️ I chose peace and it feels so good 😌 🙏🏽
I’m sure you gave him many many chances in those 11years. He wouldn’t change for YOUR pain. Now that he’s in pain he’s ready to be different. 🙄
Why would you wait ELEVEN years?? That's crazy
@vidaacheampong2563 Whoa slow down....the fuc*ery didn't start until like 2 years ago not 11 yrs ago 😒 Come on now, I'm not crazy or stupid 😑
@saras.2173 Well the slacking started 2 yrs ago and yea he's crying himself a river now 😆
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Its sad because NOT all men will see or realize thier lost. They move on within weeks, continue hurting people.
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Well said
You just hit the nail on the head
Eventually they end up alone. In God’s world you don’t get to hurt people and get away with it.
@InspiredByYou55 either they move on to early after or they already had it planned so they make arguments to move on. I dont understand if you don't want someone, just communicate instead of cheating and trying to have your cake and eat it too.. you will always get caught.
Yesterday a guy who took me for granted reached out to me saying how much he misses me. I went no contact in June. He obviously enjoyed his summer and now that all the women he dated have realised how selfish he is, he's come back to me just as winter has started. What was funny is that he wanted me to travel to him and meet him. I havent heard from him in months but wants me to travel very far to see him. I said no. He has tried to call but I wont answer. Im just not interested and im really put off. The fact that he didn't even want to make the effort to come and see me shows how little he thinks of me. Ladies always go by a mans actions not what he tells you.
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True and well done for respecting and valuing yourself x
My ex came back after no contact to finish off what he started. NEVER again. Don't let anyone man spin the block.
"Spin the block." 😂
He was a narcissis, that's what they do
If he/she walked away, I do not think that the relationship should rekindled, unless it is understood why the relationship ended
This!!!
For me, it’s too late. Too much deceit, betrayal, lies and secrets. He is now a part of my past.
Signor user Seven se posso dare la mia opinione e io dico che tutto nella vita serve per imparare e che queste cose che lei sta portando come una ferita ti serva come una in stato e serve avanti perché la vita non si ferma e puoi guardare rancore è una cosa che fa molto male poi come si dice passato vuol dire passato. Allora segui avanti e lasciano il passato quello che è del passato. Mi sono ricordata una frase che diceva mia mamma che vive del passato eh Museum
@@user-fb7we6hq4t THANKYOU JESUS. ✝️✝️✝️😇
@@user-fb7we6hq4t very well said. I'm with you
Thats the common nature of men. This is why they serve eachother better when they become gays. Their nature is like snake, to sting and destroy no matter how you care for them
@@user-fb7we6hq4t how did u do it love?I'm so over mines,cuz he'll never change n I see that now after 8 yrs of marriage. It's like I'm trapped I never felt this way in my life,but I keep Praying God will protect me from this evil,narcissist man n his family
I walked away from a 23 years relationship and I'm better for it. Thank God
I did the same thing after 32 years plus it's a process it wasn't easy I totally understand I jumped without a parachute but I flew and I made it proud of you!! 🙏💯❤️😉🌞😎
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@@Denzelswife-rb7qz proud of you 🙏💯❤️😉🌞😎
23years of relationship? Lady are you for real?
Why didn't he marry you during those 23years?
@@mittosonia9438 I was married for 32 years Plus !! We have two beautiful children we have beautiful grandchildren I divorced him because I loved him and he needed to be set free that may not make sense but believe me what had to be done is done I am better for it!! There's no time limit when you got to go you got to go so yes I was married and yes I divorced him because I love him enough to give him his freedom 🥹 it's complicated but it's the best thing for me... 🙏💯❤️😉🌞😎
My peace is everything.. I rather be alone and be happy doing things on my own terms..
💯 That’s what I’m saying
Tney realize the depth of your value when they realize they no longer have access to it. Facts.
Solid information!🔥 To be a woman is to learn to be in our divine feminine energy which is simply “TO BE”. Where as true masculine energy is “TO DO”. Let the man come to you sis. The egg does not chase the sperm. Women need to learn to be women again. God made us beautiful and we need to simply step into it. Be Blessed!
Amen, my sister!#ThatPart
Support each other and the inner beauty God gave us.
