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  • Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024
  • This vegan vindaloo is spicy, PACKED with flavor, and just the perfect way to enjoy your tofu pieces. I’m not kidding, one of the best tofu recipes I have had until now.
    Do you also feel that your friend circle is getting smaller as you grow older? I just REALLY value my evening wind-down routine that a music concert just doesn’t seem to do it for me anymore! :P
    The full recipe is up on my website: beextravegant....
    #tofuvindaloo #vegan #veganvindaloo #vindaloo #tofucurry #spicy #curry #vegancurry #tofudishes #tofuideas

Комментарии • 577

  • @beextravegant
    @beextravegant  6 месяцев назад +324

    Recipe is up on my website🎉: beextravegant.com/tofu-vindaloo/

  • @lavradora7325
    @lavradora7325 6 месяцев назад +5190

    I officially apply to a friendship like that

  • @lamharaval8801
    @lamharaval8801 6 месяцев назад +2684

    I'm like 18 years old and somehow I can relate😂. I don't like reaching home late from college as it is and a party after hours is a big no. 5-8 is the perfect time slot

    • @wallareekelkar9458
      @wallareekelkar9458 6 месяцев назад +19

      Frrr same here im 17

    • @dab4235
      @dab4235 6 месяцев назад +1

      🙏🏼🎉Wow😊😊BHOAT BHOAT Soothing Voice I Am In Love With You So So Much🍁🙏🏼

    • @scienceislove2014
      @scienceislove2014 6 месяцев назад +2

      I'm the same age.. and i can relate

    • @RedLya
      @RedLya 6 месяцев назад +4

      I can agree being 19. Midday or weekend I feel is good and decent.

    • @ishuika
      @ishuika 6 месяцев назад +4

      Same and I’m 21 and a uni student 😭

  • @Mica-24
    @Mica-24 6 месяцев назад +449

    I feel like as we get older we want more deeper friendships. It doesnt matter if you have a small freind group as long as that friend group makes you happy, supported, and understood thats all that matters

  • @lovelydeath04
    @lovelydeath04 6 месяцев назад +982

    Oooohh, a 5 to 8pm party?! Sign me up!!!

  • @Freephalesteen
    @Freephalesteen 6 месяцев назад +343

    I'm 15 and and its freaking concerning why I can relate😂😅

    • @akifasaroosh4309
      @akifasaroosh4309 6 месяцев назад +6

      Ikr same!!!

    • @RoyalThug25
      @RoyalThug25 6 месяцев назад +6

      Same 😢

    • @harekrishna-od5eq
      @harekrishna-od5eq 6 месяцев назад +3

      🥲 same

    • @frgwyn3760
      @frgwyn3760 5 месяцев назад +8

      It’s a good thing, learning how to mature early only gets you more comfortable with adulthood

    • @sancharisaha1607
      @sancharisaha1607 5 месяцев назад +1

      You have dinner at 7pm?, i am 17 and i have my evening tea at 9pm, dinner is always way past 12am

  • @krithigasoft26
    @krithigasoft26 6 месяцев назад +209

    Our tolerance level changes too as we grow older . But I can be friends with you as you cook yummy food 😂

  • @mogwai_
    @mogwai_ 6 месяцев назад +67

    Those are Mt favorite friendships - I have yet to have a friend to grocery shop with, but that's okay it's nice to have the time alone

    • @lilacfunk
      @lilacfunk 6 месяцев назад +4

      I love grocery shopping

  • @shraddhajoshi05
    @shraddhajoshi05 6 месяцев назад +25

    Every word coming out of your mouth is reflecting my own social life. Love your videos btw your voice is such a pleasure to listen to 💛💛✨✨✨✨

  • @HootowlPatricia
    @HootowlPatricia 6 месяцев назад +159

    I am totally in! I get up at half 4 am, start work at half 6 am, come home around 5 pm and then I am completely useless and unavailable for any social interaction 😂

    • @Lifeeasycool
      @Lifeeasycool 6 месяцев назад +1

      Too early 😂 slow down

    • @HootowlPatricia
      @HootowlPatricia 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@Lifeeasycoolit is not. I have an office job and I want to spend the last three hours of my day in peace and silence at home.

