Robert Greene: The Unconventional Technique to Detect and Deal with a Deep Narcissist
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- Опубликовано: 19 июн 2024
- Robert Greens: The Unconventional Technique to Detect and Deal with a Deep Narcissist
“Normally we think of narcissist as someone who loves themselves and am actually saying a narcissist is a person who doesn’t love themselves sufficiently. A deep narcissist lacks the ability to love themselves”
In order to get through life, we have to have a degree of self-esteem; we have to have a sense of inner worth. If we don’t have a bedrock from within we constantly need attention and validation from other people.
DEEP NARCISSIST CHILDHOOD
1. A parent neglects them or is abusive, and the love and affection that they expect is actually the opposite. So they are not able to develop that self that is able to love because they feel like they actually hate themselves
2. The parent overwhelms them with attention and suffocates them to the point where they are not able to develop an independent self.
Either way that self-image that we come to love is aborted, it doesn’t grow. So, when a child grows to 5 or 6 years old in those moments of pain when they are not getting the love they need, instead of turning inwards they have to turn outwards, they have to become a performer, they have to act out to get attention and sometimes that drama is very entertaining but it can come from inner emptiness.
DEALING WITH A DEEP NARCISSIST
“The worst thing you can do is to take everything personally and get emotional. A deep Narcissist power is in grabbing your emotions and entangling you in their drama. They are better at it so winning is next to impossible when playing to their strength. So, you have to learn in general in life to stop taking so emotionally.”
CUT THEM TO SIZE: “Don’t fall for the myth, see them as a human being with temper tantrums, with issues, with emotional baggage etc. when you fall for the myth when you start thinking that they are greater than they're. when you start trembling from fear you’re in their grasp. But when your calm you see them as a baby throwing temper tantrums or whatever it is you’ve got some control and you have options.”
The number one strategic principle that is the most important of all is “The person who has more options is the one who will win in a competitive situation”
if you only have one option you’re generally under the control of your opponent, but if you create a situation where can move to different positions that means you can react in the moment and you can take the path that might be the best for that situation.
You always want options, and when you get emotional, when you react, when you get caught in their drama, you have only one option “ANGER”. You’ve already lost.
When you're calm you can not say anything, you can quit, you can choose. You’re in control and the deep narcissist is not in control because you have options.
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Robert is the author of the New York Times bestsellers The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, The 33 Strategies of War, The 50th Law, Mastery, The Laws of Human Nature & The Daily Laws, he turns to the most important subject of all - understanding people’s drives and motivations, even when they are unconscious of them themselves
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I tried to help this person for 30 years. It was futile. The narcissist exhausted my energies, my time with my family, and my finances. I didn't even make a dent.
Who was this to you ?
The universe will reward you
I think survivors of relationships with narcissistic personality disorders eventually resign to a deep understanding of “choosing battles”… some bridges will never be rebuilt, some roads will never be paved, and certain oceans are best left uncrossed.
It’s like choosing to not touch a red hot burner- despite our hearts desire, we must neglect our instinct, use our head and leave some imminent dangers the EFF alone.
I often think when leaving a relationship like that (I have been a magnet for these dark entities as long as I’ve been alive) if it’s today or thirty years from now…. My will to survive will one day win out over my (programmed?) masochistic tendencies.
As you say, it’s FUTILE-- I wouldn’t entertain the prospect of entering the Olympics in downhill skiing if I’ve not the time, talent or tools to do so.
As you say…. We don’t ever even make a dent.
In life, we win or we learn. You learned a lot.
@@LucifersDeathSquad My younger sister.
A narcissist is never going to change because they will never admit that what they are doing is wrong... and I refuse to be the emotional parent of a narcissist for the rest of my life. It's sooooooo much easier to just completely and permanently walk away.
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They are demons, which is nauseating to be around those energies
As a deep level narcissist who admits he's wrong and who's spent the last 10 years trying to rewire his brain towards empathy and authenticity I disagree
A narcissist is somebody who is insecure to the max! Most of time they have an inner voice that tells them they are worth nothing, no matter how good they are in something or how well they do in life! They are continuously in conflict with themselves and act this out to others. The more they resist, the worse it become! They have to accept the voice inside and actually make fun of it, so they can control it, because it will never go away!