This is 100% on point. Our womanly energy is Godly & we have got 2learn to honor it💯💛
💯 % FACTS ❤
I love your comment sis! Very powerful 🫶🏾🙌🏿💪🏾
It’s not just for the man in your life. It is for anyone who didn’t see the value you brought to the table. Perhaps they didn’t even realise that you were at the table.
Exactly ❤
THATS HOW I FEEL
I no longer stay in places where I am not appreciated or wanted. My ex-husband cheating on me was the best thing he could have ever done. That continued disrespect was what finally led me to completely remove myself spiritually, mentally, and physically. Peace is priceless.
Your right Peace is priceless! First time my entire life I'm at Peace God is truly showing me things thank God almighty I'm free at at last.
Same here. My peace is pricles
Amen it is!!! 🙌🏼 I have a similar story and i have no regrets. I am so proud of myself for getting here. I love this life
AMEN. I FEEL U
I had to let go, I did not trust him with my Emotions and Love anymore. I thank God!!
Its always best to walk away before someone take your peace. Self worth is what matters. Put your energy and effort where its valued.
It's .. takes .. it's
It took me several bad relationships to realize MY self worth. But better late than never
This message came right on time. My divorce was finalized a few days ago. I've had no contact for almost a year. The way that man is spiraling is because I've cut off all access. Today is the day he abandoned me and our marriage. I almost broke my silence to get things off my chest, but this video was the first thing that popped up. I was meant to see this. I will stay silent. He's also a covert narcissist, so he's incapable of self-awareness.
Can you help me. 16 years marriage and 4 small children. Husband is cover I left him back in Sept. It's so hard on me. I see him posting videos on RUclips and he lied and got a protection order against me the same day after I left. He knew he lost the control over me. I'm still very emotionally sick. Haven't seen the children or spoken to them. My old two children keep telling me he doing it to get revenge and to hurt me for leaving
4 small children? Who’s taking care of them? Men don’t want to take care of 1 child on a daily basis. @@IndigoCherokee
I am so sorry you are going through this! Pray and ask God for guidance and try to make a way to see your younger children in a "safe & peaceful" environment even if it involves the court system. 🙏
@@IndigoCherokee I'm so sorry this is happening to you I wish I could help you somehow. Try to pray and find someone you trust you can talk to.....and if you have no one to talk to I'm here, sometimes all we need is a listening ear
Let’s be strong together!
I’ve ALWAYS known that when I wanted a man’s attention and wanted him to see my value, it would be in my disappearance. My absence will always be louder and more pronounced than any words I could say. It is my signature move.
I love this expression to other women because it works and it’s extremely powerful.
Silence 🤫 is the key..... let go and let God... this is great message... and confirmation.. to move on...
I miss him but ima keep moving on. My life is already changing in a positive way since i’ve decided to let him go.
@hennnyyc it’s normal to miss a person but remember with Time everything heals.. this too shall pass! Your life is better now; meaning He was your hinderance , so live on Queen! One day you’ll meet your King🙏🏾💯❤️
Stay strong‼️‼️‼️don't let him prove he isn't the one again. He'll only waste your time...
Boundaries are about: "I care enough to expect the best from you and I care enough for myself not to settle for less. 🎉
Yessssss
I had different relationships in my teens and my early 20s; I was treated like garbage. Those guys ended up getting married to other women and then got divorced. After I got happily married, they reached out to me. They didn’t realize what they had. You will survive.
😢.... thank you
This is powerful. Ladies we deserve Gods best. Lets not compromise and accept terrible treatment for the sake of having a man in our life. The right one is out there waiting for us to get healthy and whole so we can live our happily ever after.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️
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The lack of responses to your comment is shocking 2me. One of the most truest statements here. Thanku hun❤❤❤❤❤
I really needed to hear this! Thank you @ 66 yrs old I still believe God has the right one for ME!!! ❤️🙏
This man is on point. He damn sure told my story. Love you, Denzel, for my clarity
I don't think he's Denzel. More likely the voice AI of Denzel. But nice message of course.
