About one year ago, I met a guy and we were dating for a while until he told me, by the beginning of the year, that he needed some space. I stepped back but that was exactly the time there was a twist in my feelings. Like, I realized we were not THAT close and I wasn't so much of a priority. It was just a month later that I met someone else, we got along pretty well, we became gym partners, things were so easy between the two of us. I could literally feel that kind of real love growing between us. Since July this year we're in a relationship. Strangely, that exactly was the time, the other guy got back to me - I hadn't expected he ever would - and it took him half a year to figure out what he wants? However, between my boyfriend and me, there was never the need for either one of us to step back. We both knew we are meant to be 🤗💞
Many step back are not healthy and have very short realionships. Unhealthy men and women! Push and pull dynamics or ghosting! Not knowing what they want: ect!
I just took a step back from my relationship two days ago and then this video pops up. Such confirmation that I am headed in the right direction and path. I love all the information this video gives! So much value!
Me too.. ngl I already accepted it might be over between us because everything is always on his time line and his readiness and despite voicing the issue numerous times in a respectful manner, little has changed so I've decided to step back now
Update: To give you hope. My guy has come forward and has started changing the things I asked him to change. Sometimes we just need a new perspective. Time apart to reevaluate things. If he truly loves you he will come back ready to change!
Yes,I DID this for 7 months 😭😭. HE and I came back together after that long time away from one another 💞. Yes, Amen 🙏🏿. He's MY first LOVE. WE met as teenagers ❤❤
Facts!!! I step back and out the way after over 25 years of marriage!!! I got myself out!!! And guess what I DON'T WANT HIM ANYMORE AT ALL!!! IT GAVE ME A CHANCE TO REALLY SEE WHO HE WAS AND HE WASN'T GOING TO DO BETTER BY ME AND OUR FAMILY!!! IM OUT AND HE IS LOST!!! LITERALLY! FOUNDATION BROKEN AND CANT BE REBUILT!! SPACE SPOKE VOLUMES!!! IM HAPPY NOW FINALLY!!
Well, well, well.. 25 huh! I did 10 & after 3 days he started asking my gf of 60 yrs to go out with him. They will probably last 3 mons after honeymoon dies off. Then he will be back. I changed my number but I expect him at my Gate. The trust is 1000% out the cliff! I learned more from him in 2 months than entire 10 yrs. He is definitely my history. I don’t even plan on going to the Gate to see what lies are will express. I plan to drive directly to the courthouse to tell the judge that his mental cruelty and disturbance of my Peace is affecting my mental health. I’m demanding an order of keeping him away 500 ft away from my home for 1 yr. I will videotape him as proof! I just want him to disappear as he is worthless to my space. Pathetic. He will need to be told by the judge to Stop coming after me. He will 😅continue to steal my happiness & steal from my fruit trees that’s all he did if I allow him to continue to hustle me. He did nothing for me w/o him getting paid- at times double.
I'm stepping back while still maintaining the relationship to give my husband a break. It's a challenge to find the balance. I'm basically just remaining quiet. Trying not to do everything I was doing before.I like begging for validation. My incessant control and complain made him distant amd avoidante. He's a good man. God made me see how wrecked I am. Codependent, people pleaser, anxious, controlling, criticism. I feel truly blessed for having access to this content. I just wrote my dear husband a FORGIVE ME letter. I recognize how much of my load I've been putting on him, instead of healing my own wounds and contributing for a healthy relationship. Thank God my husband is still here, cuz I've given him reasons to leave. I've been really heavy on him and it breaks my heart when I start remembering everything, now that I'm seeing things more clearly. I'll heal. I'll be confident again and I'll bring joy to his life. God be praised for this blessing.
I am "obsessive" and I think I've ran him off, I needed to hear this because truthfully I don't know how to have a "healthy relationship, I NEEDED THIS!
To be honest I really hope you work on it ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ because as someone who is on the receiving end it's really hard.... because I'm a woman and my bf did this to me and honestly I asked him for some space and he doing the most...its overwhelming because I have always showed him appreciation etc.... but obsession is scary.... you are awesome ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@abigaildavidholistichealth5878 I I have been working on it, hadn't called or txt all week & listening to Denzel Washingtons motivational talks (he's Awesome) and, he called me today, but I'm still going to continue to fall back.Thank you.
