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*Everyone who reads this, we don't know each other and probably never will but I wish you all the best in life and all the luck in the world 💕🥰*
Thank you my friend. I wish you the same.
I wish you the same!!!!
Beat it, turkey! 😁 🤗
Right back at ya, friend.
Oh oh oh can I be the negative guy who’s life sucks!!!??? 🙋♂️
“You don’t want to win, you want to fix the problem”. Brilliant.
Yes that's exactly what I was thinking when I heard it make the problem disappear with contending with it I dare say.
Peyerson is a sociopath
@@gfy2979 Why do you think that?
@@LosOne12 Because that is a leftist talking point and this person doesn't know how to think for themselves. Instead they simply repeat what they hear and the echo chamber validates them. They have never once had a rational conversation with anyone on the topic to even be able to justify their statement, so don't expect a response beyond another one liner attack with zero substance to back it up.
The difficulty is that most people just want to win. Trying to fix the problem vs someone trying to win an argument usually just ends in frustration. Usually, the only hope is that they ponder the conversation later and accidentally see their mistake. Both parties have to be trying to fix the problem and that rarely happens unless they were already on the same side.
To anybody who's reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind. May clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life.
Thank you
@@seatown55 ❤
Thank you, that was a lovely wish to put out there for us. All the best to you 🙌🏽👍🏽
Aye, read your open message to the world. Idk if I’ll ever find a peace or safety I once knew in our ever devolving world; but wish me luck as I strive to make a living as a media-streamer. I use to work a full-time job until I realized I was just picking up everyone elses slack, on top of my employer telling me I deserve to be single and ostracized. And my prior employer making death threats against my family...I realize this is the standard in the United States now.
Amen
To have Dr Peterson in the world at this time is such a blessing .
.......for who?
Is the earthquake in Haiti a blessing too?
Well Said.
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@sakor88 The irony is that it's weak, lost people like yourself who need Peterson's message the most. It's a vicious circle though: you hate Peterson BECAUSE he accurately points out you are the architect of your own failure, but your aversion to personal responsibility causes you to bitterly reject that message. You're caught in your own trap. Instead of taking personal responsibility you're angrily and childishly lashing out at the person who is telling you how you can escape this trap.
I learn so much from this platform/comments... No need to be negative towards each other😑 Please...
I was a hard-core heroin addict for quarter of a century, took Dr. Petersons advice about doing the right thing by me and others and I've been clean for nearly 3 years now. Not keeping score of the clean days because that feels like ticking days off on a jail sentence just not doing what I know to be wrong is simple overlooked advice
Well done! Live long and always be blessed with joy.
I just want to tell you I’m proud of you.
@@LB-tw7gg thank you
Proud of you too. And should you veer off that path remember nothing can take away the times you didnt...and nothing (new) is stopping you from getting on path again. You are only a failure when you stop trying.
@Stephen Hay• MAY YOUR CREATOR/THE ONE WHO MADE YOU BLESS AND GUIDE YOU MORE! Recently discovered Mr Peterson:what an inspiration he is🔊
Why do words of wisdom bring a tear to my eye? I am over 50 and I feel like It took my 50 years to wake up. I have always been responsible and faced all my issues, but I cant say I was ever truly happy or felt like I had purpose. Two or three years of listening to this great man has helped me to crack that crust and discover myself and my life. Long way to go, but I see the light now. Thank you, Dr. Peterson!
Well Derek, you beat me. I'm 55 and just now getting there.
It's never too late to see things. Ever.
WOW, you definitely beat me because this is SO me, and I'm 58!! Never too late my brother, that's my motto coming from a late blooming college student!!🤗🙏🏼🙏🏼
Let’s GO Guys!
I get where you are coming, as a 50 year old guy myself.
Whoever reading this, you’ll be succesful someday. Just keep on pushing ❤️
You too - I am listen you))) 🤣 🤣 🤣
It would be funny, if someone read that whike they were on the crapper.
Thank you 😊
Thank you for this
And you're assuming that anyone reading your comment hasn't been, or isn't, successful?
Struggling against one's own mind is likely the greatest barrier to becoming.
Somehow I don't think Charles Manson, Hitler, Stalin, et al, ever struggled against their own mind. Where and how the hell did you ever come up with that piece of non wisdom?
@@yankee2666 Relax...JE has his interpretation.
