This Simple Skill Will Make You More Powerful In Life | Jordan Peterson

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  • One of Jordan Peterson's most famous and controversial quotes is that men need to be monsters, but under control monsters. This goes the same with being dangerous. A man that is not dangerous is weak, but you must have it under control.
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  • @Reignwonton
    @Reignwonton Год назад +855

    The first too minutes is all I needed... and got more.

    • @josephstalin9139
      @josephstalin9139 Год назад +14

      Don't mind me, I just came back from watching cartel executions to reply to your comment .👍

    • @randomlymadeanimations52
      @randomlymadeanimations52 Год назад +3

      @@josephstalin9139 Jesus

    • @TheSkillBuilderX
      @TheSkillBuilderX Год назад +4

      @@josephstalin9139 drop the link . Its been a while since I watched some good content

    • @Ribcut
      @Ribcut Год назад +14

      The one time I actually see someone use the word "too" it is also wrong.
      This is honestly incredible

    • @josephstalin4906
      @josephstalin4906 Год назад +2

      @@josephstalin9139 I'll have you sent to Siberia, you cheeky imposter!

  • @maximelagace
    @maximelagace Год назад +101

    "And if you think tough men are dangerous, wait until you see what weak men are capable of." -Jordan Peterson

    • @hopefull61256
      @hopefull61256 Месяц назад

      Mohammed made up the quranic verses. No such thing ​@blahblah2779

    • @adam.maqavoy
      @adam.maqavoy Месяц назад

      @@blahblah2779 Religion in comment sections huh?

  • @Crazy350ZDriver
    @Crazy350ZDriver Год назад +588

    "Those who are not capable of great violence are not peaceful, they are harmless" Best quote my Jiu jitsu coach ever posted 👌

    • @mynamejeffgaming
      @mynamejeffgaming Год назад +21

      Just sounds like a violent man excusing his violence with BS

    • @pocnit
      @pocnit Год назад

      What fucking bullshit hahahaha. Besides, a 14yo kid with a kitchen knife will fuck you up with your jiu jitsu.

    • @joeroganuniversity
      @joeroganuniversity Год назад +27

      @@mynamejeffgaming not by any stretch of the imagination

    • @thaik56
      @thaik56 Год назад +16

      @@mynamejeffgaming capability and execution are not the same

    • @theowlfla
      @theowlfla Год назад +4

      That does not make sense, as you have heard JP saying. Peaceful men are not harmless , the definition of harmless means you do not have the capability, weapons, capacity etc … to “harm” like a slug unless you are a cabbage of course but you get the drift. A peaceful man is a man who has all of the above and more due to being highly intelligent ,fast , able to perform extremely complicated calculations of maths and physics subconsciously in a split second, but …. Does not use it to harm by his own peaceful free will. There is a big difference , you have to understand the basics of what those two words actually mean.

  • @luminaratano3935
    @luminaratano3935 Год назад +95

    "Being harmless and naive is not good, it's just weak" So true...

  • @Deetroiter
    @Deetroiter Год назад +277

    He’s absolutely right. The more time someone spends studying fighting arts, the more they understand how to hurt others. They also realize how much more they need to control themselves because they realize the more they learn, the more they’d never want to use it.

    • @mcmjr405
      @mcmjr405 Год назад +13

      It doesn’t take any strength to hurt people. Real strength is in helping and healing people.

    • @lebendystraw3683
      @lebendystraw3683 Год назад +21

      @@mcmjr405 I'm almost 100% sure you knew exactly what he meant.

    • @alexzero3736
      @alexzero3736 Год назад +5

      That's not always true. Martial arts are popular among bullies, in USA it s mix- fight, in Europe - boxing. You know even Mike Taison eventually became a criminal and spent years in jail. Being dangerous is kinda cult among hooligans.

    • @charliebarboardingtraining478
      @charliebarboardingtraining478 Год назад +1

      Very well put

    • @charliebarboardingtraining478
      @charliebarboardingtraining478 Год назад +5

      ​@Higher-self in the same regard being able to protect those you love and those being unfairly transgressed upon. Being willing to sacrifice yourself for others that My friend can't be defined as anything but strength.

  • @GimmeMonie
    @GimmeMonie Год назад +1005

    "That implies that I should be ready to threaten someone"
    JP: "No, you should be capable of it!" 🔥
    How powerful is this sentence! 👌

    • @lazyness0269
      @lazyness0269 Год назад +38

      yeah and he answered that goddamn question in less than a second tf

    • @yourmom3640
      @yourmom3640 Год назад +35

      I agree with what he says. The military gave me a lot of confidence with a sense of family. It did wonders for my self esteem.

    • @twyyre5385
      @twyyre5385 Год назад +12

      @@yourmom3640 Mom. . .?

    • @ieorlich
      @ieorlich Год назад +15

      Idk, it's kind of a twisted meaning of the word dangerous. Because most of time it implies something really bad. For example not fasten your seat belt is dangerous. Or a max security prisoner killer escaped, It's dangerous. But I understand his pov on this. I understand what he is meaning. But I don't agree how he uses the term dangerous. I'm not a native English speaker, but I'm pretty sure English dictionary has other words for that. Just my opinion.