My abuser is currently in custody. He stole my identity and my property, but I have prevailed through silent strength because I know my worth . I did not step back for a minute to contemplate what I did or didn’t do in what I could loosely call a “relationship”. I had a hard time putting up boundaries for years and in this particular “relationship” I had started to put up some very firm ones. Through the process, I began to learn more about myself and why I was always different. I came to learn that my personality is that of a “Sigma Female Empath”. I always knew empathy was one of my very strong traits, but also a fierce independence and marching to the beat of my own drum which attracted men all my life. In dealing with someone such as my most recent partner, I started walking in the strength always knew I had, but could never fully explain. Through this experience I’ve truly learned to honor myself and the woman. I am and continue to keep my circle small, and have a heightened awareness when it comes to men, and what I’m not willing to sacrifice 👑
Praise the Lord Danzel I been looking for this answers for some one to tell me this. Specially coming from my favorite actor. I been going through all this with my husband of 12 years. I am all about communication and he talks negative towards me. He said I talked to much he says negative about me and I am annoyed to him. He made me not dependent to him. He feels overwhelmed with me .
I'm giving him as much space that he needs. Even if that means moving on and leaving him reflect on the blessing he may have missed. If he realizes that and by the time he does, I may not feel the same way. Because once I give space, I start to lose feelings they usually begin to fade. It's how I came to the conclusion that my ex didn't want me as a wife but rather as a backup when his mistress broke up with him. I asked for a divorce. I actually prefer solitude. I don't need him or anyone. I'm used to doing things on my own. I spent doing things on my own during a crappy marriage. So when I give space, I start to make that gap bigger.
Praise the Lord Danzel I been looking for this answers for some one to tell me this. Specially coming from my favorite actor. I been going through all this with my husband of 12 years. I am all about communication and he talks negative towards me. He said I talked to much he says negative about me and I am annoyed to him. He made me not dependent to him. He feels overwhelmed with me . This video pop up in my phone at the right time.
I stepped back from a man… not easy but I know I love myself too much to go through things like this..This speech is very powerful as if my phone was listening to my thoughts. Actions speak louder than words for sure! Thank you ❤
He asked for space to get his mental together and at first I didn't understand what was going on and why fully.. Because we were supposed to go on a cruise but I we the didn't. Now I realize its needed for the both of us. Space and grace granted.
I agree with this 💯 percent. Thís is exactly what I am trying to do daily. What I thought would be a little tough, actually isn't tough at all. My question is, when does "stepping back" become naivety? Or maybe, enabling him to deceive? Where is that line drawn? 🤔🤔🤔
When you are in a relationship and feeding that he knows that he needs space to step out and give them time in space so they get things straight what they want their life. They woke up around sooner or later by letting you know what they want in life.❤
He is definitely from the old school and I love it. Maybe Denzel can aide in reshaping America back to the positive country that we use to love where we did not have a lot of worry about mental and physical abuses. Even though we know that they definitely existed. I wonder what it feels like to have a ‘healthy’ relationship?
Wow this is amazing. When did Denzel do this interview? So wise. I also feel like I need solitude to figure out my feelings & I’ve been growing my self-development, independence and individual growth so much.
Denzel is obviously speaking about relationships that are considered to be healthy in some respect. What he describes about a man’s personality when a woman distances themselves is fact if you live in the real world. And it only applies to men who are not considered to be mentally ill medically. Women have had to deal with men who have been narcissistic, sociopathic, and/or psychopathic amongst other things. Those are illnesses that you just can’t grow with. Targeted Individuals, such as myself, don’t have the opportunity to have those types of relationships that he describes. When you, as a woman, are dealing with someone with a mental illness, being taken for granted is an understatement. Eventually, we as women, are consistently tortured or in some way abused. We can’t just walk away like I, myself, definitely use to do. I wish I was still living in the real world, but I am not. My prior relationships have led to an ultimate doom. I haven’t had an intimate relationship in over 16 years due to the troubling reality that the men that I have dealt with were not mentally healthy. What about those type of men? Especially those that have no respect for the inner and outer beauty of a woman.