    • @Awesomosarus
      @Awesomosarus 6 месяцев назад +3

      Oof! 6:30 a.m.? May I ask where you work? Totally makes sense for you to wind down early since you wake up at that hour, btw! ⭐

    • @HootowlPatricia
      @HootowlPatricia 6 месяцев назад +6

      @@Awesomosarus I work full-time in a scientific library. Most of the time I am sitting in an office, and I prefer to spend the first half of my working day in peace and silence. My colleagues start around 10, hence they are staying longer because they start work later than me. I have no problem with getting up early, I am a morning person. But that includes low energy in the afternoon and evenings. 😅 I am a very sensitive person, I need silence and early mornings are perfect for me.

    • @paulawojciechowska
      @paulawojciechowska 5 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@HootowlPatriciaI feel you

  • @jyoshnakm4704
    @jyoshnakm4704 6 месяцев назад +7

    It’s a sign of independence and self growth too I believe as we get older 😃, I can totally relate. It’s so nice to have that solid small set of friends that we can connect once in a while.

  • @Ko1234567890S
    @Ko1234567890S 6 месяцев назад +13

    The key is just to have friends who have a range of ages - I'm in my 40s and my friends group spans folks in their 20s through 60s. I love to dance but don't drink alcohol or like to be out late, so I take dance lessons, go to Zumba classes, and attend daytime dances when I can find them. And lots of my socializing is going to exercise classes, medical appointments, or grocery shopping with people. You'll find your people

  • @swethashankar8172
    @swethashankar8172 6 месяцев назад +33

    I am 32 and I go to bed by 9 and so totally relate to this timeline and friends who can workaround this

  • @KhushbooSinghvi
    @KhushbooSinghvi 6 месяцев назад +8

    Ok..it feels nice to know there are more people like me 🤗

  • @nishasuresh4892
    @nishasuresh4892 6 месяцев назад +22

    Was anyone else so engrossed in the visuals that you didnt hear a thing she said the first time, or was that just me?! 😂

  • @thriftedgem222
    @thriftedgem222 21 день назад

    this is such a mood😭

  • @bebii2935
    @bebii2935 2 месяца назад

    She so relatable..i like her sense of humour and her cooking skills!

  • @shiekabdulkader9800
    @shiekabdulkader9800 6 месяцев назад +8

    Yummy food,please keep uploading . You are my stress burster ❤.I will try it out

  • @amritasengupta4677
    @amritasengupta4677 3 месяца назад +4

    I'm 31 and I can absolutely relate to this. And I guess my circle of friends are getting smaller and smaller because of this!!

  • @firstclassstupid97
    @firstclassstupid97 6 месяцев назад +4

    If only I lived close to you... This kind of friendship sounds perfect to me

  • @priyachowdhury8
    @priyachowdhury8 3 месяца назад +5

    where should I send my CV? My life trajectory has exactly flipped like you. Not that I'm complaining but I love this quiet, hobby-led life❤

  • @roshinisrinivas5879
    @roshinisrinivas5879 Месяц назад +1

    I can totally relate to this .. making friends is so hard..and sometimes maintaining a convo is also hard

  • @ritwikroy7356
    @ritwikroy7356 6 месяцев назад +18

    I'm up for it..5-8 perfect!