🙋🏽♀️ Mines too, this was soo good
Mines to
My same story tooo😢😢😢😢😢.I'm crying over this cuz this hits hard😢😢😢
@vasilicaconstantinescu4008 you got this baby. It does hit hard, but God puts no more on us than we can handle. Keep your head up, I promise it gets better in time. It takes time, and you gave it to someone undeserving, so use this time for you to grow and prosper. God bless you.
I don’t want to think about how me leaving has affected him. It was ALWAYS about him- I’m just not interested. I want to think about how leaving affected me and what I want to do with my life now. I don’t want him back
Then why are you here listening to this video?
@@helentalia9923😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤🎉😊lol
@@helentalia9923 I was painting the front door and had it on “keep playing” mode…eventually I had to stop painting becauseI I couldn’t listen to it any more.
Stop hating ugh. @helentalia9923
@dianadeane9233 you don't need to explain to that idiot. Your comment is valid.
This is exactly what is happening to my Ex-husband. This is so powerful I was meant to hear this. I'm truly in a better place I'm totally at peace.
I walked away from 17 yrs. with my child. He did some of everything to lose my trust and love. I realize that what he had for me was not love it was a lesson. It's been 3 yrs. since we separated and haven't had any contact and that's because he's probably doing g the same things- no change, no apologies, nothing. The only we have in common is our child. I wish him the best. I'm living my life and continuing to heal.
GREAT FOR U. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉✝️✝️💯💯U DESERVE BETTER THAN A TOXIC NARCISSIST.
JESUS LOVES U❤✝️
U now know your own worth n that my friiieenn is priceless ❤continue lookin up for strength Guidance n preserverence n you'll be jus fine! I'm super proud of u n Jesus n your child is too!!! Keep shinin we see you glowing ✨️💛 😍 hugs from me to u!🫂
Peace and blessings for you and your child, 💯
❤ I'm in t same situation, but I Thank God no child is involved and he is still t same way ❤.They never change they just jump from one to another.Mines feels money,n sex is everything.I've learned no matter who he get with he'll never change he don't feel he needs to change.But one day he'll see when he's by him self in this world alone.
When people have very low to no communication with me and I have done absolutely NOTHING to deserve it it’s like a switch flips in my brain. I have learned much much faster sooner than later to cut off all contact, and if they ever see me as valuable or they want to communicate I let them come to me. I stopped chasing people many many years ago.
I had to STOP it too!! PEOPLE don't Appreciate the GOOD VALUABLE PEOPLE.
Silent is the best medicine
I let mine go. The peace I experienced was a blessing. I recently went to see him in the hospital. Still spinning lies and pretending to be everything he isn't. I will never subject myself to that nightmare again.
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Why did u go. Stay away, if u have chosen
Don't be spring back. As a compassionate and empathetic person I know how easily narcs can play with us.
Yes I let go of a 35 years marriage 41 years of knowing this person💔 because of infidelity, for a long while I thought I was in the "Twilight Zone" but I gain peace like I never knew🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿❤️
@@jacquelinevaughn5626 Absolutely. The first few months after separation, I went through the trauma bond or twilight phase. We put our heart and soul into our marriage only to find out years later, it was the wrong person. I am at peace and loving my new life.
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I'm knou married for 35jears and I never remove myself to be happy.
AMEN ME TOO
I love this! Mr. Washington isn't talking about any man. Denzel is speaking about a REAL man. Not a narcissist, a manipulator or one who discards your heart. One who fully knows how to be "present" in a relationship and is in tune with his own inner being, his core, his weaknesses and strengths. Values and cherishes the gift you are to him. Don't settle for anything less. ❤
I ran across this video tonight. It is so timely. Happening to me. I have decided to go radio silence. We shall see. To hear Denzel Washington speak makes this message even more powerful.
@@Flufero23 Do you not realize this man is a PDF FILE? He's been exposed by several survivors for crimes against humanity. All of Hollywood is Satanic. When will you all wake up and end the idolatry of these criminals. Satanic rituals, blood sacrifices, ped0fi1ia, many are destroyed by what these people do.