What work have you done on yourself? It's been 16 years and this is still your stance? How long do you continue to blame and point fingers? I'm not saying what you experienced isn't real. To the contrary but why are you attracting this and what are you doing to fix it?
@ Hello. Thanks for the question. I will try to answer you without sounding too distant from society. Some people live in a world where they actually have the ability to do everything that their hearts may desire. Work hard, play even harder. I have a girlfriend who does just that. I also use to live in that world, but, unfortunately, I do not anymore. It is not an excuse. It is just an immutable fact. My life has been stolen from me in many ways, but you best believe that I stay prayed up. There are some demons at work that you, honestly, may never understand. As to having any type of real commitments, I have, almost, never had one. I was married on and off for almost ten years and that was the unhappiest that I had ever been. At least it was before the current events unfolded. I really, honestly, do not care one way or another if I ever find a real, dedicated, life partner. It is up to God on whether that should be a part of my life now. He knows better than I. And if it doesn’t happen in this life, maybe it will happen in the next. It would possibly be interesting to have that experience either way, though. I thought, at one point in my life, that I had found a good person but as it turned out, it was all an illusion. A total deception that was used to help drag me into what I am currently experiencing. As I said, due to current events, and issues that are not within my control, true, meaningful love is probably more within your reach than mine. Our worlds may no longer be parallel. But, just know, Denzel is absolutely brilliant. He can really brighten up a day.
@ Easier said than done, luv. There are so many dimensions to the world that we live in that people do not know about. If you knew my story, then it’s possible that you may understand why I been single and celibate for so long. It hasn’t been a bad move for me to say the least. There are things that go on in relationships that I no longer have to worry about. In that way, I have peace. In others, I do not. The men, women, and so-called friends, amongst others from prior relationships, led to my decision. If my life were a movie, it would probably make you wince. So I decided to let go, and let God. It can be done. I am a living testimony.
I wonder myself but if it’s just his voice to get our attention- it’s quite fine by me. DW has been giving me a clear understanding “how deep” I really was. I am rebuilding my mindset without that man who wasted my 10 yrs & had nothing but deception to offer, as it took me a long time to see right through him. I’m glad it didn’t take me 20, 30 plus yrs to see it! I ran after my tail like a dog runs after his tail getting absolutely nowhere but tiredness. I’m tired. And I’m Gone!!!
I am a loyal women I am a great women and I have show him my love good and bad times . I am available when he needs me and I don't feel he values me or appreciates me. I need to hear this. Iam tired of trying communicating I am a great communicater. I am taking a sep back with my husband of 12 years
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About one year ago, I met a guy and we were dating for a while until he told me, by the beginning of the year, that he needed some space. I stepped back but that was exactly the time there was a twist in my feelings. Like, I realized we were not THAT close and I wasn't so much of a priority. It was just a month later that I met someone else, we got along pretty well, we became gym partners, things were so easy between the two of us.
I could literally feel that kind of real love growing between us.
Since July this year we're in a relationship. Strangely, that exactly was the time, the other guy got back to me - I hadn't expected he ever would - and it took him half a year to figure out what he wants?
However, between my boyfriend and me, there was never the need for either one of us to step back. We both knew we are meant to be 🤗💞
Many step back are not healthy and have very short realionships. Unhealthy men and women! Push and pull dynamics or ghosting! Not knowing what they want: ect!
This is the story of my life. All of my exes come after I move on🙏🏾
I just took a step back from my relationship two days ago and then this video pops up. Such confirmation that I am headed in the right direction and path. I love all the information this video gives! So much value!
I stepped back yesterday. Tired of getting mistreated . He is right validation
Me too.. ngl I already accepted it might be over between us because everything is always on his time line and his readiness and despite voicing the issue numerous times in a respectful manner, little has changed so I've decided to step back now
Update: To give you hope. My guy has come forward and has started changing the things I asked him to change. Sometimes we just need a new perspective. Time apart to reevaluate things. If he truly loves you he will come back ready to change!
Yes,I DID this for 7 months 😭😭. HE and I came back together after that long time away from one another 💞. Yes, Amen 🙏🏿. He's MY first LOVE. WE met as teenagers ❤❤
@@marybentley8317 Omg we met when we were in middle school. I love this!