  • @waspwrap1235
    @waspwrap1235 17 дней назад +1

    That offer at the end of the video sounds just like what I’m looking for

  • @blad_3
    @blad_3 Месяц назад

    OMG I'm so relieved to know I'm not alone on this.. I need friends like you😭😭

  • @danskerenflomme
    @danskerenflomme 5 месяцев назад +2

    I love the danish concept of Friday beer - everyone gets one (maybe two) beers or cocktails or coffee after work in Friday, and everyone is home for dinner at 6:30 pm. 🎉

  • @rishikafelicitychannel9588
    @rishikafelicitychannel9588 6 месяцев назад +2

    You are most relatable person ✋😭

  • @ayeshahmed7
    @ayeshahmed7 4 месяца назад +4

    I've been like this since my teenage... Late night things just disruption the balance of everything..

  • @Immersein249
    @Immersein249 4 месяца назад

    Reasons why Iove ur channel, it's different from other's social customs

  • @FitByAnkita
    @FitByAnkita 6 месяцев назад +2

    I thought I am the only one with no friends.. lol.. absolutely agree with you!

  • @deethigandhi
    @deethigandhi 2 месяца назад +2

    Sounds simply perfect n relatable! Absolutely agreeee.
    (Looks perf too ;)
    ❤😁

  • @isaiahsiordia1711
    @isaiahsiordia1711 6 месяцев назад +10

    I love the “send me your cv” part. lol vetting possible relationships like you would a job applicant is actually a pretty good idea. I wouldn’t do it personally but a good idea nonetheless

  • @VeganBengaliKitchen
    @VeganBengaliKitchen 6 месяцев назад +54

    Then I would be your perfect friend haha 😃 Yes! Want petition for 5-8 pm party! 🎈 😃

  • @Jjjjjkkkjjjj
    @Jjjjjkkkjjjj 2 месяца назад

    Ah i love this channel❤

  • @rach...
    @rach... 4 месяца назад

    THAT LOOKS SO GOOD MY MOUTH IS WATERING SO MUCHHHH

  • @mathildesarthou1368
    @mathildesarthou1368 6 месяцев назад +9

    Girl, same here. I'm literally in bed at 10pm cause I have to be at work at 7:30am the next day. Its impossible to make new friends !
    Look, I'm in France too so, hey ! I could send you my resume lol

    • @sancharisaha1607
      @sancharisaha1607 5 месяцев назад

      Well i am only 17 but like i sleep at 1am or half and hour later and wake up before 6am, do you do some kind of physical work that requires a lot of energy?, as 7:30 is not really early tbh

    • @mathildesarthou1368
      @mathildesarthou1368 5 месяцев назад +1

      @sancharisaha1607 I don't wake up at 7:30, I have to be AT WORK at 7:30. Take into account the 2+ hour of daily commute (1 hour to get there minimum) and well, now you know how early I have to wake up.
      Oh, and you're 17, girl. Enjoy being able to not sleep, cause it won't last lol. I was exactly the same at your age.

    • @sancharisaha1607
      @sancharisaha1607 5 месяцев назад

      @@mathildesarthou1368 i mean i am preparing for NEET , it's an entry exam to study MBBS, and it's one of the toughest exams in the world, in no way i am enjoying it, Also if i get selected then too in no way a doctor can sleep at such an early schedule, you wake up at 5:30 if i take the 2hrs before, which is the same as me a few months before exams, also what type of work do you do?

    • @mathildesarthou1368
      @mathildesarthou1368 5 месяцев назад

      @sancharisaha1607 I'm not sure I understand everything in your comment, but it sounds like your on the road to great things so congrats ! But my point still stands, enjoy it while it lasts ! Because your body can take so much more when you're younger, than later in life...
      If I want to be efficient at my job, I have to sleep early (terrible sleep quality and all) that's why I don't have much time outside work. And the type of work I do is irrelevant, you know

  • @salinisasi6744
    @salinisasi6744 2 месяца назад

    Yes since childhood I suppress my feelings and that trauma was too much that my spiritual journey is so difficult.Always end up with toxic relationship but almost your vedios helped me to how to heal inner child.Thank you dear ❤

  • @azadlaxman1
    @azadlaxman1 Месяц назад

    Loved this recital❤

  • @OliviaMarie-2010
    @OliviaMarie-2010 18 дней назад

    I’m fourteen and that was extremely relatable. I want to be in bed by eight, dinner at 6, a cup of tea and a good book.