    • @user-gg6sh7wr6d
      @user-gg6sh7wr6d Год назад +17

      @@ieorlich formidable is a better word

  • @breeze529
    @breeze529 Год назад +85

    "It takes strength to be good". That's powerful

  • @Young_Grandpa
    @Young_Grandpa Год назад +604

    “Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times.”

    • @tylerpollock8330
      @tylerpollock8330 Год назад +12

      One of my favorite quotes of all time.

    • @PrivatelyHanging
      @PrivatelyHanging Год назад +10

      It's been said so much in recent years the quote has lost meaning. 😕

    • @ericp2427
      @ericp2427 Год назад

      Jordan Peterson became a drug addict because he couldn't deal with the struggles if life. A weak man telling others not to be weak is laughable

    • @1974spr
      @1974spr Год назад +22

      ​@greyford8103 How has it lost meaning? Just because it falls on deaf ears and dumb minds doesn't make it irrelevant. Actually the opposite when you think about it.

    • @elenaradu4800
      @elenaradu4800 Год назад +2

      ​@@PrivatelyHanging Don't give up! Its forever acurate! Is a fact of life! Just like the water is necessary for any form of life! So is this quote to individuals!

  • @craigdouglas9979
    @craigdouglas9979 Год назад +52

    Being articulate makes you dangerous!! This is truly profound, what a mind this man has to make such a life altering statement. Thank you!!

  • @gregblake2764
    @gregblake2764 Год назад +701

    When I started college 50 years ago we were taught the most important life skill was communication, both verbal and written. The second was problem solving. Peterson reminds me of my college professors, they didn't cut us any slack.

    • @miguel.8212
      @miguel.8212 Год назад +11

      How can I improve in those aspects?

    • @juliusmillermusic
      @juliusmillermusic Год назад +14

      @@miguel.8212 doing

    • @whyisblue923taken
      @whyisblue923taken Год назад

      And they all popped pills like crazy and wanted the destruction of the free world in favor of the New World Order?

    • @JohnCarterIsMyName
      @JohnCarterIsMyName Год назад +1

      Peterson appears intelligent to stupid people.

    • @mcmjr405
      @mcmjr405 Год назад +1

      @@miguel.8212 what is it you wish to improve

  • @mustafabaris9681
    @mustafabaris9681 Год назад +754

    " I'd rather be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a battle field. "
    Bruce Lee

    • @proverbialmind_spread9421
      @proverbialmind_spread9421 Год назад +96

      "It is better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war" - Miyomoto Musashi / Wrong person...wrong country...wrong century

    • @I_am_FRANCO
      @I_am_FRANCO Год назад +9

      @@proverbialmind_spread9421actually very few people care about who said it. Do TikTokers ask about the creators of camera? Or about the developers of TikTok? No. They just dance and make money off it

    • @proverbialmind_spread9421
      @proverbialmind_spread9421 Год назад +49

      @@I_am_FRANCO You cared enough to chime in with your BS.

    • @vetzaaak
      @vetzaaak Год назад +21

      “All quotes on the internet should be regarded as definite evidence for one’s short sighted beleives”
      - William Shakespeare

    • @harrypotter6894
      @harrypotter6894 Год назад

      Thou shalt suck big tiddy
      - Jesus

  • @lizardking3979
    @lizardking3979 Год назад +11

    Silence is strength. Grow in silence. Make your words count. That’s what I learned in my life.

  • @rutembesaalex4034
    @rutembesaalex4034 Год назад +342

    he made me realize again that being able to speak your self and what is with in you is another sort of power

    • @jsbtools7026
      @jsbtools7026 Год назад +4

      Speak for your self, while following him like a sheep, oh the IRONY lelelelele

    • @bed7496
      @bed7496 Год назад +3

      @@jsbtools7026what

    • @DespaceMan
      @DespaceMan Год назад +11

      @@jsbtools7026 You can listen to someone but don't have to follow them, make your own path in life that's how I live, how you do it is up to you.

    • @natlastname8378
      @natlastname8378 Год назад +7

      @@jsbtools7026 speaking like that makes you sound like you’re still in the early stages of human life.

    • @youtubeuser206
      @youtubeuser206 Год назад

      does that apply to trans and gay people speaking whats in themselves? or only when you agree with what's being said?

  • @haimeh8909
    @haimeh8909 Год назад +201

    "It takes strength to be good"

  • @kirk1007
    @kirk1007 Год назад +6

    I agree with him. Life is tough and you can't let people walk on you

  • @confusion9000
    @confusion9000 Год назад +56

    Spot On!
    I am not an example of this because of horrible mental illness, but I have seen from so many examples that this is true.
    Ive been feeling weak and stupid, and getting angrier and more violent.
    I felt much more calm and compassionate when I felt strong and intelligent

    • @pinkforeverlove1
      @pinkforeverlove1 Год назад

      Andrew you are more powerful than you think. You are aware of your mental illness, therefore you can see most likely where it affects you and how. Learn to use it as a resource to know yourself to know and how it affects you and you can definitely become stronger.

    • @boohoow
      @boohoow Год назад +4

      Your last sentence, spot on. So true.

    • @brigitte9999
      @brigitte9999 Год назад

      I do believe you can overcome mental illness with mental strength. Focus solely on strengthening yourself mentally and physically. If you combine and balance them you will free yourself.✌️

    • @cynthiawadeson8843
      @cynthiawadeson8843 Год назад

      You are already figuring out what works for you--use it in combating horrible mental illness-- maybe you can lessen its impact on your life. I have hope for you!