Facts!!! I step back and out the way after over 25 years of marriage!!! I got myself out!!! And guess what I DON'T WANT HIM ANYMORE AT ALL!!! IT GAVE ME A CHANCE TO REALLY SEE WHO HE WAS AND HE WASN'T GOING TO DO BETTER BY ME AND OUR FAMILY!!! IM OUT AND HE IS LOST!!! LITERALLY! FOUNDATION BROKEN AND CANT BE REBUILT!! SPACE SPOKE VOLUMES!!! IM HAPPY NOW FINALLY!!
💯❤
Well, well, well.. 25 huh! I did 10 & after 3 days he started asking my gf of 60 yrs to go out with him. They will probably last 3 mons after honeymoon dies off. Then he will be back. I changed my number but I expect him at my Gate. The trust is 1000% out the cliff! I learned more from him in 2 months than entire 10 yrs. He is definitely my history. I don’t even plan on going to the Gate to see what lies are will express. I plan to drive directly to the courthouse to tell the judge that his mental cruelty and disturbance of my Peace is affecting my mental health. I’m demanding an order of keeping him away 500 ft away from my home for 1 yr. I will videotape him as proof! I just want him to disappear as he is worthless to my space. Pathetic. He will need to be told by the judge to Stop coming after me. He will 😅continue to steal my happiness & steal from my fruit trees that’s all he did if I allow him to continue to hustle me. He did nothing for me w/o him getting paid- at times double.
@@elsaruiz-qf3bgsmart as they only break our hearts more
@@elsaruiz-qf3bgcon men and women!! Sick 🤢 sorry too hear you scammed too
Love takes time.
Respecting myself is a main thing.
This makes so much sense never be needy or clingy find your worth nd invest in your growth ❤ very good advice
Nope. That's toxic. People aren't needy or clingy. They may need boundaries but that's such an unhealthy way of looking at things.
So true. Step back let them realize your worh
I'm stepping back while still maintaining the relationship to give my husband a break. It's a challenge to find the balance. I'm basically just remaining quiet. Trying not to do everything I was doing before.I like begging for validation. My incessant control and complain made him distant amd avoidante. He's a good man.
God made me see how wrecked I am. Codependent, people pleaser, anxious, controlling, criticism. I feel truly blessed for having access to this content. I just wrote my dear husband a FORGIVE ME letter. I recognize how much of my load I've been putting on him, instead of healing my own wounds and contributing for a healthy relationship. Thank God my husband is still here, cuz I've given him reasons to leave. I've been really heavy on him and it breaks my heart when I start remembering everything, now that I'm seeing things more clearly.
I'll heal. I'll be confident again and I'll bring joy to his life.
God be praised for this blessing.
I am "obsessive" and I think I've ran him off, I needed to hear this because truthfully I don't know how to have a "healthy relationship, I NEEDED THIS!
To be honest I really hope you work on it ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ because as someone who is on the receiving end it's really hard.... because I'm a woman and my bf did this to me and honestly I asked him for some space and he doing the most...its overwhelming because I have always showed him appreciation etc.... but obsession is scary.... you are awesome ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for honesty I think me too
@@abigaildavidholistichealth5878 I I have been working on it, hadn't called or txt all week & listening to Denzel Washingtons motivational talks (he's Awesome) and, he called me today, but I'm still going to continue to fall back.Thank you.
What if they ask for that???
My abuser is currently in custody. He stole my identity and my property, but I have prevailed through silent strength because I know my worth . I did not step back for a minute to contemplate what I did or didn’t do in what I could loosely call a “relationship”. I had a hard time putting up boundaries for years and in this particular “relationship” I had started to put up some very firm ones. Through the process, I began to learn more about myself and why I was always different. I came to learn that my personality is that of a “Sigma Female Empath”. I always knew empathy was one of my very strong traits, but also a fierce independence and marching to the beat of my own drum which attracted men all my life. In dealing with someone such as my most recent partner, I started walking in the strength always knew I had, but could never fully explain. Through this experience I’ve truly learned to honor myself and the woman. I am and continue to keep my circle small, and have a heightened awareness when it comes to men, and what I’m not willing to sacrifice 👑
Salute my girl. U got this❤
Yeessss, me too 🙃
Praise the Lord Danzel I been looking for this answers for some one to tell me this. Specially coming from my favorite actor. I been going through all this with my husband of 12 years. I am all about communication and he talks negative towards me. He said I talked to much he says negative about me and I am annoyed to him. He made me not dependent to him. He feels overwhelmed with me .