  • @user-qm1gq1dd6i
    @user-qm1gq1dd6i 5 месяцев назад +3

    Petition for 7-10 pm parties 😊

  • @DikshaPatgiri
    @DikshaPatgiri 6 месяцев назад +1

    I'm sending mine soon❤

  • @sreedeviaryampilly
    @sreedeviaryampilly 2 месяца назад +1

    I officially apply to that friendship 😅❤

  • @FlagCutie
    @FlagCutie 21 день назад

    My friends and i will now "hang out" by go8ng grocery shopping ❤😂

  • @Evistopheles
    @Evistopheles 5 месяцев назад

    5-8 is perfect, I can do my routine of slowly getting to terms that it will be tomorrow soon and there’s so much time for existential dread, washing up, and getting sleepy afterwards

  • @ekstadropsen
    @ekstadropsen 3 месяца назад +4

    Seriously though! Luckily I take after my grandpa who was a widower for 20 years. My uncle was worried that he was home alone so much and grandpa just responded "I've never been social, why would I start now?"😂

  • @laurapruitt2129
    @laurapruitt2129 6 месяцев назад +1

    Honey I dig this. Also the food looks so good....🤤

  • @auromitakhan4848
    @auromitakhan4848 5 месяцев назад

    Perfect kind of friends ❤

  • @sneha_satheesh
    @sneha_satheesh 3 месяца назад

    Ok I am subscribing.
    It's highly relatable

  • @browngirlvegan
    @browngirlvegan 6 месяцев назад +2

    So yummy ❤

  • @user-no2tq7hy3o
    @user-no2tq7hy3o 6 месяцев назад

    Having less friends is the best u can do to ur self . Some friends are very negative and u can’t get of them from ur life and it’s mentally draining.
    Keep up the good work

  • @rubydoobydoo
    @rubydoobydoo 5 месяцев назад

    Damn!!! This is so so so relatable. ❤❤❤

  • @matcha.poltchageist
    @matcha.poltchageist 6 месяцев назад +3

    i need a friendship like that!

  • @serajacob8278
    @serajacob8278 6 месяцев назад +3

    Nice sweater 😊

  • @waspwrap1235
    @waspwrap1235 17 дней назад +1

    Me only having a few friends currently as someone younger: 💀

  • @Hwoman1123
    @Hwoman1123 6 месяцев назад

    Supported the title.. 10000000%

  • @kdjoshi726
    @kdjoshi726 6 месяцев назад +3

    Bruh I'm 21 & I relate to this

  • @earthboundV
    @earthboundV 6 месяцев назад

    This sounds delightful. Sadly I do not happen to reside in France. Wish you the best in this endeavor - finding adult friends after those golden 20s is tough AF! Good luck to all of us struggling with this.

  • @ASGayatrivlogs
    @ASGayatrivlogs 6 месяцев назад +1

    My friends party like that too.... I always prefer earlier

  • @liniala
    @liniala 5 дней назад

    Wait till you get to 40s … you start becoming your best friend

  • @nupiedupiedoo
    @nupiedupiedoo 5 месяцев назад

    let’s be friends PLEASE! as someone who is 27, i find myself just needing that quiet solace before bed every night and going out just isn’t fun or appealing anymore. it’s fun to be around friends, but sometimes i don’t want to be around lots of people or socialize when i can be at home and cook a yummy meal and snuggle with my moody cat 😭

  • @priyanshirastogi5096
    @priyanshirastogi5096 6 месяцев назад +1

    And here I thought I am the only one who has gotten less social over the years. I didn't know other people struggle with the same.
    Thanks for sharing :)

  • @mahashwetha91
    @mahashwetha91 6 месяцев назад +1

    Have tried tofu palak. This one smells amazing and will give a try❤

  • @lakshmiashokkumar885
    @lakshmiashokkumar885 4 месяца назад

    Thankfully am not the only one.. ya it’s hard to make frnds in 30’s..specially if you’re looking for the kind of bond you shared with school buddies !