It truly sounds hopeless
I had a manager like this, she was a complete narcissist. She belittled and berated until I put her in her place once. But it's unfair that she is allowed to get away with it. After 5 years I quit. I lasted 5 years because I took your advice. Quitting was the best thing I did, for my self, but I feel sorry for those I left behind. You always have to weigh the situation. It's probably best to leave right from the get go. In the future I will give my boss 3 chances, I quit on the 4th because life is too short.
Putting her in her place is also out of a deep need for recognition. I’m not trying to make you feel bad about yourself, I’m almost reminding myself of doing the same thing.
Why would you work somewhere for 5 years . I think 6 months the longest I've gone without getting a another job.
Lady M
No need to give 3 chances to such supervisors. They do not deserve it since they would not improve themselves and instead feel more atracked. I was with such a person but my job was too good to quit because it was a,stepping stone fir better jobs. Vesudes, he was hell vent on destroying that upward mobility path of mine and was DETERMINED to destroy mine and would not quit.
But because I had lucked out and used *that* lucky opportunity to passions the hostile work environment info that set the chain to reach to the management who, though did not come to my aid, learned his lies portraits me as incompetent and not dans I able of following instruction by finding out I had master's degrees.
3 chances ? Lol. Stockholm syndrome and workers in capitalism having lack of class consciousness 😆 and guilt trips.
@@atis9061It's absolutely NOT out of deep need for recognition. It's for respect, which every human deserves from the beginning. We teach people how to treat us, but the TRUE narcissist doesn't play the same fair game. When you actually confront them, and enlighten them to the maltreatment, you must do so with great composure, and do not get down on their level with high emotions.
The following days will be the true test of just how susceptible they are to constructive criticism, as well as whether you can allow them to be a part of your existence. A true narcissist should only be given ONE chance, because they don't change, nor do they deserve further opportunities to feed on the wise and innocent.
They are sick dangerous folks! Run for your life
He just explained that everyone's a narcissist.
Yeh the devil for sure. The evil one. They can die. They want you to.
Yes ... But one can be healthy Narcissist@@magicunclefergaloreilly6699
Narcissistic traits and NPD are not the same
Can't run when its your mother. Sigh! I am still stuck with her. But i have a plan. Thankfully i succeeded in my studies, i have a job and now i am looking ( hoping) to be recruited in a job in another city, so that i can rent a house of my own and get the hell out of her house.( technically it is minw too.) but as long as she lives there and doesn't follow me, i will be fine any other place.)
The trouble with trying to cure yourself through work is mostly they become workaholics who further abuse their loved ones through neglect
100% true , a cured narcissist stays single and gets absorbed with work
This is very true. This was my father. It's a very sad existence for all concerned.
In my experience, neglect is far better than abuse. Leave me in peace and what the f you want! I can be with my self and i be happy. the problem with them is that thay attach other human beings to their fucked up life!! Don't feed on other people!!
It’s so hard not to take it personally in the heat of the moment when someone is being nasty to you. That’s the hardest part for me
You really need to learn this skill, visualise yourself beforehand not reacting , best of luck
Think of you as a fish, the throw you a line, (agression, drama, etc, ) look what it is behind their behaivor, are you going to bite the bait? Oh , no! Then you win! 😄
Everything they say to you, they want to say to themseleves. Instead of saying words like that in the mirror, they say them to real people. As if people are mirror with no ability to hear and process words.
Diaphragmatic breathing helps and also remembering they provoke you to get a reaction and he/she wins when you take the bait.
It's important to remember your best defense is not playing the game.
I know is triggering 😢. Breathing deep and slow helps you to avoid being triggered so you don't play their game.
I suggest you try look for Frederik Imbo about this topic. It was a game changer for me, may be it works for you too. Cheers.
He's talking from experience and he's saying from the pain he went through that's why he can teach
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Agreed with you Robert, the issue is when you start seeing them as little child they take advantage of it and keep sucking your entire energy. Why should we get involved and sink in their drama when we have option to get out of their loop
Narcissists are good at love bombing and gaslighting, they could make you feel that you re their world and even make you believe you re the one who control the relationship or they like that you are controlling them… most ppl get confused until they feel they re constantly suffering from false accusations and whatever dramas
You can get out also by treating them like they are a puppy. Tell them how "cute"they are. Nice shoes etc. And you will see the difference in time. Don't overdo it because they are probably "street-wiser".
When you see them as a little child you can lose respect for them too
@@ursamajor6347. I agree! 👍
@@recuerdos2457 15:25
Who cares if they have psychological problems ?!?! Abuse is Abuse and it is personal if you are at the receiving end .