Joseph, I see your point
@@yankee2666, If you read my comment, you won't find a suggestion that criminal insanity holds a unique exception. In fact, the maniacs of the world seldom have a problem with the process of becoming whatever they want to become. If anything, they are an exceptional example of how being confident in one's own mind is a boon to one's goals. I am in no way suggesting that there is honor or reason in their confidence, quite the opposite, but the effect is undeniable.
My comment was intended to point toward those of us who are actually sane.
In what world do you imagine that I might have been intent on encouraging the behavior of the next Hitler?
Are you suggesting you know so much about me that, from the safety of your keyboard, hiding behind your assumed name and from whatever distance the internet allows you, that you know me well enough to cast such aspersions on my character?
I make no such claims against you, but I do wonder why you'd do that.
@@josepherwin5122 People project their own ideologies onto others.
When somebody assumes you mean or would do something in a certain way, that's a good indication of where their own mind is at, and would likely act accordingly if they were to say or do the same thing.
It's amazing that some people can listen to this man and call him a bad guy. It's really a shame, because the people who hate him are the people who really need to hear the message he's spreading.
I still consider him a bad guy in a sense because of certain views he has. But his advice can stlll be very useful and has been for me several times.
@@projectatlas4400 yeah I've heard things I admire and things I disagree with. You gotta be able to parse apart valuable info from opinion any time you listen to a person's teachings, especially when they involve a political or socioeconomical view. Those things are so complicated, there's a reason it takes many people to run the world. One man's view is always flawed.
These people don't listen, they just pretend
@@projectatlas4400 what views?
@Rogue2808 bigotry, in what way? I really am interested in your opinion
"You don't wanna win the argument,you wanna solve the problem - that's the real winning" 👏👏👏👏
That is the narcissist talking. There is no such thing as a problem, just a challenge to overcome.
@@robertholland7558 you don't wanna win the argument, you wanna overcome challenge - that's the real winning, yeah it fits better in a sense,the first line is easier understand
@@robertholland7558 not really if u don't put it that way that is
@@ShadabKhan-rx2rq The mountain is not a problem. You win regardless of whether you climb it or not.
Both are an challenge of equal. You may choose to walk around it. Even if you stay still and retell the stories of those that have taking the challenge, you win.
I have a problem substituting the word "problem" with "challenge to overcome" here. The latter is pretentiously pedantic.
“Life is not about winning. It’s about fixing the problem” because when we fix our problem-we’re winning.
That struck me too. And the part about 'thinking by talking'....I do that ALL the time 😅
GREAT QUOTE!!!
You can only fix the problems that live inside of YOU.
great quote, most relevant when thinking about politics today. no one cares about fixing problems, they only care if their team wins... sad.
Repent to Jesus Christ
“As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear him;”
Psalms 103:13 NIV
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“Do you want to be right? Or do you want to learn?”
This resonates so deeply, ive told others even, that i want to learn when im wrong, so i can be right the next time. The way you speak puts the complexity of life into a simple meaning, i appreciate these videos so much!
I did this... In 2020, I knew I should have left my abusive boyfriend of 3yrs, who abused me in every way, but for ages i just stayed with him and accepted the way he treated me.... Then one day, on the 30th August 2020, 3 days after giving birth to my stillborn who passed away before I gave birth to her and nearly died myself, i decided I finally had the courage to stand up to him... I left him, applied to University through clearing, got in to a University over 100 miles away, moved there by myself and got a fresh start, and so now its one year later and I am finally succeeding in working towards a career I love, with a new boyfriend who treats me right. I no longer accept abuse from people.. Its been hard but im finally living the life I knew I always deserved, please don't give up! Xx
Thank you. So proud of you! You are an inspiration. I pray, I get the strength to do the same.. Best wishes.
Bless you, Ashleigh 🙏💘💚XXXX
I've been in a similar situation (with an abusive partner) and I have to say that I am proud of you 💛
@@FaeChild8478 thanks so much, proud of you too and wishing you all the best for the future! X
Thanks everyone for all your lovely replies, hope you are all having an amazing life and going for the things you want and deserve! 💜
“Do you want to be right, or do you want to learn?” 🤯
Learn to be right
Imho, the truth is that you and I, all want both at once. The challenge how to get to this third stage the QUICKEST way! Does it induction or deduction. I trust that most none obvious is two - one - two - one approach. Clue: 🆘 algorithm as plan of action to escape of emergencies...
I want to LEARN ☮️
Good one!!