  • @Aviralxdxdxd
    @Aviralxdxdxd 5 месяцев назад +1

    "Monjour di snitch" 🥶

  • @naneunanna6135
    @naneunanna6135 4 месяца назад

    Im 22 and that's absolutely relatable

  • @MS-ev9eq
    @MS-ev9eq 2 месяца назад

    So I should mute the volume and than watch this short peacefully 😂

  • @shruthikaranam8383
    @shruthikaranam8383 3 месяца назад +9

    Let’s be friends then 😅

  • @muntahaamudassar8368
    @muntahaamudassar8368 2 месяца назад

    For me making friends has always just been hard, and i am only 19 now. This is probably one of the things that emotionally messes me up. Cause i believe that no matter how bad or evil, arrogant type person you are, a friend does exist for you. I am not those things but i just haven't found anyone even close to that 😢

  • @sushmitapriya4394
    @sushmitapriya4394 Месяц назад

    I get you girl!!

  • @neethadas5245
    @neethadas5245 4 месяца назад

    Hey.. we have so much in common: Malayalam, french hubby, living in France, PhD, likes books and food! Love your videos! ❤ Keep up the good work 😊

  • @cerdas1814
    @cerdas1814 6 месяцев назад

    I would like to apply for this friendship. I always get tired by 9 and am asleep by 10. So this sounds perfect!

  • @jignakundnani1602
    @jignakundnani1602 2 месяца назад

    Hiii ❤
    I do get your point. Well, meanwhile I also have the similar story like you. I came to Paris for Masters and PhD. I’m juggling with so many things and managing to cook healthy meals along with handling PhD. So, now if someone ask me what is a kind of party I like, I say, let’s come to my place, I will cook, please come in descent hours and leave 😅🤣

  • @xra3267
    @xra3267 6 месяцев назад

    And our parents are still making friends with people like they know them for so long everywhere.

  • @klaramell
    @klaramell 2 месяца назад

    I'm a shy introvert with social anxiety. There's no way i make new friends (yet?) so i'm glad i kept a few friendships from school even though we all changed a lot and i don't feel a very deep connection to them.

  • @tasnimmeem1158
    @tasnimmeem1158 6 месяцев назад

    I'm in my early 20s and god do I find it relatable :')

  • @Pri-q5w
    @Pri-q5w 6 месяцев назад +1

    I feel the same as you being almost 19 and now i feel its alarming

  • @japsowinkaur525
    @japsowinkaur525 6 месяцев назад +1

    Can totally relate 😂. I think it's our bodies telling us to slow down😂

  • @Officially_Xan
    @Officially_Xan 6 месяцев назад

    Im not even in my twenties yet i barely have any friends its not that i feel lonely or anything i find being alone calming and if a person is not interested they should not be forced also lets be friends ive watched your videos for quite a long time and find you very entertaining

  • @simpulacra
    @simpulacra 6 месяцев назад

    yes that is concerning. friendship is the spice of life. sharing connection with other humans is why we exist. you must make it a priority or soon you will be all alone. and that's even harder to recover from. it happened to me and now I'm spiritual drained and isolated cuz I don't have enough community in my life.

  • @Womanwithwings_
    @Womanwithwings_ 6 месяцев назад

    Reading book and going bed by 10 is far more better than anything loud..as you grow older..you realise what values for you the most

  • @my_diary27
    @my_diary27 2 месяца назад

    True genuine friends don't exsist. I have been always cheated up by my closest ones.