They are evil monsters.
I think you're missing the point. When they are in full-flight rage or cruelty, they are insane, in a psychotic break. Not normal people. Not abuse that's personally aimed at you. He's not making excuses for them.
I like the way this gentleman speaks, he’s very easy to listen to. 👍😊
My self-esteem is intact. No narcissistic clown can penetrate my hermetic psychic shield 😁
Hahahah ❤
I can't find the proper words to describe my immense gratitude for having these constant “Aha” moments by watching Robert Greene. His geniuses and tranquility while narrating human beings' behavior and how we can improve by observing ourselves and our environment is mind-blowing 🙏💛
Having a psychotic boss harassing you is difficult to not take personally. Bc the constant stress & chaos they bring into your life effects your mental wellbeing, they can lie & say you’re not performing well & no matter what u do isn’t enough. And eventually this can negatively effect your finances.
Psycho bosses can effect you getting other work, bc maybe u had to leave abruptly or they blacklist you (this truly happens, more often than ppl think!). All of this can potentially cause housing insecurity ( which can lead to many psychological issues), physical illness, etc… so no matter how much of a self aware person you are & KNOW the psycho boss is projecting their personal trauma onto you, doesn’t mean they can’t or won’t destroy your life. How on earth can you not take that personally?? So, I don’t agree with Greene on that particular point.
It affects you personally because you choose (consciously or not) to stay long enough (too long) so they could complete the destruction process. Why not leave before it's too late?
Yes I agree with you!!
@semplybalanced3210
Thank you. You are absolutely right. You should take it personally and PROTECT yourself, your future, your family, your prospects
Idk why so many people repeat those stupid mass wisdom mantras,narcissists also love to say to their suply sh.t like "its nothing personal" or "just let go and let god"
A narcissist is simply a person who doesn't believe in unconditional love (likely never receiving it as a child). They thus seek for external validation.
Center of attention stealing people hard work.... Waiting Humans to make excuses for bullshit actions
This is very interesting to me. My sister and I had a terrible childhood and I became an introvert but my sister is a full blow narcissist, even very early on. Strange it affects us in different ways.
Introversion has nothing to do with narcissism. Narcissistic introverts tend to be more covert and passive aggressive, but are every bit as toxic and people will find out just as easily.
I belief in multiple lives, this explains the 'nature' part of how you react to conditions. it could be both you and a soul with narc tendencies can potentially learn from the same kind of environment. Probs you werent treated exactly the same so its even tailored. As soon as you are aware and some meassure of courage and persistence you can grow
Robert Green truly is a gift.
Sorry for another comment. What makes us weak is huge lack of self-awareness
When I was young I'd try to work with those people and give them time and love and endless attention. I figured enough love would make them change. It did not. They were endless drains on me. Most people like that are unlovable for a reason. They are empty vessels and not worth My time. I quit throwing my pearls before those ones.
I had a traumatized childhood too,but i really hate attention.even if someone is saying a good think about me,am like would you please stfup bro
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The reason I try to be nice to people is precisely because I had a traumatized childhood.
My covert narcissist caused me to have a seizure Dec 22. Never heard from her since. 😮
When you described the deep narcissist backgrounds, the first one was me. In fact, I could identify a lot with the aspects of a narcissist you mentioned. I've been seeking ways to break those traits. Maybe I'm wrong, but I consider that these behaviors began as some sort of means to survive in what probably felt like a hostile environment to me but I certainly didn't have the words to express that. What I want to do is reprogram my brain. I'm trying to do it but I honestly don't know what I'm doing. I'm researching and have a great therapist. I'm doing my best to apply what I learn to reprogramming my brain to match my ideal of just being a human being, having contentment with that and just doing what good I can for the sake of others and be content with where I'm at in the moment.
@gabriellashmone6546. Hi Gabriella, As soon as you recognize any shortcomings of yourself and want to better them, you are allready much further then most! Try to listen to yourself Monitor yourself. When you get feelings of hate of jealousy, recognize it. Ask yourself of why you got these and tell yourself why it is wrong in that case and what positive things you can make of it instead! When a inner voice is telling you you are worthless when you really know you are not, ridicule it! It takes a while (different for everybody, but it works more and more to get a healthy way of dealing with it and be more positive to others, but also to yourself! I hope I gave you something to that can work for you! When there ever would be a right time to say to somebody that it is great what you do allready, then this is such a moment! So I mean it when i say; You doing great already! Good luck!