I heard this over and over from therapists:
“Do want to be right or be relational?”
Hearing that I would think to myself “Why can’t you be both right and relational?”
It took four long years to realize that the proposition was an exclusionary conditional …
I am learning now and growing by being relational.
Never stop dreaming. Be hungry and never stop believing in your dreams. if someone can do it, you can do it. Be strong🙏❤️
Stock's are crashing, Bitcoin investments Right now will be at every wise individuals list, in a month you will be ecstatic with the decision you made today
Every family has that one person who will break the family financial struggle I hope you become the one ❤️
Investments are stepping stone to SUCCESS, Investing is what create wealth
Warren buffet says "if you don't find a way to make money while you sleep you will have to work hard until you die".
Listening to Dr Peterson I've realized that I have been living in survival mode for so long that I have no dreams, no goals other than surviving. I can see nothing else.
Never stop dreaming. Be hungry and never stop believing in your dreams. If someone can do it, you can do it. Be strong
Being successful don’t happen by magic
Success is dependent on the action or
steps you take to achieve it. Show me
a man who doesn't have an investment
and I will tell you how soon he'll go broke
Investment is building a safe haven for the
future: with the right choice of investment
that has at least 1% minimum risk and
with an Expert guidance, profit and interest
should be 💯 guaranteed.
@@jeffreyneesmith4953 I agree e with you 💯 .. I had a senior
colleague at work who was doing well but
never had an investment. Unfortunately he
lost his job and went from living a
comfortable life to hardship. There would
had been something to fall back on if he
had an investment
@@jeffreyneesmith4953 NOBODY BECOMES A MILLIONAIRE OR BILLIONAIRE BY WORKING FOR OTHERS AND DEPENDING ON THEM, GOOD INVESTMENT BRINGS MILLIONS OF DOLLARS AND CONSISTENCY BRINGS BILLIONS. THE MARKET IS ALL ABOUT CRYPTO NOW YOU MIGHT WANT TO LOOK INTO IT
@@helenadams4641 True, there is never any culture of wealth gathering or wealth creation to keep multiplying your finance that lack an investment value. This means, if you have to plan you must be an investor. that's why Investing in crypto stands to be the best
@@helenadams4641 The only credible law of increase is investment because money not invested has no future. I make huge profits on my crypto investment since i started trading fx with Mr Kelvin Maorgan, his trading strategies are top notch.
'You don't want to win the argument you want to fix the problem, that's the winning.' Such a wise man.
You can never win a argument you can only make the other person believe they one. Save alot of drama cuz nobody wants to be wrong
To everyone struggling with yourself, watching this video. You are strong enough. This too shall pass. I am struggling atm, but we’ll get through this.
Love Ben
Thanks Ben.
Thanks Ben….needed.
Thanks Ben
Much love Ben.
Thank you Ben
I can't stop watching this... First time I listened, it caught my attention. The 2nd, I cried my eyes out an the 3rd an beyond, I listen to every single word. This is one of the most powerful speakings that I've heard in a very long time. 🖤
@@ecr-9341 Some people listen and some people hear
@@ecr-9341 Apologies for my earlier comment and thank you for helping me see where I went wrong
Best regards
JBP was a critical part of how I saved my own life. I feel bad for the type of person who has to be miserable enough to find it within themselves to hate this man. It's borderline insane that anyone can say they hate JBP.
It's my first time listening and the tears are flowing freely. I'm glad to have come across this at this point in my life instead of earlier on (so I can look back at what I've done and strive to be better) or later In life (losing the valuable time in which I could be bettering myself). I been on a downward spiral for the past 2 years and this brought me to an abrupt halt. It's given me so much to think about and evaluate about myself.
Dear Heart Thank you for sharing as opposed to teaching
“To listen to your resentment....” Critical thinking at its best... Who loves Dr. Peterson? 🙋🏻♀️
I'm starting today at 17 years to never give up again as he said. It took me a while to figure out everything but now I wanna be on track. 7 years later I'll come back to this video and see how my life changes.
Do it. You'll succeed 🙂
7 years is a lot.. aim for shorter
As Gamusur said...
Set your sights for 7 years but set check points. Check in again in a month, 6 months, a year. Then every 7 months if you feel ready. Because at 18 you have so many things in life that will try to sweep you away like trying to wade through a river and the current is.stronger than you realize. Checking in will help bolster you to keep going and to not give up when it gets hard.