Truth❤
❤ you are not alone,I'm in the same situation right now in my marriage.He knows he's not good for me,but he refuse to leave n let me have peace 😢 he moved me to his state which was t worse thing I have ever done in my life.I regret it now.I trust God will protect me from his evilness
I’m will need to listen to this daily. I’m so hurt by his lack of effort. I’m ready to feel better.
Yes me too, when you love someone but they are mean and hurtful you need to get away and stay away
Time heals, choose you!
Once you start working on yourself and focusing on YOU, that's when you will begin to feel better. Start doing things you've been wanting to do but put aside, go to school, learn a craft. It's not until you pull all your energy back from this soul tie that you will begin to feel better. Self- care, don't look back unless you're planning on going there, don't look too far forward because you don't know how far ahead you'll make it, focus on one day at a time. God bless you!
Prayers for your healing. ❤❤
@@taitianathomas9749beautifully put❤❤
I had given him a "3rd" chance. He had too many "bodies". I walked away in July. He has attempted contact and for some reason I've missed them. GOD covers me.
Thank you, Denzel💚
Oh God. Too many bodies! 😷 yuck. Please stay away from that sex crazed demon.
I'm glad I found the strength to walk away and focus on myself. It was the hardest thing I have ever done in my life but it was worth it. Self-respect over disrespect and confusion. Everything in this video is true
He can comeback over and over again but 'd rather have him blocked for good because he will never change. 😢 I'm better without him now.
I've delt with this too
@@Blessed.Allwin mine was almost 2 years of complete silence . Blocked on everything . He did come back, and our marriage is better for it. I did pray for strength not to contact him, and let me tell you it was difficult . I have faith in God, not man
Let them go. Know peace .
Don't trust everybody with your heart ❤
That's for sure, have to always guard your ❤️
This can also relate to a friend relationship
@@sism3028 So true.
Absolutely
Thank you Denzel. My ex has started calling to " see how I'm been doing?" This helps me understand why now..
Don’t talk to him, don’t respond
Same! Just last week reached out after he left and got married before the pandemic! Boy BYE!
Same here, it's crazy
It’s AI, it’s Denzel computer generated voice. But good message
@ I figured it was AI
I hope that there are women listening who have some hope for reconciliation in their relationship after hearing this. For some of Us, too much has happened and moving forward alone is the BEST thing we can do for Ourselves. I would love to save my marriage, and I also know that I shouldn’t. 😢
I second that.❤
I think MANY of us would STRONGLY suggest u2 listen 2this on REPEAT bcuz u dnt know your self worth...& more importantly...he does not know it either😢
Unless you're dealing with a Covert NARC, the contact is merely a hoover.. TRUST your intuition, and stay mindful of the 🚩's..
They energy snatchers, once you leave without notice stay gone. Reasons I keep them at a distance
2 months & counting...NO contact life goes on... Mousey from Buffalo NY 💜💚🎉
He will never see my face or hear my voice, MEN WANT THEIR FREEDOM
If u end up on such video why u should leave, just leave girl and don't look back. Its not our job to build that man or fix him. We just gonna make him better but for other and u will be traumatized and dry.
He broke up with me after one year being together, an amazing year full of good emotions and closeness, OVER THE PHONE, out of nowhere. And I never saw him again. Still don't understand why. No normal conversation, not even a proper goodbye. Nothing. It's been four months, and I now know with absolute certainty that I would never go back to someone who did this to me. It's downright sociopathic behaviour. And this is a man who's 40 years old, not a teenager. I was never anything but loving and supportive to him. If he didn't want to be together, the least I think I deserved was some basic respect for my feelings. A conversation, an explanation with compassion, some closure. Not to be thrown away like a bag of garbage, out of the blue. It's insane, it shatters your trust in people. Be careful of avoidants who bottle everything up, they will hurt you badly. And probably will never come back to apologise.
Hope this message helps you and give you clarity and peace. Many times it's not you or anything you've done. It's him. It's not always a bad thing but growth and maturity. I pray 🙏🏽 the best for you.