@@MultiTipsie Thank you! I'm 56 and finally attempting to do something to break the cycle and change myself for the better. I want to see the world be a better place and there is no reason I shouldn't participate. Destroying the negative with positive affirmation sounds far more healthy than what I've been doing previously. Thank you. I will sincerely give these things a go!
You are well on your way :). Thank you for the insightful post
I invite you to get to know Jesus, He'll help you get out of this effortlessly
You are doing great, proud of you
I'm still not quite okay after my art mentor got me to the point of severe burnout. One thing I observed when I started waking up from admiring him, is how absolutely insecure and paranoid he would get if he feels someone doesn't like him. He would treat someone like an enemy, so vindictive. I still sometimes just wonder how is this guy going to deal with life if he can't handle not being liked by some people? Hopefully I've learned how to spot narcissists because in general I really actually like people and want to see people do well. It can be blinder, but I don't want to change this part of me (I don't think I can) and become too cynical. I am a bit more weary of people in the workplace now though.
Every human is a narcissist. Psychologists mislabel the term pride. It can manifest in personhood.
@@adsffdaaf4170 😂 no man, narcissists are not the same thing as pride.
I feel how you feel, it feels good to trust people, but we should be very cautious about this.
Completely agree. 30 years 😢
This makes me tearful because, I am in a probate war, with my younger sister. I’ve tried to veer from labeling her a narcissist, like our mother was, but it’s become unavoidable. She is waving VERRRY BIG FLAGS.
But, it makes me tearful because, as I am the oldest and her half sister and even though I was not a very supportive older sister when I was young, I know some things about her life and I know her calloused attacks at me are as a result of what has happened in her life.
Neophytes would say I should do the best I can to help her. But, I’ve suffered too much, being the golden child, converted to the scapegoat role and I’m in my late 50s. If my sister’s fear was just of me, I don’t know. Maybe there’d be a chance. But, her fear is of herself and her own life and the rest of the world. I cannot fix those things, with us now both being in our 50s.
But, I do see the child in her, like I would any child, that is born and hopes to be loved and successful. But, goes through life, with one loss after another, just hitting them and them never being able to figure out how to right themselves, in an increasingly competitive and uncaring world. It is painful to watch.
In the silence of your Heart: let her know, you love her and pray she be guided to heal, while managing your own emotionnel space.
I pray Allah Az-Zawajel confort you both, and make you happy and successful people, amine ya Rabb'il Alamine!
Damn I felt this, I’m also a older sister to a hurt younger sister who seems hell bent on destroying me. I love her and it hurts that she wants everyone’s validation at my expense
@@sokhna-sl4fp thank you.🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
@@Nvmsea it looks to possibly be a painful end of life, for the both of us as, we may end up living just doors apart. Sadly, it’s the most security I’ll ever have needed to install. And, once of the things I hope for l, is no interference from well-meaning neighbors, who feel we can just hug it out. It is too deep and too late for that.
@@privateprivate8366 you’ve inspired me to go to codependence anonymous it’s not too late to try and set boundaries and love them from a distance
All these spirit leaders. Always on stage. The focus of The Many.
...and the narcissism of it all...
At the end he says Oppenheimer kind of cured his narcissism through his work.. Creating a bomb doesn't sound like curing yourself. Maybe it just comes out in your work
Yes. The cure lead to the most destructive weapon ever conceived.
Well said. And well received.
I hope at least once if I can meet this genius man, who taught us how to play the game of life, I hope someone taught me this in my childhood.
Most narcissists suffer shame ... from childhood sometimes from molestation or similar things... it's the shame that drives the behaviors and the need to act like they do.... esp coverts
Amazing video! Great advice from Robert Green. The only thing I don't agree with is that deep narcissists can heal themselves.
Your perspective on this is so right to the point.
Thank you Robert for your amazing lessons. I listen to all your podcasts and read your books.
I am becoming a better person each day.
Thank you so much xx
So many narcissist swear up and down that theyre empaths.
Wow Hearing this at just the right moment. Explains a lot. And I love the strategy to cope with this.
Fantastic and invaluable information. Thank you!
I had a colleague who was an extreme narcissist who would constantly complain about people and berate them. Most of us held our tongues when dealing with her, not out of fear, but because we all knew that she would be instantly destroyed by the truth coming from our mouths.
none of what you described sounds like narcissism. Not at all.
@@Wasp239 She lived in a fantasy world where she was better than everyone else.