Go you! I was about your age when I started doing this and you know what? Ten years later and I'm incredibly happy, there have been challenges but I stuck by what I truly believed was right even when it meant losing people close to me and I look at my life now and I couldn't be more content with my choices, where they led me and the amazing people surrounding me. Trust your gut and always keep pushing forward. You got this. 😁
Good luck to you!
“Try really hard for a year and watch it unfold” the trustest words ever said trust me
Nice, if need to diversify into cry-pto investment you can do that with my official broker on ШhатSapp.
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You can try really hard for years and still have everything turn to garbage. There's a lot of luck involved in life.
So, after 365 days you sluff off?
@@someonesomeone25 No there isn't. You're just not watching your horse being breezed, nor checking out the jockey's win, place, and show, percentages before placing your bet.
Just because you failed at accomplishing something, doesn’t mean you’re a failure as a person.sharing some love from small RUclipsr
We are never truly at the top so to speak. I have endured self impose failure on more the one occasion but happily smart enuff to grab my boot straps and climb back up. At 57 failure is not a option anymore!
Failing can be seen as the end. Or you can see it as just the beginning. One step along the path to success. Just figure out what went wrong, plan to do things differently next time, get up and go again. If you fail again, repeat... Keep repeating until you succeed. You don't have time to waste on self blame and self hate or blaming others. Blame solved nothing, achieves nothing. You need to learn from failure. It's great teacher. Study your failures to plot your success. No need to feel shame about failing.
I'm proud to call him a fellow Canadian....he's been a guiding light for me through these dark days. May God bless and protect this man
This is blowing my mind. I hit all of these milestones 13 years ago when my clinical depression hit. I realized that blaming everything else didn't work and started pointing the finger (appropriately) at myself. I came to trust and listen to myself and kind of felt my way through it. It would seem that all this time I was listening to my resentment, and it worked I've been stable for 12 years.
does blamming yourself changed something?
Good for you Kyle. God bless.
@@harrisawan8603 Blaming yourself implies that you are the reason for the problem. So if you are the problem, and your #1 goal is to fix the problem ... then you will spend much of your time and energy working towards improving yourself. To me, that sounds like a net positive change
@@DRIFTBMX997 well i beileve theres different meaning of situations you are in maybe you can be better and can change something about it ...... but sometimes situations are worst than ever and blaming yourself or not wont change anything ...
Keep strog Kyle, I'm proud of you. We all are.
I don't have the words to express how much I admire and love Peterson. He helps me keep my mind and eyes focused and both feet on the ground.
Thank God for this guy, if ever the world needed a Jordan Peterson it's now, I'm 67 years old and really enjoy listening to him, he puts my own thoughts in order which helps me understand myself better, he just makes things clearer, many heartfelt thanks to him from me.
Never give up everybody has potential to be great
Potential is a meaningless thing.
No they really don't
@@davidh5101 It is sad that all of our great men that wrote and spoke truth for us and yet there is still people like these - blinded not by ignorance or negligence but because they chose to be.
@@Mark-qi9hb What the hell are you talking about?
He's the good conscience in all of us. "TRY NOT DOING THE THINGS YOU KNOW YOU SHOULDN'T DO AND JUST WATCH WHAT HAPPENS..."
Being independent and self sufficient boosts your confidence and rids you of fears.
We often resentful when we feel like we have been treated unfairly. If we don't speak up and voice our concerns, resentment can fester and can grow to destroy an otherwise perfectly good relationship. Be assertive and don't be afraid to voice your feelings! 🌟
Yes and be aware of that persons reaction when you choose to open yourself up... bad people will pounce on any opportunity to tear you down. Key is to recognize these types and avoid at all costs.
Agreed. I have been married for 44 years(April 23, 1977) to the same wonderful man. Communication has been a key factor in our continued love for each other and our marriage. Count a few beats and then speak to the other person. Works !
I suggest you check out the validity of your feelings first, lest you become regarded as an asshole who opens his mouth every time the temperature rises one degree above or below 72.
@@d-nise6364 OK
how do you help someone with letting go of years of deep resentment?
Jordan is the father we never had
Sorry to hear you never had a father. But the fact remains - you never had a father.
Fathers are pushed to the brink making others happy as they suffer
@@yankee2666 so?
For some lol, not all of us. Sorry to hear that
He makes me cry, he is so right. 😢
We all have the potential for greatness, inner peace, and improvement. Keep at it Jordan. You are an inspiration and a blessing to humanity and greatly needed at this exact time in history.