    • @show_me_your_kitties
      @show_me_your_kitties Год назад

      Me too Andrew 💔

  • @SpeaktheTruths
    @SpeaktheTruths Год назад +121

    Exactly what we learn at the dojo. Learn to fight but don't start fights. Be dangerous but do no evil. Defend and protect those who can't defend and protect themselves. A weak man can't protect anyone. To be capable of violence is just that, a capability.

    • @jesusbrito460
      @jesusbrito460 Год назад

      True but should we protect weak men also or only women and kids?

    • @copyninja8756
      @copyninja8756 Год назад +3

      ​@@jesusbrito460 protect the innocent

    • @Lin-co9jd
      @Lin-co9jd 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@copyninja8756 Protect all who can't defend themselves. Would you judge that the elderly should not be defended? Would you judge that the injured should not be defended?

  • @cync5349
    @cync5349 Год назад +50

    We need to protect this man they been trying to silent him take away his titles in psychology world gov been trying silent him bless this man

    • @pgringel
      @pgringel Год назад

      Yeah a pack of psychopaths with a "degree"I hope they get disbanded and demolished.

    • @bronxmafi2212
      @bronxmafi2212 Год назад +1

      It’s an evil world we live in

  • @stephonjames1038
    @stephonjames1038 Год назад +20

    Thank you to my deceased dad for getting me into boxing when I was kid! I hated when I was younger - especially hard sparring / tournaments. My mom wanted me quit boxing and do soccer. Appreciate it even more now.

    • @robertthomas3777
      @robertthomas3777 11 месяцев назад +1

      Me too. Not the same parents. Life skill.🇦🇺🦘👍

  • @cristinabadea6344
    @cristinabadea6344 Месяц назад +2

    Wow! This man is a world treasure. I get goosebumps when he hits a deep meaning with few words.
    " it takes strength to be good" he just described himself.

  • @gomergomez1984
    @gomergomez1984 Год назад +28

    “It’s very difficult to be good” that totally explains todays world.

    • @youngmxnke6212
      @youngmxnke6212 Год назад

      I hope you don't blame everyone🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @gauravrathi5877
    @gauravrathi5877 Год назад +58

    I can listen to this man all day.

  • @uselesshero
    @uselesshero Год назад +5

    Most people don't want you to become more dangerous, because it means that you might resist, and not be an easily exploitable tool to use and throw away.

  • @_James.
    @_James. Год назад +1

    Thank you Mr Jordan for your message ❤❤

  • @georgejung5429
    @georgejung5429 Год назад +285

    I get chills every time I hear this man talk. Talks pure sense.

    • @BuddyHill-jr5px
      @BuddyHill-jr5px Год назад +2

      For Yahweh gave the Jews the right to steal the lands of others
      (Deuteronomy 6:10-13, 6:18-19, 7:172 2).
      Yahweh gave the Israelites the right to commit genocide, to totally annihilate the peoples whose lands they had the God-given right to take as their own.
      (Deuteronomy 7:16)
      Yahweh gave the Israelites the right to "destroy them (other peoples) with a mighty destruction until they be destroyed"
      (Deuteronomy 7:23)
      Yahweh gave the Israelites the right to murder and plunder other races of their property.
      (Exodus 3:20-22)
      Yahweh has made the Israelites a "holy" people, a master race among other races.
      (Deuteronomy 7:6)

    • @xyu610
      @xyu610 Год назад

      @@BuddyHill-jr5px shut the fjcb up

    • @Axxxel_in_Harlem
      @Axxxel_in_Harlem Год назад +1

      @@BuddyHill-jr5px Do you believe in Yahweh?

    • @Dontknowmyrealdad1
      @Dontknowmyrealdad1 Год назад

      That’s weird because I get hard every time I hear him 💦

    • @Axxxel_in_Harlem
      @Axxxel_in_Harlem Год назад

      @@Dontknowmyrealdad1 based.

  • @anna2226F
    @anna2226F Год назад +44

    Absolutely agree ! Today telling the truth is makes you dangerous !

    • @darylparsons4325
      @darylparsons4325 Год назад

      Except when one side tells the truth they become woke or wants to cancel something. That's the excuse of the weak. Weak people believe in religion.

    • @rexomnipotentus387
      @rexomnipotentus387 Год назад +1

      The truth? What truth?

    • @allenkuns6552
      @allenkuns6552 2 месяца назад +1

      People will believe lies over the truth because the lies support their own overinflated egos.

  • @amileinmyshoes7516
    @amileinmyshoes7516 5 месяцев назад +2

    Jordan Petersen is almost the proverbial ‘lone voice in the wilderness’ on this subject… and he is certainly a hero for humanity (and sanity) as he stands up against the “woke” madness that’s swallowing up young minds wholesale.

    • @punkrox1468
      @punkrox1468 20 дней назад +1

      I'm nearly 50 and I've been off hard drugs for 12 years. I truly wish I had a voice like his in the wilderness I made for myself.

  • @chosenprince8655
    @chosenprince8655 Год назад +6

    One of my favorite spokesman.We needs more men like these in the world.

  • @richiestarks6163
    @richiestarks6163 Год назад +75

    “it's better to be a warrior in a garden” quote is that it is much better to learn how to prepare yourself physically and mentally when you're currently in a calm and easygoing situation/environment.