This was needed VERY MUCH!
Stepping back shows trust and self-respect. It’s empowering to know that real love doesn’t need chasing-it needs understanding.
This is such much needed you have no idea…
I needed to hear this , listend more than once now to practice as I so want things to work as it meant to
I'm giving him as much space that he needs. Even if that means moving on and leaving him reflect on the blessing he may have missed. If he realizes that and by the time he does, I may not feel the same way. Because once I give space, I start to lose feelings they usually begin to fade. It's how I came to the conclusion that my ex didn't want me as a wife but rather as a backup when his mistress broke up with him. I asked for a divorce. I actually prefer solitude. I don't need him or anyone. I'm used to doing things on my own. I spent doing things on my own during a crappy marriage. So when I give space, I start to make that gap bigger.
This is powerful brillant life affirming. Beautiful and clear.
Years of knowledge in one place concise.
thank you.
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Praise the Lord Danzel I been looking for this answers for some one to tell me this. Specially coming from my favorite actor. I been going through all this with my husband of 12 years. I am all about communication and he talks negative towards me. He said I talked to much he says negative about me and I am annoyed to him. He made me not dependent to him. He feels overwhelmed with me . This video pop up in my phone at the right time.
Absolutely brilliant- this makes such sense
I stepped back from a man… not easy but I know I love myself too much to go through things like this..This speech is very powerful as if my phone was listening to my thoughts.
Actions speak louder than words for sure!
Thank you ❤
I love Denzel and his wife's union,Ilove you're wisdom I'm listening and being g obedient in my power to let him lead.thankyou, happyholidays.
❤ absolutely true ❤ thanks for this awesome informative video 📷📸 very much appreciated 👍😊
He asked for space to get his mental together and at first I didn't understand what was going on and why fully.. Because we were supposed to go on a cruise but I we the didn't. Now I realize its needed for the both of us. Space and grace granted.
I agree with this 💯 percent. Thís is exactly what I am trying to do daily. What I thought would be a little tough, actually isn't tough at all. My question is, when does "stepping back" become naivety? Or maybe, enabling him to deceive? Where is that line drawn?
🤔🤔🤔
So true step back let them realize your worth it❤❤
Amen. So very true. Thank you Denzel Washington
Can't you tell it's AI... Not Denzel Washington!
If I have to step back. Then the relationship is totally over!
Absolutely you look back at it and say to yourself oh hell no!!!!
Frfr
😂😂😂😂😂😂
thank so much for this , this is a treasure , i felt like someone that really love me told me all this ❤❤❤❤
When you are in a relationship and feeding that he knows that he needs space to step out and give them time in space so they get things straight what they want their life. They woke up around sooner or later by letting you know what they want in life.❤
Thinking about what is being said is incredibly helpful
He is definitely from the old school and I love it. Maybe Denzel can aide in reshaping America back to the positive country that we use to love where we did not have a lot of worry about mental and physical abuses. Even though we know that they definitely existed.
I wonder what it feels like to have a ‘healthy’ relationship?
It's AI, not the real Denzel :)
@@evenstar9946Really???
Thanks for telling me. They use his voice. Always thought it would be more impactful is he was there in person speaking 👍🏻
This works!
Hvala puno
Just be true iam ok value what u feel bless u .
❤❤❤ all facts 💯 💯💯 Self love
Wow this is amazing. When did Denzel do this interview? So wise. I also feel like I need solitude to figure out my feelings & I’ve been growing my self-development, independence and individual growth so much.
Facts all day❤❤❤❤❤
So True
Lo voy aplicar con una nueva persona, el pasado para mi no existe y nunca existió. Vivo en mi eterno presente 🎁✨
Boundaries
I am SHE && I truly appreciate your support
No sure if this is really Denzel (AI), but like the message nonetheless.