🙏 Love and Light 💚
Inner peace and growth are too separate things. Struggle brews growth where as inner peace nourishes ones comfort zone.
@@TcCT238 you may want to rethink this. Inner peace comes from setting things in proper order, but before order there is always struggle.
Yoooo like whoaaa
He makes me cry too, especially when he cries ot hits me with a hard truth.
"I hope I shall possess firmness and virtue enough to maintain what I consider the most enviable of all titles, the character of an honest man." -George Washington
Wow--he really takes the way we complicate life and brings it all back to our own choices instead of blaming society. We aren't in control of society--we control our own actions, which will change our lives.
Yes, which makes some sense, but also completely misses that the degree to which people can control their own actions is also regulated by society. We live in a sharply divided culture innthe West where divide and rule is the order of the day. The level of commitment and drive it takes to overcome the obstacles society/family places in your way varies dramatically from person to person. Peterson comes from an individualistic persepective which plays perfectly into neoliberalism and other destructive forces in our world. Don't look at injustice just focus on yourself and tidy your own bedroom and take responsibility, and you don't deserve a voice if you can't do this. Not sure he is a truly benevolent force in the world. He comes from an extremely privileged position.
What a great reminder of taking full responsibility for our choices instead of pointing fingers and blaming others or making excuses! Thank you
"You don't wanna win. You want to fix the problem. That's the winning."
This man is so damn inspiring it's unbelievable. Truly a once in a generation human.
And it's truly amazing how maligned he is by a subset of the population.
No he's not actually
@@gfy2979 c'mon, just... just accept it without interfering or contrasting what he said. If you got the bigger picture view... just keep it with yourself.
You are a one time wonderful human
He is repeating the same thing that is in ever self help book out there. He just says it with an unlikable tone, so men listen. To me, he sounds like he is in a constant argument. Get a library card.
I really wish upon the ppl who gave this a thumbs down, an epiphany that makes their life better and hope you find a path where you are happy enough to know there's ppl out there who want you to be happy and do well.
I will honestly never understand how people can see this man in such a bad light. He truly is an amazing gift to this world
It’s because he puts up a mirror and makes people look in it. Unfortunately some people don’t like what they see
I wasn't aware that there are many people who see him in a bad light. Who are these people? I want to avoid them!
There are 2 Jordans - philosophical Jordan and political Jordan. I greatly respect the former, and have no opinion of the other.
after studying Narcissism for 8 years. I learned so much about my parents and brothers as well as myself. and that my problems came from that family I was born into.
I now can see them clearly and now that I understand and except that they will NEVER be good people, I have walked away from their lying, belittling, snide remarks, baiting condescending and back stabbing. now that that is out of my life I have finely learned to like myself.
I have learned to pity them! why?, because they have lost everything and all I had for them!!!
thank you Doctor Peterson!!!
Good fr you. I had th same problem with my brother n sister both narcissists which I only discovered 4 yrs ago after I'd sold my hse n luved with my sister. She destroyed all my possessions. to me that's pure evil, plus th belittling, putting me down. I had to flee in order to save myself. Unfortunately my older brother didn't make it (committed suicide) all due to them. Jimmy n me were th only siblings that didn't hv kids so they had t try n eliminate us. I had to move to another province n I can say I'm truly better without them.
How do you study Narcissism? Did you start out with Narcissism 101?
Is it possible there could be change with someone who is a covert narcissist?
@@percysoto9282 I believe "yes" they can learn or be helped. but they first must start to see some "insight" of themselves.
feelings of entitlement can be very-very strong feelings for years and years and years..
55 years ago my older brother would tell me many times> "when mom and dad die the oldest is left everything, so all this and the house will be mine".. and when my father died first he let me know he was mad because my mother got my father's money. and after that when my mother spent some of HER money my brother would get mad and let me know he was mad. he felt my father's money should be his even though my mother was still alive. my mother has passed and he is out of my life for good. he wanted what my mother left me!
Do not pity what cannot be redeemed. If you are incompatible, find a new group which can accept you. Let them wallow in the slop.
Refuse their battle, refuse their authority, unless they apologize to you personally, in private. Only then can you redeem both yourself and themselves.