He didn’t want to be close to anyone, you scared him off. Just think about the time you spent together
I totally understand how you feel because I’m going through the same thing. I couldn’t commit because it was long distance and I hadn’t met him. I didn’t want to hurt him so kept it at friendship for 1.5 years. I didn’t want to give someone false hopes but he on the contrary gave me all the hopes and suddenly as soon as he found another woman disappeared without a word. I know I was in the wrong because I didn’t commit but I was there for him and bonded over that time. I am not an animal to have been discarded like that. It has shattered me into pieces and can’t seem to come out of my depression. For the pain I’m now feeling I don’t know if it was love finally that I had for him or the loss
This is very similar to my story. Sending you a huge hug, and positivity. It is a hard road out of the pain, the confusion, and the cruelty. I hope you are finding yourself again x
Hi dear, men this days appreciate and love bitches not a decent women ,they respect a women that doesnt care about them period.
Preach Man Preach. Never want him BACK into my LIFE. I MEAN NEVER.
When I woke up today and was giving my gratitude to God for all the blessings He has given me I asked if there was something He could show me that I needed to know. When I started the computer your channel was the first I saw and decided to try it. Talk about having your prays answered !. Thank you for all of this as it is exactly what I needed. Don't know where you got your wisdom from but it is right on. Thank You.
I totally agree with you I know these phones can hear you talking and they will give you a Google search videos, etc. can these phones hear you think I literally went to RUclips and I was going to search for videos where when people have poor communication what are you do? This was right on time when people have poor communication with me I have learn to trust my intuition and stop trying to contact them if they want to contact me, I’ll let them do it in their own time and in their own way your absence and your silence speaks volumes. Stop begging people to communicate with you and stay in your life who don’t want to whether it’s romantic or non-romantic.
Thank you ❤
But it's sad it takes a woman to leave for him to see the blessing he had. Now, some of us don't want him back.
Dont listen to their words, wait for their actions, and their actions will tell us all we need to know. Sadly, until they heal themselves, they will continue to hurt other's along the way. We just need to love ourselves enough to walk away and do our own healing work so that we can have healthy, secure, and loving relationships with ourselves and others. As hard as it is, we deserve so much more ❤
I went back after a break up, it happened only once, never again. You waste your time caring and repairing and the reason you left comes into the picture again. Spend the time that you would be crying, feeling sorry for self, going on dates talking about the ex to a date on self improvement and self respect.
He kept coming back.. I Hope He Never Returns 🙏
You CANT allow that to happen
You need to take control
The pain,the hurt and all the tears..He make me feel like I am worthless and unloveable..I taught for a momement I was too blame for all of this..I blame myself for not being there enough,for not understanding and for being dramatic..but I was never too blame..I was too vulnerable and available anytime when he enters..He always choose someone else..So where do I fit in..So if others are too good and I am the bad guy,why bother to be around someone who will never saw your worth or effort..It is better to left then to be a burden in someones life😥😥
The ghosting, the silence, etc. was the best thing, it taught me not to look behind me, but look what's in front of me. I won't go backwards, I'll continue to go forward.
This message came in no way of a coincidence. When I realized my worth and cut this person out 6 months ago, he reached out yesterday and owned his behavior, Denzel nailed it on point! This is exactly what I needed to hear💖
That's why you always practice being alone even in the midst of others. It is not hard to do. It takes practice and skill with your mind shifting in and out of realities Just excuse yourself a little bit at a time when surrounded by others at a gathering, or large event. Go to the restroom for a little bit and close the door and lock it if possible. Go into a changing room and lock the door if you can. Do this a little at a time and gradually work yourself mentally of being alone even around others.
When the time comes and it will for them all to suddenly, or slowly disappear from your life as you grow, or outgrow them you will not miss them as much as opposed to being used to seeing or being around them regularly. This exercise works automatically and even when using technology. The phone is a good tool to use as well. Just start turning on to off silence mode or anything else that regularly connects you to others. You are not isolating yourself just getting into the habit of knowing how to turn off the noise of people while in their presence.
Great insight, jazzy! Thank you for sharing. ❤. I needed that and this channel. It's about self care.
I love this...... thanks for sharing.
You said it all, Denzel, you sure was speaking about me, God bless you, Denzel
I doubt very seriously that my husband will miss me when I am gone. He already has “female best friend!” the whole time we were married. I don’t want to block his happiness! I am moving in silence.