    • @pocnit
      @pocnit Год назад

      Training to be a warrior in a garden just means you'll be a shitty farmer and every other farmer that doesn't waste their time on this bullshit will be ahead of you.

    • @richiestarks6163
      @richiestarks6163 Год назад +1

      @@pocnit I always think of The Walking Dead where Negan just whacks someones head in with a bat for not meeting the food goals. Yea i’ll stick with my Kung Fu. lol

    • @pocnit
      @pocnit Год назад +2

      @@richiestarks6163 That's a cheesy post-apocalyptic zombie movie, not modern society in 2023.

    • @richiestarks6163
      @richiestarks6163 Год назад

      @@pocnit Gotta do some traveling my dude. Some wicked shit going on across the world. Even in this modern society, you have rebels, terrorist and other types of groups that will cut your head off with a machete (as previously seen/warned on the darkweb). Wake man. Stop debating just to debate. I seen Civilian in Iraq get their homes raided and lose it all because they couldn’t fight. You live in your veggie tales. Call me when you need protection.

  • @williambowen9935
    @williambowen9935 Год назад +66

    Always shocked at how wise Jordan speaks - wish he'd been my lecturer!

    • @basil5641
      @basil5641 Год назад +5

      He is, right now… “when the student is ready the teacher appears “

    • @wstavis3135
      @wstavis3135 7 месяцев назад

      There are several hundred hours of his lectures on line. All you need to do is search, and as the previous poster said, the teacher will appear.

  • @sammylgnd
    @sammylgnd Год назад +6

    This man is a gift, if you are truly willing to listen & understand. Amazing

  • @joemerazi1701
    @joemerazi1701 Год назад +3

    Spot on ..
    110% true and brave from Mr peterson...
    Every man should stick this idea upstairs 👍

  • @ishraambelhassar
    @ishraambelhassar Год назад +212

    His words are simply the words of any decent martial artist. Learn to kill, and learn not to do it at the same time.

    • @danielchernau3503
      @danielchernau3503 Год назад +3

      'martial artisi', huh. Didn't know Con Man Fu was a style.

    • @rhodesboyson1700
      @rhodesboyson1700 Год назад +1

      Yeah, martial artists ate also full of shit :p Bruce Lee was a choreographer, not much of a fighter in real life.

    • @StrongRoots4Life
      @StrongRoots4Life Год назад

      @@rhodesboyson1700says who ???
      The little boy next street struggling to make 10 Pushups ?
      i bet lees worst student would fuck you up easily

    • @rhodesboyson1700
      @rhodesboyson1700 Год назад +1

      @@StrongRoots4Life nah bro, I do mine in sets of fifty in between rounds of whatever. I sometimes stop and do fifty four times on my 10km run, it's pretty standard bro, nothing special :p you just got low standards because you don't train bro. Same as this Tate Muppet.

    • @rhodesboyson1700
      @rhodesboyson1700 Год назад +1

      @@StrongRoots4Life or Peterson, or whoever :p nah I'd fuck Bruce up no worries bro.

  • @thecomputerman5042
    @thecomputerman5042 Год назад +17

    Anger is an Energy.

    • @hippocampe5317
      @hippocampe5317 Год назад

      It can be good or bad energy, it depends what are you doing with, and if you are able to control it and to use it in a good way!
      Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said:
      “The strong man is not the good wrestler; but the strong man is he who controls himself when he is angry.”

  • @nathanholtz6405
    @nathanholtz6405 Год назад +11

    I love this person's speaking capability and how he thinks with that! I think every person needs this, the old, mid age Adults, teenage and little kids so they can make their life feel meaning with it.

  • @justiceforall3973
    @justiceforall3973 Год назад +19

    I’m glad this man isn’t a politician, if he was I wouldn’t have to listen to his words, to his wisdom and to his honesty!

  • @DK-kz9hr
    @DK-kz9hr Год назад +180

    JP is next level. This guy is my hero. Even though I’ve never met him, his words have single handedly inspired me to greatness. I’m unapologetic success and damn proud of it. Now I have the capacity to share those lessons of success to the generations that come after me!

    • @genericusername3029
      @genericusername3029 Год назад

      JP is an opiate addict that tells others to clean up their lives. He is a hypocrite. He's right about the trans thing, but he is mostly full of sh*t in everything else.

    • @YLevy
      @YLevy Год назад

      You should read his book 📚

    • @ma-tanica
      @ma-tanica Год назад +4

      Yeah, you just like crappy philosophy which contains nothing of substance, nothing applicable to real life

    • @clydeclains
      @clydeclains Год назад

      @@ma-tanica Dropping some philosophy right now. Nothing actually applies to life. The "Big Nothing". GG

    • @richardgallagher4880
      @richardgallagher4880 Год назад

      He's the moral leader of the free world.

  • @Lovelightmagic11
    @Lovelightmagic11 11 месяцев назад +4

    Dr. Peterson thinks in so many directions at once AND is able to articulate those thought directions in a very profound and eloquent way. He understands people beyond what some are ready to be understood...that is why they are afraid of him. To others he is heaven sent, and I am sure of that. Sometimes the Lord sends an angel to earth to help us out in real time... It is really refreshing to hear him speak with such honesty and rawness. By no means perfect, but one thing I do know, he cares about humanity.