When you invest you're buying a day you don't have to work, Never stop educating yourself
I advice everyone to start investing and never rely on just salary. No billionaire made it through salary
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Summing up more than I've learned in 60+ years in 10 minutes. Everyone needs to watch this video before each day begins.
A few minutes ago, I was losing hope in my life because I don't know what am I supposed to do. But now, I'm engaged to make some change.
How are things going right now?
@@Lyonessi I have social anxiety since I was alone for many years and when my crush rejected me. I always went to isolation went things go wrong or when I did some trouble. I don't have friends to talk to. I don't expect for my family to help, because they are always busy with their family business. I felt alone and I suffered from loneliness for many years.
I don't know who I should trust to because I have some trust issues from past rejection. I see most of the people as opportunist and hostile. I thought they always think of themselves, that they went to the point where they had to use me for them to fulfill their self-interest and just left me behind if I don't give something for them.
I've been suffering for so long that I don't know what I'm supposed to do. I tried to think positive but negative mindset always sets in. I don't know what to do at this point until I watched this video from Jordan Peterson. Then after those wonderful and meaningful thoughts, I felt that I need to do something. I felt hurt at first because I thought I did everything, but I realized that I stayed on my comfort zone and I don't took a risk because I was afraid to face these consequences. I felt scared but I managed to overcome it. I tried to do something, took some risk little by little and it works. I managed to hold off small conversations and start one. I make people around me happy. Good thing, I always believe that there are good things that will happen to you after you overcome the bad one. It helps me to keep off from committing suicide or self-harm or to stop to thinking about suicide.
If you read this to the end, I really appreciate it. Thank you. I want to share this as a form of recovery and self reflection.
Props to you man just keep it up 👍
@@benhanssen8962 Thanks a lot for sharing this. Having someone respond to me and open up is very encouraging in itself. You just convinced me to give Peterson's advice a real go.
Really hope you will keep this up so that you'll have an even more interesting and hopeful testimony to share in the future.
Godspeed
@@benhanssen8962 maybe u could help me? My son is out west, a wonderful young man, he has societaly anxiety as well. I struggle with how to help him. He doesnt like to talk on the phone and he's so far away. God i miss him.........
FATHER IF THIS REACHES THIS PERSON
PLEASE HELP THEM WITH WHATEVER IT IS
THEY ARE GOING THROUGH HELP THEM FIND PEACE
AND JOY.
I hope whoever is reading this has a great day and just know things will get better much love to all of you ❤️
Best statement in the video: "Do you want to be right or do you want to be learning".
Dr. Peterson , you have become a new Hero...... Among who are very few.
I'm working to feel good about my self, keep positive and trying to get rid of the non loving attitude of my self and self doubt. It's a daily challenge, but I'm working on it. God bless.
I ,don't want to win the argument I want to fix the problem cause that's winning for me johnny I'm working to feel good about myself trying to keep positive and trying to get rid of the non loving attitude I have for myself and others it's a daily challenge for me tho cause I'm use to living life the way I have alone and only having friends yes guy friends cause I can't stand hanging out with dales I've always gotten along better with men and there like my family I told you that a long te ago and that they have aids well she is hiv positive and he might be I'm sorry I lied I should of told the truth your absolutely right but I knew you wouldnt see it like that and I should of told the truth anyways even if you got mad I messed up known it
"You don't wanna win but to fix the problem..."
Powerful statement there!
AMEN to that statement 👍🏼
@@amss2282 🙏🏾❤️
That's the winning; Fixing the problem.
I'm a self employed handyman. I fix things, many different things. And when I do, really fix a tough problem for a customer, I feel really good. Listening tho, is key. Sometimes the problem they bring to me is not what they want fixed, it's something relatable.
Being a jack of all trades, my dad's right hand man with most everything from The Proposal writings to the measurements and work itself for his general contracting business, I thought you were going somewhere else with that. I have never met or heard of a Dr Phil Style handyman, more power to you I would go with that because because customers always be meeting Furnishings remodeled redesigned fixed and upgraded. Redone if you will that's always why they call a handyman, if you have a special talent like Dr Peterson and that's why they call you the deep root of it then definitely more power to you I hope you and everyone you interact with has a great day
If you are reading this rn, congratulations on making it so far! You have achieved so much here on this Earth and have learned so much about yourself and the world we live in. If you continue to work hard and stay true to yourself YOU WILL achieve your dreams and live a life full of love and abundance! I love you - keep your head up :)
So proud to know that this man, this exceptional and well spoken man is from the same province in the same country that I’m from. I absolutely love hearing him speak. The realist doctor I’ve ever heard. Doesn’t sugar coat things and is profoundly intelligent. Thanks Dr. Jordon Peterson for sharing with humanity.