Trust me he does that because he knows it piss you off. Try avoiding him & act uninterested around him, see how he will react 🤗 You & your feelings matter ❤
@realestatecoach8626 Trust me, I was in the same boat. It just makes you look like the whole relationship or marriage was just a big lie and deceit. Silence is power, move in it, and set boundaries that should never be crossed again after lesson learned. God bless .
That’s why I’m learning boundaries with female “friends” in dating! Not blind to the other sex- just want to know that if I’m the one there’s no other need for others!
I’m sorry you went through this.
@Mariposa0101 Thank you for saying that. He didn't break me. I stay ready just in case. Lesson learned that won't be repeated ever again.
Oh he will MISS you. My EX husband did the same thing years back!!! Re marry someone else and Had a bigger wedding and all. And another kid. Etc. Found out he’s been talking about me to my family etc and how he misses “us”. It took him years later to realize I was a GOOD woman and it was too late by that time. I moved on. Even in pain I Moved on. And then he left that Wife and MARRY his 3rd wife… 🤔🤦🏾♀️… Had children etc. And HE STILL trying to convince himself I will be his friend by sending me a facebook request?! This was recent. I keep denying his request. He sent it 3-4 times. I even saw him friends with my Siblings and Family and mutual friend still on social media SMH! 🤦🏾♀️ and They all talk still and I DON’T. Feels awkward that the family don’t understand it’s OVER. And I AM GONE. - This is almost 16 or more years now. He still there and I am done!! And I was told he is in the church now and supposedly a “Christian “. Now he wants to communicate with me after his Abuse, and lies and cheating and etc. I am Over him and over it. His a Virgo!!! ♍️ Virgo men when they will try control and manipulate etc. I am sure anyone is this way!! But even though if I forgave him. I don’t want to GO BACK TO THAT GARBAGE 🗑️!!! Just leave me alone and continue to move on sir.
Preach Denzel! 💯 silence speaks volumes !
that grass ain't green as they thought .....and most know they not worthy
Thank you for this video because it really encourages me on the journey of setting boundaries with my boyfriend, who always avoids commitment but gets back whenever he needs me around. I value myself and need not say much but rather go silent in setting boundaries. I draw more strength from this video. Thanks for he gonna lose me.
I can relate
AMEN BROTHER WASHINGTON!!!!😊
I needed to hear this
This message really gave me a great sight on my ex relationship I do see how he's missing me but acting like he don't but he's going to lose me that way because I don't like confusion
Thanks for the advice .
What's meant to be .... can't be broken! ❤😊
Yes, I learned to match his energy. He was too much of a coward to express himself, instead he ghosted me. It was very hard at first, because I was left without any answers. As time passed, it began to sting less and less. I stopped reaching out attempting to get answers, blocked and moved on. I have given myself closure.
Omg I’m going threw the same thing
@ it’s very difficult at first, but I promise you will be okay!❤️🙏🏾
This is all facts. I grew out of the woman they had and they fail to understand that.
Yep exactly, I don't want back. At all leaving was the best thing I did.
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Im going through a healing process. Im investing in myself
You're incredible. How you have such a small channel. Hidden gem
Thank you Mr Denzel. You are wonderful. I listen for strength every day. When I don't listen I cry and pray for strength I never have to be so foolish again.
When life turns in wrong direction than they realize what they lost 🌷💕💕💕🌷
Nice to know, but too late. He had 20+ years to treat me well and and appreciate me.
I hope he works this out, but not for me, for him.
He had a good thing, no more.
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For me it going no contact was about my peace of mind and nothing to do with how he felt ❤
The way Denzel Washington speaks is like what a daughter needs from her father. Though I never had the opportunity from my own, it’s this kind of talk I needed to embrace that we all go through heartbreaks and never understanding why it happened, but we know our worth and will come across someone who is at our level and loves the way inside and out.
Silence Speaks Volumes!
This piece has brought a lot of insights to me. It tells the untold power of silence and distance. Thank you Denzel. It is my prayer that one day, I am able to meet you 8n person and say, "Thank you"!