  • @nicholascaley501
    @nicholascaley501 Год назад

    Bless You Jordan...

  •  Год назад +119

    I remember reading Malcom X's biography, the part when he is in prison and decided to write the entire English dictionary from A to Z to learn the elements of this verbal competence, after which he did end up becoming a very formidable and dangerous man. So dangerous that they had to assassinate him.

    • @scottfawcus9231
      @scottfawcus9231 Год назад +2

      As many people have been

    • @wstavis3135
      @wstavis3135 7 месяцев назад

      I think this is a good example. He was undeniably articulate and it was self taught, after a fashion.

  • @YouTwatcher27
    @YouTwatcher27 Год назад +7

    Shoutout to Chris Turner. His skill of tying different topics whilst rapping and actually explaining them is most entertaining and astonishing.

  • @andrewkitchenuk
    @andrewkitchenuk Год назад +1

    Almost every word this man speaks is perfect. 👌

  • @direnb3401
    @direnb3401 Год назад +8

    love this guy...a real role model for all young men in an era of a dysfunctional society ruled by hatred towards men!

  • @bunnylopez1808
    @bunnylopez1808 Год назад +11

    Saving this and teaching my son these lessons.

  • @Cit1zenK
    @Cit1zenK Год назад +27

    One of the only people I've ever seen to openly say take care of yourself and go after what you want in this life all out without fearing what others think of you, if you have a good heart and good intentions then you have nothing to fear.

    • @llywelynddraig853
      @llywelynddraig853 Год назад +1

      Its a double edged sawd. Civilsation is an act of cooperation. And the top 5% produce 40% of our pollution. No one has the right to consume beyound their fair share. You can say i dont care what others think of my consomption. But lets face it, in the world wer in that attiude will eventual get your throat slit in your sleep. Dont be an ignorant burdon is probably better advive.

    • @severemacall
      @severemacall Год назад

      ruclips.net/video/irEW7v3azcg/видео.html

    • @kenanbasani
      @kenanbasani Год назад +1

      @@llywelynddraig853 thats not really what is meant here, the idea is that if you want to do something but feel like someone will judge you because of what you did there and because of that you didnt do the original plan, so your thoughts of being judged by others or what random citizens think of you stopped you from doing what you wanted, that would be what the person that wrote the comment meant, this same rule can be made into a hyperbole and be said that u can kill and not care what the judge or the world thinks of you

  • @rajas.gondhali
    @rajas.gondhali Год назад +1

    first 2 minutes of this video is what you need to change your perspective about your life! Mind-blowing

  • @karnasge
    @karnasge Год назад

    I understand and that allows me to sit still and value my time. I'm actually at peace..blessings and good vibes.

  • @NoNoahhhh
    @NoNoahhhh Год назад +4

    Thsnks thanks jordan!!! You said it perfectly!!!! Each must be capable to do violence. It makes you formidable ± You need strenght to be good - and to be dangerous, you gotta be more articulate ! Happy i found this insight of you!!! Im am way more articulate then before (only when needed) and yes - a human being must at all times be prepared for the unprepared - and so capable of violence - because of all the dangers in the world - weakness is the worst characteristic. Yes i love how jordan speaks so generally, so universally

  • @tonyrisberg2201
    @tonyrisberg2201 Год назад +4

    Some interviewers don’t even deserve their platform. If you can’t understand his message, you don’t deserve to sit across from him. He’s the voice we need for our young men today.

  • @victorlamb386
    @victorlamb386 Год назад +2

    Jordan I owe you the biggest thanks ever. You honestly would not believe the amount of difference in my life just in the past year alone. Thank you Jordan

  • @phonkking7
    @phonkking7 Год назад +1

    This video alone has been pivotal in my personal development journey. I can not wait to become more articulate than last time.

  • @BeforeThisNovember
    @BeforeThisNovember Год назад +12

    JP never fails to bring a tear to my eye.
    He always knows the right words that cut right through my core and let spill the emotions and thoughts that I never know how to articulate or tingiate.

  • @Davinagracia1745
    @Davinagracia1745 Год назад +157

    I’m so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed my life forever. I’m a single mother living in Melbourne Australia, bought my second house in September and hoping to retire next year at 50 if things keep going smoothly for me.,,*

    • @gabrielbond6378
      @gabrielbond6378 Год назад

      Congratulations beautiful lady. You’re really doing well for yourself, I’m 54 and my financiaI Iife is in a mess. Any great tips would really go a long way in shaping my life. I want to buy my own house, that’s really a big flex..

    • @Davinagracia1745
      @Davinagracia1745 Год назад

      Sorry for late reply sweetie, I used the FIRE movement to put my finances in order. Then lnvested in stocks, cryptocurencies and reaI estates though the assistance of an lnvestment Pro who helped me make it this big....

    • @gabrielbond6378
      @gabrielbond6378 Год назад

      Thanks for your kind response, I would love to connect with your financiaI consuItant..

    • @Davinagracia1745
      @Davinagracia1745 Год назад

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  • @salomonkohana5231
    @salomonkohana5231 Год назад

    Excellente formulation ms piterson. More prises brilliant.

  • @deecook9638
    @deecook9638 Год назад +3

    Totally agree with Jordan. I got my son into jujitsu as a child for discipline and confidence. He has all the qualities Jordan is talking about.