Depression is the biggest killer in the world and aldo much easier said than done but your videos help me along the way. Thank you for being so great
No heart disease is the biggest killer in the world.
@@juanmccoy3066 I highly doubt that
"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.." we've strayed from the path a loooong time ago. It's time to start being better human beings. Peace and God bless you all.
That ony works of everyone plays.
I don't hear that phrase very often. Thank you and may God bless you.
I was raised being taught that by my ex step father. He did a good Job
@@markwillhite9200 wrong. Other people’s actions don’t reflect your own. If you know you are doing right, living right, and treating others right, you have nothing to look down on yourself upon. You still know you did the best thing.
@@daniellewoodard953 are you saying that an abused child cannot grow up with emotional problems?
Many people have problems related to past experiences. That is why councillors will dig into your past.
This man is a healer
Every piece of advice, that Jordan Peterson gives is the best advice you'll ever receive.
This is one of the best, most transformative, videos I've seen. Jordan Peterson is a real human being. He's ever-changing and growing, always learning. That's life.
To anybody who's reading this love and light, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better today. May the dark thoughts aka satan, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind. May LIGHT and clarity replace confusion. May Light and peace and calmness fill your life.StayInTheLight----
I’m reading all these comments and some people really have it hard.
Stay strong people, tell yourself that as long as you don’t end your life, you’re coming back out stronger💪
You can overcome these tests🙏
Love this man, had his own massive battles, yet still is coherent and smarter, then alot of the stupid people that are afraid of him, and his words.
He gives me hope and strength.
i wish greatness on everyone stay focused everyone
Thanks God for your existence 👍
I'm trying so hard not to cry from the raw truth of this.. This Man needs the Nobel Peace Prize
Your comment and how Jordan reaches people is worth more than Nobel Peace Prize.
Thank God for this man.
I'm glad to be listening to this 6 yrs after I decided to take my life back into my own hands and take it in the direction I desired. Here's the thing though, it's not a one time thing or a thing you only do for a few years and stop, you can never stop. It's something you do on a daily basis.
This man is a treasure. God bless him !
God bless you all out of your tough times ❤️
This is the deepest 10 Minute video i ve ever seen in my Life.
Jordan Peterson changed my Life by saying being an 33 year old Teenager is a very Ugly thing.
So i went and learned how to be a Fitness Trainer. It was hard and difficult but it was worth it.
You don’t want to win, you want to fix the problem. Very wise relationship advice
That man is such a legend, a true blessing to humanity.
It hörte me so much to see what all those people did to him, who Do not listen.
They Do not want to talk, they want to blame.
Thank you, Dr Peterson, for being.
"... you want to fix the problem, that's the winning.." that's one of the most humane, wise, and kind ends of a speech that made me speechless almost. Some of Jordan's words were so to the point that I had to laugh out loud, for there's no way to "beat around the bush". I'm so very happy with this great advice, so straightforward without any woo hoo vibe in it. Thank you! 🙋♀️💙
He's the only speaker that makes me tear up and I think it's because a deep part of me knows he's absolutely right.
Be the Hero in your life, not just for yourself but for the people that know, depend and Trust you.
You’ve got this. You create your reality. Stay positive and optimistic. Together we can make a better world 🌎 out there. Thanks to Jordan. 🙏🏽
Everytime I stand at the edge, looking over into the void, into the "easy peace", he somehow manages to reach out and pull me back by my shoulder. Everytime. Giving me reason to keep going.
Keep going.
Have a great day.... 🙏 if your reading this YOU ARE BLESSED 🙏
Thank you to the person who listens to Jordan so he can come up with these thoughts.
I really appreciate it 🥰
This man is a very valuable source of knowledge . His approach is so awesome . Even when there is a debate he hits with such powerful and reason.
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Thanks!
Jordan Peterson is such an inspiration to so many people. It's a shame some people give him a bad rep for their own personal political gain.
Wisdom and knowledge transcend political ideologies, you just need to listen and appreciate what he is saying.
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Who could give this a thumbs down? There is nothing here but helping each other and hope....If you don't want to help yourself and others be happier please rewind this and listen agian....really listen like your hungry and words are food
Me, I think Peetershit is a scam artist
What the hell do you care what others think? Wake up, Sparky!