  • @Imcoolerthanyou248
    @Imcoolerthanyou248 Месяц назад

    If you ever have kids, then it'll be REALLY easy to make friends- like when I was a kid, my friend's mother and my mother bonded so SO well and somehow they became friends in like half an hour just talking and walking together, so basically kids'll help ya with that lmao-

  • @rrinrinrin
    @rrinrinrin 6 месяцев назад

    I would love to send my CV but I am half sure we live in different countries lol
    Jokes apart, everything you said is relatable. Love the food you make btw! So inspiring.

  • @Divya-ht5in
    @Divya-ht5in 6 месяцев назад

    Honestly my childhood friend remained friends with me because in childhood we never had to do any extreme activities ti have fun.
    Hanging out at home itself was fun and going on bike rides was fun ..
    With college friends i have always had to do so many activities to have 'fun' and be friends and with work friends the conversation always just lands up on office gossip..
    Which after a point all this is tiring .
    With ny childhood friend doesn't natter if they are in a different city or continent..
    We will just do a video call and clean or cook and chat and sometimes we don't talk because we are so focused on doing the job or chore .
    But it doesn't get awkward not unnecessary dramas, nothing !!
    Just plain simple friendship !

  • @zenith2480
    @zenith2480 6 месяцев назад

    You know it All, girl!❤

  • @surabhivd
    @surabhivd 6 месяцев назад +5

    CV😂 so so important!

    • @beextravegant
      @beextravegant  6 месяцев назад +6

      😂😂 and schedule meet-ups and video chats after checking the calendar

    • @surabhivd
      @surabhivd 6 месяцев назад

      @@beextravegant and if they still don't match our vibe, they'll be friends, but on LinkedIn😂

  • @roguenrawwellness7682
    @roguenrawwellness7682 5 месяцев назад

    Listen I work 10-18 hours a day, I lost friends when I moved to New York, lost friends when I moved back to PA, when I became my family caregiver, when my mom died, in Covid. I say adopt a cat they’re more loyal and constant than people. Plus they’re the only creatures in the world that listen when I speak so I love them. Honestly my partner and I only leave the house for work and birthday dinners.

  • @SAY-jf3hy
    @SAY-jf3hy 6 месяцев назад +2

    Oh dear,i am 24 an i already need those *no reason* parties

  • @kirankishore9934
    @kirankishore9934 28 дней назад

    Sure. Sounds good.

  • @sinduja956
    @sinduja956 6 месяцев назад

    Me watching every shorts twice...first to read subtitles next to see recipe😂

  • @roratychan8495
    @roratychan8495 5 месяцев назад

    As a person who grew up frequently moving from place to another and sometimes from a country to another, the hardest thing for me was to keep a long lasting friendship. And now as an adult I find it even harder to build a relationship with anyone.

  • @user-wi4sn1kt7l
    @user-wi4sn1kt7l 5 месяцев назад

    Yessss u r my long lost best friend...as I work from home...I am usually done with everything within 9 pm and then I read books or go for walk....my friends always joke saying that I am already 60 mentally 😂😂

  • @ayeshamasooma687
    @ayeshamasooma687 Месяц назад

    I officially apply to a friendship like that (2)

  • @divyapoojary6963
    @divyapoojary6963 2 месяца назад

    Like wise so relatable

  • @kateliness2
    @kateliness2 6 месяцев назад +1

    5 to 8 parties, heck ya!

  • @abeyroy007
    @abeyroy007 4 месяца назад

    Sending CV to be a friend ?
    Nah I'm gonna straight up come to your home 😂

  • @madhumithab3151
    @madhumithab3151 6 месяцев назад +1

    I completely relate to this. 😃

  • @aparnasarkar7744
    @aparnasarkar7744 6 месяцев назад +1

    Sounds like my soulsister😊

  • @vishakha20111
    @vishakha20111 2 месяца назад

    Oh so relatable!!

  • @fleetyfoote5483
    @fleetyfoote5483 6 месяцев назад +1

    I would apply, if you ever decide to leave France and move to England 😂