I was working with a lady who was exactly same... Always complaining about others, how they are not working hard enough etc while she was the weakest link in the team!!!! I'm not making this up. At the beginning I felt sorry for her because she was also complaining about her life how poor she is etc... It didn't take long for me to notice how happy she is when bad things happened to me, basically those were the only times she 'lit up'... She was incredibly negative, full of envy, even towards her own daughters. Every times when I tried to make her feel better I felt totally drained. I realised the only thing I can do with her is just to ignore her.
Thank you so much Robert for your invaluable knowledge, it's a great help for me to choose paths or options since currently I'm facing deep narcissistic coworker.
Good insight
Great interview ❤ Blessing and greetings from Senegal!
This is fricken brilliant....thank you
This is real GOLD!
Thank you. X
Robert Greene we have so much to thank you for. Your take on narcissism is accurate and your expression is, as ever, elegant. Quite brilliant 👏
You do know he’s a narcissist right? (not sure which type) He does give great advice thought.
some were also spoiled and never corrected as children....not respecting peoples boundaries, huge sense of entitlement....
Ending of this video for me personally is eye opening - the first movie I watched with a man who at the end emotionally abused me in very subtle way was the Openheimer movie. It was the first sign I would deal with the narcissist full of i securities but I didn't trust my gut. My female energy. Dyring the time he turned off all my female energy and I felt insecure and alone.
Absolutely brilliant
Thanks robert greenne
Excellent
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The composer Robert mentioned here is no other than one of the most talented composers in the world Aram Khachaturian!
I agree with the previous comment on the spelling. The devil, or perhaps a god, is in details.
Perfectly said
I don't care what kind of trauma they had. It still doesn't give them a license to treat others like shite!
The way i see it, either accept it or work on it to be better. But they lack the backbone to do it.
I think this is me, I feel that I always talk about myself and I do like being the center of attention. I often feel like I have low self esteem and seek validation. How should I work on this?
Try to become curious about others it’s effort but try to learn something from people around you
Taking responsibility is key
You knows the game, and you know what to do with unnecessary people like so
Wow...ty❤️
brilliant
The big question: “Who cares??”. Dont like someone? Remove them from hour life! Simple!
What if its your boss or your wife?
These narcissistic people will not let you go in peace. It's not simple at all.
@@magicunclefergaloreilly6699(remove them from your life.)
A very good video, but what I would say is that there is also a genetic component to narcissism. These personality traits are definitely passed down through the generations. My sister and I were bought up by two loving parents, I’m an empath and my sister is narcissistic. My sister was always difficult from a baby upwards. I have aunts that also have this trait also, as well as some very empathic relatives. Its the luck of the draw which genetics you receive and of course what sort of childhood you have can magnify these traits.
Wow that's revealing
I can relate. I come to the assumption that these things can sometimes skip generations to heal that families line or template that has come from before them.
"I am an empath" thats what a narc would say. GOTEM
@@Kryogh "GOTEM" is what a narc would say😃
@@haizzzz7486 absolutely 👍
The key is to strive to fix things within you. Then there are those that want to remain broke. Fine, stay down there. Walk away.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Definitely
That is most of society anymore.
Not ok to say all of us have narcissism. All of us may have selfishness.
Narcissism comes with compulsive manipulation.
Just because a person becomes a better version of himself doesn't mean he cured his narcissism. He probably had the ability to improve, but not the motivation.
Narcissists don't improve when they have the opportunity. They learn better ways to manipulate.
Narcissists: by definition this means someone who is in love with oneself. An out of reality environment is the perfect peasantry ground of raising a narcissist. This together with constant “all praises to Jesus and Jesus himself” crowd of parrots makes this worst. Now what is the difference between “self-confidence” and a narcissist is the BIG question. Therefore, never mind in which axis of the line you fall because at the end we all live in our own paradise. Until that is turned into a hell.
They're in love with the image- false image of themselves because they hate their internal and external reality due to shame and deep insecurities.
Little children are empty love batteries..
They need just enough love...
For themselves
And to share!
A loving healthy relationship is where 2+2=5
Aren’t we all are addicted to attention ?very few can sit under the tree silently for months meditating . As what I see from my circle some people can’t even stay silent for a few moments
im dealing with a narc all my life and i do became as one.
My brother was born enraged & mean-spirited.
Great video. Please correct the spelling of Robert’s last name
This is a nightmare. All of the guys are narcissists, and it is horrible 😢
What should you do if you are one?