God bless everyone watching this Amen
The secret to your future is hidden in your daily routine - Mike Murdock
“It's not about changing the world. It's about doing our best to leave the world the way it is. It's about respecting the will of others, and believing in your own.”
yes
Yup
Wait... people are still quoting Mike Murdock? 🙄 I haven't heard that name for a good 10 years.
Like me in basketball 🏀 still 💯🔥👌💪🙏❤️
Been watching some of his speeches like this, I'm really glad I found this video because I need this.
Same here dude
"Taking responsibility/growing up" might be among the most often preached, yet often misunderstood pieces of advice out there
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For me, my parents selling me on being responsible didn't sell me on it. I was merely told to do it, and that it would be hard.... I wished they would have sold me on the fact that it can and is joyful, wonderful, the most rewarding experience to experience, and looking forward to take on as much of it as I can. I found that it is food for my soul.
@@benconnor3625 It is often taught is a bad way, that is very true
@@benconnor3625 actual problem with responsability is that often it's quite misproportionate. some jobs are paid super bad (even if above average) for the responsability they have. you're often blamed for things outside of your control, but it turns out you were the one who should've somehow prevent that. you can't prevent everything, but when something happens, people want blood. it doesn't matter how good they are at solving these problems. they were just unforunate to be in the charge when it happened. if everybody is a leader, who will they lead though?
@@benconnor3625 Well said. I wish my parents had sold me that as well. The "pitch" of resposonibily they promoted felt like a trap. Not an adventure.
Well said. It’s discipline. Looking inward, an HONEST look, reflecting, and having the discipline to change. Unfortunately, many people don’t do it because they feel guilt
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Futzing growth in your life is improving your efficiency and your attitude. Whether you say that you can or that you can’t you’re ABSOLUTELY RIGHT
This video was my first contact with Peterson. I can confirm it changed (and it's constantly changing) my life. Thanks.
Find pleasure in work, find pleasure in yourself, and find pleasure in listening. If you can enjoy these things, then you can enjoy life (in my option and experience).
Can I go to Disneyland now and then? ...Fishing, maybe?
BE A TRANSFORMING HERO
I always appreciate honesty. Even if it’s hard to hear.
I like that, I have a friend who is just that: a true friend. A genuine friend who has your back no matter what, good and bad. When I’m getting off track or in life let’s say; he always begins his honest criticism with “this might sting a little bit”…..as soon as I hear that I know it’s coming, and I’m not gonna like it. But really if you claim to be somebody’s true friend; you’re lying to them by not being honest with what they need to hear. Why did that just sound like it didn’t make sense? Lol. I’m sure you get my meaning. tc Reree
One of the most intuitive, intelligent and bold men I have ever heard.
I like how it says, “It might even be you” so true.
These videos are the first and probably only time I've ever had so many of my feelings and intuitions spoken out loud. The fact it's not coming from me really validates what I'm feeling is at least a good direction to be going.
3:46-50 you can hear the difference in his voice that shows how much he cares for people. I greatly appreciate Jordan Peterson for being such a truthful, caring, loving, beautiful person. He has helped me through some of my roughest moments in this life so far. More importantly, God brought me to listen to him. At first I didn’t want to consider his advice until I realized how much of it aligns with the Truth of the Gospel and the Scriptures. God is the Most Beautiful - showing His beauty to me through His creations, His people, like Jordan Peterson. Boy am I grateful that there is such a loving God! Amen.
You dont want to win. You want to fix the problem... Thats the winning. Best line ever.
Love this .. as a person who is in recovery we spend a lot of time on this topic . Great video thank you Jordan
Totally hear you Allen...
Proud of you; we walk together, you and I.
Best wishes. Stay strong. Lost my nephew. Tragic. Please don't be another one.
Having spent over a year in counseling I agree that listening to yourself talking and muddling through your thoughts is a great way of sorting your life out.
Venting for 45 minutes a month can dramatically change ur life. Especially when it's done to an objective third party and not a friend or relative who either wants to control u or make u feel good.
Setting aside 45 minutes a month to get told blunt truths and to confirm or deny ur own suspicions and biases is indeed therapeutic. Anyone telling u its not misunderstands the whole point of counseling
@@juanmccoy3066 I didn't believe at the start that it would help but I'm glad I was proven wrong. It definitely changed my outlook on many things.