  • @Misteraren
    @Misteraren Год назад +3

    I needed this 🙏

  • @elizabethpowers7540
    @elizabethpowers7540 Год назад +2

    I definitely need to get these young kids I'm going to college with to listen to this. It's something I've been trying to tell them, only articulated so much better than I've been saying it.

  • @TheMainMayn
    @TheMainMayn Год назад +21

    Grew up in a single mother household, absent father (and nothing against my mother at all, love her with all me heart and owe her my life), but you learn how difficult it can be to navigate life not being taught by your absent father how to be a man. 31, and it's taken me all that time to learn to 'man up', and to embrace masculinity and that there's nothing wrong with exerting masculinity - it's part of being a man.
    There's nothing wrong with being disagreeable/upfront/confrontational and you have to be - it's part of your authority as a man to be just that; as you need to be so that correction and order is made where applicable in the circumstances.
    As Dr Peterson sums it up - you've got to be capable of being dangerous. It's better than being weak. Being weak, especially as a man you'll be walked over and/or make poor decisions that a weak man makes.
    I have never felt better than I do now phsyically/mentally/spiritually than I do now, understanding your rightful place to being a good man. Not a nice guy, a good man. There's a difference.

  • @reyno6826
    @reyno6826 Год назад +158

    Man I love that he uses the Bible for reference. His views are perfectly in alignment with the word and that is why he is so loved.

    • @AB-C1
      @AB-C1 Год назад

      Makes no odds He makes sense to ANYONE and EVERYONE who STILL has a shred of common sense, old school morals & values and intelligence to think for themselves! Not lemmings and lambs to the slaughter.. see my comment on the main post/thread.. 👍🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇬🇧

    • @genericusername3029
      @genericusername3029 Год назад

      Jordan Peterson is a grifter that uses the Bible to peddle his brand. He also references the Quran. Very little of what he says is in alignment with the Word. Using the Bible to promote himself is the definition of using the Lord's name in vain. He gets a few things right, but mostly he is an opiate addled hypocrite.

    • @youbigtubership
      @youbigtubership Год назад +6

      His interpretation of 'meekness' brings Psalm 73.6 to mind- the wicked 'clothe themselves with violence'.

    • @imusuallycorrect
      @imusuallycorrect Год назад

      The views he has on religion he’s almost an atheist 😂

    • @bradleyjohnson6107
      @bradleyjohnson6107 Год назад +2

      Haha! That’s the only thing I don’t like.

  • @chrisweidner4768
    @chrisweidner4768 Год назад +5

    If I were still teaching, this fine professor would be a part of every day. With discussion to follow. Be kind. Always. Be strong. Always. Enjoy life and one another.

    • @sandspar
      @sandspar Год назад +1

      Is it ok in your view to be introverted and not socialize, to not give of yourself ( provided you have contributed at some point ) if you can do it at your own expense?

    • @chrisweidner4768
      @chrisweidner4768 Год назад +2

      @@sandspar Of course. People should be what they are most comfortable being. Just be kind in dealings with others. All the best. Always.

    • @sandspar
      @sandspar Год назад +1

      @@chrisweidner4768 Thank for your reply, best to you.

  • @hawaiiangunner
    @hawaiiangunner Год назад +1

    Very important to be articulate. Equally as important is to stand by your words and their meanings, no matter what. Be ready to back it up

  • @arceusdominus2612
    @arceusdominus2612 Год назад +5

    Self control is quintessential to being able to master most anything you put your mind to, but you have to put your heart and soul into it.

  • @ktkungfutaichi
    @ktkungfutaichi Год назад +7

    "Better to be a Warrior in a garden, than a gardener in a battlefield"
    Samurai proverb

    • @sauravbasu8805
      @sauravbasu8805 Год назад +1

      ...And cut the tulips with one sweep of your sword...

  • @segueoyuri
    @segueoyuri Год назад +11

    It's amazing to see how JP can be impressed at the most deep level by things you wouldn't think twice about, because he derives meaning from stuff in such a special manner.

  • @lindamaclaren1866
    @lindamaclaren1866 Год назад +2

    I love Jordan Peterson...he's the smartest man I know, and I listen to him whenever possible. His ideas make you think for yourself; he doesn't tell you *what* to think. Amazing voice of reason!

  • @fatihaslhdn
    @fatihaslhdn Год назад +3

    This is so good and well said!

    • @severemacall
      @severemacall Год назад

      ruclips.net/video/irEW7v3azcg/видео.html

  • @maaslider
    @maaslider Год назад +8

    I love listening to all your podcasts and videos that use you as an example on many topics. I'm just curious why this is geared towards men. These strengths/skills should pertain to anyone who wants to be more powerful in life. Due to an experience when I was 4, I learned that I couldn't rely on "grown-ups" and had to become strong. I would not change that as it made me the person I am today. As a small female, I spent every day focusing on never being weak and learning to be dangerous as I was bullied by those who assumed I was an easy target. I'm Not. Thank you for sharing your insight and speaking the truth, not always popular in today's world.

  • @trudioosthuizen1377
    @trudioosthuizen1377 Год назад

    I love this. So, amazingly true

  • @tenaforreal5742
    @tenaforreal5742 Год назад

    I think we should be Competent & Bold!!! I believe that's the Proper Combination

  • @ericdoheny9108
    @ericdoheny9108 Год назад +6

    What everyone already knows but expressed so eloquently and meticulously. JP has helped so many people I’m sure- to understand themselves and thus adapt better to social situations

  • @JW-dy8ru
    @JW-dy8ru Год назад +4

    Jordan described many characteristics of being a warrior

  • @quietiger1288
    @quietiger1288 10 месяцев назад +5

    Be competently dangerous with a calm mind. That’s the true definition of strength: be capable of hurting others but harness it at will.