Woah so-creating a great work of art is out of narcissism? I think it is out of a healthy desire to express yourself, and that is not hurting anyone. Asking people to stop expressing themselves, or being emotional, doesn’t sound healthy to me. Some people are built that way, built to express themselves . It’s when you make blanket statements and leave out stuff like that , that your advice seems one-dimensional. Being emotional is being human, idk if practicing ‘not being emotional’ is the best advice.
Sadly a N may be getting some sort of perverse kick out of evoking a negative emotional reaction from someone. It is better to save such personal vulnerability for more trustworthy and genuine people.
I agree-throwing around the term “narcissist” Is confusing and inaccurate.
Self-expression which in turn inspires others is NOT a form of narcissism.
Which is about control and maintaining a “false self”
It’s not really a love of self-but a twisted form of protecting a persona at all costs.
to some degree yes. exhibiting art is attention isnt it. At least its a positive form of expressing this energy
I read somewhere that Stalin had a 'joke' he would say on occasion...
'Haven't you been arrested yet?'
This is common sense
Bree Chavez.
Bruh the background music put me to sleep
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Well I'm convinced I'm a narcissist. But everyone I talk too thinks I'm too much in my head. And that I can't be.
Time for therapy then.
I think narcissism is a scale and everybody has it to some degree... But some people have it more than others.
This is in line with Craig Malkin's research
I had this friend when I was young who was always stringing people along and demanding that folks be loyal to him and be a good ally. One time me and a friend were talking about console RPGs that we liked. Instead of ignoring us or going away, the guy started shifting around and smacking his lips. Finally he accused us both of being psychic vampires. As soon as we were alone me and the other guy concluded that Mr loyalty was the psychic vampire. Jesus Christ already!
The Internet, and specifically YT could have totally changed my working years... 😮💨
4:15 deep narc childhood
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WOW!!! I thought I was losin it!!! I never knew who the hell he was...who I was dealing with!!! He kept calling me MA!!! I though he had problems with hiz MOTHER!!!!😂!
I can’t love humans…I do love some but there’s nothing like animals - dogs, cats - humans…not my cup of tea
What i intuit is that you equate introversion with narcicism. Is this correct and if not, can you expand on the salient differences?
Not everybody who comes from a broken home or abuse become a narcissist. It has to be a choice....and it has to be an ongoing choice....don't you think?
Two easy strategies: 1) Run, 2) Away.
Unloved people don't love self.I tried so many times every next hit was stronger and more descusting.i don't need to loves me anyone.I don't believe in people and good things.My bones don't believe anymore
All of these coaches have thier own very special made up bad guy labels . everyone one of them .
Unconscious people
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However with that mentality you’re requiring those taut aren’t narcissistic to hold knowledge on how to handle people who are mentally unable to take accountability yet “we” have to navigate around that so we can exist with them. It’s exhausting, non rewarding and draining
Its a shame Openhima had to make the most diabolically evil weapon of mass destruction to cure his Narcissism.
Give me a series of 5 random photos of a person looking into the lens of a camera, and I can spot 80% of narcissists off the rip. It's the Holy Spirit within me that gives me such spiritual discernment.
Omg. Bull. 😐🙄
I agree Andrei. You just know when He reveals things and people and motives to you. Keep your faith strong 💜
@@egrace3738 And I also can tell a narcissist from their communication. It's a spirit. Like the spirit I feel behind your communication. It's the Jezebel spirit.
@@andre1987eph it is the Jezebel spirit.
You are absolutely correct.
@@andre1987ephokay how
NPD is not just made. They're born to be.
Not all children who go through the same traumatic procedure become NPD.
Dr.Ramani Dervazura own words" I have seen children who have a loving parents who giving them proper care. They do things right. Still those children become Narcisist. So I believe if that child born into this world with loving heart that child will not become a Narcisist
It s genetics
@@mariekebootsma4346 As usual it's a combination of nature and nurture.
@Marieke Bootsma absolutely.
The asteroid orpheus should have stayed a narcissist 😂
Probably should spell name right.
Robert Greens hahahaha
I know, right? 😂 By the title I thought the uploader is trying to tell us on how to detect people like Robert Greene lmaooo
Water sucks it’s really really sucks
We need to learn to be less emotional because of narcs and passive-agressives and control freaks??...I think we need to do the opposite. Let's all start to feel.....Feel it all! That'll take some 'ism down....Narcissism...Capitalism....