Respect
I feel that
Denzel is obviously speaking about relationships that are considered to be healthy in some respect. What he describes about a man’s personality when a woman distances themselves is fact if you live in the real world. And it only applies to men who are not considered to be mentally ill medically.
Women have had to deal with men who have been narcissistic, sociopathic, and/or psychopathic amongst other things. Those are illnesses that you just can’t grow with.
Targeted Individuals, such as myself, don’t have the opportunity to have those types of relationships that he describes. When you, as a woman, are dealing with someone with a mental illness, being taken for granted is an understatement. Eventually, we as women, are consistently tortured or in some way abused. We can’t just walk away like I, myself, definitely use to do.
I wish I was still living in the real world, but I am not. My prior relationships have led to an ultimate doom.
I haven’t had an intimate relationship in over 16 years due to the troubling reality that the men that I have dealt with were not mentally healthy.
What about those type of men? Especially those that have no respect for the inner and outer beauty of a woman.
What work have you done on yourself? It's been 16 years and this is still your stance? How long do you continue to blame and point fingers? I'm not saying what you experienced isn't real. To the contrary but why are you attracting this and what are you doing to fix it?
@ Hello. Thanks for the question. I will try to answer you without sounding too distant from society.
Some people live in a world where they actually have the ability to do everything that their hearts may desire. Work hard, play even harder. I have a girlfriend who does just that. I also use to live in that world, but, unfortunately, I do not anymore. It is not an excuse. It is just an immutable fact. My life has been stolen from me in many ways, but you best believe that I stay prayed up. There are some demons at work that you, honestly, may never understand.
As to having any type of real commitments, I have, almost, never had one. I was married on and off for almost ten years and that was the unhappiest that I had ever been. At least it was before the current events unfolded.
I really, honestly, do not care one way or another if I ever find a real, dedicated, life partner. It is up to God on whether that should be a part of my life now. He knows better than I. And if it doesn’t happen in this life, maybe it will happen in the next. It would possibly be interesting to have that experience either way, though.
I thought, at one point in my life, that I had found a good person but as it turned out, it was all an illusion. A total deception that was used to help drag me into what I am currently experiencing.
As I said, due to current events, and issues that are not within my control, true, meaningful love is probably more within your reach than mine. Our worlds may no longer be parallel.
But, just know, Denzel is absolutely brilliant. He can really brighten up a day.
16 years? I think it's time to get over it
@ Easier said than done, luv. There are so many dimensions to the world that we live in that people do not know about. If you knew my story, then it’s possible that you may understand why I been single and celibate for so long. It hasn’t been a bad move for me to say the least. There are things that go on in relationships that I no longer have to worry about. In that way, I have peace. In others, I do not. The men, women, and so-called friends, amongst others from prior relationships, led to my decision. If my life were a movie, it would probably make you wince. So I decided to let go, and let God. It can be done. I am a living testimony.
Is that Denzel Washington or AI???
Ai
Yes
Right
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Are these all really by Denzel! ❤
I wonder myself but if it’s just his voice to get our attention- it’s quite fine by me. DW has been giving me a clear understanding “how deep” I really was. I am rebuilding my mindset without that man who wasted my 10 yrs & had nothing but deception to offer, as it took me a long time to see right through him. I’m glad it didn’t take me 20, 30 plus yrs to see it! I ran after my tail like a dog runs after his tail getting absolutely nowhere but tiredness. I’m tired. And I’m Gone!!!
Wow
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I do not need him anymore! I want a man with private jet and security! 😜😂
Me too chile😂
I am a loyal women I am a great women and I have show him my love good and bad times . I am available when he needs me and I don't feel he values me or appreciates me. I need to hear this. Iam tired of trying communicating I am a great communicater. I am taking a sep back with my husband of 12 years
As a Team
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Amen 🙏🙏🌟👑💃✝️🙌
Ok but why is the last half of this pretty much the exact same as the first half
#ButGod
and If you realise, this not what you were looking for after they show you true colors?
Leave them where they are don't look back if u didn't like their true colors...or stay and live a fake life until they break your heart and leave u...
@@lala5061 couldn't imagine different answer
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