Just gave Me the best understanding of an on and off 15 years relationship, realize Me having the strength to walk away to give him his space, He would always come back seeking a relationship once again, even if it was two years later. In the meantime I just put more time into My family. I’m now over it. Just enjoying life, family and friends, that see Me. Thanks for finally understanding the why. 🙏🏾
How did I not know this channel existed???!!!😮😮
Repetitive patterns can disrupt. Loneliness is real but as the song goes, I'd rather be alone than unhappy, as well as that saying, "when someone shows you who they are, believe them." Ladies...love who loves you.
Now THIS is a dope AI. Definitely delivers a heralding message. I’ve made the right decision.
I was wondering if this was AI because they use the same message for different people. Is this legal?
No more, when he left, he did me a favor. I thank God for him leaving, I love me more. I deserve better. Now, I have closed this chapter in my life. Now it's time for God to work on me
I know and feel the same,I prayed one night to God please get him out of my house,he heard my prayers he saw my tears and pain
This is true only for some men I found others say their life is too complicated for a relationship
That's good for them. However I won't be your booty call option !!!
Thank you Denzel, for speaking truth! Most men don’t have the courage to admit this truth!! For all of us who at some point been through a break up that caused you pain, heal and forgive yourself first for trusting and loving someone who took it for granted! Love on yourself and thank GOD you made it out alive and with yet another opportunity to really be true to you first! Much life , love, and healing vibes sent your way 🙏🙏🌹
Time doesn't always make the HEART grow fonder! Sometimes it was all just a trial and opportunity to grow...for both!
He taught me I still held that fire, I taught him self worth... Set him free to grow
I leaned from this that I found the man a truly loved but can’t have ♥️😔
This is so Lovely 😍 I haven't spoken to him in almost 5 months but have kept my distance, I know my worth even if he didn't 💔 this video confirms that I was right to do that 💯
I left him,and I just found out is the best decision ever❤
"So True❤ "Silence is Golden. "Moving on." You Elevate yourself." To The Most High. Your True Love. Amen❤🙌😇
Men move on within weeks. They underneath another woman really quickly even if they are hurting and in pain !!! Women move on differently!!! Oh he will MISS you. My EX husband did the same thing years back!!! Re marry someone else and Had a bigger wedding and all. And another kid. Etc. Found out he’s been talking about me to my family etc and how he misses “us”. It took him years later to realize I was a GOOD woman and it was too late by that time. I moved on. Even in pain I Moved on. And then he left that Wife and MARRY his 3rd wife… 🤔🤦🏾♀️… Had children etc. And HE STILL trying to convince himself I will be his friend by sending me a facebook request?! This was recent. I keep denying his request. He sent it 3-4 times. I even saw him friends with my Siblings and Family and mutual friend still on social media SMH! 🤦🏾♀️ and They all talk still and I DON’T. Feels awkward that the family don’t understand it’s OVER. And I AM GONE. - This is almost 16 or more years now. He still there and I am done!! And I was told he is in the church now and supposedly a “Christian “. Now he wants to communicate with me after his Abuse, and lies and cheating and etc. I am Over him and over it. His a Virgo!!! ♍️ Virgo men when they will try control and manipulate etc. I am sure anyone is this way!! But even though if I forgave him. I don’t want to GO BACK TO THAT GARBAGE 🗑️!!! Just leave me alone and continue to move on sir. This is with any of my ex’s they get with a NEW woman and marry or whatever and still trying to “See what I am up to” and I feel sorry for those other woman they be with. Smh. 🤦🏾♀️.
I want to find and be with my PERSONs. Who don’t go out his way to lie and hurt me. Etc. I deserve a love that builds new foundations, understanding, love, kindness , friendship, support and trust. I love to travel and do whatever it takes to keep my sanity and peace and happiness. If we aren’t on the same page, I want us to be able to COMMUNICATE with Understanding and RESPECT!! And don’t seek it elsewhere but with each other. Look out for each other even when it comes to our families etc. ❤❤❤. I don’t see a Masculine man this way anymore. Or probably never. I rather be single and die alone than to be miserable chasing behind false dreams and hopes. Thanks for this. Video 🎉
I find this so interesting because I think this video was partly intended to help a woman if she’s hoping to get her ex back, but if you read the comments, all of the women are quite happy to be done with their ex
Because men want to see what they lost. 😊