    • @Jimb151
      @Jimb151 15 дней назад

      “Power under control” is what God gives

  • @karimamsaguine6995
    @karimamsaguine6995 Год назад

    Fantastic statement, thanks for bringing this clarity

  • @EMB531v
    @EMB531v Год назад

    JP is my hero. He is a beacon of light.

  • @Dario989898
    @Dario989898 Год назад +4

    A true warrior needs no sword. But still a warrior. Strength bends to kindness.

  • @BlackBeltBoxing
    @BlackBeltBoxing Год назад +6

    A brilliant book that really teaches this principle is the life giving sword. By Yagyu Munenori. If you can find or order a copy I recommend reading it.

  • @donewithyou9089
    @donewithyou9089 Год назад +1

    EXACTLY!!! We have to speak up and speak out against the evil of this world with Gods strength that is within us!

  • @kolethall2716
    @kolethall2716 Год назад

    This man...... is so right on so many levels.

  • @RightNow8008
    @RightNow8008 Год назад +7

    Now that I know Mr. Peterson was a Punk Rocker, I like him even more because I understand a lot of his way to look at things.. 🎶🥁🔥

    • @vetzaaak
      @vetzaaak Год назад

      A catholic conservative neo-liberal with outspoken right wing sympathies…yeah JP seems like a real punk 😂

    • @danielmann5427
      @danielmann5427 Год назад

      @@vetzaaak by what standard do you judge anything?

  • @kevinfruhwirth8391
    @kevinfruhwirth8391 Год назад +9

    Realtalk folks. Put yourself in threatening situations. Situations where no one can help you, but yourself. Seek the inconvenient and be with yourself and yourself only in these situations. It are the drastic experiences in life, that transform us as human individuals and let us enter the next stage in life where as when we look back at the times we defined as "hard" before, are laughable afterwards. Don't wish for an easy life. Ask for a challenging life!

    • @severemacall
      @severemacall Год назад

      ruclips.net/video/irEW7v3azcg/видео.html

  • @arkikali5632
    @arkikali5632 Год назад

    I adore Jordan Peterson. He's a gift.

  • @nicholasbjerregaard
    @nicholasbjerregaard Год назад

    Always love Peterson!

  • @garyhuntsr71698
    @garyhuntsr71698 Год назад +5

    Thanks a lot I bumped into this vital message right before the annual salary and bonus setting deadlines.....
    And quite a few other issues...
    Also the putrid realities have been repeating where I see bullies and Liars get away with what they want, in a lot of so-called civil Societies worldwide, it doesn't seem that the majority of the population really do what they think... I mean worldwide.
    But still the Civil societies are acting The Virtuous, I trust and I can see.

    • @severemacall
      @severemacall Год назад

      ruclips.net/video/irEW7v3azcg/видео.html

  • @devilslayerthesaintofkille1317
    @devilslayerthesaintofkille1317 Год назад +2

    So true, from what I understand, "dangerous" is just a code word for being able to change the status quo and shake up the system.

    • @AwakenedAvocado
      @AwakenedAvocado Год назад

      Which is exactly what we need to do right now

  • @moontides7220
    @moontides7220 Год назад

    100 % on point. period.

  • @theowlfla
    @theowlfla Год назад +4

    100% I've never liked fighting but had one fight in highschool to show i could, never had any more fights after that and was able to stand against bullies for others too.

    • @bootynbass9436
      @bootynbass9436 Год назад

      source?

    • @theowlfla
      @theowlfla Год назад

      @@bootynbass9436 David Gallagher’s blood coming down each nostril 😉

  • @leahannwhite1111
    @leahannwhite1111 Год назад +10

    True power is knowing what we're thinking and believing is what creates our experience. When we disarm our self and surrender to what Is.. we are in our HIGHEST POWER. Not weak. Because we are looking at the thoughts as they are coming in real time and noticing which ones we are at war with in our minds. Which ones we are holding on to in defense and clinging to with stress and anxiety in our self. And to let go, we aren't actually letting go, we are meeting our thoughts with understanding so they can let go of us. So the velcro of our attachments to beliefs that Stent really true for us can unstick and we can experience real freedom. The kind that doesn't need an outcome to know it. To feel it. To be it. Weakness is when we think something outside of ourselves can affect us.. that something other than our own thinking can negatively impact us and be responsible for our suffering. When we are Powerful, we know are allowing. We are allowing life to unfold before us because we know there is nothing happening that can threaten us. That can threaten our safety or our security. It is Unconditional power... Unconditional FREEDOM🔥 that we are wanting. Not a temporary fix or bandaid. We want Self Realization. To know that suffering and freedom and love and joy and Peace.... begins and ends with us. The Alpha and the Omega. 💞 The Heiros Gamos .. complete. The Prophecy... Fulfilled. We are the Question and the Answer to our prayers. ❤🕊

  • @Thegoodloficommunity
    @Thegoodloficommunity Год назад

    He’s simply the best

  • @minichanti
    @minichanti Год назад +4

    Personality can have many states at once because each part of personality is buffered from the other parts, but Being-because it has unity-can only have one state at a time. This should provide a major clue for us about the difference between the human biological machine and the Being, the non-phenomenal self. The momentary state of the machine we can call “the average of all possible states”... E. J. GOLD

  • @MrFrescocotone
    @MrFrescocotone Год назад +8

    This mani is a genius. So wise

  • @Testimony1971
    @Testimony1971 Месяц назад

    I truly appreciate your perspective 😌 your grace 🙏💜💫🪶

  • @alanyao
    @alanyao Год назад

    Competence, clear boundaries, and the ability to defend when others are violating the boundaries.

  • @junito2899
    @junito2899 Год назад +4

    He is genuine in his teachings! He is our father in this age

  • @gregoryestep6713
    @gregoryestep6713 Год назад +23

    Everything this man says is absolutely true I have walked a dark violent path I have a dark a violent past I struggled with it in my youth trying to avoid get away from it as I got older I realized what I needed to do turn face an embrace my demons their not just apart of me they are me I am a monster but a monster out of necessity

    • @bradleyriddell4745
      @bradleyriddell4745 Год назад

      Wow! Powerful Gregory but also concerning. Do you really deserve to hate & blame yourself? It sounds like you did what you had to do to survive….? I don’t know you Gregory so I won’t presume to know….but I would urge you to come to an understanding of that “adaptive” you who had to negotiate the environment you were born into.
      Was that your fault, really?
      What choices did you actually have?
      These are not excuses made to get you off the hook, they are reasons behind the behaviours; the bulk of the iceberg beneath the visible tip.
      I wish you well Gregory……find a quiet corner & allow your authenticity a voice, safely, compassionately & with grace & love for the truth but do it sensitively but with the underlying strength that Peterson is referring to in this clip…..?
      Go well & stay well but first gently purge…..? 🤞💕👍🤗🙏

    • @rhodesboyson1700
      @rhodesboyson1700 Год назад +1

      Nah, you're violence is like Jordan's, directed at the weak, no doubt ;) how'd you go in jail? ;)

    • @gregoryestep6713
      @gregoryestep6713 Год назад

      @@rhodesboyson1700 jail is easy like a little vacation solitary I don’t go to jail or prison anymore government an others have more use for my talents on the outside since I can can go places they can’t an it pays exceptionally well

    • @gregoryestep6713
      @gregoryestep6713 Год назад

      @@rhodesboyson1700 jail is easy like a little vacation solitary I don’t go to jail or prison anymore others have more use for my talents an services on the outside since I can can go places they can’t an it pays exceptionally well

    • @rhodesboyson1700
      @rhodesboyson1700 Год назад

      @@gregoryestep6713 ha ha! Bro, you're an InCel, InCels don't do well in jail. You've never been ;) what do you think would happen to Jordan in jail bro? ;) guy like me will take him. We're you in the boneyard with the tamps?

  • @cuppadiem
    @cuppadiem Год назад

    I really like this guy! Wow a fountain of truth

  • @gunsandcars3648
    @gunsandcars3648 Год назад +3

    being a beast has its upside and downside, but always carry yourself as you shouldnt be messed with or harmless. A dangerous man trying to be good is better than a good man trying to be dangerous.

  • @jamesbluelightning358
    @jamesbluelightning358 Год назад +13

    The best people ive known in my life are the ones capable of doing the most destruction

  • @YatWeh
    @YatWeh Год назад

    He's 💯 correct... THIS is the algorithm of our lives

  • @gunnarolin1155
    @gunnarolin1155 Год назад

    I totalt agree with you Jordan. Being able to control your aggression and only use it when its really needed. That implies or mean that the person should not be affeaid of his own aggressive feeling but he can use them when its needed. Aggressive feelings is only one feeling among others.

  • @IsobarBrokenFlame
    @IsobarBrokenFlame Год назад +7

    Anger can energise you. Anger can focus you.
    Sometimes when you want to change the world all you need to be is angry, and disciplined.

    • @StimParavane
      @StimParavane Год назад

      When we act out of anger we act blindly. Wait until the negative emotion has subsided, then act.

    • @IsobarBrokenFlame
      @IsobarBrokenFlame Год назад +1

      @@StimParavane some people act blindly. But some people think very clearly when they are angry. So I can only partially agree with on this.

    • @StimParavane
      @StimParavane Год назад

      @@IsobarBrokenFlame No. This is not true. Intelligence is not wisdom.

    • @IsobarBrokenFlame
      @IsobarBrokenFlame Год назад +1

      @@StimParavane that’s an interesting perspective, and I do agree that intelligence does not equate to wisdom.
      But sometime it is better to act, rather than wait for the opportunity to pass. It is sometime useful to build momentum while you have the energy to do so. As apathy and procrastination tends not to lead to any achievements.

    • @liampronetwork9666
      @liampronetwork9666 Год назад

      @@IsobarBrokenFlame but acting without waiting for an opportunity has the very highest risk of losing everything you have. Hate to say it, but when it comes to gambling, your method has the highest type of stakes, while at the same time having the lowest chance of winning. It's true that procrastination does not tend to result in any achievements, but it also does not result in any failure, after all in the end you will live, while the other one died. So it depends on whether you want to achieve greatness or you want to live with the type of average life.